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I have personally found that if you just treat them normally and maintain good investment ratio, there really isn’t any difference between dating 10 vs 7 or 8
/r/seduction19/05/26 09:45 PM
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Makes sense, I was mostly joking as it is a bizarre situation. It has worked for me in the past though
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:31 PM
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The right thing to do in this case is just to let the dude come along. He’s probably just a gay friend or orbiter guy. Plus you can utilize conversation with him to build more attraction with the girl. Rookie mistake haha 😉
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:30 PM
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It’s not uncommon cuz I do it everyday
/r/seduction14/07/22 11:22 PM
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It’s not dead cuz I still go out six nights a week haha
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:56 PM
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Side note: I do get a lot of success approaching at the local park / lake here. & approaching at farmers markets/ events Pm me if you have any questions
/r/seduction11/07/22 11:03 PM
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Hi @ _rainy_nights So I flew in Thursday, I met with a girl from tinder that day around 5pm for Ice-cream (I had this date set up a couple days in advance thanks to the tinder passport feature) I hooked up with her at her house which was nice. But I didn’t want to stay at here house so I actually went out to check out the night life The second girl 5’11 brunette very pretty; I approached her at a bar around 10:30 pm the same day She was buying a drink with her friend while I was ordering a water…
/r/seduction11/07/22 11:02 PM
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Fastest way is to to approach. I just moved to a new city last thursday & I’ve gotten laid 3 times Solely from approaching. Plus I have a date tonight
/r/seduction11/07/22 10:34 PM
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Kratom is the best I’ve personally tried Specifically green vein
/r/seduction01/07/22 01:06 AM
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It’d a severe addiction If you’re not careful it will ruin your life like how it ruined mine
/r/seduction20/06/22 02:56 AM
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It’d a severe addiction If you’re not careful it will ruin your life like how it ruined mine
/r/seduction20/06/22 02:56 AM
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I have sex all the time & it doesn’t make me happy
/r/seduction09/05/22 11:29 PM
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Cold approaching you always have to start from scratch if you have status then you’re a god
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:11 AM
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Ya I just feel like it would be easier to have a dialed in life than just cold approach
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:11 AM
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I’ve been going out 6 nights a week forever. To sleep with 100 girls would be a joke. But to get quality girls in my life while continuing this lifestyle is a different story -let me know if you have any advice Ty
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:09 AM
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Ya I can’t argue with that. But not necessarily For me, my game is fucking lit but my lifestyle for the most part is sub par cuz all I’ve done for the past 10 years is game.
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:08 AM
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If you’re not having romantic ethereal experiences with quality girls that’s not good game IMO
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:06 AM
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Who cares how many girls you sleep with Irrelevant
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:05 AM
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It’s not about the number of woman it’s the quality
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:05 AM
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Game isn’t the end all be all. My friend Keith pulls & he doesn’t know game at all. Simply cuz he’s not repulsive to woman. He’s not even really good looking
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:58 AM
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Plenty of guys don’t know game and still pull because their life is dialed in
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:47 AM
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True but no matter how good your game is You’ll hit a ceiling in terms of the quality of woman you can get regularly
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:44 AM
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Approach just like you would in any other environment Open Smile Strong tonality Show intent Vibe Plant seeds for future hangout Ultimately move it forward for an instant date or number close
/r/seduction18/09/21 08:09 PM
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The best response would be “more than most, but not as many as you would think”
/r/seduction17/09/21 05:47 AM
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I live in a school bus, I don’t even have a job. I’m broke And I date hot girls with way more money than me week after week after week. And they pay for me. Ps.im not bad looking, but by no means good looking in the eyes of society
/r/seduction16/09/21 01:51 PM
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Pretty much all my long term girlfriends I’ve ever had are from cold approach. & I’ve dated very attractive successful girls, Girls that were born rich, & spiritual / religious girls.
