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Any piece of self doubt is viewed as a mental problem. We aren't supposed to feel confident in all situations or like every single thing about ourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:45 AM
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Women are being systematically disinformed too. They receive so much affirmation that they are shocked to hear anything else. Between four and six people will love each of us in our lifetime. The vast majority of attention she gets is just men looking for something casual. He may dress it up like a relationship, but it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:33 PM
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Essentially, people don't need to know your life story. People just want someone they can introduce as their partner without being embarrassed. A few secrets are OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:18 AM
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We have too many conversations about relationships and sex where there is only one gender present. We hear different messages and of course we develop different understandings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:05 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:09 AM
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It's also alot easier to divorce if you are confident you will keep the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:07 AM
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People who are used to sitting in judgement often struggle to accept being judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:25 AM
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Sex is one of the most talked about things in life. There is nothing wrong with questioning these messages, particularly when women get lied to all the time. Most women get swamped with attention. Very little attention is genuine, but they are never told that, which sets them up to fail. Men who sleep around set up fake relationships and then sink them. Even after he gets rid of her, the whole thing will be discussed as though it was a real relationship with real possibilities. If a woman has ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:05 AM
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There is no way for a man to sleep around without lying about being in love. I don't want to be someone I'm not proud of.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:35 AM
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I don't think there is enough consideration of the damage that endless affirmation does women. TRP is just the cold unvarnished facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:00 PM
8

They played nice to get what they wanted. Now that they have all they wanted, there is no nice way to get rid of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:29 AM
25

Women don't want to heal bad boys. They want to wield bad boys- encourage him to be violent on her behalf.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:58 AM
9

There is a collection of men who aren't having sex. However, I have never met anyone who actually calls themself an incel. It seems to be an urban myth.
/r/MensRights03/09/22 12:40 AM
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If you believe none of those women wanted a relationship from any of those men, then I'm a Nigerian prince. Grown ups admit it when they stuff up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:54 AM
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We do women a dis-service when we encourage this fantasy that anyone can go through life without being judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:43 AM
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TRP is cynical about women. That is only a problem for men who were too negative to begin with. Many people have an overly idealistic view of women and need to be coached out of benevolent sexism. Women need to warn other women about men and that's ok, to a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:23 PM
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As a young man, every time I went out, there were crying women. The official story varied, but most of them came down to "he set up a fake relationship to get sex and now he has got all he came for". I decided not to treat people like that. It's nice to put others first, but we need to set boundaries. If men can't sleep around neither can women. OP's girlfriend put pressure on at least some of the men who came before for relationships. She has no right to demand he settles down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:30 AM
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She couldn't keep the other guys before and won't now. No, she doesn't deserve better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:21 AM
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Men who sleep around set up fake relationships which they sabotage. Women put all sorts of pressure on these men to stay in relationships that he doesn't want. Men are under pressure not to sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:53 AM
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Men have every right to say she has slept around, he shouldn't feel obligated to give her a relationship just because she thinks she is ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:05 PM
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All women meet men who are serious about her. Whether they are sensible enough to value that is another matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:46 AM
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As we are often reminded, men who sleep around shouldn't pick on women who sleep around. By the same token, women who have slept around shouldn't complain about men who aren't ready to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:44 AM
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Some will ignore all sorts of faults to get sex. He will set up a fake relationship and sabotage it. He is unlikely to give an honest reason why the "relationship" ended and will latch onto anything plausible. Why are men surprised when people that we constantly lie to lack insight?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:54 AM
19

