expectedsarsa Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
69	You don't want to raise children you're not related to? Pure evil.	Marriage/Children	expectedsarsa	/r/MensRights	25/04/22 04:50 PM

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1	Nothing makes many western women more angry than women in other countries, especially non-western countries, having happy relationships with men that those western women think they shouldn't be dating. Highly disagree with what you're saying about Japan. I'd say this is likely because of cultural/linguistic barriers. I have N1 level fluency in Japanese. Dating in Japan was actually easier than dating in the US for me despite being 5'5 and brown. 25% of Japanese women in their 20s have never gone on a date. Even if 20% of them are the equivalent of "fat ugly white girls" (not sure what exactly that would be) that's still a lot of hot women that haven't been asked out. I was the first foreign da…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/24 06:42 AM
2	Is it true that most people cannot lower their standards biologically? Women have very low testosterone. Women with more testosterone tend to have higher sexual desire. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1743609522005483 It's funny how some women on this forum think horniness is something men should just be able to turn off. They've got no idea how turned on they would be on test.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 12:31 AM
1	When dating, why do people claim to speak a foreign language? There are a ton of bilingual people. Asian Americans, Latin Americans, etc. In fact, pretty much every person I meet who isn't black American or white American is bilingual lol. Maybe you should try going for non White people if this is something important to you?Personally, grew up speaking English and two Indian languages. Plus, I started learning Japanese, French, and Mandarin during my younger years so I'm at C2 level in those if not close to native. Still, I make mistakes sometimes. A job i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 04:26 AM
1	When dating, why do people claim to speak a foreign language? There are a ton of bilingual people. Asian Americans, Latin Americans, etc. In fact, pretty much every person I meet who isn't black American or white American is bilingual lol. Maybe you should try going for non White people if this is something important to you? Personally, grew up speaking English and two Indian languages. Plus, I started learning Japanese, French, and Mandarin during my younger years so I'm at C2 level in those if not close to native. Still, I make mistakes sometimes. A job …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 04:26 AM
1	32 years and yesterday was my biggest win Is it pronounced jizz?	/r/seduction	13/02/24 10:10 AM
–	How hard do short men really have it? I don't know a single western country with an average height of 5'7, so my guess is that American dating dynamics don't quite apply there. Would have been good to lead with that. Plus, they're not as below average as they would be here, and being married doesn't mean they didn't have difficulty dating compared to an average height counterpart. Again, the comparison is the important part here...	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 10:01 AM
–	How hard do short men really have it? You need to clarify what short means here. As someone in the bottom fifth percentile of American male height, "no problem dating" seems far from reality. You can get dates, but you get dates less frequently than your average height counterparts. Plus, it's easier to blow dates since you check one less box, so many of your dates aren't initially quite as attracted to you. Of course, once you are in a relationship, none of this matters. I love love love learning languages, so I travel a lot. I usu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 09:50 AM
4	Predictions for how the dating market will look 100yrs from now? India is below replacement, and it will start declining once the next generation dies. Many provinces have European birth rates. I don't want to be mean, but you could have at least looked this up before making a comment. https://www.science.org/content/article/india-defuses-its-population-bomb-fertility-falls-two-children-woman Your comment is so paternalistic and off that I don't even know where to begin. Ignorance is one thing, but confident Western ignorance never ceases to baffle me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/24 10:33 PM
-2	People here exaggerate the hate that age gap relationships get. If you're so sensitive that a few comments get you then don't be in an age gap relationship False equivalence. Every woman has been 18 at some point. 99% of men will never be 6'5.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/24 04:49 AM
2	There is no place for men to meet women Female isn’t a noun, it’s an adjective This is incorrect. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/female female 2 of 2 - noun a: a female person : a woman or a girl b: an individual of the sex that is typically capable of bearing young or producing eggs : a pistillate plant I don't use the word female this way unless it's accompanied by the word male, but a fact is a fact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/23 06:15 AM
