| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 39 | Can't seem to change my toxic mindset | SEEKING ADVICE | everyoneisgorgeous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 05:24 AM |
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| 5 | I wonder if chic-fil-a is hiring?Sad. If my SO talked about me like that I'd dump his ass. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/01/21 08:03 PM |
| 6 | I wonder if chic-fil-a is hiring?Thats a person you're talking about. Not a pet. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/01/21 07:58 PM |
| 10 | Called. Out.Shots fired. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 04:27 AM |
| 21 | Talk about completely missing the point.Im south asian we have the mehr system where guy gives the girl money but the amount is too low these days. Its just a formality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 04:38 AM |
| 0 | Problems in long term relationship after bf became religiousDid search your account a bit. If I were you I would've said "no wonder you're divorced" to hurt you or something. Or could've said "stop judging random people on the internet when you couldn't even judge your hubby of 20 years". Not implying it was your fault. But I could've given you a taste of your own medicine. But I'm being civil because I fear god and unlike you I care about the sentiments of all the divorced people out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 11:08 PM |
| 0 | Problems in long term relationship after bf became religiousI don't see how I'm confused. I even admitted I was wrong where I was. And I firmly believe in my values. Do you not know english? Or the meaning of word confused? Since you're resorting to personal attacks, keep doing so. You can't be helped. You're ignoring logical points in my arguments like you said I was wrong about radical feminism but didn't answer why. Called your points "facts" but couldn't cite any research. All the points I've made, you've ignored and tried to change the point. That's… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Problems in long term relationship after bf became religiousNot my personal issue. Radical feminism is a school of thought. A philosophy. Its not backed by science. It doesn't have a scientific basis. Therefore its ideas, objectively, cannot be called facts. I'm not even offended by your thoughts. I'm offended by your mannerisms and your rigid attitude. Which unfortunately can't be helped. You're stuck up. That can be called a fact. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Problems in long term relationship after bf became religiousScreaming its a fact and calling others uninformed. I don't know you but you need to stop thinking of yourself so highly. Your opinions are not facts. We could've had a healthy debate had it not been for you going all defensive mode and straying away from the point. Not only did you insult religious people you also insulted people with mental disorders. Then you went ahead and questioned my faith, painted your opinions as facts and called me uninformed. I hope you realize where you're wrong. You… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Problems in long term relationship after bf became religiousHmm well thats what wiki says 🤷♀️ btw did you research about other religions? Or you still think all are Abrahamic? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Problems in long term relationship after bf became religiousYou obviously. And you don't even know that religions outside of Abrahamic ones exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 09:43 PM |
| 0 | Problems in long term relationship after bf became religiousOnce your comment is public everyone has the right to criticize it. I also stand by my religion and the value it brings to the world. Don't you see? A lot of principles taught here date back to the conservative eras when religion was followed. Libfems like you are the reason women of the world are in such horrific states. Radical feminism supports porn, supports hookup culture and supports going dutch and all those things that have resulted in the misery of women. Edit: I was ignorant. Radical f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Problems in long term relationship after bf became religiousRead your above statements. Associating mental disorders with religion and calling religious people unintelligent. Is that not offensive? Do you know there are religions other than Abrahamic ones. I don't want to argue about what is wrong and right here. But I think no matter your beliefs you should always be careful when addressing sensitive topics like religion to not offend the sentiments of others. Doing that makes you no better than the LVMs we so passionately despise here. They don't care … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 09:31 PM |
| 0 | Problems in long term relationship after bf became religiousWho gave you the right to question my beliefs? No one. Did I mention "tradwives". I did not. I bet you'll call a sudden and intense turn towards atheism as awakening. If you choose to not feel any remorse when you offend people's beliefs and disguise it as a feminist act then keep doing that. No one can argue with a messed up ideology as yours. Peace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 09:15 PM |
