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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	Why do they always bring " evolutionary reasons " into everything about a women? You seems familiar with the subject. Do evolutionary psychologist take into account the lack of free agency and how ? I am mainly talking about forced and arranged marriage, rapes and inequalities between men & women.	/r/ExRedPill	12/10/25 07:37 PM
1	I went deep down the PUA rabbit hole and can’t seem to fully pull myself out despite how much I’ve moved away from red pill as a whole. Any advice? I must had Idk if your wife is/was less fortunate, I am wondering for those who has this in mind	/r/ExRedPill	20/05/25 08:16 AM
2	I went deep down the PUA rabbit hole and can’t seem to fully pull myself out despite how much I’ve moved away from red pill as a whole. Any advice? There is smth I dont understand with this mindset. You say western women are difficult, but like women less fortunate they want a quality of life about the same they have or better. So both arent that different in that regard ?	/r/ExRedPill	20/05/25 08:12 AM
2	I went deep down the PUA rabbit hole and can’t seem to fully pull myself out despite how much I’ve moved away from red pill as a whole. Any advice? Did you go to India with that purpose in mind ?	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/25 10:27 PM
1	Why have men in search of masculine identity veered toward the 'manosphere' rather than a traditionally masculine identity based in benevolent patriarchy? I am not going to speak on behalf of Muslim women about what practising hijab means to them, there is plenty of writing by Muslim women on this topic. Maybe I wasnt clear, I am not talking on their behalf. I am telling you why their prophet, the best of human kind, the one they are supposed to follow, forced them to wear hijab. What it means to them doesnt matter. Being against him is a sin, they can not disagree with him since it mean dissagreeing with god. "God knows best" is a saying in arabi…	/r/ExRedPill	19/04/25 08:12 AM
1	Why have men in search of masculine identity veered toward the 'manosphere' rather than a traditionally masculine identity based in benevolent patriarchy? And I think you're mistaken islam for smth it isnt. Reform is not possible in islam. Its clearly written in the quran. So its not possible to give a new meaning to a symbol without falling into blasphemy. Hijab is a symbol of faith but not like wearing a cross around your neck. Its one way 6th century arabs men found to put responsability on women when it comes to sexual harrassement. Its also a way to justify harrasing those who arent allowed to wear it.. I would have agree with you if hijab is…	/r/ExRedPill	19/04/25 12:04 AM
4	Why have men in search of masculine identity veered toward the 'manosphere' rather than a traditionally masculine identity based in benevolent patriarchy? I agree that "white feminism" can be quite tone deaf when it come to topics like this. They just regurgitate whatever they find. But you might want to look up the origins of hijab in islam to understand the criticism. Personaly idc if someone want to cover themselves, but I do care about "progressives" muslims who tend to deny or even lie about traditional islam. And I care about people in muslim countries whom might never get the chance to express their critical thinking outloud without fearing…	/r/ExRedPill	18/04/25 08:54 PM
6	I am a woman and RP makes dating men impossible for me. Healthy boundaries might help weed out a lot of them. Be aware of how he treats others, not just family but also everday people. How he talks about women and especially his exes is a big one. But also his opinion of women in power, educated women and so on "Why does he do that" is a book highlighting how male abusers are well adjusted to society, they just know they can get away with mistreating their partner/children. And according to the author, its because they really believe men are superior…	/r/ExRedPill	13/11/24 10:29 PM
1	Should I leave or stay in MGTOW as an Hispanic autistic guy? Where did you get these ideas ?? You dont have to chose between mgtow and feminism. You're supposed to make your own path through experience and knowledge and stop emulating others opinions. Feminism is a social movement. If theirs ideas make you feel weak, I suggest to take the time to found out what exactly and why ? The whole community of fitness cant be misogynistic, you can find people who wont laugh at you for stupid reason. Besides, you being "buff" doesnt mean you have to chase after wom…	/r/ExRedPill	07/09/22 04:27 PM
