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how exactly are wait staff chuds cockblocking a grown man in the top 1% of fitness?
/r/seduction07/07/26 01:22 PM
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read the post again
/r/seduction07/07/26 05:09 AM
1

lmao used to it here that's why i left
/r/seduction30/06/26 11:40 AM
1

Of course I'll defend my process because I know it works. Assuming models and socialites won't get sexual quickly is beginner thinking. Women are women. Sometimes sex is hot and and spontaneous, not always in a clean bed after a third date where you paid $200 for dinner. Again, you should know this since you have so much experience. Have a good one
/r/seduction29/06/26 07:39 PM
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Thank you, is there anything specific on my recent posts that I can fix? Not sure which rule is being violated
/r/seduction29/06/26 06:41 PM
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Already tried no bold text. They get blocked instantly so it's not that. Variance in text is engaging, you just don't like it and that's fine. Don't insult my work if you're gonna get offended at how I respond
/r/seduction29/06/26 06:02 PM
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whatever you say. let me know if you come up with anything helpful, otherwise have a good one
/r/seduction29/06/26 05:54 PM
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Helps people skim. Didn't get top posts here without knowing what I'm doing
/r/seduction29/06/26 05:52 PM
-6

What are you trying to achieve with this post? Are you trying to get these random women to treat you better?
/r/seduction29/06/26 05:23 PM
1

Yeah decided you didn't deserve to be talked down to even though you were attacking my character. I'd love to see how you help people, feel free to link it here or address some of the points I made in my response. Not sure why you skipped over those. Otherwise have a good one
/r/seduction29/06/26 05:16 PM
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lmaoo no response for all those facts God bless brother
/r/seduction29/06/26 05:06 PM
80

Soft rejection, go find one that will say yes the first time and hang out with you 1 on 1. If she liked you she wouldn't risk fucking this up
/r/seduction29/06/26 04:58 PM
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lmao i just saw a post like that bro. Recycling the same bs over and over
/r/seduction29/06/26 04:46 PM
0

sounds like a gap in the market someone could take advantage of
/r/seduction29/06/26 04:45 PM
1

yeah not a good look at all
/r/seduction29/06/26 04:44 PM
0

Yeah, i can imagine most guys here aren't having their way. Jealousy is a bitch
/r/seduction29/06/26 04:42 PM
1

i got you shoot me a dm
/r/seduction29/06/26 04:41 PM
2

"how do i talk to a girl" 😂
/r/seduction29/06/26 04:40 PM
0

Lmao I was blacklisted way before I had any type of offer. My posts are strictly for advice and only link to other posts with the same standard, no mention of any service. You have to go out of your way and click my bio for that. Tons of guys in my dms asking for help and I've been talking with them for weeks. Only so much time in the day to give out free advice on specific situations. Clearly I'm wanted, check comments on my posts asking for more. Haven't seen you post anything till now. This i…
/r/seduction29/06/26 04:37 PM
1

would you be comfortable sharing your dating profile
/r/seduction29/06/26 03:55 PM
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Think i might just be blacklisted at this point. Had a couple huge posts with 500 and 1000 shares. After that they locked me down. Felt good to help guys learn, at least I know i'm not a terrible writer lmao
/r/seduction29/06/26 01:05 AM
3

Thanks for educating me on that topic. I've experimented with leaving the word consent out of the post, still nothing. I'll likely focus on posting in another sub or making my own
/r/seduction28/06/26 11:17 PM
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The posts were based on both explicit and implied consent. To me that's the woman verbally or nonverbally allowing or reciprocating whatever you're doing
/r/seduction28/06/26 08:39 PM
-5

I'm #1 for a reason and there are different topics. Clearly it's helping people and they're literally asking me to post. I don't see you helping anyone you brag about paying your own bills and sell pics.
/r/seduction28/06/26 05:02 PM
3

I'll keep trying, I think it might be a length problem so I'll try to condense them or split them up
/r/seduction28/06/26 05:01 PM
1

