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How does she respond when you are in a bad mood? Does she come to save you? Write a post on reddit? P.S. I didn't read it, only had to read the title, what about you my dude? fuck her feelings if you can't even fuck with yours
/r/TheRedPill31/10/21 09:16 AM
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Every question you ask about women, ask about men... what you think men are born responsible? Stop worrying about other people, worry about what you feel about yourself. They disgust you but you still want to fuck them, yes? Sounds like a personal problem.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:00 AM
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Will I ever stop being a slave to pussy? FTFY. To answer your question no it will always be amazing, but fickle, not reliable, eventually you won't care so much, but you always will. Please tell us how the high school kid overcame pussy and how you are so above people though. You are def the first to feel that way. You def beat the game. Laying it on pretty thick here
/r/askTRP06/05/21 08:39 AM
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Translation: I put pussy on a pedestal, and not only that, unless you give me something, I won't be loyal to you, but I demand loyalty. Sometimes guys need to look in the mirror. Who are you ready to die for? You expect that from a stranger? It's very complicated but maybe you will like this transactional analogy someone told me, I loved it. If you don't feel like you are giving and they want what you have, then you are taking, or why are you with them? The fucked up thing is you have to be near…
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:18 AM
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If you are lucky enough to meet others outside your bubble, you realize there are other universes, completely different from your own. Not right or wrong, not black or white, uncountable colors. Every person is different and unique. There is this whole world of mental health issues you don't see. You bring up being deformed, unnatural and not healthy. That's going on all the time. Things you take for granted. Strong men, subjected to some of the worst things life has to offer. You are thinking o…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 04:08 AM
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Your father probably went through this too. This is your challenge. Nothing wrong with you. Do the thing.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 10:43 AM
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Disagree with this very much. It's a fantasy that you can just overpower things with rage. That your anger is righteous and valid. The reality is you are powerless in many situations, and getting angry isn't going to help you. We are all bitches on this earth. No one can escape that. I love it in competition when someone gets so pissed off that they are losing, they change up and try hard, easy game after that. It's not like in the movies where you start glowing and your true power is unleashed.…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/20 03:47 AM
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Get hard, grab her titties or ass or somethin, do what you gotta do. When you are nice and hard, put it in her pussy. Feels good. End. Use that training for when you actually care about a girl.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 10:21 AM
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It's about energy, if they are running away, trust it, chasing is weak. When they are moving towards you, push back, there you can feel your strength... match their energy. Play.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 06:21 AM
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Not to mention that its not weak to open up and share feelings or emotions. That IS toxic. Men dont cry etc. You want to call Shaq a bitch for crying about Kobe? How about any good male actor, you think that's easy or weak? Being terrified of being weak or having feelings and sharing isnt strength.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 03:31 PM
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Medication quiets the parts of you that are out of wack. You can tell it's a chemical though. You can tell it's weird and artificial. That part of you beneath your emotions is still there, simply aware of being aware. Drugs can't fix you if you have a toxic mindset. Pain you can't let go of. Negative and unhelpful coping mechanisms. They can give you an artificial sense of what it's like to feel "alpha". Not bullied or afraid. You still need friends or a good therapist to integrate after the dru…
/r/askTRP24/01/20 10:22 AM
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Narcissists have a wall around their true selves. A wall so thick even they can't see through it. At the core of a narcissist is pure terror they aren't good enough, so they have to spend tremendous energy convincing others and themselves they are fine, grandiose, just naturally better than you. Deep down its a lie though. They can't truly connect with or feel love for anyone. It's not something you want to be.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 03:23 AM
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Sounds cheesy, but there's a reason great and wise men have said it. We need love and trust. We need people to see us at our worst and accept us and vice versa. The only thing that matters in this life is the connections you make. Random feelings are meaningless. True and genuine connection is forever and unbreakable. You help one person, it makes whatever you went through not meaningless. You are loved. You matter.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 09:34 AM
