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| 1 | Kinda scared to have sexU a dude tho | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Why “abundance” and “self improvement” don’t always work, and you’re not going to like what you hear.That was actually something I did for a while during the trip, I was listening to some trance house and honestly I just started dancing uncontrollably in my chair, doing all of these movements with my arms that I never thought I could do. While this was going on, it not only made me realize that dancing is FUN, but it put me in this weird unbiased mindset where I could look from the outside in. I then decided to walk around my neighborhood (on a gorgeous night) and that's when I REALLY began to … | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Why “abundance” and “self improvement” don’t always work, and you’re not going to like what you hear.I wouldn't try to take the whole 8th unless you want to have a full-on trip. The dose I took was perfect for me as I was walking the line between the sober mind vs altered consciousness. It was just the right mindset to be taking a good hard look at life from the outside while not being disoriented by it. | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 07:02 PM |
| 7 | Why “abundance” and “self improvement” don’t always work, and you’re not going to like what you hear.That was roughly the amount I took. About 1.5 g's. It must have been some pretty potent shit, I was laying in bed for the first hour shaking and feeling really uncomfortable, expecting to have a horrible trip, but once I got up and took a walk outside, all of that fear melted away into some fantastic introspection and beauty. Honestly it was the perfect amount, after that first hour, I was sober enough to still have perfectly reasonable thoughts and good orientation with reality, but it affected… | /r/seduction | 02/02/19 06:45 PM |
| 26 | Why “abundance” and “self improvement” don’t always work, and you’re not going to like what you hear.This. I had a shroom trip a few months back that really made me take a 180 and see the value in myself deep down, something that I thought was impossible. It's such a refreshing change. At the end of the day, all you have is yourself. You are the only you, and nothing is going to change that. You might as well see the value in yourself, because life is so much better (and easier) when you have purpose and self-value. | /r/seduction | 02/02/19 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Has Tinder gotten worse for actually getting dates?I have tried to use all my daily swipes during the first few days of using it, but it's annoying when 90% of the women I see on there I've already swiped though, and I have my range maxed out. Also, my app literally sends me notifications for matches, and once I check those matches, I can't see them. One of them popped up a few days later, but the rest are no where to be seen, I only can see my existing matches, and my match count is higher than the matches I can see. A day or 2 later, I get ano… | /r/seduction | 19/11/18 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Tinder hookups according to this tinder chick I've been seeing, uhh what?Yeah that's something many people in this community don't understand. There's no "one size fits-all" solution when it comes to game outside of a few basic concepts like having confidence and advancing and whatnot. Sure, there are general patterns and aspects of attraction that apply to most if not all women, but it's silly to say stuff like "this method will always get em to drop their panties", or "you should approach them in this way, it always works for me". Most of the dudes who claim to hav… | /r/seduction | 19/11/18 03:36 AM |
| 117 | Has Tinder gotten worse for actually getting dates?Yeah I started using it again recently and it's terrible. I see the same girls everyday, the majority share their IG, Venmo/Cashapp, and Snapchat. I get notifications for matches, but I can't view them, even though it says I have matches. Basically most of the app is pushing you towards using tinder gold. I remember the days when you had unlimited swipes for free and people actually matched/messaged you back. Seems like dating apps are fucked nowadays, especially since most of them are owned by … | /r/seduction | 19/11/18 03:24 AM |
| 1 | STOP Dressing Like Sh*tGo thrifting. You can find anything in a thrift store for much much cheaper than you'd find in department or outlet stores. I can get 10 shirts, and a couple jackets for $20-$30. You may have to sift through a few stores to find what you're looking for, but there are plenty of gems out there that can be had for cheap. You'd be surprised to see that some of the stuff in there is still "in-style", but I honestly don't give AF about what's trendy. If it's cool and fits well, I'll buy it. If you wan… | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 09:14 PM |
