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| 42 | What's a good response to this? | Discrimination | etzio500 | /r/MensRights | 24/08/24 07:11 AM |
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| 11 | Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men.Men who say that are just sl*t-shaming, it isn’t true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 08:00 PM |
| 8 | Feeling pretty low right nowI’m sorry that happened to you. At least it was just a sub so you probably won’t see her anytime soon. I’d hope some of the others who witnessed her comments feel the same way, maybe get their opinion? | /r/MensRights | 03/02/26 11:41 AM |
| 1 | The "male loneliness epidemic" is only used as a gotchaIt definitely exists and is a problem, guys don’t go around openly admitting they’re lonely though as it’s embarrassing/shameful and the ones that do often get less than sympathetic responses. I myself struggle with it and go to therapy for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 06:03 AM |
| 1 | This is Without a Doubt the Best Way to Attract WomenI personally found it very informative | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 05:17 AM |
| 4 | Why Men Are Walking Away from RelationshipsEmpty size | /r/MensRights | 01/09/25 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Would you have hooked up with all your past boyfriends?The only guys I’ve seen who want someone with low sexual experience are guys who themselves have low sexual experience. People tend to want someone with similar experience levels to them. Guys with high body counts don’t really care about a woman’s body count in my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 07:59 AM |
| 5 | Would you have hooked up with all your past boyfriends?My point is that not being your partner’s best sex ever shouldn’t be an issue. I’m saying that it’s unrealistic to expect that and it’s certainly not the relationship ending catastrophe you make it out to be. Unless you’re specifically seeking a virgin, chances are your partner has had greater sexual chemistry with others. Someone who is sexually secure in themselves wouldn’t take issue that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 07:16 PM |
| 10 | What Are YOUR Best Questions to Ask Women When Getting to Know ThemMaybe I’m wrong but putting them in a potentially negative state of mind seems like a bad idea. I’d ask them what brings them joy or something eliciting positive emotions. | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Would you have hooked up with all your past boyfriends?Disagree with your reasoning on men’s relationship security as being mainly sex driven. Only sexually immature/insecure guys take great issue with the fact that their partner has probably had better sex with others in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:37 PM |
| – | Sex is a need, and men are losing today because they are not needed, which is a result of the Industrial Revolution.Statistics disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 01:35 PM |
| -1 | There is a War against Male Sexuality todayThat just seems like an unavoidable aspect of human nature. People will treat those they find attractive better than those they don’t. It takes practice to learn to ignore those feelings of infatuation to try to treat them “normally”. The thing is men tend to be attracted to way more women than women are to men, and it can be confusing and overwhelming from a male perspective to constantly be trying to rein in these feelings of attraction for almost every woman you encounter and treat them the s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 02:30 PM |
| 2 | If you knew a woman/man who could never have sex, would you still marry them?Sex is incredibly important to most people (especially men). For some it’s THE most important thing. Most answers here are gonna lean towards no, they wouldn’t marry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Men, Where Have You Gone? Please Come Back.I think you meant seen as a “threat”, not “treat” | /r/MensRights | 23/06/25 04:52 AM |
| 31 | Men and women are at war and everyone is losingHaving options will always trump having no options. Of the 100s of men showing interest to women, there’s a chance that at least one of them is a good match, whereas many men tend to take what they can get even if they’re not as compatible as they’d prefer since they don’t have a choice other than staying single. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/25 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Men who believe AI “girlfriends” can replace real women should be judgedThere is a loneliness epidemic tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 07:15 AM |
| 8 | A newborn baby’s penis had to be fully amputated after a surgeon botched his circumcision.It's the parents' decision though some doctors may recommend it | /r/MensRights | 05/03/25 04:38 PM |
| 1 | had a mini heart attack bcs my accuser appeared on my dream.Could ask people on r/UnethicalLifeProTips how to get revenge | /r/MensRights | 15/12/24 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a broke woman?This | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 05:04 PM |
| 6 | A woman actively admits to raping a man.She’s made amateur porn and had them leaked, never confirmed that it was from onlyfans though | /r/MensRights | 23/11/24 06:57 PM |
| 4 | A woman actively admits to raping a man.She’s never had an onlyfans | /r/MensRights | 23/11/24 02:13 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Ran-through girls make better partnersAgree, though you’ll get flamed by slut-shamers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 07:34 AM |
| – | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?Agreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 11:50 PM |
| – | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?How does paying for escorts make one a loser? And what’s LV? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 11:36 PM |
| – | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?Why tho? Men want sex and some don’t mind paying for it and a woman is making money, win win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 11:28 PM |
| – | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?Why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 11:24 PM |
| – | You Can’t Argue your Way to Success in DatingPartly because girls were just less expressive about it than men, I know girls tend to be shamed for behaving the exact same way boys do at times especially in any sexually suggestive manner, so I'm sure that was a factor. And partly because the same way that most men are attracted to most women, as a young boy going through puberty, that's magnified to where you're attracted to any and every girl. Or even anything even remotely resembling a girl as well. However girls seemed uninterested in me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 12:15 PM |
| – | You Can’t Argue your Way to Success in DatingI suppose some are genuinely unaware and some pretend perhaps. I for one was raised in either all boys schools or mostly boys schools and I had very little interaction with women my age that I wasn’t related to until my 20s. I even somewhat believed that women didn’t get turned on or enjoy sex the way men do for many reasons. I’m sure even guys with more exposure to girls growing up have these misconceptions due to poor socialization or some other reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 11:23 AM |
| – | You Can’t Argue your Way to Success in DatingYou’re forgetting that there’s just as much conflicting narratives in media. The weird nerd getting the girl at the end of the movie for sticking to his values or whatever, the obsessed guy who was so persistent that he eventually won her over because he just wouldn’t quit, any ad that claimed dressing like this or wearing this cologne or using this psychology trick will make her fall for you. It’s quite easy to see how grown men are confused as to what women find attractive, especially since wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that when a man doesn't want to be with a girl that has a high body count he is "insecure", but when a woman doesn't like a man because he's short, it's her "preference"Idk why you’re stuck on this car analogy, people aren’t generally worried about their resale value because whoever takes issue with their “mileage” clearly isn’t the right person for them anyway. A person’s body count doesn’t make them objectively less valuable except to those who care about body count, and those that care probably have low body counts themselves anyway unless they’re a hypocrite. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/24 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that when a man doesn't want to be with a girl that has a high body count he is "insecure", but when a woman doesn't like a man because he's short, it's her "preference"Because driving is a skill and crashing is an objectively negative thing, sleeping around is neither. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/24 11:12 PM |
| -3 | Why is it that when a man doesn't want to be with a girl that has a high body count he is "insecure", but when a woman doesn't like a man because he's short, it's her "preference"I have no issue with the statistics, it's the thinking of statistics as certainties and disqualifying otherwise ideal partners for their past who have otherwise no previous instances of infidelity that I take issue with. It's the hypocrisy that men who sleep around and then express disgust when they discover the woman they've been seeing has also slept around. A healthy level of insecurity is fine and even expected in relationships, denying that it's insecurity is folly. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/24 01:42 PM |
| -9 | Why is it that when a man doesn't want to be with a girl that has a high body count he is "insecure", but when a woman doesn't like a man because he's short, it's her "preference"As someone who's slept around a lot, I've never cheated nor would I, and I'm not the only one. This idea that you can't trust someone with a high body count because you're afraid they'll cheat is textbook insecurity. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/24 01:17 PM |
| -8 | Why is it that when a man doesn't want to be with a girl that has a high body count he is "insecure", but when a woman doesn't like a man because he's short, it's her "preference"Being a bad driver isn't comparable to having an active sex life. Some women like variety and wanna experiment before choosing a guy to settle down with, same as men. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/24 01:05 PM |
| -23 | Why is it that when a man doesn't want to be with a girl that has a high body count he is "insecure", but when a woman doesn't like a man because he's short, it's her "preference"Because unless the man has a miracle growth spurt he’ll be short forever, whereas a woman’s body count is past tense and an unreliable indicator of future behavior. That said, they’re both “preferences”, both are valid. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/24 10:04 AM |
| 1 | If you found a study saying that men who cheated on their wives had on average 230% more previous sexual partners than men who did not. Would that make you more concerned about body count than you currently are?I’m sure the vast majority of men would have casual sex is they were capable of it, but most men simply can’t get sex outside of a committed relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 10:52 AM |
| 3 | What's a good response to this?I don’t see what linking a Google search proves. I could just as easily link articles showing examples of women hurting men or children. Here’s a comparison of child abuse cases in the US for 2021 showing women are more often the perpetrator than men: https://www.statista.com/statistics/418470/number-of-perpetrators-in-child-abuse-cases-in-the-us-by-sex/ | /r/MensRights | 25/08/24 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Question For Men, Which Of These Women Would You Rather Get Into A Relationship With?For real. Only bad thing is the bad mood 25% of the time but that seems somewhat normal tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I think it makes sense that a tall woman would equal a short man and vice versa, if we’re going by what’s deemed desirable by the opposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 09:53 AM |