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I think, for those of us who have been abused of the notion of trust.... we didn't know that's what we wanted, or how much it would affect us to be betrayed. We get cheap sex and "drain our balls". Your frame is weak. The only thing of real value in this life is trust. You are paying to avoid your fear that you will never be able to trust someone again. Worst of all, you let go an opportunity, to have what you really wanted... because you were afraid. Get back to me in a decade of fucking hooker…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 03:25 AM
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Good time for fake it to make it. Pretend you have too much sex. Pretend you have a mission that you dream about and keeps you up at night because you think you have a shot of making a difference, making a lot of people happy. Tired. Bored of silly feelings. There's that one girl you brushed off today. Stopped that other girl from giving you a blowjob last night because meh. A girl is looking at you. Uh... so? Boil it down, you noticed her staring, it's still on your mind, she broke your frame. …
/r/askTRP15/10/19 03:36 AM
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Make the best of what you are given, accept the realities you can't change which means working on not being so negative in your thinking. Yes you are ugly. You aren't alone. Make some friends. Hire prostitutes. Find a girl with an ugly face and a rocking bod. If you were looking for true love and a woman to love you just for who you are, well you wouldn't find that if you were genetically perfect anyways. In a way it frees you up to do things others can't. You don't have to worry about divorce r…
/r/askTRP01/10/19 06:30 PM
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Beta, alpha, blah blah, back someone into a corner... back any living thing into a corner... well life do what it do. Warrior is not some new made up idea. We are here from all those times people got backed into a corner.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 10:23 AM
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You act like there aren't rare women... mathemetically that's impossible. Some are better than others. Some are one in a million. Just like men. Is it this disney land fairy tale bullshit? No. I think most men don't want to admit how scrub they are and if they want loyalty they should be happy with that fat girl. Weird thing is the men who really have options would be jealous of you if you were happy.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 11:29 AM
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Women are just human beings like you. Smart ones. Dumb ones. Ones that talk too much, ones that are shy. Does she know what it's like to have balls and this constant drive to empty them? It goes the other way too, you don't know what it's like to be her. How disconnected do you have to be to ask such a stupid question though? Yeah yeah no question is stupid but some are better than others. Of course women know men are hard up for sex. Of course women know men want sex. Of course women know men a…
/r/askTRP08/09/19 11:21 AM
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Take the loss. It happens. The guy clearly understood the power dynamics at play. But what was the prize? Random thot? All you have to know is if it really mattered and you really cared about the girl (hint, she would have stopped it before you did if she was worth something). Pretend you did care though, and she was worth it, and a big monster comes along. It was your wife, the mother of your children, big cocky arrogant dude turns his back to you... well.. he just made things very easy for you…
/r/askTRP30/08/19 11:51 AM
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I grew up with 4 sisters... as a young boy I couldn't understand why they would get so upset sometimes. To me it was like an innocent game and it made me feel some sense of control I wasn't getting elsewhere. It was like "oh this is fun I press this button and they freak out." This caused them to fight back the way women do, plotting against me, lying and getting me in trouble. I didn't understand how i was hurting them until I experienced bullying myself. Over time I honed that skill into just …
/r/askTRP13/08/19 03:39 PM
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A strong frame is one that has been broken down and built back up multiple times. A true mark of a strong frame is being comfortable enough to admit a mistake and correct it. When someone can't do that it's really them overcompensating for deep down feelings of fear and insecurity. Their frame is held in place rigidly and will crash down all around them if shaken. A strong frame is more fluid and relaxed and can take the hits, like punching a curtain.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 05:58 PM
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If a personal boundary is crossed, state it. I personally don't like being interrupted. Interrupt them back. "Excuse me, please don't interrupt me when I'm talking". Be confident and calm and unreactive but not meek. Boundaries are firm and he needs to know that. You aren't angry though, pretend he just isn't aware and needs to be taught. Other than that, you aren't competing with him, the only person you are ever competing with is yourself. You can't control him or the people around you, but yo…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 03:00 PM
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If some crazy bum starts yelling at you on the street do you still backfire? No, you don't give two shits. She got into your frame. You felt the need to defend yourself.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/19 10:51 PM
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Grew up with 4 sisters (only one full blood) and my full sister kept a journal in college of all the guys she fucked (penis size included) lol.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 06:04 PM
