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| 62 | Anxiety lowers your social status. | evilquesadilla | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 11:06 PM | |
| 1 | What would be your witty follow up? | evilquesadilla | /r/askTRP | 05/08/15 06:56 PM |
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| 2 | TRP taught me to understand and love women.I thought your post was fine. What you are trying to tell men with this post, and how you are improving their sexual strategy, is that you are talking about the right mindset. The angry I hate women mindset has a temporary positive side because it forces you to re-examine your beliefs; it's a powerful fuel for change. But hanging on to it past its usefulness and it will become toxic and counter productive. I'm personally struggling to get away from this as well. I don't think I'm angry at women,… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/16 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Plate withholds sex, I soft-next her. Now she asks me why did I go radio silence out of sudden. Should I explain it to her?Agree. I've had some pretty good platonic female friends. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/16 12:59 AM |
| 1 | 19 and have nothing going on with my life. Turning into a bum.You're fine. Go to a community college for a couple of years, then you can go to a 4-year college and get your engineering degree. In the old days, school is never the wrong path. But today, you have to think about money. Schools are so ridiculously expensive these days that sometimes it's not worth it. Run some calculations, if you have to take out a student loan, how much will you be in debt after you graduate. Then look at entry positions for engineering jobs, to see how much you'll get paid.… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/16 07:39 PM |
| 4 | Breaking up with LTR in a good fashion?All is fair in love and war. It's up to the individual, and how much you can work with your own conscience. It seems you probably have a fairly strong conscience. That's arguably bad for you, but good for others around you. So you should, and probably do, rise above and put in the extra effort into doing things right. Because you believe in it, plus you never want to cross your own conscience. For those that do not have a strong conscience, they are free to do X, because other women do X as well… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/16 09:10 PM |
| 2 | The newest amazing discovery about the wage gap: maybe men and women have different attitudes toward work!According to online dating sites, most women's passion are Netflix and laughing. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/16 07:22 PM |
| 2 | What is the proper way to reject strong advances from aggressive (often ugly) African American women?Just roll with it. If you're not interested, you're not interested. Be polite and civil. With that said, some will react poorly anyway. This is the same thing that attractive women have to deal with. A lot of guys that they are not interested in hitting up on them. Some of these men will turn nasty when they are turned down, no matter how civilized the woman was behaving. If these women can deal with it, I would assume you should be able to as well. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/16 06:30 PM |
| 1 | To "older" guys who are 30+ years old - How do you own/handle lots of grey hair?Had gray hair since my teens. Every year I get more. Just my genetics. I dyed it for a bit, but it was too much work, so I stopped. If it bothers you, there are plenty of products to cover it. If it doesn't, don't worry about it. Chicks don't care. It a question of do you care. I usually just crack jokes about it like it gives me an air of authority, or that's how I get chicks with daddy issues or whatever. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/16 07:12 PM |
| 11 | Strong independent woman Elizabeth Holmes blows away 9 Billion dollars Silicone Valley company in just six monthsYeah, during that six months where 9 billion dollars were pissed away, I'm sure she made more money than I could in my entire life time. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 21/04/16 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Ignorant woman gets car window smashed and detainedWell the video talks about Virginia law. Assuming it's the same everywhere, it will go down like this: Cop: Roll down your window Dude: No I won't, and it's within my rights not to. (this is true) Cop: Get out of the car. Ok... now you have no choice. According to the video, supreme court ruled that cops can ask you to exit your vehicle... for ANY reason... including that you didn't feel like rolling down your window. So you are basically taunting the cop to escalate to the next level, where the… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 21/04/16 01:59 AM |
| 1 | I notice that I enjoy sex a lot more with girls that are attractive but more "trashy" and "lower class" as opposed to girls that have that clean classy vibe, any reasons for this?Me too. Except I prefer Latinas. Just personal preference. But if you want LTR, you'll need to step outside of your type. And it's not issue of trashy vs classy. If trashy can be ghetto and drama, classy can be manipulative and high maintenance. If you want LTR, your requirements should be different. You should look for other qualities as opposed to "type". Because once you are knee deep in a relationship, "type" becomes less important. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/16 06:57 PM |
| 6 | She rewrites history in her head without even realizing it.In a woman's world it's called Tuesday. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/16 01:19 AM |
| 2 | How does the social life thing generally work after college and in the adult world if you're a single bachelor that doesn't get married?Fucking awesome. But you have to put in the work to socialize; it's not handed to you like at a school. For the longest time I never turned down any social invitation. Sometimes I'd party hop 2-3 parties on a Saturday. So I started from sports teams. I played adult recreational leagues, and from there I made friends, started going to their parties/BBQs, started meeting their friends who weren't necessarily playing sports, and most importantly, their female friends, and the friends of their femal… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/16 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Don't Do These 9 Things In Your Next InterviewYeah, that's what I meant. Certain questions require thinking, like for example, a programming exercise. Then take your time and think instead of blurting out an answer. But sometimes I'll be asked a question that I know the answer to, but I would stumble a bit because I don't know how to start giving the answer. Having practice will resolve that situation. Either way, interviewing is just another skill. The more you do it, the better you get at it. Interview for jobs that you don't even want. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/16 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Don't Do These 9 Things In Your Next InterviewMaybe because I'm in a different industry, but this wouldn't work at all. Briefcase method won't wow anyone unless what came out of the briefcase is actually revolutionary. Typically you show confidence by: Not being nervous Having a proper answer for every question without having to pause/think about it/... etc, exception for questions that do require thinking, like for example, a programming exercise You get both of these by interviewing a lot. Interviewers typically ask the same questions. If… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/16 06:14 PM |
| 2 | What is the point of a wife?If you want a family, a wife is the mother of your children. Having a positive relationship with your wife is great for your kids. That's not the only way nor the only qualification to have a family with well-adjusted kids, but it's certainly one possible option. Also, our society doesn't like single men. If you are in the public eye, and you want to look positive, you should make sure it looks like you have a happy family, pretty wife, cute kids, and a dog, and oh, you go to church regularly...… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/16 12:02 AM |
| 1 | I hurt a girl for the first time and it sucksIt's okay. We are all born with different amount of conscience. You are unlucky to have a strong one, and there's nothing you can do about it, so you just have to manage it. It's good for society to have people with strong conscience, but individually, that's not a good thing, because having a conscience is like having a limitation. The most important thing is to know yourself. Congratulations, now you've just gained a bit more knowledge about yourself, this is very valuable experience. Just don… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/16 07:26 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up.. My friends confronted me and told me they think I'm a misogynist and think I should see a therapist. They're threatening to tell my parents and family. What should I do?They're not your friends. Drop them. Find new ones. First, do not associate with tumblr feminists. There are "real" feminists out there, you can tell because they want equality, even for men. It's up to you if you want to be friends with real feminists. It's great that they're willing to fight for equality for men too, but they also have to be friend material to become your friend. Second, I hold the view that the world needs betas. It makes the rest of us stand out. Imagine every man is a TRP e… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/16 06:19 PM |
| 12 | Male porn stars should be paid the same as female porn starsDuring off season, women's Olympic hockey team practice against boys high school teams. Because that's the level they play at. Don't get me wrong, I play adult recreational beer leagues, so these boys and the ladies of the Olympic team would destroy my team. So they are skilled. They are just not nearly as good as men's Olympic teams. Also, Fallon Fox, a post-op male-to-female transgender MMA fighter, was cleared by the athletic commission to fight in the women's division, because she does not h… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/16 11:42 PM |
| 2 | List of skills worth learning such as musical instruments or hobbies?Dancing. Not for everyone, but if you actually have fun doing it, you'll meet a lot of chicks. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/16 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Have you cheated on your LTRs?Thanks for the support, I feel the same way. I don't want to be high and mighty anyway. I'm not a great enough man to walk the high road. I'm just the average dude. So yep, not my relationship, not my problem. Not going to cheat on my girl, but that's about as far as I'm willing to go. I just recognize and own my non-greatness, that's all. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/16 03:32 AM |
| 6 | Have you cheated on your LTRs?Not my thing. If I'm going to cheat on a chick, I'd break up with her first. Then I can sleep with anyone I want. With that said, I have been "the other guy" before. So I can't be all high and mighty. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/16 11:11 PM |
| 3 | Social HobbiesNot into the ground stuff (tried it, not my thing), but I used to box and kickbox. I'd like to get back to it one day, but I'm getting old. Recently I got back into hockey. I played from late 90's to mid 2000's, then I stopped for a long time. If I ever break up with my GF I'll have time to get back into boxing/kickboxing. For now, just hockey. I made a lot of friends doing these, but most the people I met were unsurprisingly dudes. Nevertheless I enjoyed it very much. But the most "socially rew… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/16 10:54 PM |
| 2 | My whole issue with TRP philosophy and marriageThe problem isn't with the concept of marriage, it's the legalities that comes with marriage. 10,000 years ago there were no divorce lawyers to advise your soon-to-be-ex-wife to file fake domestic violence reports against you. The current cultural climate also makes it difficult for men. Men are looked as sexual predators. Guilty sometimes even after proven innocent. A divorce where both sides are pulling out the biggest weapons they can afford, this is readily used by women, and will sometimes … | /r/askTRP | 23/02/16 10:40 PM |
| 1 | While drunk, my old oneitis basically admitted she misses when I was her little beta bitch.Maybe a tad bit more verbally tactful. So, what do you plan on doing to get me back? And saying it jokingly, exactly like the game she was playing by also "joking". | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/16 10:50 PM |
| 28 | Has anyone here ever climbed out of the friend zone? What would you say is most effective?Friendzone her back, change directions, start hitting up on other women (as in plural). Then after it's all said and done, you'll realize that while kicking into social high gear, moving on, and hitting on other women is the right thing to do, if you look at it from the perspective of doing all this just to try to get with with the original girl, whether it succeeded or not, is totally not worth it. Because after all, no woman is worth that much effort. And that original girl, now that you've be… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 11:06 PM |
| 14 | The Golden Rule: How To Not Get Fucked In BusinessAgreed. A vendetta based society is even worse. Because then what it means is whoever has the biggest gun wins. I'm a big company, I don't need to pay you because I can hire Blackwater to kill you and everyone you know. Right now big companies win because they have more resources to throw at lawyers and the government. But at least murder isn't one of their tools (at least in developed countries). If murder becomes accessible to the small guys, it would have been available to the big companies w… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 12:44 AM |
| 3 | How TRP helped change my divorceIt's sad that I called it. But this is standard practice as the follow up after domestic violence/restraining order. Good for you for staying vigilant. Always leave a paper trail, always be accountable somehow in a form that will be acceptable in court. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/16 06:27 PM |
| 19 | How TRP helped change my divorceActually he didn't get divorce raped because he did his homework. He managed to get two violation and used them to his advantage.. the ex is in danger of contempt of court. Otherwise this would have been a lot worse. When dealing with these cases, it's important you follow the laws exactly. The name of the game is to trick the other person into doing something that will violate the law/court order in some way. This is why women will use something minor, such as a momentary outburst, as domestic … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/16 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Innocent men now can be ordered to inform police of sex they have 24 hours before it happens or face 5 years in jail (UK)I'd call up the cops every day and tell them I'm gonna have sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 02:16 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond to the: "I am embarressed of my behavior" text?Well, I wouldn't bite the bait. I would choose one of these options. Okay sure, let's hang out as friends, escalate anyway. Or Okay sure, let's hang out as friends, don't. Shrug her off, too much trouble, not worth it. Hook up with the two other women that you are seeing. If you're not seeing two other women, why not? | /r/askTRP | 23/01/16 03:28 AM |
| 2 | Identifying as Redpill Sympathizer on 4chan /b/ Will Get you PermabannedUnfortunately that doesn't help them. People not ready for TRP will reject it. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink it. I was in a band with a couple of kids (early 20's). One was the typical dorky beta nerd. Skinny, smelled bad, no social skills, girls don't like him. The other one was wise beyond his age that when we talk about women, we are pretty much on the same page as TRP (this was before TRP was around). We sat down the nerdy smelly one, and downloaded all of our … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/16 03:24 AM |
| 6 | What is fueling my (Beta) friend's recent hot streak?Every dog has its day. When I was beta as fuck and playing online games all day, somehow I managed to hook up with someone else's girlfriend. RP is for the 99% of your life when luck isn't handing you freebies. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/16 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Buckets StoryNice. What you did for Buckets was more than you think. You gave him support, and without knocking him off course by filling his head with beta white knight feel good bullshit. I didn't have anyone like you, so it took me a lot longer to learn all this. After all is said and done, I was still second guessing myself, even in my late 30's, because I had no one like you as a sounding board. So I would do things right, waver, fall back to beta, kick myself, dig myself out, and repeat. Then I found T… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/16 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Ive brought up books to read, now lets talk movies to watch.Sorry for the spoiler. The science factor is definitely there, as in what do we consider AI? What do we consider consciousness? It plays in an area where science intersects with human nature. In fact the science-ness of it is mostly presented to the viewer via dialogs, so you probably need to have an affinity to science to appreciate it. The conversation captivated me, but I could see some tinder girl getting bored out of her mind during that time, and be completely confused at the end of the mo… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Ive brought up books to read, now lets talk movies to watch.I like Ex Machina. SPOILER SPOILER SPOILER!!! The only way to prove that the AI is advanced enough to be indistinguishable from a human is to emotionally manipulate a beta. Then the beta gets what was coming to him. I believe I even read an interpretation that this is some sort of feminist girl power movie. It symbolizes the woman breaking out of the bonds that her captor, the evil male patriarchy, had put around her. But really it's about a woman using her sexuality to manipulate a weak man the… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 12:08 AM |
| 3 | "My GF got off the pill without telling me and now she's pregnant" [X-post from sweden-subreddit]Got it in my early 30's. I had good insurance through my work at the time and surprisingly it was covered and all it took was a $30 co-pay. Best $30 I've ever spent. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 10:48 PM |
| 1 | What is that one incident that turned you red pill?Many incidents that lead up to it, I didn't have just one... But there's one incident that stood out to me where I was glad I've learned the game. So I hit up on this chick at a club. Cold approach, she shuts me down. Whatever. I keep running into her, apparently she's a regular, so I approached again, this time I managed to get her to agree to "meet some place", not even a date, just going to another club together. She said yes, then flaked, (anyone surprised?) I didn't care, I had a good time … | /r/askTRP | 22/12/15 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Lifting vs. BJJIt's all personal preference. Do both if you like both. Important thing is to keep improving yourself. They both contribute to SMV, just that the mechanism of how they improve SMV may be different. One can argue, ditch both, play guitar and get in a band. Being a musician interestingly also raises your SMV. So it's really your personal choice, as long as you choose something and get off the couch. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 11:59 PM |
| 28 | Why hasn't "The Red Pill" started a full migration to their own platform instead of using the Cuckosphere known as Reddit?That's how I found this place. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 11:52 PM |
| 9 | Male student expelled for rape after a girl "withdrew consent" for a blowjob she was giving him while he was passed out. His rapist "withdrew her consent" while he continued to be unconscious and he was expelled for rape. Let that sink in.It's not a hoax, this happened awhile back, and there have been many similar stories from various colleges/universities. The mattress chick is another similar story, she even made a "re-enactment", i.e. porn, recreating that night. This is not rape. The legal system will not prosecute, because there is no case here. She gave a blow job then later regretted it, that's it. However, the school system does not operate on the same level as the legal system. They do not care about evidence or doing th… | /r/PussyPass | 18/12/15 11:33 PM |
| 16 | "I know I was wrong, but you don't have to be a dick about it."So your wife is being immature and starts arguments. You are afraid it will get worse. So you back off and let her be, essentially enabling this sort of behavior? This will only get worse. Sorry man, best of luck to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 11:20 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling bad about seeing multiple girls at the same time?I'm in the LA area too. People here multi-date by default. I've been on the receiving end of this plenty of times, i.e. I was only one of several that the woman was seeing. Dating culture is different by location, but in LA, this is pretty common. Doesn't mean some chicks won't balk at this... remember regardless of culture, it is to their advantage if there are no competitions. But once you pass the shit test a lot of them will stick around anyway. Just remember, a gentleman does not kiss and t… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 11:48 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Beta white knight set on fireI don't like that analogy, because then that also means white knights are delicious. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 10:59 PM |
| 1 | How do I get over the shame of sleeping with a girl who thinks sleeping with me will lead to a relationship?Did you lie to them? It it was unsaid, it's up to them to figure out what you're about before doing anything of importance with you, i.e. sex or any other activities they deem important. This is called personal responsibility. You are responsible for you, not getting dragged into something you don't want, they are responsible for them, not getting dragged into something they don't want. It's not your responsibility to babysit them. If the question ever comes up, be honest. If they bail then they… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 10:44 PM |
| 4 | Fuckbuddy retentionIMHO, the best way for fuck buddy retention is to only fuck. Once feelings are involved, it's over. So your best bet is to stay away from activities that could develop feelings, i.e. anything outside of just sex for the sake of sex. With that said, with so little connection, fuck buddies could disappear easily as well, no matter how you slice and dice it, fuck buddies relationships are unstable. But you have a cut off date of two months anyway, just enjoy. IMHO. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 08:34 PM |
| 1 | I only want to have sex in LTR or marriage, is there something wrong with that? Is that against RP values?The most important thing is to know yourself, know what you want, know how to get it, and know the pros and cons of your choice. I personally don't buy into this N-count stuff, unless it's excessive. By excessive I mean excessively high or excessively low. Since I'm in my mid 40's, and I would date women up into the 40's as well (if I were single), if I meet a 32 year old woman that's a virgin, that would be more of an indicator that something weird is going on than a 32 year old woman that has … | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 07:11 PM |
| 1 | What's TRP opinion of open relationship with a "main squeeze"?Not TRP opinion, just mine. Whatever floats your boat. The most important thing is you need to know what you want. But I believe these types of relationships are hard to find and maintain because it's difficult to create stability. Insecurity and jealousy are giant pitfalls, kind of like what you've just posted.. what if Chad... The woman also feels the same, I'm sure you'll end up sometimes sleeping with women that are younger and more attractive. How do you, and her, feel secure about each oth… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to escape the 'orbiter zone' and be more than friends with a girl?Yes, but it there isn't a "sure-fire" way to do it. There are things you can try, which may or may not work. But at the end of the day, no woman is worth this much effort. I do recommend trying it, if you are a newbie, because succeed or fail, it would be a valuable social experimentation experience, i.e. do it once, understand the mechanics and your limits, and then never bother with it again. There are some good tips here already. My addition, which I hope is not a repeat, is this: Decrease an… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 02:27 AM |
| 1 | What makes a woman do things that a man wouldn't consider doing even to his enemies?IMHO only: I think it has to do with honor. Not saying women are not honorable and men are, because there are plenty of women with honor and men without. But I feel that honor is a virtue more closely related with men and love/nurturing with women. Maybe because that's what we are bred for. We are supposed to pass on our genes, then go out and die in defense of our home/family/clan/society. The offspring of men with honor tend to survive, repeatedly selected generation after generation. This is … | /r/askTRP | 09/12/15 09:40 PM |
| 6 | 10 Differences Between Dating A Boy Vs Dating A Man - According to a BP White KnightTIL, women are boys. I have a lot more in common with Catholic priests than I realize. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/15 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone actually achieved multiple orgasm?I've never tried to do this intentionally. This happened one time only. I was getting close to cumming and I stopped myself from it (nothing special, just self awareness, you can stop as long as it's before you hit the point of no return). Then when the feeling was subsiding I was like, nevermind, I do want to cum right now and went for it. I ended up kind of cumming, but nothing was ejaculated. It wasn't anything great, I would describe it as a confused orgasm. Haven't happened since then, but … | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Entered Nursing School before TRP and now I see the disrespectYou're supposed to grow your social circle anyway. Stop worrying about the old circle. Once you've moved on to new circle and you are successful, just keep in touch a bit, they'll come back. The ones that will refuse to come back and acknowledge the new you are users.... they can't use you anymore. They are not worth keeping around. I've done this. I was a former ex-nice guy. One of the social circles I used to run in, included a not attractive chick, kind of attractive chick, fake boobs chicks,… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 10:11 PM |
| 1 | What would you do if you were 18 again?Lift, sports (including combat sports), musical instruments, social dance, socialize, vasectomy. Basically these are things that now at 40+, I can say were the highlights or led to the highlights of my life, and happened mostly during my 30's. I wish I had started these things when I was younger, so I could have enjoyed these highlights longer. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Anxiety lowers your social status.Thank you. Yes. Everyone is different, have different causes, and require different solutions. All these suggestions are food for thought, and NOT a step-by-step instructional guide, because no such thing exists. But no matter what it is, it'll take work and effort, to discover what works for you, and to follow through with it. Because nothing worth doing, is free. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Anxiety lowers your social status.Did you even read the article? The scientists gave rats drugs to increase their anxiety, then their social pecking order dropped. this place really became low IQ Yeah, no kidding. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Anxiety lowers your social status.Honestly I don't have any good input, as my anxiety is not clinical. I have personality quirks, but I don't have any mental illness (as far as I know). | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Anxiety lowers your social status.Well, I'm not an expert in this. I just saw a scientific paper that was interesting and I thought relevant. This has to do with your social pecking order based on your behavior. I'm not sure if it says anything about your plate's behavior, or even the calmest guy wins. I think it's more of a threshold. If you are past the threshold, the calmer you are, the less "bang for the buck" return you'll get. A lot of things are like this when it comes to attracting women. You don't need to be the most aw… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Anxiety lowers your social status.Or me telling you to learn reading comprehension. I said I have personality driven low level anxiety, so I could adjust it by mental reminders, practice, setting expectation, and other mental tricks. I never sit around and just panic for no reason. Your anxiety and my anxiety have different causes. Yes, stay chill won't work for you, that's why I said other people have to use other methods that I know nothing about. But stop anxiety at least during social interactions is a worthy goal, however y… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 06:21 PM |
| 5 | Anxiety lowers your social status.Did you read the part where I said this works for me because my anxiety is low level and not clinical? Different people will have different levels and causes, and will need different methods to control it. Instead of saying it's worthless (to you), offer an alternative that works for you or someone you know. Don't worry, I won't say it's worthless just because it doesn't apply to every single person. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/15 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Girl smacks on a guy at sporting event. Beer tossed as a warning shot - ignored. Then girl gets kicked down the chairsThat was mean. But funny. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/12/15 02:05 AM |
| 3 | Anxiety lowers your social status.I think I only have low level anxiety. I was able to keep it under control by playing mind games with myself. One is setting expectations. If I mentally blow off any rewards I can get from a social outing, then it makes me less anxious because now the activity is not outcome driven. Another thing is practice. I put myself in social situations all the time, sometimes I'd go to a party where I only know a few people, and I'd be left to my own devices to socialize. After you've done an anxiety-caus… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/15 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Anxiety lowers your social status.No, you don't need money, height, social standing, good looks to get women, but damn, they certainly help. I personally feel like if anxiety is something you can tackle and control, do it. It will only help you. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/15 01:56 AM |
