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Read the first part of "The Inner Game of Tennis." Learn how to observe your actions without judging or forcefully directing them anywhere.
/r/seduction28/05/14 01:16 AM
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Be more observant. There's much more to talk about out in the real world than in a bar. It's a moot point, however. The first few things you say don't matter.
/r/seduction24/09/13 03:00 PM
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Aww yea, now you're talking my language. Cheers, fellow mycologist.
/r/seduction24/06/13 04:45 AM
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Fuck em.
/r/seduction21/06/13 04:57 AM
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The assumption was that you have the ability to approach as many women as you'd like while she will only be approached by a finite, unknown number of men. 10 minutes of both your time wasted is moot, but one less approach for her is more costly because she does not control that number like you do.
/r/seduction19/06/13 06:55 AM
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Nothing new here, but you said it well. Cheers!
/r/seduction22/05/13 06:16 PM
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Point taken. You play it well. Different strokes for different folks. I'm glad you have a style that brings you success.
/r/seduction11/03/13 09:04 PM
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Yup, I misread what you wrote about canned openers. I can see that being effective. A huge difference between us might be that you're actively looking for someone to be in a long-term relationship with? If that's the case, your approach makes sense. You also might be talking to women who are older than the ones I'm usually around. The 20-25 crowd probably has a lot less to say about love than the 30-35 one.
/r/seduction11/03/13 07:22 PM
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Remember how I said that, and then you escalated and defended what you do, when I originally didn't see a huge problem with it? You misinterpreted. I put crazy in quotations not to credit you, but to emphasize that we aren't using the standard definition of the word. Italics might have been better? I understand where you're coming from and you make a valid point. I think the line is drawn between being playful and antagonistic. Some people might not draw that line in the exact same place as I do…
/r/seduction11/03/13 07:12 PM
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Well words should be obvious. . .as I thought they did. The problem here is that body cues cannot be taken in isolation. It's a language. Like language, it's easy to teach and learn vocabulary, but you must be immersed in it to become fluent. Only picking up certain body cues is like having a conversation where you only understand every fourth word the person says. The voice . . . manipulate You make a strong point, and I have to agree, overall, with what you're saying. The voice usually sells p…
/r/seduction11/03/13 05:15 PM
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I was not suggesting a canned opener as an alternative. They're mostly terrible, in my opinion. Delivery, as always, is 90+% of it. If you're solid in your game as is, then it doesn't surprise me that you've asked this question successfully. What kinds of responses have you gotten? I think you're running a huge risk of opening up some ex-boyfriend Pandora's box.
/r/seduction11/03/13 04:57 PM
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I'm not your dawg, buddy. Good thing I don't make others suffer significantly. Thanks for setting the record straight that making others suffer is not a good thing... There's a difference between noticing how someone reacts in a situation, and creating a situation specifically to notice how someone reacts. What's the difference and what makes the latter unacceptable? You haven't told me why you think that doing something to elicit an unknown response is "crazy"?
/r/seduction11/03/13 02:58 PM
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When you take out body language and gestures and aren't even listening to the words people are saying but simply base it on the contours of the volume, pitch, and pace of the conversation you can tell exactly how two people are feeling at any point of an interaction. How could ignoring the majority of the interaction tell you exactly how those involved are feeling?
/r/seduction11/03/13 07:02 AM
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How is that a good question? Maybe it's because I would have no interest in the answer, but asking her about a time when she was in love sounds lame.
/r/seduction11/03/13 06:43 AM
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It's not normal to do things just to see how another person will respond? This is pretty much how humans have figured everything else in the world out, so why is it an unacceptable way to learn about other people?
/r/seduction11/03/13 06:01 AM
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I often say or do things with the sole purpose of seeing how other people will react. According to your article, this makes me crazy? I will try and explain what I do in terms of a test (in reality, it's more like playfully probing the person in a way that amuses myself and possibly them if they share my sense of humor). Actually, have you ever seen Clerks? This scene - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=om_WKVG3xoA You could call it trolling, but the motivation is not to get a rise out of the other…
/r/seduction11/03/13 05:24 AM
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Before you decide that studying and practicing is actually a valid trade-off, read a little about reflective practice - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reflective_practice
/r/seduction22/02/13 03:01 PM
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I appreciated it, but no, it generally doesn't go well on reddit. I think it's because so many people argue, the default tone to read things in is snarky and combative.
