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| 325 | my ex (the literal king of bum narcissists, who used to ignore me for weeks , and gaslight me about it when I spent months begging for his attention/basic human decency) begging me to pay attention to him. Tables couldn’t be any more turned. | LESSON LEARNED | eucalyptusiscool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:39 AM |
| 307 | For those of us with unhealthy attachment styles, and overactive imaginations. | STRATEGY | eucalyptusiscool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 05:26 PM |
| 172 | Is it crack? | THINGS SCROTES SAY | eucalyptusiscool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:19 PM |
| 63 | Why? | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | eucalyptusiscool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:24 PM |
| 57 | Scary | Muh PENIS | eucalyptusiscool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 09:18 PM |
| 1 | We should talk about Body Shaming | eucalyptusiscool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 07:48 PM |
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| 2 | This is why the six month period before declaring someone a HVM is a MINIMUM. Strap in ladies, this is fun.This is good!! Next time though I wouldn’t let the convo go on this long, it’s a lot of back and forth. Block button is king. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 04:12 PM |
| 1 | I love you guys and I need some last minute support.An incredible life is just outside the comfort zone. You got this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:34 PM |
| 34 | ‘.... some occasional hole’ 🤮🤮🤮🤮Lmfao poor doggy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:09 PM |
| 5 | 30-year-old man child wakes up at 4 pm. Blocked 🤷🏻♀️I can understand why you felt a bit more comfortable! Try following the 6 month rule. It takes atleast that long to see if he’s hvm and until then try not to get too comfy ! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 12:52 PM |
| 12 | 30-year-old man child wakes up at 4 pm. Blocked 🤷🏻♀️Good job blocking but the first text you sent isn’t a good thing to say. If yo unread the handbook, if they don’t reach out first , the date isn’t happening. And if there isn’t a solid plan (date+time+location) , there isn’t a date at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 12:31 PM |
| 10 | Was I too harsh to block him so quickly? He didn’t even ask me how I was and couldn’t fathom why I couldn’t instantly see him... also telling me how “fit” I am 3 times in our 2 minute conversation just comes across as desperate and creepy...Read the handbook! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 12:27 PM |
| 1 | my ex (the literal king of bum narcissists, who used to ignore me for weeks , and gaslight me about it when I spent months begging for his attention/basic human decency) begging me to pay attention to him. Tables couldn’t be any more turned.The tables have definitely turned,and he’s certainly not laughing. This is on instagram, but i don’t need to block his number because he dosent even have it. I changed it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:28 PM |
| 1 | How to get rid of LVM if they try to approach you in public?Yes, protecting ourselves is priority. Thank you for that comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:02 AM |
| 1 | “Seemingly no reason” hmmmThe “unusual skill” is the incredible lack of self awareness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Invited me over while he is in a two week quarantine. Double whammy.I just visualized it lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 01:06 PM |
| 10 | How to get rid of LVM if they try to approach you in public?If you want to be polite,You could say that you don’t speak English, just google translate that phrase into another language and learn it. For Spanish,which is common in the states so it might make sense to use, I think it’s “no habla anglais, lo siento” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 01:00 PM |
| 11 | Terminal uniqueness and proud non-conformity are red flagsIt’s Always a Tyler lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Dated a guy for a while, broke up due to him showing his true colours, randomly met him at the airport during corona times. Then he tried to keep the ‘conversation’ going. Nothing left to do but block him, if saying no doesn’t take. Thanks for helping me find the determination!I could see that being a reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:22 PM |
| 7 | Dated a guy for a while, broke up due to him showing his true colours, randomly met him at the airport during corona times. Then he tried to keep the ‘conversation’ going. Nothing left to do but block him, if saying no doesn’t take. Thanks for helping me find the determination!I actually read somewhere (I forget where) that it’s a way to make the person you are talking to , like you more. It’s supposed to feed people’s egos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 03:54 PM |
| 4 | FDS is a specific way to date - it's not just an all female sub about dating. Stop giving anti-FDS advice.Yes! This is not a debate sub, it’s a place for like minded women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:59 PM |