| 4 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?As a guy with a weak chin, facial hair helps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 09:49 AM |
| 15 | A simple summary of the whole man vs bear debate.Realistically there is very little a man can do that would be worse than being mauled and eaten alive by a bear, and the chances of encountering a man that would be capable of and willing to do any of those things are extremely low. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/24 11:33 AM |
| – | How long did you wait to be sexual with your current partner?That’s an incel opinion meant to shame women for enjoying sex. You do you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Gender inequality is real, but now it's women who are normalising treating men like shitNot that I disagree but where are these stats from exactly? Everywhere I look has different numbers, one has 1 in 33 men has experienced abuse from women. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/24 07:17 AM |
| 2 | Is there a hill that you would die on when it comes to standards for a relationship?I work nights and don’t have a social life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 06:05 PM |
| 7 | Is there a hill that you would die on when it comes to standards for a relationship?Well in my last relationship she had a very difficult time getting aroused enough for penetration to not hurt. She would need to watch porn while we did it to stay turned on and would often need lots of foreplay involving dress-up and roleplay, which I wasn’t really comfortable doing, let alone doing it every single time we wanted to have sex. Anything I did to try to make her enjoy or want sex just felt like pressure for her, we tried counseling but she wasn’t really proactive in fixing the iss… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Is there a hill that you would die on when it comes to standards for a relationship?Hope that changes for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Is there a hill that you would die on when it comes to standards for a relationship?I’m 6ft 170lbs. I’m pretty thin and actually trying to gain weight ‘cause my arms not as big as I’d like. I definitely stay in shape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 04:21 AM |
| 55 | Is there a hill that you would die on when it comes to standards for a relationship?Might seem obvious to some but I won’t be with anyone who makes me feel like I have to beg for affection or sex. All my relationships have been nothing but that so I’m pretty concerned I’ll never know what it feels like for a woman to really want my body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 07:11 PM |
| 2 | When male loneliness is brought up, what is meant? Romantic loneliness or general loneliness?I feel for many guys, a platonic friend is perfectly fine, it’s just they’d rather focus their energy on attaining what they feel would make them happiest. You can have fun and meaningful friendships with platonic friends but you’ll still sleep alone at night, missing that intimate affection that only a romantic partner can offer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 11:19 AM |
| 1 | When male loneliness is brought up, what is meant? Romantic loneliness or general loneliness?“I guess I just dont understand really how a romantic/sexual relationship is inherently more valuable to some men” Because being desired sexually/romantically is relatively rare for most men, unlike women who have the opposite issue and often get unwanted sexual/romantic attention. Men crave to feel desired just as much as women do. So it’s completely natural men would place higher value on someone who gives them this desire they’ve rarely if ever experienced in their lives, something they can’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 10:51 AM |
| 2 | How would you rank these 3 dating choices and why?Choices 1 & 2 are both ideal, I just don’t want kids so probably more 2. And 3 last just because nothing really attractive to me in that description. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?I hate when people’s value is reduced to their job title. You’re allowed to have preferences but to be insulted at the idea of dating a gas station attendant just seems so shallow to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 05:38 AM |
| 8 | Modern Dating Doesn’t Actually WorkIt isn’t necessarily a lack of access to third places, though I’m sure that’s an issue for some. More like a lack of a willingness to put yourself out there into an unfamiliar uncomfortable situation for the sole purpose of meeting strangers. Why do that when you have all the comforts in your home and could have a relaxing time without all that hassle? People tend to choose the path of least resistance. Technology has made people undersocialized and that factors in as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 07:33 AM |
| 32 | Modern Dating Doesn’t Actually WorkI’d say the issue is meeting people in the first place. Having no third spaces really hinders people from meeting in normal ways that would benefit them. I don’t see how low marriage/birth rates are an issue. Loneliness is an issue. As for creating families, people tend to not want to do that when they can barely afford to take care of themselves. And even if they could, many just don’t want to become trapped into parenthood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 05:06 AM |