/r/seduction21/01/13 04:09 PM
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To some people, they never get the girl; because they never have they think they never will. Thinking they never will is a shot at their confidence and one can get caught in a positive feedback loop. I think one way to internalize is to break down your thought processes and figure out why you think the way you do. Essentially, you need to break the loop. One way is with a changed mindset that can lead to positive experiences, etc... Not sure if I'm saying anything new here. I don't know this com…
/r/seduction06/12/12 12:23 AM
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The proclamation of a "true" or "right" worldview is usually reserved to cultists, religions, and fanatics. A mindset is something your little league coach will try and instill in you before the championship game. They both change your actions and how you think and feel about the situation. You are right that a changed mindset can lead to a changed worldview, but not in and of itself. Like you said, it needs to be internalized. The internalization process is the tough part. My original qualm was…
/r/seduction06/12/12 12:17 AM
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A worldview is more fundamental; being the way in which one views the entire world. Let me know if this analogy makes sense: If your worldview is you then your mindset would be your emotions. Your mindset strongly affects your actions, but it won't (by itself at least) change your inner model of the world. Worldview and Mindset You can see how what curveball mentioned would make you act in a certain way, but any or all of them without anything else will not actually change your fundamental view …
/r/seduction05/12/12 05:56 AM
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Sounds good. Calling that a worldview just sounds cult-ish to me. As if there was one right way to view the world. In reality, you are not talking about views but mindsets, correct?
/r/seduction05/12/12 03:46 AM
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You are both right. This is personally dependent.
/r/seduction05/12/12 03:40 AM
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What's a "decent worldview"?
/r/seduction05/12/12 03:36 AM
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Don't ignore. Just be subtle.
/r/seduction27/11/12 05:14 PM
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It's courteous to leave a comment explaining your downvote. That, and people constantly post about how they agree with OP, thus explaining their upvote.
/r/seduction15/11/12 01:42 AM
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Bored with the guy, not bored with their lives.
/r/seduction21/09/12 08:53 PM
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"Hey, I'm (name)." Then let conversation ensue.
/r/seduction31/08/12 11:26 PM
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Be one of those cool Asian bros that everyone loves.
/r/seduction04/08/12 01:21 AM
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I feel the exact same way. A girl can appear more physically attractive after you find out that she's awesome. Hot girls are a dime a dozen, but so are all girls and all people for that matter if you're just sorting by looks. A person you are mutually compatible with is much tougher to come by.
/r/seduction01/04/12 12:50 AM
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Sorry, I don't mean to be defensive towards you. More of a general response thing. I got a little overwhelmed with all the "accusations" and assumptions about my character that came from asking a fairly straightforward question.
/r/seduction22/03/12 02:30 AM
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I want to add that the "unless you're in the south or midwest..." part of your post is bollocks. New York and other big cities, many of which are in the northeast, are the most likely place to find the "niche" places you seem to be so apprehensive to accept as legitimate places to hang out.
/r/seduction22/03/12 02:05 AM
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This is exactly right. It's not a "discomfort" thing. It's that these environments can just be unappealing. It's disheartening how you seem to get berated and MUST be lying if you aren't like everyone else. You seem to have the same mindset as I though, so I have to ask: what kind of reggae concerts, jazz clubs, and electro events do you go to? What kind of reggae concerts do you see? At what kind of venue? What type of jazz clubs are near you? Could you explain what an electro event is? What's …
/r/seduction22/03/12 01:58 AM
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I'll take note and stop by next time I'm in Montreal. I like to keep long-term notes like this, but I will eventually be back up there and now I have someplace to go. Thanks
/r/seduction21/03/12 05:38 PM
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Thank you for not slandering me in your reply. That sounds awesome, though. The place have a name/website?
/r/seduction21/03/12 05:36 PM
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I don't feel discomfort at a bar. I can handle it socially and have fun without problems. What I said was that I don't enjoy dancing in places where the music sounds terrible to me. It's not the bar, it's the music. I can hang out all night at a quiet bar, but you can't dance at a quiet bar and I want to dance... just not to dubstep. I don't care if the place isn't very popular if everyone there is having a good time. I prefer less crowded places, and at a niche place like that it's actually muc…
/r/seduction21/03/12 05:33 PM
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That's a pretty good idea. There's probably some cheap university classes, too...
