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exploring_rpw/r/RedPillWomen15/01/14 02:55 AM
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I never say anything, just lurk and read, trying to understand. It's simply hard to read so much anger. So yes I do avoid it for the most part. :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/14 01:53 PM
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I have sort of already introduced myself previously. I have always realised that I needed a strong dominant man and that I was only attrached to that type of man. I have explored BDSM because of these fantasies and met my Man through BDSM. I still have a lot of learning to do and often find myself uncomfortable with the ideals but now I examine my knee jerk response to much of what I have read. I have to admit I have a very hard time going over to /r/trp because of the attitude over there. I als…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/14 09:18 PM
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This post tweaks me in all sorts of ways. I am still sort of on the fence about RedPill because of my Feminist upbringing and the fact that I am the primary breadwinner and have already raised a child and have essentially squandered my SMV and still have a wonderful partner. I am going to speak first to the RedPill side of me though. Do you wish to have a family? It's clear that your SO does. and it's clear that he wants a wife and mother dedicated to that family. Being a single mother I was abl…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 02:36 PM
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Check out flylady.com
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 02:16 PM
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Actually in my industry, while things are changing every day, much of the time men do tend to think me incapable and I have had to work much harder. In general my coworkers and subordinate resepect me and my work very much but those in other areas and or customers are the ones that I have to work very hard to prove my value. I find this to be true in my industry because this is a male dominated industry. Prior to this I found that much of the "work" women were complaining about was the battle to…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 02:14 PM
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I am confused. What are you expecting from him? Verbal affections? He has made it clear that is not his way of showing affection. Obviously, keeping a clean house, cooking for him, being put together, staying fit, being sexual, massages, and generally being pleasant, are what most men like and need.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 02:32 PM
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I LOVE Flylady! Her tips on organization and keeping everything in small increments really help.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/14 07:12 PM
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I too read the article. Being one of these provider women I can explain the "Extra Child Syndrome". It's not that a woman has disdain for the drain of caring for children. Nor is it that she loves her husband less. It's that she starts to love the husband as she loves her children. Particularly if he behaves as such. When I come home from work and both my son and my SO are sitting on the couch playing video games and the both ask me what's for dinner, it is nearly impossible not to feel some irr…
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/14 02:52 PM
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I posted on this yesterday but it got removed. I am really loving the responses.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/14 06:59 PM
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Yes, I would say that he hits the nail on the head.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/14 03:48 PM
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I bought the book last night on my kindle and read up to chapter 12. There are many great ideas there. I will probably take it pretty slowly even though I want it all right now. The money chapter left my heart palpitating and I am not certain I can let go and trust that much yet. :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/14 03:22 PM
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Good point, I did take home some of things we all talked about today and was able to be nicer and more giving last night. I consider it a win :) His pre-relationship messes were his fault. He actually was in a really bad place about a year before we met and was picking up the pieces when we did. I will admit that I was more than a little leary about getting involved with someone who so shortly before had so many problems, but he is funny and sexy and I was butter in his hands. I also personally …
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/14 03:18 PM
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I think this is really a great idea. Especially for us newbies :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/14 11:25 PM
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For a while I was our sole income because all of his money was going into fixing his pre-relationship messes. I actually had to tell him that i could no longer afford him after about a year before he started contributing financially. That year of me supporting him AND doing all of the hoursework and cooking and cleaning lead to a number of the problems we have now(apparently I am holding a grudge, lightbulbs are blinking on the more I write :0) ) My income alone is enough for us to scrape by but…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/14 10:31 PM
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Well I applaud you on your efforts and for helping me figure this out too :) I look forward to hearing updates on your progress. Your advise actually rings true for me because I will find a large amount of this to be very difficult as well.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/14 06:57 PM
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We both work. We both work hard. I do tend to get a little upset about coming home to him sitting there, a trashed house, no dinner plans and I have to deal with all of it after a 12-15 hour day. I don't start a fight about it, I just shut down. But I know the energy I put out when that happens(often) is terrible. I don't know how to keep it in check and just be happy to see him. I am really hoping to be able to acheive that. He is a good man and I love him so much, but things took a wrong turn …
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/14 06:21 PM
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Thanks for your insight. I definitely have been using those terms and I will consciously be mindful of using them. I guess some of our powerstruggles have been primarily about money. I mentioned that his life was kind of a trainwreck shortly before we met and he has always defered to me about financial decisions simply because he handled money poorly. I have helped him to rebuild his credit and to pay off most of his debts. So I have historically had a problem with him going out and buying a pro…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/14 06:13 PM
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Fair enough, but what happens when there are decisions to be made and they aren't being made? I in no way want to be a negative nelly here, this is an honest question.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/14 06:05 PM
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Oh I will definitely need a lot of practice. I appreciate all your help!
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/14 05:43 PM
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Thank you, I just read it and it does seem like there is a lot of valuable information there. I will buy the book and give it a thorough reading :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/14 05:42 PM
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Why are you the decision maker? When we initially started dating, he had been having some life troubles. He looked to me and my life example to help him get his life straightened out. Additionally, he often simply won't decide things. Frankly forcing me to make the decision. I love it when he does take the lead but it's not often. Why are there power struggles? This is mostly my fault. When he does make decisions that impact us both it is often about spending money on things we simply shouldn't.…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/14 03:02 PM
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Thank you for your insight. I will look into that book.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/14 02:46 PM
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