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I saw a woman on here (Reddit not this specific sub) say that she’s straight but in 3somes enjoys giving women head. So to your point, there’s a lot of goofy ass woman in this app who make their own rules (cause eating pussy absolutely makes you gay). That being said, almost every major pop star has lyrics that imply they are bi. Billie eilish made a career is having an ambiguous sexuality. 30% of gen z ID’d as LGBTQ with the biggest contributor being bi women. So, he’s not totally wrong. For a …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:51 PM
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As a general rule of thumb, if you are a heterosexual woman, in identification AND behavior, I see no issue with you wanting to only date straight men. However, if you are a bi woman, fluid woman or a straight-ish woman who has had and would have homosexual experiences, yet you avoid bi men like the plague, well it’s still your choice but there is blatant hypocrisy there and I think you’re goofy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:44 PM
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This all the fucking way. I’ve known straight girls who brag about female celebs they’d go gay for, I’ve known one who would go to strips clubs and get lap dances from women. These women hold their men to the highest standards of masculine behavior. Btw, when did it become cool for straight girls to cosplay as lesbians? That shit is trashy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:40 PM
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Also true
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:34 PM
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This seems oddly specific. Can you give an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:32 PM
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I’m literally describing millions of women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:45 PM
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Cause all your counter points are “no, those girls are the dumb ones”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:33 PM
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You only reply with femcel talking points. You literally cannot fathom your average girl is not some morally superior being.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:30 PM
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In some cases sure. I think what you really meant was dumb girls. And there’s alot of those out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:28 PM
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That’s cause men don’t need 10 fake friend to placate them. One or two real homies and I’m set. Men don’t need hundred of fake social media friends hyping me up under my comments section as kinkeeping. Btw, you know damn well they’re being fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:24 PM
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For the most part, this has been my experience with bi women as well. They seemed to crave intimacy and long term relationships with men but only saw women for a “good time.” I don’t want to say that it’s a ubiquitous stance but I’ve known that to be the case more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:59 PM
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Heterosexual men you mean. But I agree. All of the traits you mentioned exclusively get me hot and bothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:57 PM
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Why do you assume every girl who’s fallen for a “bad boy” with obvious red flags, is some dumb bimbo? A lot of these girls are pretty, smart and typically come from decent households. These are fake plastic bimbos?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:41 PM
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Cause his bisexual attraction was mostly predicated on sexual attraction. He probably didn’t want emotional intimacy from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:09 PM
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I’ve never knew a bi women who didn’t exclusively date men. Idk where you’re getting your numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:07 PM
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Men and women are different in alot of ways. I would assume you’re choosing to ignore that aspect when you say it’s basically the same, people are people blah blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:06 PM
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I’m not sure I could articulate it in a way that a woman would understand. What I choose to jerk off to has almost no barring on any real world relationship. Men lust after the flesh more, in a way women seemingly do not. I don’t think you’d get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:03 PM
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The made up ones
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:56 PM
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Bro she’s always gonna flip the script and reply “yeah but those women are stupid and shallow anyway.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:56 PM
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So you’re saying what he’s saying is correct? Or only correct for, as you put it, women who are stupid and who don’t have morals?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:55 PM
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All positive traits. Never consider the downsides or perhaps you think they’re are none. Literally guys who think exactly like this and, like you, are maybe correct. Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:03 PM
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Your entire world view is based on what men say on this sub? Also, you didn’t answer the question; do you ever consider the value you bring to others? Do you consider the type of partner you are? Why do you not feel obligated to but insist men should?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 07:25 PM
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Yes. That implies that. And we have real world example that. OP just ignores it by saying those women aren’t representative of most women (idk how she would know that).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 07:23 PM
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So I can be a shitty person but if I carry value (financially or status wise) I’m actually a better partner than a nice, morally upright man who has neither? Is this not the type of shit red pill was based on?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 07:20 PM
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But her specific gripe in life is with men. You’re arguing with a femcel. Have you not seen her post history? It’s just loosely tethered arguments with the premise being, “why do men…. ?”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 07:16 PM
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They still pursue sex. Not relationships. The difference short term vs long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 07:11 PM
