| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 204 | Women are really beautiful | LEVEL UP | ewoksareprettycool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 10:07 PM |
| 24 | I’m trying my best not to lose my shit | SEEKING ADVICE | ewoksareprettycool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Breaking Surname Traditions | DISCUSSION | ewoksareprettycool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 07:52 PM |
| 1 | An wife’s education can determine how long her husband will live | DISCUSSION | ewoksareprettycool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 01:15 PM |
| 1 | I’m cringing | PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAME | ewoksareprettycool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 05:42 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | Would you date someone divorced/ have kids?Nope. Even though I have my own kid, I couldn’t date a guy with a kid. The difference is that I’m for certain I can carry my own weight with my son’s alone. I know that as soon as I step into a potential step mom role, I’m taking on the responsibility of caring for and cleaning up after his kid. Step moms do too much and they receive little to no appreciation. It’s just not for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 01:47 AM |
| 10 | Celibacy > LVMs, by farMy dildo would be charging outside my apartment every day. I hope my neighbors don’t mind | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 06:43 PM |
| 35 | Unfriendly ReminderWe need to have protests on keeping abortion legal nationwide. If we don’t cause a national uproar about what we want, women will die trying to get an illegal and unsafe abortion just like we did before Roe V. Wade. This is so sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 11:04 AM |
| 15 | Blocking and deleting is one of those things that ACTUALLY feels empoweringThis goes for toxic friendships too! I blocked and deleted my ex pickme friend. It’s so empowering and calming to cut out the negativity and drama from your life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 09:07 PM |
| 27 | This is why I’m okay with not getting married or having children. I’d much rather be out experiencing life and enjoying myself than have to deal with thisI’m terrified of having this life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 04:55 PM |
| 3 | TW: THIS IS WHAT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A SCROTE LOOKS LIKEI can’t even watch the full video because this brought me flashbacks when I was in an abusive relationship. Girl, RUN 🏃🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 04:28 AM |
| 47 | Stop Centering male opinions in women's issuesI try and try to get this viewpoint across but someone has the audacity to say I hate women who are sex workers. No, Chad. I hate the men who take advantage of these women perfectly knowing these women were coerced or groomed at a young age into doing sex work that puts their lives in danger. Know the difference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 04:26 AM |
| 27 | For those who deleted dating apps, how did you get over the fear of missing out?Not really missing anything besides pointless conversations that waste your time. I found the person I’m with now through mutual interests and friends. I was on online dating for years, and it was all trash. HVM don’t use dating apps | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 03:14 PM |
| 5 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.This motivates me to get my tubes tied | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 11:59 AM |
| 12 | Females After A BreakupNot only is the word “females” dehumanizing, but it’s also grammatically weird. THE WORD YOU’RE SEARCHING FOR ALREADY EXISTS. Ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 03:17 PM |
| 14 | Women search for stocks and funds to invest in that reflect their core values. $GME is not it.It’s not about investing. It’s about a big “F U” to Wall Street. If I make money cool, but I’m happy with being part of sending a message to short sellers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 02:51 AM |
| 32 | The fact that men are fertile 100% of the time and women are fertile 2+ days out of the month and yet the burden of birth control falls to the woman is one of the greatest schemes of the patriarchyI can’t count on a guy to floss his teeth let alone keep up with birth control. I think this is the right move letting women have control | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:54 AM |
| 10 | Beware of Trojan HorsesAnd men call us the crazy ones.... men who think like this are psychotic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 09:12 PM |
| 29 | Hope someone picks you sis.Wow. She’s so different. So low maintenance. Wow. Just every guys dream slave I mean wife. In all honesty, why can’t us women just love ourselves enough to tell men the bare minimum is NOT okay? This is so sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Very pleased with every man in the comment section claiming this is 100% her choiceI saw this too on there. I’m so disturbed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 05:10 PM |
| 7 | “I don’t have a child”This is so specific that I’m wondering if we have the same ex or if this is so utterly common, you can’t even tell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:10 PM |
| 30 | Empirical evidence that men are more often assholes than womenHAHAHAHA this is my mom 😂 two divorces will do that to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 06:27 PM |
| 80 | CALL THEIR BLUFF 2020Yes! I found out a guy I was talking to lied about his age on tinder. He was 12 years older than what he said he was | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 05:04 PM |
| 15 | How a man treats you when you're sick or going through a hard time is a good indicator of the future.This makes me so sad and angry..... I’m wondering if the majority of men are even capable at loving someone else other than themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 04:03 AM |
| 5 | Women create "nice guys".Men create “nice” guys, because that behavior is rooted on deep entitlement. Men are taught that by doing everything he’s supposed to, the woman HAS to be with him, and when she doesn’t choose him.... that’s when the entitlement shows.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/20 01:43 PM |
| 15 | There's people in the comments saying that some of these are reasonable...I stopped reading at “crying is blackmail.” Men are such emotionally incompetent creatures | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 03:17 PM |
