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Was looking for this comment. This is the way
/r/TheRedPill18/07/21 06:14 PM
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2nd para on point. However I did advance on my mission, but was complacent in maintaining attraction
/r/TheRedPill23/02/21 04:24 AM
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Doin good
/r/askTRP22/02/21 04:30 AM
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Mentally break up but you can have a talk if she's a quality person.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 04:29 AM
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It's not you, the sentence is ambiguous
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 05:25 PM
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This is a great rule of thumb
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 04:44 AM
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Described my last rs to a tee, this is what I've come to realize as well. While unfortunate, I can only take this knowledge with me as I move on. This pulls you out from the nawalt dream and back to the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 01:46 AM
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So they dont care that you don't have a CS degree? What do you need on your resume then? Im in a computational neuro phd, so I'm thinking to transition if I don't make it in academia
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 01:09 PM
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So you transitioned from chemeng into a swe role without a CS degree, just leetcode?
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 11:25 AM
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When you wanna end up in a ward/jail
/r/askTRP17/08/20 12:55 AM
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Does anyone know of a free source of audiobooks for these? Esp rational male etc?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 04:16 AM
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Username checks out
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:18 PM
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I guess this is for when I need more emotional investment from her to fuck
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:03 PM
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Great observation
/r/askTRP31/07/20 03:46 PM
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Easiest way to leave anywhere
/r/askTRP31/07/20 03:43 PM
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That's what I thought
/r/askTRP31/07/20 03:23 PM
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Yes yes this must be it
/r/askTRP31/07/20 03:17 PM
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No why
/r/askTRP31/07/20 02:49 PM
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Does this work better over trying for a first-date lay with drinks? It does save money and time, but at a risk of her finding some other chad after first date
/r/askTRP31/07/20 01:08 PM
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Great phrasing, I'm gonna be using that from now on. You're absolutely right, nailed it in words
/r/askTRP31/07/20 12:55 PM
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This is a great piece and breakdown. I'll apply that mentality right away. Thanks for the game advice too, I have gotten lays but I'd say I'm a novice. Your comment is gonna help get me to the next level, much appreciated!
/r/askTRP31/07/20 12:52 PM
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This is fantastic, I'm definitely gonna try this. Thanks!
/r/askTRP31/07/20 12:16 PM
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Great points, thanks
/r/askTRP31/07/20 10:56 AM
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Completely agree, and yep the middle para is why I'm thinking about calling her bluff. It's not about her frame, more about being pidgeonholed as a relationship guy. Thanks
/r/askTRP31/07/20 10:55 AM
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Thanks, yeah not intending to do lunch. Alright so weekend noon/night is cool? Usually trying to schedule for low-value days like Tue/Thur.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 09:58 AM
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Don't come here with that "stuck in dead end job" and "I'll try to get into uni hopefully for real" weak shit. All in or nah
/r/askTRP29/07/20 05:02 PM
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Why not carry a clipboard with a 120qn sexual history survey the next time you approach a stranger
/r/askTRP29/07/20 04:58 PM
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If it's your marriage you prolly should call it off/postpone.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 01:00 PM
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I think this is the right play here
/r/askTRP29/07/20 01:00 PM
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I may have seen this in a group. I get the sense that you maybe be seen as not being genuine and a tryhard. It's not what you bring to the table its what you're lacking. Think about it and don't jump to blame knowing trp/being too good for them. Hope this helps
/r/askTRP29/07/20 11:26 AM
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How can she "not leave you alone" if you have her blocked? Call the cops if she's harassing
/r/askTRP27/07/20 10:13 AM
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You worry too much over a girl. If she leaves she leaves
/r/askTRP26/07/20 04:41 PM
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Walk
/r/askTRP26/07/20 02:26 PM
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Magic pill. Take it with doc supervision
/r/askTRP26/07/20 02:25 PM
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You sound autistic with your second reason. Come on now.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 08:31 AM
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I should say that just because a woman who picks arguments on complex sounding topics all the time doesn't mean that she's an "intelligent woman". Most are probably just flexing on you by regurgitating some shit they read on wiki on you in attempt an to sound smart. That's obnoxious. Having topic specific knowledge doesn't make you intelligent. The true high intelligence ones that are also attractive are so rare you don't have worry about meeting them. From my experience dating fellow scholars i…
/r/askTRP26/07/20 02:17 AM
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Who cares what she thinks
/r/askTRP25/07/20 10:23 AM
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Be competitive and accomplished in some, but give up the rest
/r/askTRP25/07/20 09:26 AM
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"graffiti and shrapnel" Poetic
/r/askTRP25/07/20 09:23 AM
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Check if your co is screwing you over illegally. Either way get on with it
/r/askTRP25/07/20 09:21 AM
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She doesn't see you as bf. Reduce your investment appropriately
/r/askTRP25/07/20 09:11 AM
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Direct him to professional help and avoid him and his drama
/r/askTRP25/07/20 09:09 AM
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Alright will do
/r/askTRP24/07/20 04:29 PM
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You're saying it still works the same for you now?
/r/askTRP24/07/20 03:11 PM
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This OP
/r/askTRP24/07/20 03:08 PM
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Have this to some degree. Cut the stims and manage your anxiety
/r/askTRP24/07/20 03:07 PM
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Just soft next and work on yourself
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:18 AM
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What's bad about being too liberal? (Not from the US, genuinely curious)
/r/askTRP24/07/20 01:34 AM
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What's the downside of Utah and Mormon women?
/r/askTRP23/07/20 12:33 PM
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I got news for you
/r/askTRP23/07/20 12:31 PM
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Always ping them (or ping to confirm meeting) before meeting. In this case maybe hours/day before
/r/askTRP23/07/20 12:30 PM
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Race play or plain racist. Ask her
/r/askTRP23/07/20 12:26 PM
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Why escalate in front of peers?