| 1 | STOP Dressing Like Sh*tThis. There is soooo much good shit you can find at thrift shops, especially the warehouse-style thrift shops with dozens of racks. It's a great way to get a haul of great unique clothing for dirt cheap, you may even find some gems in there that would cost you 10x-20x the price if you were to buy it new. | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 09:07 PM |
| 56 | Negativity towards 18 year olds or even beginners?Yeah, a lot of the guys here are jackasses that like to stroke their ego and act like they fuck 10 bitches a week | /r/seduction | 09/09/18 09:01 PM |
| 7 | Study finds that Humor, Story-telling, Mimicry and a Positive Personality make you more attractive than physical looksJesus, calm the fuck down. Did I hurt your feelings? You definitely seem like one of those cringey PUA that think they have game figured out but in actuality they have absolutely no idea what the fuck they're talk about and is actually an incel. I have many friends who are jacked, some that I've met at the gym and through martial arts, and some have GF's they've had since highschool, some have GF's who are lower value than them (I wouldn't date them myself) but they get along together well, some… | /r/seduction | 08/09/18 10:25 PM |
| 10 | Study finds that Humor, Story-telling, Mimicry and a Positive Personality make you more attractive than physical looksLol wut. Have you ever been outside your house? | /r/seduction | 08/09/18 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Going on a date with Tyra Banks on national television tonight, need advice/pickup lines/ especially since I am 20 years younger than her.Are you airing live? What channel is it on? | /r/seduction | 14/08/18 07:13 PM |
| 4 | Im depressed and i hate my self. I think im digging my self a hole. I hope you guys understand. Dont have a therapist in my town so i posted here. LmaLol you became racist because humans are being humans? | /r/seduction | 14/08/18 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Use This New Tinder Location Hack To Dramatically Boost Your Tinder Tanking (Matches)Ever since they put a limit on swipes, it's gone downhill | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop coming off as the boyfriend type?It's possible that they may be confused about your intentions/desires of wanting something casual when they're looking for an actual relationship. If that's the case, try to be more direct about what you want. In other words, avoid going boyfriend-mode when you're with them. The earlier you can establish these terms, the less you will have to worry about situations like these. | /r/seduction | 13/07/18 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Instagram can help your Dating LifeThey need to follow your IG first in order to see your posts, it's one thing for you to follow them, but for her to follow you back is an extra hoop to jump through. With a lot of people nowadays who try to maintain an "acceptable" follower/following ratio, it's unlikely they're going to continue following your IG if you're not relevant to their lives within the first week or 2 of meeting them. | /r/seduction | 28/06/18 06:59 PM |
| 30 | Instagram can help your Dating LifeThis^ Social media enables the desire for self-validation. It's something that gives us a dopamine-rush when someone follows our IG or likes our photo, feeding our ego. Not to mention, you're essentially building the ideal image of yourself, which displays to the world who you want to be, not who you actually are. It generally serves as a distraction from actually achieving our goals in life, instead you're building your social reputation through an app on your phone. Apart from that, I can see … | /r/seduction | 28/06/18 06:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Cold Approached an actress. Spent 2 hours in the parkHe said a lot of it is invested in stocks, seems like he's worked pretty hard for that money and is doing a good job of managing it | /r/seduction | 20/06/18 12:14 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Cold Approached an actress. Spent 2 hours in the parkHaha it's the only city I've been to where I saw ONLY white homeless people. You know the cost of living is fucked when the only homeless people in town are all white people. | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 11:00 PM |
| 22 | [FR] Cold Approached an actress. Spent 2 hours in the parkThe jealousy of OP's salary is strong in this comments section 😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 10:22 PM |
| 1 | The Ultimate Pro TipI think they'll catch onto this quick | /r/seduction | 15/06/18 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Making it clear that you like someone is more sexually attractive than hiding your feelings, new research finds.Who woulda thought?? | /r/seduction | 09/06/18 12:54 AM |
| 24 | This is my first time saying "no" after a girl acted like a bitch to me two weeks earlier and then reached out - old me would have gone for it anyway, I'm proud of my progressAt first that's exactly what I thought | /r/seduction | 08/06/18 09:26 AM |
