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That’s just not true. Maybe on dating apps but that’s only about 5-10% of casual hooking up. Lots of people are still meeting in real life. The numbers are definitely decreasing but it’s still the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 07:20 PM
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So you really believe that only the men in the top few percent in looks are capable of hooking up? So roughly 90% of men never have? I mean, shit, I know the number, 30% of men haven’t had sex in a year or more and the percentage of 30yo virgins is growing but that applies to women as well to a lesser extent. People in general just don’t have nearly as much sex today as a few decades ago. But if you think that only hot dudes are hooking up you are nuts. “Charm” I think is a bad word to use. Most…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:35 PM
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Let’s be clear, dating apps are not real life. If you are not top 10% maybe even 5% in looks you will be lost in the sea of men and scammers that make up 90% of users. In fact, even among the few women actually using dating apps, perhaps as many as a third or half have never had sex with a man they met on there, they only download it for a few days to get a validation boost. Go watch some Dan Bacon on YouTube. He explains very well how most men that get women do so. By definition they cannot be …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:25 PM
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You do not need money, looks, or status to be successful with women. If by charm you mean the ability to create attraction in women by the way you talk and act then that is all you need. Plenty of broke, not super attractive men/boys pull plenty of ass. The lie was you need to be hot and wealthy. Those things don’t matter nearly as much as unshakeable self assurance and the ability to display an “untamed” or unsafe energy. Plenty of physically attractive men think that is all they need and bomb …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:20 PM
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They will never get this. No matter how “unfair” the dating market is (not saying it isn’t, men and women have not been sending their best but we DO live in a gynocentric society) it just incredibly unattractive to complain about it, for both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:26 PM
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Opra?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/25 01:18 PM
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Bingo. This is it exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:27 AM
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Quite false. Make your conservative flirtatious. How is flirting g not having a conversation? How else would you flirt?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:25 AM
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Sigh. “Talking to women as people” ≠ not sexualizing the conversation. You do realize humans have sex right? Ignore what women say. Go watch some Dan Bacon.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:24 AM
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Of course they do. Men can provide a lot of value to women they are not in a sexual relationship with, especially if the dynamic is he pays for most things. The same cannot often be said for the reverse. Unless the woman is doing favors for the man like cooking his food and cleaning his house, usually in these situations the man is providing physical and emotional support he does not receive in return. How many times are women asked to help move their male friends? Or repair a vehicle/dwelling?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 09:12 PM
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I’m sick of hearing about being stuck in situationships from women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 09:04 PM
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Dusty! Like the Sahara lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:24 PM
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Nail. Head. Hit. And as a man, once you HAVE given her consistent mind blowing orgasms you can begin to request the things you want and she will very likely be more than happy to do so. Within reason of course. No matter how great the sex is for her she still probably won’t give you a threesome with her sister, but trying new things or getting her to give you non reciprocal attention is far far easier when you A, you ask with confidence, not demanding, but asking with a degree of feeling deservi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:23 PM
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Ah. I misunderstood your comment then. True, I guess abnormal hormone levels are not germane. The point was that T causes higher libido, which it can but it isn’t necessarily that simple. That being said, people who say that women on average are just as horny as men are either ignorant, delusional, or deliberately misrepresenting the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:13 PM
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I’ve had plenty opportunities to cheat. Have no desire to do so. Turned women down cold when they have thrown themselves at me. Not that I’m not attracted to them. Idk what kind of men you are associated with but they sound like POS.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:07 PM
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Keep in mind that men lean towards r-selected reproductive strategy while women lean more towards K-selected. Also, it is estimated that somewhere between 10-20% of children are of extra-pair paternity and this number increases in more primitive cultures that practice less birth control. So what I am saying here is that while it does seem on average that men do cheat slightly more than women, the discrepancy in reality is far smaller than is self reported. Women are just better at hiding it and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 02:45 PM
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What are you talking about? This is not a guess or amateur data. It is a scientific fact that even with high T levels, if your estrogen levels crash you will have no libido. Yes, of course super physiological levels of exogenous testosterone will aromatize into super physiological levels of estrogen and being out of range on the high side will wreck your system just as much as being out of range on the low side, but estrogen (at normal levels) is not a libido inhibitor. Quite the opposite in fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 02:19 PM
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You could say the same thing about access to food and water. Unfortunately, we have built social nets for helping people who’s lot in life, whether chosen or not, prevents them from creating their own access to these things. Of course these social nets predominately assist females and are often specifically and deliberately exclusionary to men. Just because no one is owed access someone’s body, companionship, or even LABOR, doesn’t mean we haven’t created a fucked up society where these things a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:50 PM
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Therapy made me suicidal but go on about how an industry specifically geared towards women’s mentality is being refused by men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 11:31 PM
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Imagine women obsessing about men preferring larger vaginas…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:37 AM
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Coming in with the RECEIPTS lol most watched categories my ass. Lesbian and MILF are most watched. As they have been. For years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:01 AM
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All of that is true for me as well but at the same time I have matured into a vastly better partner and far easier to live with even if I am much more firm in my boundaries. Oh and I’m far more attractive, as in better body, better income, better confidence etc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:01 AM
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Beautiful example!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:41 PM
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You are exactly correct. Censorship inevitably feeds the ideology it sets out to destroy. Think of it as social martyrdom. The reason these soy swillers on here are so zealous in their censorship is for two reason that I can deduce. One is that they know that their ideology is absolutely the weaker one, the one most divorced from reality and will never stand in direct comparison to the one they oppose. And two, much more insidiously, they are being manipulated by the very people they want to opp…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:40 PM
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Censorship is siding with the nazis. You think that you will always be the one in control of the censorship apparatus? Building a power base always comes with the consequence of that power base eventually being in the hands of whomever it was created to oppose. Every single time in history that censorship became condoned by the ruling party at that time, there was a genocide shortly thereafter. Now I really can’t stand nazis, collectivists, zionists, or any other exclusionary group, but it doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:27 PM
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And I just read some of this thread to my wife and she completely agrees with OP and I. I don’t need y’all’s approval. Keep having fun with your 8 month relationships though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:11 AM
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I have sex almost daily with my wife. This is not remotely my situation and never will be. That doesn’t make intimacy withdrawal any less of a relationship betrayal than cheating. To me it is the same. We don’t have to agree. My standards landed me the best woman in the world. I feel extremely sorry for friends of mine who are in this dead bedroom position. Ideally yes you leave. But there are definitely situations where that is not possible (I guess immigrants can go fuck themselves) and denyin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:10 AM
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Ignore the last three words. You might need to brush up on second grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:06 AM
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Yeah, I mean it’s pretty obvious once you see it, but plenty of men get suckered in because they were raised by a woman like that (as was I, I just got lucky, or maybe I just refused to compromise until I landed my little sex demon). The other thing she says, possibly in other episodes, is that she often tries to talk the wife into letting him go elsewhere. Because the wife is comfortable and the kids need a two parent house and they need dad to provide an income so this whole “throw the whole r…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:01 AM
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Yeah, redditors lmao. I care not for your boos for I have seen what makes you cheer. Y’all keep telling yourself that sex goes away in your 40s, most of the people in the clubs and resorts are over 50. Plenty of people in their 70-80s plus have sex. Go to any nursing home. Just because you have low t doesn’t mean everyone does.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:50 AM
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I didn’t either but feminism and female worship severely dulls the brain lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:40 AM
