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/r/seduction25/04/25 11:21 PM
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There’s no way around it lol You’re gonna screw up and have awkward interactions that’s just how it is. You can’t just wake up one day with the charisma of The Rock. Keep doing it and it happens less, like any skill in life
/r/seduction25/04/25 12:51 PM
6

Foh simp
/r/seduction25/04/25 07:05 AM
39

She’s for the streets bro you didn’t do anything and she went home and had sex with somebody who did do something about it. Don’t worry about chasing her up just focus on yourself and if you’re out again and you run into her , just kiss her and take her home. It’s a night club don’t overthink it just get drunk and enjoy yourself.
/r/seduction25/04/25 05:27 AM
15

The grass isn’t that much greener on the other side. You are a 31 year old virgin and think sex is the be all end all of life. Which is understandable. But having women flock to you isn’t as grandiose as you think. You can fuck 100 attractive woman and still at the end of the night be staring into the abyss pondering on life’s bigger questions. Just look at Justin Bieber. There are much more important things in this life.
/r/seduction25/04/25 05:20 AM
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10 is nothing but arm candy and a status symbol that arguably is more stressful than what it’s worth, and as with everything , the novelty of shiny toys wears off eventually. The only benefits of dating a 10 is that you get admiration and validation from the masses of idiots. Other women will be 100x more attracted to you so doors open up to spread your seed all over if that’s what you wanted to do, and it may also lead to better business opportunities as other men seem to respect you more. That…
/r/seduction25/04/25 05:13 AM
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Be happy that you’re horny. It shows your hormones are functioning as they should. I’ve been in terrible depressive episodes where I wouldn’t give 10 fucks if one of the worlds hottest woman came up to me and asked me if I wanted a blowjob. I actually missed being horny. There’s a strong correlation between successful men and high sex drives. So channel your libido into better avenues.
/r/seduction24/04/25 07:44 AM
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Ah padawan much to learn you have
/r/seduction20/04/25 07:50 AM
2

You might as well just send a Hail Mary 🍆pic. Convo isn’t going to go anywhere most likely.
/r/seduction20/04/25 07:13 AM
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Don’t try to seduce anybody. Just focus on being seductive instead. Let things come to you.
/r/seduction20/04/25 06:52 AM
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Get your line in order first. Get your career/financial goals sorted, personal goals you might have, social life etc etc And then get right with all the inner game stuff. The relationship between yourself and the mirror. Create a life according to your own needs and vision. Only then will a relationship work. If you’re going out there like most guys, kind of aimless , coasting and desperate for a sense of worth and validation the whole thing is a disaster. Trust me, seen it happen too many times…
/r/seduction20/04/25 04:11 AM
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Here lies the problem. Not everything has to have an objective. Like a military mission. Yes the male species has evolved to think more rationally than our counterparts. It is important and necessary for survival. However seduction is one of those few things in life that thinking logically is actually counterintuitive. Us men treat talking with women like algebra and everything needs to work in a sequence. Why do you think dumb meatheads do better with women than intellects? Because they’re inhi…
/r/seduction20/04/25 04:06 AM
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I mean the old 007 films were fitting and reflective for it’s time before politics and bio chemicals came and fucked things up
/r/seduction20/04/25 04:00 AM
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He’s 18. As long as he keeps it wrapped up there really is nothing to lose. It’s one thing telling him not to go for it, but it’s another for him to learn for himself by doing so. He’ll learn something from hanging around this typical hot but shit person woman
/r/seduction18/04/25 08:57 AM
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Do you know how many people on here wish they were 18 again lol? Just go for it and don’t hesitate. When I was 18 I overthought everything. Just go for it , be confident and who cares what the girls think of you.
/r/seduction18/04/25 08:21 AM
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Learn to detach from women and their opinions of you. Whether they’re a smoking 10/10 hottest woman you’ve ever seen or a regular every day woman. Who care what the 10/10 thinks ? Is that how you want to spend your life? A slave to the fickle and fleeting opinions and validation of women? Just focus on yourself and being as attractive as you can be, if 10/10 likes it or they don’t like it who fucking cares man. Don’t cater to anybody. Be your most authentic self and develop upon that to be a bet…
/r/seduction17/04/25 12:35 AM
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If you approach like Johnny Bravo you’ll get Johnny Bravo’s results. Try and increase your social awareness. It is a built in feature to some degree but just try and expand on it. I’m all for being upfront and honest but there’s ways to go about it , this instance not being one of them
/r/seduction15/04/25 11:10 PM
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Wtf have you been watching on Porn Hub buddy ?
/r/seduction15/04/25 01:37 AM
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In my opinion and experience and women who have a mix of conservatism and curiosity tend to be real freaky and mischievous. It’s a strange mix that doesn’t really make much sense to me. The typical IG “baddie” who is overt and flaunty don’t seem to put their money where their mouth is performance wise. But you can’t really generalise. There are shy low key girls that suck in bed and their are thots that will rock your 🧦 just as much as vice versa
/r/seduction12/04/25 12:53 AM
1

