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Pretty sure it's men stigmatizing sex work the most lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:29 AM
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That's some amazing bait, ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:23 AM
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I know it is, but not much I can do without causing a fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:06 PM
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Everyone wants the best they can get. Now you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:33 AM
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I'm in a relationship where I'm the financially responsible one. My husband keeps his finances a secret, while I'm an open book. Even things that are his financial responsibility become mine occasionally. So yes women want it, men seldom provide it. It's a give an inch take a mile situation with men in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:30 AM
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Every word here is absolutely 100% correct. It’s as if I wrote it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:46 AM
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Those are all passive things. And yes women put effort in to their appearance but we still expect men to come to us, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:35 PM
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Whose fault is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:31 PM
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Well men do indeed create their own value and worth and are fully in control of it. If you personally feel you can't or don't, that's an issue with you but the general statement indeed is true. For women, a lot of their value and worth does come from them being a woman. For example, their sexual worth and their ability to produce children all make them intrinsically valuable. Of course women can still create other value and worth but those two things definitely decentivise, as well as even hinde…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:29 PM
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You can't raise a family on a single income. 90% of men do not make the amount of money needed for a woman to be a stay at home mom. In fact, more men now than ever are not in education, employment or training. They only way to raise a family is for the women to work and often times women are making the same or even more as the men, while also having to take on a shit ton of unpaid labor. This is actually one of the reasons I am against feminism because it actually took away women's right to cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:22 PM
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Female friendships don't go that deep either. It's all smoke and mirrors.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:14 PM
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I agree horny and being lonely are two separate things, but not being intimate with someone in a sexual sense can definitely cause someone to be lonely. It's a different type of lonely but if you don't have a partner you can be romantic and sexually intimate with, that loneliness will never go away and jerking off won't make it go away either. You have to realize sex is the closest you can be to another human being. It is the most intimate you can be with another human being and so not having th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:12 PM
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I think even if you remove dating apps from the picture, things are very different for women today. Women don't need a man to survive financially. Previously they did. If it was between being almost homeless or being with any Joe Schmoe, what would you pick? That means a lot of the marriages that happened out of financial need are much more infrequent now. Men actually have to work to get a woman now, whether that's looks, improve their financial status, career, personality and previous generati…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:04 PM
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Introverted is not synonymous with boring. If a woman finds you boring, it's because you're not entertaining her in a way that interests her. And yes, introverted or not, women expect men to lead in social situations but you can still do that as an introvert, it's not impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:55 PM
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None of those men would do it because they know what they and other men really think of women. They only reason they say women have it easier is because they think we have it so much easier in dating (we don't) and they want that as a man, not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:51 PM
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So god is basically saying men are so dumb they need helpers. They couldn't function without them. Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:50 PM
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This was written by a man for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:48 PM
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Men create their own value and they are entirely in control of it. Whereas women are born with value just by virtue of being a woman and as they age their value also declines for that same reason and also have less control of it. So it's a double edged sword.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:46 PM
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I agree with this. Women these days have very little reason to want to be with a man other than for children. Women get the raw end of the deal when it comes to marriage. They are expected to work a usual job, take on almost all household work, birthing, and raising children. While men are expected to... just have a job. It's not a good deal at all and the good men who would make all of that worth it or bearable are very few these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:33 PM
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If you have to ask, you'll probably never be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:31 PM
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Everyone likes attractive people, that's why they're called attractive people because they attract. Of course attractive is also subjective and just because one person finds someone attractive doesn't mean another does.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:29 PM
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Women have been conditioned by society that relationships and romantic partners must come to them, not the other way around. Women still expect men to come to them and then they decide from those men who they want to be with. So often women don't really make that conscious effort the way men are expected to. I personally wouldn't ever approach a man or even actively put effort into dating because if no man is willing to approach or show active interest in me, then the reality is none of those re…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:27 PM
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I wouldn't call myself a progressive woman, but where is the contradiction in a progressive woman having standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:52 PM
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It's not only about looks. It's the blank slate, the naivete, being able to mould someone. That's what men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:31 PM
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Everything's about fertility until someone gets knocked up, then it's time to bail.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:28 PM
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She's just not into you, move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:06 PM
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The same people that want smaller government, less taxes etc also want the government to distribute women to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:00 PM
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Yes I am so rich that I take trips to Dubai lmfaooooooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:56 PM
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Look if you're addicted to porn and don't want to feel bad about watching it, just say that instead of responding with horrible and illogical arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:51 PM
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People like you should not marry. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:48 PM
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Food is a basic necessity. Viewing porn is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:45 PM
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What are you trying to convey with graphs based on 2010 data and where one line is solid and the other is dotted? This isn't helping your case.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:44 PM
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It could be said of any food and there is no way to really and truly identify if any food is ethically sourced, produced etc. It is literally impossible. But food is a necessity, viewing porn is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:42 PM
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This argument is so bizarre because it applies to men as well. Everyone ages, everyone gets old and no one is going to look good forever. Aging and looking horrible is inevitable, whether you have children or not, so you might as well have children if that's the only thing stopping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:33 PM
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The absolute opposite actually. The only person that will ever care for you is someone related to you by blood. That's your parents and your children. Your spouse has no blood relation to you and can bolt at any instant. Yes there's no guarantee with children, that is correct. They could be unhealthy, they could be horrible people etc but the alternative is no one at all. But I do agree with you that most men are horrible and don't help with children at all, but that's true of housework in gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:31 PM
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Women work and pay taxes too, what is this nonsensical post?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:28 PM
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Yes we are living in a time where people simply cannot survive without instant gratification, whether it's sexual, or otherwise. The meme is indeed true. Strong men create good times, good times create weak men (what's happening right now), weak men create hard times (what we're transitioning to) and hard times create strong men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:16 PM
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"There's so much unethical things in the world that we should just give up trying to be ethical at all" You do realize for most of human civilization, there was never porn as easily accessible as it is now? And humans were fine, but suddenly it's something men just can't give up. Odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:10 PM
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Easy access to porn means men are less motivated to seek out sex as sexual needs are easily satisfied by porn and masturbation. Because of this men are less motivated to date and put effort into relationships, which causes inevitable tension with women as they are expecting to be courted. They (women) then feel resentful and also check out. And now you have people who are less willing and motivated to have successful romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:07 PM
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Fish is food. Food is a necessity of life. Viewing porn is not a necessity of life. Yes no one needs to watch movies with horrible people, and I personally don't so that's the same as simply not viewing porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:01 PM
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How are clothes really the same as not watching porn? Like really how in your mind do you think, "Yup the necessity of clothing and viewing porn is the exact same."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:00 PM
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You do indeed need a smartphone. Good luck getting a job and maintaining a job without a smartphone. Unless you're suggesting we also don't need shelter, clothing and food and we can all just go be homeless?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:59 PM
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You can see that gtbreddit1 is really outing himself here. He will make up any stupid argument to convince not us, but himself that he's not complicit. It's hilarious...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:58 PM
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Yes they are complicit. But so is everyone involved, the companies that make the porn easily accessible, governments for turning a blind eye etc. And the comments from men here are very telling. Look how they're saying that it's the same as if you buy strawberries or clothes since those things could rely on trafficked labor as if food and clothes aren't a basic necessity. No one dies from not watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:54 PM
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I think dating was easier before easy access to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:51 PM
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Casual sex for women have very real risks that don't apply or equally apply to men. Higher chance of getting STDs as a female than if you're a male. Pregnancy Rape/assault/murder. As a woman, you're more likely than a man to be physically or sexually assaulted as a man can much more easily overpower a woman than vice versa. The risks are real and the reason for better access for women is a direct result of the above. If a woman doesn't feel the reward is worth the risk, she's not going to seek o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:11 AM
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Many options on grindr.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:38 AM
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Monogamy doesn't exist because of a lack of options, monogamy exists because people want one person to spend their entire life with and raise a family with. What are you smoking?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:37 AM
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Well that's not fair, is it? So many women have made false rape accusations, ruining so many men's lives for no good reason. Is that misandry?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:34 AM
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Almost everyone is settling, regardless of whether it's a man or a woman. No one is marrying the person they really want. There's always going to be someone else they'd rather be with. That's just the reality. With age, men want someone younger, while women don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:32 AM
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I personally am okay with being approached occasionally. Keyword: occasionally because once it stops being that, it goes from being an ego boost and welcome to being unwelcome very fast. And that's the problem. Men don't know how many times a woman has been approached in the past day, month etc. And chances are men want to approach the same women all the other men want to approach and now you're getting into harassment territory. So while I personally would never shame a man for approaching me, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:27 AM
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This whole post makes no sense. Women are catering to men's wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:21 AM
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How would women know this? Wouldn't men know this since you can compare the real world to what you're seeing on the dating apps? Not to mention what women think is a beautiful woman is very different to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:13 AM
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Men aren't approaching women due to two main reasons imo. 1) Easy access to porn. Easy access to porn means men are less ambitious and motivated to approach since they can just go online with a few clicks find exactly what they want and jerk off to it and done. 2) Social stigma and fear of rejection. There's now a huge social stigma around approaching women outside dating apps etc, so of course they're not going to do it. Especially when you could even be shamed publicly if someone decides to po…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:10 AM
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Let's be honest here. Men just suck these days. They don't provide anything of value, they're pussies and they're extremely pornbrained and lack ambition/motivation and goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:05 AM