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Insulting means you agree with me but can’t lose the face to say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:40 AM
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When I got married sex was definitely in the agreement. And it wasn’t one sided. She has told me she isn’t staying in a sexless relationship and there was a time I almost pushed that to its limit when I was having a hard time mentally. Hell, that was the deal long before we got married. But I also had a discussion with her right before we got married that I also didn’t want us to feel like each other was the last person we would have sex with. Maybe lots of people are getting married and explici…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:24 AM
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It’s not ok. But in some situations it’s a self defense mechanism. You really shouldn’t go around shooting people, it’s not ok. But if someone breaks in your home…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 12:15 AM
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I have kids. The sex is better than ever before. The sex is the foundation. Yes, we are SOOO much more than that to each other but for both my wife and I, at least while we are still young, sex IS paramount. Yeah we did do a couple stretches of no sex but that is where the communication comes in. And it’s expected. Pregnancy/You g children are NOT dead bedrooms. This is not remotely what is being debated here and you putting it that way is a bad faith argument. But that being said, using kids as…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 12:09 AM
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Definitely a non-zero possibility but not a guarantee. Logic suggests you take the chance. Almost all the women I know have cheated. They are not in any way diminished in societies view.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 12:07 AM
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And I’m a loyal compassionate husband of 7 years who would never cheat. I would ABSOLUTELY leave in this situation but this situation will never happen to me because a. My wife is absolutely obsessed with me and can’t keep her hands off me and b. We are swingers anyway so even if she stopped enjoying sex she would still love me enough to let me satisfy my needs elsewhere. That’s not even close to the point. If a woman is being abused should she “just leave” her kids with the man? After all, anyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 12:04 AM
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I am literally friends with a dude in this position but go off
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:56 PM
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You know you’ve soundly won the debate when they start with the insults lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:47 PM
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And then. Silence! Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:46 PM
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If nobody is entitled to my body then how are they entitled to dictate what I do with it? Y’all’s logic is nill. Intimacy IS a form of loyalty. If I’m not getting loyalty from my partner (assume this matter has been discussed for at least a year and there is no effort on their part) then they are not entitled to any loyalty from me. Ideally, I leave. Of course. Cheating is always wrong. But in the many many cases I have witness where the woman will deliberately destroy the man’s life and take hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:45 PM
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Precisely. This is the part that everyone here seems to be very deliberately ignoring.. probably because most of them don’t have kids or their wife has a job and won’t take most of their income.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:38 PM
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I mean she has a TON on dead bedrooms, mostly how to sus out anti sex women while they are still in the NRE stage and having sex relatively frequently, but still presenting the signs that she will eventually stop. Basically once an anti sex woman has had a kid (or definitely 2-3) she is fully planning on never having sex again and there is really nothing her husband can do about it. Of course, most women in this position still “love” the husband or at least the lifestyle he provides so they will…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:08 PM
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Yall really be thinking that often these women haven’t very deliberately trapped the man through marriage, parenthood, and single incomes and fully intent to drive the husband to divorce so they can take everything he has and his kids. Maybe not every time and yes, always begin with communication, but if you are dealing with a woman who is just anti sex and a vicious bitch, a man cannot simply LEAVE. Most of the time I see this, the man leaves and the woman starts (or continues) abusing the chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:01 AM
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What if you lose custody of your kids to an abusive mother and most of your money, your house and car, even your friend group and possibly your job if you get divorced? Still take the higher road? If I had to take a guess I would say you are a woman and one who cheats often. That’s the only way I could see your take making any sense, even if only in an incredibly self serving manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:48 AM
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Op you are 100% correct. Many psychologists and therapists will agree… even if they don’t say so out loud. One that does constantly talk about this issue is Dr. Psych Mom on Spotify or Facebook. She is probably the most down to earth and realistic head shrink I have ever encountered and she says some stuff I really don’t like to hear. But it’s tough love and she doesn’t pull punches. You don’t owe ANYONE a life of misery just to satisfy some ancient bs ritual or subscribe to morals they don’t of…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:44 AM
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I’ve been married 7 years, and the sex feels likes it keeps getting better and better if not much more frequent, but even so, I completely agree with op and all my favorite psychologists’ podcasts (even the women) also agree. Granted, in my experience there is a direct correlation between how well the mans puts it down and how often he gets to. However, roughly 10-15% of relationships in the USA are considered “dead bedrooms” (sex once a year or less) and I personally have male friends in this s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:39 AM
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a video showing this is not an accurate assumption at all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:14 PM
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Oh I guess moms for Justin beiber was a Mandela effect?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:12 PM
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Besides that, the male frenulum is anatomically analogous in nerve proliferation to the external portion of the female clitoris (which is less than 10% of total clitoral structure); and while the frenulum can be preserved in adult circumcision, neonatal circ invariably removes it.
/r/MensRights21/09/24 04:13 PM
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It’s not different when it’s your kids. That’s some bs parents tell people to assuage their misgivings. Keeping your own infant alive is just as annoying and frustrating as a strangers… more so because you can’t just walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:43 AM
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So not showing respect = rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:49 AM
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This is exactly what I believe. Red pill and blue pill unite lol. I do however have a very different view of nudity than most of these conservative prudes here though. I like my wife to show off when we are out and I have no problem with frequenting clothing optional beaches and resorts. But the point remains, I like my wife to dress in a risqué fashion specifically FOR the attention she receives. When we are not in the mood for that she dresses more modestly and attention falls off relationally…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:46 AM
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This whole premise is patently false. But go off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:42 AM
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Also women’s dual mating strategy is more exposed in current environment where in the past as much as >30% of children are paternal fraud. Look at less developed countries like Jamaica for instance to see how common this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:14 AM
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lol thanks bro don’t worry I won’t I have my own life if she wants to leave she knows exactly where the door is (If you’re more worried about your girl leaving than she is you leaving… idk you’re doing something very wrong)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:47 AM
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Sure, for women who aren’t really into sex and are mainly looking for a provider, but some women actually like sex, even with randos Just do whatever you feel you should and don’t cry about what other people are doing. Ik ik wrong sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:44 AM
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Dude your math ain’t mathing. I’m literally using the stats in the article YOU cited and the difference between 60% and a third is 27%. Besides, this article itself is questioning the pew SELF REPORTED survey it cites. Self reported survey is another word for garbage statistics. So even if these surveys are accurate (hint: they’re not, people busy bettering themselves, fucking, and maintaining relationships don’t have time to fill this stupid shit out) crying about this is tantamount to admittin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:41 AM
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No it applies to 10% that aren’t having sex. Single is different. And the reason more men are single is because women have a looser definition of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:47 AM
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“These men” aren’t dealing with low quality women anymore. They have the skills to go after the ones with high standards. And if the filter works why are so many women complaining about men not committing? Look my point was that equal SMVs balance. So the skinny kid whose only skill is COD and is awkward, shy, and not confident, deserves the fat lazy bitchy girl. But as he progresses by exposure (something these whiney ass man babies in this sub would never) he builds the skills necessary to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:21 AM
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Yes but men are more willing to give a pass. What man doesn’t want the kinda shy timid girl who is obviously nervous around you? We think it’s cute. Women on the other hand are repulsed by these characteristics. Unattractive doesn’t count as that is too general a term. Yes nobody wants someone they find unattractive; that’s literally the definition of the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:43 PM
