evapevaeva Archive

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1	Escorts are the best option for undesirable men It's not consensual when they wouldnt enthusiastically agree to sleep with you unless you paid them. You're literally paying for their consent, thats the whole concept of prostitution. And most physical sex workers don't love their job and dont love having sex with every costumer even if they might love the money. There are plenty of studies of this and the "happy prostitute" is an extreme minority among prostitutes. Idk how gullible you must be to think most of them love it, you should be aware…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/25 07:19 PM
0	Escorts are the best option for undesirable men You're comparing paying for consent with having a consensual ONS, where is the relevance? Its completely different things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/25 11:49 PM
2	Sexless men should honestly take their chances and approach as many women as possible This whole post feels extremely off base. If someone often is called creepy when approaching women the solution isn't to creep even more women out, the solution is to reflect over why women feel that way and to change his approach/the timing of his approach/whatever is wrong with the approach. S*x tourism doesnt have much to do with northern European women considering men in said countries more "daring" or "masculine", and has everything to do exotification and fetishation mixed with most of sai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 08:48 PM
1	If women can stay single for as long as they desire (as many women claim) then why don't single mothers abstain from dating men until their kids turn 18? Well yea i think thats where a lot of the disconnect is when it comes to discussions about this topic, because people interpret the meaning of a need differenly. And usually when women state that they dont need a man its in reference to the fact that they arent or wouldnt be miserable without one or arent desperate about finding one because they are doing just fine anyways. Because in society womens value are still very much measured in our ability to find or keep a man, whether people admit it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/24 06:17 PM
1	If women can stay single for as long as they desire (as many women claim) then why don't single mothers abstain from dating men until their kids turn 18? I want to feel appreciated, but not really needed. I dont like when i feel like someone depends on me or need me so much that they would have issues functioning without me, tbh i even find that a bit off putting because i think adults should be able to meet their own needs. But im definitely a very nurturing person so i do like taking care of my partner (when i have one) by pampering him and cooking nice food for him and giving massages and preparing little surprises etc and ofc i like to feel l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 10:46 AM
1	If women can stay single for as long as they desire (as many women claim) then why don't single mothers abstain from dating men until their kids turn 18? Yes, i am also happy without relationships, but im also happy when im in a healthy relationship, one doesnt necessarily exclude the other. Right now i dont want to be in a relationship, so right now im happy without one, later on i might want a relationship, but ill probably still be happy single too. I think happiness should come from inside and not depend on other people, because of the only way to be happy is through other people then ones happiness is very fragile	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 09:35 PM
1	If women can stay single for as long as they desire (as many women claim) then why don't single mothers abstain from dating men until their kids turn 18? I mean at this very moment i dont think i want a man because i do t really have the time to entertain a relationship, but in general i would want one when i have space for one, or im not against the idea of having a man. I mean Ive been in relationships in my life, so clearly there has been a want, but Ive never been in a situation where its been a need, and Ive never seriously actively looked for a relationship while single so i cant say Ive ever really been pressed about being in one. To put i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 09:33 PM
1	If women can stay single for as long as they desire (as many women claim) then why don't single mothers abstain from dating men until their kids turn 18? My comment clearly referred to the risk of being around mn as a woman, not about children. Also of course mothers will be the number one perpetrators when they are the ones who usually spend more time with the kids and are more likely to have the custody if the parents are separated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 09:28 PM
2	If women can stay single for as long as they desire (as many women claim) then why don't single mothers abstain from dating men until their kids turn 18? Personally I don't like dating apps because 1. They are full of creeps 2. I get too many messages if it's an app where I don't have to swipe right on someone for them to be able to inbox me 3. The swiping ones are annoying because you'll swipe left 49 times before finding someone to swipe right on 4. I don't want people who know me or know of me to find me on a dating app 5. Most guys on them are apparently just looking for hook ups anyways, which is easy to find without an app anyways if youre …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 03:45 PM
3	If women can stay single for as long as they desire (as many women claim) then why don't single mothers abstain from dating men until their kids turn 18? Someone not needing a man to depend on doesn't equal them not wanting to be in a relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 03:30 PM
2	If women can stay single for as long as they desire (as many women claim) then why don't single mothers abstain from dating men until their kids turn 18? A person who is dating is usually looking for a relationship, meaning that they don't want to be single. You see women are individuals and human, meaning that we don't all have the same needs and wants, just like everyone else. That I don't mind being single doesn't mean every woman don't mind being single. Also someone not minding being single doesn't have to mean that they never want to be in a relationship either, someone can feel like they would like a healthy relationship,but that they don'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 03:28 PM
13	Q4All: What's the biggest lie you were told about the opposite gender that you discovered was not true as you got older? That being kind, "submissive", nurturing and accepting will win a mans love and respect. Or that being there for them even when they are at their worst and loving them unconditionally will have them realize that you're their rock and make them treat you better or respect you more	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 09:45 AM
0	Q4All: What's the biggest lie you were told about the opposite gender that you discovered was not true as you got older? I mean you have a point, but communication also includes non-verbal communication and I think that's where a lot of men fall short because they aren't as attentive, which is also why they think women expect them to read minds when women think we have shown pretty clearly how we feel. But like you said, communication is also about making yourself understood so in that way I guess women do fall short when we don't take mens lack of understanding of non-verbal communication into consideration. Like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 09:39 AM
3	Q4All: What's the biggest lie you were told about the opposite gender that you discovered was not true as you got older? I think the first one has some truth to it, not that you shouldn't be more successful or educated, but a lot of men do react negatively to it even if they say they don't mind. Or it will attract them initially that you're knowledgeable and can hold a conversation, but once they realize that you surpass them in knowledge/success/intelligence it usually becomes a problem	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 09:28 AM
1	Do you think it's possible that some couples divorce when they shouldn't? The thing is that staying in a marriage and just tagging along doesn't really take much active effort, just passiveness. (Not saying that healthy marriages don't require work of course, just that not filing for divorce doesn't require any active desicion making). Divorce is a whole process to go through and requires action being taken and money, time and effort being spent. So I don't think it's really comparable to false negatives/positives in tests since there isn't really any "human"-factor t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 08:26 PM
3	Why do you think marriage for couples who were cohabiting before marriage do not last long. Probably because most people do cohabit before marriage except extremely religious people that don't believe in divorce and therefore don't get divorced regardless of how shitty their marriage is	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 05:10 PM
0	What's wrong with average men? Might sound horrible now, but I think women's average is higher than mens average. As in if we consider average as someone that falls in the average of different things like personality, looks etc etc (as in if we line up 1000 people they are around the middle), then the average men are way less impressive than the average woman because men have a lower percentage of both physically attractive people and mentally attractive people. So technically an average woman is going to be out of an average…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 12:27 PM
2	Why women come to r/PurplePillDebates ? Kind of weird question tbh. It's things and views that affect us, so why wouldn't we be interested in discussing it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 08:03 AM