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everydaybloke/r/seduction05/03/17 03:29 PM
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everydaybloke/r/seduction13/02/17 01:46 PM
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I think this is an important issue you have raised. It is essential to use a condom with a new partner and if things advance over a few weeks..then you should both get tested for STD's before you can start to go raw or perform/receive oral sex.
/r/seduction09/01/18 12:19 PM
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Totally agree with this. The art of seduction is a great read and gives you insight into the seduction process. It is not so much a how-to book, but also specifically mentions after each section about people who go the opposite route to what has been stated and are still successful. Like you said, first and foremost they are both good writers and it is just an enjoyable read even if you don't follow any of the advice.
/r/seduction06/03/17 09:37 AM
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First of all if you feel that touching someone on the shoulder is rapey then perhaps you need to fix the vibe that you give off when you are with women. Secondly, I am talking about a situation where you are already comfortable and have built a certain rapport with a woman, say it is the second or third date and there is an opportunity to kiss her but you don't know how to do it. Thirdly it is advice meant for guys who find it hard to take action and not for the typical alpha man, so by being ag…
/r/seduction06/03/17 07:39 AM
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Well I'll tell you what works for me, but this doesn't have to be the case in general. Keep the conversation neutral, even keeping the conversation small-talkish and boring is sometimes better for me when in the kind of scenario you have described as you don't really want her to think of the words you are saying but enjoying the sensation of your touch. I used to say something to make the transition easier, like 'nice jeans' while running my finger across her thighs to sort of get there but now …
/r/seduction05/03/17 06:02 PM
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Oh that sucks. Don't worry too much about it though..sometimes the situation is just out of our hands. If she wants to hang out again, clearly tell her that you want to hang out with her alone and not with her friends. Say something along the lines of 'I think we should have a few dates first before I start to hang out with your friends.' If she doesn't agree just move on.
/r/seduction05/03/17 03:15 PM
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I say that it is what it is. Work with what you have got, and try to make the best of it, rather than having an attitude that everyone else sucks.
/r/seduction01/03/17 09:14 AM
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It depends on the situation. I mean if you are quite close and have had a steady FWB situation for some time I don't see the harm in asking and furthermore this also makes it clear that you are in fact seeing other people so there will be no ambiguity from your side. I like to keep things honest and open. On the other hand, it would be ridiculous to ask someone who you just started casually dating.
/r/seduction01/03/17 09:08 AM
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Congratulations on landing your first date! If you are nervous and anxious I have some tips for you. First of all don't think of the date as a huge event in your life. There will be many others and this is just one. Believe me. Don't start imagining your life together when you look at her or get too infatuated with her etc. Just say to yourself that all you have to do is show up. Have one drink and if you want you can bail out any time. Now with that sort of mindset you are going just to have so…
/r/seduction28/02/17 09:49 AM
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I think if you have your own interests/hobbies, and pursue those then it really helps you to socialize a bit. For example, I am really into painting and sometimes take part in local exhibitions so it is one venue where I can really connect with others whether they are artists or art-lovers. For me the key is to find an activity that I personally have a passion for, and then I will feel more comfortable in those settings
/r/seduction21/02/17 11:07 AM
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I just said I am quite dysfunctional socially and have trouble interacting in many social gatherings. I don't know what else you want me to say.. I am not going to apologize for not being autistic.
/r/seduction21/02/17 10:56 AM
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I think I fall into this category, especially if we look at what seddit promotes, i.e. you should exude confidence at all times. I think this is important in certain aspects and would certainly make me a happier person but it is not the end-all be-all of seduction. In particular I suffer from serious anxiety disorder, and yet most of my life I have been quite successful with women. I am not into the typical pick-up and don't visit bars etc to pick-up girls but I do get into relationships where g…
/r/seduction20/02/17 09:05 PM
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No.. it doesn't mean you have a date. It's possible that she was being polite.
/r/seduction16/02/17 03:35 PM
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As in you have to build up rapport through out the date, make her comfortable with you. My point was that if you plan on kissing, plan on doing it in the middle of the date rather than when saying goodbye.
/r/seduction15/02/17 08:07 PM
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After eating at the sushi restaurant go for a walk and take her out to a bar close by for some drinks. Definitely DO NOT get a necklace or flowers or anything as a gift. It is okay to kiss her when you are at the bar, try not to leave the kiss while you are saying goodbye as it may be awkward. If you have been out of the game for a while don't worry too much about kissing her and just try and enjoy yourself. As far as compliments go, don't overdo it. If you genuinely find something fascinating a…
/r/seduction15/02/17 07:10 PM
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I would say don't switch topics so often. Have the directive of going out in mind and not getting to know her through the tinder conversation. For example although asking about the major was fine, but asking what she wants to do after school is a bit too deep and serious for a tinder chat.Think of the chat only as a way to set up logistics. I agree with /u/bcool47. You need to direct your conversations towards a common activity. Hone in on one topic, and then suggest you do that activity togethe…
/r/seduction15/02/17 07:39 AM
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Well movie is the worst first date idea. The second-worst first date idea is dinner. You need to do something a bit more exciting. She was interested in you and things aren't ruined or anything but I would suggest doing something a bit different the next time around.
/r/seduction13/02/17 04:31 PM
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