| 2 | 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 it’s this serious🤙🏿 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:54 PM |
| 13 | 😂 they're watching us 👀Again, there are alot of spaces for men to build each other up. This is not that. Comedic relief is therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:48 PM |
| 18 | 😂 they're watching us 👀There’s many spaces for that. This is not it. Comedic relief is a form of healing and therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Is it crack?Hahhaha that’s a meet and greet I think I’ll skip thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Is it crack?Lol arrogant is never good ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Is it crack?Combined with the asking for Snapchat, literally a teenager. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Is it crack?Lmao yes, in the future I’ll do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Is it crack?It’s perfect lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Is it crack?Absolutely. I actually just deleted my bumble today, but in the future I’ll keep that in mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Is it crack?I wish that,too. Why doesn’t that exist yet? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Is it crack?Sure is. He got the swift unmatch though. Oh you don’t want me to whine? Perfect, you’ll never hear me whine again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Is it crack?🐺 wolves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Is it crack?Guess I failed 😂🤙 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Is it crack?Lol looks like an attempt at a silly face. The only thing silly is his self importance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 10:06 PM |
| 7 | Homeboy thought he could disrespect me on a date, so I walked out.Hey, congrats on walking away. Just to add though, in the future I would leave after the being late and only letting you know when you’ve been there for 10 minutes. You’re not doing yourself any favours sticking around after that. Even if he sees you walking to the bus stop, I would still leave ( only if you feel safe enough to do so of course. I’m incredibly proud of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Is it crack?Of course I’m only speaking from my experience and my area of the world , I have no idea about elsewhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Is it crack?Lol I know the news, I was being sarcastic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:22 PM |
| 4 | Is it crack?Lol yes that is what I’m referencing in the title hahah I reference it frequently. I love that meme and it’s applicable to so many daily situations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 05:51 AM |
| 3 | Is it crack?Lol I would argue that he didn’t even have a mask to begin with , rude from the beginning 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 05:50 AM |
| 13 | Boyfriend of 2 years checking out other women & lying about it.You don’t need advice, if you’ve read the handbook you know exactly what to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:27 AM |
| 10 | Is it crack?I laugh and unmatch. But like what was his game plan? Did he think saying “ Don’t whine” was going to bode well for him? Imagine that, myself as a 25 year old says a polite and reasonable message with literally zero whining, and the 37 year old member of the more level headed gender replies “don’t whine” . Like the title of this post says , is it crack? Or meth. Cause the scrotes are on something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:14 AM |
| 16 | Is it crack?I understand and can appreciate you’re points. I’ll keep that in mind. I thought older men would be more mature, but clearly not according to this screenshot. I never used to have my age range set significantly higher, but after turning 25 this year , I realized I wanted to experience being a young woman with an older man. But as of late, I think I’ve changed my mind. I don’t think it’s a good idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:58 AM |
| 9 | Is it crack?Do you not think women my age should talk to men that much older? I’m open to hearing what you think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:46 AM |
| 4 | Is it crack?Part of me was nervous for guys I know to find me (they would be my age) so I have my age set to include older men. Also I think I go through all my matches quickly so I expand my age range a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:45 AM |
| 7 | Is it crack?Yes, I even saw a meme image thing circulating that says “ no women in her mid 20’s+ proffered way of communication is snapchat.” Using snap to be silly with friends or with an established partner is one thing, but using it as a main means of communication, especially for dating, is a hugeeeee no no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:25 AM |
| 27 | Is it crack?No, I mean in a dating context! Like teenagers use it to flirt and stuff but as adults, flirting and communicating with potential matches shouldn’t be on Snapchat. If it’s just for fun with friends, absolutely snap is fine. But also, that is just my opinion. You make you’re own rules, so please don’t be worried about being “too old” for things. Aging is a beautiful thing we are blessed to be able to experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:21 AM |