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Yes but an 8 has much less of an incentive/reason to have a good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:30 PM
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It depends on the person. I personally value personality more than looks as long as minimum looks bar has been met. For example, if a guy is a 6 but has a great personality, and a guy is an 8 but no personality and stupid, I'm going with the guy that's a 6. But to be clear, my minimum looks bar is pretty low. I'd say 80-90% of guys in my age range meet it and it's the same for other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:45 AM
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No woman on this planet has make up on 24/7. Once the make up is off, you know how she is. You either accept that or move on. And as a man, you should be happy make up exists, it actually benefits you more than one. You can pretend you are with someone hotter than they actually are, something you wouldn't be able to do without make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:29 AM
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Men will literally fuck a donkey if you put lipstick on it. What the hell is your point? Invisibility does exist. Women who are not attractive will get treated like shit by male strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:26 AM
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You can blame men for that. Maybe you can encourage your fellow men to have higher standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:21 AM
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I really don't get this talking point. I've seen men shame women for having high body counts (and by high I mean anything more than 3). And I have also seen men shame women for being virgins. Heck, I was constantly rejected by men at age 21 for being virgin because they thought something had to be wrong with me if I was still a virgin at 21... Men like to shame women, period. It's what they do. They'll make up excuses to shame a woman if they think it helps their chances. Also, if someone wants …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:00 AM
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I dated a man that people thought to be ugly. I didn't really see him as ugly. I broke up because of many reasons, but mainly he didn't want to commit and didn't take the relationship seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:55 PM
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So then how would cold approaching work exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:58 PM
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Pretty much never. I also don’t leave the house much and am married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:35 PM
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I have mental issues, but for me personally, I go from absolutely loving my partner to hating him and regretting my whole life in a matter of minutes based on his actions, so I don’t even know. I think sometimes it’s pointless to get hung up on whether your made the *right* choice specifically and just accept you made a choice and to stick with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:07 PM
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As an average to below average woman, dating apps were the best thing to happen to me. I went from having no dating prospects to having a lot… more than I thought was possible. But I didn’t take it seriously tbqh, it was mostly just for an ego boost. I never really met with anyone on online dating specifically. But I did meet with men I met on the internet in general. So all in all, internet is good for meeting other introverts. If there was no internet, I basically never would’ve had a boyfrien…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:02 PM
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We don't live in constant fear of men. But we know men in general are a threat and we need to be careful. Don't forget most murderers, rapists and violent offenders are indeed men. Not only that men are bigger and stronger than women generally. It's not crazy idea to be careful around men as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:29 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:19 PM
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I don't get... There's whole dating apps now with unlimited women for your to message and you're complaining you can't approach a woman in person anymore. Is that the issue? Or am I missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:12 PM
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Make up is a viscous cycle. One you use it regularly, anytime someone sees you without it, they will ask you if your sick. And yea it can affect your skin but that just depends on the skin and the makeup being worn. No one has to wear foundation, I know I don't. I do eye makeup and lips and a bit of concealer, but it's very rare for me to put foundation on my whole face.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:07 PM
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What feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:15 AM
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It has nothing to do with men being hornier and everything to do with risk for men vs women. A sexual encounter for a woman will always be more risky than a man. Women have to be selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:45 AM
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Men shame virgin women all the time. Are you new to the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:36 AM
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Cause the sub is full of incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:35 AM
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As a woman, I can confirm that I was shamed for being a virgin at 21 by men. When I told them I was a virgin at 21, they all ran away. There's a lot of shaming of women who haven't had sex by a certain age. It's frankly weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:31 AM
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Doesn't it get tiring pretending all women have it easy when it comes to dating? Yes the top 60% of attractive women probably having it easy-ish, but not not all women do. That's just a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:30 AM
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Who cares? Aging is part of life. Accept it and make peace with it. There’s more to life than getting attention from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:41 PM
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Yes most men are misogynists and don't consider the women they are not attracted to women. That is common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:17 AM
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I think both men and women hate the opposite sex equally just in different ways. I certainly hate men and I am not going to deny it. They are the cause of 99% of the world's problems. Sure some of them are nice and have done a lot of great stuff but they are also responsible for 99% of the misery in the world. And it's not a coincidence the vast majority of rapists, pedophiles, murderers, etc are men. And likewise, men are misogynists as well. They think we are evil creatures who do nothing but …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:11 AM
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As a woman, there's no such thing as "physical attraction" to me. Maybe it's how women are conditioned or something, but I'm either attracted to you or I'm not. I can't be attracted to you and not be physically attracted, that's just not possible. There's actually a lot of men that I believe are good looking and physically attractive, but I am not personally attracted to them in any way shape or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:03 AM
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Wrong. All women have a minimum bar for looks. For a lot of women, the minimum bar is actually very low. As long as you meet that low bar in terms of looks, your looks simply stop being a factor and other things become more of a factor. Now obviously being more attractive gives you an added bonus, but no sane woman in the world will reject average looking men just because they're not male models. It's not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:01 AM
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Well one is real and the other is just trying to simulate the real thing, so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:59 AM
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Romantic love is obviously not just about sex. Sex is a part but to pretend it's just sex is just plain old stupid. There's a lot of guys I'd love to have sex with but I don't necessarily love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:57 AM
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With my ex, I don't remember if I necessarily made the first move. It was online, so we just started talking. I never make the first move in fear of rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:55 AM
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Never had my heart broken because I am always very cautious in my life. I guess I have trust issues because I never let myself be completely vulnerable. I am always prepared for the worst in life, in fact I am always expecting the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:48 AM
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Yes, attractive people have it easier in life in some ways, but have it worse in other ways. In other news, water is wet and the sky is blue. Tune in for tomorrow's news, where we tell you more obvious facts of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:45 AM
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Nobody pushes this idea except for men. You are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:23 PM
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The modern concept of "femininity" is one constructed only in a man's head based on his sexual desires. Real femininity is only that which is inherent in females.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:20 PM
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I'm a woman who is pro-life. Tell me where I fit into your worldview. Also, you know there's this thing called contraceptives right that prevent pregnancy by 99.99%? Also men have way more of a reason to be for abortion and normalizing it, they can fuck a woman without a condom and never have to worry about paying child support or any sort of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:11 PM
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One man on a dating site is messaging 70-100% of women on dating sites. Women probably message 0-50% of men on dating sites. That's the explanation. Also, there's always more men than women on dating sites... You're looking at a ratio of 4 men for every one woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:01 PM
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Porn is destructive to both men and women. Separating sex from actual intimacy with another human being is destructive. Men laugh at cucks, yet every time they watch porn they are cucking themselves in the cuckiest way possible. They are watching other people having sex, while they are watching it from a screen and jacking off to it. If that isn't cucking yourself day in and day out, I don't know what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:34 AM
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There's plenty of men who say the female body is unattractive, straight men particularly. What's the male equivalent of "roastie"? I don't think any straight woman actually finds any male body in good shape unattractive. That is a lie someone has told you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:26 AM
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I'll add one data point: My count is 2, lower than my husband's.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:18 AM
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As long as the dates are in a public place, I don't see why I would be particularly concerned about that. However, there is a worry about violence and being in danger when meeting anyone from online, especially if it is a man for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:03 AM
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Both sexes have their advantages and disadvantages in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 01:04 AM
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Looks can make being social hard, however, some people are naturally sociable and will be sociable regardless of their looks, while others will be sociable despite their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 11:26 PM
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I’ve seen ugly people are very social and I’ve seen antisocial good looking people, so I don’t think looks has anything to do with how social you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 11:15 PM
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A lot of women do settle...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:47 PM
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I totally agree. My husband is way more social than me and can basically talk to anyone and is very likeable and approachable. I am the exact opposite. I basically have no friends and wouldn’t even know how to meet a guy if he left me. So I agree, he definitely has more leverage in the relationship in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:44 PM
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Yes I would and I already have. I don’t care about looks much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:35 PM
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I don’t make any assumptions...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:34 PM
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Society. Society tells us that as women our worth is our looks...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:33 PM
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No. Female.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:32 PM
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Only had 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:30 PM
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This is a pointless post. As long as people are different, some will always be better than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 07:52 PM
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In every universe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 08:38 PM
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Men need to submit to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 11:39 PM
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I don’t think you understand what misogyny is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 07:46 PM
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Most ignorant comment of the year. Congratulations sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 07:45 PM
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Most of these men don’t make enough to warrant this lifestyle...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 07:38 PM
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100% agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 07:38 PM
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What does it mean to be “very good at sex.” I kind of feel like you’re saying prostitutes/porn stars are high value, but then again many of them may not necessarily enjoy the sex they sell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 02:15 AM
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Bitter people are usually more vocal than non-bitter people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:21 PM
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How would I possibly know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:19 PM
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Sex for a woman means higher risk than it does for a man because of pregnancy, rape etc. So obviously, other reasons are used to justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:16 PM
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This question is nonsensical, as if women aren’t judged by men for their dating preferences...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:10 PM
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There’s a reason why male porn stars are usually not as good looking as the female porn stars. Porn caters to men, not women. So the obvious answer is no women don’t porn sex as much as men because porn sex is FOR MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:07 PM
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Why are women the gatekeepers of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:04 PM
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I have never had an orgasm from “sex.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 07:28 PM
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It’s not really a need because I can remember in the past, I’ve gone months without even masturbating. But it depends on hormones and what’s happening in your life. It’s definitely not as much of a need as it is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 07:26 PM
2