Try reading the post again. I'd rather give her my number and move on. Some women want to spend more time before chilling with a new person alone. New women won't initiate sex very often. Yes, you need to initiate touch in some way. Working on a post about escalation for y'all. Sound like you might need it
/r/seduction25/06/26 12:15 PM
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Thanks for responding. Feel free to explain how inviting a woman to spend time with you is rapey
/r/seduction25/06/26 12:08 PM
1

closer is better. 25 minutes is a lot i'd be trying to get her to a bathroom or car instead
/r/seduction24/06/26 06:29 PM
3

i straight up call them the next soonest evening after we meet. calling is stronger than texting, she can't talk on the phone with 12 guys at the same time
/r/seduction24/06/26 06:00 PM
7

Attention from 3/10s won't hit the same when it comes to pre selection. Women know when other women are chopped. Why are you banging 3s? As for the 2nd woman, you choose where your attention goes. Maybe you can talk to her and let her know that you might get a number or two while y'all are out.
/r/seduction23/06/26 05:04 AM
2

They already see men as the bad guy anyway, I figure I have nothing more to lose
/r/seduction23/06/26 01:07 AM
2

"walk with me to my car" "come here" "let's go to mine"
/r/seduction21/06/26 06:53 PM
2

i've approached so much that i forget rejections by the next day. i've approached the same girl twice in a week because i forgot her face. feel free dm me if you want to talk about it more bro
/r/seduction20/06/26 05:52 PM
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Sounds like you need specific help with conversation. I know what I want so it flows easily. Usually along the lines of asking what she's doing here or who she's with. How long she's staying, does she live close etc. If she gives me the cold shoulder I move on. If you want more help feel free to DM me
/r/seduction20/06/26 05:28 PM
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well said
/r/seduction20/06/26 02:43 PM
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yup
/r/seduction20/06/26 02:42 PM
1

some are open to a change of plans if you're the right one for them at the moment
/r/seduction20/06/26 02:42 PM
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bonus points if it's private
/r/seduction20/06/26 02:41 PM
2

she did you a favor, onto the next
/r/seduction20/06/26 01:45 PM
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i've met very few women that preferred getting freaky with people watching. i don't shame women for being attracted to me. seems you missed the point of the post
/r/seduction20/06/26 11:29 AM
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depends what type of time she's on. You have to talk to her and figure out if she's down. Then you move her. My opener is "yo"
/r/seduction20/06/26 11:21 AM
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nothing is guaranteed. that's how this works
/r/seduction20/06/26 10:21 AM
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if you prefer to only have sex completely naked in your bed then do that
/r/seduction20/06/26 09:19 AM
3

making them laugh is ok as long as you're being true to who you are. what moves the needle is testing them with hard questions and statements. Compliance is everything
/r/seduction20/06/26 09:13 AM
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I hated almost every sentence here. Not a fan of your way of thinking. A woman isn't indecent for being intimate with you quickly. Maybe she just likes you. I've gotten girls to come over after meeting them on a walk in broad daylight. She might make you wait 6 months but do everything with me the same night or vice versa. Please update your philosophy
/r/seduction20/06/26 12:29 AM
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can you link the russian guy's content
/r/seduction19/06/26 11:27 PM
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all the answers I've seen are pretty bad. you don't need to bring her home you just need to be alone together somewhere. You don't need 8 hours with her either. Have you initiated a makeout in the backseat of your car? That can be escalated into more
/r/seduction19/06/26 11:25 PM
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you did what you were supposed to do, she declined. nothing more to be done
/r/seduction19/06/26 11:11 PM
6