With enough time, experience and pain you’ll get to a point where you don’t really care about what people think of you. When you don’t care you don’t get nervous. When you realise there’s bigger fish to fry in life the value that opinions of women vanish. Also engaging in activities that force you out if comfort zone will inevitably increase your confidence. I highly recommend something like MMA, Boxing, Extreme Mountain Biking anything that involves some kind of element of danger.
/r/seduction09/04/25 06:44 AM
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Getting a rotation isn’t that hard if you’re active and know what you’re doing. As for rejection? Dude everyone gets rejected. I knew a girl who rejected Swae Lee when he came on tour here to New Zealand. He threw a fit about how a girl could reject him since he was so rich. Anyways ….. My best piece of advice is start to treat yourself like a king. Never mind what others think of you. Other people don’t determine your worth. Worth is dictated by the person looking back at you in the mirror. Res…
/r/seduction08/04/25 11:52 AM
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The only books worth reading imo is Models and The Game. That’s it. You’ll learn more reading 50 shades of grey than 99% of pick up books It’s all garbage that basically has the same underlying message but they include countless pages of unnecessary horse shit to boost sales
/r/seduction08/04/25 08:03 AM
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Fuck idk with some of these posts man. It’s like we need Master Yoda on this sub to go around and answer all these questions.
/r/seduction08/04/25 08:01 AM
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Well just look at the whole Bonnie Blue situation
/r/seduction08/04/25 07:59 AM
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When I was new to the game I felt the same as you. Eager, (over)excited, basically starstruck and naïve. Replaying over and over trying to analyse every millisecond of the interaction. My best advice for you my friend is to not give a fuck. That applies to whether she likes you, she doesn’t like you, she half likes you….. who cares. This is the best mentality to have. It’s a lot easier said than done to wake up and not care and is more of a mindset that sets in with time and experience. Live lif…
/r/seduction08/04/25 03:31 AM
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Buddy stop overthinking it and just take her pants off. That’s literally all you have to do.
/r/seduction06/04/25 10:09 AM
10

Women shit test everybody. Good looking men just get tested to less of a degree and let off the hook a lot more easily. Women value strength and dominance above being handsome. Being handsome is a gigantic advantage but deep down it isn’t the primary trait women are attracted to. If you’re handsome but you’re a pussy, this tells her you’re not willing to fight off a Sabretooth tiger in the wild therefore a bad mating choice. Which is basically the foundation of attraction. But if you’re good loo…
/r/seduction06/04/25 06:23 AM
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Don’t overthink bro just believe in yourself and down a few shots
/r/seduction06/04/25 05:39 AM
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There is no one size fits all answer. It just depends on the vibe of the date. There’s no way to really explain it , with enough experience and emotional intelligence you can gauge where the date seems to be heading. I judge how much I should escalate based on how the receptive the woman is being. You can go fast with some , and you’ll have to go slow with others. That’s it really.
/r/seduction06/04/25 05:33 AM
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Tall men were a better mating choice for women and their offspring back in primitive times. They had a better chance of fighting off a Sabretooth tiger or dudes from other tribes , compared to a guy who was short. They could navigate the wild more easily with longer limbs. Women wan’t what’s best for their offspring, so they would all mate with the tall guy. So what happens when other women in the tribe see the tall guy mating with all the other women? They all mate with him too because preselec…
/r/seduction06/04/25 02:10 AM
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Being turned on is the whole point. It shows that your hormones are functioning as they should. The more think with your cock like a caveman, the less anxiety you have and the whole thing just turns out better , well for the most part anyway.
/r/seduction05/04/25 12:16 PM
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In my younger years I would hype myself to think I didn’t care about rejection. Which I did indeed care. I think majority of young men do. I can resonate with you there; women and conversation never scared me. What scared me was the deal or no deal part. Essentially, it was time for her to deem me worthy (or not) , not only as a mate but as a human being. As you can see there are many flaws in this way of thinking. This went away with time , experience and maturity. Not being so obsessed with pr…
/r/seduction05/04/25 12:12 PM
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Because men for the most part work off rationality and rizz is all over the place. Since first grade majority of women gravitate the top % of guys in the school (most cases the most athletic and/or handsome) so from a young age most men don’t really get the chance and exposure to really develop this skill set.
/r/seduction05/04/25 04:04 AM
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We’ve all been there before bro. It’s normal. But there’s only one solution and it’s very simple. Ain’t nothing like growing and a pair and just going for it. Jump in the deep end and learn how to swim. Yes it’s difficult but everything in life is. You might make a fool of yourself, you might not. But the main thing is you’re getting out of your comfort zone. Who cares if she likes you or not.
/r/seduction05/04/25 04:01 AM
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Stop overthinking everything and trying to figure out the perfect script. Just stand on your truth and say what comes to your mind and be true to your authentic self. Stick to your guns. The women like you or they don’t.
/r/seduction05/04/25 03:53 AM
1