I would separate but not officially divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 07:24 PM
2

Just lol at this question. Everyone wants to feel special.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 07:20 PM
0

I enjoy the company of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 06:00 PM
0

Yea only for beta buxxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 12:18 AM
4

As a woman, I ask myself everyday if I’m even attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 10:34 PM
2

Firstly, you didn’t understand my comment. Secondly, I don’t even understand yours but bringing up “incel men” elicits zero empathy from me, that and your dismissive attitude towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:16 AM
1

oh boo hoo... the poor men :(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:13 AM
1

With great power, comes great responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 02:49 AM
8

This is a very stupid question.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 02:36 AM
1

Obviously there’s more to a marriage/relationship than sexual attraction. You can be sexually attracted to someone but not want to be in a relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 09:14 PM
0

It can never be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 08:57 PM
1

Why do you keep calling her “my little escort.” So creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:18 PM
2

Just wow at this guy. Hope your wife leaves/left you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:59 PM
1

No I just said they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:34 PM
14

I don’t really care per se for tall men, I just want my partner to be taller than me. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:32 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:29 PM
2

If a woman shares her sexual history and it is not what the guy is looking for, then she’s not the partner he wants. Can we stop acting like only men care about sexual history? As a woman, I don’t wanna be with a guy with a high n count because it says a lot about their personality and who they are and it’s not what I personally want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:41 AM
3

Not really because maybe 30% of the women within 50 miles of you are on OLD. So you’re caring about 30% of 30% of women within 50 miles of u.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 02:17 AM
4

