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Discussionevenst5ven/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:19 AM
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Okay you do not care. But wouldn't you atleast agree that its the right path for someone who does care? If someone does care wouldn't you agree that they should be preaching what I said? like how are you trying to convince people? By debating on a debate sub for one. 😂 I agree that I wouldn't know how to communicate that effectively. But communication only comes after accepting the fact that this is true. If you don't even accept it, then what's there to communicate?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:40 AM
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Ok, let's say I agree with what you say. Wouldn't you then say that both men and women should have low n counts to have a better chance? I mean if men won't accept women with high n counts and women can't find good men who accept their high n counts, then wouldn't you say it's better that women stop engaging in casual sex ? (Which will automatically lead to men stop engaging in casual sex)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:17 AM
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I just think it's completely unreasonable for society to gaslight men into thinking that if she doesn't consider you the best sex and you're hurt by that, it's insecurity. I feel like these type of idiotic teachings are what has caused the divorce rate to skyrocket. Because you can repress these feelings in the short term but they will always come out in the long term. I agree that shared values should be upheld by everyone. But the idea that a man is insecure for wanting low n count women is ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:07 AM
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And what values are those?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:55 PM
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Can you explain why it screams insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:49 PM
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but uhh. nobody cares. preferences are preferences. I've literally had so many women on this sub scream "INSECURITY" at me for saying this. Apparently it's insecurity to want a chaste woman. So while I agree with you, the vast majority of women on this sub don't share your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:41 PM
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I guess the same applies when women say they like a guy taller than them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:59 PM
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This isn’t going to stop the average woman from having multiple sex partners before she’s married. It doesn’t matter who gets sex easier and who doesn’t. Yeah, as of now. If more men wake up to this and started rejecting them for better women then they will automatically stop. You are extremely unaware of yourself. What you just wrote is the definition of insecurity. No I'm very aware of myself. I'm aware that I might not be happy in a relationship if I'm not the best she's ever had. The people …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:54 PM
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Awful analogy. The comparison to that wouldn’t be women who have slept around in the past, though. The comparison would be a woman whose cheated in the past. I don't know if you know this but men and women are different and consider different things as valuable. For men getting sex is difficult. For women getting sex is easy. It's actually getting the man to commit that is difficult. So that's why I made this comparison. It's not an awful analogy by any means. You just don't understand the sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:26 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with it. It’s just isn’t very realistic The only reason it isn't realistic is because men have been gaslighted into accepting these women as their wives. If men were actually allowed to voice their opinion which is that high n count women are not attractive, then this would not be happening. his has nothing to do with what I wrote. My boyfriend has had girlfriends in the past that have made him happy. It would be insane for me to get upset about that. Not what I'm saying. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:16 PM
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Lol 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:03 PM
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They know they can't argue with logic 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:55 PM
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I will never understand why it's so wrong for a man to want to be the best sex their partner has ever had. When you strip away all the fluff it comes down to how their ego can’t take the thought of her finding joy with another man. How would you feel if your husband said that the only reason he married you was because he couldn't lock down his ex? Otherwise he definitely would've gone for her? You'll be livid. Is that insecurity too? The higher the n count, the higher the chance she fucked someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:40 PM
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I am deathly afraid and insecure about being cheated on but it isn’t fair for me to treat every man I have a romantic relationship with like he’s going to cheat. Yeah but you wouldn't want to get into a relationship with a guy who has cheated on his partners in the past. Why? Because it shows his character. The idea that the past doesn't matter is completely ridiculous. The past absolutely matters. You can't have it both ways. Either you're insecure and therefore you shouldn't care about anyone'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:29 PM
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I've never understood why it's such a bad thing to be the best sex your partner has ever had. And I don't understand why that insecurity has to go. Imagine a guy saying that his ex would've made a better mother and partner than his current wife. Like how is she not supposed to feel insecure? And why does she have to take abuse like that? If the guy feels like that then he should go marry his ex instead of his current girl. Similarly, guys want to feel like they're the best for their women. If yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:22 PM
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I come inside my FWB all the time and I feel like we do intimate stuff that FWBs are not supposed to do. I don't know if that will inevitably lead to catching the feels though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:45 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:10 PM
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How do you know if you've caught feelings for your FWB?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:03 PM
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Try now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:01 PM
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Lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:06 PM
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That's what I mean. Sure her body count could be 2. But it's very likely that it's a lot more than that. The chance that she met the best sex of her life with just 2 people is unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:05 PM
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Ok let's say what you say is true. Do you think the husband deserves that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:04 PM
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Lmao. This is why men prefer women with lower body counts. https://i.postimg.cc/nhMqBwmJ/20220202-095200.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:06 AM
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This is actually what men mean when they want a traditional woman. Not that they want a woman who behaves as if it's the 50s or 60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:32 AM
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She is very much traditional. Traditional doesn't mean not adapting to the ages. It just means bringing the values of traditional feminity into a marriage/relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:06 AM
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Oh, is that so? https://postimg.cc/87QFV4wK
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:58 AM
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If you want to be condescending, do it straightforwardly. Don't beat around the bush.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:39 AM
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Yeah, it's ridiculous when women say "Woe is me". Thanks for acknowledging it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:49 AM
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And also remember that the percentage of rejection they get is nowhere near the percentage of rejection for men. For men it's almost every woman. For women its like "more men" but nowhere near the same numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:47 AM
