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expansion101/r/askTRP16/07/18 06:53 AM
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Resilience, to summarize what you've said. Willing to dive in, but knowing that doing so would be reckless. I had watched a video where the guy explained that being tender, open with a woman will open them up to you. Only then do you act out with bold intent if a meaningful relationship is what you want. I can see what you're saying. That's where many men mess up: they remain in the first phase of the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 06:52 AM
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As much as you are right that there will likely be a woman down the road that will take his breath away due to who and what she embodies, I think that would be not because she actually does in the fullest sense, but he wants her to or expects her to. That is, coming at the interaction from a beta viewpoint. No person is perfect and cannot be expected to be.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 05:02 AM
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There's 330 million people in America. 165 million are male. Let's assume 124 million of them are adults. 20% of that is almost 25 million. Consider how many men are fat, lazy, too old, etc. which can't even compete You have to fill one spot in 25 million; many men aren't even trying to.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 06:38 AM
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There was a post about a month ago called 'How to write a damn good TRP post.' The author explained that one needs to write their post how they would normally speak or write. Your writing flows in such a way I can tell you did. And because of that, I can also tell you are not only teaching, but giving to the people here at TRP unconditionally. Thank you. Did you mean to make your post exemplify what you're teaching?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/18 10:02 PM
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Just like how humanity was able to see the great advancement of technology in 50 years, those individuals would see the regression of technology even farther back and only in a matter of moments. Terrifying.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 06:13 PM
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You know, come to think of it, I haven't even hit that plateau. Thanks for the wake up call. I have made gains, but I can see that this battle of discipline versus laziness will hit me when those gains begin to stagnate. This post will only help me to push through it, knowing that not only do I need to do so to make more gains on my body, but in my mind as well.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 06:45 PM
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The thing I find even yet profound, is the ownership with which fathers had over their (possible) children in centuries and millennia past. It could be argued whether it was in the best interest of the child or not, but the father basically owned his children. Even though they did not have scientific evidence for it, they were woke on what we are talking about now, thousands of years down the line. They knew they needed to protect their genes, without knowing the words for it.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 07:20 AM
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In the same boat as you, 18 myself. I believe the thing we have to realize, is though we will be cold and calculating within ourselves and what affects us, that does not mean we have to show that outwardly. We can still be warm and friendly to others. Personally, that's even the mark of a true man: not only having the energy to sustain yourself, but enough to sustain others. I know the men I look up to are brimming with energy. If we approach people, both men and women, with a smile on our faces…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 03:21 AM
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Just like how you thought we wouldn't understand the approach anxiety, I don't think you'll understand how funny I find that last line. Straight up meme material.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 07:05 AM
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I realize that u/m4ch1ina has already responded to you, but I should share this different way of thinking about it. As u/Rhino4910 mentioned in his comment, a team requires that the leader take responsibility for all outcomes. Let's say there was an unfavorable outcome, and the leader knows who did not get his shit done. Would it not be better to talk to that person and open with "As the leader of our group, what did I not do right?" Not only will the conversation apply pressure to the person to…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 06:50 PM
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Two quotes from the sidebar article 'Women in Love'. "Women are incapable of loving men in a way that a man idealizes is possible, in a way he thinks she should be capable of." "...the moment [the man] attempts to explain his ideal love, that’s the point at which his idealization becomes her obligation." She's already doing what you want her to do, and people in general don't like to be told what to do. Why mess it up? You can't make her do anything by showing her RPW. You can instead only lead …
/r/askTRP16/08/18 07:05 AM
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Dude, he is right about this. I urge you as a brother to not get yourself killed. Whether he's beta or not, he may either find some respect for himself or go haywire. Both could end with you the one hurt physically.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 06:41 AM
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Living life on the edge I see. Click send and you're done for! Nah, you'd just need to hold frame.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 09:37 PM
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You say it will be difficult. This is correct. However, the statement does need to qualified. To continue on with the journey, discipline must be used. After acting out the discipline so many times, doing so will become easier. And as such, so will the improvement from the actions that have needed discipline to do. If one improvement is made, keep going. It will only stop if you stop.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 05:52 AM
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They only have that option on a group level and the whole group of men will not until forced to.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/18 10:35 PM
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This talk of inviting her somewhere and getting with her anyway: don't do it. First of all, you don't know about this other guy. Could he be passing something onto you? Second, she has disrespected you. Getting with her will only mean she won in getting her alpha, and yet still receives your attention. You'd be disrespecting yourself.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 09:33 PM
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You're right. You can use not using the app to your advantage though. Shroud yourself in even more mystery for her to find out.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/18 09:09 PM
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Your post is correct in that not comparing you to them in a negative way will allow you to form more friendships and bring you to a better state of mind about yourself through being less adversarial and more self-confident, respectively. The original issue from which thinking about yourself negatively would have arose though, was focusing on what your value is. This needs to be inverted: instead focus on the value others provide. Think about your current acquaintances, friends, even your family.…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/18 11:56 PM
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Thing is, you have to fulfill the beta traits within the frame of alphahood. You can be there for her emotionally, but no, you shouldn't talk hour after hour with her about her emotions. Just be there and show understanding, but don't try to actively help. Let her live the emotion. I'd say a good frame of mind for this is be alpha, and provide what would be considered beta when you feel like it. Truly feel like it. Not out of lack of abundance, or her pushing for them. Only when she's earned the…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/18 06:54 AM