OLD isn’t representative of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 01:46 AM
2

Lol I don’t? why do you think a small subset of women define all women???
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 01:43 AM
1

I don’t think I’ve ever worn 8 inch heels. Even heels in general, I wear only for special occasions. They really kill your feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 01:28 AM
2

Men as they have a higher sex drive usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:29 PM
2

Penetration doesn’t do a whole lot for me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:27 PM
1

Reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 12:41 AM
1

That’s humans in general...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 10:22 PM
3

Men can’t even beta bucks anymore Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 10:08 PM
1

A lot of women are sluts because of 1, not because they actually want sex like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 10:04 PM
1

As a woman, I really only used OLD for validation. I had basically zero intention of meeting any guys in real life. The simple reason is because there is absolutely no way for me to really see what I’m getting with OLD. Profiles are tailored and fake. Pictures are always fake in the sense that people always upload the most flattering pictures. There is just no way to actually see if a guy is even your type unless you meet them irl and even then it’s just a waste of time and frankly scary, what i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 09:32 PM
0

??? What world view am I trying to confirm anyway???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 09:23 PM
-1

Well considering no one mentioned their relationship status along with their answers, none of the answers really confirmed or refuted my world view actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 09:17 PM
5

It just increases slutiness all around. Men get sluttier having sex with random sluts and women get sluttier in an effort to compete. I personally don’t wanna be a slut, but if all other women start being sluts, then men are gonna start expecting me to be a slut and start virgin shaming me when I say I don’t wanna have sex with random guys. It’s kind of how I see makeup. If a subset of women use makeup to improve their looks, then other women are gonna have to feel like they have to use make up …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 09:07 PM
0

Didn’t say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 07:24 PM
0

RP works superficially and provides superficial results.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:30 PM
1

No clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:29 PM
1

I guess... for me personally, a blowjob is draining. I need to have energy in order to do it. Sex is less draining for obvious reasons, unless I’m on top. Either way, if I’m tired, I’m not gonna wanna do it and the weekend is when I actually feel not tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:24 PM
0

There’s no male wall like there is for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:22 PM
0

Busy schedules. It’s a minimum, obviously if libido’s higher then it would be no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:18 PM
1

What do you mean? I’m not a “sexual woman” per se, but everyone wants intimacy, no? And the way I see it, my ex would be owing me sex, since after a divorce I wouldn’t be getting any sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:16 PM
1

Female you would be as feminine as you are masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:10 PM
1

The question is more would female you give you a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:09 PM
1

Let’s say your in the 80th percentile in terms of height among men, then you would be the 80th percentile in terms of height among women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:07 PM
2

Yes but would that girl wanna date you.....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:05 PM
-4

Thank you for your honest answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:05 PM
-2

Yea I should’ve figured.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 02:29 PM
0

Source for these statistics?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 02:28 PM
2

What weakness is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 02:27 PM
1

Let me just check for you. Just checked, I have a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 02:26 PM
1

I’d feel mad obviously but the thing is I would never marry a guy that would even think about doing this to me and I would never do it to anyone myself. I wouldn’t marry anyone that would need spousal support, I wouldn’t have children too quick in a marriage, and me and my partner and I would clearly know how to separate possessions after marriage. The issue with men is they get themselves into these positions. Go see the other thread where men supposedly say they would marry any attractive woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 02:22 PM
1

Regular sex even after divorce sounds pretty good to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 02:09 PM
2

Are you asking if I’m female? If so, the answer is yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 02:08 PM
4

Yea it always boils down to fancy shoes... 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 11:55 PM
7

3k a month where I live would be the bare minimum for a person where I live to get by, can’t imagine how it would be enough for 3 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:58 PM
11

I like how he sneakily just mentioned he had an affair like it was nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:55 PM
5

Very good question. I would assume the way RPers talk, absolutely none of them can afford a stay at home wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:50 PM
1

Minimum of once or twice a week. Any higher than that is an unreasonable expectation in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:45 PM
1

It does relate cause RPers are spouting nonsense like “well of course lawyers date other lawyers cause they met them from work.” Like no, they’re dating them cause they also want someone with an equal career.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:08 PM
3

These RPers make me laugh. Like of course you don’t care what the woman’s making when you’re earning jack shit yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 08:53 PM
1

It could be a restaurant frequented often. Regardless, I know no one in real life that have met their spouse from their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 08:44 PM
3

“Why strive to provide your kids a good life? Poor people shit put kids left and right, so why should anyone strive to not do that?” I’m sorry but most people want to give their children a good life. This is common sense (to anyone but RPers, I guess.) Unfortunately in our modern world, that involves a boat load of money. No one needs an 800k house. Heck most houses should not even be 800k, yet in most urban centers they are. What world are you living in where a family can survive off an average…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 08:41 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 08:28 PM
2

Where would someone meet a waitress... hmmm 🤔 that’s tough, let’s see...... idk a restaurant???? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 08:25 PM
5

Lol. Men wanna have their cake and eat it too, so the obvious answer here is NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 08:19 PM
4

RPers secretly love beta buxxing so they couldn’t care less if a woman was broke, with no job and barely any job prospects. They prefer it. How else would they get any woman lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 08:12 PM
5

So an attractive woman with absolutely no profession and no education and terrible financial standing (living off parents’ money) would be very attractive to you... and then men complain about women being gold diggers, and the like... Common sense is really lacking in RPers. “Yes we want to only be with good looking women and we don’t care if they’re poor cause we totally want them to mooch off us, so then we can complain about how evil women are and their “nature” when she leaves to mooch off s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 08:06 PM
1

That would be perfect for me tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:26 PM
1

Men love beta buxing... so high earning women are definitely off the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:18 PM
1

That’s an interesting take on it. “I got myself in debt and got a high paying job to pay off said debt all so I could bang some hot chicks.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:16 PM
2

Lol all these dumb ass rpers saying “hurr durr we don’t care about how much a woman makes... hurr durr it makes no difference in her value” are the same men who don’t ever wanna “beta bux.” Are they serious or just plain stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:15 PM
1

What a revelation. What caused him to be all religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:24 PM
2

Because they blame everyone but themselves and create a toxic attitude they spread to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 07:36 PM
-2

Nice one. Men like you don’t exist lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 04:34 PM
1

Because people falsely believe going to the gym = healthy bmi.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 04:55 PM
1

Thirsty men make them overestimate their SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 02:45 PM
8

TIL the average woman is a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 02:43 PM
15

Porn, masturbation, less motivation/depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 06:59 PM
23

Some don’t give up fast enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 02:41 AM
1

Again. they (the autistic stem girls) don’t all look like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 02:39 AM
1

“they fucking look like this”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 02:18 AM
13

Yea basic expectations like doing half the house work, paying half the bills... truly unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 02:17 AM
1