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Errr wrong most couples are close in age 1-2 years apart. Proof? And the number of sexless men has been increasing so what exactly is your point? Men can “check out” and be sexless it’s not like all these 30s women are single while the men are all happily married or getting all this casual sex. Um both sexes are getting more single in the 30s but men are getting hit harder ultimately. Nope. The MGTOW movement is basically men checking out and being content. I haven't heard of a similar women's m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:38 AM
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Women are least likely to be single in their 30s and there are more single men in their 30s than women. Because if you're a 35-39 yr old married woman, your husband could probably be in the 40s age range. And also, this has nothing to do with my point. I'm not saying that there are more single women than men. I'm saying that the number of single women in their 30s have been increasing. If it is factually and demonstrably false, then show me proof that the number of single women in their 30s are …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:54 PM
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Nope it's changing. I agree that right now some women can have it both ways. But more and more men are waking up to this and refusing to commit to them. I personally know 2 men who are actually so bitter about this that they keep stringing women along for sex while promising them a relationship. I'm not justifying their behavior, but that is what's happening. Men are either going MGTOW or using women for sex but never commiting to them. More and more women who are in their 30s are having so much…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:46 PM
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Look lady, bottom line is you can't have it both ways. You can keep filibustering all you want but the bottom line is you can't have it both ways. Either understand that if you engage in casual sex that you will have to treat me the same as you treat Chad. Or don't engage in casual sex and I will happily wait for you. Don't sleep with Chads on the first date and then ask me to wait. And don't try to deceive me as if you don't sleep with people on first dates. If that's the case then don't accept…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:18 PM
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he's in his chair having coffee in their driveway next door and says "hey babe, how was your night". The true alpha male
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:07 PM
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Um so it only matters what men want? Women also want hot attractive guys and the most hot and attractive guys are Chads. Then go date Chads. This is a stupid argument. No one is stopping you from dating and being in relationships with Chads. Women also want hot attractive guys and the most hot and attractive guys are Chads. If they can get with Chads why would they get with the less attractive guys UNLESS those guys offered something Chad didn’t? Because Chads don't commit. That's what I've been…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:40 AM
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Looks like your mother gets mentioned a lot on the internet and experience has taught you this 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:14 AM
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I don't know if this is sarcasm or not. If it's not, then thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:19 PM
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I just made a comment about this. Feminine women are the best. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/scirgx/what_do_you_love_about_menwomen/hu7o9fh?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:02 PM
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Some women choose to be more shallow and think short term, getting with a hot guy who won’t offer longterm commitment while other women choose a less attractive man who will be in it for the long haul. Yeah, but some women want both. That's the problem. I know some women who are attracted to guys they find very sexy but they would still make them wait if those guys were to ask them out. And so what that means is that she is willing to sacrifice superficial pleasure in order to respect her potent…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:47 PM
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Honestly, feminine women are simply the best. I had a GF once and she was so feminine and did feminine stuff that it made me feel manly AF! She would ask me to open jars and stuff for her. She would often hug me and tell me that I was big and warm. Whenever we watched a scary movie, she would cuddle into me when she was scared of the stuff in the movie. I honestly loved that so much that I would often propose scary movies just so that she would cuddle into me. She thought I was obsessed with sca…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:16 PM
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Yes! I've seen this with my mom! I don't know how she does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:45 PM
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The reason I used champagne and stuff is because I wanted to make a point that it was romantic. Like you said Romance is different for everyone and maybe I didn't convey it properly. So let's use your own terminology. There is no recipe for romance other than listening to your partner, connecting with them and creating moments for the two of you. Okay so what if he does more of all of this stuff with some other girl than you? Note the use of the word "more". It's not that he's not doing that wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:45 PM
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You seem like a reasonable person, so I'll give you a proper good faith response. I understand what you're saying. But here's the thing If you can’t give a woman the tingles because you are average looking or below expect to offer her other things like your time, affection, conversation, money, etc.. Then don't agree to the date. That's what I'm saying. Because you're settling for me. And while you might think that's okay now, it might not be in the future. And I deserve to be treated like a cat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:06 PM
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Exactly. It's like a very tiny proportion of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:44 PM
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Lmao, he wasn't expecting that 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:43 PM
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Exactly. I've seen this tactic used many times. He's using those 60 years as a proxy to browbeat people into accepting that women were oppressed throughout history while men lived like gods throughout history.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:41 PM
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I’m confident enough in who I am being pretty damn awesome that it doesn’t bug me their ex was awesome too. Yeah but how do you know that he's treating you better than some random woman? Or how do you know he's treating you like a potential partner? Basically I'm asking what if he treats his ex as if she was better than you or more of a catch than you. My biggest red flag in a situation like this is if he’s still caught up on her; that’s disrespectful to me and himself to get into our relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:19 PM
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Women in muslim countries must have a male guardian to do their legal business. They must not show any skin to nay man other than their husband. They dont have a right to education or work. Google infanticide rates of baby girls in india. Or google abirtion rates of girls in china during one child policy. Everyone agrees that the middle east is not egalitarian. I'm talking about the west. Stop bringing middle east into the conversation because basically everyone agrees that the middle east is ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:59 PM
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In what way are women oppressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:25 PM
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Can't make a counter argument, can you? Whatever dude, be miserable if you can’t accept that women have sex lives independent of your moral code. I'm miserable, yes. And I'm trying to make others as miserable as possible. If I can't be happy, the least I can do is make others as miserable as I can. Maybe they'll still end up happy, but I'll be damned if I don't try. Maybe then they'll listen to my concerns and treat me with respect. Maybe tomorrow you can get angry that water is wet or the sky i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:39 PM
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Your complaint is essentially that a girl doesn’t fuck you fast enough? Nope Or is your complaint that she fucks other guys? Nope What exactly is so bad about being “boyfriend” material who waits a couple of dates?? So a potential "boyfriend" should wait for a couple of dates before having sex, but some random guy can jump into bed the very night? What kind of a dumb ass logic is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:27 PM