| 28 | How often are you the ones carrying a conversation and just getting one word answers?It happens very often. I wonder if people are on online dating sites solely for the ego boost and not the dating part or if they’re really just that boring irl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 03:15 PM |
| 8 | someone pls pick herThe fact I used to be this type of woman makes me cringe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 02:46 PM |
| 195 | Don't learn the hard way, ladies. 🤦🏻♀️Hahaha I was in this photo and I don’t like it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:53 AM |
| 68 | Where the house though? 🔨Why do so many act like cooking is a required skill of just women? That’s something you should be doing because you’re an adult now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:52 AM |
| 28 | I feel like an A**holeSis, kick his ass OUT. He refuses to leave? Get an eviction notice sent to him. He sounds like nothing but a parasite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 01:11 PM |
| 11 | Just a reminder 😉Is this recent? I remember her current boyfriend,A Rod, having accusations that he cheated on her with a playboy model | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 04:04 PM |
| 32 | I'm so proud, I got my first creepy stalker from posting on here. I've made it in life. LOLYeah, a troll said I shouldn’t be dating out of my league and that’s why I deserved what I got. The troll began to say I was either fat, black, or autistic 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:01 PM |
| 9 | Never refer to yourself as 'wifey' or 'wife' even in a joking manner especially if you want marriage.That’s good you learned from you parents of what NOT to do instead of following in their footsteps. Lots of men think it’s “too feminine” to help out around the house. He can enjoy making his own meals and cleaning up after his dirty self on his own like an adult should 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 03:59 PM |
| 22 | Never refer to yourself as 'wifey' or 'wife' even in a joking manner especially if you want marriage.Good point. I feel like I was raising a child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 01:56 PM |
| 26 | Never refer to yourself as 'wifey' or 'wife' even in a joking manner especially if you want marriage.Thank you 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 05:14 AM |
| 196 | Never refer to yourself as 'wifey' or 'wife' even in a joking manner especially if you want marriage.Lesson learned in my current relationship. I’m being taken advantage of right now. I cook him every meal, do his laundry, clean his apartment, and he still texts other girls while he’s at work. We don’t even sleep in the same bed anymore as I’m moving out next week. Never playing wifey again without a ring🙅🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 05:07 AM |
| 6 | He's 'fine' with FDS but misses the point completely. Link in commentsOhhhh haha thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 07:53 PM |
| 6 | He's 'fine' with FDS but misses the point completely. Link in commentsNVW?? Educate me lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 07:53 PM |
| 30 | If you are a woman, DO NOT join the military! They don’t give a fuck about you, and the men there pray on women and get away with it.I always remind women that want to join that you shouldn’t let this fear you into not joining if this is really what you want to do. Keep this in the back of your mind that sexism still exists, but don’t let it stop you choosing your career. Sexism will always exist, so you might as well ignore the stupid boys and keep going. Statistically, I think enlisted are sexually harassed far more than officers, but that’s not to say it doesn’t happen to both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 07:52 PM |
| 759 | If you are a woman, DO NOT join the military! They don’t give a fuck about you, and the men there pray on women and get away with it.I think every woman including myself that has served, is going to serve, or is currently serving has faced some form of gender discrimination. Your ideas will be dismissed, men talk over you 24/7, you get accused of sleeping around every time you promote, and sexual harassment is common. When pointing this out to any man, I get the “this is what you signed up for.” Instead of them going after their fellow man, they go after women like it’s OUR fault we even joined. I signed up to serve and to ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 01:00 PM |
| 22 | He's 'fine' with FDS but misses the point completely. Link in commentsOr a whore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Legit, first conversation and already talking about “cuddling”. This can’t be real life!If anything, if he’s the right type of guy, he’ll change his perspective about you in a positive way. If I were a guy and received your response, I would think this girl is seriously looking for a partner. It wasn’t disrespectful but you still laid out your boundaries 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:55 PM |
| 7 | Legit, first conversation and already talking about “cuddling”. This can’t be real life!Many times guys get sexual WAY too quickly. I think you made the right move responding the way you did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:41 PM |
| 12 | Is the anticipated “more intricately woven band” also made of scrote hair?Please be fake. please be fake. please be fake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 05:06 PM |
| 4 | Can a relationship survive without sexual attraction?No, sex is so important. Don’t underestimate the spiritual and emotional connection it has | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 08:36 PM |
| 1 | What did i do or endure to deserve this kind of attitude 😭I mean I get laughing about your problems, but you’re not stuck staying that way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:35 PM |
| 19 | What did i do or endure to deserve this kind of attitude 😭I get mad now when I see these memes. Why women just casually accept that men are garbage and laugh about it blows my mind. Get away from that mindset of “wanting to ruin your life.” Life is way too damn short for that drama and unneeded stress. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Gaslighting, Vulnerability and Memory IssuesYes, your medical history is your OWN story. It does not need to be shared if you’re not comfortable with it. Plus men act like they know EVERYTHING. You tell them you’re bipolar, and they think you switch moods every hour. That’s not how it even works! Most people don’t understand any mental illness, so it’s best just to keep it to yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:53 PM |
