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exparadox1989/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:14 PM
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wow you sound frustrated
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 01:01 AM
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you think that chics ugly??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 03:18 AM
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When is this meeting you speak of, and where is my invite? ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 03:14 AM
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bingo bango bongo Respect has to be earned, not given away due to gender. It's hard to earn the respect of the alpha, and near impossible for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 03:11 AM
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I'm truly thankful that I found TRP so early on in my journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 03:07 AM
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What's the difference between FDS and RPW?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:35 PM
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"Also, P.S., women don't "deserve" to be pumped and dumped and if you make a habit of it, you're an asshole. Be honest about your expectations." But alpha widowing is so much fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 10:05 PM
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The ladies in this thread seem to have no problem with it. But unless you have a model-tier face... you look like a child without makeup on. Every woman looks like a little boy with a bare face and their hair pulled back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 01:10 AM
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WTF is the "no makeup look" and why exactly is this such a burden on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 01:02 AM
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Completely illogical argument. Try harder, I expect better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 03:36 AM
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Female personality was never a mate selection criterion. In general, women are not funny and have very narrow interests. This is a consequence of being born with "value" and never having to develop ancillary qualities. Exception: less-attractive women. These chics are a ton of fun to be around!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 03:35 AM
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Right there with you brother, I charted a parallel course. Math nerd in highschool --> engineering nerd in college --> Gained "alpha" traits in grad school (physical development, abundance mentality, TRP) --> Early 30s... Well-established with very promising career and serious hobbies, pursued with uncompromising intentionality. I'm looking forward to the next decade and maturing into myself ("actualizing"). I am absolutely positive that the active pursuit of women at this time of my life would …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 03:31 AM
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N count has been a point of obsession on this sub for some time now. In reality, the hottest women I've met/fucked have the FEWEST number of partners BY FAR. I'm a stereotypical HVM, in his early 30s, and I'm not obsessed with getting laid by any mean at this point in my life. What does banging another 10 girls get me at this point? Bragging rights? If you can't control your sexual impulses you're just asking for a world of chaos, gender independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 03:25 AM
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Bingo. OLD is much more manageable when you are outcome independent and treat it like a casino game that sometimes results in an easy fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 03:17 AM
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Couldn't agree more with the male-related points of this post. The women that I date/fuck can't understand how they are not the center of my world. If I ignore them, they assume that I'm out trolling for pussy because I can't live without it... All I really care about is selling my company and starting another one, and training jiu jitsu as hard as I can (with the intention of taking an amateur MMA fight once I have the time to dedicate to an 8 week training camp). I'd much rather spend time aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:45 PM
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enforced assortive mating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 03:46 AM
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Alpha Bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:30 PM
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Dude... They aren't in those industries/occupations because they are INCOMPETENT. The fucking Marines even lowered their physical requirements to let women in. It's absolutely insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:26 PM
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Spot on. It's all an illusion. I only spend money in women willing to cook and clean for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:24 PM
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Budget what you would for a hooker. How many blowjobs will 1500 get you? Is it worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:56 AM
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I consider fucking 5-7's community service. If only I got a tax writer...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 05:43 PM
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Sounds Machiavellian to me. Game recognize game.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:43 PM
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Seriously... Where are they even coming up with this shit? I feel like being a gender-bending polyamorous queer with contrived sexual kinks is just a trend to be one of the "cool" kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:30 PM
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When you have a greater mission, women essentially become cum receptacles. My entire life is consumed with building and selling biotech companies and training MMA... Activities that have firmly established my value and make getting pussy a trivial activity. Investing time and attention into a woman is a horrible use of my resources. But, if building a family IS your mission, then more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:26 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:24 PM
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Bro, you have no obligation. She chose to keep it, right? You're 21... Work hard, secure a high paying job, and do not mention this situation to women upfront. You are going to be fine as long as you focus 100% on yourself. Ignore Team Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 03:54 PM
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I like your style
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 03:51 PM
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AF v BB?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 02:00 PM
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Maybe. But it was just awkward. I never mention my job on dates for this very reason. It seems to spark some sort of competition in these women... It's great to be ambitious, but leave it at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 02:14 AM