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Sure. But it’s such a gender neutral thing. Do you ever stop to think what value you bring to others? Should this only be a thing men do? Should women not consider this honestly in themselves? I feel you get bored and just come up with posts to rant about men. This doesn’t even seem like a gender specific issue, it’s more so just in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 07:10 PM
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You mean generalizing an entire group based on a small percentage of that group is wrong? That’s literally the basis of all your posts on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:44 PM
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33%? See, casual hook ups are not a woman’s game. Yet, they persist in an activity with very little in return. Are women ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:35 PM
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That is a woman’s natural tendency, to be nurturing. I know that’s extremely controversial to say but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:28 PM
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You get exactly what she’s written but ignoring the fact that coming here to complain about something is 90% of the fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:18 PM
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Not taking credit, just pointing out much of the world was built and shaped by men. That is a fact. Men either built it, invented it or innovated it in almost 99.99% of cases. It was probably that way before agricultures and what led us into agriculture. Whether women were held back or not, men are likely biologically more capable in that regards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:29 PM
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Still men. Even the women who operate in male dominant fields are not nearly as capable as their male counterparts. We all have our strengths but men’s seem to be shaping society with our innovation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:24 PM
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American women are mean and entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:09 PM
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You’re mixing up two different ideas. People have fallen in love and married for love throughout history. What changed in the 18th and 19th centuries was that marrying for love became the social ideal in much of the West, replacing marriages arranged mainly for family, economic, or political reasons. That’s a very different claim from saying love marriages were “new to the world.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:48 PM
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Precisely but you’re not gonna convince a femcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:44 PM
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Is like an asterisk then? Like yeah I went down on a chick and got fingered banged by one but only cause my man told me to? I mean, if you enjoyed it you’re probably not as straight as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:41 PM
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Most women are fluid at the very least. Which makes it trickier cause you’d think they would understand that type of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:36 PM
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Funny cause I bet you yourself are bi or at least mildly into women sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:08 PM
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It’s more so men think a woman being bi will grant them access to other women or to at least gawk/lust over other women without there being an issue. But there are women who are so heavily biased for men you almost forget their bi and most men would just see them as simply spicy straight girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:58 PM
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What is that something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:52 PM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:27 PM
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I’ve also heard women say they bit their sexual prime in their 30s and I think there’s truth to that. Being scared at 25+ seems a bit dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:09 PM
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What does 99% hetero look like? Are you accounting for the off chance you’re stranded on a planet with nothing but women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:58 PM
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Is there not an overlap ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:57 PM
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I think men as a gender don’t see themselves as attractive so it’s like if you’re dating us, wtf are you even with us for? Clearly not looks? (I don’t think this btw, I know I’m handsome. But fellas, have more confidence.)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:27 PM
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I think his framework is she probably slept with guys on the first date, meaning if she makes you wait, you were not hot enough. Or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:23 PM
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I have seen this happen. Can’t say it’s the norm but i wouldn’t be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:19 PM
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It’s not that you’re undeserving of love. Men just have a bias for younger women and women prefer not to date younger men. It’s more of an attraction thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:18 PM
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You’re questioning him like you don’t believe his side of the story. Is it hard for you to believe women can be like this? Blame the man, excuse the woman. Welcome to a world outside of Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:36 AM
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I guess hoes gonna be hoes like Wayne said
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:33 AM
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His ex decided getting attention from other men meant more than respecting the relationship she was in. Idk how that’s not a criticism of the woman in any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:11 AM
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Nah fuck that. Women turn a blind eye to the shady shit other women do. It’s girl code. You’re not supposed to critique other women as a woman. Women are also insidious with the shit they do. This is a known fact by any man who’s dealt with more than one woman in his life. You made the right choice considering you were not compatible with her new found lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:10 AM
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For the same reason OP constantly bitches about men this and men that. Cause I’m petty, and I enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:57 PM
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Is that why you’re single? Cause men are the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:45 PM
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Yeah I’m not sure what her end goal is. Shame men who can’t find a date so they try harder and give herself a larger pool of men to choose from. I assume she is single cause shes hyper focused on single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:43 PM