If men can't have an opinion on abortion, then post menopausal women can't have opinions either.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 04:09 AM
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Friendzoning is strategy used by women who have been talking to a man and worry that he might embarass both of them by making a move. They might say a variation of "you're a really great friend and I want your advice about problems with a different guy...". If the man takes her at face value there are two problems. He might think he has lots of female friends, so he is close to getting a girlfriend and doesn't need to change anything. If this happens consistently, he is nowhere near getting a gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:39 AM
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No tolerance of disrespect of women sounds like a good idea, until people stop and really think about it. Nothing screams DV perp more than "I don't tolerate being disrespected". No group are less happy than people who can't tolerate criticism. Boys need to know that it's sometimes OK to criticise women. If they always criticise women, they have a problem, but if they never criticise women, they also have a problem.
/r/MensRights03/08/22 11:22 AM
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Most men treat women we love better than women we don't. Many women struggle to accept options for relationships are different to options for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:18 AM
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Some women constantly discuss sex and relationships with each other. Choices are made in a context; endless affirmation dressed up as advice to live by.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:03 AM
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Megan Trainor released "All About That Bass" (don't judge me for being big), closely followed by "No" (celebrating judging men).
/r/MensRights27/07/22 09:55 PM
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I can't think of many things that get talked about more than sex. These conversations have a major impact on the way that women choose sex partners. At a minimum, the messages women hear should not be above criticism. I can't understand why more of us, both men and women, can't see a problem with the endless affirmation women hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:56 AM
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Expecting women to never experience self doubt is the cruellest thing society does to women and no one seems to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:54 PM
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Men's groups need to be really clear about stopping well short of violence or ostracising. I do think there needs to be more acknowledgement that sex is one of the most talked about things most people do, so women's current choices aren't really free or natural. That context is endless affirmation and there is not enough talk about the damage the self-esteem movement does to women in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:50 PM
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Most women are swamped with attention when they start having nights out. Their friends do them a huge disservice by pretending all of this is genuine. They all have to accept there is what they can get and what they can keep.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:43 AM
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I am pro-choice. I just get frustrated that most feminists are very angry about barriers to women having sex, yet are flippant about men who face problems.
/r/MensRights26/06/22 12:38 AM
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If sex isn't an entitlement, it shouldn't be a problem if women can't get an abortion.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 01:00 PM
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They get swamped with attention and their friends tell them they can have whoever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:47 AM
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It would be nice if people could respect honesty and cope maturely with a knockback.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:03 AM
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You are being about generous with use of the word "partners".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:01 AM
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I knew she has no shame, but still thought Clementine might read the room well enough to not comment on this case.
/r/MensRights07/06/22 11:31 AM
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Fashion magazines promoted the idea that no woman could possibly hope to feel okay about themself unless they were completely satisfied with how they look. By massive coincidence, these magazines happen to advertise clothing and cosmetics. Self doubt is the most natuaral feeling in the world. However, the feminism movement tell women that these natural feelings are actually a mental disorder. Jordan Peterson could have made a number of criticisms of the self esteem movement. Instead, he chose th…
/r/MensRights20/05/22 09:09 AM
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Confidence means he doesn't care about her. Men who approach lots of women are players, working the numbers. Men who don't approach many women are a better option for a LTR. How in god's name can anyone not figure that out?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:44 AM
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Cute guys get approached. Most women get approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:41 AM
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Imagine if I told a lesbian that she can't have an unplanned pregnancy, therefore she can't even express an opinion on abortion.
/r/MensRights14/05/22 09:31 AM
