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was it ever not survival of the fittest? sink or swim bud, if fate has written that you sink then so shall it be.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 05:06 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/altTRP/
/r/askTRP08/09/15 04:59 PM
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23 in Canada
/r/askTRP08/09/15 04:46 PM
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dont lie, but also dont showcase yourself badly. also theres no need to be so forthcoming with all your personal info. personal info is intimate and intimacy is not shared with everybody. just tell her that things are complicated but we can solve it together tonight at your place
/r/askTRP08/09/15 04:21 PM
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you keep saying its all physical but from the sounds of it you are starting to catch feelings, or at the least attachment. just keep fucking her and think of her as an ego boost that you can use to pick up other chicks.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 04:19 PM
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Damnit idk what it is. But no female takes me seriously or with respect. I do carry myself like a child always joking around and not being afraid to make a fool of myself. I still get lays but I'm not able to keep interest. The only solution I've thought of this is to put up a "front" to others. Basically filter the words coming out of my mouth so I come across as strong and confident, joking around only in mature terms, and not lowering myself to appease others. But when I think this way I feel…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 09:46 PM
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In shape. How do you define in shape? That's for you to figure out and define for yourself.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 08:34 PM
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So you're saying you are sacrificing reality and objectivity for disassociation and rationalizations. I'm going to disagree with this. You aren't sacrificing reality and objectivity, you are in fact interpreting them then applying your own twist that is beneficial to yourself. This is the basis of social navigation. A trick that I have learned on my own in the previous few months, is that you can make anyone believe what youre saying, as long as you truly believe it yourself. What this requires …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 10:08 PM
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I wouldn't have children I couldn't afford, so that's not really a concern to me. Also, I can just be separated from the mother and she will get compensation through the government, I'll just convince her not to go after me for child support.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 11:37 PM
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who cares?
/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:37 PM
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huh? did you just throw some bible verse at me? religion is not the answer to any question, especially in the realm of TRP. the sex doesnt have to be random, but it doesnt have to be exlcusive either. you can have multiple LTRs instead of having one. you can have multiple women birth your child, instead of just one.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:32 PM
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why though? what do you seek to fulfill by having a child, and especially one from a monogamous relationship.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:25 PM
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okay i can understand that, tell me what is the flipside to this then, what dream would you rather have?
/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:21 PM
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depends on the circumstance, if the girl is apologetic about being late id let it slide, if she just ignores it or doesnt even say anything about being late id be like "wtf?". its all on how she handles the situation. just let them know that youre time is valuable, literally say that "you know i couldve made $XXX in the amount of time you showed up late?" - even as a joke. but make them aware that you dont put up with this shit.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:11 PM
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when youre 70, if you have enough money, girls will still pull their pants down for you. if youre talking about care, just get a maid. money is literally the solution to everything. so its all on you, can you make enough money? can you be that person?