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That’s not why women’s standards are high, or if so it’s a logical fallacy. The higher your standards the more likely you are to encounter men who only care about sex or physical traits. Edit: I mean I guess it depends on WHAT standards but your typical female approved dating standards are going to be pretty ubiquitous among women (hence the word STANDARDS as in STANDARD) so these men will have a lot of options. And men who have options don’t settle for one woman most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:39 PM
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I wouldn’t want to be with a women that was ok with being with such a pathetic man. That’s pretty low quality. Similarly my woman wouldn’t want to be with a man who was ok with being with a unloyal, demanding shru. But hey you do you. Mediocre people like being around mediocre people because they don’t like to be challenged.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:37 PM
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Lmao yup. “Konnichiwa” rofl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:54 PM
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Yeah they see it but these 150kg neck beards with horrific acne because they never bathe or go outside and horrible social skills due to never practicing because muh anxiety! Only want a super model gf who looks like the pron stars they watch. Look, (almost) everybody starts at the bottom. You gotta bag a few fattys to build your skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 02:04 PM
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Maybe you’re confusing what men want with what women want? Hint: it’s not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 02:01 PM
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Just a cap to all the banter I see below. This entire argument is based on the meaninglessness or meaningfulness of sex being the same as relationships. THEY ARE NOT THE SAME. The meaninglessness/meaningfulness of sex is parallel to the meaninglessness/meaningfulness of relationships but not always intertwined. Maybe for some, and I would say this is partially biological but mostly cultural, but they are not connected for many. Sex can have absolutely no or very little meaning to some (ace or sw…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:53 AM
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What exactly does sex have to do with the “meaningfulness” of relationships? I keep seeing this concept used as the linchpin of this entire argument but I fundamentally don’t see the connection? What about sexless marriages? And not the toxic ones but ones between 1 or 2 aces or people who have medical conditions and can’t have sex? People who are just past the point in their lives where sex is enjoyable? Are all these relationships “meaningless”?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:44 AM
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The basic reason is as a commenter stated above. Women want to keep their monopoly on sex. In the past, for instance Roman times, there was no stigma against male bisexuality, and it was a known thing that men would have their release with other men. It wasn’t until recently that women completely demonized being gay, or men having any sort of sexual relations with a man. And they did that so they can keep their monopoly on hetero men’s sex. Any competition to this monopoly is going to be extreme…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:34 AM
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And herbicide. Once you go down the glyphosate rabbit hole you’ll never be the same
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:30 AM
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Men’s orgasm is their responsibility. Women’s orgasm is also their responsibility. If a man watched too much porn and has ED he is a cuck/bitch. If a woman uses an industrial jackhammer for years and can’t cum without it, the man not able to provide her with an orgasm is a cuck/bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:49 PM
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I think you are confusing the concepts of “sex” and “relationships”. This is really the first generation where sex in a relationship is so sacred and sleeping with anyone outside of the relationship is so taboo. Psychologist talks about this Being promiscuous has nothing to do with faithfulness or solidity of a relationship (for some people). Look at swingers who have a lower divorce rate than the average among monogamous people. This idea that one person is supposed to be your everything, your …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:40 PM
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I got 99 problems…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:16 PM
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Ok. I’m sure you do. Antidotal. Plus your friends and this sub suffer from pretty aggressive selection bias anyway. Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:46 PM
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I listen to a podcast called dr psych mom and she owns a practice and has treated 100s perhaps 1000s of patients and couples and probably the most common complaint, at least from men, is a low/no sex marriage. And her advice to men getting married that don’t want to end up in this situation in a decade is essentially, “if she doesn’t like sex before you, she sure as shit won’t like it with you” being that people’s sex drive is highest right after puberty and steadily declines thereafter, that de…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:41 PM
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Very true. I personally believe that “all men want it” is a harmful sexist stereotype that allows men and women to get away with sexual assault on men. However, I would place myself in your “gross” category. For me, personality doesn’t really apply to sexual desire. Of course it is paramount in relationship terms but same as I don’t care about someone’s IQ or politics to play BJJ with them, I don’t really care for strict sex. If they are hot, they are attractive. Extreme cases can interfere with…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:42 PM
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You realize that your level of conscientiousness is probably greater than 1 standard deviation from the average woman? (At least in westernized societies.) What you are saying is not applicable to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:36 PM
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Also, speak for yourself, sex is not “gross” to a significant percentage of women and yes women do want to fuck as soon as men, they are just more coy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:10 PM
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No I totally agree. The same is true of most men as well. I may have misunderstood your previous comment. That isn’t to say that there aren’t plenty of women who don’t go through that process though, or don’t with certain men. There are countless stories of a couple having sex within the first few minutes/hours of meeting each other. The “I want to fuck” not working has nothing to do with time and “getting to know a man” but instead it’s failing at the “dance”. There’s a reason PUAs are so succe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:08 PM
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Why have so many women said that they know within seconds of meeting a guy whether or not they want to fuck him then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:49 PM
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This sub has really gone downhill.
/r/MensRights30/07/24 05:59 PM
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Whenever I read the comments about 99% of all sexual assault is perpetrated by men I don’t even have the energy…
/r/MensRights28/07/24 05:59 PM
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This old news…
/r/MensRights27/07/24 07:38 PM
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All the LLMs are like this except Grok. We need to boycott them na only use XAI
/r/MensRights27/07/24 07:38 PM
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You know what’s even worse? Marrying and having a kid with a chick and then hitting your stride, significantly increasing your SMV and then being stuck with someone from your days of being a loser. At least if you never improve yourself you never feel you should have done better.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/24 04:38 PM
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Study after study shows therapy is geared towards helping women and not so helpful for men. I’ve been in therapy for years and my depression has only gotten worse. Men require different methods and there is really no institutional education on what actually works for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:24 PM
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“Men never approach women anymore”… If not being “approached” how do you women meet men? From church? Marriage arranged by parents? Don’t tell me dating apps. And how could you never date a stranger? If you have that many male friends and find them dateable I’m not interested anyway. I’m so confused right now… Edit: and social circles are just as criticized. For instance, I practice BJJ. There are several attractive girls I roll with, we are “friends” and we have the camaraderie of EXTREMELY clo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:50 PM
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In fact they are antithetical
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:21 PM
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Those stats she posted are so fucking false it’s ridiculous
/r/MensRights16/07/24 03:50 AM
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Equality means it’s impossible for men in general to be above or superior to women, especially not economically
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:41 PM
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You’re thinking of equity. Not equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:46 AM
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Equal rights absolutely =/= equal outcomes. And what they are pushing for is equal outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:46 AM
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A significant portion of men and women who hire escorts are pretty well put together and can easily get women. Not talking about the crack whore level but any established escort charges hundred of USD an hour and the men who can afford that are not pathetic losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:29 PM
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Thank you for this reply. I was feeling too exhausted to address all of the ridiculous claims in OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:25 PM
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Feminism=Marxism
/r/MensRights08/07/24 03:39 PM
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I don’t think you understand what a relationship is. I’m not giving my “friends” foot rubs or buying them meals. I’m not baring with them through a rough argument. I’m not watching tv shows with them that I’m not really interested in. You have a lot of personal development to attain before you get in a romantic relationship if you think that the only difference between that and friendship is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:24 PM
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Why are you so emotionally invested in this? Sounds like you’ve never been burned so why the anger? What do you think about early 20s women saying 40-50 yo men? Kinda the same situation, in terms of power imbalance. I mean, “old men aren’t evil Machiavellian lizard people, they just like young pussy”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:19 PM
0