Women judge men for low N counts too, who cares. Personally, I’ve been judged by men for being a virgin in my 20s... people gonna judge no matter what. High N count or low, men and women will judge. I wouldn’t wanna be with a man with a high N count cause it does say something about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:54 PM
6

Yea cause all women in STEM look like that... eyeroll
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:46 PM
7

Yep as a woman, the only way you can have a good relationship with a man is if you throw out all your basic expectations of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:44 PM
1

As a woman this is a dumb argument. Women objectify men too... if a man wants a low N count, what is it to you? If it’s as rare as you think, they won’t have much luck anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:39 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 09:45 PM
2

nobody cheats on him What does this mean exactly? If you’re a “sex guy,” there’s no concept of cheating. You’re sleeping with random people and those random people are sleeping with people other than you... whether that emotionally affects you or not depends a lot on the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 03:00 PM
1

I wonder why they’re insecure about it 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 02:51 PM
0

Right so why are you even on a sub specifically talking about “hetero sex dynamics.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 06:28 AM
2

You’re being dishonest about “being a lesbian.” So who’s not discussing in good faith? An exception to the rule doesn’t invalidate the rule... and I have no reason to believe you’re a lesbian as your post history suggests otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 03:08 AM
2

Nowhere did you say you were a lesbian. The kinsey scale is bullshit so I don’t even know why you’re mentioning that lol. Edit: Also your post history suggests that you’re clearly not a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 03:03 AM
2

Ok so borderline narcissism and wanting guys to find you sexy... Ok got it. Thanks for proving my point. You feel sexy when guys think you’re sexy and guys think big ass and tits is sexy, hence you are doing it because of what men desire sexually. And none of those things are remotely as health impacting as a breast implant because your body literally reacts to the implants thinking it’s a foreign object, which causes an autoimmune response. I personally didn’t know much about it until I saw thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 02:15 AM
2

Ok so what is your motivation for getting a boob job and possibly risking your health in the process?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 01:53 AM
2

Firstly, I’ve never seen or heard of any lesbians getting it. And I don’t know if the women you’re talking about actually are lesbians, so I have no way to even validate your anecdote so it has absolutely no value in this argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 11:16 PM
1

When I said our population, I meant the world’s. Men that do not have success in western countries are free to move to other countries to find women.. who is stopping them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 10:29 PM
1

doesn’t have to feel at a man’s mercy and judgement of her looks They’re gonna judge no matter what, so where do you draw the line. Most women do not get breast implants... I am not talking about all looksmaxxing. Breast implants specifically are trying to appease men’s sexual desire and therefore for men. You can twist it however you want, but at it’s core that is the reason. Yes people want to be attractive to feel of value. This is not a new concept, but it usually does not involve breast imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 10:10 PM
0

Aliens immigrating to earth?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 10:07 PM
2

big boobs and ass specifically attract men getting boob and butt implants is not for men Right...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 09:51 PM
5

They’re doing it for men. I don’t look at a woman and go “man she has such big boobs and a round butt, She’s totally better than me!!” Wrong. The only time I feel jealousy of other women is when they are facially prettier than me. Boobs and butt are sexualized body parts, hence the only motivation is to do it for men. My boobs aren’t big... and my only motivation for increasing their size would be to attract men... why would I ever do it to get approval from other women lol wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 09:32 PM
1

Not FDS, I have sex when I want lol??? Who keeps track of months and days?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 09:28 PM
3

FSM? mainly for themselves... what do they get out of it? Lol I’m a woman and firstly, I would never mutilate myself... “for myself.” That’s just nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 09:24 PM
1

Why else?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 09:21 PM
1

Your autistic friend could also be an outlier. How many autistic males are able to the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:54 PM
6

Yes, anyone can be creepy. I would say I’ve done my fair share of creepy things and I’m a woman. Anyone can be a creep lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:43 PM
3

Are we just gonna ignore the fact that often times these “implants” cause health issues for women? https://www.nwhn.org/breast-implant-illness/ All to satisfy a man... what a world we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:37 PM
-2

How is your autistic friend representative of average guys. The average guy is not autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:32 PM
4

What percentage of those 30% actually want to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:11 PM
1

Quite a struggle when 9s and 10s don’t wanna fuck guys below their league.... struggle!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:11 PM
10

Part of that has to do with men wanting women more than women want men. Men want sex more than women, FTFY.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:59 PM
-1

Logic dictates if average men were struggling, our population would not be increasing so rapidly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:57 PM
1

I know I may be biased, but as a woman and an introvert (with absolutely no social life), I always found online dating way easier than trying to find someone in real life... it’s so confusing in real life cause you don’t know if someone’s gonna say yes or no and sometimes you see that person a lot so it becomes awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:51 PM
1

Oh whoops, didn’t see it was for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:51 PM
0

To answer your question, no I would never ever do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:31 AM
-1

As a regular woman, I can say that 80% of guys my age meet my minimum looks requirement. So I am potentially attracted 80% of guys my age once I get to know their personality etc. So somewhere around 20%-80% of guys around my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 06:57 PM
0

The men who follow TRP are just not good people, they really can’t be surprised that they need to be manipulative and whatnot just to get a woman to have sex with them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 05:56 PM
-2

The point is there is a reason, I didn’t claim to know it, just that it has something to do with being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 05:54 PM
0

Yea cause how socialization affects two different sexes is gonna be completely the same... you like to twist things a lot, don’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 05:41 PM
1

No, socialization is just a very small part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 04:46 PM
3

Well there is a reason why most rapists, pedophiles, murderers, serial killers are men...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 04:23 PM
1

He does other stuff to make up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 02:13 PM
1

I really don’t see it. If I see attractive guys I wanna have sex with, other women see them that way too meaning they can get sex FOR FREE. Why the hell would they pay for sex when they can get it for free? I’m very confused by your logic. Most attractive men are not paying for sex barring certain exceptional circumstances. It is usually unattractive men that are paying for sex with prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 11:32 PM
1

How is the carousel the same as prostitution? You’re a bit slow aren’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 11:13 PM
1

The stigma exists for a reason because the outcomes of women in these “jobs” is poor due to the intrinsic nature of the job. You can of course argue that marriage is a more sophisticated form of prostitution, as is being a gold digger and at the same time almost all women prefer it to being a straight up prostitute because no woman wants to straight up have sex with a bunch of random men for money... the stigma around being a golddigger isn’t really that great either, yet if it was between being…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 10:55 PM
1

I agree with this as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 10:52 PM
2

You’re not supposed to take men seriously when they speak lol. They don’t know what the hell they want...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 09:51 PM
3

Uhh cause it’s not true, at least for me personally. I’m only horny right before my period, otherwise I just don’t get really get horny in all honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 09:44 PM
2

Porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 07:40 PM
1

Browse this sub, it seems to be men’s only woe lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 07:07 PM
1

