etherealmare Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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12	Why is it when men don't go down on a woman, they're unacceptably selfish lovers, but when women don't go down, it's an acceptable choice for something she doesn't enjoy doing? Well as another bisexual woman, I disagree. Both lead to sore jaws and tongues. Only dicks choke me and actively hurt me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/22 11:42 AM
1	The logistics of dating as a man. That's just because we're able to talk and share common experiences with shitty men from literally around the world now	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 01:42 PM
1	Have women become more sexist over time? Thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 03:16 PM
1	Men, women and murder - effects on the SMP/RMP Meaning that it'd be a misguided effort to solving the real problem? Since lemmings don't do that except when literally being chased off said cliff?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/22 03:56 AM
0	What do you think of young women sexualizing themselves on social media? I hate it and want the exact opposite. Its either loosely two sided or always against the women. We have no true choice whether or not to be involved in the constant sexualization and objectification	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 06:07 PM
5	If the women on here are right and they love all kinds of men and there are loving rrlationships everywhere....why are you here? And why do you think men are here? Ditto, especially with that first line. The burning outrage has settled more into a simmering pot of disappointment and occasional pity for the ones that are struggling but avoid jumping on the misogyny train. It really is bewildering the apparent power of the white western woman. She is the crux of humanity's future. /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/22 05:28 PM
2	Did men who felt "lied to by the media" miss the media that was right in front of them? Lol this conversation was so painful to read. You tried so hard and he repeatedly gave you literally nothing, claiming that as an argument. Like what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/21 02:02 AM
5	How much casual sex are the women that you know are having? Brilliantly explained. I wish more men could understand this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/21 01:48 AM
1	Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it? Excellent, well-rounded take.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 09:19 PM
6	A man only benefits from a traditional marriage for about 15-20 years. I like your name and I agree with you :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 01:22 PM
5	If a man reaches his mid 20s and beyond and is still a virgin (and not by choice), should he pay an escort/sex worker to lose it? No. I would say to most women (from my perspective) a guy who has paid for sex is a way bigger turn off than a guy who is a virgin. If you're looking for a relationship, keep your integrity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/21 06:09 PM
2	During your college/school years, which was more important to you, your education or sex/dating life? Wow all these things are incorrect. You guys have a really bad perspective on girls, or at least are only going after the worst of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/21 01:26 PM
11	Women Denying Sex in an LTR is a Huge Double Standard Also because UTIs! There's so much more to think and worry about with sex for women	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/21 03:00 AM
8	Why are seemingly all women bi? Yeah that’s dumb I mean you’re right but it’s still dumb.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/21 08:00 PM
2	Is “men are more visual” a hoax? Yes, this is how I see it	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/20 03:56 PM
16	Men aren't supposed to live like they do in today's society You had me in the first half, but then of course it devolved into sexist bullshit. sigh	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/20 06:42 PM
4	CMV: Men are far more into casual sex than females as noted by casual sexual outlet ratios with far more men than females I don’t think you understand women. Or at least you only understand a percentage of them. You know we’re not all the same, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/20 11:19 AM
2	Women don't NEED to be successful, funny or interesting to be a valuable partner. That's the difference. “Impressive” means different things to different people. It depends on your position and perspective in life	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/20 02:32 PM
6	Hook ups and ONs are a touch overrated due to the influence of porn. As a ons? Without talking about it first? No. But do lots of women put up with it because that’s what we’re conditioned to expect? Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/20 06:26 PM
3	Would you like to be in a world where female nudity wasn't as much of a big deal, but... It’s not feminist projection. It happens all the time. The devaluation of men’s bodies is its own issue that men need to band together and fight against if they want it to change. Both males and females are used for their bodies, just in different ways. Don’t discount one side to call attention to the other. They’re both problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/20 05:06 PM
6	I think social media and online dating is mentally ruining women Man. What a great system for the women. /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/20 09:21 PM
0	Do you think a large number of millennial and gen z men will end up without a life partner and chance to reproduce? Disgusting	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 03:03 AM
1	Women don't like sensitive men. But rather men with a sensitive side. I would disagree and say the exact same thing about men’s sexuality though. So many men are slaves to their constant desire for sex and will often look past any negative traits in attractive women as long as they get the chance to fuck them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/20 01:26 PM