I definitely had this “mission mindset” in regards to dating when I was a teen/early 20’s. Everything was about numbers and a means to determine and manipulate the end result. Looking back at it, it’s ineffective and definitely a reflection of my maturity levels at the time. Good mindset for sports, not so much for dating. The interaction(s) should be the focus not the end result. Yea obviously we all wan’t the end result , but not being too concerned with it is what makes it all flow. Models by…
/r/seduction04/04/25 05:50 AM
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6 months
/r/seduction03/04/25 11:03 AM
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Being masculine is complicated. I’m still navigating it to this day. The most masculine I’ve ever felt was from when I was working as a builder and doing MMA/Boxing. I had a sense of pride in myself by doing something rough and dangerous. Which is what men are supposed to be. And everything just flowed from there. Everything just fell into balance. Look at history. So even though masculinity goes beyond these concepts, it’s a good place to start. Participate in things that put you out there in u…
/r/seduction03/04/25 10:40 AM
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It’s a work in progress. I’ve struggled with PIED and the solution is quite simple and straightforward but isn’t an overnight process. First obvious one is to lay off the porn. Second, dig deep into your self esteem issues and get to the root cause so you can re-wire your beliefs and behaviour. Thirdly, take care of your health and make sure you’re eating foods and participating in activities that promote testosterone production. Do things that make you feel like a competent and confident person…
/r/seduction03/04/25 10:07 AM
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I’m not disagreeing with this post. You are right, how are you going to learn how to be confident with women if you never go out and talk to them? But I’d go a step further to say you can be confident enough to get laid, but still lack inner core confidence. Core confidence and a healthy self esteem comes from liking who you are. Yea knowing women find you attractive can aid that but I think there’s much more important things a man can undertake that will develop his confidence as a man, things …
/r/seduction03/04/25 10:02 AM
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Bro don’t text her until Jesus comes back for the rapture that way you can maintain her interest
/r/seduction03/04/25 05:28 AM
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Early on in my days I was very sexually inexperienced compared to a lot of my peers. I was ashamed and insecure about it, but put on a lot of bravado to compensate. Anyways I met a girl who had herself thinking I was Mr Hot Shot due to the way I was coming off. I had to look like I was the man I was trying to act like Conor McGregor lmao I talked a big game and definitely did not back it up. I was talking all this shit about how hard I was going to make her cum and this that and the other thing……
/r/seduction02/04/25 03:21 AM
1

Bruh do you want to bang her or not ?
/r/seduction01/04/25 08:46 AM
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This is basically what Fight Club is about lol Nonetheless, good post. I agree. Our fight is spiritual.
/r/seduction01/04/25 07:19 AM
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Don’t get too caught up and invested in a woman. Especially the promiscuous ones. We’ve all done it, I’ve done it, you’re doing it right now…. cut it out. You got to not care man. Who cares what she’s doing. She either wants you or she doesn’t. Just shoot your shot and go about your day.
/r/seduction01/04/25 04:54 AM
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Bro what you tryna say? Kane and Undertaker are 100% brothers
/r/seduction31/03/25 12:36 PM
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I’ve been on both sides of the attractiveness coin. The most successful I’ve been with women is when I didn’t think too much and found confidence in areas of my life that had nothing to do with women. I get confident as a man in my day to day life and that makes me feel better about myself and just boils over to my interactions with women. Seduction really isn’t that complicated once you actually understand it, the intellectual content you can come across can get blown way out of proportion. Foc…
/r/seduction31/03/25 10:52 AM
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Yea that’s really what it comes down to sometimes, whether that be with women or any other area of your life. Just say fuck it and do it. When you realise you really don’t have anything to lose in life, and that death will come knocking for you one day, it opens up doors within not only the world but within yourself.
/r/seduction31/03/25 10:48 AM
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Everyone is different. I used to hang out with a guy who was an unemployed wreck and he used to consistently bang in the 8-10 range. It just wasn’t something that shut his game down. To be fair he was a 10 himself in terms of his face and had a good lean physique. Me, on the other hand, could never do this. My self esteem takes a huge bump whenever I’ve found myself in undesirable financial circumstances. Even though I’m quite well versed in the game, and I could still get laid when I really thi…
/r/seduction31/03/25 04:44 AM
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Status whores who just want to use you lol
/r/seduction29/03/25 07:57 AM
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Don’t let that get to you , she’s just a human like anybody else. Just go up and talk to her who gives a flying fuck about her popularity.
/r/seduction28/03/25 10:48 PM
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MMA or Boxing. Nothing comes close. If you can go out in front of a big crowd and fight you will gain a stronger sense of self belief, especially if you win. But even you lose and give it your all you’ll feel better about yourself. It literally forces you to be confident.
/r/seduction28/03/25 10:47 PM
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Old traditional PUA was and is incredibly sociopathic. It was all about manipulating social interactions towards the desired outcome of sex. It was designed to cater to the average Joe, so he could manoeuvre his way around a lot of the competitive aspects of the dating market. Sure there’s a lot of truth and value in the fundamentals of it all , but I’m glad the scene has moved away from this what is largely an artificial approach towards women. It really was seen and treated like a game/sport w…
/r/seduction28/03/25 11:32 AM
1

