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Holy shit, what in the outdated testosterone overload is this overconfident, toxic wall of trash? Pretty kinky, jerking off so publicly in full view of this sub. Careful, you might go blind with all that impotent rage
/r/seduction06/04/25 11:16 AM
2

Giving you her number is interesting. She's probably covering her bases: if it's true and she has a bf, she's probably setting you up to be her "just in case" rebound. If it's not true and she made it up, then she probably mentioned having a bf to give herself safe cover
/r/seduction24/03/25 10:08 AM
1

The ability to "roll with it" is paramount. Win with grace, take the L with grace. No gloating or being a sore loser, both are not attractive.
/r/seduction31/01/25 09:55 AM
2

Regardless of what you're looking to get out of it.... Depending on your location (North America, Europe, etc), I'm sure there are rules and policies in place by the company that you work for that HR uses to handle "fraternizing with co-workers." My advice: Look at the rules and company policy about this sort of thing FIRST, make yourself VERY familiar with how HR handles it if things go sideways. Weigh the possible consequences against your pursuit: is it worth the risk? Worst case scenario: on…
/r/seduction03/01/25 06:56 AM
3

That's a lot of excuses that don't excuse you
/r/seduction23/08/24 01:20 AM
2

How small is your sea of fish if not dating co-workers makes you a virgin?
/r/seduction21/08/24 12:44 AM
4

Disney seemed to think so in 1991. "You have to be a football hero, to get along with the beautiful girls!" "The fact that you are rich or handsome will get you anything in curls!"
/r/seduction10/02/24 03:22 AM
2

A hot guy flirting: no cause for alarm, it's flattering. A not-hot guy flirting: immediately, call the authorities.
/r/seduction08/09/23 02:40 PM
1

So you make a bet that you know you're gonna lose, and then your "punishment" is that you take her out on a date. Hate to break it to you, but you're Todd Gack from SEINFELD. JERRY: He made a bet he knew he was going to lose just to take you to dinner. ELAINE: If he wanted to ask me out, why didn't he just ask me? JERRY: Because if he doesn't ask you out, he doesn't get rejected. He found a dating loophole. ELAINE: I don't buy it. JERRY: So what happened after the movie? ELAINE: Nothing, he walk…
/r/seduction01/08/22 04:21 PM
1

She wanted what she couldn't get. Now she knows she can.
/r/seduction13/07/22 04:05 PM
1

If I had a nickel for every time someone bent over in front of me, I'd be broke as a joke
/r/seduction07/05/22 03:37 PM
1

Cool Water by Davidoff
/r/seduction09/01/22 05:45 AM
1

I used to have a co-worker that hated when I wore my cologne. She hated me, but she loved how my cologne's scent smelled. I once overheard her say "I hate how he smells so delicious."
/r/seduction08/01/22 07:13 PM
2

Well, that was the Opie & Anthony Show for you. At least the comedians they featured were great. But yeah, the 70s was kinda sleazy. I think Austin Powers touched on it when he was referring to knowing "the consequences of our sexual liberation," and how we have "freedom *AND* responsibility"
/r/seduction25/11/21 02:06 AM
4

"This was back in '75, when a condom was just...he was uncircumcised"
/r/seduction25/11/21 01:31 AM
7

Hulu and Hung*
/r/seduction11/11/21 06:45 PM
6

What were the chances they'd be THAT guy?
/r/seduction31/03/21 01:59 PM
3

OP's post was a stand-up comedy bit, and you just topped it one better lol
/r/seduction25/02/21 08:25 AM
2

Can someone transcribe WTF she said? I only caught about half of it at best.
/r/seduction23/10/20 06:51 AM
10

Cereal*
/r/seduction30/08/20 03:29 PM
9

probably
/r/seduction04/07/20 07:17 PM
6

...and here I thought that a girl ALWAYS knew! I've been misinformed.
/r/seduction03/06/20 02:34 PM
3

Stay in drugs. Eat your school. Don't do vitamins.
/r/seduction20/04/20 12:10 AM
64

This is a one-way ticket to a hug, an "Aw, thank you!" response, and her moving on and never speaking to you ever again. What are you, 13 or 14 years old? Lmao, I can't tell if you're joking, angry at your past failures, or just faking like you're tough (like a kid would). This won't change anything in your favor.
/r/seduction13/04/20 03:57 PM
7

