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1	What would you like to say to a 22 year old man Your analogy is a good example, but you interpreted it wrong and missed an important point: A deer does want to die, so even if a deer knows what it takes to be successful, it will never tell a wolf what it did wrong or how it can succeed. That would lead to its demise. The deer would give advice to the wolf that would keep it alive, and the wolf would be hungry indefinitely. You would ask a wolf because it has to analyze its failures and learn what it takes to be successful. With women its not …	/r/RedPillWomen	21/04/18 06:39 PM
3	What would you like to say to a 22 year old man I would not ask women for advice on how to be an attractive man. Ask other men.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/04/18 05:50 PM
1	Am I crazy or is there a double standard, please prove me wrong!!!! I would like an example because I don't quite understand your post. But in general it is not a double standard because men and women generally are not the same, so they can not be held to the same standard.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/02/18 10:53 PM
1	Inconsistency in the TRP I’ve found. Hope someone can clearly this up. Non-sexual companionship (attraction) vs sexual companionship (arousal) are two different things for women. Women typically want a blend of both, but it looks like you have the latter.	/r/askTRP	30/11/17 06:38 PM
1	How do you guys balance being aloof and having sex with the girl? Verbally direct in a smooth, confident, seductive manner. There is nothing wrong with letting a woman know you WANT her sexually, but you don't NEED her. She needs to know that can reject you and it wont phase you. Do not worry about what she thinks or how she will look at it. She knows if she is attracted to you or not.	/r/askTRP	27/11/17 05:05 PM
5	Anyone else wish it were not like this? Yes, it is very sad at times. I have more so accepted it and am now grateful for the knowledge and wisdom. It has eliminated a lot of confusion and dissonance in my life. If anything, I feel more sad for women in general these days and for their future. Women can not self actualize the way men can, and there will be a lot of single, lonely, childless, overweight, depressed, bitter women who have simply wasted their opportunity at finding contentment and happiness in life. They simply do not even…	/r/askTRP	27/11/17 05:01 PM
2	3 last obstacles on my way to become a sovereign man. I can definitely relate to number 3. Taking the red pill has its downsides and negative consequences. It is not a panacea. You can overdose and become overly critical. Yes, you will miss out on the "idea" of the traditional family and will be lonely at times, very prominent red pill authors have written on these experiences. But compared to the alternatives and the probabilities of divorce, infidelity, etc, it is a rational choice. Having a family comes at a cost too. There are no solutions, onl…	/r/askTRP	27/11/17 04:16 PM
2	YouTube for TRP Anything with Patrice O'Neal and women	/r/askTRP	21/11/17 06:24 PM
1	Why do women push for more and more commitment only to be disatisfied when it actually happens? "It's like having to say no to a kid who wants to eat candy for breakfast." You hit the nail on the head. Women are basically overgrown children.	/r/askTRP	07/11/17 04:58 PM
2	Thought I was a feminist, but am I actually RPW? Men have always been more disposable due to the nature of sexual reproduction with women being the limiting factor. Women are more valuable to the species and have generally been protected and provided for exceptions aside.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/10/17 12:27 AM
3	Thought I was a feminist, but am I actually RPW? Looks like someone had to resort to an emotional ad hominem attack when they are faced with cognitive dissonance and cant make a logical rational argument.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/09/17 05:07 PM
1	Thought I was a feminist, but am I actually RPW? Because people are willing to do a lot of work to not carry an unwanted pregnancy? How is that hard to understand? Then why not avoid the pregnancy? The same could be said for men. Birth control doesn't always work and people make mistakes. Part of it is the fault of terrible sex ed that we get. If everyone got good sex ed, condoms would be 90% effective instead about 60%. Sure, but men don't face the same long term risks with sex. Women have all the power with sex. A woman can not be legally fo…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/09/17 03:41 PM
1	Thought I was a feminist, but am I actually RPW? how is that statistic skewed? Over what? tens of millions of years? What is the total number of women murdered out of how many million women? How minute is this number and how is it being used to argue a general reality? If you ignore all of the statistics about the widespread assault, abuse, and discrimination you can say it was an exception. It is still an exception if the statistics say they are.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/09/17 03:22 PM