Send 2-3 years Dagestan and forget
/r/seduction28/03/25 09:32 AM
1

Stop trying to use some self hypnosis technique of not thinking about getting laid, to get laid. If you didn’t want to have sex with her you wouldn’t have gone on the date with her.
/r/seduction28/03/25 09:31 AM
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I’ve messed around with taken chicks, it’s more trouble than it’s worth and the end result isn’t pretty. I hurt a few people just because I couldn’t control thinking with my cock, which i deeply regret. Try and avoid it. But then again, some girls are going to cheat regardless if it’s with you or not so I guess on one hand you may as well take the opportunity up if she’s hot
/r/seduction28/03/25 09:21 AM
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Hey I’m all for success in life but you do know what kind of women you’ll attract by flaunting and flexing right ?
/r/seduction28/03/25 08:03 AM
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How old are you 😂 You can’t be any older than 18
/r/seduction28/03/25 06:32 AM
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Just ask for her IG and hit her up when she’s back. If I was in your shoes I wouldn’t bother trying to be a pen pal while she’s overseas. You had enough of a conversation and the ice is broken, that’s the main thing.
/r/seduction28/03/25 06:05 AM
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Just drink more and you won’t give a fuck what other people are doing in the club lmao
/r/seduction28/03/25 06:03 AM
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I’m not going to dispute that being in good shape and having a nice car would help you on tinder lol but it’s not the end all be all
/r/seduction28/03/25 06:02 AM
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50 Shades of Grey lmao In all seriousness though, as most of the comments suggest, don’t waste your time reading books. Just go out there and try to luck that’s literally all you can do to build confidence in that particular aspect of life. True confidence comes from investing time and energy into things that develop your competence as a man, and have little to do with women
/r/seduction28/03/25 05:58 AM
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I’m not disputing that having a nice car and the effect it has on one’s image lol but to say that all you need to do is post photos of your car and then you’ll be drowning in 🐱 is silly
/r/seduction28/03/25 05:57 AM
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”I don’t know man, That’s it right there. He himself doesn’t know what he’s doing differently. Which is indicating he isn’t into deep thought wise about the whole process. He’s just going with the flow of things and it’s working. There must be some area of his life, besides women, that is making him feel more confident? Sometimes there doesn’t need to be some gigantic profound psycho analysis explanation. Sometimes it’s just as simple as, he is feeling more confident, and that is translating int…
/r/seduction28/03/25 01:42 AM
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In my teens and early 20’s I was real close with a guy who was an absolute bum. To be fair at the time we both were lol. Unemployed and on welfare, no direction at all, came from the poorest suburb in our city etc etc But he had a good lean physique and a very handsome face. Dude could have been a model if he wanted. He had a real care free attitude and I hate to admit it but he knew how to have fun. Unfortunately no debts go unpaid and our ignorant party animal mentalities caught up to both of …
/r/seduction28/03/25 01:09 AM
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I 100% agree. From 17-21 pussy was all I cared about, I was obsessed with it. I would spend hours consuming PUA content. Partying and trying to get laid were basically my only hobbies. After putting paper into practice , my many successful and failed interactions with women ultimately revealed to me that 90% of the material I was reading and watching was complete horse shit. I realised seduction was quite simple and all you really needed to do was have the basics covered, which if anything had m…
/r/seduction24/03/25 12:22 AM
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Pro sports is the best industry. But since most of us are never going to make the NBA I’d say anything to do with tourism or hospitality
/r/seduction17/03/25 06:29 AM
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I’m all for investing in yourself and I encourage you to do so but you don’t need to forge yourself into some Super Saiyan. Develop yourself but also embrace your flaws/imperfections and don’t get into the self improvement trap. Reach a point of self acceptance, where you can draw the line and say you know what? I’m good enough. I’m attractive enough. I’m worthy enough. You’ll become a dog chasing its tail in pursuit of perfection, which will never entail. You don’t need to blow the entire 10k o…
/r/seduction07/03/25 01:40 AM
0

Imposter syndrome. I know the game. I’m good looking and I know how to get laid. But I can’t do it anymore. I know when I go home and look in the mirror I’m not actually competent/confident as a man. And that bugs me to the point where I can’t even talk to a woman these days because I know I’m not actually all that. The flip side is that it’s humbling and a signal for me to get my shit together
/r/seduction28/02/25 10:31 AM
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Did it all the time in my early 20’s. Acted like somebody I wasn’t. Got quite good at social manipulation. It can definitely get you laid if you believe the act enough. But I wouldn’t recommend it. It’s sociopathic. You’ll go down a deep , deep rabbit hole of introspection about your deepest and darkest insecurities. I remember watching Catch me if you can and Tom Hanks saying “An honest man has nothing to fear”. He’s 100% right. Be honest about who you are. Don’t put on a mask to con your way i…
/r/seduction28/02/25 10:23 AM
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Stop going out with getting numbers/laid as your primary objective. The enjoyment of your night will be entirely outcome dependant. Just go out to enjoy the nightlife. I would even go as far as to stop getting your numbers up as your primary objective in life. Focus on making yourself feeling happy and healthy. That in turn will help you with your sense of value. Detach your self worth from women. It is challenging to do so as we are bombarded with Pitbull music videos signalling the notion that…
/r/seduction28/02/25 10:15 AM
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Bars are the easiest environment in my experience. What helps most on these situations is the usual advice; Feeling confident about yourself. Yea it’s the most generic pick up advice there is, but there’s a reason why that is. There is no magic e=Mc² formula to follow. The traits that will take you the furthest in a bar is looks, internal confidence, social confidence (two different things), humour, wit and being nonchalant. Now not everyone gets to be born super handsome, but what you are in co…
/r/seduction13/02/25 06:49 AM
2