Are you still a bad friend if you cut her off because she is sabotaging any other relationships you pursue? Most of these “fiendzones” don’t end on the man’s part anyway. They end when he gets a GF and stops paying for the “friends” meals and maintenance and she stops talking to him because he’s not useful anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:08 PM
2

The friendzone is the simps fault just like the situationship is the sluts fault. (Sorry for harsh terms but I’m making a point). Now a girl that exploits a man with low self esteem and uses him as a piggy bank and emotional tampon is just as shady as an older or rich/famous man who dates a girl and uses his power imbalance to string her along and get sex without any commitment, even though in both cases the person with more power knows exactly what they are doing, it is still the adult who puts…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:54 PM
6

An argument could be made that (anal) rape is worse for (straight) men because they don’t ever willingly do it.
/r/MensRights05/07/24 08:28 PM
3

Harassment ≠ staring If you don’t want people SEEING you, umm stay inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:36 PM
1

Strict sexual monogamy has only been practiced for a couple centuries, not enough time to us to evolve past our desires for broad reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:10 PM
1

unless he feels zero desire to pursue or interact with other women sexually… Because 99.9% of men (and women) are going to desire extra marital sexual contact. Whether you act on it and what rules have been established concerning such behavior is where the line is. Not desire itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:07 PM
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This is ridiculous. The word for people that don’t find anyone else attractive is either asexual or greysexual. That’s an exceedingly small percentage of the population. And any ace married to a non ace is a hell of an emotional turmoil.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:37 PM
1

Hey guy, you’ve been fearmongered. STIs are not that much of a threat. Almost all are curable and the ones that aren’t are treatable. It’s pretty unlikely you’ll get an infection if you are using condoms properly. And what exactly does pre marital sex have to do with it? People can’t fuck anyone but their spouse once they get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:52 PM
2

Score you knock it go watch the video. It’s extremely informative and the guy is brilliant. It’s not some fresh and fit bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:00 PM
4

Feminism= fascism. Are you saying we shouldn’t antifascist?
/r/MensRights16/05/24 09:18 PM
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The problem is that the dangerous men give exactly 0 fucks of what women think of them there is no chance whatsoever of them changing their behavior due to the “shocking answer” so it’s just insulting to men that don’t attack women. Women asking men to “change” their behavior like the men who actually would listen to that are the ones doing the attacking. Makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 10:02 PM
1

Yeah preselection. Although, that being said I get a lot more attention these days even when I’m alone because I’ve put on 30 pounds of muscle
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:25 AM
2

Very well said
/r/MensRights10/05/24 11:24 AM
6

Even in cases of physical abuse?
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/24 11:13 AM
2

I’m all for ETHICAL non-monogamy, and even though it’s not for me personally, I even support consensual one sided open relationships, (I don’t want to do anything I wouldn’t allow my wife to do personally). I certainly don’t subscribe to the red pill ideology that ENM is always a disaster and ruins relationships… but in your case there nothing ethical about what he’s doing. He’s cheated, more than once and is now trying to gaslight you. This is incredibly shit behavior and will probably get wors…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/24 11:05 AM
2

Wrong. Any guy who is decently attractive can tell you stories about women doing exactly this. And women are usually more handsy than men to boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:00 AM
2

I was just talking to my friend about similar situation, but reversed genders. He had a girl in a grocery store right in front of his gf telling him he was hot and when he pointed out he was with his gf the strange woman continued anyway. And I was once in a club with my wife and she was dancing a few feet away from me and this girl whispered in my ear she wanted me to fuck her. I said, uh that’s my wife right there, and the girl literally said “I don’t care about her”. So, point being, it’s def…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:58 AM
2

That’s lol that’s not remotely true. But ok. There is 100% a logical formula to dating. But if you believe there isn’t good for you. Maybe you will happen to get someone of decent quality. More likely you will not because you think it is all out of your control.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:33 PM
2

Like… look around?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:29 PM
1

This is fantastic
/r/MensRights30/04/24 08:44 PM
1

Let’s all just mgtow the internet. If every man stopped using social media today within a couple weeks women would be a completely different species. Imagine, no likes on IG, no money from OF, no confessions of love from FB, no ridiculously simpy comment on porn funnels here. They would have to actually come back to reality and start earning their validation. Not to mention all the cushy high paying office jobs that would suddenly disappear, causing most women to stop working.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 08:44 PM
1

RFK
/r/MensRights25/04/24 05:55 PM
1

No they’re not. Go read any feminist blog. The difference is women can almost always get sex, but not necessarily companionship so sex usually isn’t the issue. But if you want to see very similar behavior go read r/femcel
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:16 PM
2

The individual may not die but the human race will. So you could say it’s an even more fundamental need than food or shelter since it affects not just one individual but all potential individuals that could have existed as descendants of that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:12 PM
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You’re right. It’s women’s fault for not being attracted to you. There’s nothing you can do. Sorry. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:52 AM
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Yes. Unless they are really attractive (subjective, includes things other than looks) OR the most important part, she gets to know him. Proximity is the best aphrodisiac to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:50 AM
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Just imagine if you’re a straight man, no matter how nice some gay dude is, you just won’t be interested and will choose a low quality woman instead. If you’re not physically attracted to someone it just isn’t gonna work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:51 PM
2

EXACTLY. Soooo many people do not get this part. It’s not that women hate nice men, they would just rather have a shitty but desirable man over a nice but undesirable man. For further reference go watch just about any of HoeMath’s videos on Zones.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:50 PM
1

*couldn’t care less But yes was just talking to my wife about this
/r/MensRights10/04/24 01:29 PM
1

Ok, if you’re a woman, tell me all the stories about when a strange guy sent you a dick pic and you dropped what you were doing and went and fucked him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:03 AM
2

I refer you to the dr psyche mom podcast. She’s a psychiatrist specializing in couples counseling and has given therapy to thousands of women. She would firmly disagree with you. Maybe you do (although I strongly doubt it’s at the level of men, otherwise you would fuck the guys that send you dick pics) but most women are not visually aroused. They can appreciate a hot body sure, and it may turn them on but it’s nothing like what men experience. If you really think women are as visually stimulate…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:02 AM
1