1	Thought I was a feminist, but am I actually RPW? So can men? Sure, but men generally don't initiate it. They take their vows seriously like adults. women change their mind like children. Absolutely I do. Men see serving in war as confirming their masculinity and alpha male status while taking care of babies hurts their alpha man status. Then why should they be forced to do something they are not naturally inclined to do? If men take care of babies who is going to protect and provide for the family? Who is going to build roads, buildings, and w…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/09/17 03:17 PM
1	Thought I was a feminist, but am I actually RPW? How can there be tens of thousands of abortions each year yet they are so difficult to access, whether legally or not? Shouldn't women make smart decisions with sex if they know they don't want to deal with abortion, the natural risks of pregnancy or childbirth if they are capable rational beings? Shouldn't abortion be a last resort and virtually unnecessary with all of the methods of prevention available? Men are not held responsible for the pregnancy Of course not. this is nature. there is not…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/17 11:11 PM
2	Thought I was a feminist, but am I actually RPW? Emotions are determined by a complex interaction of about a dozen neurotransmitters and hormones. Testosterone, for example, is one of the most potent effectors of behavior which leads to aggression, impulse control, and irrationality. While around 20 different regions of the brain are sexually dimorphic, there is no male or female brain. The best neurobiologists in the world can't tell if someone is male or female by their brain alone. Sure fine, but there are differences in our behaviors and m…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/17 10:54 PM
1	Thought I was a feminist, but am I actually RPW? Between 2001 and 2011 in the US, more women were killed by their partners than Americans killed in war. Women aren't treated all that well now, let alone historically. You can't use a skewed statistic to make an generalization that does not reflect reality. So few people die in wars today as it is. How many women died out of over tens of millions? You are trying to use extreme statistics to make a general obeservation. Women being killed by their domestic partners is an extreme outlier. Crimes a…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/17 10:33 PM
1	Thought I was a feminist, but am I actually RPW? I think men feel that women have some biological predisposition for childcare, so they don't ask as often. That is such a sad thing to me. We teach boys that to be men they have to be this caricature of true masculinity (unemotional, uncaring, not nurturing) and then they end up losing out on so much with their kids for it. Men don't want to break up their families in the first place. Women initiate the vast majority of divorces, with the vast majority of those who initiate it simply saying they…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/17 10:22 PM
2	Thought I was a feminist, but am I actually RPW? Women are more emotional than men. They have more estrogen. Leadership requires thinking rationally under stress and pressure. Men have 20 times the amount of testosterone than women which leads to difference in size, strength, and thinking a ability. Their brains are not the same. A woman is literally in between a man and child. Men and women are not the same. Men did not build all of culture, western or otherwise. What they did was begin actively forcing women out of the public sphere in conco…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/17 09:53 PM
2	Thought I was a feminist, but am I actually RPW? Women are on the hook for alimony by the same rules as men. It is simply rarer due to women being less likely to make significantly more money than their husband. Same thing applies to unfair divorce court settlements. Women who make significantly more than their husbands are just as likely to lose a lot in a settlement. Ok, I will give you the benefit of the doubt on that, but this does not disprove that men are held more responsible without authority. If two responsible adults end a relationsh…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/17 09:18 PM
1	Thought I was a feminist, but am I actually RPW? Men are afraid of feminism because they worry that women want to take power and treat men the way men have treated women for the past thousand years. Yes, some cultures did not treat women well sometimes, but it was for more the exception than the norm. Women in general have been provided and protected for because they are more valuable to the survival of the species due to the nature of reproduction and them being the limiting factor. Men have always been more disposable because they are less v…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/17 08:42 PM
1	Thought I was a feminist, but am I actually RPW? What responsibiliy are women lacking? Alimony, divorce, child support, dangerous jobs, physical jobs, war, domestic violence penalties, etc.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/17 08:32 PM
2	Thought I was a feminist, but am I actually RPW? Men and women were not created equal. There are mental, physical, emotional, sexual, and social differences between men and women. Men and women are sexually dimorphic with the dimorphism favoring the males. Exceptions aside, men are generally bigger, faster, stronger, and logically inclined than women.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/17 08:20 PM