3	85% of Chinese are not marrying and 60% are not procreating Maybe like 50 years ago. We're below replacement overall, and birth rates are at European levels in many provinces. Birth rates aren't as low as East Asia, but Western perceptions of India are hilariously outdated. People are having fewer children and the obesity rate is rising. It'll be the same as the West eventually. Just slightly later.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 11:22 PM
0	85% of Chinese are not marrying and 60% are not procreating Nice LARP. If you were really Indian, you'd know we're below replacement rates. I'm guessing you grew up in the West. You've got issues dude. Genuinely, seek help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 11:05 PM
1	How are short man supposed to date? I'm 5'5, in my early twenties, and I live in the Bay Area. I've had dates and girlfriends. I'm attracted to taller women, so I've mostly dated women my height or taller. If you're short, you probably want to have qualities that are exceptional enough to make up for your height. Personally, I'm fit, (apparently) funny, and I have interesting hobbies. Or, you have to make a lasting connection through shared experiences. I don't think money is nearly as important a factor as men in this subreddit m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/23 03:08 AM
1	Why should men still be the ones to pursue? The richest Americans have higher birth rates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/22 06:09 PM
2	Which group of women do short men have the best luck with? I don't care if they're short or not as long as they're functional members of society. My only point was it isn't as simple as short + tall = short 80% of the time. If that were the case recessive traits like blue eyes wouldn't have become so common in certain areas. I agree with your overall point. The pedant in me doesn't accept your single data point though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/22 01:36 AM
2	Which group of women do short men have the best luck with? You're right. My mistake. I meant to say recessive or dominant. I didn't catch that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/22 06:38 PM
1	Which group of women do short men have the best luck with? you pass along one copy That's exactly what I said. You pass along one of the copies you have. Where did I say otherwise? Maybe I wasn't clear about everyone having two copies. Punnett squares give a 1/4 probability of passing on a recessive gene when comparing a single dominant and recessive allele. It's a square. Not sure where you keep getting 1/5 from. 5 is not a perfect square. This is basic math. Punnett squares also assume the inheritance of monogenetic traits that don't interact with eac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/22 06:23 PM
1	Which group of women do short men have the best luck with? You're not "most likely to pass the genes you express." You pass on one copy of all of your genes, recessive and dominant. Ofc, your children might not express all the genes. Also, I'm not sure where you got this 1/5 probability for gene expression of recessive traits. Doesn't make sense. Especially for a polygenetic trait we don't fully understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/22 05:59 PM
1	how confident are you with your body? does it affect your sex life? The man guy doesn't passively attract attention from women. Even many attractive men don't. The vast majority of men have to actively earn that attention. There's no reason women can't do the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/22 05:43 PM
2	Which group of women do short men have the best luck with? That's a massive oversimplification. Just because I'm short doesn't mean I don't have "tall genes." My paternal grandfather was 6'5. My maternal grandfather is 5'4 and my maternal grandmother is 5'6. My mother is relatively short at 5'1, but her brother is 6'1. I'm 5'6. My girlfriend is 5'8. If we had children, they would probably be tall since I have a decent amount of "tall genes" and she has way more "tall genes" than I do. She's the shortest adult in her family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/22 02:46 AM
1	What are the professions of the men on this sub? Well, I guess your company's culture is different. I don't see how people who don't work well with others can succeed as software engineers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 06:16 PM
1	What are the professions of the men on this sub? Tech has grown exponentially, which is why most people are young. There are a much larger variety of people in tech compared to 20 years ago.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 07:34 AM
1	What are the professions of the men on this sub? it's because they're nearly all a bit autistic This seems like a baseless stereotype. Communication is one of the most important skills you can have as a software engineer. You don't just work with your own team. You work with multiple teams across the company. Design and discussion is paramount to every feature launch. A lot of my time is spent in meetings. These kinds of people usually don't make it past the behavioral interviews at least where I work (Google).	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/22 08:19 PM