Wherever that allyweakguy lives
/r/seduction12/02/25 08:39 AM
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The less fucks you give the better. Comes with time. Majority of young men are insecure and nervous about everything, I sure was. It’s normal. Is it healthy? Meh. But common? Sure. Get these behaviours out of your system as fast as you can. There’s no magic formula to follow. The best advice is old advice “grow a pair” that’s it. Old is gold. You just have to go up and talk to women. Don’t think about the perfect script just go and say anything. You’ll learn more this way then watching any video…
/r/seduction09/02/25 11:47 PM
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You can still get laid without a job. It just depends on the individual. Age and circumstances are huge factors in this instance. Whenever I’ve found myself unemployed and unproductive my confidence/self esteem definitely takes a hit. I don’t even bother with the dating market, I know my anxiety will translate into my interactions so there just isn’t any point for me. However I knew a guy who was one of the biggest bums I knew, and no shit he slept with the hottest women in our city. And they al…
/r/seduction09/02/25 09:48 PM
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You sound young. Maybe you’re not but sounds like it. I wasted my youth prioritising women/sex. Looking back at it, my obsession wasn’t even really about sex. It was about trying to obtain self worth. Prioritise yourself. Your hobbies, your career, whatever. Do things that make you feel like a man and make you feel happy about who you are. Then you’ll be more attractive and better quality women will be interested in you.
/r/seduction09/02/25 07:19 AM
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If you’re not a newbie virgin with oneitis then you should know what to do
/r/seduction05/02/25 04:36 AM
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Focus on yourself man and be nonchalant about whether women like you or not. Focus on building genuine confidence and a healthy self esteem and you won’t care about situations like this anymore
/r/seduction05/02/25 04:33 AM
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Who cares what women think of you. They want you? Cool. They don’t ? Cool. Love and live for yourself and you’ll stop caring, which makes women attracted to you. I guess with time and experience it will happen on its own. We all used to be like you, getting all flustered when we fumbled it.
/r/seduction04/02/25 09:47 AM
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The more nonchalant and less fucks you give about what woman think of you then you’ll pass all the shit tests without having to know what they are
/r/seduction04/02/25 09:40 AM
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Just talk to them baby mamas like any other darn woman 🤦‍♂️ this sub man
/r/seduction04/02/25 09:35 AM
2

I remember reading how some ex male porn star hates sex and stopped having it when he retired
/r/seduction04/02/25 09:29 AM
2

Yea man from 17-19 I spent a large portion of time consuming material with no execution lol I wanted everything to be perfect before I went in . My first approach couldn’t have gone any worse despite all the reading and watching every RSD Video. This isn’t how life works as most teenagers believe. OP is right you can’t read a book on how to swim and then jump in the pool and morph into Michael Phelps.
/r/seduction04/02/25 09:24 AM
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Don’t get so fixated on body count numbers and tying it up with your self worth. Just put your best foot forward and whatever happens happens. Seduction is a dance, focus on enjoying it and forget about trying to cram in numbers like an accountant.
/r/seduction04/02/25 09:15 AM
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Emojis are universal 🍆 🍑 🐱 💦
/r/seduction30/01/25 02:49 AM
1

I wish I understood this many years ago. Men who are highly skilled at something , especially hands on physical skills (but doesn’t necessarily have to be) have a lot of raw masculine energy. I’m not that competent at anything, regretfully, but after spending some time around people like pro fighters and carpenters I can see how it affects their confidence
/r/seduction30/01/25 02:44 AM
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Learned the hard way that humility and gratitude is far more important in this life than ambition and success
/r/seduction30/01/25 02:39 AM
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Not from this part of the world but it’ll be Balkan/Eastern European women. Your own race will always be the most attracted to you. There’s a big Slav and Balkans diaspora in Australia. Very popular with the ladies there. The women like their generally broad stature and tough guy appearance and attitude.
/r/seduction29/01/25 02:28 AM
1