A few of my exes tried to add me on Facebook
/r/seduction25/03/20 03:06 PM
3

I always thought to myself "If no one's going to push you into it, you gotta push yourself."
/r/seduction13/12/19 06:07 PM
1

Why not?
/r/seduction23/10/19 11:05 PM
10

Love this... I'm saving this
/r/seduction23/10/19 10:12 PM
13

Dude, you're going on a date with her. Let that part sink in: she likes you enough ALREADY to say yes. So there's something about you that she sees NOW. There's no need to put on some kind of false pretense to impress or charm her even more than you already have. That part is done...plus, she would see right through that. She wants that person she agreed to date, so just be yourself, man.
/r/seduction22/10/19 03:44 PM
1

Flowers would be cool. I'd like to get flowers from a girl once, just because. :)
/r/seduction06/10/19 07:00 AM
1

Of course, inform yourself on how dangerous a situation you may have to NOPE the fuck away from.
/r/seduction26/09/19 02:04 AM
-5

No guilt, no looking down on anyone. I'm just asking how "8 freakin kids" is something to be impressed with or aspire to. Doesn't take much to "pull off" raw dogging it and getting a girl pregnant, btw. Anyone can have kids, regardless...now the game that it takes to get to that point, that's a different story. We can agree on that, yeah? Being a childfree person, I'm just personally not getting anything out of that part.
/r/seduction19/08/19 05:15 PM
-9

Wow, 8 kids. That's totally a measure of game.....how? Because he must have had sex for that? I mean, you can have lots of sex and not have kids, no? I'm not seeing why having "8 freakin kids" should be impressive. I just see a man with that much more responsibility, with that many more mouths to feed.
/r/seduction19/08/19 04:18 PM
4

So faceless paraplegics who have had a mastectomy don't even tip the scales, eh? You monster...
/r/seduction23/07/19 05:59 PM
30

Pursuing someone you work with? Not without its dangers, take precautions.
/r/seduction07/07/19 03:52 PM
1

It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia
/r/seduction06/07/19 10:25 PM
79

Please, the DENNIS system makes more sense than this lol
/r/seduction05/07/19 05:06 PM
4

I see that context has escaped you, as the topic of this whole discussion is online ....dating. I'm sorry, but I think you went off half-cocked this time. Feel free to try again...or double down, I won't mind lol
/r/seduction20/06/19 09:49 PM
4

Can confirm...been messaged first a few times, was targeted.....for love. ;)
/r/seduction20/06/19 06:35 PM
5

Get it, girl. You've got the tools and the plan, now go be awesome!
/r/seduction30/04/19 07:25 AM
2

Wrong answer...
/r/seduction08/04/19 06:07 PM
2

You're skipping quite a few steps in conversation before any contact information is exchanged...rein it in a little, friend. Sounds like you've got a little more to learn (like body language and situational context) before a cold open is in your near future.
/r/seduction28/03/19 07:27 AM
2

How do you see that happening in your mind? Like, what does success look like to you? Because I'll be honest: based on what you've said, your chances of any kind of positive result are so low, it doesn't seem worth it at all...too much risk, and not enough reward.
/r/seduction28/03/19 07:20 AM
3

Hear hear, why not both?
/r/seduction02/02/19 12:12 AM
1

Do whatever gets you to that mindset to not worry, you're still catching up to the "don't worry" step...
/r/seduction27/01/19 05:03 PM
1

Depends on the tone, but if it's early (like they're saying it as a shit test), then I would jokingly (sarcastically) agree. If you've already spent some time with them, then be a little more serious...maybe examine why they said it.
/r/seduction17/01/19 06:53 AM
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Remember: above everything else, Gillette is a business, and this is a business move (very much like when Nike made that ad with Colin Kaepernick ... remember that?). I wouldn't at all put it past them to gather enough intel about their user base (men and women who shave) to know that making and releasing an ad like this would put them in the spotlight for a short while (free publicity), start a conversation (like we're having now, so congrats to Gillette, mission accomplished), and after all of…
/r/seduction16/01/19 04:49 PM
9

If you're a beta, maybe. \s
/r/seduction09/01/19 09:52 PM
17

GG OP: summarizes video for those with limited data on mobile
/r/seduction04/12/18 03:57 PM
124

The Incel Guide to Sex
/r/seduction29/11/18 07:12 AM
8

Here's Sir Michael Caine doing an impression of Sir Michael Caine
/r/seduction21/08/18 03:53 PM
133