/r/seduction16/09/21 03:01 AM
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In order to not act weird around attractive girls 1. Learn to act cool around girls in general 2. Desensitize yourself to hot girls by approaching / spending time with them frequently 3. Understand that hotter girls are essentially the same as not hot girls, the main difference being; you’re more attached to their approval and validation. Goodluck out there in the field sire
/r/seduction12/09/21 10:16 PM
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Ya, it’s all good, everything is a learning experience. The only reason some guys are better with woman than others is because they have more reference experiences. If you wanna jump on a free strategy call DM me & we can talk about where you’re at, & come up with a plan to help you improve. The best way to learn this stuff is to have someone objectively look at what you’re doing & give you advice on how to do better
/r/seduction09/09/21 02:52 PM
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It’s going to be exceptionally difficult to keep her engaged solely with texting. Try voice messages & maybe phone calls But that fact that you’re trying to keep a girl you only met up with once, pretty much shows you’re in scarcity & are probably going to lose her. Sex is the ultimate form of investment If you really wanted to keep her you should have slept with her
/r/seduction09/09/21 02:36 PM
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Myself and My friend Bodhi happen to be masters of meeting college girls. (We never went to college) Approach at the campus, this is a sure fire way to meet college girls. Figure out which venues the college girls go to, Most college girls have specific venues that they go to with their friends. Use an online dating account & set the area to the location of the college. These are three simple ways to meet college girls. It’s obviously incredibly nuanced. If you have questions or want to jump on …
/r/seduction08/09/21 08:20 PM
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All you have to do is over exaggerate it, and remain emotionally non reactive
/r/seduction28/08/21 01:48 AM
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It’s a detailed subject, if you want to jump on a call with me I can explain it thoroughly. To sum it up: Wildly approaching like an ‘approach machine’ is not the most efficient way to get quality results in a college environment. Better to approach, but do it in a calibrated way/ read into the situation, and the specific blue-print / logistics of the specific girl. It’s similar at music festivals, It’s different than approaching at a farmers market, or the beach for example, because these girls…
/r/seduction26/08/21 01:03 AM
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I don’t understand your question
/r/seduction25/08/21 07:47 PM
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Cold approaching in college is HIGHLY effective. However building a social circle based on your cold approaches Is the top of the pyramid
/r/seduction25/08/21 07:41 PM
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Hey man, Glad you’re committed to improving yourself. There are subtle nuances that you’re not aware of. The main thing to consider is, if you have no ‘game’ you essentially didn’t make her FEEL anything. Or at least not strong emotions. You may also be stuck in your head. Your logical side may be more prominent especially because of your profession. If you want to jump on a call I can give you more elaborate advice -Bobby
/r/seduction24/08/21 01:25 AM
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A typically opener that I personally would use is, “Hey you seem interesting, I like your style” Bodhi would say something like “Hey I’m curious what you’re studying.” Or if she was waiting for Starbucks “Hey what drink are you getting?” Opener doesn’t really matter that much it’s more the subtle energy with which you approach the interaction and where you lead it after the opener. If you need more help with this I’d be happy to get on a call with you and give you more pointers for your specific…
/r/seduction20/08/21 04:54 PM
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Start off slow, Consciously start showing more intent, Use pre meditated statements of intent, Use stronger eye contact, Touch her more, Etc. There’s a LOT of subtle nuances involved. If you wanna jump on a call I will give you a free coaching session
/r/seduction20/08/21 04:48 PM
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There’s subtle nuances in yo it behavior that could be affecting how she responds to you. Also, woman have different personalities & different times, sometimes there logical mind might be more prevalent, other times she might be feeling more emotional. I would need to hear more details in order to give specific advice for the situation but, generally you should assume that she’s attracted to you & continue to move things forward while remaining emotionally Non reactive to her pulling back. Yet m…
/r/seduction20/08/21 04:43 PM
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A powerful narrative and a strong wide array of emotions
/r/seduction18/08/21 11:01 PM
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There’s a buncha things I can point out. It’d be a whole essay. If you wanna hop on a call I’ll give you some advice
/r/seduction16/08/21 10:07 PM
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It’s rare that people go to bars and clubs to game too. And there’s nothing inherently creepy about talking to girls during the day
/r/seduction15/08/21 10:07 PM
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Join my new Facebook group. I’m doing some fun stuff there, infield, Formal game study etc https://www.facebook.com/groups/357261655856195/?ref=share
/r/seduction15/08/21 09:26 PM
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The thing about meeting woman, is you can make it very simple and primal, or you can make it extremely complex, spiritual, deep, etc. It’s really up to you
/r/seduction15/08/21 03:07 PM
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We even have guys that follow us around and ‘watch us’ but they don’t actually approach lmfao
/r/seduction15/08/21 03:05 PM
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Me and my friend Bodhi Game 7 days a week in San Diego for the past few years with hardly any breaks Literally no one is down to go out with us. It’s crazy Like we have a small handful of guys that go out sometimes But no one that puts consistent work in
/r/seduction15/08/21 03:05 PM
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It’s super rare that guys actually go out and game. Exceptionally rare. I hardly ever see it.