/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:10 PM
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lmao you sat on your phone mate? thats pretty bad well first off, make friends with your roommates, if youre awkward talking to girls, talking to guys is way easier. just say whatever and try to get on their good side. theres no way to teach you how to "make the most of your opportunities", you just have to not be afraid to make mistakes. so go out there and make mistakes son! cuz it wont be your last mistake thats forsure
/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:09 PM
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when youre not in a marriage youre either fucking 21 yr olds or banging hookers and making mad stacks. there is no downfall to not getting married.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 08:58 PM
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as an indian guy, who doesnt complain and whine, i can assure you we are very obsessed with blonde white girls. im from canada so the culture is different, but in USA i can understand the high attraction of indians to blonde white girls. in USA racism is more prominent towards brown people, so getting with a white girl is almost seen as "coveted". ofcourse this is not how i think, but i can understand the sentiment.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 08:52 PM
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make steps towards progression and your depression will slowly disappear. find a job get a job join a gym go running everyday clean your room and make sure your surroundings are not a mess start to carry yourself with pride and purpose meditate these small things will help you get out of your rutt, and then as you progress, they will compound into bigger things and bigger confidence boosts! just get out there and do something man, ANYTHING. just fucking do something
/r/askTRP26/08/15 08:44 PM
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I'm the same (ADHD) so I can comment on this from direct experience. Everything in life is a transaction, always think about it in terms of profit, what you put in vs what you get out. With ADHD meds, amphetamines in particular, what you put in is your health and what you get out is productivity. In terms of health, there are some cardiovascular and neurological impacts of the drug in your body, I'm not going to go in-depth and talk about tolerance or whether or not therapeutic doses of amphetam…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 04:17 PM
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weird lmao, personally i would not prefer to go that route. like who wants seconds on something. i know provoking works, i just need to figure out how to make it work in my favour.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 01:41 AM
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Hamstering is slang, rationalizing isn't. Cognitive dissonance is similar and may even be a part of rationalizing but it's not it entirely. Cognitive dissonance is unintentional. Rationalizing can be covert, but the intention is always known to the person rationalizing. And almost always, rationalizing is a means to transfer inner guilt/shame to an external or unaccountable source. It's basically playing the blame game but 10000x that because nature has specifically evolved the female brain to f…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 12:03 AM
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She's just verbally spewing to OP, he's the emotional tampon. She expressed clear interest with the language she used to talk about him with and the details she went into.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 11:59 PM
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shes into his confidence and extrovertness, she realizes hes an alpha in his own way. to me it seems like shes rationalizing as to why she feels this way about him when in fact hes just an ugly creep. she definitely has the tingles for him but societal pressure is keeping her from pursuing. she took notice at his penis length, said it was big, that pretty much means she wants to fuck him.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 08:30 PM
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bruh... whining has no place in TRP but i will be considerate and expand for you. First off, read the sidebar, get familiar with the way women work, read some FRs (field reports), it's clear that you haven't done any of this as you're still fretting over the shit that doesn't matter. Secondly, don't want to be seen as a loser? Then don't be one. Go up to her friend circle and crack a joke, even at your expense (if you suck with jokes), it will communicate that you have confidence and aren't afra…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 08:22 PM
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Hamster is when you rationalize your actions to suit your own narrative. It derives multiple meanings from the same action. Example: Girl makes out with you at a club. Literal meaning: she wanted to hookup with a guy Rationalized meaning: "omg i was so drunk and it just happened!" What this does for the female is it transfers internal blame to an external factor. There are many variants of this but this should give you a good example from where you can pick it up on your own next time.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 08:05 PM
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This is actually really interesting. She's reverse hamstering why she gave you her number, she actually wanted to give you her number, but then she backwards rationalizes it as "omg im such a nice person that i can't turn anyone down". She's trying to rationalize to herself that she doesn't just want to fuck you (but the theme here being that she does). Honestly I'd say you're in the clear. Keep convo short and arrange a date, and take it from there. If she seems disinterested in setting up a da…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 07:59 PM
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I think you got downvoted because AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 07:51 PM
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Depends on your motive and how you plan to execute. Either or is acceptable in the right hands. Keep phone calls very brief and to the point if you utilize them, as if you don't have the time to inconvenience texting but you like to get stuff done quickly so calling was faster.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 01:52 AM
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Don't think about it too much, just act like you did her a favour and let her feel that.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 10:52 PM
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Shouldn't have rescheduled so willingly, let her bring it up tomorrow. Basically it.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 10:44 PM
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OP you're the type of Indian even other Indians hate, maybe you should work on that first. I'm Indian.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 10:35 PM
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Can't upvote this one enough.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 09:58 PM
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You have time to waste right now, find yourself and what you love to do and immerse yourself in it fully. Don't care what others think, there comes a time when all high school relations will be broken and no one cares about the past anymore. Pick one thing and do it well, that is your reputation. Try to get your heart broken if not already, take chances you haven't taken before. You have time to screw stuff up, trust me, time isn't as valuable now as it will be 5 years down the road when you're …
/r/askTRP24/08/15 09:57 PM
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What would I do there, I know of a free mason club in my town.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 09:53 PM
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Okay here's my plan Either A or B A Pick her up Make small talk Grab ice cream or go for a walk at closeby beach Get sexual Go back to car or do it outside B Pick her up Take her to my place Watch a movie and fuck Drop her off At this point I'm thinking B is the better plan if I can somehow get her down here. I'd pay one way for Uber if it were cheap enough (20-30$)
/r/askTRP24/08/15 09:48 PM
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Thanks but I thought asktrp was for general advice, what's wrong with that? I know the couple of points you mentioned but atm all I really care about is getting it in. She can move on after I really don't care.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 09:40 PM
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I would disagree, and to me it seems like you idolize being an "alpha" and anything contrary to that is shot down. Alpha and sigma are different personality types, alpha and sigma both command respect but an alpha is more of a social being and draws power from those beneath him (his following), whereas a sigma draws power from only himself (lone wolf).