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No it's the comment under that which she's referencing. My comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:13 AM
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Wait are you really 16? What are you doing here? Get away from this madness before it consumes you too. You can still save your innocence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:34 AM
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Lol, she wasn't expecting that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:44 AM
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My bad I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:40 AM
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Research shows that women are not as preoccupied with looks as men are. Women care more about grooming habits and a man's likelihood to be a good father and a good partner. Only when they wanna settle down. They want the nice, caring, good father and partner guy because he's the one who'll take care of her babies and provide for her. I'm not saying that's a bad thing but you have to understand the context. The context is: She would not have given a fuck about him when she was young. He wouldn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:38 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/sc3lqk/feel_like_guys_are_less_likely_to_be_interested/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share Lol. Makes me laugh every time. Though I feel bad for them, can't say they don't deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:22 AM
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You're bothered by your own posts? 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:09 AM
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L M A O 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Aren't you the same person who was angry at this person for sharing anecdotes? https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/sbx8t2/if_youre_the_kind_of_guy_upset_at_a_girl_labeling/hu3963w?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 And now you're angry that instead of sharing anecdotes, he's sharing actual studies which reflect real life 🤣🤣 So you won't accept anecdotes. But you won't accept studies either. Lol, you just want testimonials from FDS women masqueraded as…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:05 AM
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Are you okay? Maybe you should check yourself into a hospital? Cause if you keep raging like this you might burst an artery.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:53 AM
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I posted the first one. What's the problem exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:51 AM
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E X A C T L Y
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:42 AM
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They don’t give a fuck about ethics or other people. Why should we? Nobody gives a fuck about us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:32 AM
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Chad Pitt 😂. Cannot lie, that made me laugh 😂 Guys like you make it really easy for average guys like me to get laid. Say thank you for our sacrifice. I won’t discourage you from whining but you should be aware that it will not change any woman’s mind and you’re yelling at clouds. That's the problem. Women want men to open up about their problems and issues and then when we do they bash us and call us entitled. 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:31 AM
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🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:26 AM
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My house is on fire because my neighbor poured gasoline on the floor and torched it but I'm the one being blamed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:45 AM
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Yeah, I got a PhD in mind reading!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:33 AM
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Because she isn’t friends with them? But she isn't friends with me either. But even if she were, your theory is that she will go on a date, and then not sleep with me implying that I wasn't worthy enough to sleep with like the other men? How is that not worse? Women do whatever they want just as men do. No two guys approach the same woman the same, no two guys are the same. Agreed So why would either guy expect their outcome to be the same? But no one is expecting the same outcome. It's not like…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:32 AM
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lots of men Very very few men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:17 AM
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Lol, if you stand up for yourself when people attack you for nothing, it's apparently "selfish". That's not calling someone out. That's being delusional 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:06 AM
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I didn’t say men want coochie. Men did So your theory is that only men are saying that. Women have no idea that men want sex? And no man has ever told me that I need to put out or I don’t like him enough, so I assume men have decided it’s not something appropriate to say No man has said it to your face. But that doesn't mean they didn't think of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:05 AM
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Lol. Then why do women reject some men when they ask them out? I mean rejecting them outright hurts their feelings too? What about married women? Should they go out with men because rejecting them might hurt the men's feelings? This idea that women only do that to spare men's feelings is ludicrous. Women have no problem rejecting men. They don't give a shit if the man's feelings are hurt. Some even take pride in it. The reason they do that is to justify their behavior. They want to fuck one guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:02 AM
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Lol, you hella mad 🤣 Ppl who wanna debate don't make enraged statements like that 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:33 AM
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If I'm not capable of offering them what the men they put out for did, then why agree to the date in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:17 AM
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That may be true but mainstream media is completely against one side - masculinity. You never see them attacking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:09 AM
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No need to dumpster dive. Just exhibit that in normal life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:08 AM
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Lmao. Stay mad 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:06 AM
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If anything it makes it even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:06 AM
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I'm trying to make an analogous argument. If a man says that his ex was smarter, sexier and more of a catch, is that okay? If a man is going to a nature retreat with another woman and then talks about his hopes, dreams and hobbies with her her while gazing at the stars, is that okay? If not (which I'm pretty sure that's what you're gonna say), then why not? I mean after all even he says or does these things, he chose you. So why bother with this stuff? Answer this and I'll give you my argument
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:50 PM
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I'm trying to make an analogous argument. If a man say that his ex was smarter, sexier or more of a catch, is that okay? If a man is going to a nature retreat with another woman and then talks about his hopes, dreams and hobbies with her her while gazing at the stars, is that okay? If not (which I'm pretty sure that's what you're gonna say), then why not? I mean after all even he says or does these things, he chose you. So why bother with this stuff? Answer this and I'll give you my argument
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:49 PM
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Yeah, but that's why I'm asking this. Let's say she wasn't all that. Let's say she was sweet and sexy and more of a catch. And your partner tells you that he thinks his ex is more beautiful, smarter and sexier than you. He feels relieved that you aren't that much of a catch because finally he doesn't feel pressured to put in that much effort into your relationship. Would you be okay with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:22 PM
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Did you even read my comment? I actually agree with you man. Women's bad behavior is what's incentiving this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:19 PM