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19 yo good looking guy I knew said his body count was 60+. Hot girls too. If you are an attractive male and actively pursue women through social media/video apps you can make a killing today
/r/askTRP10/05/19 06:01 PM
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Yep I agree, it was definitely eye opening for me
/r/askTRP26/03/19 04:22 PM
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Reminds me of talking with this 5'5" scrawny ex heroin addict who said he had been with 100+ girls. A 7/10 came up (who he had slept with) and completely ignored me while he did some bs with her hands. He did have a good frame I suppose, a presence, but man I felt disgusted by it just thinking women are retarded
/r/askTRP26/03/19 03:43 PM
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The only person you should compare yourself to is your past self. You never know what someone else is going through in their journey but you can know yourself. Once you get past thinking you are special or better or people are beneath you the only thing that is left... is to share and teach and help others. Nothing else in this life has any lasting meaning or value. Imagine you were the best person on the planet and everyone else sucked. What a lonely existence. May as well work on bringing othe…
/r/askTRP24/03/19 05:19 AM
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I feel like you are trying to be strong. Perfectly strong and unbreakable. You don't get to choose strength like that, you get it from experiencing how vulnerable and weak and fragile life and you are. None of us are super heroes. You can't be strong without being vulnerable. You can't have the one without the other. Expressing interest in a woman is expressing vulnerability and there is no way around that. You can definitely do it in a strong and honest way though, letting them know you can tak…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/19 01:48 AM
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I'm in a similar boat to you. 38, good looking, good job, but I've only been with one woman and that was a 4 year relationship where I was beta af. I was raised a 3rd generation Scientologist and didn't get out until 23, virgin until 27 (total shit show that first experience was too). I haven't been with a woman in like 8 years, and the last 3 years have been one of the worst depressions and slumps I've had which I'm now getting out of. During that time I have read a lot and identified beta tend…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 10:48 PM
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It's a good way to see a different side of yourself. Even though it's artificial the chemicals released are the same ones that would be going off if you are extremely comfortable, open, and trusting sober. The trick is finding the elements that you can apply to your sober life, but realize sober life won't match the extreme highs/lows
/r/askTRP07/02/19 02:02 AM
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With that attitude... Yep.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 08:35 AM
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Projection. If it wasn't already inside you, you wouldn't be aware of it. You don't feel comfortable, probably to an unhealthy degree. You look for reasons. Read what you wrote as if you were confessing to yourself how you really feel. Intimidated. Obsessively reacting. You carry yourself and others are beneath you. Actually caring and having a connection with someone is terrifying. You can't help but smile when you see them and they do the same. You wake up glad to know them. It's the unknown. …
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:03 AM
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The questions you ask yourself shape your perspective. Strive to ask very specific questions, and challenge others to do the same. That's a shitty question. People love drama. We learn that as little kids when we say we saw uncle joe at the park with a woman and see the adults interest peak. Maybe a better question is why do girls love drama more than men? Is it a feminine quality to like drama? If it is purely feminine why are some women different? Well I've thought about it and in my opinion l…
/r/askTRP25/08/18 08:41 AM
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Ask them if they saw a huge woman threatening a small child with a knife if they would intervene. Just kidding of course, but I'd love to see their responses
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 04:29 PM
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Geezus, you need to learn how to spot BS when you see it... 50%? That guy? LOL. Maybe he goes at 2 pm when all the 2/10 strippers are there. There's something he isn't telling you. Use your brain and common sense. Just look at the guy for fuck sake. I made it 1 minute in before my bullshit meter exploded.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 01:20 AM
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Social media, people are comparing themselves to far more people than they would normally which leads to depression.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 04:44 PM
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Are you enjoying your time with her? Do you want to have kids? That's all you need to ask yourself. 20 years from now if you were single and alone, would you have wished that you stayed with her? Don't listen to all the angry manlets on here about marriage and/or having a family and not trusting women. Yes you need to be extremely careful and not needy and not desperate and not searching etc. If you are a fucked up person you are going to get a fucked up relationship. You can't trust men, either…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 07:14 AM