/r/seduction21/03/12 05:12 PM
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Look, man, I didn't say that I can't enjoy myself at a bar or a club. All I said is that I don't like dancing to that music, because it's repetitive and it's boring. Sometimes I force it because the interaction is more desirable than the dancing is undesirable, so I was wondering if there were other bars or clubs out there (or any venue), that could offer the bar/club atmosphere without the shitty music. Is that honest enough? Can you all stop with this sarcastic bullshit?
/r/seduction21/03/12 05:09 PM
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Sounds seductive....
/r/seduction21/03/12 05:04 PM
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Do you think there's some other "secret" place that plays your style of music? Just curious about what kind of places exist in different parts of the country/world. I was hoping for stories of local places people have that might not be exactly like every other venue in the world. You're also making false assumptions. It's not that I can not have a good time at these places. I can and do. It's that I'm curious about other places people go to have fun that might not be so ordinary.
/r/seduction21/03/12 05:04 PM
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Your friends should learn to be honest with themselves. It is the music. It's repetitive and bores me.
/r/seduction21/03/12 03:27 PM
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"Best guide I've seen"? How many pussy eating guides have you seen to be able to call this one the best?
/r/seduction04/03/12 06:23 PM
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Kinda like a wiener, a fruitcake, or a pansy. Fluffy and awkward.
/r/seduction23/02/12 05:08 PM
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Right on, bud. Sometimes thoughts and hypothetical conversations are awkward without context; after re-reading what I wrote, I think it does come off as being a bit creepy. The delivery really is what counts, though. Corny is fine, but be careful not to act like a little biscuit. I prefer being honest and direct. It lets you steer the conversation wherever you want it and you don't have to remember anything. Last thing anyone needs is someone taking record of someone elses comings and goings. Ch…
/r/seduction22/02/12 11:58 AM
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Be careful not to over think it. You can always just say something normal like "Hey, you're always here around this time aren't you?" then ask her why she prefers nights, if she works during the day or something. Have a couple lines of conversation and then playfully ask if she'd mind spotting you sometime. Alternatively, the next time your eyes meet and she has her headphones in, get her attention then point to her, then your ear, then make an inquisitive face as you mouth "what do you listen t…
/r/seduction22/02/12 10:09 AM
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Right, that makes more sense. That's valid, I might be taking it to an extreme, but i think in the most ideal situation this fear wouldn't exist. In some way we are all debilitated as individuals to SOME extent if this fear is present, but only when the fear grows to a certain point does the negative effect become significant. I think that's right. I retract my original black and white statement and substitute this gradient idea.
/r/seduction08/02/12 08:07 AM
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if we are afraid of being alone, along comes insecurity and neediness -things which a confident male should avoid. I would also like to add that insecurity and neediness should only follow a substantial fear of being alone. For most people, the fear is a little more subtle than that, and manifests itself at times like when you stay with a girl a little longer than you should have because you were comfortable and didn't want to be alone, or something similar. Confidence is self-sufficiency. You k…
/r/seduction08/02/12 08:02 AM
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I like what you're saying, but it seems like your reasoning is off. Are you saying that this is a valid belief mainly because it fits the "alpha" profile? I think I can speak for everyone in this sub reddit that we have a fear that in the future for some unexplained reason there is a possibility of being alone. That's the point I'm getting at. I believe that as long as this fear is present in any extent, it will prevent you from having a completely honest and beneficial relationship.
/r/seduction08/02/12 07:55 AM
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Touche. I was tying to counter the feelings of "I'm meaningless AND rejected" at the same time.
/r/seduction24/11/11 07:20 PM
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But the meaning of life is to gain as much knowledge as you can, try to advance human knowledge in some way, and be as happy as you can while doing it. Rejection? Meaningless. That girl? A peon. Earth? Speck. You? The pinnacle of our speck's biochemical evolution and a means for which the cosmos may discover its own beautifully simple, yet seemingly complex mysteries! It's not scary or intimidating, it's humbling and exciting! Just like rejection.
/r/seduction24/11/11 10:30 AM
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Remind yourself of the scope of the universe and all of a sudden nothing really matters that much
/r/seduction24/11/11 01:52 AM
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Yeah, my girlfriend isn't a huge fan of me actually playing music because she isn't involved in any way, but she likes that fact that I play.
/r/seduction07/11/11 03:42 PM
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I read a lot in this thread before finding someone I can actually agree with. Being a nice guy has nothing to do with women, it's just about being a genuine person. Women usually come to me as well. Correlation does not imply causation, being a nice person doesn't mean women won't want to be with you.
/r/seduction24/10/11 11:57 PM
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