/r/askTRP24/08/15 05:53 PM
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Shouldn't have laughed and agreed when she called you ugly, you were offended fucken act like it. Could've said something witty like, well I'm still getting texts from you after no convo for months so I got a lot going for me ;). Idk anything, also she called you over, she was clearly interested in you. Her jealousy towards the other girl you showed proves this. You should've stuck your dick in her mouth somehow bro. It's over now tho, you spoiled it by being a beta and she's no longer intereste…
/r/askTRP24/08/15 06:21 AM
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Because you were born a male and you have a role that you need to fulfill. Society expects you to be a man, they don't need you to be a female.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 06:16 AM
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This is exactly what's happening, just a business tactic to keep you coming back.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 06:14 AM
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Shes only worthy of being a plate, not in an exclusive relationship. If she's willing to cheat on others she's willing to cheat on you.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 06:34 AM
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I'm still new to TRP so take my advice lightly. Its good that you kept frame and not submitting to her while at the same time remaining calm and composed, but next time, I would advise you take her actions less critically. Also think about the long term impact of your actions. Instead of leaving the room, when she started getting sexual, you should've been like "babe I'm not feeling it anymore" and then she would've said something blah blah doesn't matter, but basically at this point you want to…
/r/askTRP15/04/15 08:34 PM
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I'm realistic and highly intuitive in nature, I know this about myself but I don't flaunt it in that manner. I know people around me "fake" what they're worth, but when I do that I just feel self pity, I don't want to fake any act, I just want to be myself. I feel like this excludes me from getting with a certain group of chicks because I'm just not their type.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 08:02 PM
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Hmm ya, looks like she's fishing for validation, but if you play it right she could definitely become a plate. I'm still not an expert and can't say how to handle this, but since agree and amplify is the go-to method I would suggest something like. "Yes I'm furious, and the only way you'll make it up to me is......" taking me out for ice cream paying for a movie Idk, basically something that shows she has to invest into you if she wants anything in return. And I would definitely make her wait a …
/r/askTRP10/04/15 06:31 AM
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What are the messages that would help
/r/askTRP10/04/15 06:16 AM
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You still quite clearly lack interpersonal skills though that will make your personal life shit. You come off as a dick and I'm not the only one thinking that. Maybe you should work on yourself instead of trying to lower others?
/r/askTRP06/04/15 04:17 PM
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If you need to ask how to display value, you clearly don't have enough value to display or it would come natural to you. So basically what you're asking is, how can I give the impression that I'm worth more than I am?
/r/askTRP06/04/15 05:01 AM
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You can tell who the older sensible people are versus the younger more reactive people. Saying "K" or "Ok" and cutting contact shows how much you are affected by her behavior, and ultimately how much you emotionally invested in her, which screams beta. An alpha thing to do would be to realize that life is ongoing and people will come in and out of your life. She came, you guys had fun, and now she's choosing to go, what's wrong in that? You can't control her, you can only control your own life. …
/r/askTRP04/04/15 05:16 AM
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She doesn't love you. You're not going to break her heart. You're just next in line, enjoy the ride while you can, just don't sweat it. Denying sex with someone uve already fucked is almost always a game to get mor commitment.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 01:52 PM
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You're a man child OP.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 01:17 PM
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Are you fucking retarded?