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:)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 02:10 AM
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This mentality works for me! I openly degrade the women I fuck and they keep coming back. My new hobby is targeting feminists (not the super radicalized, lamdwhales... Just the "you go girl, you don't need no man!" types). The goal is to see how far I can degrade them and verbally excoriate their views and STILL fuck them. It's like big game hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 07:35 PM
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This mentality works for me! I openly degrade the women I fuck and they keep coming back. My new hobby is targeting feminists (not the super radicalized, lamdwhales... Just the "you go girl, you don't need no man!" types). The goal is to see how far I can degrade them and verbally excoriate their views and STILL fuck them. It's like big game hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 07:34 PM
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All models are wrong. Some models are useful. Go ahead and enlighten us with your black swan logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 07:27 PM
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This has been debated ad nauseam.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 07:18 PM
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No revenge fantasy... Im getting all the pussy i want! I said I'm sorry for the poor bastard that ebds up with her... Not that he'll necessarily know his gf/wife has been used and abused. Is it sloppy seconds of we gang bang her? A couple of these girls have little self worth despite being hot. They don't love dick... They crave attention. And some of the stuff is just degrading (bukkake). But yea, she's getting a lot of dick. You go girl!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 07:16 PM
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Precisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 07:11 PM
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Awww sweetie who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 07:08 PM
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Exactly this. These women are learning that they can't have their cake. As a high earning man, I make it a practice to never date career women.They typically reject the feminine role, and as such add little to my life. Their more masculine demeanor is a huge turn off (even if they adopt a traditionally feminine appearance). There is also this underlying feeling of competitiveness... Who wants a partner that is trying to one-up you? I remember one woman commented that i had a nicer watch than her…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 07:05 PM
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And who made the choice to fuck the abusive ex. She did. Take some responsibility ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 11:33 PM
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Stretch your brain. Think a bit. Then get back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 11:18 PM
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Its truly amazing how you don't understand that only a high value man can rack up a high N (junkies not withstanding). ANY woman can spread her legs and have socks run through her all day. Who the fuck wants to marry the latter? Every girl ive been with knows that I've banged a ton of women, and their only comment is something to the effect of "so you're really experienced, huh? ;)" They appreciate that I chose them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 11:17 PM
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No one's out there shouting from the rooftops... But my social circle knows which girls get pumped. We laugh about it, pass her around... I pity the dude that ends up with her. I've pumped and dumped plenty of women that I know got around. For some reason PPD thinks that guys can't tell who's a slut without a direct conversation about N count. With the way social media memorializes your life, it is SO easy to take a look at someone's past and gauge their past behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 11:14 PM
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Right? That's the whole point... Mercilessly, doggedly pursue the truth by tearing your data apart. I was expected to perform logarithms on the spot (biologic data often scales exponentially)... Great practice for those consulting interviews. I honestly wonder how women's interviews are structured. There's no way they get drilled like men... They'd crack.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 11:11 PM
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Amen!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:23 PM
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How is calling a man a fuckboy not the same as slut shaming? Let's be consistent, ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:22 PM
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nobody wants to marry the village whore. Lock and key baby. Wrap your mind around it. How is this even debatable?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:04 PM
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Dude... Its amazing. STEM graduate degree over here... I've seen multiple women start crying/get teary in lab meetings. Seriously... Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:04 PM
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To your last point, nobody wants to marry the village whore. Lock and key baby. Wrap your mind around it. How is this even debatable?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:03 PM
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For sure
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:35 PM
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Always worked for me. It's like developing any skill. At first you have to think, analyze, correct mistakes. It's time consuming. But then it becomes second nature. I played the piano for a decade, then moved on to other instruments and didn't touch one for 5 years. I just bought one as a gift to myself... 2 weeks later and I feel like I haven't missed a step. That skill is a part of who i am. I've been training jiu jitsu for 1 year, and God damn is it frustrating. So technical, so much to remem…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:34 PM
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Ok baby girl
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:29 PM
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I wouldn't say it has anything to do wirk women's contentment. It's about a man getting what he wants out of a relationship, often employing the same degree of cunning that women have been using (and condoned) since the dawn of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:27 AM
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It's a theory that is being constantly redefined. There is nothing wrong with the theory. If you are unsuccessful in your pursuit of ONS or LTR then the problem lies within you. Im RP to the bone and have no problems getting either. Yes, I'm jaded against women, but moreso against the fantasy of an unconditionally loving partner. But I'd rather understand Briffault's Law than stumble through life exposed to the emotional oscillations of women. RP has allowed me to truly understand women's motiva…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:21 AM