| 61 | Girl smacks on a guy at sporting event. Beer tossed as a warning shot - ignored. Then girl gets kicked down the chairsThat "kick" wasn't even a kick, the guy just put his foot out to prevent her from rushing in to throw another punch. It took her forever to "topple" over, she's obviously drunk. But she did hit the back of her head on the railing, that could have ended very badly. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/12/15 11:16 PM |
| 6 | Learn west coast swing and game easily followsI did salsa and various Latin social dancing. West Coast Swing has more couples than salsa and bachata, to my understanding. The salsa/bachata scene has a lot of perpetually single people because the dance is a lot more sexy, and couples normally can't survive in this type of environment, meaning once you get into an LTR, chances are, you'll have to give it up. But this is great news for single people. You meet a lot of people of the opposite sex, the ice breaker is virtually built in, if you ar… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Is Southern California just an awful place for guys that are Asian or Brown regardless of what their SMV might be?Look, I said they are the go to for white chicks that want to go interracial, but also Hispanic guys too. "Too" means both black guys and Hispanic guys, in case you are wondering... but not so much Asian guys. In South Orange county (where I do not live) you don't see a lot of black people, as an example of how this is location based. In Long Beach and Los Angeles, it's not uncommon to see white chicks + black guys. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Best course of action for my hair?Great! Thanks for the info. I was concerned about the side effect, which is why I chose not to use Propecia. I'll have to look into this. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Best course of action for my hair?Supposedly the shampoo + conditioner cleans out toxins (DHT), strengths hair (biotin), and I think it also darkens your hair a bit, since gray hair also makes your hair look kind of thin. Not very expensive, you can get both shampoo + condition on ebay for around $40, big bottles. But I don't think it's anything special, there are a lot of other alternative shampoo + conditioner that claims the same. Bosley is just what I went with because one of my friends is a hair dresser, and he recommended … | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Best course of action for my hair?I have to agree with /u/HellhoundsOnMyTrail, bald look isn't bad. This is why I would recommend trying the easy path, as in use various topical treatments like minoxodil. They are no big deal, especially if you buy the generic brand. Taking pills and surgery I feel are not worth it. If it gets to the point where the topical methods don't work, last resort is to shave it off, and really, it's not that bad. Work out and get a muscular body, and that's the Vin Diesel look. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/15 10:40 PM |
| 4 | Found a quick way to shut down a shit-testerI think it's about the mystery. If you are just all out one way or another, you're not interesting. So you play a "maybe", throw in positive and negative signs, keep it confusing, but that translates to "mysterious" in women terms. Women love that shit (some women at least). Yes no, hot cold, on off. They live for this kind of drama. Doesn't always work, but I suppose it's an useful tool in your toolbox. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/15 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Is Southern California just an awful place for guys that are Asian or Brown regardless of what their SMV might be?No, I see white girls with Hispanic guys too, I see white girls with Asian guys less. It's also area specific. In south Orange County for example, there are very few black people, so you're not going to see white girl + black guy very often. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/15 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Is Southern California just an awful place for guys that are Asian or Brown regardless of what their SMV might be?Probably black guys. I've also seen Hispanic guys with white chicks. Occasionally Asian guys. But then again, when have you seen Asian guys with Latinas or black girls? I've dated both, I like Latinas the best, and black girls #2. I remember going to a black/Hispanic club with my GF at the time, who was black. All the black guys were surprised that we were together, but ultimately didn't care. Many of the black women there would stop dancing to stare at us disapprovingly... probably more for her… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/15 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Is Southern California just an awful place for guys that are Asian or Brown regardless of what their SMV might be?Asian man in So Cal here. You're not getting any bonuses. For example, white guys are the go-to for minority women when they want to date inter-racially. Asian guys, you're not getting that free bonus. Although with the more recent media presence, Asian guys are starting to get a bit more attention. Also Asian women don't like to date Asian men. But that seems to be more of an age thing, as if Asian women, when they go through teens - 20's, they'll shun Asian men, but in their 30's they become o… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Dating career not going well at all. Don't know what is going wrongChicks are flaky. That's just how it is. You are doing some of the things you're supposed to do already: make your intentions clear, don't deviate from it, refuse to get friend zoned, be ready to take no as an answer gracefully, and hit on as many women as your schedule allows. It's a number game. Sometimes we hit dry spells, sometimes it rains like crazy. My personal experience has been this way, for some reason when things do happen, they tend to happen all at the same time, and you have to ma… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with a confusing girl with unclear signalsNormally I say you, as a man, has to be a go-getter. You push forward to get what you want, exclusive relationship, sex, whatever. It's up to her to say yes or no. But, unless you put her in a position where she has to say yes or no, she will continue to play this game and mess with your head. For example, ask her out on a date and make sure she knows it's a date and not just two friends hanging out. Go for for a kiss on the lips, whatever. But what you also need to do is to be able to take no f… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 12:13 AM |
| 1 | [Mod] If you bitch and moan, I'm a throw you out.That's how I feel, but I'm giving leeway to other people. I mean there are men that will pay a lot of money to have a dominatrix kick them in the balls. I don't understand that, but hey, whatever floats their boat. So I think somewhere, out there, to some guy, starting his own family is so important to him, that it's worth the risk. Not for me, not for you, but we can't speak for all men out there. What I think is bad, is the indoctrination you are talking about. Society shouldn't mislead men in… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/15 08:23 PM |
| 1 | [Mod] If you bitch and moan, I'm a throw you out.I'm lucky that I saw my own parents' marriage disintegrate, and I learned from it. So I'm on board with TRP for myself. But I think for some people there is enough reason to get married and worth the risk to play the Russian Roulette. Society asks why you're not married. But really it should be the other way around, you should have a pretty damn good answer to why you want to get married. But I do voice my disagreements with the popular TRP views on certain things, like the whole virgin thing, t… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 01:13 AM |
| 1 | To all "how to get a girl in group of friends/work etc" - Don't SHIT where You eatAbsolutely. There are so many fishes in the sea that you DON'T need to cannibalize your own social circle. Hit up on strangers or acquaintances. With that said, friends do end up together sometimes. But that should happen by accident, never by intent. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/15 12:30 AM |
| 1 | [Rant/The Feels] I can't believe I'm saying this, but I learned something from being rejected recentlyHappened to me too. FWB I was fucking didn't want to have anything more than fucking, but I fell for her. I learned too. That's what's so fun about this endeavor, you learn something with every encounter, no matter how it turned out. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/15 12:29 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when people around you say that "You're lifting too much" or "You need to rest too" or "that diet is not healthy".I don't take the nay-sayers seriously. I start reciting bro-wisdom like "Pain is weakness leaving the body" until they roll their eyes. This one time I was doing a bit cutting and I got a bit leaner. Chick: Hey evil, you look good, what are you doing differently? Me: Diet and exercise. Chick: Fuck you (in good fun, she's my friend). | /r/askTRP | 06/11/15 12:17 AM |
| 1 | How does a perverted or morbid sense of humor affect perceptions of SMV?Morbid maybe won't work so well. Perverted is okay provided you don't head into creepville. The easiest way to do that is after you make a sexual joke, move on. Don't keep lingering on it like it was your most glorious moment. Another thing is that chicks laughing at your dumb jokes in general is a good sign. Chicks that are attracted to you sexually may also play off of your sexual joke and keep it going for a bit. A little back and forth. Then you know it's a good sign. That's also what I enjo… | /r/askTRP | 06/11/15 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Unfulfilled by Sleeping Around?Sleeping around is an activity, a hobby. It's like saying I played hockey every week for a year already, even won a couple of T-shirts, yet it leaves me feeling empty like my life is missing something. It's not uncommon to have to do some soul searching as you get older. But it has nothing to do with sleeping around, unless you've mistakenly placed some sort of meaning of life importance on sleeping around. It's just an activity. Your life has to be about more than women, or hockey. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/15 11:45 PM |
| 0 | My first experience with an insecure crazy lawyer...dodged a bullet.I happen to think tolerance is also a virtue. So personally I added the "whatever floats your boat" concept. Maybe that's not for you, that's okay, because whatever floats your boat. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 07:25 PM |
| 3 | My first experience with an insecure crazy lawyer...dodged a bullet.The "crazy" part isn't the resistance against letting you stick your dick in. It's the psycho aftermath that comes with it. If you like a challenge, hit up women with the mega bitch shield. Enjoy your challenge there. But a psycho woman will stalk you, call their ex-con BF to stab you, claim rape and try to get you arrested, none of that is fun. Bitch shield chicks are not the same as crazy chicks. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 03:22 AM |
| 5 | My first experience with an insecure crazy lawyer...dodged a bullet.Life isn't about sticking your dick in every time an opportunity comes up. It's okay to pass, for even less reasons. In fact, for men that have access to women, they would pass even more often, just because another one is right around the corner, so they don't give a shit. Vagina is a common commodity, every woman has one. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 03:18 AM |
| 2 | My first experience with an insecure crazy lawyer...dodged a bullet.Just because people are in LTRs, doesn't mean they don't cheat. Not my thing personally, I'd break up my LTR before doing anything like that, so I'd be a single guy sleeping around, as opposed to cheating, but everyone's different. Whatever floats your boat (or the OP's boat). | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 03:13 AM |
| 2 | My first experience with an insecure crazy lawyer...dodged a bullet.Good call. One of my friends is dating a lawyer chick. Glad it's not me. Also, are you white? If you are, you shouldn't have trouble with Asian chicks. You may be a bit too muscular, the more "Asian" ones tend to like guys that are more skinny... ironically they like nerdy looking white guys. But there are a ton of Americanized ones that would be totally into you. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 03:09 AM |
| 17 | Newly Divorced Beta Gets His Heart Crushed in Under a WeekI've told this story many times here, but it illustrates the "natural state" of women very well. My bandmate who is a young kid befriended a young girl at a festival. She boasted to him that she could get guys to give her money. My bandmate called her bluff, and being she's flirty and cute, she demonstrated her powers quickly, and got some random guy to give her $5. My bandmate then up the ante, and challenged her to try the same with his group of friends. She did her song and dance, and quickly… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Purposely being a jerk to eliminate 'beta behaviors'?It could be a start, but being a jerk is not the way to go either. It's more about knowing what you want and not deviating from it, even if other people don't like it. Like most things in life, you need to find the balance. There will be social repercussion though. But you can always try it with people that are not close to you, or move on to a new social group once you have the new you dialed in. It is more work than a more subtle approach I suppose. So think of it as a last resort. If you are … | /r/askTRP | 04/11/15 10:55 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean if a woman only wants to have sex when she's drunk?Ahh... thanks. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Rough %, what women are LTR material?0% Ok I'm being cynical, being LTR material goes both ways. 0% because I'm not LTR material. LTR is about being able to put up with each other's bullshit, and when shit hits the fans, both of your combined approach to a disaster of a situation tend to head toward defusion (is that a word?) instead of escalation. When it comes to LTRs, love and passion take a backseat to compatibility and how you handle the rough spots. It's mundane and boring, but practical. Because life is not a movie. So if yo… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on getting a vasectomy?Actually it's good you mentioned your age. Vasectomy is great, unless you change your mind. You will get resistance when you talk to a doctor. It's good for you to expect this when making your plans. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on getting a vasectomy?Vasectomy failures happen immediately, that's why you are supposed to get tested for sperm twice after the surgery. Extremely rarely a vasectomy can reverse itself after already being tested negative, but the probability of that is on the scale of an act of God. The failure statistics I believe includes both scenarios, but by far it's the immediate failure type where the surgery was not performed correctly. Reversal has very low success ratio. Basically one should just assume it's permanent. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on getting a vasectomy?And I believe that the longer you have the vasectomy, the success rate also drops. Something about the sperm becoming deformed and not able to swim (I'm not an MD so I defer to you). Vasectomy should be considered permanent. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on getting a vasectomy?Got mine. It's awesome. You are young, so your doctor may make you jump through hoops, like make you wait, send you to talk to counselling, or something. Basically, they want to make sure you won't change your mind. Because even though a vasectomy can be reversed, the success ratio is pretty low. Plus... a vasectomy nowadays they just poke a couple of holes in your balls, and it's an outpatient surgery. Vasectomy reversal they have to filet your balls and put them back together.. it's night and … | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Please don't send me to the women's sub.I'm a plate that wants to stay a plate. He has penis size insecurity, what do I say?Have you tried /r/redpillwomen? As a guy, my advise would be that you are spending too much effort on this FWB. You can have multiple FWBs, ride this one out as long as it'll last, while you have multiple FWBs going. FWBs are by default unstable, it's impossible to keep it going for long, because both sides can easily develop stronger feelings or lose interest. Now I'm not an alpha or a truely TRP guy, I'm a reformed nice guy that has come a long way but still with a lot to learn. What I would d… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 07:22 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean if a woman only wants to have sex when she's drunk?It means she can't be anything more than a plate. Treat her exactly like how she's behaving. You party, get drunk, and bang. And that's it. There's nothing to stop you from having sober sex with other women. I looked up ASD, I assume it's Autism Spectrum Disorder. But I believe many women behave this way even if they don't have ASD. It's not uncommon for women to not want to take responsibility for their own actions. Combine this with the social shaming of casual sex, which mostly comes from rel… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Ive read all the theory of TRP, every sidebar link.I didn't say anything about lean gains. Lean gains are only possible for genetic freaks and or people juicing. This is for cutting while minimizing lean muscle mass loss. Because if you don't care about lean muscle mass loss, just want to get thin, there are other things you can do. And I said this is controversial, because it does have elements of broscience involved. In fact anything with diet and food changes all the time, because we don't 100% understand how the body works, and everyone's bo… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/15 11:04 PM |
| -2 | Ive read all the theory of TRP, every sidebar link.Good stuff. Sorry to be pedantic on a possibly controversial issue, I don't want to take away how great this post is. It's actually not calories in calories out. The general guidelines to eating is: Eat every 3 hours if you can, you will naturally end up eating smaller portions because you're not allowing your body to go hungry. Even if you just eat a small side salad, or a protein shake. Goal is never let your body go for more than 3 hours without putting something in your stomach. Don't count … | /r/askTRP | 29/10/15 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Cat fight at Muay Thai classPretty typical. I've played hockey for many years, and made many friends, including women hockey players. Outside of the bully types (that only go after women and small guys), men tend to stay away from escalation. But when it does happen, it's fucking on. Women on the other hand are constantly going at it. It's like they don't even need a reason to escalate. My personal theory is that they've never had to pay the price for escalation. Men will back off of them, and white knights will jump in an… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 02:19 AM |
| 7 | "You're the most irrational asshole ever"Don't worry about it. Just shrug it off. It's a game. She's trying to establish dominance. If it slides right off of you without much of a reaction, then you've established dominance instead. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/15 02:12 AM |
| 1 | I always catch younger (high school) girls checking me out. Never women my ageOlder women are just more sneaky at checking you out. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/15 02:05 AM |
| 3 | Is it ever appropriate to ask, "Why?" to females?Don't ask why. Her priority has been downgraded already. At best she needs to share with the new girl. Too bad, so sad. Good job BTW. If I were to guess I would say she was making a power play. If you had just given in and allowed her to dictate your schedule, she would then try to make you her beta orbiter. Don't get pissed, that's also beta behavior, at the very least don't show it. Abundance mentality says you don't give a shit whether she sticks around or not. In fact, if you act like whatev… | /r/askTRP | 27/10/15 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Why do women not like romantic guys again?You don't need to look like a hot blonde blue-eyed guy, unless your goal is to sleep with the most number of women by the time you die, and you insist on not doing it with fame or money. Fame/money/social status is the number one factor. Men's appearance for women actually take a much lower priority than it is for men, when we look at women. But white guys around 6 ft tall are the most sought after "superficial" qualities, so there is something to that. But really you only have one dick, and 24 … | /r/askTRP | 27/10/15 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Fwb asks to meet, then reveals she's on her periodPerfect excuse to talk her into anal. But seriously, FWB has a friend factor, for better or for worse. Meaning when you are not having sex, you are friends, and do friend stuff. The upside is the sex is probably better because you are more familiar with each other, and also get along (if you don't get alone then your are not friends). The downside is the friendship really throws a wrench into things and it could escalate to a bad place easier/faster. I've had FWBs before, we were friends first, … | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Girl Flips What I SaidRoll with it. Now you can have casual sex with her and you won't even look like a bad guy. Everyone think you wanted a serious relationship, and she's the one that said no. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/15 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Can you guys tell me what you think about this video saying Nice Guys finish first?Nice guy finishes first, when it comes to finishing last. But seriously now, being nice is great for many life situations, just that it doesn't apply when it comes to women. This is why it's so unintuitive, and so many men are confused. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/15 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Some chicks think I'm gay?Hey if you can get chicks, who cares if they think you're gay. If it ain't broke, why fix it. Whatever it is that's "getting in the way" for some chicks, is probably "getting their attention" for some other chicks. It all balances out. And as someone that's not a rich and famous celebrity, you will never "get all the chicks". Some will like you and some won't, no matter how you change and transform. As long as you are having continued successes, you're good. It's normal to win some and lose some… | /r/askTRP | 20/10/15 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Women's advice on women, it's complete shitThe joke is: 1) Be attractive 2) Don't be unattractive It actually has a lot of truth to it. That's why it's funny. If you go up to a woman and do XYZ, but she thinks you're attractive, then you just charmed her. If you go up to a second woman and do XYZ, but she thinks you're unattractive, then you're a creep. It has everything to do with if the woman thinks you're attractive or not, and very little to do with XYZ (within reason of course). This is exactly why following a woman's advice you'll … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Individual Sports and SMVI play team sport - hockey, there are almost no women in hockey, and the ones that do play, well, let's just say they look like hockey players. So team sport, individual sport doesn't matter, unless you play some sort of co-ed sport, you can't really benefit from it directly. But any sort of hobby/passion, sports or not, is a good thing. Be good at something you love makes you more a interesting person, unlike the typical chicks you find on dating sites that enjoy netflix and laughing. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/15 12:33 AM |
| 1 | When I was dating a hottie why did it seriously (mystify, disturb, shock) so many other women to the point they had to come up to me and ask me what's going on.Women want what other women have. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/15 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about MarriageMarriage is the traditional way of providing a stable household. The ability for a marriage to successfully provide a stable household is probably slightly better than an LTR, if anything because it is the socially acceptable way of doing this. Yeah, sure conformists can go fuck themselves, tradition is meaningless, etc, whatever, but society is still society, you can go against the grain if you like, but if you do so, you will be making things more difficult. I would argue a traditional marriag… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Let's talk about MarriageI'm saying having a kid while in a marriage is better for the kid than having a kid while not in a marriage, under average conditions. Sure, you can pull out corner cases where the parents are alcoholic drug users. So if you want a kid, you should at least consider marriage, because you are thinking of the benefits for your kid, not for yourself. As for marriage without kids, I don't see a reason for it, if you're a man, unless that happens to be something you really want. Then well, you pay the… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk about MarriageWhen you decide to have a family, the priority is no longer yourself. Your priority is now your child. You do things and make decisions because they are good for your child, not because they are good for you. You will be the sucker, you won't look at cost/benefit for yourself, if it's good for your child's future, you do it. With that said, I don't want kids or marriage, and I'm glad, because this is a non-issue for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 10:42 PM |
| 8 | 29 year old woman wants her fiancee to understand she has too much self respect to perform certain sex acts AFTER he finds pictures of her doing these sex acts with her college boyfriend.Sadly, this is true. I hate to play this stupid dread game with someone I supposedly love, but there are no alternatives. If you don't put your foot down, and dread is a very effective way of doing that, women will walk all over you. By default, women do not respect your boundaries, priorities, interests, wants, because these things are silly and they don't make sense to them. It's impossible to make women understand because men and women speak different languages. So, you use dread to communica… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 10:10 PM |
| 2 | What happens when the divorce equation is the other way around?Not in family law, I don't know. But the official stance is no, there is no gender bias, it's all about "what's best for the kid". In reality, I have no idea, I'm just glad I will never be part of that game, since I will not have kids. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/15 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only one that thinks caring about the # sexual partners a girl has is Bluepill behaviourI agree with you. But I'm in the minority here. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/15 10:14 PM |
| 1 | All the self improvement I've done - is for women. That's fucked up. What changed your mindset from here?I use the drive for self improvement for women as an excuse to provide the fuel to improve myself for me. For example, I play piano, and I like playing piano. But I get distracted with other things like video games, hanging out with friends... etc. But it just so happened that this chick I was going after liked this particular song on the piano. So I use that and "gave in" to the urge to please her, in order to get off my butt and focus on learning the song on the piano. I did, I learned the son… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/15 09:46 PM |
| 2 | I got bullied in the gym, should I of fought the guy?Complain to management. Taking these type of confrontations into your own hands, even if you were a martial arts master and can handle him and his friends, it not a good move. Gyms don't want this kind of behavior, bullying or retaliation. You going back to get the bar is passive aggressive behavior. That's the worst choice you could have made, worse than direct aggression of just starting the fight then and there (which is also highly not recommended). I would complain to management anyway just… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/15 08:53 PM |
| 1 | should i keep feminist friends?There are different levels of friendship. Ones that have earned their keep, will be closer to you. Ones that are not respectable, get dropped to acquaintance level. Really bad ones, get cut off. Some feminists are chill, some are annoying, same can be said of religious/atheist/vegans/sports fanatics. If people annoy you, distance yourself. Extreme circumstances then you may have to choose the nuclear options, but if you start a "acquaintanceship" one step at a time, the majority of the times peo… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/15 07:42 PM |
| 1 | girl messages and apologises for her actionsOh good, Europe isn't backwards like the US when it comes to things like this. Since you already know she doesn't want to have sex with you... The best lesson you can teach her is to drop her to the lowest priority while you go out and put your efforts into other women that are more worthy of your time. All the while treat her with nice and polite civility, but never waste any effort on her. If she wants to engage in a friendship with you, let her put in the work. Your time is valuable and bette… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/15 10:20 PM |
| 3 | girl messages and apologises for her actionsEscalate and try to have sex with her. If she does, then it's an even trade, you scratch my back, I scratch yours, everyone's happy. If she doesn't, then she should bail out and disappear with zero effort from you. If she's so thick skinned that she doesn't disappear, then you have to do the work and bail out on her. If you are in college, then it gets complicated with all that yes means yes bullshit. You might want to stay celibate and just focus on school, or go get a happy ending at a massage… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/15 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who ruled out marriage from your lives, but would like to one day have a kid, what is your plan?No kids for me, easy decision. I believe if you want kids, you should get married, at least make a very good attempt at it. Kids are even larger responsibilities than marriage. My plan is to be self sufficient and die alone. If I have a partner at the time that's willing to be there for me, great, but I'm not counting on it. As for more immediate plans, currently I have a live-in GF. Maybe it'll last, may it won't. Life keeps rolling no matter what, and so will I, until the day I drop dead, then… | /r/askTRP | 01/10/15 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Every time I try OkCupid I have no luck. It feels like women think that men on OKC are all beta and are pretty much just seeking validation. Would you agree?Do you have other alternatives? Online dating pretty much sucks for men. There are specific individuals that are good at it, but I believe most men do not fall into that category. So generally speaking, you should only use online dating as a supplement. Like you're sitting on the toilet taking a shit anyway, why not send a few messages and see what happens. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/15 09:02 PM |
