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Relationships seems to be Relationship a little fucked up? Pro female lean or tilt. Relationship at full nuclear meltdown? Tell the male hes stupid and should leave. Years ago, when I posted the first segment of my story to r-relationships, it was a front page shitshow, very tilted towards her perspective. No one seemed to have a problem that I had no idea about her debt load and she wanted us to spend more on dates. Somewhere way down in a downvoted graveyard was a guy saying, "If you reversed …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 03:42 AM
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Younger guys don't need to go through this shit. Its a script. Its damn near the same story for men in bad marriages. If younger men knew the script, they could at least see it coming and know their special snowflake™ needs to be taken off the pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 05:50 PM
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Its textbook. its a fucking script. DARVO refers to a reaction perpetrators of wrong doing, particularly sexual offenders, may display in response to being held accountable for their behavior. DARVO stands for "Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender." The perpetrator or offender may Deny the behavior, Attack the individual doing the confronting, and Reverse the roles of Victim and Offender such that the perpetrator assumes the victim role and turns the true victim -- or the whistle blower…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 05:46 PM
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Women file most divorces. Make sure to filter this through the victim™ filter. Women file most divorces - because "Wives expect to get, and subsequently keep, custody of their children — if they didn’t, they probably wouldn’t file for divorce. " This way, you deflect the inevitable discussion of why, and redirection to women as victims (theyre probably divorcing because of something he did) -and- you start addressing how marriage is fucked up and imbalanced against men. Us men are pretty shitty …
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 05:43 PM
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Two choices 1) take responsibility 2) be a victim They nearly always choose door #2. Its a strong hand, and giving that up means giving up a lot of power. Imagine turning away all the white knights that want to help or the sisterhood victim party just to step up and do the right thing. Not many are going to pick that.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 05:31 PM
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Its all the same story. What is shitty is that younger men don't know the script. I think we'd be doing the younger generation a service to let it out. Its not like the women are going to change up the game after its exposed.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 05:17 PM
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I'm conceding that the overall spirit of the argument is there. She did, in essence, blameshift. She was able to do that without putting it on me. She put other shit on me, like claiming I was being emotionally abusive, after discovery. I was out of the house and never communicated with her in person, but, somehow, that stuck. In other words, it wasnt necessary for her to pass the buck on the cheating. What she did was "admit it was wrong," and then start gaining victim status™ after the fact. T…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 05:14 PM
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Ultimately, you had to be the asshole that justifies her cheating. No, this part didn't happen. The justification was completely skipped over. She didn't care about unloading the responsibility of cheating on me, either. It worked differently in my story. she ultimately had no real intentions of "reconciling". She wanted to keep you around just long enough so that she could get closure. Closure, in your context, was to unload her sense of guilt or responsibility for cheating onto you, before the…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 04:55 PM
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What I got wasn't that. She did a bunch of horrible things, but she "forgave herself." Her friends circled around the idea that those actions didn't define her. I'm thinking, what the fuck? Then, because of the miracle of her amazing self forgiveness and false equivalency, I needed to be wrong, too. She spun it around and accused me of cheating behind my back while she was trying to "reconcile" with me. I found this out and went double WTF. She wanted that victim status, and nothing burned her a…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 04:34 PM
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Thanks ditched the gym and is now pretty obese again Thats a big mistake. Invest in yourself, always. It gets a great return for your investment.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 04:23 PM
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When you introduce a low-cost alternative to women that comes without all the nagging, insecurity and expense, frankly men are going to leap in headfirst. Oh, if it only were just nagging and expense. Ex /r-relationships blue-pill example guy here. My marriage was such a fucking trainwreck. Let me re-write this. When you introduce a low-cost alternative to women that comes without all the divorce rape, STD's, gas lighting, half-truths lies, dead-bedroom creeping destruction to your self-esteem, …
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 08:27 PM
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I know a guy who is doing this - this is how he makes it work. All you see out of him is a smile and a non descriptive greeting as he makes a bee line for his room. Thats it. He studies elsewhere, works elsewhere, and he seems to fuck his plates elsewhere. The rest of the house is a drama shit-show at times. I don't think he likes it there. He is just never there, makes a brief friendly greeting when he pops in and out, and the drama just glides over him to another target.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 05:11 PM
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