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All this work to attract women to garner more of a headache than you had prior. Is pussy really worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:28 PM
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Change for a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:03 PM
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Not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:08 PM
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Ideally, sex is about the connection between the two people in the relationship, not competing with someone’s past. But it’s also pretty normal for people, men and women alike, to wonder how they compare to previous partners. Humans naturally compare themselves to others in many areas of life. Where I’d draw the line is whether those thoughts become obsessive or controlling. Constantly interrogating your partner, demanding reassurance, or fixating on past relationships is unhealthy, but occasion…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:14 PM
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“Pair bonding” has been studied in humans and many other species long before it became popular in manosphere discussions. I do agree that some online personalities misuse or oversimplify the concept, often reducing it to claims about women’s sexual history while ignoring that pair bonding, if it exists in humans, applies to both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:06 PM
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Overprotective parenting can absolutely produce adults who struggle with criticism, rejection, or accountability. But that isn’t a male specific issue, girls can be raised the same way and develop unrealistic expectations about relationships or how others should treat them. I also think it’s important to distinguish between healthy parental support and unhealthy coddling. Parents should make their children feel loved and valued. Telling your son he’s smart, kind, or worthy of love isn’t the prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:03 PM
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No I don’t want to be anything like a woman. Not sure where you’re coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:37 PM
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Literally everything you just said, i ask myself about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:25 PM
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The fact that humans have adopted many different mating systems throughout history actually suggests we’re behaviorally flexible, not that biology is unimportant. Biology doesn’t usually dictate a single behavior, it creates predispositions that interact with culture, economics, environment, and social norms. For example, humans are biologically capable of monogamy, polygyny, casual relationships, lifelong pair bonding, and remaining single. Which of those becomes common depends heavily on the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:33 PM
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I think we’re actually in agreement on part of this. “Fairly recent” depends on the timescale. Three to five thousand years is ancient from a historical perspective, but it’s relatively recent compared to the hundreds of thousands of years modern humans have existed. That said, I also haven’t found strong evidence for some of the specific claims that were made. The idea that humans universally practiced four year serial monogamy is a hypothesis, not an established fact. Likewise, the description…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:25 PM
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Humans aren’t naturally “monogamous” or “non monogamous” in any simple sense. Anthropologists have documented a wide range of mating systems throughout history, including long term pair bonds, polygyny, and more flexible arrangements. The idea that humans universally formed 4 year relationships before moving on (sometimes called the “four year itch” hypothesis) is an interesting evolutionary hypothesis, not an established historical fact. Likewise, the claim that women evolved to deliberately se…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:19 PM
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It’s in a woman nature to tell soothing lies. Look at the comment section of any overweight women. Look at what her friends tell her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:07 PM
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That’s kinda crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:29 PM
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Obviously rape is a big fear. I was speaking on the social dynamics of being judged, excluded and criticized, that many women have particularly amongst other women. This is two separate convos bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:08 PM
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Hmm, you know what you say makes sense logically, at face value. But reality is, loads of beautiful intelligent women will in fact fall head over heels for a criminal. This isn’t fiction. Do we call them mentally ill after the fact? I think the issue is women do not call other women out enough for their goofy behavior. God forbid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:17 PM
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Epstein is a bad example. Use someone like Chris brown. Serial abuser, but he can dance and sing therefore …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:14 PM
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I don’t think men deny their attraction for hot crazy women. Women seem to act like they’re consistently on the moral high ground, when Wade Wilson gets a lot of a fan mail in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:13 PM
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We are much more forgiving when women express those traits. By a wide margin. It’s not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:12 PM
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Women’s biggest fear is being judged by other women, it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:07 PM
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I don’t think so but I think the point this make is those soft skills are not as important or at least you can really get away with just money, etc and get the results you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:03 PM
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The thing with hypergamy, to me at least, is it’s not very practical for most women. Not everyone can be with the best available man or land themselves a so called high value man. Imagine most women adopt such a way of mate selection; you’d have a generation of a woman single and childless in their 40s. Sure, they would be be cool with it perhaps, but the generations that follow would see the outcome of being single and aging and go the opposite way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:14 PM
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Somehow if you said the exact same thing but from a mans perspective it would be met with such vitriol. But I agree with what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:09 PM