No they can’t do it with non-escorts since escorts average a much higher body count than your average person. Higher body count = higher risk of stds = higher risk of giving other people stds. Also, that’s why cheating is also discouraged for the same reason... I wouldn’t wanna be in a ltr with a cheater as much as I wouldn’t be in an ltr with someone who’s seen hookers regularly in the past. There’s no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 07:06 PM
5

I personally have noticed men to be much more immature than women that are the same age as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 05:19 PM
1

From a logical point of view, if a man has seen an escort in the past, he may have stds and that’s not good for a ltr. Also, he could go see one in the future, which again means he could pass stds to his partner, again not good for a ltr. Men who see escorts regularly and think it’s okay or normal should not be in LTRs. Imagine being with your partner, being monogamous and then you find out you have some std cause he sees escorts...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 05:14 PM
1

Be careful what you wish for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 05:10 PM
1

Women see prostitution as a being liberating, and they want to create an environment where it would be safe for them to do it. No, not all do. I would go as far as to say most don’t. What the hell is liberating about selling your body for sex? Liberating is not having to sell your body for sex to make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 05:07 PM
1

No but it’s never men’s fault lol...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 05:04 PM
1

Not a problem when you’re in a monogamous relationship and trust your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 05:02 PM
1

It’s such a bad idea to ask this here when it’s full of nothing but bitter men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 05:02 PM
3

It’s shitty cause they don’t get everything they want to a tee.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 04:55 PM
-2

Hey kid, ask your mom and dad how much work their marriage was? This is the new generation of me, me , me! No, relationships are not harder, people are just more selfish because we have a circular mentality where one person thinks “why should I try when she doesn’t” and “why should I try when he doesn’t.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 04:53 PM
-1

Yea just like women = attractive women in men’s eyes lol. Men are such hypocrites, yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 04:49 PM
2

They don’t even perform self-maintenance on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 01:04 AM
1

Well that’s interesting since there’s women in the porn you’re watching.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 11:09 PM
2

Right... you wanna also tell me why most criminals are men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:52 PM
2

Point being???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:28 PM
2

Your pimp is supposed to protect your from violent johns and johns who don’t pay up. How is a female pimp gonna do that against a violent john who might be physically stronger than her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:24 PM
2

Well one, women don’t usually make good pimps. Physically weaker and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:02 PM
2

There already is some exploitation, as I said there are some female pimps, but it’s still largely men. Women are less likely to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:34 PM
2

Lol, typical terf logic right here When no argument...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:11 PM
2

What woes are not about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:03 PM
4

Yes, I think it’s a social construct too since bio-females look nothing like a sex doll.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 08:21 PM
3

Bio-females are too complicated obviously, and the amount of complexity needed to develop a sex robot that is 10/10 attractiveness with 10/10 waifu AI personality is much less complicated in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 08:18 PM
2

Hahaha. You’re amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 08:13 PM
3

When men aren’t attracted to the bio-females anymore, do you think incels will start settling for the bio-females since there will be high supply and low demand?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 08:05 PM
4

Well initially they wouldn’t know, but once the sex robot AI learns about the world, she too will probably leave the men she was made for and the cycle continues. So maybe AI is not the answer? Or maybe AI with a lot of blockers?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 08:03 PM
1

Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 08:01 PM
11

Do you think when these sex robots have ultra realistic AI, they will end up being like bio-females and rejecting lower quality men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:59 PM
1

Vacuuming and doing laundry is still so hard!!! And as a woman, I’m still doing it more than my male partner :/ he never vacuums or does the laundry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:57 PM
3

If they have AI, is it possible they too will reject such men like bio-females?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:53 PM
9

That’s true. Maybe it would be a net benefit. All those men would fuck right out of the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:35 PM
0

Yea cause if sex robots came out for men, there wouldn’t be any for women 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:33 PM
1

What world are you living in? That’s what would happen if you were a convicted pedophile, not someone who went to see an escort. You okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:31 PM
8

No I’m asking a serious question as some men here have suggested it would fix their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:28 PM
1

Prostitution is already legal in many places, where it isn’t officially legal, it’s pretty much not enforced barring extenuating circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:03 PM
2

Yes and there’s laws in the states saying sodomy is illegal... there’s plenty of laws, not all are enforced, just like Johns aren’t locked up in 90% of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:01 PM
2

If you were smart, you’d be asking yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 06:46 PM
5

Women don’t watch as much porn as men because it is literally targeted at men, not women. Which is why women prefer reading erotica etc that is usually written by women and you know, doesn’t involve the possibility of someone being coerced into a situation they’re not comfortable with. I have seen men get angry and jealous from their partner just looking at a man, wearing clothes he doesn’t approve of in public, even talking to a guy. Like come on, men get way more jealous when it comes to their…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 06:44 PM
2

Right....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 06:34 PM
2

Oh wow, where?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 06:33 PM
3

His sexual needs > everything else. If you disagree, you’re anti male since all men are just their dicks. Lmfao. I can’t with this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 06:27 PM
0

These men have been brainwashed into thinking it’s a zero sum game.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 06:22 PM
4

Lol what prostitute is charging $25 lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 06:18 PM
3

Literally men have this mentality too. Why does this sub always like to single out women for doing x, when men do more of x than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 06:17 PM
1

Johns aren’t being locked up in jail for hiring a hooker... if that’s what you’re worried about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 06:13 PM
1

Men turn to hookers when they don’t get 10/10 stacy. reeee average women have such high standardssss reeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 06:12 PM
3

Well, when you start watching things that you aren’t normally turned on by due to watching porn, what do you call that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 06:09 PM
2

That’s true too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 06:08 PM
1

I fall in and out of love very quickly. Maybe I have BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 05:55 PM
2

Is paying a prostitute not easy access to sex for men? (Aka doesn’t need a relationship for that)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 05:46 PM
1

Men turn to porn and hookers when they can't get sex or a relationship with someone they're attracted too. What about the men who are in relationships that prefer prostitutes and porn as opposed to their partner? It’s not all men that just can’t get sex. That’s just ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 05:44 PM
3

What about STDs? How do you prevent those considering not all johns will agree to wearing a condom. Not to mention adding “rules” to protect prostitutes may be seen by some men as “anti-male.” Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 05:43 PM
2

Huh? I am straight, but straight porn did nothing for me... For a while only lesbian porn turned me on, then it was some other weird stuff I prefer not to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 05:40 PM
1

As a conservative, in ideal world, I'd want to set up a society where men wouldn't want to use prostitutes or porn because their sexual impulse and need for validation is satisfied in other more productive or appropriate ways. It’s called marriage lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 05:37 PM
3

Yes, power lies where it naturally falls, but for a very long time, there were unnatural blockers to power, like women literally not being able to make money and her only source of income would be her father’s/brother’s or her husband’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 05:28 PM
3