| 3 | All your dating problems come down to one thing....This is actually more common than people realize. Worst case scenario is an accusation for harrasment. Best case is you’re just known as the creepy guy and women are wary of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Consent to sex does not mean consent to parenthoodCost about $3000 here and I had to officially wait a month. I did it for peace of mind. Women lie, contraception fails, condoms are uncomfortable and many women don’t take the pill because of the side effects or other reasons. I don’t want kids and I like creampies. | /r/MensRights | 16/03/24 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Consent to sex does not mean consent to parenthoodThis is why I got a vasectomy | /r/MensRights | 16/03/24 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Would you date a woman that slept with your friend before you were exclusive?Yes because it was before we were exclusive so who cares? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Paternity tests now illegal in France unless ordered by a judge: offenders risk up to a year in prison and €15,000 fine, even for tests taken abroad.My girl and I had an argument ‘cause she said she has no sympathy for men who get fucked over by this, her reasoning being that women have been dealing with unfair laws and unfair treatment since forever and so she finds it hard to sympathize when men get that treatment back. I told her two wrongs don’t make a right and that this is bad for women as well, but I don’t think I convinced her of anything. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/23 09:12 AM |
| 0 | Anyone here regularly visit sex workers?I’ve seen a few sex workers in the past and if I were single likely would again. The benefits are sex with a beautiful woman. You may not get love but you can get treated decently and like you’re an attractive person. Or you can pretend it’s love and enjoy the night. I don’t see how it saves money. Every sex worker I’ve been with has cost upwards of 1000 EDIT: Why the downvotes? :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 11:54 PM |
| 5 | Why do guys put girls on a pedestal?A lack of experiences with women can often lead men to have an idealized perception of women. Up until I was 21 I’ve never talked to women or had a woman as a friend let alone a partner. The affect it had on me was every attractive woman I saw was a literal angel and I felt incredibly inferior to them. Having had a few relationships since then, attractive women’s effect on me is not nearly as bad. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 10:35 AM |
| 57 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerThat goes the same for women then if that’s true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 01:46 PM |
| 1 | I think it's high time the men in this subreddit learn to accept reality.I’m not devaluing women’s contributions but when discussing dating there’s no question men have a harder time than women. And having a vagina does equal easy access to sex/relationships, it’s the quality of the sex/relationships they can easily gain access to that you’re referring to. As for men having physical preferences and rarely going for women who don’t make an effort, it depends largely on what “going for” means. If it means sex then there are less preferences, less barriers that will sto… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 05:07 AM |
| 6 | Men are way hornier than women, and this is the root cause of almost all dating/gender relations problems and everything being discussed hereThis. I know we’re in the minority about not caring at all about women’s n-count so there’s no use in discussing it, but the hypocrisy is insane since it seems like 90% of guys here take issue with women with high n-counts. I personally prefer women with high n-counts and I’m not ashamed to say it. They know what they want and they go for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 04:49 AM |
| 4 | I think it's high time the men in this subreddit learn to accept reality.But women don’t have to do any of those three bullet points listed to be valuable to men. Them having a vagina is enough for a lot of men, their beauty (natural or make-up) just adds to that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 04:28 AM |
| 34 | I think it's high time the men in this subreddit learn to accept reality.This is one of the few spaces men have to talk about their dating lives where their complaints are actually discussed instead of written off as incel garbage. And discussion and analysis of their dating lives is a vital part of the process for understanding what they need to do to be more successful with women. Sure there may be better/faster methods but everyone learns in their own way and at their own pace. OP just regurgitated what everyone already knows and topped it off with get over it, wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 04:20 AM |
| 0 | If women actually believed "only insecure" men care about their sexual history, then women wouldn't lie about itEven if you know about it instantly it won’t be a constant thing in the relationship, like how relevant could it be that you’re constantly reminded of it? Height is always present as it’s a physical thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 02:44 AM |
| 1 | If women actually believed "only insecure" men care about their sexual history, then women wouldn't lie about itHeight matters because you’ll see the person everyday and you’ll always be reminded of their height so it’s kinda inescapable to overlook. Sexual history is different as people usually have bad/unreliable reasons for not wanting someone with an extensive sexual history, especially when it doesn’t change a single thing about the person, it’s just insecurity on the other person’s part constantly thinking of them having sex with others. Some preferences are understandable and some are less reasonab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 01:22 AM |
| 1 | If women actually believed "only insecure" men care about their sexual history, then women wouldn't lie about itSexual history shouldn’t matter, all that should matter is if you’re healthy/clean as that affects your partner’s health directly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 01:07 AM |