Thanks for commenting. This post isn't about slow dating, it's about same day pulls. Some girls are ready immediately just like how some take time. You should know this. This method works on the ones that are ready. You don't lose points for being a man and going for what you want. I know it's hard to believe if you've never experienced it for yourself. Try it and let me know if you have questions. Seems like this is an area you can improve on.
/r/seduction19/06/26 04:43 PM
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get her alone so she can be her slutty self
/r/seduction19/06/26 01:15 PM
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just gotta be ok with taking that risk. I'll make a post
/r/seduction19/06/26 12:38 PM
1

u ain't never lied
/r/seduction19/06/26 12:37 PM
49

then keep smashing her
/r/seduction19/06/26 12:34 PM
7

get head or something then idgaf
/r/seduction19/06/26 12:33 PM
1

stopped reading at the 2nd line. cut contact or suffer the consequences
/r/seduction19/06/26 04:54 AM
17

why do that when i can get it for free
/r/seduction19/06/26 03:26 AM
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i got u g
/r/seduction19/06/26 01:15 AM
1

up to you. i'd do no less than 6 months, a year is preferred
/r/seduction18/06/26 06:15 PM
2

who paid for the drink and dinner dates?
/r/seduction18/06/26 04:03 PM
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i usually agree and amplify. silly remarks get silly responses
/r/seduction16/06/26 04:09 PM
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nah
/r/seduction16/06/26 04:08 PM
3

start with places you like and expand from there. No chicks at your bjj class? Maybe work in a physical activity with a more favorable ratio. Yoga, run club, etc
/r/seduction15/06/26 03:21 PM
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i can make that next if u like
/r/seduction15/06/26 05:44 AM
1

getting a bunch of uninterested numbers is not optimal to me
/r/seduction13/06/26 08:34 PM
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what are you insecure about and is it something you can change
/r/seduction12/06/26 08:51 PM
2

bricks your phone for a time that you can set so these guys can't check the weather and calculator app during the function
/r/seduction12/06/26 07:16 PM
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are you having trouble with a certain part of it
/r/seduction12/06/26 07:12 PM
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my bad for misundersanding
/r/seduction12/06/26 01:51 PM
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thank you
/r/seduction12/06/26 12:46 PM
1

it can apply anywhere as long as she has a phone on her that she can use
/r/seduction12/06/26 12:44 PM
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glad you got something out of it sir
/r/seduction12/06/26 12:43 PM
1

You assume the entire reaction isn't chill and relaxed because you can't fathom this working. Go try it
/r/seduction12/06/26 12:41 PM
1

Go try it and you'll see that a feminine woman that likes you will follow your simple instructions
/r/seduction12/06/26 12:29 PM
0

"u look good" "i love when u send me pics it gets me hard" "come over" always find a way to reinforce positive behavior
/r/seduction11/06/26 08:13 PM
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if you're a woman what do u think of this
/r/seduction11/06/26 06:50 PM
1

Why are compliments the only way you open? Do you think you have to flatter her to get her to give you a chance? You're giving out free validation. Why not ask what she's up to and let it flow from there
/r/seduction11/06/26 06:05 PM
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Thanks bro, most guys are so married to their methods that foreign ideas feel like a threat. They lash out instead of testing it out for themselves. I'm always adapting and finding ways to improve
/r/seduction11/06/26 02:10 PM
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The original post has all the explanation you need man idk what else you want besides receipts. I still don't see a dm from you or a field report proving me wrong. Hopefully I'll hear from you soon
/r/seduction11/06/26 01:52 PM
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Plenty more saying it's gold, ppl dming me too. I have the top post in the sub after a week or so while you've been in here for at least 2 years. I know what I'm talking about. If she still thinks I'm low effort after walking up to her and starting a conversation that's her loss. It comes down to preference, this works for me and my lifestyle. Go try it and let me know how it works for you. I have plenty of results, dm me if you want receipts
/r/seduction11/06/26 01:47 PM
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lmaoo reddit pua theory bros kill me have a blessed one brother 🙏
/r/seduction11/06/26 12:49 PM
1