Amateur. A real bad boy would harass the children himself.
/r/seduction19/08/18 06:33 PM
6

3rd tip is not really a worry for me personally. My voice is naturally louder and travels farther than normal. Just watch what you say if you're going to talk louder, may be strange to do shit tests with a megaphone voice. The 1st seems like the real goal is to show off your body. Not necessarily a bad thing (especially if you've got it), but if that's it, be honest about it and don't make it about "being relaxed" in your head. Don't lie to yourself. 2nd tip seems the most legit. I totally agree…
/r/seduction16/08/18 03:40 PM
3

You won't find it from OP lol
/r/seduction11/08/18 11:03 PM
4

It might also help to have contacts yourself, otherwise what creep would have a contact case and fresh solution just laying around?
/r/seduction28/07/18 07:24 AM
1

Of course it is, you can discuss it while you're both on the treadmill.
/r/seduction01/07/18 06:37 PM
19

...and what if she guesses an exclusive restaurant that only takes reservations far in advance?
/r/seduction15/06/18 04:20 PM
11

Beige Phillip Rule: The best game is no game at all. You're the most successful when you're not even trying, when it's simply who you are.
/r/seduction07/06/18 08:05 AM
2

...but what if YOU'RE the thing that gets the girls?
/r/seduction06/06/18 05:18 PM
5

Thank you so much
/r/seduction15/05/18 03:03 PM
21

Because "I need clicks and ads to make money, yo. Like and subscribe, please!"
/r/seduction22/04/18 12:27 PM
8

You know how those crippling headaches can be...enough to cancel everything with just you.
/r/seduction19/04/18 02:30 PM
2

Sounds like a pretty high pedestal there...
/r/seduction05/04/18 02:14 PM
2

You react this way when she says "...and my boyfriend."
/r/seduction23/03/18 05:42 AM
8

Use your legs, don't use your back
/r/seduction22/03/18 02:49 AM
32

Thanks for the list. You're a hero to us limited data folk.
/r/seduction21/03/18 04:49 PM
8

Step 1) Don't do it. Step 2) Just do gym stuff. Step 3) Seriously, don't do it.
/r/seduction19/03/18 05:45 AM
4

Yup, because saying yes to everything makes you sound a hint of desperate, like you'll do anything they'll say (which could put you in a place they can take advantage of). Be able to say no to a few things, of course.
/r/seduction17/03/18 02:09 PM
137

Where's the hero to list them out for those of us who have limited mobile data?
/r/seduction08/03/18 04:19 AM
7

He's a rapper, look him up
/r/seduction25/02/18 11:56 PM
46

Beige Phillip described a similar approach called "Laying the 5 bricks" Every single day (or at least every single time you go out), you make it your business to approach and talk to at least 5 different women. It doesn't always have to be for the purpose of getting laid or even starting a relationship with them. Mainly, it's to build up and strengthen your ability to talk to and establish a rapport (even if it's just one conversation) with these women. Older, younger, tall, short, skinny, not-s…
/r/seduction17/02/18 01:37 PM
3

Thanks for the list. Not all heroes wear capes. Will save this past to watch later.
/r/seduction17/02/18 06:30 AM
4

"My shit's beautiful and you know it."
/r/seduction12/02/18 07:04 PM
6

If you want salt burns on your dick, then by all means, go for this trick
/r/seduction10/02/18 10:03 PM
10

You must not know what game is..or that the best game is no game at all.
/r/seduction08/02/18 04:07 PM
2

True. ...and yes, there's a good chance she'll talk about you and it could lead to smashing her friends. But that could also backfire horribly.
/r/seduction24/01/18 05:37 PM
12

Get em hooked with a dick pic. 7% of the time, it works, every time.
/r/seduction15/01/18 03:48 PM
1

Here's a video from the movie SWINGERS. Please excuse the picture quality, but this shows EXACTLY how much a girl's phone number should mean to you...and how easily you should be able to get it.
/r/seduction14/01/18 06:51 AM
38

Some heroes don't wear capes
/r/seduction09/01/18 03:36 PM
227

Parents, take note...
/r/seduction28/12/17 08:08 PM
9

Step 1: Get a DLSR camera + accessories. Looks professional-grade. Step 2: Set up one of your rooms to look like a studio, lighting fixtures and all. Step 3: Get some obscure professional photos to pass off as your own. Study them well enough to make up a story about each. Hang 'em on the walls. Step 4: Improve your game enough to get a girl to your place. Step 5: Show them your "passion" of photography. Step 6: Realize that this is not the kind of thing that seddit endorses or encourages and th…
/r/seduction27/12/17 04:31 PM
1