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This concern about slut shaming is a great example of people who are used to sitting in judgement are never good at being judged. We shouldn't use crude language but shouldn't be too worried about defending preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:37 AM
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If people who can't get pregnant can't have an opinion, why is a 55 year old woman talking about abortion?
/r/MensRights07/05/22 02:06 AM
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Gawd I hate Emma Watson. She launched a campaign called he for she, aimed at asking men to move away from traditional gender roles. At the same time, she was dating a dudebro from the Oxford University rugby team. Her feminism involved few personal sacrifices.
/r/MensRights06/05/22 10:11 AM
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The amount of affirmation that women receive is unhealthy for everyone. They get swamped with attention and her friends encourage her to believe most of it is genuine. Even after guys disguise brief periods of sexual use as relationships, her friends are talking about it as though it was a real relationship with real possibilities. They tell her she can do better. Everyone is too damn polite to tell her what she can get into bed is completely different to what she can keep. I know the red pill i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 10:29 PM
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Players are less fussy than men who want something serious. Players always dress up a short term fling as a real relationship. Too many people are too polite to tell her she got played. Therefore many women struggle to accept the difference between what they can get and what they can keep.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:17 AM
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You won't find that option on Reddit.
/r/MensRights29/04/22 10:05 AM
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Most conversations about relationships and sex are a combination of platitudes, flattery, jokes with a point, projection and affirmation dressed as advice. Many people are afraid of how people will react and play with their cards close to their chest. People cobble together an understanding of relationships and sex from these statements. There is a place for more in-depth conversations. Many of the concepts that shock people are only confronting because people are used to hearing what they want …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:35 AM
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I can't name my daughter's best friends. I took her to the park a hundred times for every time her mum took her. I cooked way more dinners and did the washing way more times. Mum took her to the doctor because in her family, someone needed to be sick before anyone would show them affection. Your tests o parenting might favor someone who talks a lot over someone who shows affection through actual effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:47 AM
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Lots of options for sex and not many options for relationships. Sex won't make him love her and a baby won't make him stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:05 AM
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No one should feel ashamed for wanting to have sex. It's the most normal thing in the world to want. No women, who is having a whinge about a rough patch in their love/sex life is given a lecture on entitlement or treated as though she is a danger to men.
/r/MensRights17/04/22 01:12 AM
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Several decades ago, the feminist movement came up with an idea that different men had different understandings of being a man and there was one understanding that made men dangerous to women, other men and themselves. Rough, tough, arrogant men were initially called hedgmonic masculinity. The problem was that these men are the top of society's pecking order and alot of women claim to hate those men but tend to date them, which led to a recurring sore point between many men and women. The incel …
/r/MensRights17/04/22 12:47 AM
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Most of the messages that both genders receive are self serving platitudes, impression management and motherhood statements. Think of all the little lies that women hear. Every guy who tells her what she wants to hear. Most of the few that succeed then start telling a different set of lies to get rid of her. Her friends then swamp her with affirmation. Many of these lies seem small, but lots of little lies cause cumulative hard. It's in everyone's interest if we are a bit careful. PPD can let us…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 01:22 AM
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Do women lose the right to express an opinion when they go through menopause?
/r/MensRights06/04/22 12:41 PM
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Think of all the behaviour that has made you uncomfortable. Never, ever, reward that behaviour. I don't care how charismatic and cute the new guy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:26 AM
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Is the way she acts around you different to the way she is around other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:14 AM
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Hypergamy and the huge gap between sexual and relationship market values are problems. They wouldn't be so serious if women got better advice. eg sex won't make him love you and a baby won't make him stay. Instead, they get swamped with affirmation. Her friends will all pretend it was a genuine relationship and tell her she can do even better. The one group who challenge this narrative are dismissed as angry losers. Society, outside PPD, needs to be more careful about how we talk about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:42 PM
2