Yeah made a typo on the first one. Masculinity is moving to the beat of your own drum. Sending one text isn't a monumental task for her bruv especially after you expressed interest lmaoo. Again, stop yapping, go try it with a good sample size and prove me wrong. Be masculine and take action. Seems like we agree on the rest of the process to set the meet but you really hate the idea of having a take it or leave it attitude by giving your info out.
/r/seduction11/06/26 12:37 PM
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Thanks bro. Most dudes that got offended by this post are stuck in the old ways, they'd hate to admit that they could be better. I'm always trying new stuff out and improving. This has been working great for me so far
/r/seduction11/06/26 12:29 PM
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Never took her number. Things only start if she's truly interested. Saving time is always a win for me. If you don't value your time we're just different and that's ok. I approached, told her what I wanted, and let her make a decision. That's simple and takes vulnerability, the opposite of ego soothing. Get off reddit and try it out yourself before saying it won't work. If you tried and found it too complicated feel free to go back to what was working for you before.
/r/seduction11/06/26 12:19 PM
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Thanks for commenting. I'd love to know how giving a woman directions isn't masculine. Seems like you missed the point of what this method does. Try reading it one more time or asking a question if you're confused. All the best brother 🙏
/r/seduction11/06/26 12:10 PM
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I was looking for actionable advice not just theory. I don't wait for women to come up and talk to me or set up meets. In my experience even if they like me they still want me to at least get the ball rolling. No tricks here, just want to see guys win
/r/seduction11/06/26 11:59 AM
1

"me" "me tf" "take a guess"
/r/seduction11/06/26 11:56 AM
1

Taking numbers gets you more volume so you learn faster. We never stop learning but at this point I have the fundamentals down so I filter for the best women and focus on them. I make less mistakes so I retain them better. A beginner might take 100 numbers and get intimate with 2. Out of 10 girls that text me I'll probably get intimate with 5
/r/seduction11/06/26 06:40 AM
1

my guess is he's either a bot or a loser with multiple accounts to downvote my responses and upvote his own which is far worse lmaoo
/r/seduction11/06/26 06:34 AM
2

thanks for commenting. Do you have a better way?
/r/seduction11/06/26 06:30 AM
1

in my experience they either text that day or not at all, and they usually say, "Hey it's ____". Should be easy to remember
/r/seduction11/06/26 06:30 AM
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Glad you got something out of it. In my personal experience, girls that had at least a little bit of interest from the start were always better than the ones I had to chase aggressively. PUA guys hate this because they feel the need to always have control of the pursuit. I prefer a dance rather than a chase
/r/seduction11/06/26 04:54 AM
1

That's true. None of us are special, but we're all unique. What exactly were you hoping to add in respect to the post?
/r/seduction10/06/26 08:44 PM
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thank you
/r/seduction10/06/26 08:16 PM
3

wise man
/r/seduction10/06/26 08:15 PM
1

this
/r/seduction10/06/26 08:14 PM
2

Thanks for commenting. I never took her number. Feel free to explain how how I did. And explain how walking up to her, saying what you want, and telling her to shoot you a text so you can meet again is complicated and ego soothing. By the looks of your comments it seems like you have some trouble escalating. I'll make a post on that maybe I can help.
/r/seduction10/06/26 06:54 PM
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Not quite. Again, these things have nuance. A lot of these guys ask for success rate to compare themselves. It's more like asking your hunting success rate. Do fish count? What about animals that were already hurt or sick? Are we counting traps or just active kills? He asked for data: "getting laid". Giving him only lays would be skewed data. You can't have accurate data without specifics. That's how my brain works and it gets me success in all areas of my life. If you don't like it that's ok. H…
/r/seduction10/06/26 06:50 PM
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nah these things have nuance. life isn't black and white and neither are these hoes.
/r/seduction10/06/26 06:39 PM
2

I'm not sure which part of this you think is marketing. Are you uncomfortable with the idea of ending the interaction and giving her your number? You're right, you can't trust a woman's words. You can only trust her actions. Whether she texts me or not shows her hand. If she's excited she'll text, if she's bored she won't
/r/seduction10/06/26 06:32 PM
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not enough guys get it
/r/seduction10/06/26 06:28 PM
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The way you try to attack me instead of providing a better alternative is telling. Even a woman with a little interest has a decent chance of texting you if you tell her to. She doesn't need to be a deity to text, "hi it's Jessica" lmaoo. Your comments are still hidden. How about this, free to dm me. We can exchange receipts and results. I've got plenty but I'm not sure if you can put your money where your mouth is. If you can't do this I'll end the discussion here. Have a blessed one brother an…
/r/seduction10/06/26 06:04 PM
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😘
/r/seduction10/06/26 05:54 PM
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Yeah i knew what i was doing with the title. That's the optimal situation, but this is the next best thing
/r/seduction10/06/26 05:53 PM
1