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Your particular case might not belong. But that attitude is in fact, the TRUE abundance mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:17 PM
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It's purposeful behavior dude. Don't be surprised when they yell "where are all the good men at!" once they hit the wall. It actually makes me so happy to see more and more men waking up to this kinda bullshit and rejecting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:05 PM
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Lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:01 PM
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I would rub "I told you so" in their faces. It's one thing to be ignorant. But it's another thing to be stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:00 PM
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Dude, that is the opposite of what the study shows. If you don't like that, then take it up with the study.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:59 PM
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Exactly! It seems like this goes in one ear and out the other even though it's been beat to death a million times. I still see some idiots commenting stupid shit like "OmG! You want ALL women to put out on the first date?" Like no you stupid idiot. I just want the women who put out for other men to put out for me on the first date!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:55 PM
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It matters to me and it matters precisely because there are plenty of women in the world and someone out there will give me what I want. I don't need to waste time with the ones that don't. If she does not want to give me her best, then I move on to someone that will. Exactly. That is the TRUE abundance mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:51 PM
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This is exactly why men become more and more manipulative. And it's terrible for society. When women do this kind of shit and people like you justify it, here's the advice men give to other men: "If she says you're boyfriend material and wants you to wait, then wait. Date her and sometime later you'll both have sex. Dump her after a few times or ideally Keep stringing her along for sex. Act as if you're genuinely interested in her but just keep using her for sex. At the same time, try to date/FW…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:43 PM
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So you wouldn't mind if he thinks his ex is more of a catch than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:31 PM
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I was just about to link that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:28 PM
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No. But if you agree to a first date with me, then the least I deserve is to be treated fairly. If not, then don't agree to the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:26 PM
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I don’t cry about that, I know why men use women for sex — it is very logical Well tell your fellow women. I’ve slept with men immediately when I didn’t care if I saw them the next day. Nobody seemed upset about it Good. Keep letting me pump and dump you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:40 PM
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Why Hello? I just told you why. Men don't like it when they're treated inferiorly to some random guy. If you consider my pussy secondary to my company this is not a problem That's your standard. Men can have standards too. We don't like it if you treat us inferiorly to some random guy. If you consider us secondary to someone else, then that is THE problem. I don’t think my partner loved that chick he had a drunken hookup with more than me, so I am not bothered I mean some people are fine with sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:38 PM
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Yes, so don't have sex on the first date. I'm fine with that. As long as it's a principle. Don't let some random men have sex on the first night but then tell me that I have to wait. I want to be treated the same way as others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:40 PM
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That you sleep with players on the first date but then don't sleep with good men on the first date and then cry "why are men like this?"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:38 PM
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Nope it's a strawman argument. There are Women who as a principle wait before having sex. No one is talking about those women. There are some women who sleep with men on the first date. No one is talking about them either. It's only the women who make some men wait while putting out on the first date for others we're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:27 PM
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all women will have sex with an alpha within minutes. Strawman argument
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:24 PM
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Okay my answer would be, I would feel bothered that he's dating someone else Why? You're happy in your relationship, right? Why does it matter that he's dating someone else? Because he's treating someone else more special than you. That's why. Anyways, again, I don't see how this situation is similar to OPs in any way. Because relationship is to women, what sex is to men. This is how men feel when you give sex early to someone else but not to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:16 PM
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Well you're sexually aroused enough to have sex with someone else on the first date. Enough circle jerking. You're once again back to square A. And you making the same argument that started this conversation. I'm done. I can help ignorant people learn new things but I can't help ignorant people who want to stay ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:10 PM
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When you fuck someone and they leave, you feel abandoned, and this happens in the first dates. Then don't fuck someone on the first date. No one is asking you to fuck someone on the first date. But don't fuck some random guy on the first date but expect your potential BF to wait for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:52 PM
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You don't wanna answer it because if you then that means you'd have to concede that her behavior is wrong. That's why you don't wanna answer it. Instead of bitching about my hypothetical analogies, why don't you answer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:48 PM
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I'm sorry but I don't know what you mean. What is it exactly that you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:39 PM
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That women like players instead of the good men and then ask "where are all the good men?"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:37 PM
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Irrelevant to the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:59 PM
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Just provide evidence that the men are indeed bad people and that she has a history of serially doing it, and that she’s never acknowledged that this is what she’s done. I mean that's in her post? Didn't you read the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:11 PM
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How am I supposed to find evidence of that? 😂. Imagine someone who thinks the earth is flat but doesn't say it out loud at all because people won't respect him. How am I supposed to find evidence of the fact that he thinks the earth is flat? He's not going to tell me that if I ask him. The very fact that he wants to keep it a secret means that I can't prove that he thinks that. But that doesn't mean the thought doesn't exist in his mind. And that's my claim. Most women have that thought. But you…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:07 PM
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Commenter on her thread : Just an advice,find It out quickly because guys who take girls serious hate womem like that Her reply: I mean I’m hardly going to start rushing to settle with someone at my age am I? So not really fair to say ‘find out quickly’. I was asking this question for general advice/to see who is in the same position. She doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:57 AM
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Commenter on her thread : Just an advice,find It out quickly because guys who take girls serious hate womem like that Her reply: I mean I’m hardly going to start rushing to settle with someone at my age am I? So not really fair to say ‘find out quickly’. I was asking this question for general advice/to see who is in the same position.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:57 AM
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For every woman who does this, there are many more who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:54 AM