Eat a diet and live a lifestyle that promotes testosterone production and it’ll fall in place
/r/seduction29/01/25 02:21 AM
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I’ve been in a similar situation. Severely infatuated with a girl I knew who was in a toxic LTR. Looking back at it, it was just a waste of time. If I could say anything to 19 year old me, and any 19 year old in general, is not too care or fixate on women, especially an individual, oneitis is silly. Don’t get caught up too much in women drama and focus on getting your life in order.
/r/seduction29/01/25 02:20 AM
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I was raised in a rough hood and grew up with a Father who was in a gang, who also ran a boxing gym. I’ve also done some MMA training and had one fight before. So I understand the whole tough guy demeanour thing. If that’s who you are , then just stay like that. Don’t try and be goofy if you aren’t. Yes women love playful lighthearted guys but you’re doing yourself a disservice by being inauthentic. Trust me , I’ve been a person who’s experimented with all these different PUA strategies and pers…
/r/seduction26/01/25 02:30 AM
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I agree I don’t think anything builds confidence more than MMA, or any combat sport for that matter. Especially if you’re active and are winning. I’ve only had 2 fights, lost one and got robbed the other so I’ve never officially won lol but I could see why these guys are so confident. Unfortunately I got injured, and I was unable to maintain that life confidence I felt from fighting. That confidence will flow over into other areas of your life. I wish I had understood these concepts while I was …
/r/seduction25/01/25 10:15 PM
2

IG and FB worked well for me in the past
/r/seduction24/01/25 05:16 AM
1

I used to be friends with a dude who was an absolute bum living in the shittest suburb in our city. He dated I would say , the most attractive girl in our city, who also happened to come from a wealthy family. And fucked a lot of her fancy rich “friends”. It probably helped that he was extremely handsome and had a good body but that was literally all he had going for him. Til this day I have no idea how he has gotten away with the shit he has.
/r/seduction21/01/25 09:02 AM
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I work on a building site. One of the contractors is 38. He’s a handsome guy, lived a healthy lifestyle for the most part, takes a bit of tren and dresses young and on the odd occasion he takes him and his crew out to the clubs the women won’t give the guy a break.
/r/seduction21/01/25 08:34 AM
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Caring what women think
/r/seduction21/01/25 08:09 AM
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Honestly man stop giving a flying fuck about what women think, say and do. Go about your day man, lock in, eat some steak and eggs and if the bitch shows up (or not) on the 25th then so be it
/r/seduction16/01/25 09:02 AM
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If I could go back in time to when I was new in dating I would tell myself this. Steak, eggs, weights, MMA, grind hard, groom and dress well. And not give a flying fuck about what women think about you. That’s it. This is all you need to know about pulling this girl or any girl for that matter.
/r/seduction16/01/25 09:00 AM
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Caffeine makes me horny as hell so if anything if makes me willing to jump in the drivers seat lol
/r/seduction16/01/25 08:42 AM
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Bruh you don’t need to do any corny ass shit to manipulate women and people in general into believing you have high value. If you want to demonstrate high value then just be a high value person and it will demonstrate. High value doesn’t mean high income, high value means high self esteem. The funny thing is most high value people don’t care about trying to sell you the idea that they have high value in themselves, they just have it and people sense it.
/r/seduction16/01/25 08:38 AM
2