/r/seduction15/08/21 02:10 AM
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Hey, There is likely something subtle that you aren’t aware of that caused her to act this way. On a positive note you ARE making progress, you have to go through these types of experiences in order to get better with woman. As for it being rare to meet people like her, It doesn’t have to be, You can meet woman whenever you want. I’m doing free calls right now, where myself and my team members will speak to you one on one & address your sticking points/ give you practical action steps to help yo…
/r/seduction14/08/21 06:24 PM
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Stay in touch
/r/seduction14/08/21 05:15 PM
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https://www.facebook.com/groups/357261655856195/?ref=share
/r/seduction14/08/21 05:15 PM
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Mainly cali. Highest volume. But we do road trips & go out all over the country. Montana, New York, Washington, etc
/r/seduction14/08/21 05:15 PM
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But ya we basically just seed the pull, “SCHOOL BUS ADVENTURE FIELD TRIP” And all the girls want to go. Well a lot of them anyway
/r/seduction14/08/21 05:09 PM
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And sometimes we go to the girls houses
/r/seduction14/08/21 05:08 PM
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No we don’t have houses we live in our busses. Sleep with the girls in the bus
/r/seduction14/08/21 05:05 PM
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Awesome!
/r/seduction14/08/21 04:35 PM
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Basically ya, we do daygame all day, then invite girls to go out at night. That way when we get to the venues, we already have pre established value. It’s highly effective, cuz if you get burnt out from approaching you can just link up with the girls from the field trip/ from earlier in the day. We focus a lot on beach game. Bodhi is an expert at approaching girls on the beach. I’ve seen him start massaging their ass within like 5 mins of approaching them while they are laying on their towel. No…
/r/seduction14/08/21 04:26 PM
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Basically to sum it up, We have these epic school busses that are Electric blue on the outside & cozy log cabins on the inside. We go to popular beach areas in California & approach all day, going on instant dates with the girls, freestyle serenading them, singing to them, and just generally focusing on having a shit load of fun. Which is pretty easy because we’ve worked on our synchronized dynamic together for so long, that we are hilarious. (We spend all our time together, some people think we…
/r/seduction14/08/21 04:21 PM
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I’ve been approaching almost everyday for 8 years. And Bodhi for over 10 years
/r/seduction14/08/21 04:11 PM
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Lol I’m unsure of our ‘lay counts’ We don’t count. But we’ve dedicated our lives to this. & we practice 7 days a week. We’ve set it up in a way where it’s easily repeatable. And it’s gets better and better. Hope that answers your question.
/r/seduction14/08/21 04:10 PM
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https://www.facebook.com/groups/357261655856195/?ref=share
/r/seduction14/08/21 04:03 PM
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Join my Facebook group I would love to share insight with you & talk to you not only about how to improve your life in terms of success with girls. But how to free your mind from ‘stories’ that you are telling yourself. Stories that: It’s hard to meet girls because of covid, I missed out on my college experience, This is your life man. It’s perfect the way it is. It’s all in the divine alignment. Trust in the process and the greater good. You are blessed
/r/seduction14/08/21 04:03 PM
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I never even went to college, hell I dropped out of high school half way through freshmen year? Why? Because I felt so lonely and isolated & out of place that I was completely miserable. You’re not missing out on anything. Social conditioning is literally brainwashing you into feeling like you’re missing out on something when in fact your very existence is a miracle. You might be lonely just like I was, but you have the choice right now, to live an epic life. COVID DOES NOT STOP YOU FROM MEETING…
/r/seduction14/08/21 04:00 PM
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Hi, glad I saw your post! Myself, and my good friend Bodhi live in VAN/ School bus conversions. We travel all around America, focusing on dating/ social mastery full time. We work remotely & would love to link up/ go out together. Join our Facebook group We share content about: approaching woman, going on dates, filming our interactions, breaking them down, and doing fun challenges/ sharing insights. https://www.facebook.com/groups/357261655856195/?ref=share
/r/seduction14/08/21 03:54 PM
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Join my Facebook Group. Me and my friends live in school bus conversions and spend all our time traveling around, approaching woman, going on dates, filming our interactions, breaking them down, and doing fun challenges/ sharing insights. https://www.facebook.com/groups/357261655856195/?ref=share
/r/seduction14/08/21 03:44 PM
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What she means is she wants someone who’s real, authentic, willing to take risks, and not ashamed of his desires as a man. Simple Also not nice because he feels like he has to, but because it’s genuine. It’s not about whether you’re nice, or a dick, it’s about the place it’s coming from