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The four statements you provided. I can tell the first, third, and fourth ones are definitely in a feminine frame. But what makes the second so? I understand that it's a vague statement, but it also advocates for you to be the best you no matter what. Sounds masculine.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 08:02 PM
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As men, if we have emotions, it means there is either something to think about, figure out, fix. This applies to happiness as well sadness and even grief.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 07:20 AM
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Read at least the Glossary on the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 10:36 PM
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A few of the posts here are exemplifying one tenet of TRP: assume attraction. As much as she may or may not be attracted to you when she asks, some narcissism is attractive to girls. Heck, you can act totally for yourself and they'll still stick around.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:57 AM
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Welp. Sad to see this post be deleted. I can understand why though. Hopefully the songs helped someone that saw them. I'll entertain your comment despite the deletion. Darkfolk, Darkfolk, and Modern Classical respectively.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 12:50 AM
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Mittwinter by Nebelung - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LoY_N_x8DUg The Trial by Ulvesang - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bY1HyrHBoPo Movie Theme by Fabrizio Paterlini - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qSfZliGuV0k Perhaps these songs aren't for getting in the mood before a night out on the town, but they will help you to internalize the messages and lessons here at TRP. Especially if you are trying to accept the lesson that you are alone in this world. I know it did for me.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 12:21 AM
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Gonna need definition of DNGA. 'Did not give anything?'
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 11:37 PM
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Took this away from the post, even wrote it down: "While routines and habits are not exciting, they keep you grounded in a current state." While going out, doing new things, and challenging yourself can be exciting, they can, if done wrong be defeating. Routines and habits help you to know there is a content state to return to and help you to return to that state. Quite profound.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 11:35 PM
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Maybe even say "what you are saying is hurtful and nasty" with a smirk on your face. Would give away the whole allure for a one-time shot though.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 10:19 PM
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A comment on the consensus between different and even isolated peoples: tribes who didn't backstab or steal from their own kin more easily survived. Tribes who did these things would die out more easily due to lack of trust and potential loss of life. Think of the norms as a social invention that helped to advance their society. Eventually, all societies adopt it or die.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 06:51 PM
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I believe in God. Judeo-Christian values are what made our society great. If only true conservatism: maintenance of the status quo, were possible, they would have ruled the world with a stable hand by now. Though not intentional, I suppose from what I have learned from TRP, my beliefs have moved towards that the punishment or reward is only after this life. Based on the Bible, yes, I'm incorrect. God can intervene in this world should he desire. While I can't reconcile the two right now, you've …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 01:48 AM
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The thing is, we can't think of it like the universe is getting back at you specifically, purging you for your deeds, but that someone else is doing some manipulating and deceiving shit and you're in their way. It isn't karma. Just a power game.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 09:18 PM
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The only advice for it that I can suggest is that experience will take it out of you, but you need to stop creating that "perfect image of a pure LTR girl" in your head. Not only does that sound like oneities, but it is being dishonest to yourself.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 04:30 PM
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Always better to say it as a command, not a question. "Hey, let's go get a coffee." Don't have to ask. She'll tell you no if she really doesn't want to go.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 04:11 PM
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Time to memorize 'nice' as Nice, France. Would probably put me in a whole different mindset.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 10:38 PM
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Whenever my plates or friends read any of my posts, the most common comment I get is “Wow, this sounds exactly like you”. How do you even get by with this? I've always heard the mantra of don't share TRP with people IRL.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 08:08 PM
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I wrote a long-winded post. I do think it helped me to process some things that are currently going on. Unfortunately, much of the post is me reflecting on the actions of an individual I know. It's better not to post such damning words, especially on the internet. I will give you an answer to your question though. How am I going to stop taking disrespect from people? The individual I mentioned has been quite disrespectful to me. Not in a physical way, but in disguising putdowns as witty remarks …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 09:56 PM
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You're right. But all men of history that shaped the world did so to their benefit. Pussy may not have been the direct benefit, but wealth, power, protection, or revenge was.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 09:23 PM
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It's not unconditional love. There's two parts to it. Sure, if you're their top choice, you can do anything. Alpha, beta, what the shit, they don't care. They'll still adore you. But once you lose frame, do something you don't want to do, whether that be doing something alpha or beta, that's a chink. Enough, and you're out. And if you do enough of such things, it's likely she'll find a man who acts more in-line with what he wants, either by her own decision or his approach. She wants this becaus…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 09:19 PM
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Of course. Mind telling me about your experience with people disrespecting you and what you did about it though? I'm not here to share my life story. Only learn.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 12:18 AM
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I took a quick look through your profile. What brought you to TRP? What brought you to my comment in particular?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 12:01 AM
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I need to stop taking shit from people. Either stand my ground more or extract them from my life. I've come to learn that men shit test you just like women, but in their own way. It's time to see it for what it is and act.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 06:55 PM
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Enjoyed the post. Resonates with what I need to do next to improve. I do want to rewrite two of your paragraphs though: Affirm to yourself that you are capable of improving, and that your past experiences have led you to who you are, and where you are now. Know that you can form new experiences which will move you towards the idea of who you can and should be. You must do this now. Channel your energy into this endeavor. Take time from people you like to spend time with, and give time to the peo…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 03:09 AM
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And never apologize to your girl(s).