Power does the same things to everyone who gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:00 AM
6

I could name a dozen women who married men they wouldn't of touched when they were 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:53 AM
3

Owning the club and being able to hurt people are both different, but they are both power.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:53 PM
5

Lying and immature behaviour in breakups are unfortunate parts of life. I would never call a victim of paternity fraud a snowflake.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:32 PM
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Lots of things are harmful but legal. Lying about being in love. Not accepting a relationship is over. Paternity fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:25 PM
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If i was a woman, i would absolutely despise men who sleep around. Most of men's bad behaviour in "relationships" can be explained as "he got all he came for".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:54 AM
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The debate isn't balanced because one side has a stronger argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:39 PM
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Just because they had a fling doesn't mean that marrying him was an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:29 AM
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My statement should be the most uncontroversial observation you will ever hear. There is no way that insight is an unusual belief, limited to one small group.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:45 AM
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Few women set out to have the body count they end up with. They take a long time to accept that options for relationships are far more limited than options for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:21 PM
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However else they dress it up, many women struggle to accept the options for relationships are more limited than options for sex. They hate players because he reminds them that she can only get that type of men for sex. They hate incels, because they feel entitled to sex without becoming the person that the women feel entitled to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:43 PM
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The rest of us are trying to modernise gender roles. Many people say they want men to be a bit more gentle, but still perpetuate the empathy gap. If a woman is having a bit of a struggle in her love life, no one tells her she is over-entitled to think someone would want her. No one asks her if she is planning to legalise rape, as though that is the only way she would ever have sex. No one tells women any of the things that people say to incels. In fact, she will get swamped with unhealthy levels…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:27 PM
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Traditional wives had kids at home until they were ready to go to school. They weren't closely supervised, by today's standards, but they were still hanging around. Traditional wives cooked everything from scratch and had impossible standards of cleaning. Women who want to be traditional only want the good bits.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:37 AM
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Many struggle to accept the difference between the number of men who want to have sex and the number of men who genuinely like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:04 AM
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Agent 99
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:59 AM
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PPD can play a productive vole in just explaining things. In summary, it's alot easier for women to get sex and most respond by having sex with men from the pecking order. No one can stop them from doing that. We can point out; - that they generally over estimate their chances of getting a relationship; - that being used damages their self worth; - that men who miss out feel resentful, which can eat away at relationships after these women settle (and they will settle); - men who feel guilty abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:55 AM
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Men who sleep around might occasionally get genuine casual sex, but generally set up fake relationships. When they have sabotaged this fake relationship enough to get rid of her, the woman is very critical of the man. She just doesn't see that criticism as equivalent to slut shaming, because her friends discuss it as though it was a real relationship with real possibilities. Women who don't believe they have criticised a man for sleeping around are having sex with themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:18 AM
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It's easier to divorce if you are confident you will keep the kids. If more men had majority custody the data might change.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:47 PM
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Nice try, but women who have slept around have no right to ask men to not sleep around and stay in a relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:55 PM
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Alot more than 20% of men think they are in the top 20%. Alot more than 20% or women think they are equal to the top 20% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:02 AM
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Players can wait as long as it takes. They just work on several options in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:47 AM
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Many women hit the club and party scene and are swamped with attention. Most of the men approaching them pretend to want relationships but don't. Many women struggle to accept that they just don't have the power to get what they really want- relationships. I suspect OP is one of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:41 AM
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Much of the feminist movement are fiercely protective of women's sex lives and flippantly dismissive of incels, who just want to have sex sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:56 AM
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Sex is one of the most talked about things that we do and the messages we receive are a mix of platitudes, impression management and affirmation dressed up as advice. We really should be more careful to think about the messages we give. Claiming that one set of behaviour is free choice should be the first lie we stop telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:16 AM
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Fashion magazines promoted the idea that no woman could possibly be happy unless they were completely satisfied with how they looked. I wonder what fashion magazines advertise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:07 PM
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I only feel sorry for those women who have literally never had sex with a guy who has cold approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:55 AM
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Essentially she believes that the average woman is more valuable than the average man. I wonder what we could name those sort of beliefs...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:01 AM
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Most people fall in love between four and six times. Most women have way more men than that trying to get them into bed on an average night out. Most people are offered love a similar number of times. We can be loved, but we need to take the opportunity when it is there and make an effort to figure out which people are genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:45 AM
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Why do all female characters need to be strong? Why did the writers of the Simpsons give us such a diverse group of male characters, but they were so careful to make Marge and Lisa strong people. This insistence that all female characters need to be strong is replacing one narrow gender role with another.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 02:20 AM
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Power is invisible to the people who have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:09 AM
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Power is the best test of character there is. Whether or not people know they will lose that power is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:05 AM
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I don't think anyone believes romcoms were ever made to suit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 08:49 PM
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Women who pretend to be "just looking for Mr Right Now" are using a bait and switch strategy, rather than genuinely disinterested in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 12:26 PM
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There is no way for a man to get a high N count without lying about wanting a relationship and pretending to be in love is a big thing to lie about. I don't respect people who hurt others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 11:53 AM
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The odds of approaching someone who might have sex might well be one in a hundred. However, for some men, having sex is a million times more important than having 99 women who are a bit pissed off. Cold approaching won't stop until it literally never works.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:11 AM
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If the pill for women was only just being invented, it would be harder to get approved too. This culture of suing pharmaceutic companies has made them very risk averse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:03 AM
1