| 2 | As multiple studies suggest, High n count is a red flag for both genders. Impulse control is a preferable quality for marital stability and has nothing to do with gender.I guess it doesn’t really apply to me as I’m kinda non-monogamous by nature and my ideal partner would also be non-monogamous so idk, I guess I’m an outlier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | As multiple studies suggest, High n count is a red flag for both genders. Impulse control is a preferable quality for marital stability and has nothing to do with gender.High n count doesn’t necessarily mean the sex happened in intimate relationships. A person can choose to go to a sex club ‘cause they’re horny, bang like 40 dudes and then later on decide they want a romantic relationship, the 40 dudes banged isn’t indicative of any failure to maintain a relationship, it’s indicative of 40 successful individual sexual relationships that were from the very beginning not supposed to be anything more than a one night stand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 04:19 PM |
| 5 | As multiple studies suggest, High n count is a red flag for both genders. Impulse control is a preferable quality for marital stability and has nothing to do with gender.This. It’s common sense that the person with more experience, sexual or otherwise, would have a better idea of what they want for themselves. And the more people they meet, the more they can learn and grow and see who’s best for them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 04:01 PM |
| 8 | As multiple studies suggest, High n count is a red flag for both genders. Impulse control is a preferable quality for marital stability and has nothing to do with gender.I’m high N and I’d prefer another high N. I find someone with lots of sexual experience attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do we as a society continue to engage in hook up culture and the degeneracy that comes with it, when it leaves most people so empty inside?I think it’s a vocal minority of people it leaves with an empty feeling inside. The people who are successful at hookup culture and enjoy it don’t really need to talk about it as much as they know they’ll be judged for it. I personally think easier access to no strings sex for both genders would have a positive effect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 10:20 PM |
| 0 | What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships?With that mentality, would your ideal partner be a virgin then? I’m not knocking your personal preference, I’m trying to understand the reasoning behind it because it seems to be born more out of insecurity from having someones sloppy seconds than from any actual logic on how a higher n-count directly correlates to a decrease in sexual/relationship value. As a high n-count person myself I value others with high n-counts because it’s a commonality between us and because they likely are better at … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 02:46 PM |
| 0 | What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships?I’m not saying high n-count women are better, I’m saying the mere fact that they have a high n-count doesn’t automatically make them worse. And we’re not talking about a football team here, we’re talking about a person. How exactly does high n-count disqualify someone as being the best prospect? If anything I’d argue they’re more knowledgeable about what they like and don’t like sexually. And again, I’m not necessarily referring to failed relationships, I’m referring to short-term relationships … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 02:21 PM |
| 0 | What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships?Calling women “heavily used rentals” is misogynistic. Women being dehumanized for indulging in the same carnal desires as men has been and will continue to be an issue and shaming them for it just hurts everyone in the long run. That said, you’re allowed to have your dating preferences, though I consider a person’s body count alone a highly unreliable predictor of future behavior and what they’d be like as a partner, as promiscuous women are certainly capable of being more than just “heavily use… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 01:13 PM |
| 0 | What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships?Having had tons of partners doesn’t necessarily make them failed relationships, could’ve easily been one night stands or friends with benefits situations that was never supposed to be anything beyond friendship if that. That’s why I don’t ever judge a person negatively on their n-count. That and because I too am a high n-count person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderSome birth control can make periods less painful, how is that wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderBirth control in pill form would make your points about periods and pregnancy less relevant as not every woman has to endure painful periods or pregnancy. I’m aware not every woman has access to this though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Do most men actually want to be with a traditional woman?I’m liberal and non-religious and I personally would love to be in a nonmonogamous relationship with someone who also valued their freedom to continue to explore their sexuality. And I’m also glad that bubble of people is growing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 01:40 PM |
| 3 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedCells, yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 01:52 PM |
| 3 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedI’ve considered. But the costs and the surgery and having to take medication all the time to compensate for all the bodily changes is a lot. Also it’s not like I’d 100% be a woman, every molecule in my body would still be a male molecule. It’s great for those who it works for and who are happy with it, but unless there’s a way I could somehow transfer my consciousness into an already fully developed female body that’s been a female body since birth, I think I’ll stick with the body I currently h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 01:23 PM |