Good opening line? If I'm the one starting...
/r/seduction25/12/17 03:23 PM
1

Then don't get angry. Boom, done.
/r/seduction19/12/17 07:21 AM
2

TL:DR - Yes, it does. Source: I have a deep voice.
/r/seduction15/12/17 03:35 AM
7

TL;DR - Nope
/r/seduction06/12/17 05:54 PM
3

Pierced nipples alone does not an attractive guy make. Do it or don't. As long as you're attractive either way, it won't matter.
/r/seduction05/12/17 07:31 PM
3

Is that story REALLY true? Because, personally, it sounds a bit off...everything about you changing like that in a week? Come on. You don't have to lie here, it serves no purpose. It's okay if you weren't really a player before and you just became whipped. Anyway... When you talk about future kids, is really the both of you who talk (and not just you talking for 80% of the time, and she talks for less than 20%), or were you the one that brought it up and she never would have? I apologize for my …
/r/seduction28/11/17 05:11 PM
1

Yeah, you didn't mention there was another dude anywhere, and that kinda sucks that the friend is dating. Go ahead and move forward on that if you want, but I personally wouldn't. In any case, it doesn't sound like there's much more to gain from any of this: the original girl is ignoring you, her friend is dating someone else (tread at your own risk), and there's a seemingly random dude (not sure what you're looking for there).
/r/seduction20/11/17 04:05 PM
1

Move on. No need to dwell on it. You'd only be wasting your time, trying to get to the bottom of it. She's not spending any more time on you, is she? You've given her multiple opportunities, and she hasn't taken them. Besides, you've got her friend more than open to talking to you. Concentrate on her instead. Don't be waiting around for someone who isn't giving you the time of day while ignoring another who is more than willing. That's not your problem. Have fun!
/r/seduction20/11/17 03:44 PM
17

Maybe there's a happy middle ground where you can have an erection AND last longer
/r/seduction11/11/17 07:21 PM
2

Hey, whoa....slow down there, fuck-machine.
/r/seduction26/10/17 09:58 PM
1

Haven't been concentrating too much in this area lately. I just got a new job, so I'm settling in and getting situated before I get back "out there"
/r/seduction20/10/17 02:18 PM
43

I knew the answer before watching: "How do I get her back?" You don't. It's over. For one reason or another, the hard truth is she's no longer interested. It sucks, but it is what it is... Best to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and move on. As Dante Nero once said: "Always be ready to take the L (the loss)." You've got a golden opportunity to not only find someone else and start over, but to do it with as little damage done as possible. A bruised ego, in the long run, is a small price to p…
/r/seduction14/10/17 04:07 PM
1

*mind blown*
/r/seduction24/09/17 12:34 PM
4

Well, for one thing... ...but at the same time.
/r/seduction01/09/17 03:48 AM
6

It's not. Don't do it.
/r/seduction30/08/17 03:23 AM
4

50 ways to lose a girl lol
/r/seduction22/05/17 02:47 PM
0

Love Mehdi's hijinx
/r/seduction15/05/17 01:06 AM
3

Hey, wait a minute...
/r/seduction27/04/17 04:13 PM
1

As Dante Nero says: "Always be ready to take the L" (the loss).
/r/seduction21/04/17 01:26 PM
3

You just long-windedly explained Dante Nero's rule: "Always be ready to take the L (the loss)" Anticipate the pain of rejection/the end before it even starts, internalize it, and be ready emotionally for that moment where everything you work for in the relationship (however long it lasts) is over in an instant. That way, you just dust yourself off and walk away. No harm, no foul.
/r/seduction01/04/17 03:20 AM
1

Fortune favors the bold.
/r/seduction21/03/17 06:09 AM
3

How do you ensure that you kiss a girl? When the time and circumstances are right, you just do it. There's no secret method. As far as technique...again, there's no secret, but remember: don't rush it. In that moment, she's with you and she's not going anywhere. So don't be forceful, take your time and give a nice, soft, gentle kiss. ....and FFS, close your eyes when you kiss her. It's so creepy to kiss with your eyes open lol
/r/seduction04/03/17 03:52 PM
-3