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1.Hypergamy doesn’t require every woman to reject average men or only date millionaires. It’s about relative preferences, not absolute outcomes. Most people do end up dating within their socioeconomic class because the dating pool is largely made up of people they meet through work, school, hobbies, and social circles. That doesn’t mean preferences don’t exist,it means people generally choose the best option available to them within their realistic pool. 2.I agree that attraction isn’t something…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:01 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:46 PM
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There’s no contradiction. My principle is genderneutral: I think both men and women have some responsibility for the partners they choose and whether they remain in unhealthy relationships. My observation is about how society applies accountability, not how I apply it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:18 AM
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I stated my position AND an observation. How is that not clear to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:02 AM
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I gave an example of a friend (male) who I imposed the same standard I’m imposing on women. But there is a clear double standard, that’s a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:42 AM
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Responsibility for a decision belongs to the person who made it. He hit you, he did that. You chose to stay, you did that. Let’s not even use an extreme example. If you date nothing but fuck boys, was that bad luck or poor decision making on your part? What I’m realizing is, it’s taboo to suggest women hold responsibility and are not always victim of circumstances. My position is gender neutral btw
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:31 AM
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Blame is a strong word, accountability is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:18 AM
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They’re* Bears can be cute sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:18 AM
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It’s already a given the bad partner is bad and should do better. Is that not already understood?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:17 AM
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And that’s valid cause some people are only ever gonna attract a specific type of person so it’s best they avoid the dating game all together tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:42 AM
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I have a buddy who would complain about women, like most men on this sub. “Women are this, women are that.” The thing was, he seemed to only go for or attract hoodrat women who were easy. Like bro, stop fucking with these chicks who work in your warehouse. You know she’s a single mom, you know you don’t wanna be a step father. I hope that answers your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:41 AM
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It’s a totally valid to place blame on a person who consistently find themselves on the other end of a toxic partner. No way a person has that type of bad luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:00 AM
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You know unattractive women exist? Obese women exist. Women with glaring bright red flags exist. There are absolutely forever alone women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:57 AM
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One is going to be seen as more horrific, if we are being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:52 AM
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That’s a gross misrepresentation. It literally means accountability. The difference between “I’m sorry you feel that way” and “I’m sorry I did that.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:46 AM
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There’s this idea amongst certain men that their women might have dated a man that they perceived as being more attractive than the current boyfriend, and if the woman found the ex more attractive it’s reasonable to assume that he got away with certain things that the current boyfriend who is not as attractive will not get away with, and that bleeds into sex in the bedroom. I don’t even really think this is a common trope but at the same time it probably has happened to a guy maybe even a girl a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:19 PM
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Don’t assume that. If I tell my lady I want to blow her back out or get in her guts, she is receptive of that type of “dirty” dominant/aggressive way of describing sex. Behind closed doors, most couples jive with that type of dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:22 PM
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Maybe by women or society. Idk. We can’t play rough with girls as kids. To get the woman’s attention there’s this courting process of making the woman feel special and this and that. Chivalry is an ideal that puts the woman on a pedestal. It feels ingrained in us somehow that women are special somehow and worthy of special treatment. In general there’s this broad social conditioning that tells us women are nicer, more caring and nurturing, morally superior and emotionally safer. Women believe th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:29 PM
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Especially women. Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:23 PM
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I think more guys eat pussy than previously thought. It’s just he might be reluctant to do it outside a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 07:54 PM
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Per usual
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 07:38 PM
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That has not been true in my experience. But in the context of monogamous relationships, men are typically the givers of romantic gestures, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 07:36 PM
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I guess it’s perspective. Women want romantic gestures done to/for them. Very rarely are they the givers of romance. Romance novels and movies revolve around a woman receiving the romance. If we can agree on that, are women romantic if men typically are the ones doing the romantic gestures? I do think men are more romantic and passionate. As a man myself, I never had a woman do anything equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:40 PM
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Perhaps you’re in the minority
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:36 PM
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I can respect that. I think if you’re willing to accept “princess treatment” one should also return the favor. I have a friend whose gf is high maintenance, so the princess treatment is expected. But she hardly carries the same energy for him, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:09 PM
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Would you say your friend returns the favor? Perhaps gives him prince treatment in anyway? Granted, maybe he’s ok with not receiving that. Who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:28 PM