Sure. Totally agree. But I think it would classify as the visual porn for women that op is looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:54 AM
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Porn for women is not really visual as very few women are visually stimulated. Seeing a naked body, no matter how hot, just isn’t the same visceral feeling to women as it is to men. Porn for women is emotional catering on an unrealistic level. Like the guy has no needs or desires of his own, basically has no personality except to please her but is still a competent and authoritative figure in every other area of his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:25 PM
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Look up trellthetrainer on instagram. This is the most perfect example of porn for women I have ever seen. Completely catering the female psyche and completely unrealistic. Also the Clan of the Cave bear series is pretty classic stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:21 PM
5

He didn’t say cheat. He said abandon. Big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:14 PM
0

No I don’t like it but he’s not wrong. Just like the drug epidemic, you can blame the drug dealers all you want but at the end of the day it’s only the drug addict’s fault when they stick that needle in.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:05 AM
1

Brought to you by the “Remember, if she’s younger than you, you’re a pdeofile bruh” crowd soon to be known as the “bruh, only pdeos date women!” crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:15 PM
2

“Government, help!” -HoeMath
/r/MensRights27/03/24 05:08 PM
1

Yeah I noticed later
/r/MensRights21/03/24 10:39 AM
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Kennedy for me
/r/MensRights18/03/24 02:46 AM
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I saw the same thing on an erotic dancers insta yesterday. She’s talking about how she has to enlighten women to move seductively because women are prevented from going around in less clothing and men are just allowed to be naked everywhere. And I’m like, wait, which planet do you live on again?!
/r/MensRights17/03/24 04:40 PM
2

Wise tactics.
/r/MensRights07/03/24 03:54 PM
0

This is so inaccurate it’s kinda funny. I mean I imagine this is true if you are getting skid row street walkers but in the US escorts are less likely to have diseases than the general population. They are also usually pretty attractive and they are experienced. In fact, in the swinger community it is recommended to get an escort if you want a FFM with your wife because finding a (n attractive) unicorn can often be much more difficult and there is less drama involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:43 PM
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Dude idk why they are attacking you. What you are saying is completely relatable to me and makes perfect sense. It’s kinda like the made to penetrate type of rape. As long as rape can only be defined a certain way, the female type of coercion and force just won’t count. Anyone who has been in an LTR with a feminine woman can confirm what you are saying.
/r/MensRights05/03/24 09:03 PM
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As the proud owner of a female wife, I find this to be extremely accurate. The number of times we have argued and I have ended up apologizing even though I was the one who originally had a grievance is embarrassing. I don’t know if I’d go so far as to call it domestic, but I’m married to a great woman, if she was to increase this effect it would border on abuse. Women have an ability to recall social information far and above what most men can do. And I would go so far as to say the greatest con…
/r/MensRights05/03/24 08:56 PM
1

Check out this Reddit post Incel research
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 03:32 PM
0

So what would you call a 28 year old virgin who was excelling in other areas of life? And trust me, if someone is going years without sex, and not from lack of trying (in other words, they are celibate, and it’s involuntary), they are extremely self aware about it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/24 02:13 PM
2

What is “incel territory”? I understand the mental image of the absolutely pathetic fat slob who is completely bitter against women but that only describes a very small percentage of the 1/3 of men who haven’t had sex in at least a year. No matter how decent and put together your friends are, if they can’t get laid, they fall under the definition of incel. I think more people need to understand this.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/24 01:37 PM
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Savage. Facts. Preach!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:54 PM
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And I think this is a fundamental difference between men and women’s fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 12:11 PM
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I understand the why, but unless all your friends are hideous please explain the how? Edit: didn’t realize spankbank was anywhere but in one’s head. Yeah, if a man has images of a friend… weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 12:07 PM
1

The people wanna know. Come on, spill
/r/MensRights23/02/24 05:27 PM
3

You just literally defined the original “red pill”
/r/MensRights23/02/24 05:26 PM
10

Well we all know that if every man you encounter is an asshole… well then every man is an asshole. Has nothing to do with you, OBVIOUSLY
/r/MensRights23/02/24 05:25 PM
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Read a few more articles on this site… fascinating, they are so close to the truth and yet can’t quite make the connection. Still thinking feminism will solve all the world’s ills that were created exclusively by men.
/r/MensRights23/02/24 05:24 PM
1

This article is unbelievable lol. I would think it was a far right pundit if not for the consistent man bashing. But damn, apparently SOME feminists do have self awareness. If only they could draw the correct conclusions from these wise observations… oh well that’ll never happen. Nope it’s men’s fault once again.
/r/MensRights23/02/24 05:19 PM
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Pretty fucking genius if you ask me, to charge women inordinate amounts of money to teach them to say “hi” to a man. Imagine needing to get coached to merely look at a man you might be interested in.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 05:00 PM
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I thought you might be hyperbolizing but no, that is literally what they teach. “How to pick up men” means how to get men to pick you up. Wow. Revolutionary, they’ve really changed the game /s
/r/MensRights21/02/24 04:51 PM
3

Thank you. I was going to waste time responding to this drivel but you essentially covered it
/r/TheRedPill16/01/24 09:19 PM
2

A lot of these post fucking kill me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:14 PM
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Dude I’m quite anti communist but you are spitting straight facts
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:23 PM
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EXACTLY!! How can men be held accountable for choices that (rightly) are exclusively women’s to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:20 PM
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Do you still hold to this view in cases of rape (male victim) or underage father or stolen semen?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:18 PM
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But women can still give up for adoption or abandon child with no repercussions after it’s born so your argument is null and void.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:17 PM
2

Dude, you ARE a low value boy. At least you are aware you treated her like shit but man you have got some growing up to do.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/24 02:45 AM
2

Dude what? Nowhere in the comments on your post did I get any of what you are reporting here. Please don’t muddy the waters of actual men’s rights issues with your made up bs.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 02:39 AM
1

And creating another entitled douchbag
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:33 PM
4

People will act how they are allowed. The shitty behavior of the women mentioned in this post is superseded by the shittier behavior of a man allowing and facilitating it. For every story of a woman (or man) acting with impunity there is an even worse story of them BECOMING that way because no one ever checked them. If someone is staying in a relationship with this type of behavior they are 100% at fault for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:33 PM
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I think Facebook is better at this. So many girls I had a crush on a few years ago now look like hot garbage to me now. Some of that might be my standards going up but just scrolling back a few years on their pictures shows the immense damage age has done.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:46 PM
1

Yeah that’s like a solid 4 these days
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:12 PM
1

Check out Hoe_Math on YouTube look for relationship map.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:07 PM
2

This has got to be satire right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:53 PM
1

“My friends are all supermodel gorgeous” lmao what like Victoria secret super model?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:52 PM
2