| 1 | AWALT...what about AMALT?That's a good point. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/15 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Girl cancels before hook up dateYou did the right thing. I wouldn't worry about it. You treated it like it was no big deal, and it shouldn't be, because you can (and should) have other chicks going as well. Women make decision based on feelz b4 reelz. At the moment she was into it, that's why you need to strike when the iron is hot. After the moment was over, her decision changes. It has nothing to do with you, but everything to do with her own state of mind at the time. This is why right time right place is so important. If y… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/15 10:24 PM |
| 1 | AWALT...what about AMALT?Like you said, AWALT is a "precaution" we need to have when trying to associate with women in some sort of romantic or intimate manner. Unless we start to have romantic or intimate relationships with men, we don't really need to talk about AMALT. But I assume that's something completely valid and of interest to RP women and RP gays. That's my take on it anyway. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/15 10:09 PM |
| 1 | What is up with all these women jokingly making the 'if we're both single in 10 years lets get married' shtick?The one that I like is when women say when they are in love with a man, they are fine if the man sleeps around, as long as she knows it's only for sex and she's the only one he loves. I don't even know why they would say something like that, maybe they thought it was opposite day, because I honestly can't think of a reason. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/15 10:17 PM |
| 1 | What is up with all these women jokingly making the 'if we're both single in 10 years lets get married' shtick?Yeah, I had that happen too, with a platonic friend. In my case she wanted a relationship, I didn't. So I play the guy card... too dumb to notice. Some women don't do direct, so after being blocked by my dumb card, this is basically what she said. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/15 10:12 PM |
| 4 | Possible to have too much Abundance Mentality?This is not about being an asshole. Being an asshole is perfectly fine if you are getting what you want out of life. Many chicks like assholes. If you also have charisma and are a narcissistic sociopath, you may land yourself a corporate executive job that will make you more money than many of us can ever imagine. This is not about being an asshole. Abundance mentality is about realizing you have options. The problem with options is that it makes you unhappy. Yes that's right, unhappy. Because h… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/15 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Abundance mentality: fake it until you make it?I wouldn't say the easiest way. It's one of the ways. And since each person's brain works differently, you should try and evaluate what works for you personally, never blindly follow stuff you read on the internet. That includes this post too. But practice girls is certainly one of the things you can try. One of the most valuable things I learned from practice girls is how to break up with women. Or rather, how it made me feel. I'm unfortunately one of those people with a conscience, and that's … | /r/askTRP | 22/09/15 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Indian girl moves to US. Feels Indian/Asian men are below her. Cheats on boyfriend back home with white guy...personal belief in equality destroyed.Absolutely. I'm in my mid-40's, so when I was doing this, it wasn't as common. Many younger Asian men have come to the same conclusion. I mean I'm no genius, and this is not rocket science, this is purely simple logical thinking, so it's not a stretch that other Asian men are figuring this out. I'm glad to see a lot more Asian men are doing the same now.... lift weights, have an aggressive game (compared to the stereotypical Asian male game of my generation), and you are good to go. Plus now the… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/15 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Do you actually enjoy talking to women?I enjoy talking to some women. Yes, some are vapid and superficial, and only know how to talk about shoes, makeup and dating men. But some are actually very interesting to talk to. For whatever reason, even though I'm not in academia, I have a group of acquaintances that are. Two of the female professors that I socialized with at various parties (both are way more educated and arguable more intelligent than I am... yes I know education does not equal to intelligence, but they are at the very lea… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/15 11:18 PM |
| 9 | Indian girl moves to US. Feels Indian/Asian men are below her. Cheats on boyfriend back home with white guy...personal belief in equality destroyed.Asian here, similar experience. When I was in high school and college, Asian women tend not to date their own race. Especially in college, that's where I ran into Asian women that not only do they not date their own race (hey, everyone is entitled to have preferences), they actually talk down about the men of their own race. So I did what made sense. If dating Asian women as an Asian man is barking up the wrong tree, then I will date women of all the other ethnicities. What I've found out, is th… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/15 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Foreign girl pregnantAgree that's it's a scam. But if she's willing to scam like this, is she going to get you to take her some place to see a "doctor", but it turn out to be some random place where she has five of her guy friends waiting for you with baseball bats? Maybe I watch too many movies. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/15 06:29 PM |
| 0 | You need to be a good fighter or it's not necessary ?Good job. Fighting is always last resort. You should train because I think as a man, you should do something physical, even if you can't do it well. Street fights however, is something to be avoided. Also, MMA doesn't train you for street fighting. Sure, you are a lot more prepared than someone without any training, but that's not what it's for. For example, MMA does not protect against attacks to the eyes, throat, groin, or the back of the head. And these are the areas that an opponent will go … | /r/askTRP | 18/09/15 09:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell the difference between a girl being shy, and not into you?You can't. That's why when in doubt, you should go for it. From the opposite perspective, this is also why when men are shy, they won't be able to get anything going. Because it's a pain in the ass dealing with people that are shy, you can't tell if it's shy or disinterest. I usually just throw something out there, if she responds, go time. If she's too shy, I just assume disinterest and move on. I've had times where after I moved on, suddenly it lit a fire under their butts and they go aggressi… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/15 07:40 PM |
| 3 | How come Korean male models or actors get that much attraction from girls when they are really feminine?Models and actors are celebrities. Anyone in the public eye will most likely enjoy fame, fortune, and high social status. These are greater factors than looks. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/15 07:32 PM |
| 1 | BBC releases incredibly sexist "documentary" because GIRL POWER!! XD (Girls can code)Mattel is way ahead of them Brits, check out Barbie the Computer Engineer. http://techcrunch.com/2014/11/19/mattel-pulls-sexist-barbie-book-i-can-be-a-computer-engineer-off-amazon/ I tried to get a copy of the book, it'd make an awesome coffee table book, but they're quite expensive on ebay. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/15 10:19 PM |
| 3 | BBC releases incredibly sexist "documentary" because GIRL POWER!! XD (Girls can code)Don't forget laughing. Many women list that as something they enjoy doing on their online dating profiles. I can imagine it already. They get home, after a long day at the office, sit down on the couch, get comfy, kick off their shoes, and start laughing. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/15 10:14 PM |
| 2 | GF wants to go to nightclubs with her single friend.You already said the relationship is done if she goes out. You can't make ultimatums then not follow it. She completely disregarded and disrespected you. Anyway, you have 100% right to ask her not to go out, regardless if it's right or wrong. This is your relationship, you decide how it goes. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Would it be easier dating a really, really younger woman?In my 30's, especially mid 30's and later, I usually dated women that are about 10 years younger, that's just how it worked out. I don't think it's a big deal. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 11:20 PM |
| 1 | TRP made me paranoid, how to overcome this?She asked if you want time off because she's afraid you want to break up. If you had said, yes I think time off is a good idea, she would have flipped out and gone into drama mode crying about how YOU want to break up with her, even though she was the one that suggested it. As general Ackbar said, It's a trap! Anyway, you two have relationship compatibility issues. Better to not move it just yet. But the good thing about moving in is, everything is now in hard mode. If your relationship isn't go… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Manginas and entitled bitches are everywhereI don't think you handled it well, the part where you touched the entitled slut, or insulting the bouncer part. After that you handled yourself well, you got your $100 bill voided, your date's pussy went sploosh from the risk of physical violence, so it worked out. But it could have easily not worked out. Had things escalated, they would have taken the woman and the bouncer's words, not yours. Sometimes the bouncers will call the cops, and the cops will take the woman's side even more than the b… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/15 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Making a conscious effort to 'turn' gay.TRP tends to be straight male's perspective on relationships with women. So everything that is said and talked about here, is basically cherry picking only the facets that applies to this specific perspective, from the full spectrum that is the reality. The fact is, the problem that we talk about is only a subset of "relationship problems". We don't talk about women's issues with men (let's face it, with every bullshit AWALT chick behavior, there's one bullshit men behavior to match, men and wom… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 06:56 PM |
| 7 | Feminists calling for a ban on sex bots. Also: the future of dating/sex/relationshipsHaha, I hooked up with a "lesbian" too. Also, have another lesbian friend, she told me it's not black and white, it's like a percentage. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/15 06:03 PM |
| 6 | Sean Connery, aka James Bond, swallowed TRP in 1965Yes, times are different now. The legal system is on the women's side. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 11:39 PM |
| 3 | Huge guy disrespects me and I puss out. What should I have done?Not worth it. Don't do anything. If shit goes down get the bouncers. This is not your fight. I can't link here, so look up Bas Rutten and Brian Urlacher, youtube has the interview. In case you don't know, Bas Rutten is one of the MMA badasses from the previous generation, and Brian Urlacher is a former NFL player. Even someone as capable as Bas Rutten chose to back off first. The truly capable fighters don't fight unless they have no choice, because they have nothing to prove. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/15 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Skinny to muscled...when did it start to benefit you with women and other men?It's less of what you look like and more of how it makes you feel. Women are drawn to the self confidence. Sure, the muscles help, but that is secondary to the confidence. For me, I'm also a small frame guy that's naturally around 145 if all I did was play sports for fun. If I didn't play sports I'd be even skinnier. I always felt that my skinny-ness was an obstacle. But this is just in my own mind, selling myself short. I could fix it a couple of ways... by mentally training myself to not make … | /r/askTRP | 11/09/15 06:22 PM |
| 1 | I'm the guy that girls flake onOne of the things you have to learn, and it's a tough one that I struggle with, is not to be outcome oriented. You do your thing, and you don't care if it works out or not. When you attach an outcome, an expectation, you are only making things hard for yourself because a large part of this game is NOT skill based. Meaning, even if you do everything 100% right, the best that you can ever do, a woman that is not interesting in you, will still not be interested in you, and you will be "defeated". S… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/15 01:35 AM |
| 1 | I'm the guy that girls flake onWhen you cold approach (sounds like this is what you're doing), your success ratio will be low. That is if you are a normal guy. Only the rich, famous, and unusually attractive men will be able to enjoy higher percentage. Don't get me wrong, low percentage is normal, unless you are some sort of famous heart throb. You are doing the right things, I wouldn't worry about it. Sure, there's always room for improvement, but once you have the basics down, which it sounds like you do, the main focus the… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/15 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Stop worshipping low partner count, what matters is alpha widow.A virgin doesn't mean she's not AWALT. She could be a crazy bitch. Then what? I'd rather be with a non-virgin that's not a crazy bitch than be with a virgin that is. And from a practical standpoint, you're not going to find a virgin. Not even a crazy bitch virgin. LTR is about one thing and one thing only... the ability to put up with each other's shit without going insane. Virginity, hot body, none of that matters. If you can't deal with each other when the going gets tough, your relationship i… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/15 02:24 AM |
| 0 | Why do negative people think they are being realists?Look, everyone has a right to approach life however they choose to. The pessimists/realists could over prepare, hesitate, or hinder their own progress. Optimists could underestimate, under-prepare, or depend entire too much on luck. If we could tell the future, then we would all be both optimists and pessimists at the same time, because sometimes it's better to be an optimist, and sometimes it's better to be a pessimist. Since we can't tell the future, pick your poison. Shitting on the other sid… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/15 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Combining mma and bodybuilding?Sounds like you're interested in self defense, not MMA. For example, MMA fighters do not protect their eyes, their groin, or even the back of their heads. I'm sure you've seen UFC fighters get into the "turtle position". In the streets even someone without training can seriously injure or even kill you by simply stomping on the back of your head. Turtling is effective in UFC because of the rules. There are no rules in the streets. Also MMA doesn't not train you in one vs many situations. Pull ou… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/15 01:45 AM |
| 2 | New to red pill, really confused about this one girls behavior.Spot on. But even without knowing the "why" this is an easily recognizable pattern. Women that are into you can't wait to be alone with you. She will make sure you somehow end up alone with each other, even if you were at a party or in some sort of group situation. The fact that she puts so much resistance against being alone with you, even without understanding why, is a clear signal that she's a dead end. But you did the right thing. Next her. Good job. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/15 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Saw the truth so clearly last nightNever buy drinks for women at bars. If you need to pay for face time, she's not into you. Any chick that can be bought with a drink isn't not worth your time. The occasions that "buying a drink" worked was because she was into you already, the drink is just an excuse to chat her up.... it's you, it's not the drink. So just cut the drink out and chat with her. If she's into you she'll stick around. Some chicks would say that's being stingy or whatever. That's cool, maybe they're right, but those … | /r/askTRP | 08/09/15 06:37 PM |
| -1 | Boy starts movement to get men to carry feminine productsIt's cool, we need BP guys in the world. I mean, I have nothing against women. I don't want them to be stuck somewhere public with blood running down their legs and get all embarrassed. If I can have my way I'd want only good things to happen to women, and men, and pets, and animals, and the earth, and everything. It's just that I prefer that someone else carry that tampon, and rightfully, they deserve the credit for it too. I'm just going to stay out of the way and give my support spiritually. … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Craigslist ad : "A potential husband should be"Women never follow these "lists" that they come up with. She'll end up hooking up with a Chad Thundercock with no job and lives off of her, then cheats on her with one of her friends. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Woman makes guy wait 3 months for sex, while fucking Chad on the side.If the "good guy" was looking for a hump and dump, then yes, wrong strategy. But since he wasn't, I'd say a bullet dodged, and this is actually a good outcome for him. What separates the men from the boys is that men will recognize this scenario and high tail it outta there, where the boys will stick around and hope to get some left over scraps. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Woman makes guy wait 3 months for sex, while fucking Chad on the side.Fairly common. Happened within my social circle as well. This chick, really hot, did the same thing. Saw her brought some guy to the parties, the guy was totally into her, seemed like a good guy. She made him wait, and bragged about it to some of the other chicks, which then as you know, this shit gets broadcasted all over the social circle. Then of course, the guy wasn't going to stick around, and eventually bailed. I still say hi to him when I run into him but we don't run in the same circle a… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/15 09:09 PM |
| 1 | In LTR + flirting with other women...what is okay?This. Every relationship is different. Maybe she flirts with other guys at the gym. Also what about strip clubs and porn? Some GF's treat that like cheating, some don't care, and some will join you. Same things. These fall into the gray areas. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/15 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Tips to stop friend zoning myselfPlay the boys will be boys card. Go for sex, as long as you back off when they're not interested, don't be creepy and annoying, and you are not forcing anything and breaking the law. A man that wants to have sex with an attractive woman.. hmm.. never heard that before. Trust me, everyone knows this. Women expect it, whether they are looking forward to it or dreading that they have to turn you down.. they expect this. So play this card. If you make the "turning you down part" easy and drama free,… | /r/askTRP | 01/09/15 06:06 PM |
| 3 | How do you have enemies?If you're chick, they are also friends. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/15 05:51 PM |
| 4 | USA's Women's Olympic Hockey team loses to Boy's high school hockey teamsPoint taken. I've never sparred against anyone elite, male or female, so I would defer to your first hand experience. As of now without any additional training, and fighting MMA rules, Rousey definitely has the advantage. Maybe I'm giving Mayweather too much credit for being an advanced athlete. I was also assuming that he'll learn and pick up MMA faster than say, someone like me. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 10:00 PM |
| 1 | USA's Women's Olympic Hockey team loses to Boy's high school hockey teamsCool, I must have gotten bad info somewhere. Thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 09:50 PM |
| 26 | USA's Women's Olympic Hockey team loses to Boy's high school hockey teamsWell, that's a bit different, because Mayweather wouldn't know how to defend against take downs and submissions. Take downs and submissions are specifically design for fighting against a physically stronger opponent, which is exactly the case here. With that said, with some basic MMA training and preparation, and being that Mayweather is an elite athlete even though I dislike him very much, Rousey wouldn't stand a chance. IMHO. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 07:26 PM |
| 3 | USA's Women's Olympic Hockey team loses to Boy's high school hockey teamsInteresting, I thought Rousey wanted to fight men, but Dana White wouldn't allow it. But now she wouldn't fight Fox. Maybe that was all just Dana White marketing bullshit... he's trying to turn UFC into WWE. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 07:20 PM |
| 2 | What makes black women and Asia men the lowest in the dating?White guy is already sufficient. Don't worry. You don't even need TRP for attraction. As a westernized Asian guy, when I go back, I get points for simply being a westernized Asian guy. I don't even need to do anything. White guy points > westernized Asian guy points. You'll do fine in the "attracting women" area. If anything it'll ruin your game when you come back, because you wouldn't be walking around with the white guy bonus here. What to watch out for is everything else. Sure, standing out i… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/15 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Tips for making friends/find social contact?College isn't the best years of your life. Your 30's will be the best years of your life. College is for getting through school and getting that piece of paper that said you did, so your boss has one less excuse to low ball your salary. Although without guarantee, and it still takes work on your part, it should open the door for you to financial stability, which is one of the main ingredients of the most typical and straight forward ways of having the best years of your life. And I'm sure you al… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/15 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Breaking Up is Easy to DoNow these are some excellent tips. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/15 08:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys even entertain the idea of an LTRWell, it's popular on TRP to shit on women and say they are all cheating bitches. While there are plenty of cheating bitches around, there are women that are not like that, that do not follow every rule of AWALT. Yes, they do exist. Now, they are not unicorns because they have other problems, like every single one of us, but not every woman is looking to cheat or jump ship. The real problem of LTR, whether you are with an AWALT hypergamy cheater or not, is that you have to deal with her personal… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/15 06:45 PM |
| 2 | New LTR is religious, wants no sex, what to do?Relationships aren't all about sex, but sex is an important part of a healthy relationship. Is she a technical virgin? Maybe you can go that way for now. But technical virgins tend to be crazier than real virgins. So this would be a short term solution only. Anyway, chicks like that are trouble. If I have to make a bet, she'll hook up with Chad Thundercock before she's married. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/15 06:37 PM |
| 1 | I am a male Feminist.You brought up two points: 1) Women have a more difficult time through college. False. There are actually more programs available to help women. 2) Maternity leave isn't sufficient in the US. This is only a feminism issue if paternity leave is unfairly superior to maternity leave, and this is simply not the case. The most you can say is US health care is not sufficient, but that affects both men and women equally, and is not a feminism or man vs woman issue. Both of those issues you have brought… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/15 09:18 PM |
| 1 | I am a male Feminist.Sure, but before you come here to discuss how bad this sub is, maybe you should get your own facts straight. Your post about women having a more difficult time to get through school is false. It's perfectly fine when you disagree, but please make sure the platform that your are using to start your point of view from is a solid one. The fact is, there are plenty of things where being a male is advantageous, and there are plenty of things were being a female is advantageous. For example, given the… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/15 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Are attractive men considered to be less desperate even though they hit on all the chicksYou need to cut out the whole "I'm nice therefore you should date me" vibe. Women date men that are exciting, they don't date men that are nice. Be nice if you want to, it's just personal preference. But don't expect being nice to earn any points with women. You need to bring something else to the table, like fun and exciting. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/15 07:00 PM |
| 10 | Got plated and it stingsWhen you have a few women in the works, things like this becomes a non-issue. So she's not available, you keep rolling. If she comes back, ok, let's see what she has to offer. Nothing again? It's ok, you're busy with two other women anyway. If you do things this way, you don't really need to hard next anyone unless they have proven to be batshit crazy. You are not putting any efforts into it, and who knows, maybe one of these days you can hit her up last minute as a plan B, and it may work out, … | /r/askTRP | 26/08/15 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Help me understand the situation with this girl. Ex-GF says wants to return don't know if for sex, commitment or validation.It's about what you want, not about what she wants. If what she wants does not line up with what you want, she's free to not associate with you, her choice: your game or no game. This happens a lot. Happened to me too. Surprising number of people do not focus on self improvement, especially people with a "support group" around them that are more like enablers, dishing out gems like you are great just the way you are, and other feel-good bullshit. And women have these type of support more than me… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/15 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Help, big life decision regarding toxic family.Financial issues would be pretty tough to overcome. I moved out after college, with a job that paid $30k a year. Best thing I've ever done, it set the stage for me to have the best time of my life. But, the big huge factor was that I was financially self sufficient, I had finished school, and was positioned to develop my career. Money isn't everything, but not having enough of it really sucks. If you are not financially self sufficient you may be swapping out crap family life for crap life on yo… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/15 01:05 AM |
| 2 | What has been the most stressful time in your life, The "make or break" and how did you manage to overcome it?Thinking back it wasn't make or break, but at the time it sure felt like shit. During the dotcom bubble burst, I was laid off, like many others in the tech industry. But the difference was that was my first layoff ever. Plus within a few weeks, my dad attempted to commit suicide, although he survived thanks to the EMT's quick response. Then soon after I broke up with my GF of two years. I ended up withdrawing socially. I lost interest in doing anything fun. When I finally landed a job six months… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/15 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Woman Used Sperm From Oral Sex To Get Pregnant, Gets Child SupportYeah, and there have been instances where the woman would fish the used condom out of the trash and use the sperm in there in an attempt to impregnate herself. Or, an alternate game is women can buy used and positive pregnancy tests online, they are usually sold as "gags and jokes", but we know what it's really for. If you know you don't want (any more) kids, get a vasectomy. I did. Best thing ever. Just make sure to follow procedure and get tested for sperm twice after the procedure. If the pro… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/15 05:43 PM |
| 5 | LTR is ending as of this morning. I am lost, I don't know what to do. Help.My opinion: Sorry, there's no excuse for cheating. Even if your partner is a piece of shit, cheating on them is still not a solution. If you want to sleep around, end the relationship, that'd be the right thing to do. With that said, she didn't follow that rule. Alcoholism/substance abuse is just as much of a relationship destroyer as cheating, so she's basically just swapping out one deal breaker for another with her excuses. If you had gotten drunk and slept with other women, how would she rea… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/15 05:32 PM |
| 4 | No, Getting Married Does Not Make You Live LongerWell, I can't speak for others, but I'm vastly more productive and constructive with my life when I'm not in a romance. Lack of romance drives my ambition, it makes me feel I need to be at the top of my game, it makes me hungry. Romance also takes a lot of time and energy. Without romance I have more time to pursue my personal projects. When I'm in a romantic situation, I would often forgo my projects to be with the woman. Yes, romance offers you a high like non other. It's not something you sho… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/15 11:54 PM |
| 1 | No, Getting Married Does Not Make You Live LongerEven if getting married does make man live longer, I'd still say no thanks. Quality > quantity. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/15 11:29 PM |