/r/seduction14/08/21 03:40 PM
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Ps. Hope you find cool wings in the Netherlands I hope I can go there someday lol
/r/seduction14/08/21 03:39 PM
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Hey I live in California Me and my friends live in school busses and travel around approaching woman all across America Join my Facebook group. We talk about socializing, post infield footage, and do challenges! https://www.facebook.com/groups/357261655856195/?ref=share
/r/seduction14/08/21 03:39 PM
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Excellent, it’s important to celebrate small wins! So many guys get frustrated because they aren’t ‘kissing’ girls or ‘sleeping with them’ They don’t realize they are improving because their measure of success is too unrealistic. You celebrating this win, is huge! This means you’re getting better, also you’re aware of your sticking point (not being able to effectively show interest) The fact that you said, “I hope we run into each other more often” is a huge step in the right direction! Focus on…
/r/seduction14/08/21 02:27 AM
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My friend Bodhi and myself would approach at San Diego State University 4-5 days a week. We would approach 4-6 hours per day & never really had an issue because of the sheer volume of students there. There was ALWAYS a new girl to approach. With smaller schools this might not be the case. Only two or three times did girls respond with, “you do this with all the girls here” and even then it wasn’t an issue. With smaller schools it might be different
/r/seduction13/08/21 10:39 PM
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Also play around with introducing girls to other girls, or even introducing girls to guys. This is good practice, and will make you come off as a social butterfly that has connections. The more people you know around campus the better, if you are very personable and authentic with people they will appreciate it. Also don’t be afraid to make your intentions clear. If you’re the type of guy that likes to sleep with hot girls. Don’t hide it. Casually move things forward as often as you can. Ask gir…
/r/seduction13/08/21 08:44 PM
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Meeting girls in college is as simple as speaking with them often, Running around approaching can quickly give you a poor reputation. Reputation is important in this setting because these girls will be seeing you over and over again. Say hello to girls in your classes, and by all means approach girls on campus, but do it in a way that’s casual, ( you want to be the guy that socializes with everyone, so from an outside perspective it looks like you ‘know everyone’.) Something key to focus on is r…
/r/seduction13/08/21 08:39 PM
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It’s only an issue if you make it one. Picking up girls is usually messy, not super smooth. Your success will largely depend on your response to the elements of randomness in a giving interaction.
/r/seduction13/08/21 08:33 PM
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You may not have gotten a ‘kiss close’ or dates, but you are slowly getting better. If your measure of success is whether or not you kiss a girl, that may be an impractical measure for your current skill set. Start small. You’ve been getting numbers? That’s good! Trust in the process. You are getting better. Sometimes it’s just a subtle tweak you need to make in your vibe, or a simple outer game fix that you haven’t implemented yet. My friend Bodhi used to approach thousands of woman, not exagge…
/r/seduction13/08/21 02:44 PM
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Yes, it’s likely that she will subtly feel that you have some need that she cannot fulfill Therefore she’s turned off It’s kinda weird when people want something from you, but you have no power to give it to them.
/r/seduction12/08/21 07:52 PM
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It’s a paradox, because typically when i have a strong outcome dependence I get better results than when I’m feeling apathetic
/r/seduction12/08/21 04:45 PM
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I agree, that being outcome focused can inhibit this however, if your ‘outcome’ or let us say ‘goal’ is incredibly transparent, straightforward, and good hearted, then the girl will typically not respond negatively. For example, my goal could be to have a romantic relationship with the girl because I find her beautiful & attractive. I have an outcome in mind, but my energy is good hearted, straightforward, transparent, so typically the girl will feel this & appreciate it. Regardless of whether m…
/r/seduction12/08/21 04:40 PM
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Typically the girl won’t respond harshly if you come off as very ‘authentic’ when you approach. It’s exceptionally rare that a girl will be rude & bitter unless she senses some kind of in-congruency/ inauthenticity.
/r/seduction12/08/21 04:19 PM
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Thanks, it’s a lot of fun! Just trying to see how I can be more of service to others!
/r/seduction11/08/21 07:30 PM
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Farmers markets are an amazing place to meet woman. Quality ones, Also the beach is a fantastic place, because they are typically not busy. In fact a lot of girls at the beach are bored. Just enjoying the waves
/r/seduction11/08/21 07:11 PM
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Personally if I was 25 & she was 16 that’s perfect So you’re golden
/r/seduction10/08/21 01:05 AM
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