| 0 | Problems in long term relationship after bf became religious"That is the truth" then keep it to yourself. No need to degrade religious people. This sub is about uplifting others. You can't label your opinions as facts. If you want to go join other subs where that happens. Connecting a mental disorder to religion is extremely problematic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:52 PM |
| -1 | Problems in long term relationship after bf became religiousI became religious after studying my religion deeply. And as a part of fds I'm happy about the rules it imposes on men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 06:49 PM |
| 11 | FDS and dating when you might be considered LV?Miranda kerr got married even after having kids? And she married a billionaire. No reason for you to feel LV because of kids. The thing is we can't be perfect. We're humans. We'll always have flaws. Go easy on yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 04:32 AM |
| 7 | Current relationship has me confused on if my bf is HVM or LVM and if we have codependent/narcissistic dynamicIf you're confused you have your answer. But you need to be very careful because of the mess this situation has become. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 05:11 PM |
| 4 | What's the secret to attracting *good*, eligible partners?There must be something. I get curious too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 08:57 PM |
| 17 | Acting like menCan you explain a bit? I feel a little lost reading this statement. What do you mean by a typical nice girl? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 03:58 PM |
| 8 | Evening all, I’m working on an FDS oldies/rock/ soul/ instrumental/ singer songwriter/ vintage/ whatever playlist, inviting your suggestionsIf you decide to include kpop, then kill this love by blackpink | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 08:01 PM |
| 30 | “If I can’t control a woman’s body, then I want that body to die.” 100% Genuine... Yikes 👀This sickens me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 07:28 PM |
| 2 | 10’s Don’t Date SkumbagsTypical push and pull game. Love bombing and then disappearing. Late replies. There's a lot more to the game. Dude slut shamed me because I refused to sleep with him. My queen actions were met with insults. Apparently standing up to guys meant compromising my self respect. Dude paired up with the people who talked shit about me because he didn't get what he wanted from me. Sat with my enemies and made fun of me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 06:50 PM |
| 4 | Can't seem to change my toxic mindsetThanks for the advice and yes I did learn about the last part. I've also learned too much jealousy is a sign of insecurity. And truly confident men control their emotions skillfully. The assertive part has me thinking though. Maybe I'm confusing these two terms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Here's a great(and fun) way to out filter men, that me and my friends have tried and has been proven accurateWhat about "The Fountainhead"? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 08:33 AM |
| 19 | My Boyfriend Wants to Break Up With Me?Stop going after him. He won't respect you if you keep wanting him that much. And that happens here, people date but come out as homosexual later on. He's not your boyfriend, he never committed to you or asked you to be his girlfriend. You're being too clingy. Let him go. You can't keep him. He's not a pet to be kept. Work on yourself and your english. Learn the culture and make friends for now. I won't date in a foreign country that soon. I suggest you read the handbook of this sub. Seems like … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 08:11 AM |
| 4 | Can't seem to change my toxic mindsetYeah its definitely a lot to unpack. I have a long way to go I know. I plan on getting therapy next year if I happen to clear my exams on time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 07:24 AM |
| 7 | Can't seem to change my toxic mindsetThanks for the advice. I'm a broke college student and can't afford therapy. But I'll become eligible for a job next year (if I clear my exams) so I guess I have to wait for now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 07:22 AM |
| 10 | Differences in Men Due to Ethnicity/Cultural DifferencesI'm south Asian. Although conservative they have no problem fulfilling the role of providers because thats our culture. A lot of guys still wont fit that role. But its a culture thing so demanding and getting a provider is easier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 05:11 AM |
| 8 | Differences in Men Due to Ethnicity/Cultural DifferencesI'm south asian hehe and I think I'll marry one. There has been a revolution here with the introduction of feminism and it has created some good guys. I see them frequently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 05:08 AM |
| 50 | 10’s Don’t Date SkumbagsSo true. A guy tried to neg me and played the bait and switch game. He was around my height. Nothing special. Still gave him a chance. I was naive back then and didnt know what he was doing. Thankfully I have my mom. I told her everything and she exposed his game. Saved me from his toxic ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 04:59 AM |