| 25 | Is it crack?Hahhaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:28 AM |
| 47 | Is it crack?Snapchat is for teenagers, not adults that are dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:44 AM |
| 99 | Is it crack?THIS MAN WAS 37!!!!! My comment about being “too old for Snapchat” as a 25year old was a dig at him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:44 AM |
| 87 | Is it crack?Lol my motto lately “Not my circus,not my monkeys” and then I unmatch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Had a guy I matched with on Tinder who wanted to FaceTime and kept comparing me to his ex gf.Honestly the red flag for me in this post is more so the not respecting your boundaries | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Had a guy I matched with on Tinder who wanted to FaceTime and kept comparing me to his ex gf.There “deal” is nonsense and not worthy of time hahhaha. But I’m glad you blocked him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Had a guy I matched with on Tinder who wanted to FaceTime and kept comparing me to his ex gf.Good for you for standing up for yourself. One thing is, it’s really not beneficial to argue with men. Him not respecting your boundaries, if that was me, would have been the end of that conversation. And there would be no more conversations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:49 PM |
| 2 | I liked you better when you were miserableOkay but this is kind of a beautiful thing. As you heal, you start to see your value , and you shed the dead weight. Your energy becomes better and it makes people who aren’t on your level, uncomfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:42 PM |
| 10 | Is it crack?Like first the complete disregard of the other party’s preferences. It didn’t ask what I prefer, just what he prefers.Cool. Also, on the note of Snapchat. I have an account from when I was a bit younger, which I keep just because I have lots of memories on it. I may chat with a friend a little on it, but rarely. I absolutely don’t think Snapchat is a means of communication for dating. The erasing of messages doesn’t encourage accountability for what is said, and also these scrotes can’t be trust… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:26 PM |
| 1 | For those of us with unhealthy attachment styles, and overactive imaginations.Semantics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 05:28 AM |
| 8 | For those of us with unhealthy attachment styles, and overactive imaginations.I’m glad you ladies are finding this useful, I hope you share this strategy with anyone you know who struggle with getting overly attached too easily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 10:16 PM |
| 7 | For those of us with unhealthy attachment styles, and overactive imaginations.Better late than never | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 10:15 PM |
| 31 | For those of us with unhealthy attachment styles, and overactive imaginations.I think incredible alligator was referring to havin a hard time finding quality men to date , not just men in general . I could be wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 10:14 PM |
| 1 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡Okay, well that’s my advice on what worked for me in your situation. It’s your life, so you decide how it goes. Good luck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 04:50 PM |
| 1 | i can’t imagine how miserable this girl is. holy shitLmfao stop this 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 01:48 PM |
| 1 | i can’t imagine how miserable this girl is. holy shitA (one sided?!?!) open relationship is one thing, healthy or not. But him not wanting you to be okay with it means he actively wants you to be hurting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 01:44 PM |
| 2 | i can’t imagine how miserable this girl is. holy shitHe hates you,sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 01:43 PM |
| 2 | It ends today...I don't have to justify or explain why I am deciding to make positive changes in my life to anyone but myself . It's not about who you used to be, but who you are choosing to be. It's never too late to decide to reinvent yourself. You are choosing to be a QUEEN. It beings today!Side note , congrats to the lovely lady in the picture | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Need help with a situation I am in.Yup | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Will this ever end? I know I’m enough, that I would rather be single than with an LVM. But I feel sick w loneliness—I live alone and we’re a communal species. The lockdown is fucking me up. I re-downloaded OLD in a moment of weakness and this was the first guy I matched with. JfcCan this happen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:45 PM |
| 1 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡J | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:02 PM |