2	As a Bi guy, dating men is not only easier, but it is the main reason I resent women Fellow bi woman. Same experience :) I love the equality and understanding I’ve had in female relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/20 11:14 AM
3	As a Bi guy, dating men is not only easier, but it is the main reason I resent women Yes! Im also a bi-woman in college and these are exactly my experiences. No childhood issues, just to throw in that that’s not always a factor. The large majority of guys are so sex-focused. It disgusts me, I absolutely feel preyed upon, and it’s nearly impossible to have an actual conversation with them. Girls treat you like actual people. I keep to myself and tend to fly under the radar a lot, so I overhear a lot of conversations. The way those guys talk about women behind their backs is horri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/20 11:07 AM
3	As a Bi guy, dating men is not only easier, but it is the main reason I resent women Right they just sexualize them endlessly	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/20 10:31 AM
2	As a Bi guy, dating men is not only easier, but it is the main reason I resent women They’re referring to initially consensual sex that turns rough or violent or continues after they ask to stop. Consent is not a one-time check then free-pass until it’s over. If someone says stop at any point, it needs to stop. Sex can turn into rape even if it was consensual at first	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/20 10:14 AM
7	If sex is a need, why dont more guys just go to hookers? Sex trafficking, manipulation, girls doing it because they have no other choice, married/committed men cheating, objectifying women, etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/20 08:21 PM
2	How many of you admit to being shallow? Okay but you (and others) seem to only be taking answers like this seriously and believe every other woman is lying. We’re not. I’m sure some do lie just to virtue signal, but others are telling the truth. Like for me, yeah looks are important, but only to an extent. If our personalities don’t click then my attraction won’t last long. When they do my attraction is immediately increased, regardless of what the person looks like. And what I find attractive is different from many other women. It’s …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/20 03:10 AM
1	How many of you admit to being shallow? Yes. Im a female and this is the answer I agree with. I’ve been attracted to plenty of guys before who might not be considered “conventionally attractive”. And, at least for me, I can honestly say that while I undeniably look for people I find attractive, personality is more important to me. I’ll admire beautiful people, but if our personalities don’t click then it doesn’t go much farther than that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/20 03:00 AM
3	Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women? Yeah sounds more like males	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/20 09:31 PM
3	Are men taught that they can be loved/wanted without trying? No, that’s not true. You’re just misogynistic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/20 11:48 PM
2	Dad's must teach their son Snapchat is basically texting (via text and/or pictures) except after you view it, it disappears. You can also post pictures/videos to your story that will stay there for 24 hours then disappear. That aspect of it disappearing makes it an an attractive medium for porn accounts. I’ve never done it/seen how it’s done but my assumption is that the people will just have you send them money (typically not directly through Snapchat) then they’ll add you as a friend so you can receive pics and view the…	/r/MGTOW	15/02/20 07:27 PM
12	I don’t want to, but I am really starting to hate men. Exactly. I love my dad and brothers, they’re very nice and otherwise amazing people, but the casual comments they’ll make about women are disgusting. Men can treat women with respect but they still just see them as objects. Everything is always about sex. And hearing how they speak about us with each other...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/20 12:25 AM
1	Meme Well I mean yeah, I already knew that	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/19 03:39 PM
38	I’ve learned to call them out on their bull right then and there. This applies to in person as well. They’ll push as far as you’ll let them. Seriously. Like is it so hard for them to see girls beyond our appearance, y’know, like as people??	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/19 06:42 PM
8	Meme I was actually referring to that too lol. It’s also definitely discouraging watching the relationships of people around me and constantly seeing the girls being the only ones who seems to care while the guy is just kinda there	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/09/19 05:49 PM
4	Meme I know that’s what what I said sounds like, but I mean more specifically in a dating/relationship sense. I don’t just straight up hate men, that’s silly. We’re all humans, all just people. I’ve had plenty of great guy friends. I just usually don’t really connect with them like I do girls I guess. Like I like them as people, and may even be sexually attracted to them, but don’t feel that romantic attraction. I don’t know if that makes sense. I’m still figuring it out myself. Then there’s trying t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/09/19 05:44 PM
12	Meme It’s hard to pinpoint. It’s not always that I don’t like them as people, but more that I just don’t connect with them. I probably/definitely have developed some stereotypes and generalizations of men, and I recognize that I need to work on that, but also I haven’t had many experiences that prove me wrong... I’m in university, and being surrounded by frat boys for the past four years probably hasn’t helped. A few examples of issues I have (obviously doesn’t apply to all, just some of the most com…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/09/19 05:17 PM
78	Meme Im honestly just coming to accept this myself. I’ve been identifying as a lesbian and denying my attraction to (still only a few) men because I’m usually extremely turned off by their personality, outlook, and general demeanor. I don’t like them, and I don’t want to be, but my body is still attracted to them. 🤷‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/09/19 12:30 PM