Funny, you automatically assume that he wants to pass on his genes and have kids.
/r/seduction27/01/17 10:35 PM
3

Unless your name is Michael Corleone, you're in hiding, and you have plans to marry this girl (going on family-chaperoned dates) don't. We all know how well that went for him, so just fuck off...
/r/seduction24/12/16 04:04 PM
5

File this under "no shit..."
/r/seduction15/10/16 06:22 PM
5

Unless OP is in the public eye in any capacity, he needn't be as paranoid. Though, personally, I'd advise against it this early in the game
/r/seduction24/09/16 11:58 PM
1

I'd talk about the first date...sometimes things didn't go as well as you wanted and you wanted it to turn out better, or perhaps she felt a certain way then that she doesn't anymore. I find it's a little more disarming to look back and talk about your impressions and what you were thinking (and if anything has changed since). It gives you a second chance to calibrate, give comfort, establish a better rapport without saying "okay, do-over"
/r/seduction19/08/16 02:44 PM
1

"...less than 24 hours for you to purchase my book..." Fuck off, I'm not watching a sales pitch.
/r/seduction18/04/16 01:46 AM
9

You angrily stare back until she turns away. Assert your dominance!
/r/seduction23/02/16 01:32 PM
1

I just do a low-key smile that I look best doing. I practice in front of a mirror to find one I feel comfortable with.
/r/seduction20/02/16 03:33 AM
10

That's a terrible opening. "Let me take you out because you're beautiful" Why would she want to go out with you because she's beautiful? Where are you in that?
/r/seduction19/02/16 04:39 PM
2

To answer your random q's: 1) It depends on the girl, honestly. 2) Why the hell is it our problem and not up to you to resolve for yourself?
/r/seduction14/07/15 04:10 PM
1

Beige Phillip Rule: Women have integrity amnesia What she agrees on with you now has absolutely nothing with how she's going to feel about it much later. So don't be surprised if she acts like she never even said it before.
/r/seduction08/07/15 01:13 PM
4

Beige Phillip Rule: Women give you shit to make sure you're the shit. Women will test you to see if you're man enough to step up and handle whatever situation that comes up, including them acting out and treating you as less than the man you're being to them. It's up to you to consistently show that you're worthy of their trust, however you have to show it.
/r/seduction12/06/15 01:57 PM
4

A note from Beige Phillip: If you put her on a pedestal when you talk about her, then she's already out of your league. You won't be able to get her if you look up to her because she's above you.
/r/seduction05/06/15 05:37 PM
9

I've posted this here a lot of times before, but it bears repeating: Beige Phillip Rule: Always Be Ready To Take The L (...as in the loss) Don't grow too attached. You're not supposed to be meeting your soulmate, just someone to hang out with and have some fun. It's easier to get over it (and you'll come off as more attractive overall, as opposed to being the guy who can't let go) if you're prepared to simply walk away from it all at a moment's notice. Internalize and be over the pain before it …
/r/seduction15/04/15 03:38 AM
2

Let me preface everything here with "I could be wrong in my view on this, but..." The reason the ones you don't care about want to see you again is because THEY think you're the interesting one. Think of it like the WB cartoon of the big dog and little dog. The big dog doesn't care about what anyone thinks and only responds when something he's interested in comes along (like a cat); and the little dog wants nothing else but to be accepted/recognized by and do anything with the big dog. You givin…
/r/seduction15/04/15 03:22 AM
-3

Why would it be? There really is no such thing as the friendzone. You're not being penalized for "being a nice guy," you're just not making your intentions clear enough, and she's not gonna waste her time waiting if you're gonna take forever showing it.
/r/seduction01/04/15 01:53 PM
3

For me, it always starts with kissing while moving my hand from her waist to the small of her back to pull her closer, then that hand moves to her ass. Works almost every time.
/r/seduction25/01/15 04:25 PM
5

Beige Phillip Rule: Always be ready to take the L (as in the loss). Don't grow too attached. You're not supposed to be meeting your soulmate, just someone to hang out with and have some fun. It's easier to get over it (and you'll come off as more attractive overall, as opposed to being the guy who can't let go) if you're prepared to simply walk away from it all at a moment's notice. Besides, when the girl is gone, it's time to move on.
/r/seduction19/12/14 04:24 PM
-4