Thanks for commenting. Feel free to explain how walking directly up to a woman, talking for a bit, then giving your info to hang later if you can't insta pull is avoiding looking at her and paying attention.
/r/seduction10/06/26 05:52 PM
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That's right, I never took her number down. That was the point of the post
/r/seduction10/06/26 05:47 PM
-4

i never took down her number
/r/seduction10/06/26 05:45 PM
3

lmaoo bro i feel u on this, i just text then call once she sends the first response
/r/seduction10/06/26 05:43 PM
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Hot women are women. Sending one text isn't a ton of "work" bruv. You showed balls by going up to her and inviting her to hang. If you couldn't insta pull but she liked you then she'll text. Now you're the one guy that showed up and acted differently. Despite her beauty, you could take her or leave her. Feel free to go outside and actually try this first instead of debating theory on reddit
/r/seduction10/06/26 05:42 PM
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i get far more success calling for first plans after getting the number. she can't talk on the phone with 20 guys at the same time and it takes balls. i also have a deep ass voice and that doesn't hurt
/r/seduction10/06/26 05:24 PM
2

i get up early
/r/seduction10/06/26 05:23 PM
1

Sounds like you just prefer to chase hard. I'm not sure how many times you've experienced true desire and interest because of how you talk and your hidden comments. I present myself to the woman and let her choose whether she wants to follow my lead or not. That's not playing it safe, that's true vulnerability, that's putting your ego on the line. Sometimes I just don't do it for her and that's ok. They can't all be "flipped". That's PUA propaganda meant to sell you courses and bootcamps. If you…
/r/seduction10/06/26 05:21 PM
2

i'd call the next evening and see what she's up to, find out if she's down to meet again and do something chill. Voice notes are only backups in case she doesn't pick up. If she ignores the call and voice note i never contact her again
/r/seduction10/06/26 04:52 PM
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this is too autistic even for me lmaoo
/r/seduction10/06/26 04:39 PM
2

You asked for a simple answer to a complicated question bro. Didn't avoid your question I asked for clarification then answered u directly the best i could. What was your reasoning behind asking?
/r/seduction10/06/26 04:36 PM
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Thanks for commenting. Feel free to explain how approaching a woman and telling her what you want means being lazy, playing it safe, and having a fragile ego
/r/seduction10/06/26 04:33 PM
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Your question shows me where you're at mentally. Are you asking how often an approach leads to penetrative sex only? Does her giving me head in my car then later admitting she has a boyfriend count? What about handjobs while she makes out with me? I'm not counting, if I had to guess I'd say about 1 in 15-20 cold approaches leads to something I like. Be careful about comparing your results to others. We're two different men with different bodies, attributes, risk tolerance, locations, tastes in w…
/r/seduction10/06/26 04:29 PM
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Yeah we're definitely different. Marriage in America isn't a wise move for men. Any man that would get married these days doesn't even live in the same world as me
/r/seduction10/06/26 04:25 PM
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I feel you, I always scope the scene and approach who I want directly so it's rare she comes up to me first. I'm never afraid to get the ball rolling
/r/seduction10/06/26 04:09 PM
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yeah i wouldn't have that issue i never do nightlife. But taking your # sending a text takes less than a minute even if ur tipsy so I don't see much of a difference. I'd be more focused on instant pulling at a party and using the vibe of the setting to my advantage.
/r/seduction10/06/26 04:07 PM
1

what do you dislike about the vibe specifically
/r/seduction10/06/26 04:05 PM
6

I don't keep count. My life is too good to worry about whether a stranger is going to text me or not. Most don't make it to the point of me giving my number. If she says maybe or anything besides taking her phone out I'm ready to end the conversation. Once she's in my phone chances of us meeting again go way up, and they rise higher with each filter. Are you telling them to text you and making it clear that you're exchanging info to hang out?
/r/seduction10/06/26 03:58 PM
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i never let someone show me they don't want me more than once
/r/seduction10/06/26 03:56 PM
3