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Bingo. There's really only 2 things to impress upon your son: Men are not born with value, they must create it. Don't be a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:11 AM
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Remember what Chris Rock said about fucking in a cardboard box?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:09 AM
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How presumptuous of you! Babe if you're >=5 I'll throw you a bone ;) Insta?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:54 PM
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You're delusional. I'm an objective 8-9 within the dating market in which i participate. I have banged multiple 5s and 6s simply because they were THERE and wanted it for no investment. For 20 min, a hole is hole. I'd never date these women, but even the most basic, average girl can get significantly more attractive dick just by showing up. Interestingly, these were some of my hottest fucks because they were spontaneous and filthy. Trust me, you don't have to do much of anything besides spread y…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:05 PM
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That was tongue in cheek! My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 01:47 PM
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I dunno man, it works for me. Call it deliberate detachedness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 01:46 PM
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Do the women go for attractive black and middle eastern men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:01 AM
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It is absolutely AMAZING the amount of abuse a woman will take when she finds you insanely attractive. Humblebrag: I'm objectively a 8-9 in the looks department based on the SMV of the top women I've fucked. I'm also a raging asshole and narcissist. Why? Because I get away with it. I didn't used to be like this... I was a nerdy engineer. But I started coming into my own in my early 20s, and by 30 I dabble in some amateur fitness modeling. I realized that I could get away with absurd behavior due…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 01:36 AM
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This. There's this stigma about being disconnected from feelings, uncaring, lacking empathy. It's an extension of the "it's better to have loved and lost..." trope. But let me tell you, really settling into a true IDGAF mentality that is fueled by abundance (in all aspects of life) is transformative. This should be everyone's goal, regardless of gender. Feels fantastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 12:50 AM
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"I bet the average dude thinks glycolic acid is something the cartel uses to dissolve bodies." That's fucking hilarious lmao But yea, most guys don't even moisturize. I started to really get into skincare at 29. Chemical exfoliants, emolients, moisturizers, serum, the whole 9. Women walk into my bathroom and call me metro... But hey, my skin glows bitch!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 12:44 AM
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Precisely. Capitalism is a zero sum game that, when taken ad infinitum, results in a tremendous wealth disparity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:19 PM
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Worked for me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:10 PM
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I can't even wrap my mind around fucking that thing. I'd assume the only men interested would be obese themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:16 AM
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God if only I could harpoon such a magnificent beast!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:14 AM
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I agree... If we are talking old school TRP. What's going on in that sub now is complete shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 02:26 AM
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Yea... But you have to be able to sell it the right way. No woman has a clue what i acutally do, and few could ever grasp the actual science.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 01:04 AM
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Your core point is accurate, but the examples hyperbolic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 01:03 AM
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Agreed on reproduction v. cooperation. Still think the author is giving women too much credit for maintaining social bonds. Men build social and political infrastructure in addition to literally every physical structure you see around you, and the one hanging over your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 01:02 AM
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Why would i want Stacey to have my baby? I pump and dump her with the rest of them, because I know ill have another soon enough. Interestingly, it's low value guys that are obsessed with Stacy, likely due to fear of being judged for banging/dating lower value women and low self esteem. If I'm not fucking a 9 im banging a couple of 7s, and am not embarassed to take them out for some fun. What's wrong with single moms? Their pussies still get wet in my experience, and they are easier game to hunt.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:58 AM
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Do you think that this is the analog to modern TRP? Seems like a lot of overlap re: low self esteem, victimization, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:04 AM
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Spot on. Grooming a woman for the future is a great tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:51 PM
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Not to mention war.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:35 PM
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He literally said that femininity is NOT defined as the opposite of masculinity. Read it again dumbfuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:34 PM
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The reason why this doesn't work for women as effectively as men is because we can pinpoint your value on sight. The overwhelming contribution to your value is your looks, followed by playful personality, followed by non-bitchiness. Within a couple of dates I know exactly where you stand, and can proceed to invest or abandon if the deal us sour. If a 7/10 girl starts playing hard to get or imposing her "standards" in an abrupt way, I'm not even going to give it a second thought and hit up one of…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:24 PM
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This is some good food for thought - a specific portrayal of how life has been hard for EVERYONE throughout time, and both sexes got the shit end of the stick. The modern narrative demonizes men instead of recognizing their contribution while simultaneously benefiting from man-made institutions and policies and blaming men for any discomfort they may face ("toxic masculinity").