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The same can be said the other way around, no? If you’re a chronic whiner you’re probably also hypocritical and make bad faith arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:08 PM
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You get those same “brain worms” from undercooked meat and unwashed veggies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:06 PM
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I agree. I think alot of women claim to be straight but are not attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:04 AM
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Well it is. No man wants to be in a relationship with a woman who doesn’t want to fuck them. It makes a man feel undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:22 AM
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Do women not feel the same way about the male ego?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:04 AM
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Women are more context dependent. Men are more visual. It HAS to be your husband/lover in order for you to be aroused. Any woman body will give him that involuntary arousal. Idk what buddy is talking about but woman’s sexualities are at least a little more complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:58 AM
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Some vaginas look like the side of a bull dogs mouth. Not all but they are out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:51 AM
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Do you not think it’s common for straight women to speak about how gross the male body and genitalia is? Can we make the same conclusion about those straight women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:50 AM
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Gross doesn’t equal disgust? Break that down for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:49 AM
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Would you at least consider that people’s answers are based on how they want their morals to be perceived. Meaning, by saying you view the penetrated as being inherently submissive, assuming we are talking about hetero sex, this puts the woman almost always in the submissive role, which could be viewed as counter intuitive to feminist or progressive thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:33 AM
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That is an interesting perspective and I would imagine if she switched roles and penetrated her man, she would feel dominant?? Who knows. I think people’s perspective, specifically on this topic, of what is dominant or isn’t really depends on how they view gender dynamics. Like a feminist, whether male or female, would hesitate to view penetration as a dominant act. And no I don’t view myself as a disgusting animal with a penis who dilutes a woman’s value simply cause we had sex. I just think a …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:25 PM
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No I don’t think so, unless the act itself is being done with the intention of degrading. Some women are into that. But I think love making, slow intimate sex, is far from degrading. Yes. I am stronger and bigger, more often than not I am on top. I think certain positions, like doggy, amplify this feelings for me. I am pretty silent and concentrated while my woman is moaning, eyes closed, gripping the bed. I tend to feel like I’m in the drivers seat. I think it’s a natural dynamic between men an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:46 PM
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We don’t live in ancient Babylon. It’s the 21st century, a time where women are the most liberated they have ever been and the demonization of men by women is at an all time high. But I guess we can use historical precedent to justify hate. Holding present day individuals responsible for historical actions they didn’t commit is a great idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 06:33 PM
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Women don’t respect a white knight. Probably why you can’t get laid, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 06:11 PM
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Where in my reply did I ever mention violence? You brought violence up not me. Never made that claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:14 PM
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“Just a few Reddit posts”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:13 PM
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When rhetoric that portrays men as inherently dangerous, disposable, or morally defective is repeatedly justified as harmless venting, it shapes social attitudes even if it never becomes a manifesto or a shooting. Dismissing misandry as “harmless” because it doesn’t produce mass violence kinda ignores how normalized dehumanization and indifference still cause damage, especially to men who already feel unseen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:05 PM
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No one has ever equated misandry with violence, just like no one would ever equate misogyny with only being violence against women. You pulled a nothing burger out of your ass just to have some semblance of an argument. Do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:58 PM
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But there’s a meaningful difference between saying “this man hurt me” and “men are trash,” “men are dangerous,” or “we’d be better off without men.” When those generalizations are repeated at scale, they stop being personal coping mechanisms and become cultural messaging. You’re being dismissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:56 PM
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So you’re saying misogyny is essentially JUST violence against women. And because women do not posses the capabilities to harm men, misandry is either not a thing or shouldn’t be taken seriously? Something doesn’t need to be equally lethal to be “real.” Misandry can exist as prejudice, bias, or social hostility toward men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:53 PM
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Framing of misandry as “just a few tweets” misunderstands how harm operates and how social attitudes translate into real world outcomes. It’s not about which is worse, it’s whether misandry is real, consequential, and structurally normalized in ways people dismiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:30 PM
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Perhaps it’s a vocal minority of bad faith feminists who hate men and remind the world how much they hate them at every turn. For one reason do another, they are completely shaping how modern feminism is perceived. And I don’t see the “good ones” jumping in to check these misandrist. It’s pretty trendy to shit on men these days. That comes from somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:26 PM
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I’ll take your word on that But you probably don’t represent all feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:17 PM
2