/r/askTRP27/03/15 07:49 PM
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Honestly it sounds like you were more committed than her, which is never a good place to be. Women will often make it seem more serious than it actually is, always remember this. They are fickle in commitment because their commitment relies on their emotional state. Always bear in mind that a girl could leave you at any time if her emotional state deems it. Maybe you turned her off somehow? Or maybe she's just horny? Lots of possibilities.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 03:53 AM
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This is what she's communicating: I've lost attraction to you, I can no longer keep the hamster in my mind at bay who keeps coming up with reasons that I should leave you. I want to let you go but I also want to keep you as a backup plan, we should stay friends so that I can keep you as my orbiter and pick you up at will. You obviously responded as any beta would and spilled ur emotions to her instead of understanding what she was really trying to say, and that's ok, at least you'll learn. Next …
/r/askTRP26/03/15 03:04 AM
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Very nice practical example, thanks I learned something from that!
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 01:25 AM
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Amused mastery: well I'll pick em up for you but it'll cost you a date with me smirk on face Situation diffused
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:48 AM
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Social validation is a trait of females. Good point.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 02:15 PM
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What does this accomplish?
/r/askTRP22/03/15 12:29 AM
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Its weak cuz your depending on her, your frame should be self-sufficient so something, "only if you're lucky enough to find out", implies she has to work for YOU.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 11:58 AM
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This sounds like plagiarized bullshit.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 01:19 AM
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Paris?
/r/askTRP20/03/15 01:07 AM
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I also was just thinking about this today. How would one swallow this truth, how do I not hate women for just using me? I mean for short term fucking that's alright, what about LTR, or marriage?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 12:56 AM
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Nope. It depends on the dude. TRP has no theory like that. solipsism
/r/askTRP14/03/15 06:27 PM
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Just say something vague like "I don't know if it's the right time for us to be together" or like "I don't know if were right for each other" suggest a break if you don't want to go full nuclear. Be like we should take a break. BUT THE THING IS. Since youre initiating the breakup, no matter what you do, YOU CANT GO BACK TO HER! This is a hard next, you are moving on, it's over buddy. Take a few deep breaths and take the plunge.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 04:28 PM
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Let her go because if you give her this chance she will never respect you, she knows she deserves to be let go. Give her that affirmation that you are still the fucking man.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 04:19 PM
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They are not the enemy, but they don't make very good friends either. To me it seems like, you have to always keep women at arms length, even if you become too close of a friend they start expecting shit from you, or expect you to start acting a certain way to maintain the friendship. Tbh, I have considered MGTOW, but that's just because my personality is a "fuck it all" type of attitude, I literally do not have the patience to deal with the bullshit provided by some people. I seek companionship…
/r/askTRP14/03/15 04:17 PM
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shes looking to branch swing when the time is right
/r/askTRP14/03/15 04:09 PM
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You should be closer with your fucking barber than your closest female friend. lmao bruh... well said haha
/r/askTRP14/03/15 04:04 PM
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Self-worth no, perceived self-worth, yes.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 04:34 AM
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Good point, being an alpha is all about control over yourself, if you can consciously lower ur standards while acknowledging ur lowering ur standards whats the worst that could happen that you already aren't prepared to face? Lol that sentence tho
/r/askTRP09/03/15 11:38 PM
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It could be bragging but it could also be the truth...
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 04:13 PM
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You get girls by not caring about girls and focusing on yourself. Simple enough for you?
