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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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8	Got Rejected on Kiss Attempt It's pretty damn immature to hold hands, cuddle, invite them over late at night, and not deny any other kind of physical escalation but not want anything more with them. To be honest, I would be offended if I was you. Personally, I'd find the this "friendship" pretty unhealthy.	/r/seduction	15/02/22 07:56 PM
3	Anyone else find themselves way better at flirting in their non-native language? I've had the same experience. I think speaking in a foreign language somehow allows us to distance ourselves from some of our emotions. Sometimes these emotions are fear of approaching others and flirting. In that case, speaking a different language can do wonders! Personally, I associate the languages that I speak with a time period in my life. So the experiences I had during the time when that language was dominating my thinking would reflect back on me as I used it now.	/r/seduction	31/01/20 04:22 PM
5	Pros and cons of wording your invite for a date "Let's meet up later to get some food or drink. What's your schedule like?" It sounds very platonic and could be mistaken for such. But saying "I'd like to take you out on a date" puts more pressure on her. Your experiences using similar wordings? I also disagree. Far too often I have made the same mistake and ended up with a friendship that was just that — a friendship. Having spent more time with this person, you would only develop even stronger feelings and later get hurt when we reach a point when it's made clear that they are not interested in you.	/r/seduction	31/01/20 04:16 PM

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