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That my friend, is called a keeper
/r/askTRP19/04/18 01:37 AM
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everyone has a favorite. It's all really personal. I like LSD, my good friend prefers shrooms. Experiment at low doses. Also make sure you're not genetically inclined to have mental illnesses because it can trigger latent mental illnes.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 01:15 PM
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Id say if you were healthy enough and curious psychedelics may be an interesting tool for self improvement. I'm in my mid 20s and I got into it in my early 20's. It's done so much for me I can't imagine what I would be without it.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 02:07 PM
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cut carbs cut calories and intermittent fast i have a solid 4 pack, and getting to full bloom 6
/r/askTRP20/11/17 06:38 AM
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Thanks so much. Ill let it develop! And take it from there.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 11:05 PM
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Fuck there's no way out huh
/r/askTRP04/06/17 09:47 PM
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But doesn't that lead to drama and possibly cheating? Are you suggesting I pursue her? I've almost decided to move on. Just worried this girl will hate me or something.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 05:55 PM
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UgHHHhhHh
/r/askTRP04/06/17 05:40 PM
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Most girls dont believe I will be loyal and be there longterm so when I ask them out I get autorejected. That's the shit test. Usually takes months of dating to alleviate their anxiety but it's getting frustrating.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 05:39 PM
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Totally agree with what you're saying. Extreme RedPillers think long-term monogamy and oneitis are myths and dreams. In my culture long-lasting marriages are highly dominant. Also, ive dated MOST of the girls I had oneitis to. I was IN LOVE balls deep, and made relationships out of them. Anyway, I still think the redpill needs to exist. It's there to help in the end of the day, just got to take it with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 09:44 PM
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You know. I read a blog post recently about how high quality women freeze up and get nervous around high quality men. Think of it vice versa, assuming you're a high quality man, you sometimes freeze up around a high quality women. It's only natural especially at a young age. You can treat ALL her friends normally (even her hot friends), but with her it would be totally different. If she brings up your behavior with her friends, most of her jealous friends would call her delusional. And vice vers…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 09:55 PM
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we're cursed.. but ive dated some girls who stimulated this much emotion. Usually it ends bad. I'm assuming it is the same for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 08:48 PM
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I see what u mean. I do this to girls all the time. But if I really like the girl that likes me it turns into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 06:35 AM
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Thanks for the advice. I am a musician. How'd you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 06:27 AM
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To be fair neither us of really intentionally try to see each other. It's really by accident or coincidence most the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 05:16 AM
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Early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 05:10 AM
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Don't bring me back to the dark side..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 03:35 AM
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I've been eating there maybe 6 years. No I'm not making an excuse. It's like the spot me and my buds grew up on. I met like one of my past girlfriends there. Anyway. Yeah I tend to to come on a little strong with her because she use to come on strong on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 03:32 AM
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Ugh she works at my favorite Wings bar. FML When I say eccentric I mean we really hit it off. I know it seems like a panic attack. I actually am worried about it, I don't like giving those feelings to ANYONE. I do avoid all the possibilities of seeing her. Which means missing parties and missing my favorite wings in town....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 03:27 AM
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I choose not to homewreck or participate in any form of cheating. I've done it before but have given up on the habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 03:20 AM
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Thank you for your replies, I'm starting to understand your sense of calmness entering the situation. You're right she's probably judging many impressions herself. We're from the same side of town so we always see eachother here and there, so its something Im trying to clear up. Kind of squash the beef, because its just a weird tension between us, and it just kills my vibe tbh. She can't even look at me in the face so I talk to a wall when its one to one. I dont think I can resolve it so easily.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 02:31 AM
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We see eachother by accident. It's NEVER my intention to see her. We have lots of mutual friends. But why would she be like that? She has seen me with 3 different sets of girls (I know I sound like a player, but I just love people in general). I have an active dating life and to be honest I'm cool with her dating someone else. I'm not JEALOUS at all. If she really feels THAT guilty to cripple her socially around me. Than this girl MUST be crazy... I'm merely reacting to her emotions. I have MOVE…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 02:10 AM