| 1 | This is my first time saying "no" after a girl acted like a bitch to me two weeks earlier and then reached out - old me would have gone for it anyway, I'm proud of my progressWhat app is this? | /r/seduction | 08/06/18 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Small town / tourist town gameLocal bars and restaurants are the only places I can think of. Or if there are local events, those could be a good option | /r/seduction | 21/05/18 11:45 PM |
| 2 | How to Be Good in Group Setting?This. Hosting get-togethers and kickbacks at your place is a good way to show off how you like living. If people see you have a cool kickback spot, they'll be more comfortable with hanging out with you since they're already familiar with your place. Another bonus is if you have a girl over and you guys hit it off well, you won't have to worry about asking her to come back to your place because you guys are already there, you have the home court advantage. This is especially nice if you're a fres… | /r/seduction | 21/05/18 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Being introverted is no excuse to live in fear"anti-socialism" sounds like a term commonly used on r/Libertarian | /r/seduction | 21/05/18 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Do men like being asked out or pursued by women?The result depends on how attractive she is | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 09:22 PM |
| 1 | If you’re inexperienced, read this! Something I failed to realize early on that would’ve saved lots of headaches.Girls don't intentionally put you in the friendzone, you put yourself in the friendzone | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 01:56 PM |
| 2 | I approached a girl for the first time todayI don't know if I can recommend this, but yeah it'll show you're honest and have balls. A lot of girls (especially older ones) aren't really looking to be a babysitter for someone who is inexperienced and potentially needy. There are some girls who are into to that, but it's a very niche preference. Most want things to go as smoothly and seamless as possible, as they'll assume that if you had the balls to approach her and ask for her number, they'll at least expect you to be somewhat socially ad… | /r/seduction | 24/04/18 10:24 PM |
| 0 | Hooked up with a girl and day after I’m practically getting ghosted. What to do next?Lol don't call it hooking up if you're not banging her | /r/seduction | 23/04/18 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Shit. How do people actually manage to change their lives?Focus on/analyze what you say in day to day conversations (not while you're doing it, of course), practice mindfulness and introspection (don't get too deep with this though), express your feelings and opinions on things (music, journal writing, making videos, etc), and stay true to yourself and your ideals, don't change how you act around different social groups, once people realize your behaviors around different groups, they may see you as shallow or a "people-pleaser" trying to get validatio… | /r/seduction | 23/04/18 02:26 AM |
| 1 | If a girl sleeps in your bed, does she want you to make a move ?Damn a bot correcting a bot, I thought it would go on forever | /r/seduction | 22/04/18 02:39 AM |
| 1 | My friend Mike sucks at meeting women, how do I help him?Tell him to follow the subreddit lol | /r/seduction | 22/04/18 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Is Mark Manson's approach to seduction is the best?You clearly don't understand his principles then. In order for his concepts to work, you have to first focus on improving yourself and your lifestyle and making yourself more desirable, which consequently will lead to getting more women. You're ignoring his "Three Fundamentals", which arguably will make any guy better at getting women, even if they ignore everything else in his book. They're not abstract or hard to understand either, they make total sense if you understand a woman's needs. You m… | /r/seduction | 22/04/18 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Is Mark Manson's approach to seduction is the best?Vulnerability is only valuable if you have little no investment in the situation you are involved in. If you can change your perspective to accommodate for the fact that you have value, you respect that value, and you're not afraid to show it to others, then that is true vulnerability. If you're a needy desperate guy that tries to be vulnerable and ends up spilling out all of your thoughts and feelings in front a girl, then you get dumped. That is why Mark Manson emphasizes that you should build… | /r/seduction | 22/04/18 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Is Mark Manson's approach to seduction is the best?I find that a lot of Mark Manson's principles in his book Models can be applied universally, and can be adapted and interpreted in a way that may apply better to your situation. It is not the end-all-be-all of pick-up books that should be studied word-for-word like the Bible, but a lot of what he says in that book is reasonable enough to try yourself and confirm whether it works for you or not. To me it is kind of a "no nonsense" guide to picking up women that cuts through a lot the bullshit ass… | /r/seduction | 22/04/18 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Im hitting the clubs solo. Give me your best last minute adviceI think he means don't focus all your attention on getting laid, as doing so will only stress you out. As he said, just have a good time, don't expect anything, but expect everything as a possibility | /r/seduction | 21/04/18 11:47 PM |