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Make it simple when you go down that road... are you really broken? No amount of help will fix you? Just kill yourself then... go out in a blaze, go fucking ham. If you are so sure life will never get better, may as well let go. Do all the drugs, hire that prostitute, blow your savings... Oh, you aren't ready to kill yourself? Can't say I'm shocked. You need a better perspective. To be grateful for what you have. To realize there are countless men that would die for your opportunities. Just kidd…
/r/askTRP11/06/18 05:27 AM
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Good to hear. This is what this place is about. Anyone with real frame truly has faced their fears and knows what it means to be vulnerable, alone, afraid, etc. We aren't alone. Remember if you meet an asshole his frame is probably weak. Anyways, good luck.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 03:38 AM
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AA, however what you say as usual is a tiny fraction of what matters so I wanted to talk about it a bit. Warning: your timing, voice tone and facial expression are very important here. With a girl you only face rejection, do the wrong thing against the wrong guy and the consequences can be worse. If you have a tendency to come off as autistic maybe being neutral is best. If you look to be thinking of something to say or trying to hard to be funny/impress, or appear pissed off/embarrassed/annoyed…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 12:51 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RTrCBcrFMCI
/r/askTRP19/05/18 10:49 AM
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So the moral of the story is he wasn't making her pussy tingle... but she was a soldier and had average sex for like 20 years. Hamstering away things like she's in love or what about the kids when thinking of a previous chad (or possibly not knowing better, and running into one later). I think that was one of the hardest parts of redpill to accept for me. That women will never love you like you can love them. Their love can turn off like the flip of a switch. You can never rely on them or trust …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 11:38 PM
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You've let things progress too far already, if you don't see a future best to end things now. At least you didn't do what I did and try to convince yourself you can eventually love her, only to break her heart 4 years down the road.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 06:22 PM
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You are very lucky and blessed to have those feelings. What you consider a burden, many others could only dream of. That sadness lets you know how much you loved him. The connection you had was real. I never really had a dad, but I would cry just watching movies about imaginary dads. I can't imagine how bad it would hurt to lose a real one... but I'd rather feel that pain than never have a dad at all.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:25 AM
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Nowhere to go but up. Doesn't matter your status, it matters where you came from. Only person you should compare yourself to is your past self. Are you happier? Sounds like there are lots of avenues for you to improve your life. Don't worry about women, start trying to craft a life that you could enjoy, or at least bear. It's your life man. It might be a pile of shit but it's your pile of shit. Might as well make some castles out of that shit on your way out. P.S. 27 yo until I lost my virginity…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:18 AM
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Ask better questions. You can never be an expert of the unknown, and each first date is a different experience, you can't ever plan for it. So why ask how to be an expert of the impossible? Maybe ask how to be an expert of yourself? How do you handle being uncomfortable, confused, afraid, desperate? No one else knows you better than yourself. Know how you learn about who you really are though? Go on all those first dates. Embarrass yourself sometimes. Surprise yourself others. Learn. Grow. Let y…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:48 AM
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You may as well ask why do human beings display crab in the bucket mentality and be human beings. You know the answer. I think your question is better asked from a male perspective. Let's imagine there are men competing for women, and let's say I am chad thundercock and you are going after a girl I want. I display good genetics, but also charisma, intelligence, have money, etc. Yet she goes after you the hypothetical danny devito of the genetic pool (huge hypothetical). In the natural course of …
/r/askTRP30/04/18 04:15 AM
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It's a sign of insecurity to me. High value females have high value female friends too.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 12:24 AM
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Life is unpredictable enough. It provides you the material, all you have to do is be present and honest and share yourself openly. Hell just by you being you, there is no one else like you. That doesn't mean it's easy though. It's a lot easier to seek comfort and predictability and momentary gratification. Your fat friend who stays at home playing games. You know what he's doing. You know where he is going. That dude that simply shows up to things... well you never know where that guy is going. …
/r/askTRP13/04/18 10:28 AM
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Defend yourself, swat their hits away, back away, if you have to pin their arms down and get on top of them and once they are calm fucking bolt and make a break for it. Your only goal is to leave, and leave no evidence. Hope you don't have to deal with residual crazy. They can make up shit. Bottom line don't ever accept a girl let alone a man hitting you. Red flag much?