I think it stems from the idea that men are often told by women looks don’t matter. And honestly, you’re more likely to see an ugly out of shape man with a gorgeous woman than the opposite. Men don’t really have to be beautiful to get a woman so it’s not as big of a deal to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:14 PM
1

He may not express those views to you personally and that’s kinda the point McNutty is making.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:11 PM
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Feminism isn’t bad. Misandry is bad. And modern self proclaimed feminist are misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:03 PM
1

I mean, it makes sense. I’m not particularly attracted to bi women myself so I understand the feeling. But the irony is there
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:04 PM
3

Maybe in small progressive circles but the average woman is turned off by the idea of her man having sex with another man. Pretty ironic considering how bi/fluid most women of this current generation seem to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:17 PM
1

That’s wonderful. I hope you’re attentive to pleasure as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 08:32 PM
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I think that sets a bad precedent. I think partners should look to pleasure each other extensively. I can understand putting the woman first cause of the orgasm gap. But let’s not be selfish. I want that enthusiasm reciprocated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:06 PM
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This is a totally normal reaction most people would have. No man wants to feel like some fake plastic dick is rocking his women better than he can. No woman wants her man to use a fake pocket pussy more than her real vagina. Add to the fact the penis is an extension of his masculinity. But hey, if they’re both cool with it, god bless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:45 PM
1

There’s a stereotypical look or vibe that a virgin has that women and men alike do not respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:45 PM
1

I respect it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:32 PM
1

Probably for the same reason people feel the need to give their thoughts and opinions on a wide variety of topics. Are you the opinion police or only when it comes to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:19 AM
1

Is there even such a thing as unconditional love? Maybe your premise would me better if you swapped “loved unconditionally” with “loved with less conditions required”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:03 AM
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But men follow male leaders. And most respected leaders are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 11:53 PM
1

I’d hate to raise someone else’s kid thinking it was mine
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:28 PM
2

Kudos to you. In that context, your man should absolutely be treating you like a queen. I personally am weary of girls who demand princess treatment cause 1) no one’s entitled to being spoiled 2) most of the time, these women are not reciprocating that treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:32 PM
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So giving “princess treatment” is the only way for women to be nice to men? I have to literally treat a woman like royalty?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:30 PM
2

A good woman is hard to find. I think men and women often find themselves in relationships that feel one sided. This post, though very much dramatic, is just the frustrations of a man dating women. Women have their own frustrations. I can say, there’s nothing worse than being in a one sided relationship. That does not mean we have to go our own way. Just have higher standards and don’t bend them for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:55 PM
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Idk, personally, I find bigger women attractive. Whether you deem them, thick, chubby or fat, I just enjoy that build on a woman. My gf is thicc and curvy and I love every part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:03 PM
1

His point is, even other women can see the devaluing effects of jumping from penis to penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:33 PM
2

Honestly, I’ve heard women use shallow to describe men’s dating strategy for so long, I just equate shallow with being a negative attribute. Most people are shallow to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:30 PM
1

“Happy wife, happy life” comes from the idea that women are inherently more valuable than men in the relationship and their happiness trumps the man’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:27 PM
3

I’m so high this shit almost made sense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:09 AM
2

I think ever human being wants to be desired physically by their partner. Personally, it would be a deal breaker if mine did not find me physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:06 AM
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Tbh, I never really mind body hair on a woman. Armpit hair, pubes, arm hair… I do find thick leg hair or facial hair on a woman off putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:05 AM
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I think it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:41 AM
10

Well what’s wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:40 PM
3

None of these guys are Quasimodo. And I’d imagine to a certain extent their fame/status makes them attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:35 PM
10

Likewise, you can have all the confidence in the world but if you look like Danny devito, the women aren’t going to chase after you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 07:57 PM
1

2016 took a lot of our idols away didn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 03:50 PM
11

Ok name your son Angelica and see if he doesn’t hate you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 03:45 PM
1

You gonna let your woman out quad you? Pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:23 AM
1

Please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:21 AM
1

Nah that’s not classy enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:12 AM
1

Bro she just said you have internalized misandry. You gonna let that slide?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:29 PM
1

Which is the kicker. Idc if a straight woman chooses not to date bi men. I think their reasonings are valid. Bi women who don’t want to date bi men are just goofy as hell to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:26 PM
3

Who’s gonna take a man serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:57 PM
2

Now that’s weird to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:52 PM
8

More or less
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:14 PM
25

Most progressives aren’t as progressive as they think they are
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:50 PM
2

Really? What an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:05 PM
3

So we are equal parts worse and greater than women as a whole?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:26 PM
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Those hobbies are probably very therapeutic. Contrary to women’s views on therapy, men don’t really need to sit and speak on our feelings. Sometimes we just need an outlet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:59 PM
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Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:57 PM
1