1	How can i reverse TRP bullcrap out of my mind? I'm 29F, engaged to a wonderful man but can't help feeling that I am only ''useful'' for him in the next 4 years since when fertility goes, women have no value. I know this is false but cannot stop believing it and feeling self loathing. Thats so wrong . Even if women iniate divorces, men are more likely to remarry. And when men iniate divorce, they are 6 times more likely to leave because their wife is sick.	/r/ExRedPill	07/09/22 03:56 PM
3	To the men: Do you see women as humans? Idk, If I had to chose between two 20 years old that seems alike to watering my plants during my absence I would chose the young women. Thats my opinion only from experiences, in our society young men seems more prone to risk taking, bad influences and carelessness regarding others belongings. Could you breakdown how women are not held accountable to the same degree ? I know about the justice system seeing them as angel but Id like to hear if you have others arguments.	/r/ExRedPill	07/08/22 02:50 PM
1	Where can I go in real life to prove my life experiences with women wrong? When I was looking for a job abroad, I found a lot of them. You have to choose a specific country or city and look for ads on both local and international job website. When they look for volunteer themselves, no intermediate, no fee. The downsize is you might stumble upon exploiters and have to be careful. What kind of worl you want you want to do? I know a website that give you access to tons of ads with a small fee but its in french. There might be smth similar in english.	/r/ExRedPill	29/07/22 03:24 PM
7	Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future? I think people are being harsh because its way too soon to discuss dating being harder for men when women will die in the future because of what is happening.	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/22 04:46 AM
1	I was deep into RedPill, predominantly MGTOW, about two years ago before those subreddits got banned. I still consider myself MGTOW today Women have always been blamed for single household. They also get blamed for DV, rape, pregnancy, and now not giving sex to losers and the "fall of society". You don't realise (bc its not towards you) that you're just following a trend, you're far from special. You want to talk about accountability ? How come we never talk about men that cheat more on their pregnant wife ? Or men that cheat more and leave more when their wife are sick? These type will flew as soon as it get UNCONFORTABLE. They d…	/r/ExRedPill	09/06/22 11:24 AM
1	Should you never reveal yor weakness and vulnerability to women? These comments were found in Tribe of Men's video "Woman with A STRONG FATHER FIGURE tells it how it is" If so, is the potential pain of losing a woman youre interested in but who can't appreciate you fully for the kind of man you are be worse than just being single and free to be vulnerable ? Its a good point, I am not sure it will go through a redpiller tho. The pressure to get a gf/wife is on a crazy level. It litterarly define your worth, your masculanity and status in society.	/r/ExRedPill	02/06/22 07:28 AM
2	Should you never reveal yor weakness and vulnerability to women? These comments were found in Tribe of Men's video "Woman with A STRONG FATHER FIGURE tells it how it is" I like the job application analogy thank you for pointing that out. But usually redpillers would argue that people that has to change and not them that has to consider others way to achieve their goal. Like it shouldnt be this way on the first place in this particular entreprise.,	/r/ExRedPill	02/06/22 07:24 AM
1	Should you never reveal yor weakness and vulnerability to women? These comments were found in Tribe of Men's video "Woman with A STRONG FATHER FIGURE tells it how it is" In some cases they do realize. I grew up in one of those household where being the only girl I was supposed to take care of everybody and my brothers could go on with their life without reciprocating. I also grew up in the west and I still have conflicating views about that subject. So even if I am aware that lack of reciprocity is bad, I might fall for the same pattern because thats all I know. I saw women fall for it too, bad upbringing can f you up to the point you're just making the same mis…	/r/ExRedPill	02/06/22 07:18 AM
1	Should you never reveal yor weakness and vulnerability to women? These comments were found in Tribe of Men's video "Woman with A STRONG FATHER FIGURE tells it how it is" Why is this guy who is disrespectful, irresponsible, and otherwise an awful person able to get a date and even cheat while in a relationship whilst I can't even get a text back? I can see a lot of reason tbh. Insecurities, bad upbringing (tough love), financial stability.. Is it gaslighting ? Genuinely asking (I see the exact smae thing in those comment, men who are with women that only like who they imagine their partner are and are ok with that). Why did my partner start getting distant from m…	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/22 09:11 PM