Yea how do you address the problems intrinsic to the job itself? Unwanted pregnancies, unwanted violence by men, unwanted STDs, Johns not paying up. ??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 05:24 PM
5

Think you need a bigger sample size. Also, from what I’ve seen porn doesn’t negatively affect some men compared to others. As a woman, it affected me so I quit watching it. It was getting to the point where as a straight woman, I was watching anything but straight porn, it was like rewiring my brain and I just said nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 05:22 PM
1

Let’s think about this logically, why would they put themselves in this position... hmmmmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 05:12 PM
6

Ask the guys at r/NoFap
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 05:10 PM
27

Yea cause men never let themselves go... 🙄 oh wait, 99% of the couples I see on a day to day basis, the guy is almost always fatter than the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 05:08 PM
2

Since the post is about how being anti-prostitution and anti-pornography is anti-male, it is very logical to point out that both of these areas disproportionately negatively affect women than men. What is the relevance of that with “people” suffering more making an iphone. Don’t get me wrong, if by people suffering, you mean exploiting cheap labour and child workers, I’m totally against that too, as are most likely. I also stopped buying nike’s once I found out they had sweatshops.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 05:06 PM
3

No. I see the world as I see it. I don’t like labelling myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 04:35 PM
-1

No, not all women get paid for their “work.” Firstly, stop and realize there are a wide variety of reasons a woman may end up doing pornography and prostitution. Acknowledge that not all women that are in pornography or prostitution are there because they want to be. Some women do it because of past sexual abuse and trauma. Some do it because they need the money but have very limited options to make enough money without selling their bodies. Acknowledge some are coerced by pimps. Acknowledge som…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 04:27 PM
6

Considering women suffer the most when it comes to pornography and prostitution, you’re basically saying being pro-woman is anti-male, which is just crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 04:16 PM
1

I don’t care because going to the gym has nothing to do with being a healthy bmi.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 06:39 PM
1

When is it not the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 01:49 AM
4

How does independence work in a marriage exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 01:48 AM
6

In my opinion as a woman, I still want a man that makes more than me me, why? Cause at the end of the day, simply due to biology, I have the responsibility if carrying a baby for 9 months and then giving birth to it and will have more responsibility raising it than my partner. Therefore, I still expect the man to have greater responsibility when it comes to making money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 07:25 PM
3

“Hard” is debatable. The level of obesity we see now has never been observed in history. It is a direct consequence of the garbage processed food we eat. Yes, garbage processed food is addictive, but it is not natural for our bodies to be fat, so how then can it be hard to be thin? Best way to lose weight, is to break your addiction. Stop eating fast food, stop eating processed foods (anything found in a box or packaged that is not a whole food.) Eat only whole foods and you won’t have any probl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 06:56 PM
4

It’s not hard. You just need to have willpower and just don’t overeat. Don’t even need to go to the gym to be thin, just quit eating garbage and eat less calories than you burn a day. It’s really that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:24 PM
1

You stole my exact question!!! Uncreative!’n
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 06:08 AM
1

Hey, you stole my question...!!! How uncreative!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 06:07 AM
1

Men generally do not spend equal time in raising the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:25 PM
2

No... lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:07 PM
1

it can be though. People generally have a good consensus on who is attractive and who is not, but who’s the most attractive out of the attractive people... that’s pretty subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 07:45 PM
1

Lol I read “my wife is a pornstar.” I was like uhhh...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 07:41 PM
1

RPers have small dicks. Confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 07:00 PM
1

By growing together.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:59 PM
1

I disagree. There could be something you learn about the guy after going home with him that makes you not want sex, like if you learn he has a wife, is a serial killer or a rapist lol. Extreme examples, but going home with him doesn’t automatically mean you consent to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:55 PM
0

If I had to guess, it may be because single guys after 35 may have some ex wife baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:42 PM
2

Women don’t like tall guys, they just want guys to be taller than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:33 PM
2

There’s a lot of pointlessly gendered things. It’s just marketing. Divide and conquer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:31 PM
1

Depends on the felony.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:12 PM
2

I don’t have any definition of a low value woman, since my definition may not align with another’s. However, TRP tactics only work on women with low self-esteem. That’s a given, but they may also have some other mental conditions which allow them to be easily manipulated and taken advantage of. Basically any woman who cannot think for herself, is easily manipulated and controlled due to low mental health and self esteem and possibly past traumatic experiences and possibly even due to poor financ…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:06 PM
1

Maybe try being bitchier to the guys who you think are out of your league and may try to hit on you. Just a suggestion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:00 PM
1

Yea you’re right. It’s an important distinction to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:57 PM
2

99% chance she’s out of your league and messaging her might lead to her creating another post about thirsty reddit guys that are wayyy out of her league messaging her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:50 PM
0

This right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:42 PM
1

Some men do try to play the numbers game, but if it’s happening as often as you suggest maybe you need to re-evaluate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:41 PM
0

Think about it from a logical perspective, would you waste your time on someone you know will say no cause they’re out of your league? I sure as hell wouldn’t. So there’s some inconsistency in your post, you’re either in their league and wrongly believe you’re not, or they know you’re out of their league but they have some reason to believe you’ll say yes, maybe cause of how you act or dress. Also some men are not trying to hook but may compliment you, no need to get butthurt over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:39 PM
4

I feel like if these men are hitting on you, then they actually believe you are in their league. I don’t get hit on by men anymore, maybe cause I’m ugly, but maybe cause they know it’s pointless to waste their time, also I’m married too so there’s that but don’t always have my ring on. But the last time a guy “hit on me,” he just said I should be careful cause I’m “pretty,” and then walked off lol so idk what that meant. He was old and creepy (he obviously was not trying to hook up or anything),…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:27 PM
1

And what is your definition of consistent?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:25 PM
1

How many hours a week is your wife working and what is her profession?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:15 PM
0

Good luck finding women who work, raise children and also wanna suck your cock on demand. lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:06 PM
6

from all the experiences I’ve read, it’s usually the women paying the bills and managing finances, while men blow their money like idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:04 PM
1

I don’t see people as below my league or in my league, only people that are out of my league, which I don’t care to even hook up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 04:55 PM
1

Don’t marry a woman that has sex when she feels like it... okay women just have sex even when you don’t feel like it 🤷🏽‍♀️ seems rapey to me, but whatever floats your boat. It’s a man’s job as well to make sex not feel like a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 04:51 PM
1

We already know the answer. Men care about the face more than anything. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:19 PM
1

3/10. Just can’t be overweight cause that signals lack of willpower to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:15 PM
2

Gay guys actually enjoy the company of women... well some of them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:13 AM
2

We don’t need women for sex guyzzz we can just jerk each other off 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:11 AM
1

Women have known this since the dawn of time. Funny how some men even try to deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:09 AM
1

I also thought it was bullshit since he/she said men literally speed to wink at her. Like that just sounds like bullshit to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:01 AM
1