/r/askTRP12/04/18 09:28 AM
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Your message is similar to "Most of you are too short to have high SMV". There is some truth to it, we know height is an advantage, but we also know some short dudes are killing it at life. Fat dudes too. Real talk. I know nobody wants to hear this but, some of us just have way better genetics. Some can eat like shit and it turns into muscle. Some of us look at a hamburger and gain a couple pounds. The variance between human beings is insane, and completely unfair. You can't change it. You could…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 04:28 AM
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Girls can have game too.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:44 AM
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Wasting time. Being too afraid to admit my flaws and accept who I really was and that I hated it and needed to change, now.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 09:29 AM
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Define ego to start your article especially when the core word is in your title. Progress. Enemy. Biggest. One thing. I didn't even read your article but I saw those words. Those are your ego talking. Your ego is an awesome tool designed to place you on a hierarchal social totem in order to protect you and at the same time help you grow, but it's not perfect. Rising above your ego you will start to say more words like presence, acceptance, reality, comfort, peace. Someone stuck in their ego does…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 01:10 PM
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Just that if you aren't really enjoying something, why are you doing it? Now granted you don't need to be an asshole and you can compromise, but when it comes to relationships you really need to be FUCK YEAH about the whole thing. To let yourself get in to that situation is a red flag about low self esteem and not going for what you really want. If you aren't FUCK YEAH I'M AWESOME about yourself, who will be? If you were that way and you weren't feeling something and didn't want to do it, you wo…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 12:09 PM
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The fact that you are thinking it's something you need to conquer is a red flag within yourself. Been there done that brother.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 11:41 AM
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It's a red flag. She wants attention. Something she isn't getting from you. She will never admit this of course.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 11:40 AM
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I "lost my virginity" at 27. I can't really call it that though. More like an experiment. I guess I technically lost it because my dick was inside some pussy but... I had spent 2 years going out and practicing socializing, making up for a lost childhood. Oh god I was bad... I got better though. When I finally put my dick in a pussy, I was 75% hard as you say, not all the way into it. I expected rainbows and magic sparkles, it was a big let down. It was years later when I finally relaxed with a g…
/r/askTRP08/01/18 11:14 AM
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It's a negative feedback loop. You think about it which makes you feel the anxiety again, which makes you not perform, which makes you think about it more and so on. Meditation will help the most with this. Learning to relax and focus your mind. You can do this on your own of course but the real test will be with a girl. Find a girl you can talk to and set the frame that you want to take your time with foreplay. Then practice not paying any attention to your dick, pay attention to the things abo…
/r/askTRP29/11/16 01:10 AM
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You are in your head too much. Constantly comparing and contrasting. It's a defense mechanism so that you don't have to feel vulnerable and can keep your distance. The problem with this type of thinking is you either judge them to be below you, or above you, neither results in the feelings you are after. Start feeling your way through life instead of judging people all the time. That 6 you dismissed immediately might give you the best night of your life. That 10 you think would be the hottest se…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 08:37 PM