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Lol, apparently she can date these players and then afterwards claim that she recognizing patterns only now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:53 AM
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, but if they end up stealing to support a drug habit as adults it is their fault. Case in point. Go look at the post again. She KNOWS these are players and yet chases them. It's not like she is not aware of what's happening. She's very much aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:50 AM
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Exactly. I feel for the men who get sloppy seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:48 AM
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Never said those weren't bad either
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:46 AM
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By that same logic, men have been hardwired to spread their genes as far and wide as possible. So if a guy cheats on his wife, it's just evolution I suppose? I mean even if he regrets it, he can't rewire his brain. So Iets cut the guy some slack for cheating on his wife with some sidechicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:45 AM
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So it's all forgiven then. Both men and women behave because of bad parenting and therefore they can just roam around behaving terribly?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:43 AM
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So if you make any mistakes/have any regrets in your dating life that should count against you forever? So if you reject a man because he was a pedophile and abused children in his past, you're the bad person? I mean it's his past anyway. He only made a mistake. Why are you rejecting him based on that? Lol, answer this. Also, you don't get to complain that men behave badly if that's what gets them young women. Young women are the ones men desire the most. So if you're young and you make these "m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:40 AM
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So if a guy leads a woman on, has lots of sex with her and then doesn't commit to her, can we blame the his attachment style? Maybe he wasn't treated right by his mother and that's why he's doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:34 AM
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Some women do it. As well as some men pursue (and marry) clearly not-for-LTR-women, gold diggers, women they know were/are cheating on their partners etc. BPD seems to attract a fair lot of men as well. Sure men can behave badly too. And if you want to claim that it's true for most women, you should prove it not with an anecdotal evidence, as it doesn't really prove much. I can bring up my own anecdotal evidence of myself being married to my first and only partner and my cousins who have never d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:33 AM
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either young That's the problem. They do this when they're young and then expect good men to date them when they're older. If men don't, then they scream "where are all the good men!". Women don't pretend like it doesn't happen either, they're more than willing to point it out with friends and peers. Nope they pretend that they made a mistake. That they didn't know he was a player. But they know. That's why I said Case in point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:29 AM
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CASE IN POINT. https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/sb4goc/why_do_i_only_feel_attracted_to_emotionally/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:14 AM
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Yea I guess, but you’re not going to be sexually arousing to every woman Thats why I'm saying that they don't have to date me. Don't agree to a date, but then tell me I have to wait for something others got for free. she doesn’t want to ruin her chances with you and come off as a slut. Isn't that deception? If you sleep with guys on first dates but then you pretend to not sleep on first dates because I might reject you, isn't that Deception? I thought deception was wrong. Or does that only apply…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:59 AM
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For men, a woman being sexually aroused by him is the ultimate compliment. So when she says, well I was sexually aroused by him so I had sex with him on the first date, but I'm not aroused by you and you have to work for me to be aroused by you means that he is inferior to the other guy. If that's your logic, then men would rather women not date them than do this type of bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:43 AM
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The argument you're making is about treatment in comparison to previous partners. No the argument I'm making is treatment in comparison to other people. For men, a woman being sexually aroused by him is the ultimate compliment. So when she says, well I was sexually aroused by him so I had sex with him on the first date, but I'm not aroused by you and you have to work for me to be aroused by you means that he is inferior to the other guy. Look it's simple. A women who gets railed by a bunch of Ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:40 AM
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I'm making a point. The reason that's generally agreed to in a monogamous relationship is because that's what makes the partner special! You get: Romance, Sex, Platonic stuff (kindness, etc) Other women get: ONLY PLATONIC STUFF. Other women don't get Romance and sex. Only YOU do. That why you're special to him. I don't know why you're so adamant in making it seem like you're not special. You are special because there's only one woman in your husband's life that gets all 3. And that's you. Other …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:04 AM
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Once again complete bad faith argument. Very very disingenuous and I'm sick of it but I'm not letting this go unless you can make a proper argument. If he happens to treat others really well he can go wild with that, I don't have a monopoly on his kindness Okay. You don't have a monopoly on his kindness. But why do you have a monopoly on his sexuality though? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:42 AM
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Lmao 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:20 AM
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Good for you. Don't listen to her. You seem like a confident, feminine and lovely person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:14 AM
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Actually most red pillers would be happy with a woman like you. Not sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:13 AM
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But what matters to me is how I'm treated while I'm dating someone, not how they treated others. Yeah, but my point is that you expect him to treat you better than some random woman. That's what I can't seem to make you understand. If he treats you the same way he treats a coworker in his office, then what's the point? don't think that this strategy is a good one and I'm not encouraging it, just explaining it. Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:05 AM
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This is false. Most men are willing to be in relationships with women who sleep on the first date. It's women, who slut shame other women. I know many of my male friends who are in LTRs with the women they hooked up with on the first night. By men refusing to be in long term relationships with sluts, Men refuse to be in LTRs with women who were sluts for other men, but prudes for them. PERIOD.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:57 AM
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No. That means the random guy is better. He arouses her in a way that the other guy couldn't. But even if what you're saying is true the same point applies. Why shame men for doing the same thing they are doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:40 AM
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Yeah 2006 - 2010 data. How is that relevant to today? Dating apps weren't even popular back then. Nice try but y'all need to up your game if you think that's gonna fool men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:37 AM
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Then they aren't chads. The ones you had sex with are the Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:14 AM
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The problem with this is that there are some single mothers who are actually good people. Like they lost their husband in an accident or he got killed serving in the military, etc. And even these women get a bad rap because of these feminist single moms who hit the wall and now can't get anyone to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:07 AM
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Lmao 😂. For some reason, I really appreciate this analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:54 AM