| 27 | I did it. I approached 2 girls. Just gave compliments and walked away. Gotta crawl before you can walk before you can run0 - 100 | /r/seduction | 20/04/18 10:52 PM |
| 1 | My 2-year journey from socially anxious nerd to losing my virginity this weekend. Thank you guys for all of your tips.Delete | /r/seduction | 17/04/18 12:30 AM |
| 1 | My 2-year journey from socially anxious nerd to losing my virginity this weekend. Thank you guys for all of your tips.He MAY get ghosted, however, I find it hard to believe that he (a virgin) could set up a time to have sex with someone right after meeting them somewhere (not specified) and getting their number. He hasn't gone on a date with them, and unless he was already flirting with them a lot when they first met, a woman usually wouldn't ask for nudes straight away or arrange sex with someone they just met if that person hasn't escalated with them, unless she's just really really horny, which is possible. | /r/seduction | 17/04/18 12:04 AM |
| 1 | My 2-year journey from socially anxious nerd to losing my virginity this weekend. Thank you guys for all of your tips.Something I found interesting about high-school field trips is that a lot of the people on this field trip start hooking up/getting naughty with each other. Maybe it's the tension from the new environment everyone is in, or the fact that we all have to stick together, but people have flings with each other during the field trip, and these flings usually end once the field trip is over. I've asked friends about this who went to other highschools and they're familiar with this phenomenon, I guess … | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 11:49 PM |
| 2 | 5 Cheap First Date Ideas Women LoveLive music is subjective, if it's at a bar or something that's fine, but meeting up with the date at a concert is almost as bad as taking them to see a movie. | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 10:00 PM |
| 1 | how do you make tinder/bumble work for you as a virgin?Tinder usually isn't used too much for conversation, it is more for meet-ups, that is where you will get to know the person, not by messaging back and forth over an app. | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Do hot women get rejected ?Yeah joggers are tricky as most of them are sized proportionally by waist size, but there are some joggers out there for tall people like us, as long as they are able to touch your ankles, you should be fine. It's OK for them to expose some leg too. And I'm surprised youve had bad luck with chinos, most of them fit better on me than most jeans, they're not quite as durable as jeans, and they may shrink/stretch a bit more than jeans do, but as long as you get some slim fits or something of a simi… | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Do hot women get rejected ?Try switching it up, I personally almost never wear jeans. Try out chinos and joggers (pretty stylish right now), the more variety of colors you have, the better (my favorite are the maroon/plum colors). They'll make you stand out from the 90% of other men who are also wearing blue jeans, and will also give you a stylish base to build a distinct outfit from, and they'll match better if you have shirts and shoes that go great with them. I know some people may think your a hipster, but believe me,… | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 07:44 PM |
| 8 | Do hot women get rejected ?I have a friend who almost always thinks that (5's or 6's from my perspective) are 10's. People definitely have their preferences, but there are universal traits that almost all men would find attractive, like prominent and defined features, good hygiene, facial symmetry, etc. | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 07:39 PM |
| 5 | Do hot women get rejected ?Yeah, it's all about the pants, which is the most unimportant article of clothing for a lot of guys. They'll wear the same pair of baggy jeans multiple days a week, but they'll stress about what shoes they're wearing or if they should wear a T-shirt or long sleeve | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Quickest ways to become more attractive as a manI agree with this except for the "just be yourself" part, at least when it comes to personality. All sorts of guys act like, well, themselves, but acting like "yourself" can mean being awkward, rude, anxious, condescending, negative, etc. All traits that are unattractive to most women. There are definitely personality traits that women find attractive and personality traits that women find unattractive. In order to attract women, one must minimize/eliminate the unnatractive aspects of their pers… | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Quickest ways to become more attractive as a manIt's funny because most Italians I know are short af | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 02:57 AM |