2	Thought I was a feminist, but am I actually RPW? Then I grew up and realized that a man afraid of gender equality isn't one I would want to date anyways so why am I worried? After that realization, I really did begin to see how anti-feminist men really are just so insecure in their masculinity. The genders are not equal. That is the issue. Men and women are sexually dimorphic with the dimorphism favoring the males. This has nothing to do with insecurity. It its the truth. It is nature and there is nothing anyone can do to change this.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/17 08:19 PM
2	Thought I was a feminist, but am I actually RPW? Until women and men are equally represented in government, it is hard to say that we aren't in a patriarchal society, given that men are actively making the decisions for the society. There is no reason why men and women be equally represented in government. Sure women should have every opportunity if they so wish, but that is different from having an equal outcome. Many women are not naturally inclined to want to make high pressure and stressful decisions in government. It is possible for men t…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/17 07:59 PM
1	Thought I was a feminist, but am I actually RPW? Women do not have full reproductive freedom. Every few years, a politican wants to ban birth control. Politicians constatly are sticking themselves into decisions that should be made between a woman and her doctor. 71 bills have been entered to congress on women's health this year. Sure a few politicians are trying, but this is still so far from what is actually is actually happening and the reality in the west. The genie is not going back in the bottle. Birth control is not going anywhere, abor…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/17 07:33 PM
2	Temptation I completely agree. Sometimes it is necessary.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/17 02:46 PM
2	Temptation I completely agree, constructs can be good.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/17 02:43 PM
8	Temptation indefinite monogamy is not natural. "Marriage" is a social construct. The true nature of men and women can not be changed. Humans are generally not naturally indefinitely monogamous. Men are polygamous, women are hypergamous.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/17 02:03 AM
1	Thought I was a feminist, but am I actually RPW? • A female’s right to the same educational and career opportunities as men (should she want them, of course) Equality of outcome versus equality of opportunity. This has already been touched on here by other posters. • A female’s right to reproductive and general healthcare options In the US women have full reproductive rights/authority while men are still held responsible. A man has no legal say in whether to abort or keep a baby, but he is legally required to financially support the baby regar…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/17 10:00 PM
3	Is this relationship red pill? This doesn't seem real. I can't see the post you referenced in your profile. Also, men who are "alpha" know its impossible to be 'alpha' all the time, all day, every day and show no kinks especially to a women he is investing time and energy on. Women have a strong instinct in smelling out beta/weak/soft qualities and you mentioned none of them which is surprising given your age.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/17 04:56 PM
-1	Evolving Manipulation Men and women are sexually dimorphic, men are generally bigger, stronger, and smarter than women. The only way they can compete with men is through sexual, emotional, and social manipulation, similar to how the only way a toddler/child can control the behavior of their parents.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/07/17 07:45 PM
2	Evolving Manipulation Can you elaborate? What part of the book? While this is one the best books I have ever read, I thought he did a poor job of explaining sexual dimorphism between the sexes and how women are more valuable to the survival of the species due to the nature of sexual reproduction, which leads to them being more manipulative.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/07/17 07:38 PM
6	Internalizing Red Pill ideologies significantly changed the way I think about men and relationships. This is why a lot of men are against getting married in the first place these days. It makes no rational sense. Its legalized emotional and financial rape. A woman can give into her "lizard brain" and refuse to have sex with you, cheat on you, divorce you, take the children, while the man has to pay her for the rest of her life.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/07/17 09:46 PM
4	Internalizing Red Pill ideologies significantly changed the way I think about men and relationships. A lot of red pill aware men already assert that women are more naturally red pill. They know that a woman's behavior NEVER lies and to not listen to her words. Women subconsciously and instinctively know, or at least behave in a red pill manner, they don't have to be taught it through hard lessons in life. It doesn't have to be "internalized". Men generally have to learn these truths the hard way. That is why a lot of them view red pill women as an oxymoron and do not take it seriously. Men need…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/07/17 03:52 PM