| 13 | How does one properly love themselves ?Give time. There's no quick fix. I do that whenever I have crushes. I stop myself and wait. Overtime the feelings disappear. Allow yourself time to heal by not thinking of moving on fast. If he comes in your thoughts let him and make peace with it. I find songs to be an immediate game changer. Find empowering anthems you'll soon absorb the vibes. You can also listen to self love subliminals. They aren't magic but they do help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 04:47 AM |
| 10 | I cannot fathom how a man could do this and think it was okay!!!I think he's lying. Edit: Because men know the costs of marriage and how badly it can affect their money. He's lying so he can get out of the marriage asap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 04:42 AM |
| 26 | Husband stalked wife until she married him, but she had no idea... this gave me the CREEPSReads fake. Movies and books like this have romanticized stalkers. This is fucked up. I'm still recovering from this romanticization. Almost got me in an abusive relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 06:12 PM |
| 3 | RPW pickmeisha agrees to “open situationship” with BF where he can fuck others and she can’t. This is bold, unadulterated male bullshit on full display. LADIES, THIS IS A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!True. Really hard. On top of that you feel lonely. But I've faith it will be worth it. Will be awesome if you share a tip or two here. That's mostly why I joined this sub and reddit so I can learn from other people's experiences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Sometimes, I worry that I'm defined by what other people tell me to be, not because it's what I want.Honey no. Stuff like this doesn't make you any more or less of a women. Although its deeply engraved in our culture. It couldn't be further from the truth. Just look nice and presentable in whatever you wear. That's key. There's someone out there for everyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 05:31 PM |
| 5 | I'm 18, pretty, horrifically naive and a little scared. Advice?I'm 18 my mom says the same thing. She says you'll have plenty of time after you complete your studies and get a good job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 05:10 PM |
| 4 | Hypergamy or love?Don't marry now. Simple. Wait. It'll all be clear in a few years. Tell him you're in no rush to marry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 05:02 PM |
| 6 | Advice regarding handling potential cheating avenuesI'll be straightforward. If he's HV he will stop. Or I'll start talking to someone else to get his feet back on the ground. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Myth: Beautiful Women Don’t Need A Dating StrategyI'm considered pretty where I go to but all I find are LVMs around me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Men are crabs in a bucket when it comes to healthy, monogamous relationships. Other men in your man's life are more capable of sabotaging the relationship than other women are, and here is whyThis is spot on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 08:25 PM |
| 3 | “Women you marry, women you fuck”This thread opened my mind. I feel enlightened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 07:45 PM |
| 7 | RPW pickmeisha agrees to “open situationship” with BF where he can fuck others and she can’t. This is bold, unadulterated male bullshit on full display. LADIES, THIS IS A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!"I'm rich, I can fix shit, I don't need a man" THIS is what my mom has always taught me. As long as you're financially independent you won't need to put up with his bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 07:40 PM |
| 2 | You guys need to stop putting women and sex above your values, self respect and goals.I'm a woman and this can't be truer. A lot of people say women are attracted to assholes. No we're not. We're simply attracted to their attitude and mannerisms. Not personality or looks. | /r/seduction | 09/04/20 03:43 AM |
| 2 | In one sentence, comment your best dating advice...GO!This! My mom has been teaching me this since I was a kid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Men making slightly above average salaries have a right to be wary of gold-diggers since they are the prime targetThat's you though. That's how it "should" be. But we have a choice. Some people choose not to take risks. I'll try my best for them but if I fail at least I can die in peace knowing they're in good hands. I had to face so many difficulties just because of one person. I don't want that for my kids. I want them to live their life and experience things I couldn't because I was worrying about things my parents should've worried about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Men making slightly above average salaries have a right to be wary of gold-diggers since they are the prime targetWell I'm a woman and I care about my partner's income if and only if I'm marrying him. And that's because I'll only marry when I want kids. I'm not going to raise kids on my own. I want a man that's comfortable enough to save for our children's future so they can go to a good college and their future is safe. That's all I want really. I grew up in a home where my dad didn't give a fuck and my mom had to bear the burden on her own. Thats depressing. I don't want that for my kids. I'm perfectly ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/20 11:38 PM |
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