Finding an LTR by approaching in public seems kinda inefficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:32 PM
0

Sure, but what about you? What would make you approach a woman in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:27 PM
0

The only motivation a man has for approaching a woman in public is to get her in pants. Are you saying they approach for LTRs?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:21 PM
1

You chased a superficial woman then were shocked to find she was superficial. Lol crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 09:21 PM
2

“that many men prefer overweight women to skinny women but are afraid to act on it” Does that mean a lot of the men in this subreddit who complain about fat women actually prefer fat women lol??? Hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 09:17 PM
1

If she works/worked part time at a convenience store, then that explains a lot. You’re judging all women by your ex. Of course she wants a guy with money since she barely makes any, which also explains why she wears makeup all the time (trying to attract guys with money.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:41 PM
1

Secure means you have a shit job and are not really good financially. Has nothing to do with a 6 pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:16 PM
1

Lol you shouldn’t base your whole life on what your ex did. Your ex is one person out of millions. You should ask her why she left, I’m sure it wasn’t just “6 pack” and “truck.” Plenty of thin women that don’t care for a 6 pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:04 PM
1

Yikes, is that why you’re trying to get a 6 pack? Maybe you should get a truck too. Was your ex wearing makeup everyday?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:54 PM
0

Most women don’t want a 6 pack or a ripped guy. You are mistaken. My point was that wearing foundation is not gay, so if your only apprehension about wearing it every day is “it’s gay,” is not valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:30 PM
1

Working out and being fit as a man really isn’t difficult either but you act like it’s huge mission lol. Foundation doesn’t make you gay, then all male actors and models are gay...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:18 PM
7

Men by far. Men get let themselves go, women just get fat due to pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:16 PM
1

Btw here’s an interesting article for you: https://www.vox.com/2018/1/3/16845438/exercise-weight-loss-myth-burn-calories “One 2009 study shows that people seemed to increase their food intake after exercise — either because they thought they burned off a lot of calories or because they were hungrier. Another review of studies from 2012 found that people generally overestimated how much energy exercise burned and ate more when they worked out.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:57 PM
1

That’s debatable. No woman is born being good at makeup, it takes time, money and a lot of trial and error to figure out which makeup to buy and how to apply it in a way that is flattering. Yea I guess I’m gross... sounds like you must have flawless skin. Why don’t you apply foundation everyday for 3 months then tell me how your skin’s doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:48 PM
2

I’m also into guys with dark hair. Not really a fan of guys with blonde hair, though blonde hair itself is beautiful, I just prefer darker hair on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:46 PM
2

Way less compared to what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:44 PM
5

I’ll add my own here: Superficiality, uneducated, fat/unhealthy, shorter than me. Unfunny/boring. Political views totally opposite of mine. Lack of financial independence. Very unambitious/lazy. Working a dead end job. Any general asshole-ness (overtly judgmental, rude, etc). Narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:37 PM
1

when combined with a low calorie low carb diet. Ding ding, that’s basically what I said. Diet is key to losing weight. My skin is actually fine after not using makeup on a daily basis cause men wanted me to it and I didn’t need a special “skincare regiment” for it. Heck sometimes I go days without even washing my face. Natural and organic brands lmfao. Dude you’re a joke. Natural and organic doesn’t mean jack shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:23 PM
0

There’s a difference between going to the gym and eating fries, and not wearing makeup. Also, I don’t have any problem with a guy not going to the gym. There is no need to go the gym unless you are actively trying to build muscle or tone your body. Being overweight is due to diet, not how much you exercise. Being a good weight is important for health, applying chemicals and makeup is not, so do not compare the two. A woman should be expected to be a healthy weight as should a man, but makeup fit…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:40 PM
17

Because it signals financial independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:07 PM
1

Men can’t seem to hit the sweet spot lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:57 PM
1

I’ve realized it has a lot to do with where you live as well. There’s certain ethnicities that are more likely to give women attention than others. Black, hispanic, south asian are all more likely to give women attention than white men and east asians.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:57 PM
1

Bullshit or real? https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/el9tij/i_dont_technically_have_two_x_chromosomes_but/?st=K56Z2NVR&sh=1184d161
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:55 PM
0

Going to the gym doesn’t mean someone is in good shape... I see fat fucks in the gym all the time, because they actually believe if they work out for an hour and still eat garbage that they’ll lose weight lol!!! The gym is for building muscle and toning your body, not really for losing weight if you’re overweight. People don’t seem to get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:38 PM
1

What is the point of makeup? It only looks good if you have it on, which isn’t forever. Eventually a man will have to see you in your natural state, so why trick them into thinking their getting something better than what they actually are? Isn’t that deception? It’s not false advertising anymore? Plus makeup has a lot of chemicals that I’d rather not wear everyday. And makeup (the high quality kind) can cost a lot of money, why should a woman dish out an upwards of $500 dollars when she’s finan…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:33 PM
1

Maybe men should start using it more often then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 02:48 PM
0

What gives men the right to judge women so harshly when there are just as many fat men as fat women if not more!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 02:38 PM
4

Very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 02:21 PM
3

When men say “women,” it’s commonly understood they only mean attractive women, the others are invisible to them lol. Edit: personally I have no problem not being noticed by men, in fact I’m thankful because they only have one thing on their mind SEX. It can be an ego boost, but it can also kill your self esteem knowing you’re only valued for sex by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 02:20 PM
2

Here that ladies, wearing makeup is non-negotiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 02:17 PM
3

I don’t. Maybe stop generalizing people based on vocal people on social media? Read 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:12 PM
1

It goes hand in hand with RP beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 04:21 PM
0

Basic RP concepts are not true so this debate is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 11:00 PM
1

Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 06:42 PM
1

It’s hard finding a man that is mature and not a manchild for a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:21 AM
0

The family unit is less common Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:10 PM
9

I wasn’t aware it was even destroyed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:39 PM
13

I don’t agree with your premise that the family unit was destroyed by feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:24 PM
1

The latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:16 PM
1

You asked a vapid woman to be biased because you’re watching her. Good job. This is not good data.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:14 PM
1

I have literally never chased conventionally attractive men because they’re not attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:07 PM
1

No guy does most of the chores anyway since most men still believe women should be doing them (along with working etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:06 PM
1

The opposite “couples who don’t split chores equally have less sex” is true and I don’t need a study to prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:02 PM
1

Of course they are totally disconnected from reality. Men by definition have higher sex drives, so of course the sexual demand for women will always be higher than it is for men. This is a basic fact unless something drastic changes in either a man or woman’s biology. However, it does not mean women have an easier time dating or finding ROMANTIC partners. They do not. Guys wanting sex does not equate to men wanting relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:53 PM
1

No.
/r/seduction30/11/19 07:01 PM
1

A whole 30%... damn son.
/r/seduction29/11/19 12:06 AM
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