| 13 | Got slapped in clubI never said they were retarded. They can't see everything that goes on. And the idea that the guy was harassing her sounds a lot more believable at a club than the fact that he was slapped for basically no reason. Maybe if he approached the bouncer right after and explained exactly what happened, they might believe him, but they'd rather take the word of the girl because they probably deal with creepy dudes harassing girls a lot more often than the situation OP explained. It's a tough decision … | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 12:07 AM |
| 1 | How to seduce without being needy?Work on working up your self-esteem and go into a lead with little investment. If she starts flaking or loses interest, she probably isn't worth your time. Value your time and effort with girls, know that she can back out whenever, and so can you. This way, it won't seem like youre investing your time and energy into getting to know her. | /r/seduction | 17/03/18 11:17 PM |
| 68 | Got slapped in clubI feel like she would just tell the bouncers that he was harassing her and he would probably get thrown out | /r/seduction | 17/03/18 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Is this the nature of seduction and being attractive?Because you use terms like autistic and it is unclear what you are actually referring to when referring to someone as autistic. You could be referring to a million different things. I remember saying that one in middle school. | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 08:31 AM |
| 3 | Highschool PUAApproach from the front, or at least from somewhere that you won't startle her, and find a way to make it obvious that you show interest in her before you actually approach her, catch eye contact and smile if you can. This is invaluable to the first steps of meeting someone. | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 08:19 AM |
| 1 | I need my own placeAs long as your not paying more for a place on airbnb than you would for a hooker | /r/seduction | 11/03/18 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Are you here for the girls or preparing for the Seduction Examination?This is why game comes earlier to those who practice and are familiar with the environment. There are plenty of guys out there who have never had to do any research on seduction because it has come naturally to them whether it be by dating people at a very early age, or they are good with reading body language and social queues. Not to say this information is pointless, it just serves as a reference for those who have yet to acquire solid game. Think about how people had to learn how to get good… | /r/seduction | 11/03/18 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Tip of the day: The "It's No Big Deal" MindsetLike video games, in order to be good at them, you need to practice, and trial and to error is the best way to figure out how to get better at said video games. Nice try though | /r/seduction | 11/03/18 12:26 AM |
| 2 | How to be mysterious without appearing like a loner?Bonus points for talking exactly like Batman would as well | /r/seduction | 10/03/18 01:47 AM |
| 1 | How to be mysterious without appearing like a loner?Recently I have had success with this archetype of seduction that has long been a developing aspect of my personality. Being mysterious doesn't mean being shy and quiet, but it also doesnt mean going "all-in" once you found a potential lead. It is being reserved, but knowing when to speak, and what to say, and doing so with confidence. It also requires some depth and knowledge, because a girl's interest in you will fizzle out if there isn't anything interesting about you or what you say in a con… | /r/seduction | 10/03/18 01:30 AM |
| 2 | How to be mysterious without appearing like a loner?I found out right after graduating highschool I unintentionally was perceived as mysterious. I was pretty fashionable (even received best dressed in the yearbook, if that means anything), usually walked alone in the hallway, but carried myself well, and I was acquainted or friends with pretty much everyone in my classes and could have a conversation with them, but most of the time, I minded my own business. Inside I was still very self-conscious, but on the outside, I looked confident, dressed v… | /r/seduction | 10/03/18 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Low confidence guy with ''above average'' looks seeking helpDamn, know you're not alone, I'm in the same exact boat as you, 20, think I look average but friends/strangers always compliment my looks/outfits, awkward, shy, same height, still a virgin, kissed girls but never made out with them, hell, I even look like you. I can't offer any advice, but I can wish you the best of luck, and what I found is starting to help is talking to girls who are 'easy' or 'average/ugly' just as practice for the girls who genuinely catch your eye, it helps your flow and co… | /r/seduction | 26/11/17 11:33 PM |
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