| 10 | No, Getting Married Does Not Make You Live LongerOh man... If you need romance to give your life meaning, then you are not going to have a good life. Live your life for yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/15 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Having fun vs. doing what you want to do.LTRs are hard work. Yes, sometimes you have to do things you don't want to do. And sometimes you have to back off and tolerate her bullshit for the sake of the relationship. Ideally she'd do the same for you too. LTRs are not rainbows and butterflies. LTR is about two people that can somehow manage to put up with each other's shit without going insane. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/15 11:19 PM |
| 3 | What to do if she cancels?At least she called to reschedule. Many women just flake. Don't worry about it and stick with the new rescheduled date. In the future, if you like, have plan B. Plan B can be another chick you're going on dates with, or something you want to do, like hang out with your buddies, whatever. If a chick flakes, just do your thing and have fun. For example, when I used to go out dancing regularly, I would setup dates at a club with dancing. If she flakes, I'd go by myself and have a good time dancing … | /r/askTRP | 24/08/15 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Does it kill attraction when a girl sees you playing piano?No, it can't be because of your song choice, there are thousands of reasons a woman could lose interest in you. Some of those have nothing to do with you. Musical talents are always a plus. Worst case scenario, you play guitar in a metal band and the chick hates metal, then it wouldn't be a plus, but it still wouldn't be a minus. Don't worry. Musical talents are a good thing. Do not direct your musical energy towards what women like, they are not worth it. Music is for you, not for them. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/15 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Did I make a mistake telling her I was seeing another girl?Nah, I think you did fine. You didn't care those guys were "hot", because you don't give a fuck. You played cool well, but you didn't escalate, that may be your only mistake. But if a chick was pulling that crap on me, it'd sink my boner to the ground. Maybe some guys live for games like this, I don't. I think it's pretty pathetic when chicks try to show off the "quality guys" they used to date. I briefly was working a chick that kept telling me all the hot guys she dated. It just made her come … | /r/askTRP | 24/08/15 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Help me stop being the "Nice guy"Yeah, say no more often, don't be afraid to piss people off. You're going to end up making some people not like you. But that's the whole point, you DON'T want everyone to like you. Keep your self interest as #1 priority, always. Then as you get better at this not being a nice guy stuff, you can fine tune it, because you don't want to be all asshole all the time either. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/15 05:40 PM |
| 9 | Man loses job and breaks down crying when he tells his wife. She is surprised to discover that she feels disgusted by him.Yeah, it's just women logic. It's never her fault, it's because he's somehow inadequate. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/15 05:09 PM |
| 5 | Indecisiveness in WomenYou know, that's what I've always done in the past. I nexted women easily, casual or LTR. Head in the wrong direction, and I'm gone. But it made me feel like I was taking commitment too lightly. Every relationship is an experiment. No one has the answer for everything, not even the most TRP guy. So you can say this is my commitment experiment. I already know, without trying, that I don't want marriage and kids. But I thought maybe I could have an LTR for life. I don't know that unless I try, and… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/15 07:14 PM |
| 4 | Indecisiveness in WomenShe does that when I'm not around too. I doubt she alpha tests her sisters. To me, alpha test is something a woman throws at you only. If she does this all the time whether you are there or not, then that's picky as fuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/15 07:08 PM |
| 24 | Women get stupid little dogs and baby them because they should've had kids already.My GF has two little dogs. I think she has them because she doesn't like to come back into an empty home. The two dogs are obviously jumping for joy each time she gets home. It makes her feel fuzzy and warm. I think this is because she grew up in a pretty tight family. We all try to recreate the most impactful memories of our past. Sometimes it's unfortunately negative like violence and instability, for her case I think she's trying to recreate having family activity in the house. I feel bad for… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/15 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Past mistakes in LTRI assume you meant more rewarding as opposed to regarding. I think that only applies if you want a family. Because you can't have a family if you switch out the chick every three months. Family is important to some people, but not to me. I grew up in a dysfunctional family, and I'm independent to a fault (same with my sibling, so it's not just me). LTR, with all the glitter that it could offer, doesn't really impress me. But at the same time, the cost is still there, the same. I'm in the middle … | /r/askTRP | 21/08/15 01:24 AM |
| 5 | Indecisiveness in WomenYup, I get it, but it's a battle I chose not to fight, as we, like all other couples, have many other battles to choose from. And realistically, if all you do is peace out at every conflict, then the relationship will degrade rather quickly. If you care about the relationship, it's a balance, you can't fight every battle, but you can't always back off and just take the rolled up newspaper on the head either. But I will tell you, I'm getting pretty tired. I'm starting to come to the conclusion th… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/15 01:05 AM |
| 2 | How do I save my friend?You can't do anything. Some people like to punch, some people like to get punched. Maybe they are made for each other. Don't mess with other people's lives. He has to make this decision himself. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/15 12:26 AM |
| 3 | This is why I'm starting to hate women.Yeah, this is just how the majority of women are. Each time something like this happens, you should feel lucky, because you dodged a bullet. Since we're using matrix themes anyway, dating is exactly like when neo was dodging all those bullets. Every "interaction" that doesn't work out is a bullet dodged. Also, why are you only seeing one woman at a time? By default you should just assume they're flaky and one week they want you, and next week they've found someone else. So you do the same. Edna … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/15 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Indecisiveness in WomenEdit: deleted my original post because I misunderstood you. You mean make it a statement. She'll just say she doesn't want to eat there or she's not feeling it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Crazy girl that fucks but cancels all the timeHappens all the time. Some chicks are flaky, some are not. I try to have plan B, and I favor plans with chicks that are not flaky obviously. Like this... Chick A is flaky, Chick B is not. Tonight, I don't have anything going on. Chick A wants to do something, ok, but my back up plan is go drinking with the boys. Saturday night, Chick A wants to hang out. Ok. Chick B calls later to hang out Saturday, I immediately cancel with Chick A, since Chick B doesn't flake. Her behavior determines where she… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/15 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Crazy girl that fucks but cancels all the timeJust play along with minimal effort. If you hook up you hook up. If you don't then hook up with other chicks. Unless you're trying to go exclusive with her or something, I don't see the problem. Although personally I would have issues with drug use, but not the flakiness. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/15 09:28 PM |
| 12 | Indecisiveness in WomenWhen I'm hungry I don't care what I eat, I just want food. Here's a typical example: GF: Where do you want to eat? Me: How about this place? GF: No... Me: How about that place? GF: No... Me: How about this other place that you like? GF: Well... not feeling it right now... Let's eat Sushi.. Me: Sure (thinking.. then why didn't you just say you want sushi to begin with?) This has nothing to do with who's the alpha or any deeper meanings, because the times that we do go some place I want to go, tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 09:19 PM |
| 1 | How would you react if your SO told you she hangs out in groups of just guys?If I get to hang out with a group of just girls, she can hang out with a group of just guys. If you don't trust her, don't get into any sort of exclusive arrangement with her. Getting into an exclusive relationship (thus limiting yourself), then worry all day about her is no way to live, for me at least. Maybe some people enjoy spending energy keeping someone watched and leashed, but I personally don't. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/15 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Why Relationships Can Never Be Equal (Scientific Study)This is sadly true. "Equal" relationship doesn't exist. One side will always be more dominant. If you are not the dominant one, then you are the submissive one, period. With that said, some likes to punch, some likes to get punched (figuratively speaking), as long as you are getting what you want, you can live your life however way you want. However no matter what floats your boat, equality is impossible. Pick a side. If you are the dominant one and you say... hmm, I'm going to be less dominant … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many girls seem to have absolutely no real hobbies and nothing interesting about them?One of my ex's and I used to go out all the time. She had an older friend that would tag along with us. She looked good for her age, so she had guys hit on her all the time. But then a pattern emerges... at the end of the night, when my ex and I are ready to call it the night and we'd be waiting for her, she'd still be busy flirting it up. Which was fine, I support my friends scoring, except she wouldn't do anything other than stand there in the parking lot and just keep flirting and flirting. G… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/15 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Woman marries millionaire husband after he insists on prenup, she cheats on him, gets divorced, gets the judge to throw out the prenup.It's difficult to throw out the prenup, but as we've seen, it is 100% possible. For the most part, it works as intended, but there will always be cases where someone manages to work the system. Marriage is a risk, and only should be for people that really really want it, or have nothing to lose. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 05:43 PM |
| 1 | What would be your witty follow up?Thanks! Good points for me to think about. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/15 10:47 PM |
| 7 | I know you guys are right now and I hate itThat's why you should not base your well-being on another person, whether the relationship is familial, platonic, or romantic, with your parents, best friend, or wife. Don't get me wrong, they ARE here to love you and help you (ideally anyway), and hopefully do make your life better, but they are not here to be the reason for you to live your life. Live your life for you. Be independently happy and productive. Then add these additional fancy things for taste. Don't make romance your cake, becaus… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/15 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Woman perceives me as being more attractive than her and says it's intimidating...What?Hahaha! Good one, I like this. If I ever become single again, hope you don't mind if I steal this. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/15 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Is it alright for a LTR to be talking with men who she knows like her?I agree. But I wouldn't stop it, because the only time I would do something about it, is when I next her. And this is not next-worthy.. yet. Could it develop into a next-worthy situation? Absolutely. Like you said, it's about more than actually cheating, there's a point where the line of "respect" is crossed, and that would next-worthy without cheating. But I would expect her to be the one to stop herself from going there, as opposed to me. Because if I have to stop her every time, i.e. she's on… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/15 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Social status and influence matters way more than physiqueYes, social status is probably one of the single most important factors. That's why if you can, be the "big fish in the small pond". The most straight forward are DJs, bartenders, bouncers, dance instructors... yes you have no idea how much these machismo Latino dance teachers get pussy, and most of them are short and not good looking... sorry Latino dance instructors. But if you are not one of those, you can still do it. Like if you walk into a party and everyone's going hey! evilquesadilla is … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/15 04:22 AM |
| 1 | AskReddit: "What's the most arbitrary reason you've had sex with a guy?" is an absolute GOLDMINE of female hamstering.This only underlines the importance of being social. As you can see, a lot of the times these things happen because the guy, who can be totally not interesting to the woman, happened to be at the right time and the right place. How do you be at the right time and place? Be out and about socializing as much as possible. And this random sex is only a side effect. Because you are also improving your social game, yes, even platonic interactions, with other men, helps, because being socially smooth i… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/15 04:11 AM |
| 3 | Is it alright for a LTR to be talking with men who she knows like her?If nothing is going on, I personally wouldn't care. In one of my past relationships, my GF at the time went on a business trip, and asked me if she could go to dinner with one of her old flames that happened to be there. I was okay with it. And nothing happened. If you don't trust her, you shouldn't be in a relationship with her. Why would anyone want to spend energy snooping around and worrying that their partner will cheat on them? A relationship that's being kept together only because of your… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/15 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Extremely ugly Asian dude, what should I do?First, get more muscular. I'm 177cm, I was 58kg at your age. I'm 77kg now. Some of the weight is due to age, as I'm 44 years old, but I'm in better shape than most 40 something year olds, heck I'm probably in better shape than many people 10 years younger, as there are a lot of couch potatoes out there. And I'm not even in "good shape". I could have done more, but I didn't. So with some basic efforts, you can improve a lot. If you have money, get a personal trainer, nutritionist, and chef. That … | /r/askTRP | 05/08/15 03:41 AM |
| -4 | How to exploit a girl with Daddy issues?Maybe try a PUA place. TRP has some similar concepts as PUA, but it's not PUA. It focuses more on self improvement, and how to not get fucked by women the wrong way. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/15 03:26 AM |
| 1 | If you went on a date with a girl who didn't seem interested at all in your status or wealth, would you be turned off and hope to meet more of a 'princess'?Being a "princess" has nothing to do with interest in status and wealth. Being a princess means she expects everyone to cater to her whims, it means she expects the world to revolve around her. She could be also a gold digger, she could also not give a shit about status or wealth. Unless you are actually talking about princess as a nobility? Then I don't understand this even more. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/15 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Ltr found out I'm reading TRP what to do?I don't know the right course of action. But I can tell you, in my experience, once you say okay and give in, not that it's never okay to give in, LTRs are about sacrifices, she will ask for more. It is never enough with women, she will never stop. It will be one thing then another. The easier you give in, the more often she will ask, the more justified she will feel, and the more she will expect it. The trick is picking which battles to fight. This this the battle you will fight? No one knows. … | /r/askTRP | 04/08/15 06:04 PM |
| 1 | The proud feminists of AskWomen accidentally validate RedPill truths by talking about how much they love alphas and hate betas. Oops!Absolutely. They have to save themselves. There's nothing anyone else can do for them. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/15 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Friends LTRs up, the girl slowly turns them against me. Even if I make it clear I approve of her. What the fuck?If your friend can be turned, he was never your friend. Now, it's perfectly normal to hang out less, because relationships do suck up your time. It's not uncommon for people to disappear after they get into an LTR. But they shouldn't suddenly treat you as the enemy. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/15 05:00 AM |
| 1 | You need a great social life to be interesting, but you also need to be interesting in order to have a social life...It takes hard work, dedication, and average amount of social awareness (you can improve on this unless you have some sort of clinical issue), and you'll improve your social life. Then from that, you'll become interesting. You don't need to be interesting to grow your social life, although it does help. Once your social life has grown from hard work, and you become interesting as a result, it creates a feedback loop where you social life will grow itself, as long as you don't step away from it. I… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/15 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to plate a 5 or keep working?It's up to you. In my experience, 5's have the best probability of being a good relationship partner. Women that are forgettable appearance wise sometimes will surprise you with their personalities, but at the same time, even though they are not pretty, they are not ugly either. But easier said than done. I've friendzoned cool chicks 5 n below. I'm stuck on appearances, and I pay the price for it. Every attractive woman I've been with came with a high price, and eventually superficial appearance… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/15 09:09 PM |
| 6 | Cheaters make me sick!I do, because the ones I stay in touch with don't act like this. In fact, I've gone out on double dates with my ex + her BF and me + my GF. No drama. And yes, they are aware of our history. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 31/07/15 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Too drunk to consent? You're still the rapist.That's a good point. If the several lawsuits they pay out per year is less than the federal funding they get, then there's no reason for them to change their policy... you're right. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/15 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Too drunk to consent? You're still the rapist.Actually I believe it's more about federal funding. The federal government has stated that if colleges don't do anything about "rape", they will not get funding. Except they didn't specify exactly what entails rape, how to determine it, guidelines, or any metrics that will be used to decide if the funding will be withheld. So colleges are shitting on male students because that's the least troublesome way to ensure federal funding... hey, we expelled 5 guys this semester, show me the money! It's … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/15 03:58 AM |
| 4 | What are your guys opinions on virgins?Not true. Sometimes hymen can break from exercise or accident. And all technical virgins have their hymen intact, but are no stranger to oral and/or anal sex. Hymen means nothing. If anything, bad sex is a more reliable indicator. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 10:05 PM |
| 12 | Too drunk to consent? You're still the rapist.This will not stand up in court, which is why it never went to court as rape. This is only in colleges and universities, because they are taking the easy way out by sacrificing male students to get federal funding. Eventually, they will stomp on students whose families have the financial means to fight back, as with a case I believe in UC San Diego. As more and more of these incidents happen, more and more lawsuits that colleges will lose, when finally it hit their pocket books in a negative man… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 09:51 PM |
| 2 | TRP and Marriage Counseling.I have similar thoughts from my brief experience with couples counseling. Supposedly the therapist was highly recommended from my personal friends, and in her defense, she did try to be unbiased. However, you are 100% right that people go to counseling to get allies to kick the other person around. Even when you have an unbiased therapist, they can only act based on the words that have been said, and the stories that have been told. So it ends up being the squeaky wheel gets the oil. The loudest… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/15 09:02 PM |
| 1 | You should know: You're being watched, and branded, for taking part in this subreddit.Hey I'm on there too! Awesome! Not sure what sort of contribution I've made to TRP to have earned this honor. I truly hope they send someone to lurk on TRP all day, then pick out ones that they hate to add to the list. Because that would be a gigantic waste of their life, and I would find that highly amusing. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Well..RP ConfirmedKnew the ending before I even finished reading. This is extremely typical women behavior, expect it. No one can ever understand women, not even women. But what we can do, is pattern recognition. This is a pattern that will be repeated over and over again. When dealing with women, it's okay to give them what they want, but you have to make sure you are getting what you want too. The best outcome is you both get what you want. The second best outcome is no one gets what they want. The worst outcom… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/15 07:28 PM |
| 2 | At 5'9, 145lbs I feel fine. Is this the wrong type of mentality to live by?If you are living your life the way you want, then keep doing it. Even BP guys have the right to be BP, if that is what they truly want. I've done hockey and various forms of martial arts before. 5'10", natural weight when I was active but not lifting weights was 140 ish. I'm 170-175 now, working on 180. It helped with sports, but because I also do plyometrics in addition to lifting. But gaining size is something that I want. Even without women, I'm sick and tired of looking at my skinny ass in … | /r/askTRP | 27/07/15 10:38 PM |
| 4 | Promiscuity and Why Men Are Repulsed by Women With High Partner CountsPosted links to a couple of articles, but they were not allowed on TRP. Basically, the shape of the penis is to scoop out semen left by previous men. Specifically, the coronal ridge offers a special removal service by expunging foreign sperm. According to this analysis, the effect of thrusting would be to draw other men’s sperm away from the cervix and back around the glans, thus scooping out the semen deposited by a sexual rival. Sorry, I don't buy the biology of men are repulsed by sluts. Assu… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/15 07:29 PM |
| 1 | In defense of "PUA": It is an inherently male approach - shaming it, is an inherently female defenseI always say women like euphemisms. If PUA was called "put your best foot forward", then women wouldn't be bitching about it so much. But if men called it "putting your best foot forward", then we wouldn't be men, because men use direct language - it is about picking up women. But some PUA stuff does get really crazy, like that NLP stuff. Read some women's magazines, they have crazy stuff about keeping a man too. That's their "PUA". Kettle, meet pot. Both genders are equally as shitty. The world… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/15 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do some men prefer to shit on competent women instead of learning from them?Internet people are idiots. I was playing ME3 multiplayer a while back, some dude started saying all these anti-Hispanic racial remarks against me, because my handle was vaguely Spanish sounding... except I'm not Hispanic. If you want a good multiplayer experience, you have to play with people that you know. I don't play enough games to have a group, so I just deal with randoms. Also not everyone take games seriously. Again unless you have a group, you can't expect everyone to cooperate. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/15 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Anger, bitter, and resentful for not having a chance at an awesome social life in adolescence and college years. What can I do about it now?You still sound young. Don't worry, 30's will be your best time. On top of getting your life in order and working out/diet/looking your best, you need to start hitting up on chicks. Expect to fail a lot, but each time you fail, you get better at it. You need to do some social experimentation - how much of an asshole should you be? What kind of approach angle works best for you? What kind of woman do you like? Where do you draw the line and tell the women to fuck off when they cross it (oh they w… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/15 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys smile?People like to be around other people that are having a good time. Smile is good, as long as it's an open and friendly smile, not a pervy, creepy, or goofy smile. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/15 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Woman's Hamster Explodes Across The Sky When A Guy Tells Her She Isn't His Type.This is actually in line with OKCupid data mining. Asian men and black women have the least amount of interest from the opposite gender. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/15 06:59 PM |
| 7 | Woman's Hamster Explodes Across The Sky When A Guy Tells Her She Isn't His Type.Yup, this. Don't be stereotypical and you'll do fine. This stereotype is slowly changing anyway. A lot of Asian men are lifting religiously at the gym. Being genetically slender won't win them any body building competitions (oh don't get me wrong, there are massive Asian dudes, just not as common) , but just having a more muscular build covers up their most common weakness... being physically slender, and it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that's the most bang for the buck for self… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/15 06:57 PM |
| 23 | Woman's Hamster Explodes Across The Sky When A Guy Tells Her She Isn't His Type.Sign of the times brother. Otherwise MGTOW type movements wouldn't be so popular. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/15 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Do not underestimate the scope and effect of what you write on TRPNice, I'm jealous. I did muay thai for a while too, but never that serious. It was kind of on my bucket list, but I'm too old now. Enjoy your time there. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/15 10:30 PM |
| 137 | Woman's Hamster Explodes Across The Sky When A Guy Tells Her She Isn't His Type.You know, if you get a chick and the only bad thing you can say is that she's boring to talk to, you have a winner. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/15 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Living with female roommates?I did that for a couple of years. Then I had one girl roommate for like the next ten years. Girls are cleaner and more fussy about living details. You'll be forced to keep at least the common areas cleaner than if you had guy roommates. Sometimes they want things a certain way, like forks have to go here, and spoons have to go there. There's going to be some OCD. Generally speaking that is. There are obviously girls that are messier and dirtier than even guys. But if I have to bet, I would bet o… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/15 10:05 PM |
| 2 | My FWB wants to go out "as friends". Did i get NEXTED?FWB's are unstable by nature. Eventually one side is going to move on. You can't expect to have the same FWB until you decide to toss her every time. She could toss you too. If you are afraid of getting STD, then the safest thing to do is to either get into something exclusive or stop having sex. Having FWB is not a good solution to that, because FWB's are not necessarily exclusive. She could have more than one FWB's, and you could too. Even if you manage to secure an exclusive FWB, typically th… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/15 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Trying to fuck a girl after pitiful blue pill behaviourYou can always override your previous BP behavior by being RP now. It's considered a "positive change" in women's eyes. Don't sell yourself short and roll with it. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/15 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Should we tell a girl if we're attracted to them?Yes. If they are attracted to you already, paying them compliments will most likely "start the fire". If they are not attracted to you, then at best it won't accomplish anything, at worst marks you as a person they can use and kick around. So compliments cannot be used to start anything, it should only be used when you want to feed the fire that is already burning. Also, use it sparingly. If you do it all the time then it loses its value. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/15 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Remember the guy who dumped his fiance because she would only hold his hand after being raped but fucked her co-worker? Well here's the update...First of all, he deserves it. If he's so stupid as to take back a cheating partner, then he gets what he deserves. No sympathies. I would have just been the asshole and left. A year is a long ass time. He has done more than what he needed to do. Second, this illustrates the power of "breaking up". Women often uses "I'm breaking up with you" to force a guy to change. They don't actually want to break up, this is just something that women do, this is their language. Break up doesn't mean break up,… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/15 11:12 PM |