Online echo chambers. It’s no different than the “all men are trash” feminist blogs. Yes there are women like that, and yes properly maintaining a good (romantic) relationship with any woman is challenging but damn, the woe is me victim mentality is annoying. Ultimately, here are a lot of decent women that can become great women if you are willing to put in the time and effort to make that happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:30 PM
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“Forces gender roles”? No, more like “forces men to acknowledge their own nature and learn to use it and live in it”. I mean sure, you can say hey I don’t want to protect and provide. Ok. But why? So you can lay around and play video games or fuck off all your life? 99% of men need a purpose to feel content in life. It is possible you are in the other 1% but in that case simply move along, he’s not speaking to you. Otherwise, you will do yourself a disservice to not have any purpose in life, I’m…
/r/MensRights23/12/23 01:07 PM
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I definitely heard that in his voice lol
/r/MensRights23/12/23 12:59 PM
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You may be one of the outliers, but the social constructionist view is incredibly flawed. Most of the “societal differences” are because of biological differences. Women and men have very different brains, and it starts that way at birth. Trying to subvert your nature is going to cause you psychological distress in 95%+ of the population. Yes, the responsibilities of being a man can be overwhelming sometimes but the more one runs from them the more miserable one will be in the vast majority of c…
/r/MensRights23/12/23 12:58 PM
-1

This is the “democracy” we are “protecting “?
/r/MensRights22/12/23 01:26 PM
1

Because novelty is a greater urge than peak attraction for men. Why do men cheat on 9-10s with 6-7s? Because it’s different. Women often do not understand this because their equivalent drive (equivalent to men’s drive for variety/quantity) is hypergamy so she would cheat with an even higher value man. But men and women’s reproductive strategies are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:01 PM
2

This comment t is fucking GOLD my guy lmaoooo
/r/MensRights21/12/23 04:04 PM
1

I mean this is a unique case. Most women are turned on by preselection.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:18 PM
3

I’ve been with my wife 6.5years and she has never been on birth control and we very rarely used condoms. I always just pulled out and if I messed up we got a plan b (maybe a 6-8 times over all) and then we wanted to get pregnant recently so I stopped pulling out and she was pregnant 2 weeks later. Men have birth control, they have just been taught that it’s completely ineffective. It is effective though, you just have to be honest about when you fuck up. Men have been indoctrinated with this fal…
/r/MensRights19/12/23 03:07 PM
1

I don’t have a problem approaching women. I am tall, decent looking, very fit, dress well, and have some game so I am in the .5% of men who women want to be approached by and therefore scene doesn’t matter. The fact of the matter is that I can approach women anywhere. (Also, I’m not interested in most of the Women who find me attractive, so most that would want to be approached by me I’m not going to.) For the guys who are great guys but don’t look as good however, it doesn’t matter where they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:52 AM
1

Yeah that’s fine or whatever but exactly answers OPs question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:54 AM
5

I don’t drink so bars and clubs are out and I don’t want the type of girls I’d meet at a party anyway. Dating apps are trash. The park seems like the same vibe as the gym and a bookstore would only work if she is literally there to meet people and not study or something. The simple truth is that men have been heavily discouraged and penalized for approaching women period no matter where. Not all guys, not super attractive guys, but enough guys to where it’s noticeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:34 AM
2

No I’m not blaming you for anything, just a statement. Although participation is advocation. I’m sure if a man and a woman with the exact same qualifications apply for the same position 99 times out of a hundred the woman will be chosen in today’s political climate.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 07:25 PM
5

This is what “equality” looks like
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 06:21 PM
14

God I love my home gym
/r/MensRights12/12/23 05:35 PM
-2

I was with my wife for 6 years and almost never used condoms, she has never been on BC and we didn’t get pregnant until we tried to. It’s pretty easy to not get a girl pregnant if you actually try not to.
/r/MensRights12/12/23 02:28 PM
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Stealthing (removing condom without consent) is considered SA in USA and full on rape in California. But that is something done by men to women. Obviously it can’t go the other way, women don’t do assaults /s
/r/MensRights12/12/23 02:26 PM
4

You have a solid point. I’ve never understood this whole tradwife thing. I mean yeah I’d love to live on a farm and have my wife do the more traditionally feminine household duties while I do the more physical chores that she either can’t or won’t do (which is our dynamic, just no farm yet) but I definitely don’t want her to quit her job or be religious or some shit. I love her tattoos and piercings and like her to dress slutty for me. Tradwife seems boring. I don’t even own a Bible lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:17 PM
20

Looks do matter way more than society (especially women) will admit
/r/MensRights27/11/23 06:59 PM
2

BOOM. That part.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:19 PM
-1

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/sex-without-orgasm https://www.thezoereport.com/living/goal-oriented-sex-could-be-ruining-your-intimate-life-22579581 Definitely not true but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:18 PM
1

Most women are terrible at making me (M) orgasm. It’s almost like porn and vibrators have conditioned people to only orgasm by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:17 PM
1

Worth noting that women in lesbian relationships have fewer orgasms than women in hetero relationships. But women in relationships period have waaay more orgasms than those who aren’t. Also, the societal focus on orgasms is ruining sex for a lot of women. There are studies, anecdotal, and articles… too lazy to link but if one cares they are fairly easy to look up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:16 PM
2

Got people scientifically evaluating hugs lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:19 PM
2

Weak. I always make sure we get a good crotch to crotch full throated hug with my bros. But then again I don’t need to “establish that I’m still straight” too often so idk whatever works for you I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:18 PM
3

I mean I hope that they are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:16 PM
1

Um what?! I hug all my male friends (I’m male last I checked)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:15 PM
0

Based on OPs username they may be mentally ill
/r/TheRedPill22/11/23 01:25 PM
5

What in the middle school bullshit is this garbage?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/23 01:24 PM
25

But work 40% less hours
/r/MensRights17/11/23 03:21 PM
5

Well since men make up 95% of homeless she kinda inadvertently included them. But I doubt she was thinking of it like that.
/r/MensRights17/11/23 01:26 PM
5

I just saw this yesterday and was completely flabbergasted by that line
/r/MensRights15/11/23 07:46 PM
2

Yeahs Ive spent roughly $1000 for basically the same set up. And that includes gear like belt and straps.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 04:12 PM
1

I mean can you think of a beater indictment of women’s inferiority than to say they have been subjugated by men all of history and apparently have basically no free will?
/r/MensRights28/10/23 11:38 AM
2

I hope you are right but I fear that will only occur after society has been destroyed by government and education being controlled by this mentality. Of course obviously there will be no feminists once SHTF but it sucks we all have to go through that for the sake of some idiots.
/r/MensRights27/10/23 08:26 PM
6

While at the same time excusing misandry as the natural result of women who have been abused by men I was raised by an extremely abusive mother and was bullied by older girls when I was a kid but I have NO RIGHT to be distrustful of women. She, on the other hand, had to endure a bad kiss one time because she didn’t want to go through the “eMoTiOnAl LaBoR” of saying no and now routinely posts about how all men are trash and should be killed/contained and that’s perfectly reasonable.
/r/MensRights27/10/23 08:21 PM
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The problem with this concept is that there isn’t a woman alive who would allow that to be the dynamic. Unfortunately, even if the set up is supposed to be the man’s job is to make 100% of the money and the woman’s job is to take 100% care of the household, this simply will not occur. The man will still be expected to provide a significant amount of household duties, somewhere between 25-50%. So it would be an unfair trade. Therefore, as long as men are expected to help at all around the house (…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/23 06:29 PM
1

