evidentlynaught Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Imminent Divorce Largely depends on what state you live in.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/07/26 05:31 AM
1	I never been traumatized until I got married. I was in a similar marriage for 14 years and it did not get better. The same stuff, name calling, accusations of being a liar, suspicion, criticism. I changed everything that she complained about and she just added more on. Finally realized, after people at work, my boss, old friends, new friends, all telling me what a good guy I was- the one person in my life who had a negative opinion of me was the very person who was supposed to love me the most. You are a good man. You are not being good to …	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/26 04:04 AM
2	Anyone else having nightmares about having sex with her? Two nights ago. Woke up sad because i felt like i had started the clock over. Then relieved it was just a dream.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/05/26 03:29 AM
9	Karma Not the same thing, at all.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/05/26 01:41 PM
6	Need advice . Wife agrees to go our separate ways and live apart for good , but still wants to fuck exclusively . This will only tie your hands and prolong the inevitable.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/05/26 02:48 PM
3	Who here was in "Avoidant" relationship? She diagnosed me as avoidant using Tik Tok psychology. She was anxious attachment and I’m just chill. She let her anxiety ruin my peace of mind too.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/03/26 04:56 AM
8	This Is how I deal with my EX calls and texts Goddamn. That hurts.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/26 02:54 AM
5	Struggling with divorce, I want to kill myself If in the states, text 988. You can just get a conversation going if you feel like talking you can call them, but you need to talk to somebody. There is life after this. It’s hard to see it now, but there’s a lot of living to do and whether you realize it or not you have people that depend on you, and people that want you to be around for the long haul.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/25 11:05 PM
4	Just looking for support for anyone that may have been married to a narcissist. I’m down and struggling here. I have no privacy or peace and trying to decide what to do next and build the courage to actually file. I used to leave the house and everything was fine, then she would get triggered by something while I was at work, and I would come home to a fight. It was walking on eggshells, and nerve wracking. I never knew if I was going to have a peaceful evening after work or spend all of my off hours trying to calm things. It robbed me of any peace of mind that home should have been for me. Probably affected me at work too.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/25 07:55 AM
3	Just looking for support for anyone that may have been married to a narcissist. I’m down and struggling here. I have no privacy or peace and trying to decide what to do next and build the courage to actually file. Parts of your story literally could have been me. We were gonna continue to live together through our separation, but she came in the spare bedroom one night when she was angry and pulled the covers off of me and refused to leave and tried to force me to have a fight. The next day I got up early and packed a bag and checked into a hotel. I can’t describe the immediate sense of relief I had just knowing that I wasn’t going to go back. My divorce is not yet final. Probably because she is such a na…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/25 07:42 AM
12	Mixed signals Keep moving forward, never backtrack.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/12/25 02:56 AM