I don't like entitled sexist players but I can easily spot them. Some women just aren't trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 01:56 PM
1

If more women knew the difference between real nice and fake nice we wouldn't be having this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:18 AM
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It's nice to be nice, but nice people get used. Badly behaved men are women's problem. Men who won't commit are women's problem. As a man, I am prepared to help, by not sleeping around. I am not prepared to be the only one making sacrifices. Avoiding players isn't the hardest thing in the world. Women who want a bad boy who is nice to them don't get to lecture the rest of us on entitlement. Nice people need to set boundaries about what we will do. We can be nice but still expect women to fix the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 03:50 AM
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The first group includes a lot of men who think confidence can overcome any barrier.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 08:06 AM
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Another free thinker, who lives by her own rules, but does everything that any publicist in the world would tell her to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 06:06 AM
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Most of the feminist movement are fiercely protective of their own sex lives and flippantly dismissive of men who miss out. Anyone would struggle with feeling completely unwanted. Society doesn't care when it affects men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:31 AM
2

While ER is interesting, please don't encourage anyone to read his manifesto.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 12:25 AM
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You can tell alot about people, by watching how they behave when they feel powerful. There are a series of moral failings that some powerful people fall for and some people avoid. When women enter the club scene and get swamped with attention, they often feel very powerful. The traps include; not understanding how others live our lives. It just isn't true to say "any man can have sex, anytime they want and they get called studs". ; mistaking privilege for merit. We all know a women who sleeps ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 10:20 AM
1

Does anyone believe that providing endless affirmation has no effect, whatsoever?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 10:12 PM
1

I don't buy into explanations based on evolutionary psychology, because they understate the importance of society. When girls start having crushes, they are taught a script, where they say most boys are gross and only a few are OK. Women repeatedly tell each other that having sex with men who aren't worthy cheapens them. Some women can be quite nasty towards women who have sex with men that their friends don't think are good enough. When men talk about sex, it becomes quite clear that many men h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 12:23 AM
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Most men and women seem to want to pick and choose being modern and being traditional, both for ourselves and for partners. I'm not saying no one can combine both; we are all modern or traditional some of the time. However, it only works to a point, people aren't a smorgasbord.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:33 AM
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I thought the common delusion was he will "stand up" for her but would never turn that violence on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 02:39 AM
1

He set up a fake relationship and after he got all he came for and latched onto the first excuse that she would believe. Well played.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 03:59 AM
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Women are constantly told that having sex with men who are beneath them, cheapens them. They project that assumption onto men. Women hear Chads say how much they like her, but there is just something stopping them from getting a relationship. Their friends then swamp her with affirmation, telling her they can do better. When there are no women around, the same Chads talk as though they would never consider her for a relationship. Any time different people hear vastly different explanations of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 10:16 AM
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The important thing is that they will have a clear picture of the difference between options for sex and options for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:48 PM
3

Given so many women are so resistant to change their expectations about men, you will never convince me that women are doing more than their fair share of the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 07:47 AM
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Sheryl Sandberg has a business, selling to female consumers. She didn't get that rich telling people things they don't want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 12:22 AM
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Privilege means that people are repeatedly treated that little bit better. That gives people confidence. It's easy for confident people to think they could overcome adversity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:44 AM
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Just don't pretend you are doing him a favour when you were never going to keep those other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:32 AM
2