Yeah, I like that you merely gave me a long-winded "yes, I did fly off the handle" answer ... You guys can be so silly sometimes, I love it. <3
/r/seduction04/11/14 05:35 AM
-8

So you didn't even click the link, you just flew off the handle with no context...nice.
/r/seduction04/11/14 02:30 AM
13

That's what Rocky was told to do: "Take her to the zoo, retards like the zoo"
/r/seduction03/11/14 08:36 PM
3

2 Things helped (and continue to help) improve my game: - The Black Phillip Show - The Beige Phillip Show Both are basically the same type of show: it started as the Black Phillip Show (called so because it couldn't be The Black Dr. Phil) on XM Satellite radio, an advice call-in show about love, relationships, and all that jazz. Granted, the philosophy is a little unorthodox, but the goal is pretty much the same: being an all-around better man.
/r/seduction21/10/14 09:41 PM
1

If she likes you too, then even the lamest pick-up line will suffice. She'll forgive it, no problem. She might even find it cute...as long as you just start the conversation.
/r/seduction01/08/14 05:52 PM
2

You might be in the wrong sub if love is already part of it
/r/seduction29/07/14 01:55 PM
2

Beige Phillip Rule: always be ready to take a loss. Don't dwell on or mourn a girl gone. Once she's done, as should be you. When the girl is gone, it's time to move on.
/r/seduction26/04/14 05:00 AM
2

"So I take her out to dinner...and then we have sex. I think something is supposed to happen in between." "No, I don't think anything does!"
/r/seduction22/04/14 02:34 PM
1

If you're dating a Decapodian, then it should be fairly obvious...
/r/seduction09/04/14 04:47 PM
0

That is a very high possibility, too, man. Nobody on the Internet likes to see anybody do better than them, especially when they're younger and have experienced more than they have. It's a shame.
/r/seduction07/04/14 04:19 PM
-4

"Fucking animal...I'm gonna downvote this pig" - everyone downvoting you
/r/seduction07/04/14 04:15 PM
16

I didn't know Ben Stein was on here.
/r/seduction06/04/14 05:29 AM
246

"Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth." - Oscar Wilde
/r/seduction06/04/14 03:06 AM
10

exactly, screw the moment: no glove, no love
/r/seduction24/03/14 05:58 PM
-2

Just tell her that you're "on a college budget"
/r/seduction16/03/14 04:09 PM
-1

There is no "waiting period" anymore (honestly, there never was one to begin with), especially when everyone has a need for immediate gratification, so that really speeds things up a bit. Call/Text whenever...your neediness will come out later, so stop worrying about nothing before it starts.
/r/seduction16/03/14 03:14 PM
5

Beige Phillip Rule: Always be ready to take the L (loss). ...as in always know that, regardless of how you feel, it can end at any moment. So enjoy it while it lasts, but don't get too attached.
/r/seduction18/02/14 04:51 PM
20

"She asked too many questions..."
/r/seduction18/02/14 04:09 PM
8

Beige Phillip Rule: A woman gives you shit to make sure you're the shit.
/r/seduction15/02/14 07:00 PM
1

Beige Phillip Rule: the best game is no game at all. You have to actually BE that person you pretend to be. You can't just fake it.
/r/seduction07/02/14 02:44 PM
0

Kinda sucks for you (wow, every hotel room was taken?), but this might have been a blessing in disguise. F-close or not, her having kids is asking for way more than you're bargaining for...you dodged a bullet, man.
/r/seduction06/02/14 01:39 PM
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Don't hang on to what's said, guys. Beige Phillip Rule: Women have integrity amnesia. Just because they agree to something now doesn't mean they'll agree to it later. Like the expression goes: "It's a woman's prerogative to change her mind."
/r/seduction02/02/14 06:29 AM
4

Yeah r/okcupid has some good guidelines for making an effective profile and uploading good pics...but you should not at all depend on it as an on-demand meet market.
/r/seduction16/01/14 04:17 PM
1

Yeah, being honest about this has worked out way more for me than when it hasn't...they'll understand.
/r/seduction10/01/14 01:23 PM
3

Beige Phillip Rule: The best game is no game at all.
/r/seduction29/12/13 01:36 AM
2

You don't have to talk to them...just block 'em, even if you have dated before. You owe them nothing...
/r/seduction29/10/13 08:17 PM
1