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oneitis BAD man. I can get so many hotter girls too! SHITTTT But to be fair, a lot of her friends used to/still like me. I've dated 2 of her mutual friends. And she might have some dirt on me. Maybe she's scared of dating me. But regardless you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 02:05 AM
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I want to believe you and just move on, but it just doesn't make sense. I know just as much beautiful girls to be honest. Would guilt inspire tension and nervousness? When I'm around her she's REALLY weird. She's just so tense that we can't even maintain a decent conversation. She blushes and stuff. I just want her to be normal SO I can move on like it's nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 01:59 AM
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c'est la vie
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 05:15 AM
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You can hook up with your oneitis. I did it 3 times. I had a LTR with one. You didn't play your cards right man, but it definitely can happen.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 01:37 AM
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I agree with this post. Though, I would like to argue on the limitations of some of your responses. 3. A sarcastic/humorous response is more humane, instead of some pretentious reaction like a King looking at a peasent. I dont know. Being too pretentious can kick you in the butt. 5. Sometimes Alpha's have so much options or busy with their Alpha life that doing nothing at all is what they do. Being considerate is crucial. What if shes cute as hell, but shes actually insecurley evil, and naively …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 01:36 AM
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I'm near my mid 20s. I also have a HUGE network of friends. And to be frank. I can only really recall 1 or 2 friends who can get laid more than me (which is debatable tbh since they try really hard). So with that in mind. Out of 100 guys. I'm within the top 5% of men in my social circle. And my friends are too. Basically me and my friends get the hot girls that the rest of my hometown treat like mythological Greek goddesses. To us they're just chicks. I find that natural alphas don't fit in at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 11:47 AM
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From my experience. Sometimes I hang out with a room of 5 people. And collectively, I've slept with more girls than all of them combined. personally I'm more reserved with my promiscuity tho. But I have a friend who goes all out and definitely ends up at the top 5%. I believe the 80/20 rule is a rounded estimate but in a sense true nonetheless. And if "easy" to you is having at least having 2 or 3 girls on your phone ready to bang you. Then yes I have it pretty easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 08:42 PM
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agreed. I could have added this as a last note.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 09:17 PM
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Exactly. As sad as it is. That unconditional romantic love must be kept to yourself. You have to treat her like a child. Though I think Its debatable since Art of Seduction by Robert Greene speaks of romance as an effective tool. Even more ironic how this subreddit uses the authors other books. I should have been more specific between romantic love. But I wanted to be broad so I can speak of how it effects your entire life if you hated "love". I knew I was going to get hate. But if this post con…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 07:41 PM
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I agree with what you say. I should have added that. "If you can't walk away you already lost." Like I said. You have to be vulnerable. You do have to learn how to walk away. You have to be open about leaving a relationship you're so deep into that it may traumatize you for a few months. But the thing is people are pussies and will never put themselves in a situation of romantic love. The bravest people are the ones who love knowing they will get hurt anyway. And not regretting it afterwards. Th…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 03:17 PM
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I'm almost sure you don't participate in any high form of creativity
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 03:14 PM
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They loved everything. Some forms more reserved then others. But they all tapped into inner love that translated itself in those fields. Just like hate oozes from a fundamental feeling/insecurity/issue. Love is the same. It is interconnected. It effects creativity, drive, inspiration.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 01:46 AM
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Tell that to the greatest men of human existence. Most oozed with passion. They loved with passion endlessly. If our species fed off hate and anger as a tool for evolution then you got a point. But symbiosis and metamorphosis and all other side effects and forms of evolution are about cooperation and trust. Stay blind If you want but realize humans will only evolve with empathy. If not. We are all fucked. After all if it wasn't for Darwins love for nature. He'd never find the theory of evolution
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 01:22 AM
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I agree with everything that you are saying. They are different types of love Now I may sound like a hippy saying this. Or maybe only experts in creative fields can understand this. But if you look deep enough. They are all interconnected. They all tap into love for inspiration, creativity and the like. This awarness may not be useful for all but definitely effective for many.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 01:16 AM
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I feel your pain. When I hit the threshold of dating hot women, life was very dissappointing.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 01:34 AM
