evacygre Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	The ideas surrounding male virginity in a woman's eyes sometimes contribute to the rise of red pill. you are talking about a tiny, tiny tiny fraction of the population of women that sent letters to criminals as an argument to make your point? Is the bar so low? These people are even more broken than you in terms of self confidence and self esteem. Do you think the women that did this sort of thing are women with successful, exciting love life? They are just lonely broken people. It's the same as making up a generalized theory about all men based on the serial killers because most of them are me…	/r/ExRedPill	21/11/25 10:04 PM
5	The ideas surrounding male virginity in a woman's eyes sometimes contribute to the rise of red pill. To answer the question, if I were in your shoes the first thing I would do is to stop smoking marijuana. If you are completely in denial about stopping, it indicates that you definitely NEED to stop. If you are at the point that it makes it difficult for you to finish, it means you ve let it go too far. And addiction means a ton of other things that you are definitely leaving out of this post and you are obsessing over virginity. One pattern that I notice for men that post here about their strug…	/r/ExRedPill	21/11/25 06:13 PM
8	The crossroad between what's considered attractive versus what's considered a good person is at the heart of why Incels exist Jesus Christ. What advantage are you talking about? You have every day women here taking the time to share their experiences, more in a compassionate way than anything else, with the purpose to help you because your victim mentality is what hurts you and your chances to be successful in love/relationships. They give you real experiences, they share insights that you probably never had before because you obviously lack romantic experience with women in your life.. and your reaction is to close yo…	/r/ExRedPill	18/11/25 02:30 PM
21	The crossroad between what's considered attractive versus what's considered a good person is at the heart of why Incels exist You mention "even nerdy girls" but then you say "conventionally attractive"... I wonder what you mean by conventionally attractive. The problem with incels is that they go after women that are incredibly good looking, look like models etc and then they complain about things like: - women never have to do the first move - women want only the "top 10%" of men (successful/rich) - women reject men because of short height or because they are not rich Guys!!!! This is not the average/every day woman. …	/r/ExRedPill	15/11/25 11:01 PM
2	Tried to get away but honestly I’m right back where I started I understand, a lot of the times it's inevitable to make assumptions based on our own experiences and observations. So I am open to the fact that there might be a few things that I didn't get right. However, I still think that there is a solution to the situation you described but you will find it within yourself. It's a trap to blame the whole gender as a whole because it takes away your agency to make improvements on the issue. I understand that dating can be frustrating and there are weirdos …	/r/ExRedPill	13/11/25 09:50 AM
6	Tried to get away but honestly I’m right back where I started Sounds like you are seeking women out of your league and you then get resentful when they reject you. Why do you go only after the very attractive hot women? There are plenty of good enough looking women that might not have the looks of a model but might genuinely be interested in you if you show you are generally a good man. You are not entitled to a hot attractive woman just because you say you were not red pilled anymore. But anyway I don't think it's the appearance or anything else superfici…	/r/ExRedPill	13/11/25 04:33 AM
8	Why do men date if they are still subscribing to TRP content ? My bf does and it makes me feel like nothing i can ever do will change his deeply jaded view on women and love. I understand. Please start therapy, it is the only way to navigate this. His past heart breaks are his past heartbreaks. They are from people he chose and relationships/situationships he built. You had nothing to do with those. Why would you not have your needs met because of his past experiences and issues that he hasn't been able to resolve after years already in a new relationship? Why would you have to be punished because an ex broke his heart? Why would you have to put up with walls etc for…	/r/ExRedPill	07/11/25 10:12 PM
5	Why do men date if they are still subscribing to TRP content ? My bf does and it makes me feel like nothing i can ever do will change his deeply jaded view on women and love. How old are you? I just hope you are someone very young and that would explain why you still don't know your worth and you still get played by guys like him. I was like you in my early 20s. The first thing you need to do is to find a good therapist, someone well qualified. It is the only thing that helped me and now I am happily married to a good, caring and generous man. In my early 20s I was like you, trying to be "low maintenance" for guys like your bf, never asking for anything expensive, sp…	/r/ExRedPill	07/11/25 01:51 AM
10	To ex red pill who still doubt relationships or motives of women I hope this is sarcasm that I missed lol Our opinions and the generalizations we make say more about ourselves than anything else. Imagine someone trying to give you some insight or a different perspective on relationships and the first response that comes to mind is about "dick size". Jesus.	/r/ExRedPill	30/10/25 02:20 AM
19	Advice from a once divorced, former RedPill man So the only reason you are not red pilled is for a whole other still sexist reason? What are these generalizations? What happened before your divorce? I just don't believe when I hear the "divorce came out of nowhere"... You had all this experience and the only thing you learned is that these women will just use you for a green card? No self reflection? If you are not honest with yourself and do at least some self criticism, you will probably run into the same issues in your next relationship, w…	/r/ExRedPill	27/10/25 01:27 AM
8	Dating red pill? Girl... He is a loser. The whole red pill thing is just the symptom of his insecurities and the fact that he is a loser. It's not the cause. It's not about being conservative or anything. He is just not a good partner, not a GOOD man. Would the person that you are supposed to be with for the rest of your life ever put you down? No! He wouldn't. So he is not the person you are supposed to be with for the rest of your life. Don't fall into the sunk cost fallacy because of the 1.5 year. Just get ou…	/r/ExRedPill	06/10/25 06:57 PM
4	How do I cope with my situation? (Read below) I think a lot of the issues that you mentioned would be vastly improved through therapy. Did you ever have therapy? The issues with your upbringing, the isolation you feel, even the fact that you basically grew up in a culture where you were the "outsider", the self esteem issues... For all the answer is therapy, with a GOOD therapist. Not all women from South East Asian origin are what you mention. You make big assumptions and generalizations which is ironic because you don't like the assumptio…	/r/ExRedPill	11/09/25 12:15 AM