| 1 | This is the future you chose male feminists - stay at home dad is cucked and terms it as enlightenment.That's cool. I wish there were more men like this in the world. Then I would have the option to sleep with their wives without taking on any responsibility, and not even feel bad about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/15 09:19 PM |
| 2 | UC San Diego suspended for sexual assualt claim counter sues for lack of due process and WINS! Hope for college students everywhere!Government will withhold funding unless universities are weeding out the sexual predators. There is no specific qualifications of what that means exactly. So given that universities are run like businesses, and that money matters more than the wellbeing of several students, right now the climate is to sacrifice a minor subset of the students to get the funding. And women of course, are taking full advantage of this to get what they want... make bad decisions then blame others for it... the holy … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/15 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Having issues adopting an abundance mentalityThere's a finite amount of women, but you also have a finite amount of penial strength. Abundance mentality does not come from the number of women available, it comes from your ability to get the next one. I'm in an LTR right now. And just like most LTRs, it severely stunts your social life. But I'm not worried, should I become single again, with some time and effort, I'll re-establish my social network. That's the abundance mentality. You're not worried because you can get it done when you need… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/15 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Set up a date for tomorrow. She cancels with this excuse.IMHO, I think it is a long shot to get her to come back. She's already at a state where she's not interested, why keep investing in her? Take that same energy, and hit on other chicks. Even if you dump your energy into the next chick who happens to be neutral, you are already one step ahead. Abundance mentality says you don't give a shit. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/15 11:22 PM |
| 0 | Set up a date for tomorrow. She cancels with this excuse.I would do something polite like "Ok, hope you get over your ex soon, take care." You should ALWAYS be hitting on more women anyway. Even if this one does go on a date with you, and you end up having sex with her, you should go out and get a couple more chicks anyway. The rule is, unless you have an exclusive relationship with her, it's not exclusive. Chances are, she's lying, but you don't care, because no is a no, no matter what the reason is. You simply move on. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/15 11:18 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think of the fact that Liam Neeson declined the role of James Bond because his girlfriend said they wouldn't get married if he accepted the part?Except playing James Bond on film is a lot more classy and respectable than being a bartender at a high-end meat market bar. Sorry bartenders at high-end meat market bars. Personally I will consider any woman that restricts my major career opportunities as selfish. But maybe Liam Neeson doesn't consider playing Bond as a major career opportunity. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/15 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Why Arguing with the Plugged-In/Bluepills is Useless and What Red Pill Philosophy EntailsIt's true. I should qualify my post. It is a good thing when you rescue a fellow man to the way of TRP, they don't even have to be friends/families, they can be internet strangers, and that happens here on this subreddit every day. But... they have to be ready for it. There are many people, friends or family included, that will reject TRP. When you try to help people like that, you are actually damaging your relationship with them. TRP is pretty hardcore. People that don't want it will hate it. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/15 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Fat woman on okcupid learns the hard way that men will sleep with her - but never commit.True, I did not think of this from the perspective of children and teens. I don't have kids, I don't like kids, and I will not have kids, so my thinking usually does not include them. But you are correct and I agree with you 100%. This only applies to adults. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/15 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Why Arguing with the Plugged-In/Bluepills is Useless and What Red Pill Philosophy EntailsIf I ever talk about things like this with a BP, I would encourage their BP behavior. The more BP we have in the world, the better RP will work. It's a win-win situation, BP'ers get to be BP to their heart's content, while it benefits RP'ers. Everyone's happy. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/15 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Fat woman posts selfie after feeling "fat-shamed" goes viral on the net and is described "an inspiration"Why complain? The fact that women have these unrealistic support makes them weak. It distracts them from working hard to resolve the core of their problems. It's like making your financial problems go away by eating ice cream... sure you'll feel better, but you still don't have money to pay rent next month, so now what? Having support like this is NOT A GOOD THING. We are lucky that as men, we DON'T have support like that. It makes us stronger. It prepares us to face reality. SJWs and white knig… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/15 02:24 AM |
| 18 | Fat woman on okcupid learns the hard way that men will sleep with her - but never commit.But no, since this is a woman, let's all gather around and hug her while giving her hope and confidence that one day a quality man will appreciate her big stomach and love handles. That's a good thing. The nice guy, after getting shitted on with no support what-so-ever, will either sink or swim. This fat chick will remain fat surrounded by people telling her it's ok to be fat, and continue with her life blaming the world for her problems. I'd rather be given a choice to sink or swim. In fact, I … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/15 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Woman's Hamster Spins Into Overdrive As She Widens Her Preferences To Include Short Guys As She Crashes Into The WallTypical. I was at a house party, with post-wall women in the group. They sat around getting drunk and reminiscing about the old days. And I kept hearing stories like when they were younger they would never have dated their current husbands... blah blah. Then they friended me on facebook and wanted to hang out and stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/15 02:08 AM |
| 2 | "New York bar tackles gender pay gap by charging women 77% of bar tab"Meh, some bars have "women get in free" nights already. It's just a way to attract more women, and men will follow, except with a SJW spin. It's a marketing scheme and nothing more. I'd show up and get my chick friends to get drinks for me, and enjoy the 23% off. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/15 02:01 AM |
| 1 | What is the best way to handle talks about "racial preferences" if you are a guy?I'm an Asian guy that doesn't date Asian women (I do date Filipinas, Pacific Islander/Asian, not sure which side they fall on technically). I go after Latinas mostly, but I do branch out, well, except Asian women, that's just my preference. I'm in Los Angeles, never had problems with people giving me shit about my preference. I'd think SF would be even more progressive than LA, and people would care even less. I think those chicks are just pissed you turned them down. If the reason was they were… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/15 01:52 AM |
| 2 | I'm sick of having the conversation about 'marriage.' Is not wanting to get married something else one should keep to themselves similarly to other TRP ideas?It takes energy to argue your point. If you feel up to it, do it. But no one is going the be convinced -- you won't switch over, neither will they. If you don't feel like it, just nod and chalk it up to "if I find the right person maybe I'll change my mind", then change the subject... Speaking of marriage, did you hear about that guy that set off the fireworks on his head? That's crazy! I bet alcohol is involved. More and more people are not getting married now, so it'll be less and less of an i… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/15 01:37 AM |
| 1 | FR question: Should I out-manipulate a HB-8 world-class manipulator who is spinning several beta-orbiters?Well, it's never a good idea to stick your dick in crazy. I suppose it could be a learning experience. Remember she'll have false rape allegations at her disposal. Unless you have iron-clad proof, like a video of you two having sex at a motel in its entirety, you may still end up with thousands of dollars of legal bill to prove your innocence, and that's when things go your way. Remember women can withdraw consent in the middle of the sex act, especially since you seem to want to do more fetish … | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Do you talk about your passions and hobbies with your LTR?I do. She listens but she's not interested. I talk about music (I play too) and sports, but I don't talk about video games, which is another one of my hobbies. But that's more my problem, I treat video games like a dirty secret, I don't know why. But when she tells me about the drama at her work (she works with mostly women, anyone surprised?), or shoes, I listen, but I'm also not interested. If I could do it better, I would say get a GF that shares one of your interests. When your interests do … | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Red-pilled Wife Contemplating Divorce39 is not to late too start over, although that's from a man's perspective. Like it or not, men have longer shelf life than women. Obviously I don't know you, so my "judgment" would have more to do with stereotypes than you as an individual, and could be way off. But the way you described yourself is too good to be true. Very few women can do that for 15 years straight. That's why I asked you to look at yourself. It will benefit you immensely if you are true to yourself, and will benefit nothing… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Red-pilled Wife Contemplating DivorceI've met women in their 40's that are attractive. Granted the percentage is much much lower than women that are younger, but they are around. So it wouldn't be a stretch for you to be 39 and attractive. But that's not even the issue here, it's about your interaction between you and your husband. If your husband thinks the new and improved you is attractive, then it doesn't matter that internet guys think you're not, at least within the scope of this discussion. But back to your issue, your best … | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 07:14 PM |
| 1 | what is there to be said about the woman that jumps from relationship to relationship with very little time in-between?Sounds like she could be those people that are afraid to be single. Anyway, if you're asking what's going on in their heads, it could be fear-driven, like they are afraid to be alone, or the need for security. It could be a facade that they like to keep up... i.e. look at me I have a man. It could be ingrained in their heads by their parents that being single is being a loser. It could be competition between her friends, like when a friend gets married, suddenly it lights a fire under their ass … | /r/askTRP | 07/07/15 11:17 PM |
| 2 | what is there to be said about the woman that jumps from relationship to relationship with very little time in-between?Depends, more detail is needed. Is she just having casual relationships? Or does she actually get serious. If these casual relationships are well, casual, then she's just having fun. Some guys don't like it when women do that, but since I do it myself, I can't fault women for doing the same -- in between serious relationships I'll have a number of casual ones/bed buddies/friends with benefits, whatever. I personally think that's normal. If she goes from serious relationship to serious relationsh… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/15 07:29 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys deal with the "anti-PUA" defence shittests?It's very unrealistic. The guy failed because: 1) The neg was done in a way without frame. Unless you are a confident man, the alpha, the big fish in the pond (or at least can do a convincing job of pretending to be one), then neg will not work for you. The reason neg works is the confidence you can throw behind it. 2) The neg was not creative, interesting, or funny. 3) The purpose of the neg was to get a response out of the chick. All games revolve around getting face time. Chumps do it by offe… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/15 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Are British women worse than American women and if so why??I'm not aware British women are worse, although Southern California women certainly set the bar pretty high. If British women are to be worse, that title isn't easy to wrestle out of our local ladies' hands. But I think there's quite a bit of grass is greener thing going. I know I'm under that effect as well. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/15 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Good friend tries to fuck ex-girlfriend?Technically, she's free to fuck whoever she wants, even your "good friend". But that's the technicality regarding dating/romance. What you have between your "good friend" and you is friendship. Your good friend is breaking that friendship. Some people are hardcore and believe in "the code". I don't but I believe you should at least ask about it. So your "good friend" may not be such good friends. Also, another possibility, your ex may be lying. Verify first before deciding what to do with your f… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/15 09:52 PM |
| 10 | AWALT caught me off guardJust don't show up. Like you said, she's just hustling you. Even if this were just a normal dating situation without any hustling, would you be surprised that sometimes a chick will just flake out? Yup, that means you are free to flake out too, for any reason. This is actually a really good reason to do so. Even if you run into her again in the future, just give her some excuse and say next time you'll come in and sign up, and she better be prepared for that date, with a big smile, then never ca… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/15 09:46 PM |
| 9 | Pick up a girl from the bar. She is married.Maybe it's a true story, maybe not. Maybe there's bragging in there, maybe not, but it's certainly not unusual. I happen to know a guy at the gym, whose girlfriend was pressuring him to marrying her because surprise! She got pregnant. Turned out, he had a vasectomy. I wish I was there to see her face when he told her, but I'm just an acquaintance so there's no way I would haven been there. But there are stories floating around the gym (yup... turned out guys gossip too). Of course after she reco… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/15 09:37 PM |
| 17 | Can you be friends with a woman?Emotional tampon is when the man gets nothing back in return. It's perfectly fine to invest, if you are getting back what you want as well. For example, kind of cute girl I used to work with, kept in touch, but every time she called me it was to ask me for something. So one time I hardcore hit on her, just to see if the continued association was worth it for me... I was going to plate her, since she offered no friendship benefits. She backed off and disappeared, good. Another friend I've know fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/15 10:38 PM |
| 2 | when was the moment that you realized the red pill workedI'm old so back in my day there was no TRP. But I discovered TRP-like principles by getting punched in the face enough times. I was hitting on this hot little Filipina, she was friendly and receptive, but stopped me from going further. So I stayed nice, but I stopped caring and hit on another chick in the same social group. The Filipina changed her mind real quick, and became my GF soon after. But easy come easy go, the relationship didn't last. I was partially at fault, because back then I didn… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/15 10:18 PM |
| 1 | As the polygamy debate will soon come closer, what are the views of the Red Pill at large?China traditionally had been a polygamous patriarchy society, and had been so for thousands of years, until fairly recently (maybe last couple of hundred of years or so?). The stable dynasties have lasted hundreds of years, and the short-lived ones were probably more due to the emperor being an asshole and less due to hopeless angry young men. Even though in pre-modern China, it was men, that had many wives, I'd expect modern polygamy to be gender-neutral. I assume if the US suddenly legalizes p… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/15 10:02 PM |
| 1 | As the polygamy debate will soon come closer, what are the views of the Red Pill at large?I consider the whole marriage thing from three different perspectives. First, the living arrangement aspect, i.e. who you live with, who you sleep with. Open marriages are not illegal, as long as you only have one legal spouse. You can knock up other women while you're married, with or without the consent of your legal spouse. So polygamy is a non-issue here. All it takes is for everyone involved to agree to the arrangement (ideally, or there will be lots of hurt feelings, which is not illegal).… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/15 09:47 PM |
| 2 | My old friends are beta, not really ambitious, hate TRP, etc.Who cares about them? The less people practice TRP, the more effective it becomes. Imagine if every man is walking around being TRP, now you have to be ultra-TRP. We are afterall, each other's competition. This is balanced out by the altruism of wanting to help other men in need. So the easiest solution is to let BP be BP. Then everyone wins. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/15 08:28 PM |
| 1 | When is it time to stop gaming her?Cool. I mean they don't have to be only the ballsack emptier. But if that's the path you prefer that's fine too -- but they could take on more significant and meaningful position (no pun intended) in your life. But the key is to never sacrifice what's important in your life for women. Anyway, you know what you're doing. You're fine. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/15 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Couple that seems to break TRP's rulesThanks for the info, and taking the time to link to your source. I knew Dubai isn't as bad as some of the other middle-eastern countries. But it's good too see they are actually at the top 25%. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/15 08:14 PM |
| 1 | When is it time to stop gaming her?It's not butthurt. But I would leave it open and put the ball in their court, then move on to other women. If a woman wants you, don't worry, she will let you know. "She wants you but she accidentally forgot to get your attention" never ever happens. You can delete their number if you like. For me I don't care either way. I probably won't spend the effort to delete numbers until I get a new phone or have to do some house cleaning of my contact list. They're just not important enough to warrant i… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/15 02:33 AM |
| 0 | Couple that seems to break TRP's rulesWow... a woman in Dubai, not a good place to be. Good luck to her. First AWALT is about women's tendencies. But a woman may choose NOT to follow those tendencies. Like for example, there are a few women at work that I would fuck, that's my man-tendency. But I'm not going to, because I don't want to endanger my job, thus I'm going against my tendencies. Doesn't mean I don't want to, but that I won't do it. Same with women, and that's what AWALT is. The second they become weak and give in, they wi… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/15 02:24 AM |
| 1 | What are some late night activities you guys do to make the best out of your time?I play electric guitar. The reason I use a full digital chain is so I can play at night and not piss off my neighbors.... tube amps are loud, in fact they sound better loud. Digital stuff sound almost the same at lower volumes, or I can even put on a pair of headphones. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/15 06:49 PM |
| 3 | I do not feel masculine (I'm a babyfaced Asian nerd)It's mostly how you act, and less what you look like, although that matters too. Like TRP says, go lift weights. Being you are a slender Asian, you are probably a hard gainer. But that's ok, just get a bit of mass, even though you will not be able to look big, you can easily get ripped. Being an athletic medium sized guy with a six pack is totally within your reach, and totally within the range that chicks like. That will take care of the looks department. Baby face is non-issue. You'll be glad … | /r/askTRP | 29/06/15 07:00 PM |
| 9 | Video games are a waste of your life.I agree. Video games is entertainment. We all need some sort of entertainment to unwind; something we enjoy. It doesn't have to be video games, but it could. There's a lot to be said about doing something unconstructive and unproductive, but it helps you balance your mental sanity. With that said, if all you do is something that is unconstructive and unproductive, then you are a loser. It doesn't have to be video games. It could be... yes... getting plates. If all you do is go around and hook up… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 09:41 PM |
| 7 | Survival show exposes how betas are viewed even when they provide shelter and foodSounds about right. When women are unhappy with themselves/the situation/whatever, they will blame you for it, and minimize whatever contribution you've made. To be fair, some men do that too. When they do, we tell them to suck it up and stop acting like a woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 01:10 AM |
| 4 | How Many Corpses Do You Need To See?Is it wrong to emotionally and psychologically manipulate women? I call this "learning how to effectively communicate with women". | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 01:03 AM |
| 2 | How to avoid "drunk sleeping LMR - with FR examples"?But that is a point, we cant just tell them: open the legs or I will gtfo. Actually, that's what you're supposed to do. The difference between an asshole and a non-asshole is how you convey that information. The way you said it, is the asshole way, and even that works sometimes. You can be nice and say something to the effect that you're attracted to her but since she doesn't feel the same way, then no hard feelings, see you later. And next them is the right thing to do. Successful players aren'… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/15 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Isolation or Compound Movements Fpr A Skinny Guy?I'm a hard gainer too. Ultimately you have to try everything and see what works for you. Unfortunately everyone is different, every hard gainer is different. For me it wasn't a caloric surplus.... Tried it, I just got fat, I didn't gain more muscle mass. It turned out, it was because I was getting sick all the time. I used to get the flu or cold every time something comes around. I would get sick 4 - 6 times a year. Doctors couldn't find anything wrong, and I recovered at the normal rate as othe… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/15 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Got stood up by 2 female friendsBut in general, one guy with two or more girls that he's not banging = ultra beta. Have to disagree. Too hardcore. Friends with chicks you want to bang but you are too scared to make a move, then that's beta. Female friends serve the same space as male friends. If I want to go do XYZ, ride a bike, go kayaking, watch UFC at a bar, and I want to go with a friend, then I don't care if that friend is male or female. They just need to be chill and cool to hang out with, their gender makes no differen… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/15 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Got stood up by 2 female friendsYup, good advise. To add to that, do things you enjoy or planned on doing anyway, like the bike ride was something you were going to do anyway, with or without the chicks. Now you know they are flaky, be civil, but treat them as flaky people. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/15 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Happily married RP guys - What do you think are your chances of avoiding divorce rape / becoming second choice?Yup, I'm not as alpha as you, so I wouldn't do something like this. If I did that it'd be world war 3. I don't plan on getting married, but I am in an LTR. I wasn't able to bring my game from "dating" which I'm reasonable at, to LTR, but I'm learning. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/15 09:42 PM |
| 4 | Happily married RP guys - What do you think are your chances of avoiding divorce rape / becoming second choice?I've demonstrated my ability to do such in the past by taking the kids for surprise week-long vacations without telling her where we're going No offense, but I personally find that to be a dick thing to do to your SO. Your wife was okay with that? There was no big fight that ensued? | /r/askTRP | 17/06/15 09:17 PM |
| 6 | The women seeking rich older men to pay their university feesI agree. When you're making money that way, it's too easy. Transitioning from that into an entry position (no pun intended) using the credentials from school, which unfortunately isn't worth much in today's economy, is going to be night and day. I believe ones with strong self discipline and are well grounded can pull it off. But if they have strong discipline and are well grounded, they probably could accomplish the same without sugar daddies, and save a bit of dignity. But that's dignity and s… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/15 07:21 PM |
| 3 | OP comes to know that his brother in law is being cuckolded. Decides not to tell him.I know a lot of guys are scared to have their balls messed with, but even the "permanent" vasectomy really isn't that bad. It was out patient surgery, my insurance covered it, so I payed $30 for consultation and $30 for the actual procedure (in the US, about 10 years ago, things may have changed). For several hours after the surgery I felt like I got kicked in the balls, after that, no big deal. I didn't even take any of the vicodin the doc perscribed me. My balls swelled up pretty big and I was… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/15 09:19 PM |
| 4 | How do older guys get college girls?Had my fun in my 30's. In a LTR in my mid 40's now, so I never really tested out how well 40's will do due the LTR. Life was good to me in my 30's, but in my mind hitting the big 40 feels like time to retire, the creepy guy hitting on 20-somethings image keeps popping into my head. But it's great to hear this. So I think I'm selling myself short, and if my LTR doesn't pan out, I can still hack it. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/15 09:56 PM |
| 2 | "When unattractive men have hit on me, I have honestly been insulted. It's sort of like having an amazing degree and work experience, and someone seriously asking you if you want a minimum wage job."I'm the same way. I've passed up on less attractive women that probably would have made excellent partners for me. One of my ex-coworkers when I was much younger, I think he's a pretty good looking guy, tall, fit, blonde. His wife looks like a man, and at the time, I didn't understand why he chose to marry her. But after getting to know them better, I found out, she's an excellent wife, mother, and partner. He's a better man than I am, because I can't do that. I can't shake my preference for sup… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/15 06:03 PM |
| 1 | "When unattractive men have hit on me, I have honestly been insulted. It's sort of like having an amazing degree and work experience, and someone seriously asking you if you want a minimum wage job."Actually it's worse. After you "get them" you have to now play a different game... the relationship game. What you described is like the woman that works out and diets, puts on make up, looks pretty, and as soon as she land a guy, she stops, and blows up to be a whale. If you don't want your woman to do that, you can't do that yourself. Your "revert" is the equivalent of what I just described. You'd dump her if she did that, that's why she fucked off. Attraction/dating/meeting women is a game th… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/15 01:11 AM |
| 1 | "When unattractive men have hit on me, I have honestly been insulted. It's sort of like having an amazing degree and work experience, and someone seriously asking you if you want a minimum wage job."Good guy, asshole, either way you have to play the game. It's all about the dog and pony show. Assholes have the neg game and lies at their disposal. Good guys would want stay away from those things. But even the good guy's way doesn't mean "a saint's" way. It just means "the socially acceptable way to game", and it differes according to local dating culture. For example, one of the pieces of the puzzle is social status. Women are attracted to men of high social status. How do you gain social st… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/15 07:32 PM |
| 1 | "When unattractive men have hit on me, I have honestly been insulted. It's sort of like having an amazing degree and work experience, and someone seriously asking you if you want a minimum wage job."No big deal. When it comes to pulling chicks, the only thing that matters is your game. Once you have that, either the good guy or asshole path is just personal preference. As far as going through life, being entitled may not be such a good thing, but that's up to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/15 07:04 PM |
| 3 | "When unattractive men have hit on me, I have honestly been insulted. It's sort of like having an amazing degree and work experience, and someone seriously asking you if you want a minimum wage job."The goal, is to not care, and once you have a good formula (which a big piece of it is confidence), you stick to it no matter how the women react. This is because you do XYZ to a chick that isn't interested in you, you are an annoying loser. You turn around and do the same XYZ to her sister that does think you're cute, score. The silver lining about a chick finding you to be an annoying loser is that you don't waste any time with her. You know right away this is a dead end, and she is completely… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 06:08 PM |