I've used it off and on for 4-5 months now. Got one date out of it, F-closed...she lived too far for a second date.
/r/seduction29/10/13 06:46 PM
6

The title reminded me of the speech from the movie Rocky Balboa. And after reading this, and hearing the speech again thinking of the context of having game, it's taken on a whole new meaning. Thanks for the FR and the inspiration...
/r/seduction14/10/13 06:22 PM
1

I was actually referring to our collective intelligence and our abilities to create machines and systems that facilitate the growth and spread of our civilization...each of which the things I listed do.
/r/seduction13/10/13 03:19 AM
0

True, but that same group of animals also don't drive cars, have a currency, or have computers. Don't look too far into that parallel, bro. :P
/r/seduction13/10/13 01:47 AM
6

The failure you're describing is being a PUA, and that's the wrong way to go. They only pretend to be the guy that they think girls want in order to reach their goal, which is only to get a woman. That's like a dog chasing a car, they wouldn't know what to do with one if they caught it (and ultimately, they don't, and they become single again). Don't do that. NOTE: My apologies for comparing women to cars. The real goal is to actually BE the guy that a woman wants: an alpha, geniune, and with in…
/r/seduction12/10/13 06:16 PM
1

then we've nothing further to discuss...we've done right by this guy :)
/r/seduction12/10/13 04:10 AM
1

I don't know the guy nor the specific details and aspects of his day-to-day life; I'm only going off of what he's given, and it's not much at all. I'm also not going to attempt to give him examples when they probably won't apply to him. Ask a general question, get a general answer. Besides, instead of telling me where I'm wrong, pick it up and help this guy do right. Take the ball and go further, why don't ya?
/r/seduction12/10/13 02:17 AM
1

Start with friendly conversation as if you're good friends...but the more you text, over about a week or so, start moving the conversation from friendly to more than friends. Be forward with what you want, especially with her.
/r/seduction11/10/13 06:28 PM
1

I saw your advice: keep correcting people and say "I'm just wanting to be helpful" when they get mad at you...because that means that you have their best interest at heart (or something akin to that). I agree with your opponent here, you'll only come off as the real life equivalent of a grammar nazi online, and not very likely what a girl's looking for...not to the end that you're suggesting.
/r/seduction11/10/13 06:08 PM
3

I know you're "just wanting to be helpful" ;) ...so thanks
/r/seduction11/10/13 06:02 PM
8

But...I MUST KNOW!!! Plus, they're asking for nearly $100 for the product. Yeah, fuck that...
/r/seduction11/10/13 04:31 PM
5

You need to do a lot of things (not in this particular order, and not exclusively these things): - be more confident - put yourself first, your own wants/needs - stop being afraid of the little things - stop caring about what other people think (this is a big one) - do what feels right for you - don't be so hard on yourself - don't dwell on your failures, remember your successes - be around people who make you feel good/better (good feelings are contagious) - let go of the idea that you have to …
/r/seduction11/10/13 03:41 PM
5

You want to know what the future of a nice guy is? It's this guy...Dante Hicks Since I couldn't find the dialogue on YouTube, here's what I'm referring to (this is a conversation between that Dante and his friend, Randall, from Clerks 2): D: You don't think I really love her? R: I think you love what she represents. D: Which is...? R: Come on, Dante, she was the girl who wouldn't give you the time of day back in high school. And years later, after she's played the field and realized how unsatisf…
/r/seduction10/10/13 04:52 PM
1

Hear hear...one of my best female friends, I dated first. To this day, we're as close as ever. I think she wants to get married, but I'm just not ready for that yet...
/r/seduction02/10/13 03:53 AM
4

"Sex....to SAVE the friendship."
/r/seduction01/10/13 10:08 PM
1

This works almost all the time, except for the case of "I'll talk to you later" ...seems like more of a goodbye than a tease.
/r/seduction30/09/13 08:45 PM
5

When in a relationship, you gotta step up your game even higher, because now she knows you better, past your surface persona. She's closer to you, which means you have less of a chance to wow and amaze her, and more of a chance that she'll know your moves. Be warned: the next level is more difficult.
/r/seduction30/09/13 03:56 PM
1

Pray tell, what would be a good facial expression for it?
/r/seduction30/09/13 05:50 AM
2

How to really get over Oneitis [FIFY]
/r/seduction23/09/13 06:19 PM
1

"What do women want?" "Never to be asked that question...ever."
/r/seduction15/09/13 04:10 PM
1