1	Are women who say they want a "provider and protector" in a man toxic or hateful for feeling this way? I often hear women both online in this very community and in my personal life talk about "dating down" when referring to men who make less. The only thing I can think of that might go against that statement is people are not the same when they have money. The "come up" women is a widespread phenomen and I understand why people in general would not risk being dump after 10 years of struggle because you werent their first choice, just what was available and was willing to dedicate themselves to yo…	/r/ExRedPill	24/05/22 09:15 PM
1	Are women who say they want a "provider and protector" in a man toxic or hateful for feeling this way? Yes feminism gave the ability to choose. I dont mind those type of relationship. What I dont like is the lack of reflexion of some people. If you know the adavantages and risks and go for it anyway, no problem. But it has some point that can be critisized like any dynamic. And when relationship fail, children are the most vulnerable, so its important to adress them. For example having children with a partner who doesnt want to work is dumb. So many situation where it will end badly. Another exem…	/r/ExRedPill	24/05/22 08:51 PM
2	Would there be fewer incels if society was more honest? Alright Im gonna stop this here. 2nd time you dodge my arguments. Nothing but statements that make you feel better I guess but no proof whatsoever. World is indeed unfair, you dont have to make things up.	/r/ExRedPill	15/05/22 05:31 PM
6	Would there be fewer incels if society was more honest? Is it what you believe ? What you experienced ? Or based on a study maybe ? How come the most attractive female celebrities don't always date model ? They litterarly are the ones that have the most choices of everybody.	/r/ExRedPill	15/05/22 09:34 AM
7	Would there be fewer incels if society was more honest? Its not really because of experience but because of maturity. Young people are more likely to be selfish in bed. It doesnt 5 years lol You're kind of projecting. Men prefer women in their early 20's Women prefer men their age. No peak. Attractivity doesnt define who you'll date anyway . Men still dates within their age. Women might find less men as a whole attractive but they do engage with them.	/r/ExRedPill	15/05/22 06:11 AM
5	Do women have it easier than men? On my snapchat I tend to always see young girls partying and going abroad. I thought about that while reading your post, its where your initial opinion about top women came from. They are a major part of social media, but there are still a minority compare to women as a whole. terms of the bottom 20% of women I wouldn’t say it’s difficult at all. They can definitely get a good looking boyfriend and they have tons of options still. Only the Chads will degrade her. Average man will feel lucky to h…	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/22 02:45 AM
4	Why there is no lot exfeminsts as there is exredpill a whole additional work day, I can give additional information such as the fact men typically work jobs that pay more but I don't need to, this alone disproves all that statistical myth. Women have mainly "care" jobs and should be paid more but aint gonna happen soon How about accessibility to those high paying job ? Are men and women equal ? As soon as you enter a gender dominated field, things gets more difficult, and people quit. I'll add that we still live in an era with women raised the chi…	/r/ExRedPill	20/04/22 01:26 AM
1	How does female attraction work, or rather how does a man become attractive? So since you said "to my gf" I understand that she thinks you are insecure when you're not. Imo looks more like vulnerability than insecurity. Not insecure to not show every part of yourself to people you trust. And you can be confident about some things and not about other. If people are unconfident about being lovable, they will act on their fear. Will they go furtherer in dating if they are good looking ? Absolutely, but thats not as good as it seems as the relationship will suffer from this …	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/22 10:22 PM
1	How does female attraction work, or rather how does a man become attractive? I'm a confident person to the outside world. I believe in myself. But to my girlfriend I'm the most insecure guy in the world. How come ? That sounds sad tbh	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/22 12:26 PM