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You just have to be aware of the difference between making excuses and being in denial of your own pain and weaknesses. I spent many years with that attitude and eventually I burnt out. Reality has a way of knocking you on your ass regardless of what you think, and no amount of "Suck it the Fuck Up" is going to help you. Don't make excuses, don't give up the instant things get hard, but also take care of yourself and be kind to yourself, you aren't superhuman and you do have limits no matter how…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 10:35 PM
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Your brain doesn't have a "no". So when you say "don't think of a pink elephant" you will think of a pink elephant. It's like how they teach drivers to look at where they want to go and not what they are trying to avoid. So you need to practice putting your attention on different things. I'd recommend if you find yourself thinking of her to practice breathing exercises and try to put all of your attention on your breathing (meditation). If you find your mind wandering, just put your attention ba…
/r/askTRP25/12/15 07:10 PM
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I spent many years with intractable PTSD and anxiety. I studied, I meditated, I exercised but in certain trigger situations my anxiety would always come back. Don't get me wrong I made great improvements and I'm not saying those things didn't help me but mushrooms and molly were a great tool to show me what it was like to be completely free of those things. It changed me to see first hand what it felt like to be completely relaxed. It changed me to see how meaningless and transient the stuff I w…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 07:05 PM
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The questions we ask are very powerful, our minds have a nasty habit of answering them no matter how ridiculous the question is. Why are you so stupid? Why do you always fuck up? Ever had thoughts like that? Those were just an example, rhetorical. The thing is when you are angry, you want something to hit, and sometimes there is nothing to hit and you have no outlet for your anger. We are warriors after all, hunter gatherers, we are not meant for this society of rules and laws. We want to hear "…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 06:57 AM
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You are wishing for an escape, an easy solution. What you are saying is very similar to what a drug addict might say. Can't I just escape this pain for a bit? Can't I just not care? hits pipe Ahh that's better. Yet being stuck in a comfy office job with security and no challenge is sort of like a drug in itself. You are never backed into a corner and forced to change, but you also never discover your true potential. You are also too smart to completely accept it and not care because you know the…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 04:34 AM
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I actually read it when I was just beginning to swallow the pill. I'll read it again, thanks.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 07:49 PM
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Yeah, I got a job after a massive slump and started getting into raving and experimenting with drugs (from a therapeutic sense). Two girls lied to me about their age (as well as many other red flags) and I just met a whole lot of people I was kind of glad I didn't do anything with. It just felt I'd be opening Pandora's box to mess with people like that. I think I just need to find a happy middle ground of a healthy sexual appetite that I can express naturally, but also not just sticking my dick …
/r/askTRP14/10/15 07:39 PM
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TLDR; I want to have more casual sex, my old white knight and religious beliefs make me feel guilty about it so I'm trying to restructure a more healthy and realistic viewpoint that doesn't leave me guilty for just having sex. I'm over thinking I'm going to just wait for a unicorn to show up and fulfill my dreams, but I also don't like the idea of being a manipulative player who just uses woman and I'm not sure what to think.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 06:39 PM
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Yeah. Then my next thought is why do I want to fuck a girl who is doing molly with strange guys? I'll admit the drug that night had a powerful effect on me, I was massively turned on for like 8 hours so me thinking of what is wrong with her and why I don't like her didn't have as much of an effect so I kept pushing. Even with that though, even with that powerful urge, I still felt guilty and bad about it and didn't want to be the guy that "cheats". I know I could have been more aggressive. I gav…
