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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Why do men think their sudden, unplanned, SpOnTaNeOuS trips are a positive? I thought for a really long time that me not liking spontaneity was a me problem! Like I was a control freak, I was not a good partner or person, I was "un-fun" (I hear this from my family too)! Truly tried to navigate my 20's while having MANY boundaries disrespected and disregarded. As I started getting older and acknowledging my own traumas and finding therapeutic approaches to manage my trauma symptoms, it became clear that it was just my brain trying to tell me this specific situation felt …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/22 10:37 PM
20	Play stupid games, win stupid prizes Such a satisfying story!! I was constantly rolling my eyes at him blaming others and saying at the same time "it's my fault". Yeah bish, we read it And him feeling any sort of way about his ex-wife's relationship. The entitlement of this man. I feel bad for baby boy. That man is that infamous incel declaring hatred for women, and will bring that into parenting of his child.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/22 05:03 AM
103	What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”? Playing devil's advocate on human rights issues. Like where is the compassion?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/12/21 02:34 AM
9	If a man is this obsessed with slimness, he doesn’t deserve to have someone carry his child. He is also probably repulsed by pregnant women. I dated a guy who for some reason brought up that Latina women let themselves go after marriage (we are both Latinx). I don't remember what I answered. But that whole interaction rubbed me the wrong way. Like bro, Latino men let themselves go. Men's hairline recedes. Y'all's libidos go down. The thingy gets harder to get hard. I did eventually wish him good luck cuz 20's are men's "peak"- it's all downhill from there🤷🏻‍♀️I wish I could come up with clever zingers on the spot to shut men down.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/21 06:38 AM
256	Husband suggests she stop buying formula rather than get a job and cancel his $80+ a month subscriptions. Ugh. That male fragility commonly found on all platforms. If you call men trash on IG, you get flagged by IG for "hate" speech... Okay fragile mods.🙄🙄🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/21 02:31 AM
2	Ground Rules - Take it Or Leave It Okay, I thought it was just me 😓So happy to see you ladies are back!!! I've missed you dearly!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 love that I woke up to this post!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 01:10 PM
11	What progress and solidarity looks like. That's how it started for me... I wish I had questioned it more... Despite knowing better, and having that bad instinct when a man told me "I don't like dating insert specific race. They are too high maintenance" I gave HIM the benefit of the doubt. Despite me saying I don't want to date irl (cuz we are in a pandemic) he kinda threw it on my face asking why I was on a dating website "to get a pen pal?" I felt icky then but still gave him the benefit of the doubt and laughed it off with him and m…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/21 05:38 PM

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