It's a more advanced way of doing things for sure and it's extremely uncomfortable if you lack an abundance mentality. You'll feel like you're throwing leads away by not having her number in your phone immediately
/r/seduction10/06/26 03:46 PM
2

Women can see you as a one night thing too, especially if you met in a club. You could try calling instead of texting, leaving a voice note saying to hit you back if they don't pick up. As long as you put your best foot forward the rest is out of your hands
/r/seduction10/06/26 03:43 PM
-3

high sex drive and i love women, guess we're just different
/r/seduction10/06/26 03:41 PM
-37

got a 9-5, a business, landlord duty, a top tier physique, and an active social life so close enough
/r/seduction10/06/26 03:27 PM
1

vibes have been good since we met last thursday, she called me asking what i was doing. went to her place as we were taking a walk she asked if i was hungry
/r/seduction10/06/26 03:19 PM
2

how
/r/seduction10/06/26 03:13 PM
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I'm too busy to not have a system that gets me consistent results. Being "in the mix" is not actionable info. I'm proposing something that can help guys get what they want. Feel free to explain if you think this isn't a good setup
/r/seduction10/06/26 03:12 PM
21

she's not taking 100% initiative, she's following my lead. I walked up to her and got the ball rolling, I gave her clear directions for what she needs to do if she wants this to continue. If she can't send a simple text after I gave her permission she's worthless to me.
/r/seduction10/06/26 02:57 PM
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i don't accept instagram so there will be no following of any kind unless they ask for ig AFTER they text me. I've never had a woman agree to hanging out, text me first, pick up when i call, give a favorable response to my flirting on the call, set up plans, then flake and not give an apology with a counter date. Every step is a filter, that's how I designed this method
/r/seduction10/06/26 02:53 PM
2

she bought me dinner then gave me top in my car
/r/seduction10/06/26 02:42 PM
3

you live in the same complex, you could have pulled to your place or a bathroom, anywhere private. an arm around her doesn't mean much. you settled for dm when there was a non zero chance of getting intimate that night
/r/seduction09/06/26 11:12 PM
1

remember that feeling of regret next time you're about to let fear control you
/r/seduction09/06/26 09:33 PM
2

I'm confused. Did you like either of them? You didn't make any moves. If I was one of them I'd assume you didn't like me either
/r/seduction09/06/26 08:46 PM
1

success rate for what? be specific
/r/seduction09/06/26 07:06 PM
1

Again, people are different. YOU might have to date women for weeks and months before getting intimate. I've been doing this long enough that it feels natural. Met a girl last Thursday and she spent the weekend at my place, I didn't spend a dime on her and she bought me stuff. There's other realities besides the one you experience. The fact that your name is E-pimp and you're not getting this is concerning
/r/seduction08/06/26 01:59 PM
1

Good for you man but people are different. Gets complicated for me. Does head count or only piv? Is the baddie that sticks around for 8 months and treats me like a king weighted the same as the 6 on that slow night when I was 21? Now I'd have to go back years trying to recall every encounter. Try asking Lebron how many games he won. He doesn't know, he just loves playing.
/r/seduction08/06/26 03:04 AM
2

It's almost never creepy if she likes you. Take more risks. Tease her. "Accidentally" take what she says in a sexual way. The last first date I went on the first question asked me was what color underwear I had on. I said I didn't have any and she said me either. The tone was set immediately. Sometimes girls will link up simply because they have nothing better to do especially if your dates are extravagant. You're already not fucking her so why play it overly safe. Worst case scenario you reveal…
/r/seduction08/06/26 02:51 AM
1

Don't wait for signals. If you see someone you like go talk to them. Maybe you wait a few seconds to see if the guy she's with is her man. Or maybe you just walk up and ask her directly is she's with him. You don't need permission to be a man.
/r/seduction08/06/26 02:34 AM
0

What are you trying to achieve by getting her to come over? You could get head in your car or hers, fuck in a bathroom, anywhere that's private really. What do you want?
/r/seduction08/06/26 02:31 AM
1