You don’t need to be good looking to attract women but if you are good looking it will definitely do most of the work for you
/r/seduction16/01/25 08:36 AM
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It’s best not to overthink it. Yea definitely learn some tips and tricks and try and use them but not to the point where every move is planned out like a SEAL Team 6 mission, just get in the mood and while you’re in the mood just remember ‘hmm I’ll try that thing’ and the more you do it you’ll just know what to do. Besides if she is extremely attracted to you, or if you’re extremely attractive in general then it doesn’t really matter what you do she is just going to get turned on
/r/seduction16/01/25 08:26 AM
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Lasting long really just comes down to health and fitness. Don’t watch porn, eat extremely healthy and workout often and the problem should cease to exist. Ironically enough death grip made me last longer. There was a point in time where my death grip wasn’t terrible to the point that I couldn’t get hard, I could get hard but could only finish by my own hand. It was cool in the sense that I could last forever but very awkward that no matter how long I’m getting sucked off or getting a handjob no…
/r/seduction16/01/25 08:13 AM
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I’m in a similar situation. My life wen’t south so I cut out women to focus on getting it back up. I was on a roll in terms of my dating life just before shit hit the fan lol , but I had to zone out and soul search in other areas of my life that were lacking. The time I spent away from the field made me rusty , and at times I feel like a virgin who has no idea what to do even though this isn’t the case. I believe this has nothing to do with women, since the rules of game generally stay the same.…
/r/seduction16/01/25 07:46 AM
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Used to be friends with a guy who was in a (very toxic) LTR with probably the most attractive woman in my city. I basically third wheeled most of their relationship and realised it’s all smoke and mirrors and they’re just as flawed as anybody else
/r/seduction14/01/25 07:17 AM
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As a guy who wasted his youth partying a lot , I can say some of the most successful people in bars (that I’ve seen) were the guys with the least inhibitions. The guys who just went with the flow and weren’t trying to perfectly execute order 66. Guys that haven’t even read a single page of PUA material. Sure the alcohol helped but even when they were sober they were so nonchalant about women’s opinions of them. These guys weren’t anything special in terms of looks or money (though they usually h…
/r/seduction14/01/25 06:58 AM
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Don’t be all starstruck if you interact with a beautiful woman. They’re just humans like the rest of us. Society makes beautiful women a lot more grandiose than they really are. Once you stop caring about what women think of you they will like you more. Especially the beautiful ones bc they’re just so used to everybody kissing their ass. Detach your self worth from women’s opinions of you
/r/seduction13/01/25 10:17 AM
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Buddy you are way in over your head. Don’t become too concerned with the outcome, even if she is a 10. Just jump the gun and whatever happens happens. When you genuinely become detached from whether or not a woman sleeps with you, you will carry yourself differently. This will make women like you more. I guess it’s easy for me to just tell you to stop caring, but with self love and maturation you’ll come to understand.
/r/seduction13/01/25 09:14 AM
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Bro should be approaching at least 1000 women per day there’s at least 200 giving him IOI’s while he isn’t looking
/r/seduction13/01/25 08:55 AM
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I’ve never ran into any problems whilst out and about. Can only speak from my own experience but seems like more of an internet thing.
/r/seduction13/01/25 08:54 AM
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Don’t get so hung up on 10’s. It’s easy to be starstruck by hot women and turn into a kid at the candy store. She’s just a human being. Try not to get wrapped up in the novelty of it. Us men get lured into the chase, it isn’t even about women or sex, it’s just an attempt to prove something to ourselves. Seperate your self worth from the opinions of women and you will have a more nonchalant attitude, because you have nothing to prove. Which will make hot women like you more. Don’t treat this like…
/r/seduction10/01/25 09:54 PM
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Hot girls are only hard to interact with bc you’re putting them on a pedestal as all the other comments have said. It’s understandable if you’re young/new/inexperienced. I certainly was like that when I was a teenager lol Go do something difficult. MMA or boxing or something. As you’ll come to face real hardship in your life you’ll realise there are much more intimidating things than a woman’s beauty.
/r/seduction10/01/25 09:44 PM
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You sound young. I wouldn’t overthink it. When I first started dating I used to analyse everything. With maturity and experience I realised that I was blowing things way out of proportion in my own head. It doesn’t even really matter and the more nonchalant you are , the better your dates will go.
/r/seduction10/01/25 04:39 AM
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How much wood would a woodchuck chuck chuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood ?
/r/seduction10/01/25 04:37 AM
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Man if I could go back in time to my early 20’s, I wouldn’t have given 10 fucks what women thought of me, negative or positive. I wasted a lot of time over valuing their opinion/perception of me. Honestly man who cares what they think of you. Go out and define yourself for yourself. Show up as yourself and it’s deal or no deal. Which will make them like you more. Try be as likeable as you can, but don’t be too hard with trying to be liked. There’s a difference.
/r/seduction09/01/25 10:21 PM
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OP is Austin Dunham
/r/seduction09/01/25 01:57 AM
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As you gain more experience with women, and life in general (hardship especially) you’ll start to give less of a shit about women and their antics. Not in a misogynistic sense but more so a nonchalant and dare I say , apathetic attitude towards the dating scene. My advice for you is to find bigger fish to fry in your life. Trust me when you have bigger things to worry about and find validation within you won’t really give a fuck about what women think, say and do anymore lol bc their opinion of …
/r/seduction08/01/25 10:22 PM
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I don’t know why this is downvoted so hard lol. Life is way too short so why stick around with some melodramatic bitch , have some self respect and just leave
/r/seduction07/01/25 10:14 PM
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I struggled with it at first. There is nothing to really explain. You just have to keep doing it and work on your self esteem.
/r/seduction07/01/25 01:47 AM
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Start trying to find worth from within man. Once you realise worth comes internally you won’t give a flying fuck about if women like you or not, which makes them like you more.
/r/seduction07/01/25 12:26 AM
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You told her half of the truth. You eventually want a LTR, just not with her. I would just tell her the full truth out of human decency. How she reacts to that is on her. She’ll probably become obsessed with trying to win commitment from you and prove something to her ego , because that’s just what most women do in these situations.
/r/seduction07/01/25 12:20 AM
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That bitch crazy run for the hills my friend
/r/seduction06/01/25 10:43 AM
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You’re 18. You’re going to grow up and regret a lot of things my friend lol
/r/seduction06/01/25 10:34 AM
1

Don’t waste your time with women who don’t reciprocate interest or want to play wishy-washy with you man. At least she is being direct with you in this case. Take it from me I spent a lot of my time orbiting women like a chump. It wasn’t even about sex anymore it was about trying to prove something to myself as is the same case with you . I had very little knowledge of self esteem back then. The more acceptance and validation you find within the less you’ll care about winning women over.
/r/seduction06/01/25 09:27 AM
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Focus your time and energy into more important areas of your life. The women will come with it. Take it from me, I wasted a lot of time chasing tail before my prefrontal cortex developed and made me realise how stupid and unnatural this whole thing is. What your chasing isn’t sex, or intimacy, it’s validation. Had some divine force put me aside and told me that this validation came from within , and not from women or anything external for that matter, I would have saved a lot of headaches. And t…
/r/seduction06/01/25 09:09 AM
1