| 3 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedI’d 100% rather be a woman. Having the upper hand in dating and being the gatekeepers to sex and just being treated better overall by most people. Even an unnattractive woman can still get guys on her level interested. Obviously there are disadvantages in other areas, just like it can suck being a man sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menAgreed. I do think that it changes a man’s expectations though, not necessarily their standards. Like they wouldn’t turn down a girl for not looking like a porn star, but they might feel slight disappointment for not being like the girls they fantasize about, at least that’s been my experience as a guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Shaming single men for relying on porn is bad and cruelPorn isn’t inherently bad or good, it’s entirely dependent on how you use it, as a content creator or as a consumer. It’s a huge stress reliever for consumers. For creators it can be incredibly profitable and enjoyable. Obviously there are risks as with any job, but saying it’s objectively bad is inaccurate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Shaming single men for relying on porn is bad and cruelRegardless of your first paragraph, it is still much better now for women (and men) than any other time in history ever. There’s nothing emasculating or pathetic about video games, Marvel, or porn, stuff everyone enjoys. Telling men to just man up is more damaging and not at all helpful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 11:28 AM |
| 2 | Shaming single men for relying on porn is bad and cruelIt’s already normalized. It’s impossible to eliminate the human need for sex, it is equally impossible to eradicate the industry created to satisfy it—ethical or unethical. It is much more productive to acknowledge the inevitability of online sexual content because that opens up the conversation about changing the industry and improving the lives of those affected by it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 11:23 AM |
| 8 | CMV: Most women lack self awareness about their unearned privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.If they lash out then they’re making fools of themselves and you’re assured that you made the right choice in rejecting them. Having more options is a privilege. I’m not projecting anything, just stating facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 07:56 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Most women lack self awareness about their unearned privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.Because it’s a common issue. I for one find this topic and the discussions it evokes really important and fascinating to read about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 07:49 PM |
| 16 | CMV: Most women lack self awareness about their unearned privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.Having more options is always better than having little or no options like the majority of men who don’t have the luxury of being choosy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Are simps 100 percent to blame in simping scenarios?Paying money to see semi-naked chicks dance. I think so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 01:57 PM |
| 8 | Are simps 100 percent to blame in simping scenarios?Onlyfans in a nutshell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 10:27 AM |
| 1 | You're forever locked in a room with a bed and shower. Groups of supermodels frequent the room to fuck you at your request. You're not allowed to contact friends and family, no internet and no tv. Is this what some of you consider the dream life?That is the ideal life for a lot of men. And a lot of men live day to day just eating and sleeping and staying in their room playing video games and going to work and coming back to do it all over again. It’s comfortable and lonely. Maybe I’m an outlier that I place so much important on sex that I’d sacrifice other things for it, but I don’t think I’m too different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 06:39 AM |
| 1 | You're forever locked in a room with a bed and shower. Groups of supermodels frequent the room to fuck you at your request. You're not allowed to contact friends and family, no internet and no tv. Is this what some of you consider the dream life?Well this just got a tiny bit better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 06:36 AM |
| 2 | You're forever locked in a room with a bed and shower. Groups of supermodels frequent the room to fuck you at your request. You're not allowed to contact friends and family, no internet and no tv. Is this what some of you consider the dream life?I have no friends. My family is just my parents and they’re pretty old and will be gone soon. The opportunity to have any woman I want whenever, who could keep me company in the room, they could be my friends and new family. I’d finally be able to live out my wildest sexual fantasies. Sex really is that important to me. Would suck not having any men though (I’m bi) I already stay in my room most of my life anyway, other than for work. No TV or Internet would be tough though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 06:33 AM |
| 1 | I had over 1200+ Tinder matches, AMAWhat advice would you give to other guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 06:30 AM |
| 3 | You're forever locked in a room with a bed and shower. Groups of supermodels frequent the room to fuck you at your request. You're not allowed to contact friends and family, no internet and no tv. Is this what some of you consider the dream life?It would suck being imprisoned for my whole life but literally having unlimited sexy women whenever and who’ll do whatever, I think I’d choose that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 06:26 AM |