We live in a world where virtually all pop culture, made for women, discusses sex, relationships and little else. Some groups of women seem to talk about nothing else. Everyone's decisions are influenced by others. People only complain about being told what to do when they don't like the message. However, it is bad for people to get told what they want to hear all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:21 AM
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You can put principles before personal benefit and criticise others that don't. When people ask me for help with their problem, I expect them to be prepared to make sacrifices themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 10:07 AM
1

She needs to accept that having sex with the other guy didn't make her equal to him. She isn't doing her partner a favour when she settles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:36 AM
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Half the partners are cheating too. She won't think "he is rich and powerful, I am lucky to have him". She will see herself as his equal and think "I can do anything he can".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:33 AM
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Fashion magazines tell women that any dissatisfaction with any aspect of their appearance is a major problem. Take a wild guess what fashion magazines advertise...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:15 AM
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Average and below average men have few options. While many make poor choices, lets acknowledge the smaller set of options. Most women appear to have many options. Many struggle to accept few of these options have a genuine interest in them. Alot of them get pregnant to trap a guy into a stable relationship. When that fails, they suddenly notice the stable guys who often miss out and still seem to think they are doing him a favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:26 AM
5

Just because he disguised a brief period of sexual use as a relationship that "just didn't work out", doesn't mean it wasn't effectively a hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:15 AM
1

Whatever faults he had, Brock Turner was not an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:01 AM
1

There is a common misconception that all men have high self esteem and women have low self esteem. Some people see a man who feels completely unwanted and still tell him he is over-entitled. Some people see a woman who only wants men she can't keep and still tell her she has low self esteem. Women have been the main victims of the self esteem movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 11:33 AM
1

By choosing players, she is saying it is OK for her to sleep around. By complaining he didn't give her relationship, she is saying it wasn't OK for him to sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 12:07 AM
1

When younger women complain about flings that end after a few months, they are effectively complaining about players. When she demands a relationship, she is effectively asking a man not to sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:33 AM
1

The "right guy" for a woman who wants a relationship is someone who doesn't sleep around. He won't accept she can sleep around but he can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 03:31 AM
4

Alot of younger women have sex they have no hope of a relationship with. She then complains that the relationship went no-where. Male friends get frustrated, telling her she shouldn't have gone near him. Many women will interpret this as men judge her for having had sex. In reality, the men are frustrated by what she prioritises in a sex partner, not the actual having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:57 AM
1

The dummies are the people who thought he intended to have a serious relationship with her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 09:39 AM
1

Hot guys who aren't abusive and only want a LTR tend to chase equivalent women. Hot guys who sleep around are less fussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 03:14 AM
1

Twenty years ago, average women were probably more down to earth. In 2021, all women believe they are beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 02:36 AM
1

Agent 99.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 09:42 AM
6

I don't believe that women's natural place is in the home. I believe going to work is far less fulfilling than many second wave feminists wanted women to believe and may women who have been in the workforce are very happy to drop out for a while. There is a glass ceiling, but there is also a glass escape hatch in the form of babies. Being a stay at home dad is the most worthwhile thing I have ever done.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 12:26 AM
3

Most women under 30 want relationships as well. They just chase men they have no hope with. Many men hear enough "woe is me he doesn't love me stories" and initially decide not to sleep around. However, most of those men eventually ask "why am I the only one missing out, when this is women's cause"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 01:04 PM
5

Different men use different strategies to bed many women, but the one thing all players have in common is playing a numbers game. If you want a man who will settle down, you need to design your taste in men to avoid players. Shy isn't the worst thing in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:54 AM
1