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All my girlfriends were down to have threesomes with me. I think most of the girls I've been with were somewhat down to share me in some shape or form. Threesomes, one-sided polygamy relationships, etc. They also wanted my babies, suggested it and usually freaked me out enough to break up with them. It seems like this pattern is WAY to often for it to be "luck". I'm worried about marriage. I am way too stimulated by women to ever be married. It seems like if i DO marry. Women will only desire me…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 01:56 AM
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Great piece. The only reason why I stay in these subreddits are because of people like you. Emerging unconventenial wisdom into an ever growing concept.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 03:08 AM
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Well I have ex girls who I think truly hate me. And other girls who act like they hate me.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 09:35 PM
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I'm assuming the attitude of hate as well and not just the literal word of expressing it. What shall I do with the women that "hate" me? Changing their attitudes seems like a giant chore. But letting it wither seems such a waste.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 06:55 AM
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Yeah I'd say go in for the kill. Ask her when she's free.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 01:54 AM
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You know the irony on my life? When I hit my 20's I wanted to be the coolest guy that had all the girls he ever wanted. And guess what. It happend. What happend? I put myself in a position where my pre-selection is off the roof. I've made out with all the pretty girls from my town (obviously an exagerration) and now most of these girls look at me as an "alpha fuck" when really my BP personality just wants to be loved. Well fuck. Now women are scared to LTR me. And its lonely as FUCK. This is wha…
/r/askTRP08/03/16 01:50 AM
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I've had multiple occassions where people would also ask if the girl I'm with was my girlfriend or wife. Happend more than I can count. And is usually awkward when it's still the dating phase or they are actually just my friend/coworker. I've heard of studies claiming that women can smell the pheromones of an attractive male. They maybe put you thru subtle shit-tests that demonstrate your character. regardless. I've met women who wanted to bone me 15 minutes into getting meeting them. But that m…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 10:22 PM
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interesting. I dont like to put all my eggs in the MBTI theory, but I've done tests and have concluded that I am an ENFJ. Supposodly male ENFJs are as rare as 1-2% of male population. Regardless. I find myself in the sigma character. I am an extrovert with introvorted qualities. It's really weird. But how I know this is that I prefer being by myself, but if I'm thrown into any social situation I breeze through it flawlessly. I wouldn't say that INTJs are the ONLY sigmas, though they fit the desc…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 11:50 PM
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The trigger finger and musician both are alligned with their own missions. I agree. Many can fall into categorizing themselves incorrectly. But this could objectively be determined by just asking that "sigma" if he finds himself as succesful, and sometimes outclassing, his alphamates. In my life I have multiple sigma archetype friends who can slay more pussy in a year than most in a life time (of course comapared to betas). And these particular friends of mine have no egocentric motivations when…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 08:22 AM
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Sigma may very well be an introverted Alpha. The thing is. There isn't any articles or depth into the introverted Alpha. Turns out some of these introvereted Alphas are far more succesfull then his alphamates. People have coined it Sigma. Maybe I might be wrong. But there is definitely an anomaly that exists in the Alpha spectrum. Like I said. Me and a few friends are what I consider Introveretd Alphas. Or Sigmas. Or Renegade Alpha. And we, objectively, find ourselves more succesful with attract…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 12:35 AM
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Drive is a cool example. Maybe the Sigma is actually just an introverted Alpha. Mystifying his presence which eventually leads to women fetishizing about him. Sometimes outclassing the Alpha when it comes to attracting women. A really interesting and different archetype that must be considered in RP theory.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 10:45 PM
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Great posts guys It seems Sigma archetypes seem to feel like they have a more sharper sense of truth. Seeing life in a different perspective than a regular Alpha. More introverted. Heres a comparision I find that can be different between Alpha and Sigma. ALPHA will be the social leader of 15 men who respect and sometimes praise him as the Alpha. The Alpha is satisfied by this position. Most likely affecting his neurochemistry (seratonin, testosterone, seratonin, etc) but SIGMA will be the studen…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 10:34 PM
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What do you mean by high primary and low secondary? Not that they don't like it, but because they don't give a shit yet want to keep peace. Seems a little harsh. I'd like to adjust it by saying that they dont seek attention being the leader so they are less likely to show forms of social dominance. I guess it depends on the mental health of the character. I do agree with your BP and RP duality. I found myself valued as a beta in a younger age, until I accepted my uniqueness. Untill I went RP in …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 10:20 PM
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It seems a Sigma isn't learned but only realized. IME. A sigma will realize his true potential by accident. Usually after finding self independent confidence and throwing away the normal respect for social hierarchy
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 08:38 PM