Honestly man I’ve had the exact same experience. The key to succeeding with women is to not care about succeeding with women.
/r/seduction06/01/25 09:01 AM
1

The casinos are one of those one environments where nobody is really looking to get laid , as something more valued than sex is pre-occupying the minds of everybody in the atmosphere. Wonder what it could possibly be?
/r/seduction06/01/25 05:47 AM
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Everybody fumbles it. It happens less as you get more experienced not only with women but with life.
/r/seduction06/01/25 03:32 AM
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It’s a terrible opener but on one hand it’s sincere 😂 Being overly witty can come off as try hard and unnatural
/r/seduction05/01/25 09:44 AM
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You are young and retarded. And you’ll probably stay this way for a while until you gain experience. Not only with women, but with life in general. The cool thing about the shy girls is that you can lead the interaction anywhere with little resistance
/r/seduction05/01/25 09:41 AM
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Steak, eggs and weights is all you should be concerned about at your age
/r/seduction05/01/25 09:35 AM
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Don’t ask for permission to escalate. Just call. If she picks up tell her you are going to pick her up for a date. If she doesn’t pick up, just move on. Take it from me. I used to waste a lot of time orbiting like a chump when I was younger.
/r/seduction05/01/25 09:34 AM
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I was 18 at the time. Typical bookworm virgin nerd that wanted to lose it. I didn’t understand social dynamics and emotions very well. I just couldn’t understand how getting laid worked. Everything needed to be formulated and rationalised in order for me to understand, so I spent a lot of time studying trying to understand it. My emotional intelligence became a lot better after spending a lot of time partying and I realised men/women interactions and more akin to an art than a science , and 95% …
/r/seduction05/01/25 09:30 AM
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I had a 2 year break from playing the field, where I just went full monk mode and focused on myself pretty much, and felt like I had completely forgotten how to seduce a woman. Just get the ball rolling again and the rust should wear off. Everything will come back to you faster than you think if you already know what to do. Like if a skateboarder got back on after not having done so for a few years. Women in their early 30’s are interesting. There’s significantly less single women in this age br…
/r/seduction05/01/25 06:55 AM
1

Save the compliments for during sex
/r/seduction05/01/25 06:42 AM
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Gotta crawl before you can walk. Trust me there are few very natural born Casanovas that know what to do from the get go. The only way to really get less awkward is to have more experience. I know that’s not what you want to hear but I can’t really put it any other way. You probably have a subconscious fear of her rejecting your kiss, as most guys do when we are starting out. Eat a lot of steak, eggs, lift some weights, put yourself in some dangerous and challenging situations (I highly recommen…
/r/seduction05/01/25 06:39 AM
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Try not to be so methodical. When I was young I used to treat this whole shit like a cod mission. Drop this whole mentality of ‘If I do XYZ it will realise oxytocine therefore making women give me BJ’. Honestly best advice is to just be nonchalant about women and be normal. I regularly get told this is shit advice as doesn’t give you any guidelines to follow but that’s the whole point.
/r/seduction03/01/25 12:32 AM
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Wtf is this sub coming too man. This sounds like something Tyler from RSD would say. Confidence and competence increase/decrease at pretty much the same rate, not just with women but any skill in life, from carpentry to swimming. But without the borderline delusional confidence to even put your toe in the water you can’t become competent at anything. You can’t just tell people to be competent. It has to be developed and without any initial self belief to begin with that can’t happen.
/r/seduction03/01/25 12:28 AM
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There some 17 year old girls doin some wild shit with older dudes after the club close lol end of the day they shouldn’t even be in the premises not condoning it but if they’re lying about their age it really is on them
/r/seduction02/01/25 11:35 PM
1

50 Shades of Gray lol
/r/seduction01/01/25 11:37 PM
1

Meh that’s just life, can’t be witty and charismatic like The Rock every second of the day. I’ve definitely missed out on opportunities with some attractive women just because of tiredness lol
/r/seduction01/01/25 11:36 PM
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Please don’t tell me you have a son
/r/seduction01/01/25 11:28 PM
2

Of course man me and all my buddies had already slept with 4000 women by our 21st birthdays 😂 And then we grew up and realised how stupid this shit it is Obsessing over body count is so lame man your friend is 32 and acting like Stifler
/r/seduction01/01/25 11:21 PM
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It’s ok everybody on this sub has been pointlessly infatuated with somebody, that’s how we end up here on this sub. When you’re obsessed with a woman it’s more about your own insecurities and proving something to yourself , than it is the woman. With age comes a better understanding of self esteem and life. When you understand self esteem better you start to care less whether women like you or not. I’m assuming you’re young but I could be wrong lol
/r/seduction01/01/25 11:11 PM
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Bro if there’s one thing I’ve learnt about the dating field and just life in general is that the situation is never as big as we make it out to be. It doesn’t matter what you do for dinner and if she wants to hang out with you then she will. If she doesn’t, then she doesn’t. As you experience life you become more nonchalant about such trivial matters.
/r/seduction01/01/25 11:01 PM
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