I don't think anyone owes anyone pity sex. However, there is a huge difference in what people can get away with saying to less attractive men, compared to less attractive women. When a less attractive woman complains about problems in her sex life, no one tells her that having sex with her would be an act of charity. Some people luck out in the great looks lotto. The difference in how we treat men and women tells us everything we need to know about how far we still need to go in modernising gend…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 03:34 AM
20

As long as you are still philosophical when someone you love views you as a bit of short term fun....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 07:07 AM
2

One middle ground is you own the choice, you own the consequences. If she chooses a bad boy, the rest of us won't threaten her with a gun and tell her who she can have sex with. All I say is don't come whinging to me when he treats you bad. If she wants someone who loves her, she needs to prioritise that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 05:14 AM
1

Make women's sexuality like mens's. If hot women used their beauty to rack up numbers like hot men do, things would even out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 12:39 PM
2

No sex worker in history has ever blackmailed a client by threatening to speak to his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 09:00 AM
2

Decent people understand that life isn't always fair. We can't fix every injustice in the world, but we can try to make the world a better place. Some people aren't as good looking as PPD users We can do everything for less attractive men that we do for less attractive women When they complain about problems in their sex life, no one tells them that they don't have a legitimate grievance. We can also acknowledge that it is easier for women can get sex easier than men. We can't change this but we…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:10 AM
1

Many of us are constantly hearing "he doesn't love me" sob stories. In theory, they are struggling after a breakup. In reality, he dressed up a brief period of sexual use like it was a real relationship. However, many women's wish list excludes everyone who is not a player.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 09:49 AM
1

Being a straight man, I don't offer to have sex with gay men who struggle with homophobia. However, I don't tell them they are over-entitled for wanting to have sex. I understand that many gay men struggle with poor mental health. I would like to think I could cope with homophobia, but I don't presume I could. I understand many incels are angry and bitter, but I don't know how I would cope in their place. I don't expect privileged people to give up our privilege. I expect us to acknowledge our p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 07:56 AM
1

A male pill will be just as revolutionary. Large numbers of women only settle down through baby trapping.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 02:59 AM
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No guy on tinder wants to be baby trapped.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/21 10:40 AM
1

It's always easier to fool someone than to convince them they were fooled.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 06:13 AM
0

Lets try and keep things positive. Many women make it a point of pride never to have sex with someone they think is beneath them. Many men are less fussy. We can acknowledge a difference without it reflecting badly on either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:12 AM
14

Women can get sex easier, which is a form of privilege. People often confuse privilege with merit. No one picks on incels quite as much as women who would have been incels if they were men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 11:34 AM
1

You own the choice, but you own the consequences. If you are happy marrying someone who initially wanted a brief period of sexual use, dressed up as a relationship, than no one can tell you to be unhappy. If you want someone who always genuinely liked you, you need to actively look for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 05:37 AM
3

Many men end up marrying women that they initially saw as good for a fling. Just because he married you, doesn't mean that he always planned that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 01:10 AM
1

"Empowering" is a buzzword that lost all real meaning years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 05:56 AM
1

Beautiful women can struggle with rejection just as much as men. A bit of adversity is good for people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 11:14 AM
1

Her level is her relationship market value. If she can't keep other men, she is being over-ambitious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 10:59 AM
7

Women who sleep around shouldn't complain about men who don't want to settle down with her. It uses the same logic as saying that men who sleep around can't pick on women who sleep around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/20 07:58 AM
1

She hopes she won't be a granny until she is at least thirty.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/20 12:23 AM
8

At the time she started advocating for HeForShe, she was dating Matthew Janney, who was in the first XV for Oxford University. She asked men to re-consider adopting a traditional gender role, for the greater good. At the same time, in her personal life, she chose a man who epitomised the privilege that flows from adopting a traditional gender role. Like many people, her is a feminism of few personal sacrifices. Choice feminism is easy for big companies to sell to female consumers, but it does no…
/r/MensRights12/09/20 08:23 AM
1

Record the sound on your phone and use it as a personalised ringtone for both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 10:59 AM
2