Now that's the truth... "Not hot" girls/guys can be called cute. But based on the people I know, unless you have a sexual preference or some fetish for those not conventionally considered "hot" (like BBW, those with a physical "defect," or even a mental condition, etc,) they're just not sexy.
/r/seduction15/09/13 04:09 PM
0

Nice to know...but we're humans. Don't be silly...
/r/seduction11/09/13 07:11 PM
3

This is a solid approach, but I'd like to preface this with a more elaborate beginning: You gotta ease your way into it, make the transition as seamless as possible; an off-hand joke/comment or two (one rather than two, preferably) in that direction should give you a good idea of how well she takes to the idea of you and sex in the same thought. If she reacts positively, then you can move forward in your fashion. At least that's how I've gotten a lot of girls to open up with me conversationally.
/r/seduction10/09/13 02:50 PM
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How the fuck can we be ourselves if we change everything in our life? Riddle me that, genius...
/r/seduction29/08/13 06:52 PM
6

keep that going until you get that rape case, bro...
/r/seduction07/05/13 05:24 PM
12

You got serious...and she didn't want that.
/r/seduction03/05/13 03:19 PM
0

"Hi. I'm, uh, I'm a pet psychiatrist. I sell couch insurance. Mm-hmm, and I - and I test-market positive thinking. I lead a weekend men's group, we specialize in ritual killings. Yeah, you look great! God, yeah! Hi, how are you? Hi, how are you? Hi, I'm Martin Blank, you remember me? I'm not married, I don't have any kids, but I'd blow your head off if someone paid me enough..."
/r/seduction03/05/13 01:16 PM
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How to answer that question: 1) Stand firm, be sure of yourself. 2) Have absolutely no fear. 3) Say exactly what it is that you want to do. 4) Don't look for her approval or for her feedback (ie, don't say "...if that's okay with you"). This is all on you. This is what you want. ...so yeah, commit.
/r/seduction22/04/13 05:58 PM
3

well...hair, confidence, and an ability to dance are all out the window...must look taller.
/r/seduction22/04/13 01:27 PM
1

This was something that I was working on a bit subconsciously: I pictured what version of me that I thought would be attractive to the opposite sex, and I'm working on becoming that man (in terms of job, income, home, looks, personality, etc.). Like you, I've still got a way to go, but I am starting to see results, the most immediate is the positive reinforcement from losing weight (girls have brought it up to me...that attention is always good). I do have goals in mind, and it's going to take a…
/r/seduction16/04/13 03:41 PM
0

As a guy, I never understood the overemphasis that some other guys have with having sex. I always chalked it up to it being the residual be-all, end-all feeling from their virgin days. Now I can understand a guy wanting to keep doing it once they've started, but now that you've achieved that beginning, you also have to mature and grow as a person at least a little bit and set your goals higher. Move onto more, bigger, better sexual challenges and get more out of it; like any skill, you should mo…
/r/seduction09/04/13 01:52 PM
2

John Mayer's words contradict an even older, more trusted saying: "Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt." EDIT: I only said it goes against that saying. I didn't say that it was wrong. I actually agree with you guys.
/r/seduction07/04/13 03:01 AM
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A bit egotistical, isn't it?
/r/seduction25/03/13 02:31 PM
2

Of course...show that you're having fun, and they'll want you to share some of that fun with them, right?
/r/seduction19/03/13 06:21 PM
5

Yeah, State and Federal laws are just suggestions anyway...
/r/seduction02/03/13 08:19 PM
4

1) Don't pursue anyone from your own line of work. It may seem like a silly rule to some, but the fact is you can avoid a lot of potential pitfalls (these won't always come up, but there's a chance). Firstly, there wouldn't be a lot to talk about, seeing as how you're together, even at work, and even with EV; new topics of discussion could run out faster (you both know your field, which kinda takes away from the wonder and mystery of your image that the other could have had about you). Plus, dat…
/r/seduction01/01/13 08:46 PM
0

Had I meant it, I'd agree...don't worry, I didn't. :)
/r/seduction14/12/12 04:16 AM
1

relax...I don't mean it...I'm a hopeless romantic, but I'm above self-pity ;)
/r/seduction14/12/12 04:13 AM
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But the stylists in my regular place are already all women...and a lot of them don't like to talk, apparently. [/ForeverAlone]
/r/seduction13/12/12 09:34 PM
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