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Lol, there is a post on this sub today that is describing the exact same scenario. And you claim there's no one like this. But even if you haven't met someone, that doesn't mean the concept is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:08 AM
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And what point is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:00 AM
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No it is a thing. But you can't use that to mask/justify your bad behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:00 AM
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Lol, you're being purposefully obtuse. None of this is even related to the point I'm making.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:55 AM
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Yes. That's my point. If you have casual sex with a random guy, then you can't expect a potential boyfriend to wait for sex. You're basically saying some random guy is better than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:01 AM
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Women. I don't think you're getting the point. Look if you're a woman who waits 6 months before sleeping with a guy, and you impose the same standards with every guy, then most guys are happy to wait. That's withholding in general as a practice. If you're a woman who wants boyfriend material to wait but have had sex with some random men on the first date, then you're showing preferential treatment. And in the wrong direction too. If anything you should be having sex with boyfriend material on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:59 PM
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Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:49 PM
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Because he's not attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:47 PM
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Therefore, not having sex with a man immediately is the solution Lol, so you're telling women shouldn't have one night stands? We agree then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:47 PM
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Lol, got her 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:45 PM
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Finally. Someone with common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:36 PM
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It is absolute and utter dishonesty. Period. Completely immoral. You're basically saying that some random man/woman is superior to the guy/girl your dating/BF/GF. It's mostly women who try to pull this bullshit saying that "oH He WiLL tHiNk I'M eAsY". No one cares if you have sex on the first date. It's the differential treatment that the issue. If you make everyone wait for sex, then men habe no problem waiting. If some random guy has sex with you on the first date but your BF doesn't get to, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:35 PM
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The point im making is that you get some things that other women don't. You get to be sexually and romantically touched by your husband because he values you more than some random woman. You would be right in getting angry if he sexually touches another woman. But OP doesn't get the thing that other men have got. He didn't get sex on the first date. But some random dude got it. If OP was boyfriend material, meaning that he is of more value to her than some random guy, then why didn't he have sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:14 PM
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Agreed So we agree that you wouldn't want your husband to be physically touching a woman in a romantic context. But why? Aren't you happy in your relationship not knowing this? Why do you become unhappy when you learn that he has had romantic physical contact with another woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:03 PM
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Why don't you take it in the other direction? Is it OK for someone to not tell a date that he once stole a 10 cents pen in a shop or that he once missed the trash can with his garbage and didn't pick it up? You're missing the key difference here. No one actually cares about these. These things are not a Dealbreaker. But a guy who has a kid with another woman or being a rapist in the past are dealbreakers. Other people will not date a person if someone has a kid or if they have abused someone in …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:41 PM
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So you agree that it's okay for a guy to be deceptive just so that he can date woman? He can hide the fact that he has a child or that he was a rapist until the woman is seriously invested in him?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:22 PM
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Hahaha. 🤣🤣. My turn to be intellectually dishonest. Physical touch would be making it not okay. That's basically where I'd draw the line between dating and being friends. Why? You just wanted sexual exclusivity. Holding hands is not sexual. Why does it bother you now? Physical touch? So he's not allowed to shake hands with a woman? If yes, then how come he's not allowed to physically touch her when he's on a nature retreat. It's just physical contact in both situations. (You and I both know what…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:08 PM
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But my point still stands. If OP doesn't want a woman who's "easy", then why is it okay for her to pretend as if she's not and then say she is when he's invested? Like let's say a woman is in a relationship with a guy for 2 years. And then he says "I have a kid with another woman". And then she asks "why didn't you tell me that right away?" And then he says "Well if I told you that, then you wouldn't date me" IS THAT OKAY?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:03 PM
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So you're telling me a woman is happy for her husband to take someone on a nature retreat and hold hands while looking at the stars as long as he doesn't call it a "date". LOL. What is the difference between being emotionally close with a woman and dating her?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:57 PM
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Your terms are acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:52 PM
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as do most monogamous people who let their partner go outside. Completely false. Everyone knows that is not true. No woman is happy to see her husband go on a date with another woman and talk about their dreams, vulnerabilities and hobbies, etc. No woman is happy that her husband took another woman to a nature retreat and held hands while looking at the stars. Now, you may be someone who doesn't care (although I highly doubt it) but pretending that this is the norm is very very dishonest and obt…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:50 PM
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Then why did she tell him that? If she cared about appearing easy then why did she tell OP that if he was not boyfriend material, she would've slept with him? Isn't that doing the very thing she's trying not to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:45 PM
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Feeling afraid that your desired boyfriend might leave you or respect you less/treat you differently if you have sex with him too soon is definitely not fair. But most men don't think like this. It's other women who shame them. Most men are fine as long as they get the same or preferential treatment. Your sex is no one else’s to ‘claim’. Just like your money, your time and your effort. Once again this is a strawman argument. The argument is special treatment. Let's say a woman is completely sati…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:43 PM
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You said in that situation I was in a place emotionally that I was happy with, so he wouldn't be checked out. I'm not sure why I should care what he's doing emotionally with other people So let's say your happy with your sex life. But then you find out he's having sex with someone else. Is that okay as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:30 PM
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Why would it lead to a shorter lasting relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:29 PM
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Lol, it's not like an official concept. But your spouse is the person you live with everyday. If you're someone who's claiming that your spouse is less important than some random person or that they are the same as some random person, then that means you've emotionally checked out. You're being purposefully obtuse and acting as if you don't understand the concept. Shows that you'll do anything to "win" rather than argue in good faith. Next you'll tell me you don't believe 2+2 is 4 and that belie…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:11 PM