| 2 | People of PPD, what do you prefer? Casual or intimate sex?[23M] Prefer casual sex. I love sex but I don’t see it as something that should be limited to only a few select people, I want to have sex with everyone I find attractive and is willing to have sex with me. Doesn’t mean I see it as any less important than someone who values intimate sex over casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 08:44 AM |
| 1 | "Men in real life don't care about N count because I rarely get asked about it" - why this logic is very flawedYou can’t generalize men by saying most care about n-count or not, everyone has their own individual opinion on it. That said, if they do care about it it’s likely because they’re taking all the empirical data and statistics they know about high n-counts and applying it to any woman they’re interested in. The problem I have with that is that the data and statistics aren’t 100% accurate, and I’d hate to make a decision on someone I really care about and know as a person based on statistical data … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 04:19 AM |
| 4 | I never understood the double standard about promiscuity.The idea that a person’s value or worth is at all affected by the number of people they’ve had sex with is so ridiculous and flawed and very damaging to both genders. Women shouldn’t be shamed for taking advantage of the fact that they can have sex more easily than guys, men shouldn’t be shamed for being virgins, or vice versa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 08:23 AM |
| 1 | what would you do with your life if you had been born a woman?I’d be a porn star | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 02:25 AM |
| 4 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?Not all men have the confidence or even the opportunity to do that, especially when tons of men are undersocialized these days and simply don’t know how to go about doing that. Sure, it’d be better if they did that, but realistically most will turn to something else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 09:54 PM |
| 3 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?And they removed them, they made a step in the right direction. This is a good thing, porn sites regulating what is uploaded. We can agree that’s necessary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?Child porn is outlawed pretty much everywhere, I don’t know what you’re getting at | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?Which is illegal. I’m referring to legal porn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?People aren’t gonna stop watching porn because of a few unethical industry practices, nor should they. The idea is that whatever is being watched is consensual and ethical because most pornos are, nobody’s going to research the background of every single porn clip they wanna watch. Also, if it was discovered that Coca-Cola was using extremely unethical practices, it’s not like people are gonna boycott Coke. People like it too much, just like porn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?Because a picture is less satisfying. People have kinks they want to live out vicariously through watching others live them out in porn. Brutal violent sex like that is something some people enjoy, people have fetishes for everything and the actors are assumed to be consenting in everything, it’s not the viewers fault if that assumption turns out to be incorrect. Also the same way violent video games don’t make kids violent, abuse porn doesn’t make men want to actually hurt women or see them as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 06:21 PM |
| 4 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?Because it helps lonely men everywhere to cope and for quite a lot of men it’s the only way they will ever be able to see a woman naked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 05:18 PM |
| 2 | The average guy in the real world has no issue in finding relationships. If a guy struggles with women, he is not average; he is like in button 10% and has a combination of many low-quality traits, or he is single because of his own fault.I’m at a loss with the college thing as my experience with college was it was a community college in NYC and people there aren’t really meeting other people or there to make friends. Everyone there was of varying ages and were there to work and there weren’t really any parties going on (that I knew of). I disagree and feel the average guy does have issues getting a gf these days, at least in big cities, as women simply have way too many options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/20 09:29 AM |
| 3 | While you’re at home sulking, the woman of your dreams is building a well rounded life. Make sure you meet half way.Ah I see, thanks | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 01:44 PM |
| 2 | While you’re at home sulking, the woman of your dreams is building a well rounded life. Make sure you meet half way.Have you found success with it? | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 01:40 PM |
| 2 | While you’re at home sulking, the woman of your dreams is building a well rounded life. Make sure you meet half way.I have not | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 01:34 PM |
| 5 | While you’re at home sulking, the woman of your dreams is building a well rounded life. Make sure you meet half way.What’s the subreddit? | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 07:40 AM |
| 2 | Number of white male teachers falls by 20% in just ten years, sparking fears of lack of role models - Research shows the profession is becoming 'increasingly female-dominated'How exactly were you not welcome there? I read it all the time but never exactly what behaviors or actions other female teachers took or didn’t take that made you feel so unwelcome | /r/MensRights | 19/10/20 04:22 PM |
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