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 02:43 AM
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I was reading this and understanding it. Then I read: If I met you in person, I would eat your lunch and steal your girl. No strings attached, full honesty: thank you. What a fucking wake up call.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 10:05 PM
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You eventually realize that through the hours of work put in to improving yourself in the gym, reading, etc., have made you so much greater and the hate anxiety will fall away though the memories remain. Had a bad breakup years ago. Eventually resolved on what the end goal of my improvement would be. Though the end goal was exaggerated in my mind, I can say I have largely met the goals, even in the time frame I had imagined. Upon that realization, you begin to think why she would even deserve yo…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 09:10 PM
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Naturally, she is in the right to want to have mothers take care of their own children instead of random women they don't know. The problem for her, is that is a reactionary policy. Either keep the status quo with social spending, or take care of your child without it.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 06:15 PM
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Your question is something I still need to take to heart. Wanting the best for everyone is not something one man can put into action in this life.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:43 AM
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I assume you are saying that I am viewing women through a woman's lense due to the part I said about living vicariously through a man. Understood, if so. But what you mean for my post overall, is that I am viewing them in their social groups through their males (i.e. their lack of their accomplishment), instead of the women's own femininity?
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:29 AM
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By your response, I take it that your frame (at least for texting), has been very responsive towards her, i.e. responding to her texts when you open them. As much as I support what u/boy_named_su said in just doing your own thing for a few days, if you have been doing the above, don't be surprised if she comes up with some shit tests as a response to your change in behavior. If you've been fairly push and pull though, you do what you feel you need.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 06:25 AM
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I would say both of you are right. More precisely, that what you are saying fits within what u/redd_reality said. Her sex drive may go up or down depending on mood swings, pms, etc., but on average, it will be higher due to the man acting alpha.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 03:16 AM
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I believe the point of u/imnothingness comment is being missed: it's hypocritical and thus should be disregarded.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 05:30 PM
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While you may want to make the relationship work, WALK AWAY. For the sake of your improvement and respect for yourself, WALK AWAY. And internalize what u/mallardcove said: link to his comment.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 05:34 PM
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Not necessarily. Though the post may not be top-notch, there are takeaways which are helpful to remind some of us to readjust when needed. I would add to his takeaways though, is to just own himself. Even if he may have been 'autistic' by not having anything to say, he could have just enjoyed the moment. For OP: Walking with her? Point out the scenery, or how a passing car looks. Or you could simply just look around and take the scenery in. She may catch on and ask if you notice something. Edit:…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 05:24 AM
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You seem to have answered that question for yourself and by your username you're 52, so I can't talk in a teaching manner to you, but there's something that ran through my mind reading that, that others should consider. The question should not be considered in the sense of whether she would be unacceptable to us (as the Red Pill), but whether she would be unacceptable to YOU. As with all things here, what you do in life should be considered on whether it would improve you or compliment your life…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 01:51 AM
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Something I remember from reading 'How to Win Friends and Influence People', is part of the learning of it is to come up with those present-day examples, or experiences you have had where the concept came up in the interaction. You may not have a master to outshine you say... but what about your manager? The captain on your sports team? Though their influence over you is not as overt as King Louis XIV had over Fouquet, they still hold some sway over you.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 08:11 PM
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How would one go about learning more about Soft Power? Is it simply learning how advertising, graphic design, etc. could be used to an advantage? Or are there books similar to the 48 Laws of Power but concerning Soft Power?
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 08:04 PM
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What do you mean by on a different level than most? Most guys aren't able to pull oneitis investment out of a girl. My experience tells me that at that point of realization yet acceptance from you, she would become her most emotionally invested should you be her top pick of men.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 06:12 AM
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The world has transformed us into mindless, emotionless robots. I agree with you here. Something I'd like to add though. Here at TRP we agree that society today has turned men into ghosts of their real selves. It seems that the world, transforming us into emotionless beings is just part of the male human experience though. No matter what age or era, men are not to show raw emotion to even the closest of people. Don't you agree?
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 06:11 AM
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I'd imagine with a strong and interactive frame, a lack of social media could even be seen as an aura of mystery rather than as a turn-off by girls. Any experience on this?
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 06:07 AM
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