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:44 PM
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I'm interested in learning more about your experience. Can I PM you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:41 AM
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Females are responsible for social cooperation? You're fucking kidding me. If men didn't work together we'd be living in huts. EVERY piece of physical infrastructure and social/political/economic institution was created by men. It's only through male cooperation does the world go round.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:30 AM
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I agree with your point that gendered roles are important, and typically a man does want a woman who thinks he is a king (adores him for what he can provide and how strong and protective he is), but you've definitely taken it to an extreme. But yes, typically woman wants a man "above" her level of competence. We all know that women date up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:16 AM
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MS in STEM, run a biotech company, was in academia for a decade. Same academic and professional history as you (although you're probably a bit older) Getting women is not a struggle nor a priority... They just appear on dating apps and I fuck them. I rarely go on dates, not worth the time. I'll admit that it's highly context dependent. Lots of arbitrage between geographies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 09:30 PM
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I'm red as can be and fully ascribe to the manipulative pump n' dump method... While being objectively high value. But you're probably right that the revenge-seeking incel types are not succeeding in their manipulative modus operandi. But keep in mind that the original TRP guys (like myself) actually worked on adding value to their lives, and many of us are capitalizing on the spoils and lopsided dating market. Watch out. Plenty of Chads are pilled as fuck (I've personally pilled 4 high value du…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 02:52 AM
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This should be the goal of all men, though most will fall short.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 09:12 PM
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Seconded. Also, look into MBB management consulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 02:40 PM
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God damn you need some standards. Techboy I presume...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 04:29 AM
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Holy shit. This is spot on! I didn't even realize why these chics play doting housewife early on, before I've even intimated at commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 04:24 AM
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You're probably ugly. I fuck around with fat chics like that, just for giggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 01:58 AM
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This is some of the most incoherent nonsense on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 01:55 AM
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Eh it's a valid sexual strategy. Man up, ladies. Y'all are strong and empowered!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 01:53 AM
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Some of us just don't give a fuck and take what we want. Not everyone plays by the rules, and not every rule-breaker gets caught. Cost of doing business, ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 01:51 AM
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Why the fuck would they care?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 01:48 AM
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The first "no" is a "maybe". The second "no" is "try harder". The third no is actually no. Tried and true... No rape charge on my record (yet lmao).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:53 PM
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Who should lead? Your husband. Men make executive decisions. I leave the smaller stuff to my girlfriends, gives them a sense of control but low risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:27 PM
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This right here. It means she sees you as a serious prospect (read: threat). Your job as a man is to simply finesse her hamster into submission.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:20 PM
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The most sound comment on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:11 PM
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You were certainly given rights by men... Rights that you certainly didn't earn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 02:47 AM
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They are certainly incompetent. The Marines have a "lady lionesses" program to meet their equality quota. It's fucking hilarious how society lowers its collective standards to accommodate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 02:44 AM
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Bingo. It's amazing how this ass backwards approach actually works.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 02:41 AM
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Ah, a fellow man of high society
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:15 AM
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Ever met a woman who could pick what she wants for dinner? The lack of executive decision making never ceases to amaze me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 03:47 AM
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At the end of the day all relationships are conditional. That's why a market analogy works and the BP "just world" nonsense falls to the wayside. Its much smarter to view all relationships as transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 03:45 AM
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It's called being a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 03:43 AM
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Do you feel entitled to this protection? I personally wouldn't give a second look at a woman being "harrassed". All these strong independent women need to put on their big girl panties and man up lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 01:27 AM
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