“then subjecting women and nonbinary workers to a familiar feeling of needing to compete with men” Oh no! Not women being treated equally!
/r/MensRights06/10/23 05:59 PM
2

Best definition/example of “fungible” I’ve ever heard.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 05:36 PM
1

Biology. Hormones. Who knows. Why is companionship so important? It’s not on the bottom of maslows pyramid but almost everyone really tries hard to get it. Everyone is different, but the vast majority of people have very strong chemicals in their brain affecting their behavior via emotions. If you’ve had sex with many people you can use experience to quell the emotions of dissatisfaction you begin to feel after being in a relationship for a long time. If you have no experience, those emotions ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:01 PM
1

A significantly prevalent cause for divorce is people realizing they don’t want to die/grow old with the regret of not having experienced sex with more people. Regret can be a really powerful emotion, strong enough to overcome love in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:02 PM
1

Because of the relationship destroying FOMO you will begin to feel after several years into your monogamous relationship. Especially if your partner did have a “hoe phase”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:56 PM
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I will say I greatly appreciate you being willing to come into this space and converse with people who may not have the most charitable views of your associations. That takes a courage, individuality, and rational the vast majority of feminists and mainstream thinkers do not possess.
/r/MensRights01/09/23 03:24 PM
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Depends on how you define “equality” and what kind of timeline you are looking at. The biggest accomplishment of “feminism” that is usually quoted is women getting the right to vote. This was not really equality though, because while men had gotten the right to vote 20 years previously they paid dearly for it with millions of lives in WW1 and subsequently WW2 and Vietnam. So, while women getting the right to vote was a good thing, it was in no way equality, as women did not pay for it with their…
/r/MensRights01/09/23 03:17 PM
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https://reddit.com/r/MensRights/s/7GD4UjzqQ8
/r/MensRights01/09/23 03:14 PM
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We appreciate the work you do but you are still associating yourself with a group that is headed by vocal misandrists and has done real work to harm men and who’s members shut down anyone trying to bring attention to men’s issues and even try to get this sub removed or quarantined. Sure there are good feminists but why would you associate yourself with a group that is actively doing it’s best AS A WHOLE to harm men (AND women in many cases)?
/r/MensRights01/09/23 03:19 AM
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Alright. Nazi here and I think they’re idiots. Of course there shouldn’t be concentration camps.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 01:56 PM
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No you didn’t and go study preselection. It’s present in most mammalian species so not just applicable to humans. Very strong instinct.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 08:46 PM
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Ok so if women don’t like sleeping with men that have slept with a bunch of women then how do men who have slept with a bunch of women sleep with a bunch of women?
/r/MensRights23/08/23 05:48 PM
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Good luck convincing women of this…
/r/MensRights14/08/23 01:47 AM
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Beautifully spoken! This is it exactly. It sucks that biology has placed us in these roles but you can’t complain about what your own gender has selected for.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 01:46 AM
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That’s not even the point. If he has a problem then it should be considered. If he can’t deal with it they should break up. There’s nothing wrong with men having boundaries… as much as MSM would have you believe it’s abuse.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 01:39 AM
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CDC and other governing bodies statistics show that More than 1/3 of domestic violence victims are men and numerous studies show that most men don’t report DV because they don’t even consider it to be DV because of prevailing attitudes like yours, so the number is probably much higher in reality. Lesbian relationships have the highest DV rates and homosexual relationships have the lowest. Yes, more partners ARE murdered or seriously injured by men, but we are talking about an extremely small per…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:12 PM
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Really? How will you do that when abuse is sexually symmetrical? https://www.ojp.gov/ncjrs/virtual-library/abstracts/gender-symmetry-domestic-violence-substantive-and-methodological
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:11 AM
2

I think the teeth brushing thing threw people off. Just for the record I brush my teeth several times a day lol this was just a random example. I also cook my own meals, clean my own house, and wash my own clothes. This is not what the post is about. How about things like “you’re not going to wear yoga pants or paint your nails” or “you are not going to have leather furniture in your apartment” or “you are not going to tattoo your arm” or “you are not going to be friends with that woman”? This i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:07 AM
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Yeah because women can’t be abusers right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:00 AM
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The gendered issue is how acceptable it is for one gender to do it vs the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:57 AM
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Wow. Spoken like someone who has never dealt with children. People are not a blank slate. No matter how much you “socialize” women to be skyscraper window cleaners, most WILL NOT DO IT. They just aren’t willing. Women do the things they want and men do the things they have to. No amount of upbringing is going to change that. In your specific example, very few women are more interested in things (cars) than people, no matter the “sOcIaLiZaTiOn” and even in the rare case whence they do, they gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:47 AM
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Exactly! Nailed it. Everyone else seems to be focusing in on specific things, but my point isn’t individual demands, it’s society’s reaction to those demands based on gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:36 AM
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Y’all are getting g hung up on the trees
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:32 AM
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Feminism will destroy society and there are no feminists without societal structure
/r/MensRights17/07/23 06:45 PM
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This article is such fucking bullshit. They will blame men and the pAtRiArChY for women’s shitty behavior even when these women are raised in single mother households and have mostly only interacted with other women instead of just calling it “toxic behavior”. Bending over backwards to blame any shitty human behavior on masculinity is making my eyes bleed.
/r/MensRights14/07/23 09:19 PM
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Perfect timing. Literally had a very similar scenario happen with my wife 2 days ago. It’s absolutely correct that feeding in to the emotions only strengthens them. You must wait for a more opportune time to apologize, if one is warranted, when she is not as emotional and can communicate in a conscious manner. But I did create a new boundary concerning this. I will only apologize once from now on. The days of a 3 hour argument, wherein I apologize dozens of times only to be repeatedly told that …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/23 07:51 PM
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Wow this is so toxic, I can see why TRP is quarantined/s
/r/TheRedPill28/06/23 07:53 PM
2

Circumcision
/r/MensRights22/05/23 05:59 PM
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https://12ft.io/proxy?q=https%3A%2F%2Fmedium.com%2Fthe-knowledge-of-freedom%2Fyou-never-washed-the-dishes-i-thought-that-was-why-we-ended-i-was-wrong-718cfe8e934f
/r/MensRights19/05/23 05:56 PM
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While this is derived from pure malice, I actually am excited to see how this turns out lmao. When men start logging all the hours they spend balancing the budget, doing yard work, keeping the vehicles operational, spending hours on the phone with insurance companies and banks, doing the household maintenance and repairs, putting up the Christmas decorations, keeping the devices connected to the internet, all in ADDITION to taking on nearly half of the cleaning, cooking, and child care, all whil…
/r/MensRights19/05/23 05:54 PM
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So it’s bad to want a “coachable” wife but when women talk about how they have “house trained” their husband that is a-ok? Please explain the difference and why one side should not want what the other has.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 02:49 PM
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Please report back in a few months
/r/MensRights30/03/23 06:21 PM
10