As a man, I haven't been stopped on the streets and asked for directions in years. I can see why these women are cynical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 12:14 PM
1

It must be an incredible feeling to be the hottest woman in the club. I can see why other women envy them. I don't think any man experiences anything similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 11:42 AM
1

I thought red pill men often complain about women who hook up with guys who slept around and then she complains when he won't commit to a relationship with her either. Relevant past behaviour....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 12:04 PM
17

While it comes with some massive drawbacks, it is far easier for a woman to get sex than it is for a (straight) man. This is a type of privilege. Power holds the same temptations for everyone who gets it. A partial list; people with power never fully understand what it is like to live without power. It just isn't true to say that any man can have sex, any time he wants, so slut shaming is unfair; people often confuse privilege for merit. Many of the women who pick on incels, would be incels them…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 11:19 AM
1

Some men will put up with all sorts of crap behaviour to have a hot girlfriend. Some women will put with all sorts of crap behaviour to have a hot boyfriend. Those of us who aren't hot need to follow the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 10:25 AM
22

She wasn't seeing anyone, or so she told you...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/20 10:35 AM
3

Alot of sex occurs in little flings that only last a few weeks, possibly a few months. Most of the our conversations around these flings only involve one gender. Men and women discuss these flings in completely different ways and them complain that the other gender doesn't see them as we do. Women describe short flings as relationships and shut down any suggestion that he was a player, to protect the woman's self esteem. Men, particularly Chads, discuss which tactics to use to trick women. When …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 08:28 AM
2

He played that well. He had already got all he wanted and he knew you would get sick of paying all that money, so you wouldn't stick around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/19 12:30 AM
1

He stole the phone so you couldn't contact him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 07:20 AM
3

It means one every two and a bit months, depending on how long it has been since her birthday.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/19 11:11 AM
2

Men who sleep around shouldn't pick on women who sleep around. By the same logic, women who have slept around have no right to complain about men who don't want to commit to a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 07:14 AM
1

I can't imagine a world where women post manifestos about how men owe them relationships. No woman has ever complained about difficulty forming a long term relationship- certainly not online.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 10:31 AM
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This is the total user who launched a campaign called "he for she", aimed at asking men to reject traditional ideas of being a man. At the time, she was dating Matthew Janney, who played rugby union for Oxford University and was a total Chad. Her version of feminism involves very few personal sacrifices.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/19 12:56 PM
1

Maybe she wants him back and thinks she can impress him, by showing him that other men want her. It won't work, but it does happen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/19 03:46 AM
2

Every choice has a context. Women are not conducting their sex lives in some sort of vacuum. Instead, the choices they make are influenced by the messages they receive. Alot of sex occurs in these little flings that don't turn into serious relationships. When it is all over, her friends will swamp her with affirmation. They will tell her she can do better. They will avoid telling her she was played by a player and she needs to re-think her expectations, because the friends think they need to pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 06:18 AM
1

Rape kits are good evidence when one person says they were raped and the other person says that no sex occurred. They aren't very useful when two people agree that sex occurred, but there is dispute over whether it was consentual. In the second set of cases, police don't usually process the rape kits.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 04:54 AM
1

When it finally gets here, a male pill will also make a huge difference. Large numbers of women have "accidental" pregnancies to trap men who have no interest in a serious relationship with her. When this strategy gets taken away, these women will have to face facts a lot faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 12:07 PM
1

Nothing is sexier than a woman who shoots down a guy who cold approaches her and tries to chat her up. Bonus points if the guy is a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 11:36 AM
1

I read a story in Howard Stern's book about a woman who went on Oprah. She was divorcing her husband, who was a surgeon. At the same time, she had an operation at the hospital he worked at. While she was unconscious, he sewed up her vagina. Howard handled the whole story with his usual lack of tact, but he picked on Oprah's reaction more than anything.
/r/MensRights17/02/19 07:32 AM
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