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:30 PM
4

I think he means women do not lust over average male bodies in the same way men tend to enjoy average female bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:29 PM
3

I think that’s exactly what he meant
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:29 PM
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OP: Women can be toxic to Women in the comments: Nah uh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:25 PM
2

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:23 PM
1

I agree. But this also holds true on a bunch of different topics. I believe the women who don’t agree with the consensus are referred to as “pick me” types. Women police the opinions of other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:20 PM
1

Exactly. Women have a tendency to answer questions, not based on how they feel, but based on how they think they should feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:13 PM
2

Fuck feminist
/r/MensRights26/02/25 02:26 AM
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Trust me, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:10 PM
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Bonus points for him if he subdues the larger man then ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:05 PM
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In the rare occurrence that resolving the conflict was not an option (let’s say the aggressor would not budge) and your partner HAD to defend himself, would you feel differently about him if he were to act cowardly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:59 PM
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I’d imagine, ideally, women want a man who can deescalate but also can be violent if he absolutely has to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:54 PM
1

Did you at all feel pressured into doing a 3some? 6 times is a lot considering sexing up women isn’t your cup of tea
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:10 AM
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She has a tendency to attach stereotypical male archetypes (neck beards, boy mom, etc etc) to the overall male population. I think she bases her opinions on male solely from internet sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:50 PM
2

I think a small group of men genuinely obsesses over video game characters. I’ve been a life long gamer and idgaf about female gaming characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:47 PM
1

I think we all need to stop taking comments we see online to heart. The algorithm, especially Facebooks, is designed to rage bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:32 PM
1

Did you get any enjoyment out of the 3somes or was it all just performative on your side? I’d assume you’re bi
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:22 PM
2

You really think girls are out here dating men who are 6’4”? They just want a man taller and bigger than they are. Most people aren’t walking around with unrealistic expectations unless they are shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:04 PM
1

And i never heard of the term relativist attraction before but it sounds kinda similar to a grass is greener approach, which can be true for anyone regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:02 PM
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Agreed. Regardless of gender, I think those who choose to live AND die single are outliers and missing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:58 PM
6

Is this true?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:47 PM
0

I get that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:55 PM
1

Wym?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:16 PM
1

Maybe the number is too high but it’s not that far fetched. Take into consideration, in LTR, men tend to initiate the sex and women will often see sex as a chore but will throw their man a bone, so to speak. Not saying that their partners are in fact not attracted to them anymore, but I could why the men would feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:01 PM
2

You base that on what, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:55 PM
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At some point you’d have to sit your man down and tell him your needs aren’t being met and give him a step by step on how to meet those needs. Once his ego recovers I’m sure oral sex will be on the menu going forward. Or just go lesbian for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:53 PM
1

You have a men’s only group? What does that look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:25 PM
1

So 88% of men are feeling what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:20 PM
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1000%
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:09 PM
1

This is the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 09:44 PM
3

Having a partner who cannot make you orgasm is wild. Idk how women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 09:29 PM
1

I don’t think it’s quite that simple. Most relationships aren’t tit for tat unless they were always fake relationships from the get go. I think the idea of relationships being all or mostly transactional ignore the deeper connection you have within the relationship. You can’t simply up and find a new friends group, or leave a relationship and jump right into a new one. You also don’t choose to enter a romantic relationship or friendship, it kinda just happens and arises organically through build…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:40 AM
1

Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:16 AM
1

Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:15 AM
2

Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:02 AM
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I think it’s all relative. Average looking women tend to date average or slightly below average men. So yeah, the balding, 5’6” computer science nerd isn’t going to all of a sudden become super attractive to super models. But the qualities that would be present in someone who rescue kittens will definitely make him attractive to some woman out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:00 AM
6

Glad we can admit the whole bear vs man thing was solely pushed by femcels
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:50 AM
2

No shit she’s not gonna call me. I never gave my number out. I love eating pussy and yes I will brag about it. Now send your girl my way so I can show her what an orgasm feels like 👅👅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:28 AM
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Me. I am one of the dudes you speak of.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:04 AM
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Me. I am dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:03 AM
1

This. Men definitely obsess over celebs. Granted, I see this A LOT more from women who will have an entire web diagram of the kardashian and every single person they’re associated with and to what degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:37 PM
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