| 3 | This is some next level NVM bullshit. Could you imagine thinking your friends are more important than you wife in labour. Chuck him in the bin IMO.He wasn’t cleaning the garage. We all know what he was doing. She doesn’t want to accept the reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 06:29 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys prevent pregnancies?Wear condoms - ALWAYS. STD’s are more common than pregnancy. Secondly, get on a contraceptive yesterday!!! Many women forget to take the pill on a daily basis like I did. I ended up getting pregnant at 19. I now have a 6 year old, and I’m on the Nexplanon implant. I highly recommend it, because you don’t have to worry about it and it’s good for 3 years. Be prepared that it may not work for you, but there are many options out there like IUD’s and the NuvaRing (if that’s how you spell it). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 01:01 AM |
| 12 | The number 2 movie on Netflix in Canada today is literally glorifying Stockholm SyndromeSPOILER ALERT She was murdered or kidnapped. She never left him. She was picking out a wedding dress and was about to announce her pregnancy to him. Just blech 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 12:58 AM |
| 18 | The number 2 movie on Netflix in Canada today is literally glorifying Stockholm SyndromeI was just thinking this while I watched it... I knew this topic would come up on here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 12:56 AM |
| 41 | Another woman faces possible infertility due to disgusting male cheating on her before their wedding.On the bright side of things, maybe being infertile when being married to this douche is a plus. I mean that in the least fucked up way possible. I hope she doesn’t have kids with this man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 12:54 AM |
| 54 | I can't help but laugh, look at her contact name though.This is gross. Imma go throw up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 03:02 AM |
| 2 | How to approach/attract women at the gym?I somewhat agree. Hit on women as they’re leaving the gym. Most of us don’t like being interrupted during the middle of our workouts. If she’s interested, she’ll let you know. | /r/seduction | 11/06/20 07:47 PM |
| 7 | I’m trying my best not to lose my shitThat’s what I’m thinking after everyone seems to be saying the same thing. When I asked if he’s talking to her this morning, his response is “no, she’s fat”. I’m seeing 🚩 everywhere | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 01:37 PM |
| 7 | I’m trying my best not to lose my shitYou’re right, but now I’m at this crossroad of wondering if I’m wasting my time giving him a chance to fix it or if I should just call it what it is and leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 01:15 AM |
| 3 | I’m trying my best not to lose my shitGood to know. Honestly don’t even know if I should even bother talking about it with him “in hopes” he changes his ways or just leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 01:11 AM |
| -4 | I’m trying my best not to lose my shitI don’t get why people are downvoting here. I thought this was a space for women to support each other, but I see a lot of negative judgment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 12:25 AM |
| -5 | I’m trying my best not to lose my shitLol now that’s BOLD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 12:07 AM |
| -9 | I’m trying my best not to lose my shitBecause I’ve made the mistake of jumping to conclusions before, so now I make decisions based off proof I see. She blocked me right after she said that and never provided proof. It’s very easy to send a screenshot nowadays, so I have feeing she might be making the shit up to be spiteful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 12:06 AM |
| -14 | I’m trying my best not to lose my shitMe neither. I’m giving him the benefit of the doubt until I have proof. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 11:04 PM |
| 7 | I’m trying my best not to lose my shitGood point. I don’t think he’s going to do anything about it tbh. He just blocks her and doesn’t say anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 11:00 PM |
| 18 | Women are really beautifulYeah never said anything about that. In terms of beautiful, I was using it to describe how our souls are just gentler, kinder, more empathetic, and to me, that’s beautiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 01:51 PM |
| 6 | Is it a red flag that my boyfriend is against pedophiles being killed???I don’t agree with killing any living creature regardless of their crime. It is not my place, nor do I believe it’s the government’s job to take anyone’s life. This is not the same as supporting criminals’ actions. Completely understand where he is coming from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 08:54 PM |
| 8 | I saw the post about “begging for a pandora CZ ring” and decided to look up that exact same ring. Sadly it’s not a joke 😥LOL that looks uncomfortable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 04:46 PM |
| 47 | If he’s hits you with that “promise ring” nonsense...I actually laughed OUT LOUD. This is hilarious! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 03:58 AM |
| 2 | For those who still think of their past relationshipsI don’t know why but this made me cry reading it 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 05:40 PM |
| 5 | NEVER date a guy who studied philosophy.I’m a philosophy major. There aren’t as many women in the field as men, but I will say the differences you stated are definitely noted. Both men and women who major in philosophy generally love to argue, but I feel like the men tend to not hear the opposing sides as much as the women do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 05:02 AM |
| 18 | Cardi B Gave Her CHEATING HUSBAND $500,000 in Cash for His Birthday.To be honest, Cardi B has been through some shit with men, so this is no surprise. If you look at past interviews, she speaks on surviving domestic violence. I really think this woman is looking for love and wants to be validated even if it’s with the wrong guy, and as women should be more supportive rather than saying some childish insults. Cardi is real, and I love that about her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 10:12 PM |
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