| 2 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡Lmfaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 11:58 AM |
| 1 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 11:55 AM |
| 2 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡You always crack me up eith you’re comments hahah ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 11:49 AM |
| 6 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡Please take this to heart: Stop dating. Delete your dating profiles (or deactivate) . Read the handbook and the recommended reading for this subreddit . Seek therapy, seriously. Immerse yourself in becoming the woman you are destined to be . When you get to the level that when a guy asks you to be his girlfriend after a week and you have to laugh , maybe then you can think about dating again. You need to do the work to have a better life and view of yourself . No one is going to do that for you.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 11:46 AM |
| 1 | I don't argue with men. Not over anything, for any reason.I love you. Wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 07:37 PM |
| 4 | Tbh the only people online I want to meet in real life, are you ladies.Yes please, that would be great | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 07:28 PM |
| 2 | The look on his face was worth every pennyQueen shit . Congrats. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 07:25 PM |
| 2 | my ex (the literal king of bum narcissists, who used to ignore me for weeks , and gaslight me about it when I spent months begging for his attention/basic human decency) begging me to pay attention to him. Tables couldn’t be any more turned.He’s been blocked ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:55 PM |
| 2 | 🙅🏻♀️👩🏻🎓👸🏻Hahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Negging?Please don’t give men the upper hand by allowing them to decide is it’s a compliment or a neg. don’t undermine your opinion, if you feel negged than it was a neg. that’s a textbook neg. if he wanted to compliment you , he would have said the dress and bag are lovely. And if you ask a man if it’s a neg, of course he won’t tell you it’s a neg, that blows up their game . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:49 PM |
| 16 | 🙅🏻♀️👩🏻🎓👸🏻AND SOMETIMES NOT EVEN A BIRTH CERTIFICATE 😥😥 lol their mom holds it for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:45 AM |
| 3 | my ex (the literal king of bum narcissists, who used to ignore me for weeks , and gaslight me about it when I spent months begging for his attention/basic human decency) begging me to pay attention to him. Tables couldn’t be any more turned.Fixed it thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 05:53 PM |
| 2 | my ex (the literal king of bum narcissists, who used to ignore me for weeks , and gaslight me about it when I spent months begging for his attention/basic human decency) begging me to pay attention to him. Tables couldn’t be any more turned.& this was fall 2018 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 05:06 PM |
| 3 | my ex (the literal king of bum narcissists, who used to ignore me for weeks , and gaslight me about it when I spent months begging for his attention/basic human decency) begging me to pay attention to him. Tables couldn’t be any more turned.Actually I sought him out. He crossed the street after throwing the cigarette at my friend, and my friend went home. I waited for my Uber, and then crossed the street to give him an opportunity to hit on me. He asked for my Instagram as my Uber pulled up ( I was not sober at all), and I invited him to instead come into my Uber with me . Why? I wanted sex , and maybe I was attracted to his chaotic energy. Maybe I was conditioned to think chaotic is loving energy. Maybe all of those reasons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 05:05 PM |
| 77 | Imagine thinking you will ever be in this position and getting to reject her. Imagine thinking she is your option. I just...Her dark skin is such a rich and beautiful shade. She is stunning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:18 PM |
| 5 | my ex (the literal king of bum narcissists, who used to ignore me for weeks , and gaslight me about it when I spent months begging for his attention/basic human decency) begging me to pay attention to him. Tables couldn’t be any more turned.You mean like what made me take him home afterwards? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:07 PM |
| 7 | my ex (the literal king of bum narcissists, who used to ignore me for weeks , and gaslight me about it when I spent months begging for his attention/basic human decency) begging me to pay attention to him. Tables couldn’t be any more turned.Lol Like no babes I can’t get back to you. The person you’re trying to reach has moved tf on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:04 PM |
| 7 | my ex (the literal king of bum narcissists, who used to ignore me for weeks , and gaslight me about it when I spent months begging for his attention/basic human decency) begging me to pay attention to him. Tables couldn’t be any more turned.They don’t play fair. Cut your losses, take what you’ve learned and move on. & I promise all you’d be missing is pain and hardship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:01 PM |