/r/askTRP14/10/15 06:36 PM
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Yeah I thought it was low-t, and when I was dealing with PTSD and depression and stuff that may have been a factor. I had it tested recently though and there is nothing wrong with me physically (in spite of how much I abused my body the past few years with alcohol/pot/cigs). It's all in my head. I have a high sex drive, I can't make it a day without jerking it. Put a girl in front of me and suddenly I just have a lot of anxiety and thoughts that get in the way of my natural impulses.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 06:31 PM
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Most of my friends have been telling me this. That I just need to start having sex and not worry about all this relationship/being a moral white knight stuff. I just find that hard to do.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 08:41 PM
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Mostly I just suck at escalating, but maybe that isn't even the right word. I simply don't do it. When I do I haven't been rejected or had it gone badly, I just don't do it often. I think too much and feel guilty about escalating as if I'm a bad person for doing it. With that girl who had the boyfriend I could have simply grabbed her and made out with her, but I had thoughts like do I only want this because of the drug? Do I want to be the guy who fucks the girl even though he knows she has a bo…
/r/askTRP13/10/15 08:34 PM
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I mean... if reading about a 6 inch dick triggers your or something, I feel for you. At the same time, this place to me is a sanctuary of honesty. Not being able to say your size? Silly. Men are different and it's just silly to not be able to accept that. Some definitely have it better than others. To not be able to accept that and pretend you can game when you are 4' tall and have a 2" dick? Delusion. Rising above ego doesn't mean you are suddenly better than everybody, it means accepting your …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 10:09 AM
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How *people (FTFY) can be utterly thoughtless, unconstructive, and unnecessarily vindictive... one of those cases where you can't really call it a female thing, but yeah it is amazing. Absolutely fascinating what people are capable of.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 10:02 AM
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I had something similar happen, and it deeply hurt me. My heart goes out to this guy because I'm still getting over it. I was raised in a cult so very backwards socially and kind of traumatized/abused and not comfortable with being touched or someone making me feel good. I found out about game at 25, it gave me the confidence to start going out. Fast forward 2 years of practice later and I finally got laid and in my first relationship at 27. The thing was, fake it to make it works great when you…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 07:47 PM
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Her response about an hour later (about how long I took to respond initially): "Aww I can't tonight. I'm up bright and early tomorrow for school. Another time though." I was just going to leave it at that and hit her up this weekend, but another friend I have who does well women said this and I thought it matched with exactly how I felt so I thought why not. This is the last thing I sent her: "How responsible. That's attractive. Really. Well, if you're free on a night without class the next morn…
/r/askTRP08/10/15 02:25 AM
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Yeah... you just put to words the dynamic I was keenly aware of which is that she has the power here. I am the one doing the chasing. I think the only way I can really flip that dynamic is if we hang out in person. Any more investment I put into texting besides just asking her out just makes it worse.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 09:19 PM
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What I sent: "haha apparently... except that one time you responded back to the guy you don't remember meeting lol ;) We met outside Golden Bear. Come have a drink with me tonight so I can refresh your memory." See how it goes. Little more direct than I usually am but fuck it
/r/askTRP07/10/15 09:05 PM
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Just go straight to asking her to hang out? Don't even answer her question?