| 54 | "When unattractive men have hit on me, I have honestly been insulted. It's sort of like having an amazing degree and work experience, and someone seriously asking you if you want a minimum wage job."That's because you're not entitled. It's pretty rare these days. Kudos. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Female friend wants to know why other females view her partner count negativelyBeta guys will shun an RP guy too if they found out what he's up to, and run off to the chicks to snitch on the guy. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/15 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Dates seem to go well, then I never hear from them againHere's the problem. You are selling yourself short. Some women will tell you no, that's just how it is and their SMV has nothing to do with it. I've had ugly women turn me down and hot women interested. You decide if a girl is in your league or not, you don't decide if you're in a girl's league or not. That's up to her to decide. Just because you bombed out with a low SMV chick, that doesn't mean no one higher would be interested. If you want hot chicks, go after ONLY hot chicks. Your percentage… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/15 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Are high quality girls/women incapable of being friends with former lovers?Not really. I've had some women continue to be friends, and some that didn't want to. I didn't see any patterns of high quality women wanting to be friends while low qualities ones didn't. It's is typical however, to dial back the friendship, once they (or I) get into a new relationship, out of respect for the relationship partner. Anyway, if she has feelings for you still, then the right thing to do is to stop contact. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/15 12:06 AM |
| 1 | On a date, a girl asked me, "Why should I choose you over other men? Why do you think you deserve me?" How would you respond to that?I don't have any better response than the top one. I would probably have said something like "you already did, I'm here" or something, which isn't as good. With that said, that's a very shitty thing to say. It speaks volumes about what kind of person she is. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/15 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Older woman keeps flirting and teasing me... can't get it to go to the next level. Any advice here? What can I try?Some women are just after the attention, they actually don't want anything else. This is especially true for older women, because they are not getting the same amount of attention they used to get when they were younger. When I was dating one of my ex's, she had an older female friend that was quite attractive for her age. She was single but refused to date, but feels lonely so she would always tag along with us when we go out. Which is fine, except at the end of the night, invariably she'd have… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/15 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone actually *enjoy* nightclubs? To what extent is it necessary?Different places play different kind of music. In Hollywood there's a place called Bar Sin that (used to at least) play kind of goth rock type of stuff, plus light BDSM type shows upstairs. All over L.A. you can find Latin clubs that play Spanish pop/rock + "tropical mix" stuff, like merengue reggaeton, whatever. Also you don't have to go to a club, a local bar is almost the same, just that people are more casual. Hitting bars & clubs is all about the company for me. If I go with a group of frie… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/15 09:43 PM |
| 4 | No you can't marry an ugly girl and expect her to be faithful. AWALT. No exceptions, even for uggos.There's no guarantee in life. You can't go.. ugly means faithful. Nope. These are completely independent attributes. You can say attractive women tend to be high maintanence, entitled, and self serving. And it makes sense... because they can afford be. They can have the most god awful personality but men will orbit anyway, there is no incentive for them to develop any cooperative social skills. But just because that may be true, it doesn't mean the reverse is true, that ugly women are somehow be… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/15 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Life in your 30s as a male in the that decided not to get married or start a family.That's why when you are growing your social network, you are purely just growing your network. You are not trying to find hot chicks, you're not even trying to find true friends. Out of the 120 people that showed up to my birthday party, really only a handful are my real friends, the rest are just party friends. When my life is shit, the party friends will disappear. But when I'm partying and meeting new people, I'll meet through those party friends. My real friends are the quiet types that hang… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/15 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Introducing redpill to a teenagerYou shouldn't introduce TRP to anyone. They have to find it. TRP is very controversial, plus beta guys would treat you like the enemy and throw you under the bus. Imagine his mom calls you angrily because she found out you were teaching him mysogyny. Let him fail, then when he's picking himself backup, give him a little nudge in the right direction. Suffering is the best lesson, don't deny him that experience. What's more important is you don't want him to stay a beta for too long. Ideally, you … | /r/askTRP | 27/05/15 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Guys who have had a lot of sex - do you care less about a girl's partner count?I wouldn't say I've had "lot's of sex", probably pretty average. Everytime I become single I'd sleep with several women before I go into the next LTR, which I think is pretty common. Your friend definitely has higher number than I do. Partner count only matters in the extreme, as in extremely high or extremely low. Both could be red flags for something bad. I won't write them off immediately, a red flag is only a possibly indicator. But I'd move forward carefully, keep both my eyes open, and one… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/15 03:09 AM |
| 0 | Best shape of my life, healthy dread game, healthy life outside of LTR. Sex is still drying up.I think maybe she wants more commitment. All those things you said makes sense, but women don't make sense. They want that commitment/security, if they don't get it, all your other efforts will be minimized. If you sit down and talk to them about careers and all that, they will understand logically, but emotionally it hasn't changed anything. They want that commitment/security even if it means both of you will end up in financial hardship. Women are simply not wired the same way as we are, prior… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/15 02:59 AM |
| 15 | Life in your 30s as a male in the that decided not to get married or start a family.30's is the golden age for dating for men, I think men should either get married early because that's what they want, and give up the single life, or get married later so they can spend their 30's to do their single life the right way. You are going into a decade where as a man, you are the most sought after. You still have looks, you have better game (from practicing in your 20's), and you have more financial stability. Women in their 20's will prefer you over other men in their 20's.... I regu… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/15 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Duet partner suddenly ditches me. How should I respond?Well, not just chicks do this, guys do this kind of crap too. I've been bouncing around bands and doing gigs and what not for a while. Muscians are flaky... she's a flaky musician, end of story, has nothing to do with gender. Sure, her reason for flaking is a chick one... she wants to hook back up with Alex, but you don't need this type of reason to be flaky.... Smoked too much weed, can't make band practice... whatever. If you are in anything more than a beer band, drop men and women like this.… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/15 09:14 PM |
| 1 | With perfect condom use, 20 in 100 women will get pregnant over a ten year period. With normal use, the number is 86 in 100. Vasectomy: 2 in 100.2% chance most likely include people that didn't properly follow up with the testing, and stopped using protection without verfication. Vasectomy procedures do fail, but when they fail, they almost always fail right away, and is easily caught with testing. If I remember correctly, you need to get tested twice at a minimum of a certain time periods apart, only then will the procedure be considered a success. Once the procedure is successful, spontaneous reattachement of the vas deferens is possib… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/15 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Mad Max: Fury Road is indeed feminist (mild spoilers).Wow you guys know about this a lot! Thanks for the info. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/15 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Mad Max: Fury Road is indeed feminist (mild spoilers).Wow, thanks for letting me know that. I thought Arnold was Conan in that movie... | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/15 05:24 AM |
| -2 | Mad Max: Fury Road is indeed feminist (mild spoilers).Because I read a bunch of posts about WHY people don't like it. If I were commenting about the intricate plot or whatever I don't know about then yes. But I'm commenting on what people have already said, that Charlize Theron was more of the main character, and I'm commenting on that. And also I didn't read the side bar, and I've been posting plenty of times. Why don't you get the mods to ban me. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/15 05:22 AM |
| 1 | One month later: "What's the deal with you? Married? Dating someone? Or just not interested?"You seem like you're not interested. Just tell her, why bother playing around like this when you don't want anything from her? It's drama for nothing. If you are interested, then nice play in the beginning, but you failed to follow up... that is where you screwed up. You can go out with her, but she'll throw the shit test at you of why it took you so long. Tell her something like you just didn't feel the spark, but why not, let's give it a shot. Sparks could come later. Anyway that's how I would… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/15 09:34 PM |
| 1 | 'If only you were a couple inches taller ):'Sounds like a bitch. Bullet dodged. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/15 09:26 PM |
| 16 | Mad Max: Fury Road is indeed feminist (mild spoilers).Disclaimer, have not seen the movie. To me, this is a bait and switch but it doesn't have to be a gender one. Mad Max is about Mad Max. He has to be to hero, the main character. If they made another guy.. Mad Maurice, who is Mad Max's long lost brother, as the main hero, I'd be like... WTF?? It's perfectly fine having strong female roles, like Tina Turner. But in a Mad Max film, Mad Max has to be number one, which he was in the originials. If they made a Tomb Raider movie where Lara Croft was pl… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Boring Unfulfilling Well-Paying Job?Use your extra money and your free time to do something worth while to you. You work so you can live your life. You are lucky that your work rewards you well financially but does not cut into your free time or drain your energy. Don't make work your life, it's simply a vehicle to allow you to live your life. The only issue I would worry about, is that if you do lose your job, have you lost the edge to get a new one? That doen't apply to all industry, but in the tech industry where I'm in that is… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/15 07:30 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to "You don't know how to talk to girls" shit-testMy dick does the talking just fine. She doubts this... call her out, why don't you try it out and find out for yourself. Unlike you, I'm going to say something positive. I like your boobs. I see, you are a lesbian trying to hook up with my sister because you think I'm good looking and it runs in the family. Women like this are generally not worth it. Do it for social experimentation, but beyond that they are pretty worthless. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/15 10:23 PM |
| 1 | "People Die From Exercising Like That."Wear it with pride. It means you are on the right track. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/15 09:42 PM |
| 5 | [PSA] Mad Max: is a ‘Feminist Action Film’ - Don't expect a masculine movieThat's too bad, I was looking forward to it, I really liked the original Mad Max movies. Going on a tangent, watch Ex Machina instead. It's a nerdy philosophical thriller I guess, not an action film, so it could be slow for some people looking for Hollywood style entertainment. It may even have feminist themes (at least one "interpretation" I read, but personally I thought it was kind of a stretch), but it clearly shows alpha and beta types. If it was written with feminist ideas in mind then it'… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/15 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Help navigating a LTR that went from her cheating to being an open relationshipShe's nicer to you now not because you are more important to her, or more attractive to her, but because she knows she screwed up, and this is what she thinks she needs to do to keep you around. Well, are you ok with open relationship? What would be the mental and psychological impact an open relationship will have on your kid? Without your kid, if you're into it, do the open relationship thing. Why not. That means you can go out and sleep around with other women. Sounds pretty good to me. Altho… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/15 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Losing my hair at a very young age. I feel like I will never get intimate with a girl ever again.Shave it and own it. You'll do fine. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/15 09:01 PM |
| 1 | What is the female version of the "Nice Guy"?What nice guys do is befriend a chick, then turn on the romance. When the romance isn't reciprocated, they flip out. This is called bait and switch, and is the corner stone of what makes a nice guy, a "nice guy". The equivalent is a chick that is totally down for NSA sex, bed buddies, whatever. Then after sex, they change their minds and wants something more. If that is not reciprocated, they flip out. Again, bait and switch. Now if both cases, the nice guy and the equivalent nice girl just acce… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/15 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Is it a good idea to hit on the girls who've known you for being blue pill?Once you've demonstrated you're no longer beta, they will be pleasantly surprised. It's not who you were, it's who you are now. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/15 07:41 PM |
| 6 | Is my sister NAWALT?Maybe she has low self esteem, and does not believe she will succeed at hypergamy.... she has the tendency, but she's selling herself short. Just a guess. With that said, there's nothing wrong. She and her BB husband may end up being happier than most couples. The more AWALT a woman is, the less likely she'll find happiness. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/15 07:26 PM |
| 5 | Why men aren't helping women and children anymore: Woman sparks a witch hunt after a man takes a selfie near her children.Do not associate with anyone under 18, period. If a child is in danger, I'll do my best to contact authority, but I will not help the child myself. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/15 07:10 PM |
| 3 | I dont know how to develop a abundance mindset? Any pointers?The problem is, logically you know this is true... there are plenty of women... but emotionally you don't feel it. This is because you haven't had much success (I assume), and it goes into a negative feedback loop. You need to change that feedback loop to positve. To fix this, do what women do... use practice partners. Women flirt with men they have no interest in for entertainment and practice. They use men (betas) as emotional tampons and boyfriend substitutes to do all the heavy lifting but g… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/15 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Am I (f,23) really the unreasonable one in this situation? (fuck buddy, anal sex)Yup this. OP, if he wants anal, you don't, then you two aren't sexually compatible afterall. Just like if you really like your pussy eaten, and you hook up with a guy that will not go down on you. Well... it is what it is, neither of you are wrong, you are just not compatible. If you are just looking for a fuck buddy, it's actually easier for women to get sex than it is for men. If both of you don't have someone on the side and you are starting from zero, I bet you can find another fuck buddy wi… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/15 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Is this the way to act when my gf tells me other men hit on her?This happens to me once in a while. I just get amused, sometimes I'd comment on their approach, as in style/effectiveness... etc, if enough details was given to me. But I don't really care much. When I'm single I hit on other women, so I can't fault other men for doing the same, as long as it doesn't escalate to harassment level. But I've never been in an LTR with a psycho women that would go out and intentionall cause this to happen. Usually after they tell me they'd downplay it and throw in ho… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/15 11:49 PM |
| 2 | White Knights of Justice convict couple for having sex on the beach. Both have to register as sex offenders. 40yo man faces harsher sentence than 20yo woman.News and mass media in general is the same way. People talk about fucked up things. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 09:57 PM |
| 1 | How do YOU deal with the casual "..well my bf..."It seems fine to me. As long as you finish up the conversation, and you stayed polite, I don't see what the problem is. Talking about her BF doesn't mean she has a BF, it means she's not interested. Say she has a BF but she wants to cheat on him with you... she won't be mentioning anything about a BF either... | /r/askTRP | 04/05/15 07:35 PM |
| 1 | [SERIOUS] What is TRP's opinion on a hair piece/modern wig as an alternative to baldness, especially when it comes to raising SMV?Nah, shave. And this is coming from a guy with long hair most of my life, and I'd have random women, and men, comment about my hair, and many women would "break the ice" with me by talking to me about my hair -- I do long hair well, but I'm balding. Once it thins enough, I'm shaving it. Nothing creepier than a balding long hair guy. I already donate to Locks of Love, when that day comes it'll be my last donation. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/15 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Can too much confidence repel womenCold approaches have very low percentage of success. That's just how it is. Not a big deal. But you probably could use a better come-back line, I'm drawing a blank right now, so I would have ended up the same as you. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/15 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Can too much confidence repel womenNot necessarily, just go with the flow and roll with it. It's possible that once you demonstrate you don't give a fuck, suddenly they want a piece of you. You just do your thing. Fuck all of them, none of them, it's all up to you. The "your confidence is annoying" girl sounds like a bitch though. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/15 06:47 PM |
| 1 | How does a woman's n-count devalue her?I'm with you. High n-count at best is a possible indication of other problems, but by itself is not a problem for me. Low n-count is also a possible indicator of other problems, like for example, unusual sexual inhibition, etc. I've learned that to function well in a society, by default you have to conform. You don't have to, but you better have a good reason for it, and be prepared to suffer the consequences. So the best n-count to have is "average", whatever that means, because unusually high … | /r/askTRP | 24/04/15 06:43 PM |
| 1 | fucking married womenMaybe so, but it's pretty low down on the list sorted by importance. I think it's up to the participants of the marriage more so than some random third party, to uphold the institution that is marriage. If the only way a marriage will not break down is if there is no third party approaching the marriage, and the second that happens the SO will jump ship... I don't think that fits the spirit of marriage very well. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 06:34 PM |
| 1 | fucking married womenI'm glad there are people like you that actually believe marriage. I don't, but I live my life my way, you live your life your way, and regardless I have respect for people that are willing to go the extra length to stick to their principles. You have my respect. I have slept with someone's girlfriend, that was about it, never someone's wife. I don't feel bad about it, the fact that it happened means their relationship has issues, I was only the symptom. I feel the way I do because I distinguish… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Can too much confidence repel womenNo matter what your game is, some will will get repelled, due to their past experiences or whatever, and has nothing to do with you. It's important to pick the right angle/game, but it's also important to have the confidence in yourself to stick with it, and not change just because a few chicks reacted a certain way. With your example, the chick that says your confidence is annoying, it's because she has low self esteem herself, and she's trying to 1) cut you down to make herself feel better, 2)… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/15 06:11 PM |
| 2 | "The friendzone is a gift fools!"Female friends, good. Female friends willing to set you up, even better. Friendzone, not good. They are not the same things. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/15 11:22 PM |
| 1 | How to act when offered to go to dancing?Dance. If you can actually dance, bonus points. But if you just wing it and appear to have a good time doing it, whether you are actually a good dancer or not doesn't matter, it gets you props for having the balls to do it, and everyone like people that are having a good time, that's pretty universal. BTW, learn to dance. I met a shit ton of women through dancing. I'm a working professional so dance classe is small money. I took a bunch of dance classes. Granted I did social partner dancing (yes… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/15 10:11 PM |
| 1 | She was late to first date and I left without waitingYeah, that what I figured, I tend to do the same. But I'm trying to see it from different perspectives, maybe there are better ways to handle this than to say something you feel is complete bullshit... sure you wanted to end the argument, but you don't think she's right and you're wrong. End result is the same... walk away, but for me personally, I'm trying to change how I walk away. So what are you going to do? If she contacted you maybe she wants a second shot at first date? Because really whe… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/15 01:20 AM |
| 1 | She was late to first date and I left without waitingCool, thanks for this. This is good to know. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/15 01:15 AM |
| 2 | FR:LTR asks me to pay full rent so she can pay off her debts.Kettle, meet pot. http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/30hrau/awalt_a_historical_perspective/ AWALT doesn't mean all women behave the same, it just means they are driven by the same instincts. Some women do override their instincts because of their principles or beliefs. That's not saying you or I or the OP will find a woman that's AWALT in instinct but not AWALT in behavior. We could look our entire life time and not find one. It's akin to winning the lottery. People win lottery all the … | /r/askTRP | 21/04/15 11:22 PM |
| 1 | She was late to first date and I left without waitingIs that really passive aggressive? To me it seems like he didn't even care to argue, and he just wanted to ended it. Maybe should he have said this conversation is over, then end it? What a good way to end an argument that you don't care enough to continue? | /r/askTRP | 21/04/15 11:04 PM |
| 1 | FR:LTR asks me to pay full rent so she can pay off her debts.Exactly, this is the type of question that men need to ask themselves before commiting to something drastic. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/15 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Why do you guys hate on movie dates so much? I've had continued success with them as a first date.If it ain't broke, why fix it. We all have certain things that work for us. If it works, keep doing it. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/15 06:50 PM |
| 3 | I have a MicroPenis (3.5"). I've come to realize I might never find a girlfriend. RedPill please I need your help because no other sub will.In addition to this great answer, I believe this could be a medical condition. I don't know much about it, but I do remember something about this. Have you talked to your doctor? I don't know if anything can be done, but it's worth a shot I think. I've briefly dated an ex-stripper that had an ex with a micro penis. So I know they do get around. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/15 06:19 PM |
| 5 | How do you deal with "off-days".Do something fun and non-constructive (but not destructive). Like binge watch your favorite show, play video games all day, something you do by yourself, where you don't have to worry about being alpha or whatever. It's just you. I call these recharge days. Keeps my sanity going. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/15 05:18 PM |
| 4 | FR:LTR asks me to pay full rent so she can pay off her debts.Probably the unpopular view here, but I agree. If you get cancer one day, is she going to stick by you? LTR worthy women are worthy of this type of help. But the problem is you never know. If you are thinking of bailing already, maybe you're not into her in the first place. In that case, bail. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/15 05:00 PM |
| 4 | How to not look like a player?When accused of being a player: Thank you, I take that as a compliment. Wow, you must think I'm hot. When asked if you're talking to other women: I'm just a single guy doing single guy things (charming smile) They're just trying to put you on the defense. If they want to fuck a guy, they will, player or not. They blocked you most likely because you failed the test by trying to prove to them that you're not a player. You should not give a fuck. Don't admit to it, but don't deny it either. Turn it… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/15 01:43 AM |
| 1 | If society fully admitted being nice doesn't get men laid, then people would realize that women are fucked up. If women are fucked up then feminism is indefensible.Yes, I agree. The result would be different. But it's because men are straight forward... we want you to change so we will like you better, vs, we want you to change because... well actually we're just testing you. But on the receiving end, regardless of the results, it's annoying to have someone that initially wanted you, then suddenly have all these additional requirements. If you can land a personality girl then somehow change her to a 9, AND have her stick around, go for it. I personally wou… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/15 08:54 PM |
| 11 | [FR].. What the fuck just happened? Is there such a thing as being too RP?Yes this. I've screwed up like this before too. Remember women change their minds all the time, their decisions tend to be emotion based and not logic based. So you have to strike while the iron is hot. A large part of hooking up is being at the right place at the right time. Don't get me wrong, it's perfectly fine to walk away like you did, because there will always be another one right around the corner, but just don't expect to pick up where you left off. But you're doing well, I wouldn't wor… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/15 06:54 PM |
| 1 | AWALT - List of qualifications from a female 'friend' for dating materialLow self esteem, and entitlement is her lazy temporary way of fixing her low self esteem.... If I don't accept anything less than best, it's because I'm the best. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/15 06:14 PM |
| 3 | If society fully admitted being nice doesn't get men laid, then people would realize that women are fucked up. If women are fucked up then feminism is indefensible.Exactly, this is what makes nice guys the bottom of the barrel people. They over invest, regardless if their investment is wanted or not, then expect a pay out later. It's like those scammers in tourist areas where they hand you a trinket then expect you to pay for it. This strategy is bad for everyone. It's expensive and ineffective for the perpetrator, annoying and insulting for the target woman, and cringingly pathetic for all third party observers. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/15 06:01 PM |
| 1 | If society fully admitted being nice doesn't get men laid, then people would realize that women are fucked up. If women are fucked up then feminism is indefensible.Not really. I mean yes, but a lot of people that are fat because they DON'T want to do the work to lose the fat. Given both choices, staying fat is the lesser evil to them. My point is, coming from a guy with a glaring defect for women with superficial attractiveness, if fat is an issue, you can't be with a woman that is fat then expect her to lose it. If you do that, you are just like those women that as soon as they have you locked down, they proceed to attempt to change your life. Let fat peo… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/15 05:47 PM |
| 6 | Turns out I'm the beta bux.If she's into shaming, she'll do it even if she is 100% at fault. Women are good at that. How many times have you heard a woman playing the victim and blaming the world when it's actually her own fault? Granted not every woman is like this, I have met and been with low-drama women, they do exist. But I have a feeling the OP's hopefully soon-to-be-ex isn't one. So as far as I'm concerned this is a non-issue. Whether shaming will occur or not depends 100% on how much of a drama-whore the woman is,… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/15 06:36 PM |
| 1 | First post on TRP. Trying to swallow the pill. Any advice is much appreciated!Don't take it so seriously and it won't feel like "patience". | /r/askTRP | 15/04/15 11:22 PM |