It’s important to point out that most children who are murdered are killed by their mother. Somebody quick, publish a national article about that!
/r/MensRights28/03/23 11:45 AM
3

Wow I have the opposite problem. My sex drive has fallen enough after years of being with my wife that she has to have talks with me to make sure she gets enough sex but other women can merely glance at me and I’m ready to go.
/r/MensRights17/03/23 07:19 PM
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On top of that, a significant percentage of these women who get these degrees don’t want to stay in the workforce so there are even less qualified people for these positions
/r/MensRights17/03/23 04:59 PM
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Completely fails to mention Cher, Madonna, or Jada Pinkett or any of the other women engaging in the same practice
/r/MensRights09/03/23 04:32 PM
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Doesn’t even matter if you’re married if she lives with you long enough
/r/MensRights08/03/23 02:36 AM
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I really can’t stand the Anna Akana videos. She’s demeaning and entitled with her blaming all of men’s problems on “toxic masculinity” quoting wildly inaccurate “facts” and refusing to acknowledge the selection that women make and social pressure they exert to get the behavior from men that is exhibited. Men are not stoic because of homophobia, they are stoic because women do not breed with emotional men. Jesus, how many times do I gotta say this.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 04:33 PM
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Love Karen. She’s awesome!
/r/MensRights26/02/23 05:35 PM
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That whole double standard about men/players women/whores is a myth anyway. May have been true 50 years ago but today a guy that’s slept with 50 women is gross and a fuck boy and a woman that’s done the same is empowered and a queen. Besides, if anyone is shaming anyone for number of partners it’s women.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 07:37 PM
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Cutting health parts off babies sex organs is ethically wrong. If you want to get mutilated as an adult that’s your choice. But a baby can’t consent. If someone has the perspective that cutting the external tip of a baby girls clit off does no harm we tell them they are wrong. You are welcome to your perspective but don’t try to act like they are of equal merit.
/r/MensRights14/11/22 06:42 AM
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I don’t feel worthless I am in therapy I’m not talking about how I feel, I’m talking about the way boys are raised in the west.
/r/MensRights14/11/22 06:09 AM
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Feminists have raised a generation of men to believe they are worthless for their daughters who believe they deserve nothing less than everything. It’s gonna work out great!
/r/MensRights11/11/22 05:20 AM
10

Yet another sub acknowledging that men have problems yes, but essentially maintaining that they are all caused by mens bad behavior and if men would just shape up and fly right all of their problems would go away and why can’t y’all just be more like women, who are perfect and can do no wrong?
/r/MensRights05/11/22 07:51 PM
1

Not to mention men’s fertility falling off a cliff. All mammals for that matter.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 11:09 PM
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Except this doesn’t apply to clothing (women’s clothes are SIGNIFICANTLY cheaper than men’s)
/r/MensRights14/10/22 11:19 PM
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What? That #killallmen is socially acceptable but #killall the other sex would get me banned from Reddit? Is that what they talk about?
/r/MensRights09/10/22 12:31 AM
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Literally what I just said.
/r/MensRights07/10/22 12:33 AM
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I’m not telling you to BECOME Tate, I’m telling you to better yourself. He has some pretty good stuff to say about that. So does Jordan Peterson. And several other public figures feminists hate. Why do you think they hate them? Because they are telling men to better themselves and stop playing the victimhood game. And get off tinder unless you’re built for it.
/r/MensRights07/10/22 12:31 AM
5

It would be hilarious to see feminists try to live in a world without oppressive capitalism lmfao
/r/MensRights06/10/22 06:41 PM
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Glad to see a voice of reason. Couldn’t have said it better myself. Remember feminist≠female. Most women ultimately disagree with the tenets of feminism once they actually understand them. We are all in this together. (Except misandrists and misogynists, they can go get fucked)
/r/MensRights06/10/22 06:40 PM
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I was about to say. Tainting the men’s rights movement with their feminist traits of helplessness and victimhood
/r/MensRights06/10/22 02:11 AM
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Hasn’t been a problem so far
/r/MensRights06/10/22 02:10 AM
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Why are comments like this getting downvoted? I came here for MensRights not mens whining and complaining while doing nothing to fix things. Jesus.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 08:05 PM
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So what. The biggest problem I have in the swinger community is that attractive women I want to play with have disgusting husbands my wife would never. Sooooo many hot women are with ugly ass men. It’s not (usually) about the looks for them. THIS IS A GOOD THING! Working out doesn’t make you look better so much as make it seem like you have integrity and ambition and character and outside goals and all that. Stop thinking women think like you and a lot more of life will make sense.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 08:03 PM
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Go watch some Andrew Tate and man up. Women aren’t attracted to physicalities like we are. It’s the secondary traits that get them. This should be good news to you because then, even if you aren’t very attractive, you still have a chance if you level up various areas of your personality. Looks…? you are stuck with: everything else…? you can improve.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 07:57 PM
1

And pray tell, what’s wrong with that?
/r/MensRights01/09/22 02:20 PM
12

Very well put
/r/MensRights03/08/22 09:44 AM
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Fantastic article dude. Ignore the plebs, most of whom formed a ridiculously contradictory opinion while blatantly stating that they had not even read the whole thing. I look forward to more of your writings sir. This is my favorite theory so far, and it makes more sense than anything I have ever heard.
/r/MensRights24/07/22 09:05 PM
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Wow you sound amazingly ignorant. There ARE good women out there and they ARE attracted PHYSICALLY to men. Have you ever even had sex with a woman consensually? Don’t assume all women are infected with this mind disease. Women are primarily attracted to CAPABILITY. Visual physical strength is a pretty good indicator of this, but it obviously isn’t the only criteria. Plenty of women marry a rich ugly man for the security and then cheat with muscular men because that is what they are biologically …
/r/MensRights24/07/22 09:02 PM
3

Fantastic article, well thought out theory. Makes a ton of sense.
/r/MensRights24/07/22 08:52 PM
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More like feminism is a sexual orientation that subverts attraction into jealousy, causing people to want to BECOME more like the other sex instead of being attracted to it.
/r/MensRights24/07/22 08:47 PM
3

Mmmm that’s not quite it. Just read the damn article ya Luddite lol
/r/MensRights24/07/22 08:46 PM
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When you put it like that… I’m rolling!!
/r/MensRights13/07/22 02:19 PM
5

Totally agree. But now with that being said, if you are in a relationship with a good woman, transactional sex can be really fun SOMETIMES. And it should go both ways, sometimes the man rewards the woman with good sex or sexual favors ie head or trying out fantasy.
/r/MensRights13/07/22 02:17 PM
2

No medical intervention required. Just tug at the skin for a few minutes each day r/foreskin_restoration
/r/MensRights16/05/22 04:46 PM
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This is feminists own corrupt ideology coming home to roost. Using alleged oppression as a shield against all reason was always eventually going to be used against them. They just didn’t expect a group to come along that was even crazier and less logical than themselves.
/r/MensRights02/05/22 12:26 PM
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