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I believe the Sigma archetype does feel connection to the group. He just has no desire to be the leader unless it's necessary. Think like Wolverine in XMEN Or Max from Mad Max. He's an outsider. Not always the leader, but usually ends up changing the dynamics of the reality that surrounds him. If sigmas are real. Then we do have long-term social circles. It's just that they are more aloof than the Alphas trying to control the dynamic of the social circle.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 09:25 AM
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Bad parenting. Divorce. Abuse brother/uncle. The list goes on. Usually something that develops them to be crazy. Just like teaching a dog offensive behavior. It could be genetic too.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 08:37 AM
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Well shit dude. You just showed me I might be this Sigma theory. Interesting. Everything you explaiend are to the tee. The alpha haters. And almost stone cold nonchalance. But also applicable beta/apha behavior when needed. Do you have any sources for this sigma concept? Books, articles? Also does this apply somehow to the animal kingdom as well? just curious
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 03:22 AM
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Influenced heavily. Do you have any book recommendations that further dissect your concept?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 02:37 AM
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Nice piece. Do you know of Joseph Campbells work? Your subject matter has a lot to do with his work. Particularly on how humans use the concept of God in a religious context and what it really means.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 12:08 AM
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I like to consider redpill as an extremity. And with any extremity you must take with a grain of salt. For example. Taking Nihilism or Spirituality as gosepl would be just as dangerous as taking Redpill theory as gospel. Redpill definitely sheds some light in the dark when you really need it. And is fundamentally true in many aspects. But anomalys in the social world do exist and should be treated as so.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 11:02 PM
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Agreed. Thanks for the notion. I've already been backstabbed multiple times. By beta scum who will never be at my level. And when it happens most of my experience with it isn't hate but mostly pity. Having high emotional intelligence IS a gift tho. And it isn't normally glorified. Or even physically measurable. And is in scarcity in the male community. It's practically esoteric. Accepting it as a gift is the first step of really utilizing it. To be specific /u/tgeda2015 you should really look in…
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 09:08 PM
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Specifically tyrosine makes me very docile on an empty stomach
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 06:30 PM
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Yeah I shy away too. Ite crazy how you can stimulate women in a very deep and emotional way. And the more of an effect you have on them the more they deny it (usually for me). But this emotional intelligence just peirces thru that bullshit. I've had my most romantic relationships because of this deep effect and understanding. Sometimes I want to stop shying away from it and be the Don Juan that exists in all of us. But shying away from it sometimes seems the more mature way to handle it. Instead…
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 11:32 AM
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Yeah dealing with passionate women can be a fucking drag. I'm assuming you get this issue? It seems that high emotional intelligence lets you engage romantically with women in a much higher degree. OPs uncle exploits the shit out of it! What do you find a burden? I'm just curious if it correlates with mine.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 07:29 AM
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Thats the IRONY of it all When you get almost all the girls you want, the ones you really want are intimidated by you. Or when you finally date the girl of you "dreams" you may realize shes a boring person or a shallow bitch. When you find yourself in leadership/alpha roles you inspire jealousy and envy and realize how shitty people are, eventually leading to a form of social isolation. It's just like that. But what I do is just bite the bullet and keep on treading. Thats why they call it the re…
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 06:22 AM
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This is really interesting. I've found myself in a start-up-esque group that has practically found me as their "natural" leader. And its true I find myself way more emotionally intelligent than most. It's almost like HACKS. Being able to read someones emotion just by the sway of their body, the look of their eyes and the angle of their face. It's somewhat a burden really. But are you saying I'm in the top 2% of high EQ? Or is that just an exaggeration. The weird thing about it is that growing up…
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 06:04 AM
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I would like to add. To all the men who end up in this exception. OWN IT. I have been blessed by God to pursue a path in life that gives me credible social status. All my life I have been made fun of my flaws (in my case my relative shortness), that ultimately overshadowed my confidence and inhibited the blossomed alpha nature intended me for to be (I'm still developing!). I owned up to my good looks and credible social status by first eliminating the toxicity that ran in my social circle. DISTA…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 11:42 PM
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This is great! How do you handle women who are insecure or hesitant? Who really like you and are initimdated by you. Worried that they will only be a one night stand to you. Resulting in HIGH ASD and shit-tests. I get the occasional party lay, but every once in a while I find a hot girl (usually a mutual friend) who is very hesitant with me. Usually because of my social reputation and looks (Im slightly above average).