| 1 | First post on TRP. Trying to swallow the pill. Any advice is much appreciated!My friend, quantity is what counts. Don't spend that much effort so quickly. The more effort you spend the lower you've placed yourself on the social pecking order scale, because to them, your generosity is making up for your deficiencies. They want goodies? Not until after you get what you want. Practical example: Limit first dates to "coffee dates", where the most you'll do is pay for that cup of coffee. Try to shoot for 30 minutes of chatting and within that time, set up a real date for next … | /r/askTRP | 15/04/15 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Helping a beta backfired on me...Haha... sorry, happens all the time. Don't help betas, first thing they'll do is to run to women with this information. They don't want to be helped. The only way they can get out of it is to discover it for themselves, which is akin to having enough faith to jump off a cliff, because it goes against the world that they know and understand. Unless you know a guy has already jumped off that cliff, don't help him. Let betas be betas. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/15 06:54 PM |
| 2 | When a girl says she's not interested in you, what's the best way to learn why so you can figure out what you did wrong and better yourself?You don't, because it doesn't matter. You improve yourself to the best version of yourself according to YOU, not according to some random chick. Best thing to do when you get turned down is to not care, and hit on the next chick. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/15 09:18 PM |
| 3 | So you’re a boring fuck: How to become interesting in 3 Easy Steps [Part 1]This is very true, but it's also probably the most expensive way to increase your value in the eyes of women. I personally believe you should do these things for yourself, then as a bonus, women will think you're interesting. The reason I say this is because many of these undertakings will take A LOT of resources... time, dedication, and probably money. These capabilities are worth value because they are difficult to do. So unless you have genuine interest, you will bail out, or do it very uncon… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 07:22 PM |
| 3 | I have *feminine* interests like drawing, literature, and poetry. I feel ashamed. What do you think?Use it to meet women. I dance, in addition to martial arts, hockey, gym, and playing musical instruments. Didn't really meet many women doing martial arts or playing hockey. Met a bunch of cool dudes though. Playing musical instrument is actually a private activity. 95% of the time I stay in my bedroom practicing. When I play gigs I do my thing and leave. So I suppose if I giged more and stuck around after I could use that to meet women. But I don't want to leave my gear around and get stolen. B… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/15 02:36 AM |
| 19 | Reddit CEO bans salary negotiations because women are poor negotiators.Yes this. Corporate America is structured to reward the executive team for short-term gains. The easist way to achieve short term gains is to sacrifice long term stability. Most corporations use these types of strategy to different degrees. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/15 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Reddit CEO bans salary negotiations because women are poor negotiators.Yet corporations keep doing it. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/15 01:27 AM |
| 16 | One of my best friends was blue pill beyond repair, last night he swallowed the red pill and "everything clicked"I was hanging out with a couple of bandmates. I was a bit older than them, so I've been punched in the face plenty by women and their ways. Bandmate #1 was young, but he was way ahead of me in terms of dealing with women, so we share views similar to TRP. Bandmate #2, total BPer. We were trying to tell bandmate #2 RP ways, he just got mad at us, and ran to his female friends and "snitched" to them about our evil RP ways. I didn't care because those chicks weren't my friends anyway. But they were… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/15 09:04 PM |
| 7 | My 21 year old friend was divorce raped and financially crippledI never plan on getting married. But it's not for everyone. I happened to have grown up in a dysfunctional family, I have never had a good model of what a good marriage looks like. So you can say it's really easy to not miss something I don't even know exists. With all the risks and downsides of modern marriages, and my inablility to see the upsides since I have never even observed it... it was a no brainer decision. But we all gravitate toward and try to recreate certain early happy times from … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/15 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Look out for yourself. You'll never be happier.Yes, and as a bonus, people will respect you more too. Win - win situation. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/15 07:24 AM |
| 4 | Being RP aware and wanting childrenI think it's about biting the bullet and do the traditional marriage, with this difference. You select the woman based on: Her ability to be a good mom. You two are capable of working together to achieve difficult common goals (raising kids and dealing with life) without choking each other out. When conflicts arise... and they will... you two have complementary style that will help diffuse the situation as opposed to digging in and starting the next world war. And none of this sounds sexy. Want … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/15 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Birth Control, Soy Sauce and the Death of Big T. (Testosterone)Never heard that soy thing before. Google phytoestrogen in soy. My take away is for normal healthy individuals, the phytoestrogen in soy won't make any difference unless you eat huge amounts of it. But then again, pretty much almost all foods if you eat huge amounts of it, something bad is going to happen. I don't stay away from soy, but I don't eat soy protein products. I prefer whey protein. I do like steak n eggs though. I'd eat them even if they don't provide protein. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/15 07:00 AM |
| 2 | NEVER get married - Fred Reed has taken the pillI was just with my buddy at the bar today watching hockey. He was telling me how his ex-wife from 12 years ago is trying to fuck him over with child support (he's not a deadbeat, he pays his court appointed child support plus more every month since the day they divorced... she wanted to more than double it), because she needs money... Then he said... don't get married. I knew that already. Unless you want kids, like my buddy, then you have to take the risk, or you're a loser looking for a chick … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/15 06:46 AM |
| 2 | [FR] "Why do you hate me so much?"Chicks like this are definitely not family material. But you may want to remove that virgin girl from your list of qualifications. Trust me, being virgin isn't a virtue that will help you in marriage. What you need is a dependable woman that adds to your life instead of take away from it. She needs to be someone that have compatible style with you when it comes to conflict resolution. An entitled bitchy virgin girl with access to lawyers will make your life hell, even after you divorce her. Virg… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/15 06:39 AM |
| 1 | FR: AWALT, My LTR after surgery drops bombs.Yes, I agree with you 100%. Like I said, I recognize this as my fault. I wish I can answer that "why". If I could maybe I'll get over it. As of now, that's not the case, so I don't have an answer for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/15 06:15 PM |
| 3 | FR: AWALT, My LTR after surgery drops bombs.Agree 100%. But I don't want a family life. No marriage no kids. I plan on dying alone. And also, I can't get past physical appearances... Sadly. I admit my superficiality is one of my many faults. I know I'll start to have better LTR if I can get past that. But I can't for some reason... | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/15 04:33 AM |
| 15 | FR: AWALT, My LTR after surgery drops bombs.Yeah, when I was in my late 30's I hooked up with a girl that was in her late 20's. I was the second man she had ever been with. She married right out of highschool, stayed married for 10 years, divorced, and then unfortunately ran into to me. I believe her 100%, she's that type of woman. She's also maybe a 4-5 on the looks scale... she's a personality girl, but is a great mother and great wife, and very pleasant to be with. I actually stayed away from her at first because she felt like such a n… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/15 01:56 AM |
| 4 | Don't take dating or game seriouslyWhen a woman is into you, she'll make it "easy" for you. But she won't make it "easy" for me, because she's not into me. So she's not universally easy. I agree with the OP. When you hit on women, you are not changing anyone's minds, or "earning" anything. You are finding out which ones out of this group has a thing for you already, then build on that. Ones that don't most likely won't change their minds unless you really do some serious acrobatics. Even then all you've managed to do is upgrade t… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/15 08:39 PM |
| 5 | Dove study finds most women believe they are average looking; Dove finds results inadequate and vows revengeHaha, even Dove uses PUA tactics... taking advantage of women's insecurities about their physical appearance. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/15 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Contact Marriage: New Way to Approach MarriageWell, if we're going for the absolute worst possible outcome, there are many other ways a woman can screw a man over. If a woman is willing to use the squatter's law against you, even if she's not a live-in girlfriend, she'll find other ways to screw with you. I guarantee it. So yes, I agree with you, but not having her become a live-in girlfriend doens't buy you much. The root cause is you are with a woman with no scruples. Also the OP is young (20?), most likely he'll be renting. If that happe… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/15 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Contact Marriage: New Way to Approach MarriageIt's very non-traditional, and you'll have a harder time finding a woman that is willing to do this, than to find a woman that's a good mom to your children, even though she annoys the fuck out of you. Having family is an extremely difficult task. Even if you manage to find a model spouse, your kids will make you pull all your hair out. I don't think there's a solution, other than just to find ways to deal with it. You're only 20 years old. Get a live-in girlfriend first. Learn how to deal with … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/15 01:36 AM |
| 1 | I want to bring up the elephant in the room. Rejections that truly attack you as a human beingI've had attractive women that want me and unattractive women that reject me. Don't let this get to you. It means nothing. Women don't know what they want. Or rather, what they want changes often, and is based on their mood at the time. So you may have simply approached her at a bad time. Related, this is also why quantity works. The more you try, the more chances you'll get where a woman will say yes to whatever it is that you're after. Sure, having game helps, but sometimes, it could just be s… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/15 01:25 AM |
| 19 | One of the most clear cases of entitlement I've experienced over the weekendAnd the thing is, men that DO give in to women with these entitlement issues, are not thought of as the generous or altruistic man. These men are thought of as dumb by the same women that received their generosity. I'm sure I've told this story here before, but here it is again. At some festival, my bandmate who is way younger than I am was having a good time chatting up women of his age. Befriended a cute one. She told him she could get guys to give her money, and quickly demonstrated this by a… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 10:34 PM |
| 4 | I finally told the girl who used me all year for school work I wouldn't help her anymore.The most important thing is that you learned a valuable lesson. Right now you're in college, it's about grades and social happening that won't even matter a few years from now. This is the time to learn from your mistakes. She did you a favor, although obviously not out of kindess on her part. She showed you what you have to do to guard yourself against users in the future. I wouldn't say every woman you meet will be like this, but I will absolutely fucking guarantee you this is not the last you… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Example of woman using the excuse of being 'emotionally abused' to justify leaving her boyfriend of a year for her 'best friend'.There is a section of TRP that is here to talk about theories and strategies. There is a section of TRP that just want to get mad at women. The latter are probably the ones downvoting. But in their defense, although they will downvote this post to oblivion, it seems to me TRP is also kind of a support group, so it's okay for them to be here and get it out of their system. I went through these phases myself, where I get really angry at women, make some life changes, feel better, hook up with wome… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/15 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Feminism: It's not about equality, its about inequality that favors women.It was an anecdotal story improperly used, but his point was gender shouldn't be used to get a freebie to physically attack someone. You punch someone, expect the other person to punch back. Then you both go to jail. I don't think that's unreasonable. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/15 09:52 PM |
| 2 | AWALT - A Historical PerspectiveThanks for the explanation. I think I misinterpreted AWALT to mean something that's too straight forward and absolute, which is why I originally disagreed with AWALT, and was thinking more of MWALT... | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/15 09:10 PM |
| 0 | Feminists accidentally agree with a Red Piller in r/relationships. Red Piller gets banned, all comments culled.Not all feminists are the same. Some are actually interested in equality, but many are just bigots. The mods have demonstrated what type of feminists they are. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Dread game > friend zone [FR]She already did all this with the OP and still considers herself a virgin. She's obviously a technical virgin. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Dread game > friend zone [FR]I think you're good. Some people prefer hardcore TRP, which isn't a bad thing, but I don't think it's for everyone. Everything is in shades of grey and not just black and white, so your version of TRP, as long as it works for you and that's what you want, is good enough. Not everyone is in a race to get the highest score on the TRP score card. And for those that are racing to the top, mad respect for being dedicated, but not everyone is into it. I've done the same, more than once, to break the f… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 10:12 PM |
| 3 | The red pill are a bunch of bigots who can't get laid.Everytime someone post hateful things about TRP, it only increases the number of people that will discover and subscribe to TRP. That's how I discovered TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/15 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Difference in how casual sex affects men and womenHey thanks for typing out this reply. It kind of made sense you're not Amercian. The way you think is pretty different from what I'm used to. The dating and sexal climate is very differnet here, and I'm in the Los Angeles area, meaning it's fairly cut throat and aggressive, even compared to other parts of America. Your post is what some women would tend to tell me. Balanced and logical. But those same women would turn around and behave like a typical LA woman once the game is on. Not saying you'… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Difference in how casual sex affects men and womenCool, thanks for the point of view, always great to see women on TRP. I propose, which I could be wrong, that the logical side of good girls don't envy these type of attention, but emotional side does anyway. Attention is like money. Sure more money may bring more trouble, but people want it anyway. My theory... which I could be wrong. So I have a question then. It is my observation that women tend to be harder on "sluts" than men. If good girls don't care for the type of attention "sluts" get l… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 01:04 AM |
| 35 | I've slowly watched my divorced co-worker become red pill in front of my eyes.200k doesn't automatically give you success. You still have to know how to use it to your advantage. Kind of like being a musician. Chicks (some anyway), really like musicians. I know musicians that are fucking everything with a vagina and ones that can't even land a chick to save their lives. These are tools that can be used, but you still have to know how to use the tools, and actually use them. Bottom line, 200k a year is better than no 200k a year, just another tool to make things easier for… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 09:41 PM |
| 10 | Difference in how casual sex affects men and womenI think they feel empowered and validated. But at the same time, ostracized. Hence women want to be sexually desired, but at the same time fear the social repercussions. And social repercussions come more from other women than men. The reasons are I believe could be a combination of... The "slut" gets more attention, therefore the slut wins in the who-can-get-more-attention game. Attention is the currency when dealing with women. The "slut" is doing something the "good girl" wants to, but can't … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Even feminist shithole Slate agrees: "choreplay" doesn't get you laid.Even without bringing in controversial topcs of feminism/TRP, at it's basics, correlation isn't causation. Couples that share chores also have more sex. It is jumping to conclusion that sharing chores causes more sex. Why not the other way around? Couples that have more sex causes men to do more chores, so ladies, you want that load of laundy done? Take a load yourself first. Misinterpretation of statistics. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 09:58 PM |
| 2 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.Yeah, AWALT until proven otherwise. I don't believe in pure 100% unadulterated AWALT, because the world is a big place, some chick is going to be different. Despite being a pessimist, I'm not an absolutist, not even about pessimism. But that would be largely a philosophical discussion/disagreement with the hard-line AWALT people, and it is of academic interest but without much practical application. Because even if there's a gem at the end of the earth, let's face it, we can spend an entire life… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 09:26 PM |
| 2 | The vaccine for oneitis: Always be approaching women.That's why I always try to date more than one woman at a time. I wasn't think of being in a position of power, it's just being smart by not putting all of your eggs in one basket. Plus I act like an idiot when I'm afflicted with oneitis and most likely will screw things up. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Understand your womenSome good stuff here. I have to remember this for my next scheduled drama moment. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 11:37 PM |
| 3 | AskReddit gives hundreds of examples on how women will hide things until after marriageWhich is why I think cohabitation is very important before marriage. It's more likely that people will slip up and show their true colors during cohabitation. Not fool-proof of course, but IMHO it helps. Also that's why I believe you need overwhelming evidence/desire/reason to get married, as opposed to the cultural norm which is you have to explain why you don't want to get married. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/15 09:53 PM |
| 30 | "Guys never hit on me"LOL, here's one of my favorite jokes, although it's an oldie, but surprisingly insightful. How many women does it take to change a light bulb? Just one. She holds the light bulb while the world revolves around her. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/15 09:28 PM |
| 0 | The facets of AWALTSure, AWALT may be built into humans, but we are also modified by our circumstances and experiences. My biology told me to have children, start a family, raise my next generation, to propogate my genetic material. I overwrote it due to having grown up in a dysfunctional family and scarred psychologically. I don't have children and do not want any. I gave away my evolutionary advantage, or rather, intentionally failed my evolutionary occupation. Given any "AWALT" or I suppose "AMALT" attribute, t… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 08:08 PM |
| -1 | The facets of AWALTWithin the context of TRP, it's okay to say AWALT, even though the theoretical truth is not all woman are like anything. There will always be someone, at least one person, that's not like "that", whatever "that" may be, AWALT or All-Men-Are-Pigs, or whatever. So really it's an issue about launching your point from a defensible position. When you use absolutes such as AWALT, you are immediately opening up a weakness for your opposition to launch an attack against. Whether you are successful in de… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/15 11:42 PM |
| 1 | I never thought I'd say this, but I saw an escort. It was great. Highly recommended.OK. My bad. I'm not well versed in the official TRP definition. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/15 10:07 PM |
| 6 | I never thought I'd say this, but I saw an escort. It was great. Highly recommended.As far as being "beta", I disagree. It depends on what you want out of life. The whole game of wooing women is something that takes effort, work and practice, just like anything else. It is perfectly fine for someone to want to do this, and be very involved in reading, studying, and practicing various theories of how this social game works. It is also perfectly fine for someone that says, no I don't want to. Truely being beta is willing stay in a place where you give the position of power to wom… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/15 02:25 AM |
| 1 | How many of you tried numerous relationships and found they're just not for you?I have, that's why I've decided I will never get married, which is one way to solve this problem. It's almost like there are two solutions. One... be able to see past the physical and be attracted to inner beauty. Or two, don't get married. I happened to pick number two, but as long as I want LTR, one is still an issue. But thanks for pointing these out. For some reason, it's a different impact when I hear it from someone else, even if it's something I know already in my mind. I'll have to reall… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/15 08:32 PM |
| 1 | How many of you tried numerous relationships and found they're just not for you?Yeah, I know that's what I'm supposed to do. But easier said than done. In a way, I've been too clever. I jump ship before women can ruin my life. I think once women have devastated my life, say through divorces, then I'll have the fuel to make this transition. I'm a very independent person, I'm okay with dying alone, so far I just don't have the mojo to make that leap, even though logically I see where I'm supposed to land. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/15 05:19 PM |
| 3 | How many of you tried numerous relationships and found they're just not for you?I'm starting to come to the same conclusion. Your list is pretty much spot on. I'm older than you are, so I've made a lot of concessions where #1 doesn't necessarily bother me anymore. I just consider that "relationship development time", and I don't need to do anything that interests me during that time. But, combined with #2, that's what kills it for me, because they want to do "relationship development time" 24/7. I need my time. I think relationships are for people that really really want it… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/15 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Here's my Red Pill Story and a Lesson at the endIMHO you already can't follow the no LTR path -- you have a kid. And it's actually good that you don't want that, because it would be quite difficult for your kid. But looks like you've already chosen a path. No one can tell you the path is right or wrong. You stick to your guns and either way you'll learn something. Although I can tell you, high motivation and high energy applies to everything, good things and bad things. You're going to have some spectacular fights. Good luck. And I'm sure you… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/15 02:32 AM |
| 4 | My Old Coworker Hung HimselfAgree. The man's wife is just acting like a woman. Granted not women are like this, but living your life banking on the goodwill of others (hoping the woman happens to have a kind heart) is asking for trouble. I think the fact that the guy turned to substance abuse made his recovery even more difficult. I personally try to associate alcohol with good times. I'll drink when hanging out with friends, I'll drink when I'm chilling at home by myself, I will not touch alcohol when I'm feeling depresse… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/15 12:18 AM |
| 11 | Here's my Red Pill Story and a Lesson at the endI sort of agree with this too. All the "bad behaviors" she's exhibiting aren't all that bad, and one would be hard-pressed, if it's even possible at all, to find a woman that doesn't behave like this. The only bad things I see are like you said, she's unmotivated and doesn't have much to offer in terms of superficial qualities. He can dump this chick and get one that's of percevied higher value, but she will come with a whole bag of shit, like every other woman (to be fair, person). So it's like… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 10:21 PM |
| 7 | Here's my Red Pill Story and a Lesson at the endActually, she doesn't sound particularly bad, although I'm sure your tolerance level is at an all time low. She sounds like someone that doesn't have much to offer, and isn't really movitated to do much. Your fights are typical relationships fights that you will run into with any woman. What you fight about may be different, but the type of arguing of I did this, you didn't do that, you don't support me, etc, will be exactly the same. When a woman wants to argue, these are the typical angles tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 09:59 PM |
| 0 | I am truly fascinated by a females natural ability to create an assemblage of orbiters, betas and alphas to tend to her different "needs".Yeah, it's pretty typical. I was the sucker before too. In fact that's when I learned this from women. For awhile I was going for the same thing... . different women that were pretty close to me, each serving a different purpose. Monkey see, monkey do. Hey man, I had no TRP to guide me back then, I had no role model, except for women, because I was dealing with them and they were the only source of knowledge I had access to. You lucky young kids these days with your fancy internet websites. Anyw… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 04:01 AM |
| 12 | Do you tell your plates about your other plates?Yup, she's only doing this now to get that wedding ring. Once the ring is on her finger, and the legal system is on her side, she will snap back to her old self before you can finish saying WTF. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Do you tell your plates about your other plates?Good point. I think I get too serious. Well, I'm in a relationship now, but if I ever get back to being single, I should remember this. Keep it light like a joke. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/15 11:46 PM |
| 13 | Do you tell your plates about your other plates?I don't lie about it, but I also don't give them any information. I just go into the talk about exclusivity, as in before exclusivity, both sides are allowed to do whatever we want. I don't need to know what's she's doing when she's not with me, and I'd prefer if she doesn't pressure me either. My first goal would be to stay vague. We both have the option to see other people, but I won't tell them if I am or not. If they keep pushing then I'll say yes but no more specifics. I won't budge after t… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/15 11:40 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Caught Oneitis, and let it get the best of me.Yeah, that happened to me before too. I think it happens to everyone. Maybe there's a badass mofo out there that has TRP cranked to maximum at all times, but I think that's pretty difficult to do. You learn, you do better next time. If I become single again, I certainly hope I'll make less mistakes next time around. I think you're doing fine. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/15 12:06 AM |
| 9 | [FR] On maintaining stoicism in extreme situationsI vote for this too. Good job man. The important thing here is you possibly saved a life, doesn't really matter who she is or what she did. But now, you are the hot shot of the class, so strike the iron while it's hot. It will cure you of your oneitis for your ex as well. As for your ex, she made her choice. You saving her life had nothing to do with anything, other than that was the right thing to do. Don't be afraid of the talk. You next her. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/15 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Just saw this on Twoxchromosomes...What do you guys think about it?You missed my point. 100 people upvote it, 100 more agreed, but what if there are 5000 more that didn't agree so they didn't post anything? You can't simply use that to make your judgement call. Yes, common wisdom, but also TRP is saying the same thing. There are quite a bit of overlap between common wisdom and TRP wisdom, and you can't discount that. What you are doing is confirmation bias. If TRP says something bad... oh look TRP is bad. If TRP says something that makes sense and aligns with c… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/15 11:18 AM |
| 3 | Just saw this on Twoxchromosomes...What do you guys think about it?That was my point. I don't believe all women are liars even if it's popular on TRP. We ALL need to filter what we read, including you. Do you realize a variety of people post here just like every other subreddit? Some are teachers with real useful knowledge, some are beginner that have no idea what they are doing, some are here to brag, some are here to vent, and some are here because they are hurt. So a guy gets lied to by a woman (you do realize that although all women are liars is incorrect, … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/15 10:45 AM |
| 3 | Just saw this on Twoxchromosomes...What do you guys think about it?Sure, whatever man. I'm old, so when I was exploring my dating life I had no TRP to learn from. Yet I individually came up with very similar theories and principles as TRP after my trials and errors, scrapes and bruises. I'm an ex-nice guy. My personal experience as nice guy - couldn't land a chick to save my life. Ex-nice guy (TRP-like principles), I became reasonably successful. Maybe TRP isn't for everyone. But for me, it worked, before I even knew it's TRP, before the TRP subreddit even exis… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/15 10:28 AM |