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The reason I'm saying you're lying is because you are saying that you are fine with your partner emotionally cheating on you. If that's fine, then he was not your partner to begin with. Either way, it's not a good faith argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:43 PM
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Okay, that's it. I'm willing to accept good faith arguments but you're completely dealing in bad faith. You don't want a debate, you just wanna "win" by hook or by crook. There's never been a more purposefully obtuse reply than yours. You're basically saying that you're okay with your BF or husband being emotionally closer with someone else than you. And then you say you'd be upset if he "dates" someone else while he dates you. Well guess what darling, when you date someone you become emotionall…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:39 PM
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Really? Somehow I doubt it. I hate this kind of argument because women value stuff that is different than what men value. And so it's very hard to make an argument because the stuff women care about they'll never accept. They'll just say "Oh, I don't care about that" and move on when it's very clear that that they do care. But lemme try. Ok. What if he was emotionally close with some other girl when he's dating you. Let's say you're dating and you're 6 months in. You're both a little vulnerable …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:50 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:22 PM
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You proposed in 6 months because you feared for your life and saw the damage this person was capable of? No I proposed in 6 months because I felt like she had other options. Like if she left me, she would have no problem finding other men to date. And so I tried to lock her down immediately. But you're not that special, and so I doubt if you'd be taken by someone else if we broke up and even if you were I don't care that much. Let's say the above is how I feel. Just like maybe she may have unint…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:20 PM
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Alright so answer this question. So how would you feel if a man said "My ex was psychotic and manipulative but I felt like she was a catch, so I proposed to her in 6 months. But you treat me with love and respect, so I'll propose to you in maybe 4 years." Would you be okay with this behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:12 PM
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If you value them, it means that sleeping with them early has the potential to hurt you. How? No one is saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:08 PM
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Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:59 PM
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Lol, why don't you answer the question? You can't. Because answering it would mean that you were wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:57 PM
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Honestly, I thought you'd be some deranged FDS girl but you seem rational so I'll make a good faith argument. So how would you feel if a man said "My ex was a psychotic and manipulative bitch. So I proposed to her in 6 months. But you treat me with love and respect, so I'll propose to you in maybe 4 years." Would you see a problem with the man's behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:47 PM
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Women’s bodies are for men to have sex with! How dare they close the door on us!” Scary form of entitlement. What a complete strawman argument. No one is saying that except you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:42 PM
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Excellent argument
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:33 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:21 PM
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Ok. So how would you feel if a man said "My ex was a psychotic and manipulative bitch. So I proposed to her in 6 months. But you treat me with love and respect, so I'll propose to you in maybe 4 years."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:14 PM
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She basically saying that if you didn't treat her right, she'll be more aroused by you and willing to have sex on the first date. She basically saying if YOU weren't YOU, i.e., if you were someone else who turned her on in ways that you couldn't, she would've slept with you immediately. I'm sorry but I don't see this ever going away. You're always going to be inferior to those other guys who slept with her immediately. You have 2 options Do something and repress those feelings. I don't know how …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:04 PM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:58 PM
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Ok. So how would you feel if a man said "My ex was a psychotic and manipulative bitch. So I proposed to her in 6 months. But you treat me with love and respect, so I'll propose to you in maybe 4 years."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:56 PM
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Ok. So how would you feel if a man said "My ex was a psychotic and manipulative bitch. So I proposed to her in 6 months. But you treat me with love and respect, so I'll propose to you in maybe 4 years."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:55 PM
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It’s her body. She can choose to do as she pleases. Yeah. But that doesn't mean that she was right. You can lie as you please. But does that mean lying is right? And why can’t the man just wait and respect until she feels comfortable rather than simply comparing the duration of time of when she slept with them or another sexual encounter? Because of desire. She desired someone else so much that she didn't care if that guy didn't want to see her after the first date. She didn't care if he didn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:24 PM
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Because if he's the one she chose at the end of the day, then why not have sex with him on the first date? Why have sex with some random guy on the first date, but not have sex with the guy you chose to be your potential BF? Why does the guy you chose, have to jump through hoops. Doesn't that mean he's less valuable than some random guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:13 PM
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I'm answering this in good faith. And if men will do whatever for sex, why can’t they wait for the so-called reward? This is actually not a problem for men. Men are willing to wait for a good woman. Here's the catch: As long as they get the same/better treatment as other men. So men are willing to wait for sex, if that's how the girl treats every man. But if someone else gets to have sex on the first date, but you have to wait, then that's unfair. Most men can't think of a bigger insult than a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:05 PM
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which is no way to spend a Sunday, at least for me. Fair enough. I hope you have a nice Sunday.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:58 PM
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I'll ask you the same question but from the other perspective. If you value someone enough to want them to be your BF or husband, why would you treat them inferior to some random guy? Why would you not sleep with your potential BF/husband but sleep with some random guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:54 PM
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Lol, look who's raging now 🤣🤣. I don’t think I’ll stop just because a bunch of men who blame women for everything and insult us constantly are having their feelings hurt. No one is asking you to stop commenting. But stop pretending that you're some paragon of virtue. Just admit that the only reason you comment is to be hateful and stoke the divisions even further. You don't care about men or women or dating you just want to belittle people because it makes you feel strong. It strokes your massiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:37 PM
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I got banned from incel tear when I called them out on this, Color me shocked But when they also act like they are “trying to help” incels by ridiculing them. That got on my nerve… EXACTLY! And they don't realize that that only makes them even more hateable. I had an acquaintance who was an alcoholic. He would often make up excuses when he drank in the morning. He would say stuff like " I didn't get 8 hours of sleep so I'm going to have a drink". Now, everyone realizes that this is not ideal beh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:39 AM