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 11:05 PM
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Gym, Meditaiton and Sex. Life is so good with those 3.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 08:33 AM
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The irony is when I lost all my anxiety because of my height. I've had taller women constantly hit on me. It was so shocking that I didn't even realize it was happening until it became sexual advancements.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 04:06 AM
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Noob question but since everyone here is mostly educated. Would a pre-nup prevent such significant losses in a divorce?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 09:05 PM
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I only have pity for those kind of men. I did that to a dude once. I ruined his fucking life for a year. I even LTR'd her for a bit (bad idea I know I was young). 5 years later I see him again at a bar with some friends. He comes up to me and buys me drink as a peace treaty. To be fair, I'm slightly popular on my side of town. But regardless, their beta behavior doesn't end sometimes. It's like they're stuck with it.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 05:39 AM
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That girls boyfriend is a fucking foot rug. Poor soul is decent looking too. Totally ignorant towards the true nature of women. It's ironic when you finally put women down from their pedestal they are almost impulsively attracted to you.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 07:24 AM
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dude you're my hero. Would you have any book recommendations?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 09:41 AM
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What would be the equivalent of 9 and 10 males?
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 10:45 PM
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I use to have this question till someone turned it around on me. Have YOU ever been intimidated by a womens looks? Of course. And certainly it happens to women as well, albeit not all women. As a man, personally looks for me is just a preliminary qualification now, nothing to be intimidated by. It can be a combination of looks, behavior and status(pedestal). The worst is when you're on a pedestal. When mutiple girls in a group likes you at the same time. Pre-selection off the roof. Cognitive dis…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 10:28 PM
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My secret to success is the confidence I gain from my aspirations. The fact that I have mentors in the music industry. Acquaintances and friends with people(in most cases, celebrities) in positions where I want to be one day. Legitimate validation from these people. And people who support me. It's a reality not a dream. Anyone else would gain the same amount of confidence if they were at the doorsteps of success in their feild whether its entertainment, science, business, sports, writing and any…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 10:33 PM
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I overemphasize because people in general lack passion, drive and REALISM with their dreams and goals. As you can see in my post I'm showing that I'm working really hard, realistically and passionately. How many kids you know who say they're gonna start a startup but have no revenue? Say they want to be a rapper but is trash with no connections? Say they're gonna be a football superstar but smoke regularly and don't even watch their diet. MOSTLY everyone who have dreams. And not even everyone ha…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 08:11 PM
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I guess my point is. You're putting musicians at an exclusive pedestal. There are other career paths, aspirations and goals that will give you the same amount of abundance mentality and behavior. Celebreties are another case though.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 06:14 AM
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Obviously you're a person who judges things at surface level. I was going to explain in detail but I did not want to ramble on. Plus I didn't think someone would SPECIFICALLY say the only negative thing that may exist in my post. Anyway, before one of my girls come over and fucks my cock, let me explain. If you watch the video carefully you see 3 major things that demonstrate that this wolf is most likely Alpha: In the beginning when he is by himself every other wolf in the court has his immedia…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 11:38 PM
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With the wolf video. I'm trying to demonstrate how society puts you in the corner and tests your character all the time. Just like the wolf you must prove your legitimacy. And if you fail you will lose your status, and potentially, in metaphor, die. We must live in intensity just like that wolf. In legitimacy. In the case of my academic interests. You're right people feel inferior to this. But I'm not like most people. Thanks for the advice.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 06:27 PM
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Most women I meet and sleep with initially are unaware of my status or connection. So basically I win them with confidence alone. I actually make sure of this so I know women don't like me for status alone(I've had an identity crisis with this problem). You don't have to believe me. It has no way of altering my life. It's good be skeptic of the Internet anyway. And you are right. Most short Asians do get ignored by girls. That's why the title is called "Against the Odds: Life as an Outlier"!!! P…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 06:16 PM
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Almost all the girls I meet and sleep with initially dont even know I have anything to do with music. I win them over with confidence alone. If I dropped the music gig my passions would remain intact. As an aspring philanthropist, a relevant citizen, to leave this life behind with only benefit. The fact that I'm an aspiring musician does not signficantly seperate me from everyone else, untill I am at a level of fame. Court jester seems more comedic. When I relate to classic archetypes I prefer d…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 12:04 PM
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Agreed. As of recently this passive agressive behavior from alphawannabes and ALSO cognitive dissonance from women(I did not see that one comming) have been way more severe as of lately for me. I'm glad I'm not alone in this boat!
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 11:13 AM
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