| 13 | my ex (the literal king of bum narcissists, who used to ignore me for weeks , and gaslight me about it when I spent months begging for his attention/basic human decency) begging me to pay attention to him. Tables couldn’t be any more turned.I’m really sorry you’re hurting. To answer your questions, the first thing I did was let go of the notion that this life is fair, and that people are going to be good to you, just because you are good to them. The second thing I realized is a universal truth. Hurt people hurt people. And if someone can be so cold to you, when you’ve tried your best to be good to them, Just know that they are miserable. Truly. As much as they put on a front, they are hurting deeply. And like I said in an earlier … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 04:55 AM |
| 8 | my ex (the literal king of bum narcissists, who used to ignore me for weeks , and gaslight me about it when I spent months begging for his attention/basic human decency) begging me to pay attention to him. Tables couldn’t be any more turned.It can be so frustrating trying to get loved ones to see things from our point of view. I just trust that they’re at their own spot on their own journey, and I let go. It can be shocking thinking about the things we went through, totally. For me, what helps is knowing it was never my fault, and I was just accepting the love I thought I deserved . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:42 AM |
| 31 | my ex (the literal king of bum narcissists, who used to ignore me for weeks , and gaslight me about it when I spent months begging for his attention/basic human decency) begging me to pay attention to him. Tables couldn’t be any more turned.Also, note the time stamps on the messages 🙄 he would always call and text in the middle of the night , knowing I worked a 9-5. Boy bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:27 AM |
| 20 | my ex (the literal king of bum narcissists, who used to ignore me for weeks , and gaslight me about it when I spent months begging for his attention/basic human decency) begging me to pay attention to him. Tables couldn’t be any more turned.I hope you forgive yourself one day. It was never your fault. Love to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:26 AM |
| 41 | my ex (the literal king of bum narcissists, who used to ignore me for weeks , and gaslight me about it when I spent months begging for his attention/basic human decency) begging me to pay attention to him. Tables couldn’t be any more turned.Thank you for your kind words, they made me feel warm. I’m so sorry you were used by an LVM. I’ve seen you comment here before and I know your heart is good, too. And I know amazing things will come to you. I’m not proud of the things I did in that relationship (and other bad ones) , but I forgive myself completely for the person I had to be. The ex this post is about got hurt by his ex gf before me and subconsciously went on to try and hurt women,to get back at his ex. The difference between nv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:25 AM |
| 8 | my ex (the literal king of bum narcissists, who used to ignore me for weeks , and gaslight me about it when I spent months begging for his attention/basic human decency) begging me to pay attention to him. Tables couldn’t be any more turned.❤️💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:02 AM |
| 12 | my ex (the literal king of bum narcissists, who used to ignore me for weeks , and gaslight me about it when I spent months begging for his attention/basic human decency) begging me to pay attention to him. Tables couldn’t be any more turned.I’m sorry to hear that, but I’m glad he’s your ex and not a current partner. & yes the world is better without them in every sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:02 AM |
| 104 | my ex (the literal king of bum narcissists, who used to ignore me for weeks , and gaslight me about it when I spent months begging for his attention/basic human decency) begging me to pay attention to him. Tables couldn’t be any more turned.I can give you some background but it’s a doozy: my life was peaceful ,just working and minding my business. I went out one night and ran into a guy , who asked my friend for a cigarette and then threw it at her when she said he didn’t have to give her a dollar for it (that hurt his ego) . I brought him home off the street, fucked him and the next day he said I love you and I gave him my house key (just for a day but still) 8 months of me crying being a literal shell of a human , about a man tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Had me in the first half (x-posted r/arethestraightsokay)You can be the hottest woman with money, education, willing to give him oral and other sex whenever, no expectations of him and he will still cheat. There are no rules to this shit. Stay safe ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 04:26 PM |
| 1 | It finally happened. A scrote in my inbox!It’s crazy because like the best part is that these men that get so angry about the fds movement ... don’t have to date women that are apart of it. Literally it has nothing to do with them. At all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 04:22 PM |