Hooked up with the same one again, she took me to a high end grocery store in town and bought me some special water. I cooked bison steak for us and we read the Bible.
/r/seduction08/06/26 02:28 AM
1

Update: Hooked up with one of the numbers that texted me. Picked her up from her place downtown, we walked around my side of town for a bit, I grabbed food and we headed to my place. She told me she wanted to wait till marriage but still ended up giving me head. She just texted me thanking me for last night. $0 spent on her directly. We met Thursday and hung out Saturday after one short phone call.
/r/seduction07/06/26 03:03 PM
1

start dancing with her or pull her to the dance floor, get her to come with you to a quieter corner to talk, see what her plans are for the night, tell her to come with you instead
/r/seduction06/06/26 05:41 AM
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sounds like ur not good at moving things forward, try isolating them in a car or bathroom if ur at a party. she's not going to seduce herself for you
/r/seduction06/06/26 05:29 AM
10

maybe means no
/r/seduction06/06/26 05:16 AM
9

i'm not counting
/r/seduction06/06/26 04:13 AM
2

White is just one example, I'm not gonna type out every way women use trauma to justify rejection. My type isn't at the club at 3am and neither am I, so I get it how I can. Plenty of hotties at daytime and evening events
/r/seduction06/06/26 04:11 AM
1

women are women, don't overthink it
/r/seduction05/06/26 11:59 PM
2

I'd make fun of her for getting dating advice from tiktok
/r/seduction05/06/26 11:55 PM
1

is your goal to kiss and flirt with women? I'm confused as to what you're trying to achieve
/r/seduction05/06/26 11:54 PM
-1

i know exactly what kind of person u are. God bless 🙏
/r/seduction05/06/26 11:49 PM
1

Pull her to the side and act like you're asking a question about work, say you two should hang sometime. You'll get your answer immediately. It's simple
/r/seduction05/06/26 11:48 PM
0

Update: the hallway neighbor has a butch lesbian gf lmao. I made the 3 calls a little early because the NBA finals are on. No pick ups, 2 immediate texts back. One is out of town, the other is trying to figure out where to watch the game tonight. Said she'll let me know if plans with her friend fall through
/r/seduction05/06/26 11:44 PM
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sorry if this made you feel bad about yourself.
/r/seduction05/06/26 11:42 PM
1

this is your show, what do you like? I take them on walks in my scenic neighborhood or we sit down at a cafe. Most of the time I don't spend a dollar on the first date. Sometimes they even buy me stuff.
/r/seduction05/06/26 11:36 PM
1

I find that plans set through phone calls have a lower flake rate. I confirm that I'll be there around 7 hours out from the meet on the day of. If she flakes and doesn't offer an alternative date I'm gone. I never plan dinner first meet, if the night flows in that direction then fine.
/r/seduction05/06/26 11:16 PM
10

Most of the best women I've met were in person. Dating apps have bottom of the barrel women. Instagram connections are shallow
/r/seduction05/06/26 08:57 PM
4

Who told you setting up a meeting with a woman was too aggressive? Tell her to come over
/r/seduction05/06/26 04:22 PM
5

OP is a porn account
/r/seduction05/06/26 03:46 PM
1

spot on
/r/seduction05/06/26 03:48 AM
1

i was playing with transformers in the 2000s ur an og. larpers man lmaoo
/r/seduction04/06/26 08:24 PM
1

Malls aren't the best, lots of underaged and families, but just chat them up like you would anywhere else
/r/seduction04/06/26 06:48 PM
1