1	What standards do women have that are “too high”? How do women find out all this stuff? None of the women I've dated knew this information (except for height) right off the bat. In basic intros, I just mention my job and leave it at that. Mentioning my income or degree to start with would be kind of weird. My girlfriend doesn't know how much I earn, and she's never asked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/22 08:47 AM
1	Contrasting 'Invisible woman syndrome' with the basic lived experience of many I'm sorry, but it is very much not a scientific fact. If it were, it wouldn't be under investigation. The paper I linked makes frequent use of the phrase "thought to." Anyway, I don't see how any of this matters if you're taking good care of your skin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/22 02:54 PM
3	New study on dates shows that men paid for the majority of male-initiated dates (68%), but women or both paid only 33% of the female-initiated dates. On top of applying to job postings, I would spend time directly messaging people (recruiters, engineers, hiring managers, etc.) on LinkedIn and networking. Getting referrals would usually speed up the application process for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/22 04:11 AM
1	Contrasting 'Invisible woman syndrome' with the basic lived experience of many I don't know how true this is. They might develop wrinkles more slowly, but they show other signs of aging. It's easy enough for me to tell if an Asian woman is in her twenties versus her thirties. Most other Asian people would probably be able to tell too. In fact, Asians are much more likely to care about a woman's age. Perhaps unreasonably. Asian women in their thirties have more trouble finding partners than Western women do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/22 03:26 AM
2	You don't want to raise children you're not related to? Pure evil. You're technically correct, but I don't see the point of bringing up this technicality. The possibility of this happening nowadays is negligible compared to paternity fraud. And when it does happen, the babies are more often than not given back to the right parents thanks to ID bands.	/r/MensRights	25/04/22 08:09 PM
8	You don't want to raise children you're not related to? Pure evil. That doesn't really happen anymore. Babies are given an ID band as soon as they're born.	/r/MensRights	25/04/22 06:28 PM
32	You don't want to raise children you're not related to? Pure evil. Women argue that male opinions on abortion are invalid since they aren't women. Yet, many women in this thread shamelessly preach to the OP about what he should do in a situation they are physically incapable of experiencing.	/r/MensRights	25/04/22 05:51 PM
1	Being average at everything makes you below average A jack of all trades is above average overall...	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 09:31 PM
2	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness Prostitution is the only industry on which everyone hates the consumers. Hell, even the suppliers of the service hate their own customers You nailed it. The women on the r/sexworkers subreddit are absolutely insane. It's crazy to me how they can continually rail on their customers and complain despite getting paid an insane amount per hour for unskilled labor in a relatively safe environment (these aren't streetwalkers). Something men can never hope to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 07:21 PM
0	I wrote an anthropological master's thesis on MGTOW / Red pill Wow. I didn't know that. I can't imagine how I would survive in this scenario.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 07:05 PM
3	I wrote an anthropological master's thesis on MGTOW / Red pill The birth rate will keep on plummeting until they do If it were that easy, Europe, Japan, and especially South Korea (with a fertility rate below 1 per woman) wouldn't be struggling so much with birth rates despite going out of their way to pay people to have kids. Neither the average man nor the average woman really cares about the birth rate. In fact, some are worried about overpopulation despite the fact that every developed country and many mature developing countries have had a demographic …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 07:01 PM
9	I wrote an anthropological master's thesis on MGTOW / Red pill I disagree. I don't think men's rights will ever take off. One of the main reasons feminism took off is the economic incentive - more women working = more $$$ for business owners. Plus, heterosexual men have a biological inclination to do things for women. It is inevitable that the tide would shift in that direction. In contrast, there is no incentive for women to support men. They have an in-group bias. Misandrist or not, they will get attention from men regardless. In contrast, an average man …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 05:21 PM
-1	What is your honest opinions on subs such as r/dating, r/dating_advice, and r/seduction? The bottom line is that there are some things that are simply out of your control - race, height, facial features. Literally in no universe ever will the 5’5 Indian guy with busted teeth pull more than the 6’4 blonde football player with the massive torso and arms. I think these subreddits like to ignore that. I'm 5'5, Indian, and in my early twenties. I've never had trouble finding dates or getting casual sex in the US. I can't imagine having time for more than a couple of girls a week. If Chad…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/22 12:05 PM