| 6 | Just saw this on Twoxchromosomes...What do you guys think about it?Her relationship went down the drain and she needed something to blame. I don't even know why 2XC is on the default. Whenever I don't login, I end up seeing crap from it. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/15 09:51 AM |
| 1 | last year, i stumbled upon the red pillSanity. That's another sacrifice. Try a co-habitating LTR, you'll see. Power struggles when it comes to... well practically everything. When women get into an LTR, i.e. serious, they expect you to play a role in their story, their vision of how a relationship should be. If you don't play the role exactly, they will flip out and try a variety of techniques, dangling the carrot, beating you over the head, reasoning, manipulations, crying, passive aggressive behaviors, guilt trips, even (fake) brea… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Guys that do better with women after college than in college, what is going on there?Financial stability. It's sexy. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 10:30 PM |
| 3 | last year, i stumbled upon the red pillGood job. I didn't come from a place as bad as yours, but enough to be also socially stunted. Like you, and probably most people, it had to do with my parents. They are just doing the best they could that they knew how. If they are damaged people themselves, can't really expect them to teach me something they don't even know themselves. I'm older, so I did not have TRP to help me out. I learned everything on my own through trial and error, and when I stumbled onto TRP, it re-affirmed what I've k… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 10:06 PM |
| 2 | She wants marriage.Even without considering these, marriage is supposed to be a life long and potentially difficult commitment. Men and women SHOULD get married, but only if they have overwhelming reason/desire to do so. As in, you need a good reason to get married, as opposed to the popular and cultural expectation where you need to come up with a good reason not to get married. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/15 11:54 PM |
| 3 | Bruh, Popular YouTuber's Wife Took Shit Testing to The Next Level by Deleting His Work and Potential RevenueDisappointed that he was willing to reconcile. That sort of behavior is unacceptable. It will only lead to more trouble in the future. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/15 07:22 PM |
| 2 | In online dating, 6 woman behave like 9, and 9 males deserve a 6. Here is an exampleExactly. For women, at the very least they can use online dating as an ego booster, just because there are a bunch of creepy guys tripping all over themselves trying to get slivers of attention. But those are not the kind of guys women want, so my online dating female friends always complain about getting a bunch of losers and wierdos. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 02:58 AM |
| 2 | In online dating, 6 woman behave like 9, and 9 males deserve a 6. Here is an exampleExactly, imagine the rest of us that don't fit that profile. I only recommend online dating to men that are already pulling in chicks in real life, but they want to add another avenue of doing so. It just has such a low chance of working out that most men should not depend on it. And they are really not missing much if they don't use it. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Women in Askwomen declare that it's Sexist if you want a women to take your name if you get MarriedTaking the man's last name just tradition. These days, some women will hyphenate their last names together. Some will keep their own last names. Some people will cohabitate without marriage. And some man will take the woman's last name. It's just one of those things that a couple has to work out and negotiate, which is basically what relationships mean... negotiation and the resulting compromise. If a guy is willing to take the woman's last name as long as he gets anal twice a week, with her hot… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 02:41 AM |
| 2 | In online dating, 6 woman behave like 9, and 9 males deserve a 6. Here is an exampleOnline dating sucks for most guys. It, at most, should be used as an additional low-effort avenue to meet women. It should never replace real life approaches. But some men can pull it off. Most sought after men are Caucasian, around 6 feet tall, average to athletic build. If you don't fit that profile, unless you are exceptionally good at online dating, you'll probably have better luck with the tradtional socialize and approach method. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/15 11:39 PM |
| 5 | Some tips on "faking" like you're rich to get laid. (Without having to actually lie)I wouldn't do this, but I have no problem when other men pull this trick. If the women weren't gold diggers, they would not have fallen for this. When you play the game, sometimes you lose, gold diggers shouldn't be immune to this. I look at the OP as a "balance". As far as I'm concerned, it's the same as women that put up a photo of themselves 10 years ago and 50lbs lighter, or being an expert at dressing and applying makeup so when you get to see them au naturel, you go... yikes... It's a supe… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Move to that big city you've dreamed of. It will CHANGE your life. Part 1/5Good job having the courage to go for what you want. I guess I took it for granted, but I've always lived in big cities. I think I'll go crazy if I move to a small town. But some people are small town people, some people are big city people. Know what you want and go get it. That's one of the most important things in life IMHO. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 11:05 PM |
| 0 | Enough's Enough "Asian Men Have it Hardest/Race Traitors threads" = Instaban. Man the fuck up pussy.I suppose they can start complaining about being short then? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 09:07 AM |
| 5 | Is Online Dating Destroy Prospects for Average Guys?Women have always been flaky, online or not. And to expect sex on the first date is... well, I'm just going to chalk it up to I don't have enough game, but unless I'm hanging around a bar picking up last call chicks (which I don't like to do either), it doesn't happen very often with me. As for women disappearing after the date, why not? Both sides can change their minds at any time. Happens all the time. Hell I've pulled the disappearing trick myself too. The way you get around this is exactly … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Enough's Enough "Asian Men Have it Hardest/Race Traitors threads" = Instaban. Man the fuck up pussy.LOL, Asian man here. I participated in a bit of discussion before the weekend and I guess this topic blew up. But yeah I agree. Sure, Asian women don't like me, but all I had to do was go after non-Asian women, problem solved. Asian man whine is just like the nice guy whine, and it's just like any man-whine. Do that and you look like a little bitch, regardless of the circumstance. Short guys actually have it the toughest IMHO. I suppose if anyone is allowed to whine, the short guys should get fi… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Asserting Dominance in a LTR (and other thoughts pertaining to LTRs and TRP)Thanks for the extra explanation. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 06:49 PM |
| 1 | How TRP helped me avoid a race traitor Asian girl.Makes sense. I consider myself pretty average. I don't think I'm exceptional or special in anyway. My experience and the resulting response to it is probably fairly common. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Asserting Dominance in a LTR (and other thoughts pertaining to LTRs and TRP)Good post. But in my idealist thinking, I assumed being in an LTR means you don't have to play these games anymore. Boy was I wrong. As I'm reading your post and being informed on techniques that I did not know of before... I'm just thinking, I don't want to have to do that. I know, my idealist expectations speaking up. But really, on the flip side, I'm okay with being single and just casually date for the rest of my life. I grew up in a fractured family that was physically and materialistically… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 11:28 PM |
| 7 | How TRP helped me avoid a race traitor Asian girl.I'm Asian and I've only been with a half Chinese. Well, depending on if you count Filipinas as Asians or Pacific Islanders. Maybe that qualifies me as a race traitor as well. I became this way because during my early years, I've had encounters like the OP. I've been turned down, although that could be due to my own lack of game, but I've also talked to and been friends with plenty of Asian women that specifically do not date Asian men. Last straw was hearing Asian women actively hating on Asian … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 10:59 PM |
| 1 | "Married Men Are Happier". People who go to church are happier, doesn't mean they aren't deluded moronsQuick google tells me that when people get married, they tend to experience an increase in happiness during the honeymoon phase. After that, the happiness level gradually returns to the premarital state. The correlation is actually the other way around... happier men are more likely to get married. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 02:59 AM |
| 3 | How I dropped The Red Pill... And lost.Don't sweat the woman. You're having the classic oneitis syndrom. Most average guys are about 10-20%. So this one disappeared, big deal. She had 80%-90% chance of doing so. Shouldn't be a surprise. Let me tell you a story. I hit on this chick at a club, she was like no. Ran into her again, hit on her again, invited her out some place, she said yes but flaked. But because I knew my success percentage, I had plan B so everything worked out. After that, I put her out of my mind. Somehow she found m… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 01:37 AM |
| 7 | Everybody is so afraid of TRP, they have to censor because people might read it and agree...That's how I found this sub too. Redditors were talking trash, and I thought it was just some basic PUA stuff, which I've seen and weren't particuarly impressed with. After I checked it out out of curiosity, I subscribed. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 12:51 AM |
| 16 | Everybody is so afraid of TRP, they have to censor because people might read it and agree...Yeah, using TRP buzzwords and jargons, or taking a too scientific sounding approach will turn people off. Because people think matters of the heart should not be treated so "coldly", and it has to involve flowers, butterflies, and unicorns. If you can't spin your point to smell like the summer breeze, at least avoid sounding TRP outside of TRP... if you want your opinion to be considered. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Need Advice on prevention of Onetities and attactmentWell, it's sort of context specific. When it comes to playing the game, you have to understand the concepts and come up with custom made choices to fit the situation. Text book rules following will usually fail. With that said, this is what I do, which may not fit your situation at all. Multi-dating. When I date, I always try to date more than one woman. My last dating attempt before getting into the current committed relationship, I was dating only one woman, because sometimes it rains cats and… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Get To The Top 20%. Lurkers and New RP Men, Your Beta Qualities Are Officially Worthless To Today's WomenAnd that is a distinct possibility. Once the new women of tomorrow experience the divorce rape, they may change their tune very quickly. The lawyers will want to keep it going though. And there will always be the angry spouses that will want to ruin you. So this legalized forced redistribution of wealth could very well keep going. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 09:54 AM |
| 7 | Ask for a date, not a number.I've always asked for a date, and I've had my successes. If the woman likes you, you have to really fuck it up to lose your chance. Minor details like date vs join you doesn't make much of a difference. But I suppose for fine-tuning your game, this have some merit. Some women get scared at the mention of "date". Using euphemisms makes them feel better. But the downside is it opens up for ambiguity... oh I thought this was a friend thing... I use "date" so women can't weasle out of it. I'd rather… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Get To The Top 20%. Lurkers and New RP Men, Your Beta Qualities Are Officially Worthless To Today's WomenWell, I don't think the future is going to be so different. Guys with no game will still have no game. But men with game will have access to hypergamy as well, if he so chooses to. That's actually the only difference that I see... the added option for men to engage in hypergamy. As it is, traditionally it's women that get married and take half from their husbands. But we have already seen some high-profile divorces where men were the ones that used the institution of marriage for capital gains (… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/14 11:57 PM |
| 4 | Applying TRP with a female boss [FR]Have to be on hohamocha's side. Regardless of the reason, if an employee is willing to produce more with less pay, as long as the work meets quality standards, then the employee is a good employee. And of course and long as the "undesirable" social behavior, such as needing attention, does not distract other employees. Even if the undesireable behaviors do interfer with productivity, as long as the net productivity is positive, the employee is still a valuable employee. Let's face it, corporatio… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/14 11:03 PM |
| 11 | Men also have to blame themselvesI was chatting with one of my bandmates and he told me this story. He went to some fair with a group of friends, and made friends with some cute teenage girl (he's pretty young himself, and very outgoing). She told him that she could get random guys to give her money. He acted like he didn't believe it just to make her do it, so she did. And sure enough, some dumbass gave her $5 just because she asked, and presumably because she's cute. So he challenged her to do the same from his group of frien… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/14 10:01 PM |
| 2 | What's wrong with dating single moms?Maybe because I'm old, 40+, dating single moms is really not that far-fetched. I wouldn't say don't date a single mom, but she certainly will have her kid(s) as priority. If she doesn't, don't date her, she cray. You can't have a kid then put your boyfriend as number 1. It's just extra things to worry about. Want to go snowboarding over the weekend? First figure out what to do with the kids. Same can be said for women with pets, but to a lesser degree. They are just extra considerations to worry… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on vasectomies?Got it in my mid 30's. Never married by choice, no kids. I was expecting the doc to really question my decision, but nope, he happily took my insurance money. And being it was out patient surgery, I paid only $30 co-pay (I had good insurance through work). If you are sure you don't want kids, it's the way to go. If one person in the relationship wants a baby, doesn't matter the men or women, it can happen easily without the consent of the other one. In fact, there's actually a market place for "… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 11:25 PM |
| 2 | acting like boyfriend material before you have sex almost guarantees failureThank you, I'm glad you could get something out if it. It's one of my realizations after bouncing around in the dating scene for many years. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 10:18 PM |
| 16 | acting like boyfriend material before you have sex almost guarantees failureWhen you are "good for someone", it's like you're a medicine, or health food. People don't like medicine or health food. They take them because they have to, not because they want to. When your selling point is I'm a "good boyfriend", this is what's happening, and it's not sexy at all. This is also why people seems to think douchbags/assholes/jerks get the chicks. Because they are like booze or narcotics. They are bad for you, but guess what, you want them anyway, despite all the bad they could … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 08:18 PM |
| 0 | Carousel rider lies to her husband about her history, gets busted after marriagePretty common story. Party it up while young, marry for money later. The husband is strange for being so conservative... wanting a virgin and all that. But that's his problem. You can't tell people they're wrong for having their preferences. That's what he wanted. He didn't lie. He will have to give up a lot in order to get his virgin... since virgins are difficult to find, his potential choices will be very limited. But again, that's his life choice. She, on the other hand, lied in order to get… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Patterns you noticed with your dating life /LTRI thought I wanted a smart, capable woman as an equal partner. But I've always been attracted to passive girls that are not very smart, well, that and superficially attractive bitches with a bit of ghetto that are nothing but trouble, but that's a different problem I have. It turned out relationships are about power struggles. By having a capable partner, sure, you've gained an invaluable ally when life is bad but relationships is good, but you've also gained an extremely capable arch-nemesis du… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/14 11:34 PM |
| 7 | Another bullshit feminist article on theglobeandmail: "The real reason women fall behind in their careers: their husbands, Harvard study finds."Actually, I do believe that. I also believe men become successful DESPITE the women in their lives. Relationships are responsibilities. There is a certain cost associated with it. If you are trying to make something of your life; you are driving 100% forward, having a serious and committed partner, be it man/woman, will be a resource drain on you, period. Let's face it, you can't have a partner, then say, ok, you do all this for me, but I'll do nothing for you, because I need to be working on th… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/14 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Do women ever end a relationship without someone lined up?Not sure if this is always the case. I think certain type of people, men and women, need to have the next one lined up before they will end this one. They probably are afraid to be single. Personally I don't believe this phenomenon is gender specific. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/14 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Share your monk mode experienceHad an extremely bad year. Went into hiding the next year to regroup myself. I ended up getting a second job plus contracting on the side. I did nothing but work. By the end of the year, after taxes, in addition to my normal pay, I made quite a bit of extra money. I used the extra money to buy myself a brand new pickup truck out right, no loans. Not having a car loan is nice. By then I was so sick and tired of working and feeling down, that I went back to my normal mode. What bothered me were th… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/14 09:44 PM |
| 1 | FR: I want a divorceThat's just how women are. My GF threw the "I want to break up" tactic in my face, so I helped her gather up her stuff and sent her on her way. We did get back together, but she has never tried that trick with me again. It's because she never wanted to break up with me in the first place; all she wanted was to get her way, and I've demonstrated that trick will only backfire against her. Break up/divorce, to men, is the highly escalated result of serious problems. To women, it's simply a tool for… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/14 10:41 PM |
| 16 | [FR] Plate tried to deny sex, stuck to my guns, attraction has been kicked up a notch.Yup, always make sure you get what you want, or you don't play. Nice guys may mistaken this for being a jerk, this is not. After you get what you want, then you give her what she wants -- then you're not being a jerk. If you laugh in her face and go haha! sucker! Then you're a jerk. But even if you were a jerk some women will come back for more anyway. This is why being nice for no reason (i.e. before you get what you want) is the worst option, period. My theory of this is very simple. Everythin… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/14 06:48 PM |
| 12 | Travels in Hypergamy – or, A Short Piece on a Woman’s Attempt to Marry UpWomen are very good with words. They have euphemisms for everything. They are also very good at being someone they want others to see. Good job not getting hooked to a gold digger. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/14 01:12 AM |
| 1 | She's always on her phone.Well, what you did wasn't right either. Passive aggression feels good, but will end up damaging your relationship. She thought you were being mean, didn't realize she dropped the ball first. To do this right you probably should call her out on it. My girlfriend tend to do this too. Not quite as bad. What she would do is after dinner or something, she would get on her phone for a long time. I would either ask her if she's ready to leave if we were out, then after a few minutes she will put her ph… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/14 11:30 PM |
| 1 | "Over 75% of women prefer FLAB to abs" says sex therapistMen tend to be attracted to physical beauty. Women tend to be attracted to social status. Both genders see and understand physical beauty, but appreciate it differently. That is all. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/14 11:23 PM |
| 17 | Woman drops boyfriend because he lives frugally. Later finds out that he's a heir to a fortune based on oil.Satisfying read. I'm surprised people on TwoXChromosomes ripped into her. I thought that subreddit is all about support. She's not gold digger on the level of V Stiviano, but she is using a typical woman trick -- using break up to get what she wants... assuming she didn't lie to lessen the gold digging-ness of her post. This is actually an "accepted" power struggle practice according to many women, as my female friends, who were undoubtedly on my side, have suggested that pulling something like … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/14 11:09 PM |
| – | How can I introduce my father and younger brother to red pill ideas?You don't. Introducing RP to people that are not ready will only backfire. BP guys will throw you under the bus just so they can curry favor from women. They have to have been punched in the face repeatedly by women/life enough, and finally when they can't take it anymore, they start questioning themselves, that's when RP can come in. Before that happens, they will just reject you and your RP ways. Do nothing. They need to fall hard. That's how people learn. | /r/askTRP | |
| – | What happens when the divorce equation is the other way around?Yes, this. Only the lawyers win, but yes, the court system generally doesn't care about gender, the person with more assets loses, although there may be individual cases where the judge could be more sympathetic towards one side. It seems divorce rape is only against men because traditionally men are the ones with more assets. But gender equality has changed that, and some women do have sizable assets these days, and moving forward, the difference between men and women will be less and less. So … | /r/askTRP | |
| – | How do you deal with a girl who always agrees and amplify/ sarcastic?Yeah, /u/Clint_Redwood has some good ones. But from a more theoretical side, what you can do is to develop a fake personality. Mine is an over confident narcissistic asshole that thinks I'm gods gift to this world, in a comical and exaggerated way (you do have to make it entertaining). So when this happens, think about how that personalty would respond. These types of responses should always be situational and based on quick thinking, but if you draw a blank, you can fall back on your fake perso… | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Best course of action for my hair?Do you have any sources where the side effects have been clinically disproven? All I found have been things like this: http://www.drugwatch.com/propecia/side-effects/ http://www.rxlist.com/propecia-side-effects-drug-center.htm | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Best course of action for my hair?Wow, great advise, I have to try some of this. Right now I'm using Rogain + Bosley shampoo and conditioner. It has drastically slowed down my hair loss, but I'm not regrowing any hair. But I would encourage the OP to research Propecia. Not everyone will suffer the side-effects. You are lucky that you didn't but who knows if OP will. This is something that OP needs to decide for himself if the risk is worth it. | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Why are smart guys not considered attractive?Software engineer here too. You have to be interesting first. If you're not interesting, then computer nerd = creepy guy with no social skills. If you're interesting, then computer nerd = guy with a good job. It's all about self improvement, plus practicing social situations. | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Is it ever appropriate to ask, "Why?" to females?Well, we're supposed to select what makes sense to us from TRP. For me, I've never had issues with female friends, they are great. It's when there's romance/sex involved, that things could get complicated, depending on if she's high drama or not. So I actually highly recommend female friends. But just like there are shitty male friends, there are shitty female friends too, choose carefully. Women like that are used to getting their way, so they are constantly pushing to get their way, or to prep… | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Abundance mentality: fake it until you make it?/u/abdada has a great point. The goal of the abundance mentality isn't to have the abundance mentality, it's not to put a particular woman on a pedestal. You can do it by understanding there are plenty of fishes in the sea, and if this one falls flat, you can get another one easy. Or, like /u/abdada said, you go do something else that's worth while, like developing a skill, fulfilling a bucket list. I feel this is a great perspective. But fake it till you make it certainly works. It's better tha… | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Past mistakes in LTRYeah, these are common mistakes that I fall into as well. Unfortunately I've got the abundance mentality down so well that it was hurting me. Because when the going gets tough, I just say "see ya" and go find the next chick. So I've never really stayed in an LTR and grind it out, and I never learned these concepts, my limits... etc. I have now. I understand LTRs a lot better, and I'm not impressed. I may go back to the "see ya later" attitude, but at least this time around, I can say I've been t… | /r/askTRP | |
| – | What would be your witty follow up?That's a good point, I thought of the situation - we both like the same things, but I didn't think of the actual specifics of the order. You are helping me already, to think in a direction I didn't think of before. She's Hispanic, and I like Latinas, although disclaimer, I'm in a relationship and I have no plans to cheat, but that doesn't mean I don't want to be witty and good at social situations. Anyway, it was a chicken sandwich, with the usual stuff, but I always order jalapeno slices becaus… | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Love SongsAll is fair in love and war. The only thing important is that you can negotiate with your own conscience after (and stay legal of course). So if you have love songs as a tool under your belt, use it. Although you may want to stop using words like "lure". Use "inspire" instead. Women love euphemisms. | /r/askTRP | |
| – | I fucked a girl in a 5 year relationship. How do I come to terms with how I feel?If it makes you feel better, you are not the cause, you are just a symptom. If you weren't there she'd be swallowing someone else's cum. And if you had more plans with this woman other than a fling, you'd be in for a big surprise. You only look good to her because she wants out. If she manages to break up, chances are she'll lose interest in you (unless maybe if you play her hard, but it's kind of not worth it). Also, she's a cheater, chances are, she will cheat on you in the future. Also, BTW, … | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Happily married RP guys - What do you think are your chances of avoiding divorce rape / becoming second choice?Did you not read the part where he did not tell her where he and the kids are going? Taking the kids on a vacation is great, but I would think maybe you should at least tell your SO your plans? So you are saying you come home Friday after work, your husband took the kids on a surprise vacation without telling you, so you have no idea what happened or where they are. Instead of being worried, you'd go take a spa break.... hmm.... interesting. | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Life in your 30s as a male in the that decided not to get married or start a family.The trick, much like dating, is quantity. You're not looking for life-long friends, those will happen naturally. You are looking for expansion of your social group. I made an effort to never turn down any invitations. As a result, I went to A LOT of parties. You don't even need to be the cool guy or the alpha life of the party. Show your face, be cool, you will become part of the crowd, and not only get invited to future parties, but also the parties of the other people in the social circle. But… | /r/TheRedPill | |
| – | Do you guys tolerate your LTRs go out to bars without you? How do you handle it?I believe everyone needs to experience crap sometimes. Here we are, guiding everyone away from crap, but unless you've experienced crap and got out of it, you are missing a very important piece. In fact, if he doesn't experience crap himself, as in first hand experience, he will continue to second guess himself, regardless of how much an Internet forum tells him not to. This is the difference between first and second hand knowledge. The only way to never second guess yourself, is if you experien… | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Do you guys tolerate your LTRs go out to bars without you? How do you handle it?Not sure if this is worth breaking up over, but I don't think you did the wrong thing necessarily. You are both young, this is a long distance relationship, chances are, this relationship isn't going to last, with or without the bar issue. You could have stayed in the relationship and tried to navigate it until it fails, you would have learned some important lessons about yourself (your limits, likes and dislikes...etc) and how to deal with women. But either way, it's fine. You'll get plenty of … | /r/askTRP |
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