explorebear Archive

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4	Unless you are in an established relationship with someone, there needs to be a degree of emotional detachment regarding a potential future with them Self fulfilling prophecies are scary, it’s both a driver and a destroyer of relationships, it’s the line of scrimmage. It’s natural to want to think into the future, for oneself or with others, so the way I’m trying to navigate this, is to have multiple prophecies so that I can test each out one step at a time. Meanwhile still keeping boundaries. For now, the way to protect myself, is trying to be open, and happy for the other person no matter where the prophecies lead.	/r/seduction	07/04/22 03:30 PM
1	Is it feasible to meet women in this day and age without using apps? Kudos to you, I think it’s harder for a male to stay abstinent from sex. If you’ve been celibate for the past 2-3 years, your hormones might be messing with your head too. As long as your intent is to get to know a woman and date her instead of just to sleep with her, you don’t need to feel self conscious when approaching women. Just keep the interaction respectful and polite, like meeting a friend, and if there’s interest, maybe a date. If there’s no interest, bc you’ve been polite, most women …	/r/seduction	21/03/22 10:52 PM
2	Is it feasible to meet women in this day and age without using apps? Sounds like you’re really self conscious about being insincere, when you’re sincerely trying to meet/date someone. It’s not so much the “how to” or “where to” meet women that’s an issue. It’s an issue of getting over your own contradiction and accept that, yes, everywhere you go, you’re looking for your future partner, the intent is sincere so it doesn’t matter where you’re meeting them. Quality May vary though pending on location lol	/r/seduction	21/03/22 09:18 PM
2	Would you date, marry or even consider a relationship with a single father? That is quite good to hear and thank you for the podcast rec! I’ll ride the flow for a bit longer to feel things out, may take you up on the dm…thanks again!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 08:51 PM
1	Would you date, marry or even consider a relationship with a single father? Thanks, yes bc I don’t know anyone else in this situation, the more info I can gather, the better I can assess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 08:43 PM
1	Would you date, marry or even consider a relationship with a single father? I’m a few months in dating one and starting to catch more feel…how are you dealing with the baby mama situation and what do you mean by solid boundaries?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 02:06 AM
0	Would you date, marry or even consider a relationship with a single father? Are you then implying that once people have a kid, they should never separate, for the sake of the kids, regardless of compatibility?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 01:53 AM
1	Would you date, marry or even consider a relationship with a single father? Same boat! How do you deal with the baby mama situation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 01:46 AM
12	What to do She’s a mom with twins. She ain’t got time for anything but the truth. You don’t need to play or have games, just talk to her like a genuine friend, it’s all about the intent.	/r/seduction	10/03/22 03:02 AM
1	Can someone explain me the push-pull thing? Imo the purpose of “game”/push-pull is to stir up or draw out feelings. For those who are emotional and feelings based, it’ll easily become manipulative. Those who are more thinking/logic oriented, wouldn’t be as easily manipulated/effected. A little flirt and game is fun out of good intentions. When someone knowingly does it for self interest without the intent to go into a serious relationship, is debatably playing with people’s heart/mind.	/r/seduction	06/03/22 07:27 PM
2	she wasted my time then laughs in my face The sooner you learn/accept your own standards and how you want to be treated, anyone that treats you less than, cannot effect you. Their actions will have no hold over you, their words will not pierce. You can walk away from something that has no value added to your life.	/r/seduction	02/03/22 05:02 PM