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This marks the second time today I was talking to another woman in a non-serious way and some boy had to storm in like a child and rage-vomit on everything. Translation: "This marks the second time today that I was commenting on a fuckin debate sub and I didn't like the fact that other people challenged my views" Lol, you don't like being called on your bullshit do you? Typical. You’re probably a “both sides” guy who only gets mad at one side. Interesting you picked two non-RP/Blackpill posts to…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:05 AM
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This is exactly the problem right here. The sheer condescending attitude and the way you make jokes about a strawman argument that you've constructed in your own mind are perfect examples of why you're just making the divide bigger. Imagine someone who is redpill reading this. All he's going to do is become even more determined and hateful against people like you. And yet you WONDER why there is more hatred in this sub? How about you drop the sheer condescending attitude then? I'm not red pill o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:55 AM
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Ok champ, so what solutions do you have then? Go on, tell me your brilliant plan for reducing the imbalance in the sexual marketplace. Oh, that's right, you don't have any. I'm sick of you idiots hating people who treat it like a game but then do nothing to actually deal with the problem that drove people to treat it like a game in the first place. No one wants to treat it like a game. Everyone would like it if they could just be themselves, play no games and then be successful in the dating mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:41 AM
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First things first. This is actually a common struggle in modern society although it's usually in the opposite direction (A conservative family and the struggling person is liberal). So it's quite refreshing to see someone with coming from the other side. If you're conservative/redpill/not blue pill, then you have to understand that you have to pick a side. Do you want to live life with your beliefs and accept that there are some/all people in your family who might not agree with you? Or do you …
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/22 03:58 PM
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Lol, most men do care. Modern Society has just browbeat them into either accepting it or calls it an insecurity so they repress those feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:28 PM
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Bro, you honestly think she has a husband? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:55 AM
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I mean you are the one that said all the women you know have been victimized, I am working from that apocalyptic premise. Lol, you got her 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:53 AM
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Well imagine your surprise when you find out how someone becomes a husband! Wait for it....... Wait for it...... You become a BF first !!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:19 PM
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This is very true. I just witnessed it today. There was a girl asking a question "Should I leave my bf and go to another city to join a new course?" Without even thinking they were like "Men will come and go. Do it". Some even boasted about how they didn't even need to read the post. They just read the title and immediately answered "Do it". I don't understand how these people treat relationships as so worthless. Like a special connection is very hard to come by.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:50 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 Sign of a defeated feminist. Good bye. Stay triggered. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:43 AM
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I doubt it. But in any case, I showed you the study. Now show me how the data is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:41 AM
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Lmao, isn't that what you're doing on the internet? 🤣🤣 But anyways here's the study. Rife with citations and data. https://smallpdf.com/result#r=75423fb4d085e13e4ad38b09183f1026&t=share-document
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:39 AM
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How is it not relevant? This suggests that well-being, in addition to sexual satisfaction, is increased when gender roles fall into more traditional practices. Both studies recorded higher scores of satisfaction for both women and men when conventional roles were practiced. In turn, the studies recorded lower scores for both sexes when duties were focused on equality, rather than customary gender practices – proving that traditional roles result in the greatest happiness. This is exactly what yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:23 AM
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https://www.kstatecollegian.com/2014/03/09/recent-studies-prove-traditional-gender-roles-bring-greatest-happiness/ This is just one of many articles/studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:20 AM
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Women bring it up as a positive because as women, it is our greatest accomplishment as a sex, to be able to say that we don’t need a man. That's the problem right there. Your greatest achievement is to say you don't need one half of the population. Women have done so much for society. And yet you choose this to be your greatest achievement. And it's exactly why non-feminist women are much more happier, healthier and more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:13 AM
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I don't think he's crazy to actually try something. He's someone who you might say is all words and no actions. He's very verbally annoying and abusive but I don't think I've ever seen him do anything physical. I also feel like if he did want to try something, he would've already. He wouldn't be waiting to do it like 6 months later.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:39 PM
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I don't think he's crazy to actually try something. He's someone who you might say is all words and no actions. He's very verbally annoying and abusive but I don't think I've ever seen him do anything physical. I also feel like if he did want to try something, he would've already. He wouldn't be waiting to do it like 6 months later.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:38 PM
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Look, from what you described her, it sounds pretty obvious she caught feelings for you. Don't lie to yourself. This is not "just sex". Maybe it used to be but now it is more than that. I'm not so sure about that. Are you sure it's feelings? Maybe she just got more and more comfortable with me and feels like she doesn't have to hold herself back anymore. When we first started, she refused to make noise during sex. She held her moans back. But now she's very vocal and has no problem moaning or ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:26 PM
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Sorry. Maybe I didn't do a good job of making it clear, but that's my bad. My question is should I mention something to her? I shouldn't say anything to Cindy, right? Cause I keep thinking if I should say something to her like "We're just friends with benefits" or something along the likes of that but I'm afraid that she'll think that I'm overthinking it by saying something like that out of the blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:02 PM
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I very highly doubt the husband will take it that far. Like I said, I've already told him that if he wants to end it he can go talk to his wife. Moreover, the problem with ending it is that the sexual connection is just super good. I never imagined that sex with someone would feel so good. We have so much fun in bed and honestly the sexual connection we have is insane! Our bodies fit perfectly and we have the same kinks, interests, etc. We have improved the pleasure we get from sex so much ever …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:56 PM
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I highly doubt he'll take it that far. I'm not really worried about that. But furthermore, I really like our sexual connection and I don't want to lose that. It's been phenomenal for my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:47 PM
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In any case, do you have any advice on how to proceed here?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:42 PM
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I tried posting this is relationship subs, but they downvoted it and therefore I couldn't respond or find an answer. The post disappears. I've been a recent lurker in this sub and I thought I might find some advice here. I welcome all advice; even ones that are critical of me. But please don't downvoted because it makes it hard for me to respond. TLDR: I (24M) have been having regular sex with my married neighbor(36F) for 6 months. Her husband is insisting that she has caught feelings for me and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:02 PM
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