| 6 | “I can’t think of a specific neg so I’m just going to keep it general.”Also, notice how you said you aren’t interested in the second part, YET HE TELLS YOU ANYWAYS. If I was you , after the first message (if you didn’t want to block yet) I’d just reply “cool.” Sometimes , showing how little you care rather than saying it , is better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 03:35 PM |
| -3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020Why don’t you just ask | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 12:41 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020“I’m sure he didn’t act right” hahahah To be honest I don’t think it’s necessarily A scarcity mindset when it comes to who men can love, but I do know that women heal like wolverine compared to men lol. We can get cheated on, manipulated all of that, and we do the work to heal and we move on eventually. Men get there heart broken once in 6th grade and will milk it until the day they die hahaha. The other thing is your friend may have realized that she is doing a lot better without him. We all kn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 12:38 PM |
| 30 | Women are more likely to stay in marriage when their spouse is ill, yet men are more likely to leave if their bangmaid is too sick to put out anymoreI see where your coming from. the problems won’t go away if you ignore it, but they also won’t go away if you... pay attention to them? Obviously being aware is good, but your health is your priority and we become what we consume . Constantly consuming rage-inducing content can be harmful. I avoid a lot of content daily in general because I am intentional about what I consume. I don’t want to be angry. Why should I let nvm steal my peace of mind? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 11:17 PM |
| 2 | “I don’t want no scrub, a scrub is a guy that can’t get no love from me.”Crack? or meth? Or some kind of mix of both. Just trying to figure out what this person who made this, is on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 05:18 PM |
| 6 | Telling men nobody cares about their compliments.My NVM ex would compliment my body, and when I agreed with what he said (because I know I’m hot) , he would say “Oh...That ruins it”. No, you ruin it. Stick your dick in a blender,George. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 05:16 PM |
| 7 | Guy from OLD gets angry because I didn’t have sex with him after 2 weeks and 4 dates of knowing him.I’m really sorry you went through that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 05:14 PM |
| 8 | Scrote mad because he can't jerk off to pictures of some women because they have their kids with them.Maybe she posts pictures of her and her kids because... she likes to? And she wants to share those pictures with her friends and family? Maybe? Not? Everything? Is? About? Your? Little?Limp? Dick? What a concept 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 05:10 PM |
| 14 | Scrote mad because he can't jerk off to pictures of some women because they have their kids with them.😂😂 literally | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 05:09 PM |
| 107 | Guy from OLD gets angry because I didn’t have sex with him after 2 weeks and 4 dates of knowing him.THE FACT THAT HE THINKS HES TEACHING YOU SOMETHING . THE FACT THAT A NVM THINKS HE HAS ANYTHING AT ALL THAT YOU WOULD NEED, NEVERTHELESS KNOWLEDGE. Truly truly delusional. You dodged a bullet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 03:22 AM |
| 14 | Once again, men freely telling the Internet how broke they are!Lmfaooo “Ok” sent me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 03:08 AM |
| 42 | Scary“She knew” comment is scary too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 09:18 PM |
| 3 | I am new here, I’m not proud of the things I’ve done. Does anyone have any advice to help me get into the FDS mindset?Black women are the most hated in the world, and in that is our beauty and our strength , that we can never have our strength taken. Something that helped me was ‘fake it till you make it’. I acted like I knew I was a queen, I acted like it, talked like it and dressed like it. Eventually, I became it. You have evreything you are looking for , inside of you already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 05:24 AM |
| 1 | 'Like your a senior in HS and I'm a 4th grader' bruuuuuhBut when making an OLD account, you have to have an age range set. So evidently, he set his age range young enough for this girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Reminder of why it’s important to not follow LibFem ideology when it comes to dealing with men.Lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Look out for #1, ladiesPower move: when he late night texts you, instead of ignoring him, reply “Hello. I’m about to go to sleep as it’s late, I’ll reach out tommorow.Goodnight” it sets boundaries . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 10:42 PM |
| 2 | The legendary Eartha KittWhat would be considered “picking back up” ? Just so I know what to look for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 09:20 PM |
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