/r/askTRP07/10/15 08:26 PM
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Well, the first 10,000 hours or so of your experience in the church is mostly related to that dopamine feeling... getting key outs. They are extremely pleasurable and you are trained to associate any positive gains to Scientology, anything negative is "out-tech" or Scientology done improperly. Scientology = good, everything else (especially psychiatry/psychology, what could actually help you) = bad. After that you reach a state of "clear" where you are no longer supposed to have a reactive mind.…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 09:32 PM
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If I ever get to writing about it, this is a big part of why Scientology is so effective at brain washing people. It trains you to release massive amounts of dopamine in yourself by 1000s of hours drilling "frame shifts". Basically going through memories and changing your frame and perspective. There is more to it, such as the fact your brain is more suggestible to this after hours of intense and fatiguing "auditing" (you just want to escape, and it's amazing how smart your subconscious mind is …
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 08:46 PM
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Do you think being trained means you will never be afraid? I'd say training just helps you make smart decisions in the face of fear. Sort of like approach anxiety. Would I have fought that guy if I was trained? No, probably not, it's not worth it, like many other men who ARE trained have said. Beating the shit out of anyone who says something rude to you sounds pretty reactive and beta to me. Maybe where you are from it's what you had to do to survive and I'm sure I would have done the same if I…
/r/askTRP15/09/15 06:09 AM
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lol... I hope you enjoyed prison, from the sound of it you'll be back
/r/askTRP15/09/15 05:57 AM
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Great video on the correct frame to have, thanks. Link for anyone else who wants to see it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZY830Q3Zvjk
/r/askTRP14/09/15 10:44 PM
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Yeah my impression of him is that he wasn't some skilled fighter, just a bully who was used to intimidating people with his size. Two of my friends with me that night were professional boxers and they basically said exactly what you did about it.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 10:42 PM
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"I first meet a man, I don’t care what kind of sheepskins or awards he has on his walls. I don’t care if he is liberal or conservative. I want to know if they have my back in a fight. That’s really the only thing that matters." I think this is what I should focus on. Even though I've never been in a fight all my friends completely trust me that I would put myself in harms way if they were in danger, and I believe I would too. That's what is most important (as far as not backing down).
/r/askTRP14/09/15 10:00 PM
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I like that, and you are right I was totally unprepared. In fact, something like that hasn't happened to me since grade school.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 09:52 PM
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http://takimag.com/article/never_trust_anyone_who_hasnt_been_punched_in_the_face/print#axzz3lkgP6Axv Thought I would share a link my friend sent me
/r/askTRP14/09/15 09:51 PM
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On that note one of my friends who was with me told me I shouldn't have even said the "fuck you!", and in hindsight it was pretty reactive and try hard of me.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 09:36 PM
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Well said. I think I was mad at myself because of how I framed it as "me being afraid and a pussy", I told myself I SHOULD have done something, which is really just coming from a place of insecurity with regards to me fighting someone. I got into this "I have to prove myself" line of thinking.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 09:34 PM
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haha no. Actually I imagined him being a smaller guy and if that same situation happened I would just laugh and be like "please...". So I think part of what was going on was this idea that I haven't been in a fight and "I need to prove myself by beating up this bigger guy and showing I'm not afraid!". Sort of like guys who are insecure acting all tough and bragging too much etc. I caught a case of small man syndrome I guess? I do feel untested in that arena though and I felt like I may have "fai…
/r/askTRP14/09/15 09:31 PM
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You know I went looking for it and couldn't find it, and looking at my EDC pics in general they just reek of neediness and attention seeking. If I'm honest with myself that's what I was doing too. Let's just say my inner game was a mess at the time (at least when it came to women I was attracted to), what confidence I was working with was very low after my last (and only) relationship, and the only validation or experiences that felt safe to me were random girls complimenting my body or staring.…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 03:29 AM
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So lessons learned, find more activities that I can do that involve my shirt being off so I can get better more natural pics, and also get some women in the pictures with me. I mean I'm already doing that anyways so that will just happen naturally but I guess there are no shortcuts.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 01:51 AM
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I wonder if the pics of me at EDC wearing a pink speedo with a girl on my shoulders is too much lol
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 01:36 AM
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That pic is about a year old, the place I'm living now is much nicer but I probably put on a couple % body fat. For whatever reason that is just a really good pic of me I've found hard to duplicate.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 01:29 AM
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Well my face pics are on the other tinder pics I have up, I could also use this pic of me at my first rave but that's just the best pic that shows definition that I have atm http://imgur.com/mKdnqZ0
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 01:25 AM
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I've thought about this actually. I don't like being dishonest where I can avoid it, but if it's just for a hookup and they are making the wrong conclusions about me anyways based on my age, why not? Nobody ever thinks I'm 35. In fact when I got into raving in the last couple years 2 girls lied to me about being 18 so it's not like they don't do it either.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 01:24 AM
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