If the gym is truly the only hotspot then that's where I'd approach. I've spent months approaching at a gym before cancelling my membership to use the one I have at home. Wasn't getting any bites, but no one ever complained about me to my face either. If you're so picky then you shouldn't see many you like even at the gym, correct? Let's say you only did one approach per session and you go 3x a week. That's 3 more than what I assume to be your zero, correct me if I'm wrong. Casually asking one g…
/r/seduction04/06/26 06:11 PM
1

sounds decent to me. I'd find out where tourists go, have a good dating app profile to catch inbound ones if I really wanted to optimize. There's got to be some type of community events going on. Feel free to dm me if you want to keep things private
/r/seduction04/06/26 05:52 PM
1

what city are you in
/r/seduction04/06/26 05:29 PM
1

i'm in San Antonio which is known for fat women and I'm very picky on top of that. I almost never do night life. It's 12:25. I went on one walk and I'm already at 3 for the day. 0/3 so far. There's very seldom nothing that can be done to improve your situation. You're telling me you've tried every single hot spot in your town and still have nothing near NYC where the hottest women live?
/r/seduction04/06/26 05:27 PM
3

this is true but I see way too much bs in here flying uncontested
/r/seduction04/06/26 05:22 PM
1

I live in a walkable neighborhood and attend events I enjoy when I can. Movies, art shows, run clubs. Finding events is easier if you somewhat know yourself. Even a trip to the grocery story might yield one or two
/r/seduction04/06/26 05:21 PM
2

the answer is in the text friend ask them to explain further or provide receipts
/r/seduction04/06/26 05:01 PM
4

looks like the message is spreading glad y'all are waking up
/r/seduction04/06/26 04:37 PM
1

if she's a stranger I don't respond. If she's someone I'd like to keep a cordial relationship with, a potential business partner or client, I'll say something like no worries
/r/seduction04/06/26 02:53 PM
1

Just say hi and let the conversation flow. My hi usually goes into asking what she's up to, seeing if she's free to hang right now or tonight. Giving her my number if one of us doesn't have time to hang out immediately
/r/seduction04/06/26 02:52 PM
2

3 a day in real life is a great baseline
/r/seduction04/06/26 02:49 PM
4

"Are you fertile?"
/r/seduction03/06/26 10:01 PM
1

I guess we just operate differently. If I don't see something I like I'm not approaching. She doesn't have to be the hottest, I can like the way her nose sits on her face. But if there's nothing I like I won't waste either of our time
/r/seduction03/06/26 07:09 PM
2

I cut out a lot of noise by only giving my number out. I tell them, "shoot me a text and I'll give you a call." I only give out my number if i can't pull on the spot.
/r/seduction03/06/26 07:06 PM
5

if she's showing disinterest in a rude way i couldn't care less. I don't owe her courtesy. They're usually polite so I'll end it politely
/r/seduction03/06/26 07:02 PM
1

God bless bro 🙏
/r/seduction03/06/26 06:58 PM
2

I stopped reading at calling exercising gay
/r/seduction03/06/26 06:55 PM
2

Age is what you make it. I'm 27 and 40 year olds see me as a literal child. I feel great. I run faster 5ks now than ever, and I ran D1+D2 track. If you feel like you're old and washed up then that's what you are. Women prefer men between their age and a few years older anyway. Like I said I don't do clubs. You never answered the question about what your options are outside of night life.
/r/seduction03/06/26 02:01 PM
0

Be careful about spending lots of money on this woman. I don't know who paid but you already took her on 2 dates between dinner and coffee. Go for the kiss if you want and let her reject it. Make her show her cards. She either likes you or she doesn't. She's not dumb, she knows what you want.
/r/seduction03/06/26 12:23 PM
3

Young, tall, white, jacked and not bald lmao maybe the club isn't the place for you. I almost never do night life. All my approaches are daygame or in the evening. There's more than bars and clubs out there. What do you like to do? Are there any hot spots in town where attractive people congregate?
/r/seduction03/06/26 12:20 PM
1

no lies here
/r/seduction03/06/26 12:15 PM
2

Talking to a lot of women is cool if your goal is to talk to a lot of women. Are those approaches or are you just doing that to gain favor in the crowd? My goal is to hook up and start relationships with women I find attractive so I don't spend much time with ones I don't think are at least cute. Every approach is quality because I'm picky. If we went out together you'd talk to everyone and I'd go straight for the ones I want. In my experience she either likes you or doesn't, building up a socia…
/r/seduction03/06/26 12:12 PM
2

How long have you been cold approaching and how many a week do you do
/r/seduction02/06/26 04:42 PM
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