/r/askTRP05/03/15 01:55 PM
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Basically, you're being played. You want the girl, she knows this, you know this, why are u even chasing or caring about pussy that is already attached to someone else? Like yeah its a different story if you just want to plate her, but from ur words it seems you have feelings for her. You need to beware of this. This girl will leave you for her boyfriend at any time, you're just her shoulder to cry on. Soft next, remain friends, don't let her use you (or let her) when she needs someone to depend…
/r/askTRP05/03/15 04:55 AM
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Yeah bro, my bad to jump to conclusions, but sex is an important part of any relationship. Her uninvolvement in sex and lack of submissiveness to you the male shows an underlying problem. She thinks she's in power. You have to tackle this problem a little differently, instead of trying to get her to take off her shirt, become the man she would take off her shirt for in an instant. Ask yourself, what purpose does A partner serve in my life, not "my" partner, but "A" partner. And then ask urself, …
/r/askTRP22/02/15 11:49 PM
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Lower ur head and ask for forgiveness dumbass.
/r/askTRP04/02/15 03:28 AM
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Why is it wrong to accept the reality that you are Indian. You cannot deny your heritage, I don't like the actions of Indians either (I'm Indian) but I never wish to disassociate myself with the fact that I am Indian. Ya ok, if you're talking about putting up an image to fit into society's standards I can kinda see it. I would be fake too, but the people I was fake to I wouldn't consider friends, rather Id stay away from them. You craft your own identity regardless of origin. If you have other t…
/r/askTRP02/02/15 05:16 AM
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I'm Indian too, and tbh I have zero problems becus of it. I also live in a heavily indian populated area so that helps too. Basically, you just want to own it. It becomes easier when you have other things going for urself, I happen to be blessed with good looks. But working out will boost ur physical SMV exponentially. To become more social you need to develop your own identity so that u have hobbies and interests to talk about. BUILDING YOURSELF is the main goal, just because you're in X positi…
/r/askTRP30/01/15 09:10 PM
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Thanks for the words bro, appreciate it. I agree with most of what you said and Im going to practice structure and discipline starting tomorrow, today I plan.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 11:36 PM
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Patience, indifference, and nonchalance. Work on yourself, no more spilling feelings, keep your best face on when in the workplace no matter how you feel inside, don't go back to your LTR.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 07:46 PM
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Cold and real, exactly what I needed to hear.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 07:16 AM
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Thanks, I know routine works well for me too but I can never force myself to get outta bed when I know I don't "have to". I need to discipline myself more.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 07:16 AM
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how would you play out the provoking her scene, how would that benefit you? just curious
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Theres always a way out of the cuckzone, tbh just even going for the kiss straight of the bat is a sure fire way to cement your position as someone who isn't there to hear you whine. Theyre sitting talking, OP says "Wait I gotta show you something", boom goes in for the kiss. Wtf is the girl gonna do? Either: A) Be repulsed B) Go with it OP could use the information she gave him as a way into the girls insecurities. Shes horny but she doesnt want others to see it. I'm not exactly sure how to tak…
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Play along and don't go into defensive next time by saying "not even a pickup line". Write this down, NEVER explain your actions, NEVER. Instead act like she's interested in you but trying to hide it, so you play along with this type of "undercover flirting". "You're right, that would never happen in a million years, so how about my place at X?" "I've been known to do the impossible" "That's what they all say" If she keeps resisting at this point it's better just to go silent and pick it up some…
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Sounds like 16yr old advice bro
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Wtf lol? This isn't even TRP this is basic human interaction. You know exactly why she didn't take off her shirt, so instead of flipping shit at her, why don't you try UNDERSTANDING her and trying to work through the problem together. If she says no, ask her why. If she says she feels uncomfortable ensure her that you don't see anything wrong with it. Don't say you still like her regardless as your masking the problem, instead be indifferent to the problem and aim for improvement. Now this is al…
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Angry virgins everywhere... as far as the eye can see!
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Just play it off casually, doesn't mean anything and its contextual on what it actually means depending on your situation. I would just play into it, "well since were best friends I had a secret to share with you". And then when she asks what it is be like I can only tell you in person, and no matter what you do, don't tell her the secret over phone no matter how much she asks! Its a shit test and if you play it right shell get the tingles for you. However, if she seems uninterested id start pul…
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