/r/askTRP23/07/20 11:37 AM
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I kinda have the same issue, some highly reco-ed colognes are meh to me. I personally picked a cologne that both I like and other people like. Go try your shortlist out at a store Note that depending on whether it's EDT or EDP, quality duration and price will vary.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 04:01 AM
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Do you find it sickly sweet smelling? Have it but not a fan
/r/askTRP23/07/20 03:58 AM
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Why have a female friend you can't fuck vs a friend you can fuck
/r/askTRP23/07/20 03:57 AM
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They fucking you or no?
/r/askTRP23/07/20 03:46 AM
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I'd say they're trying to be nice because of your high value and perhaps increase their gf-worthy-ness in your eyes. But doesn't look like simping nor a sinister trap There are better ways to lock you down as their bb like demanding more time/exclusivity. Treating meals as a strat has terrible ROI
/r/askTRP23/07/20 03:41 AM
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Then get equipment knowledge from youtube. Follow an established beginner program from reddit
/r/askTRP23/07/20 03:07 AM
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Speak to a professional
/r/askTRP22/07/20 04:07 PM
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Before running away from this situation which probably won't solve anything, why not talk to her about what you wrote above? Worth a shot if you want this rs to work, this looks more committed than the usual rs here (kid, 6y)
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:09 AM
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Hard next. Unless you have zero self respect
/r/askTRP22/07/20 04:57 AM
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I don't think it's a set of actions that you do together, it's her mindset that makes it LTR or not.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 12:29 PM
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Will you even get hired without a CS degree? If chasing your dream will work out, chase the dream. The live-with-mum situation is temporary but will pay in the long run
/r/askTRP21/07/20 11:35 AM
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What makes you think she won't leave with half once she gets her green card? It's a golden ticket.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 04:34 AM
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For yourself yes, solely for girls no. You should speak with a plastic surgeon on post-surgery outcomes
/r/askTRP20/07/20 04:27 AM
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You wanna entertain arguments with an ageing and financially illiterate "princessy" hag on every annual holiday from here onwards, while footing the bill?
/r/askTRP20/07/20 04:02 AM
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"Dear diary, today ..."
/r/askTRP19/07/20 04:09 PM
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Everyone has a choice, no matter the circumstance. She chose to go full retard. Completely of her own volition.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 04:07 PM
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Go to #2 choice. And quit giving excuses
/r/askTRP19/07/20 05:30 AM
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Why do you give a damn if she's adamant? Block
/r/askTRP19/07/20 05:26 AM
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That's great, fuels your workouts. There will be a time when this doesn't motivate your workouts anymore, and that's when you're over it
/r/askTRP19/07/20 04:34 AM
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3) is a big one. Thanks
/r/askTRP18/07/20 03:34 PM
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Serious? Moving to ATX for grad sch next year
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:33 PM
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If plate, just avoid talking politics and social issues. Not ltr material. Woketard is a great description
/r/askTRP16/07/20 03:48 AM
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I'd say instead of burning time and energy evaluating each girl with a checklist, just save yourself the trouble and eject once you spot a field of red flags. Spending the effort to know she's NPD/other disorder doesn't buy me anything extra. Your hamster is spinning.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 04:37 AM
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I got news for you
/r/askTRP29/04/20 11:51 AM
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That's true, while that isn't happening yet it's gonna be true in the future if I refuse to change. You're absolutely right on the trash talk part. Thanks man
/r/askTRP29/04/20 11:43 AM
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Thanks for the kick in the ass, I am wasting time and energy on this yes. Point 1 and last 2 lines are helpful
/r/askTRP29/04/20 04:54 AM
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Working on the first one with new girls now, to soft next instead of reacting. How do I fix the second?
/r/askTRP29/04/20 04:06 AM
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IIRC you'd want egcg with that 5htp. 5htp itself can cause heart issues
/r/askTRP29/04/20 04:03 AM
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How do you balance your intent to keep her around vs wasting her reproductive window? Say she's in her 20s and you never want to marry. Be upfront or always stall for time?
/r/askTRP27/04/20 01:28 AM
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Sounds like she lost tingles. These reasons are surmountable if she still had feelings. Cut it now and work on yourself for the future. You cannot negotiate desire, not with her, not with her parents.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 05:18 PM
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What extra stuff do you get in your 30s vs 20s? Is it the additional spending power and stable career?
/r/askTRP25/04/20 01:31 PM
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Is Bang the best book on learning this behaviour between bang and no bang?
/r/askTRP24/04/20 04:00 AM
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If he's happy in his own definition of success, leave it. Else I'd have a talk with him but risk whatever is left of the friendship and repercussions down the road, if any. Or walk away
/r/askTRP23/04/20 02:19 PM
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This is interesting, someone commented about plates breaking faster when it's a first date fuck. What does foreplay done correctly look like? I'm assuming it's about the first and second date
/r/askTRP23/04/20 11:36 AM
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Depends on the culture and woman. Not sure how to deal with the kids. As MattyAnon said, you're paying her to leave with marriage in the picture (50% on divorce). This status itslef doesn't keep two people together, so I'm not convinced that marriage is buying you anything. It gives her an incentive to leave. Seems like you can guarantee the provision for your kids, and that you will take care of her as you have. I don't know why there has to be additional incentives. It's a no for me (currently…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 08:18 AM
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Could you give an example of how you'd supplant the frame? Alternatively, would "not looking for anything serious for now" be a bad idea?
/r/askTRP23/04/20 08:10 AM
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Soft next and demote to plate. Honestly, you painted yourself into a corner. I'm guessing you're an RF or adjunct that has been stagnating on the job. Networking-wise or work-wise whatever it is. While he is being an ass for not being grateful, I don't think there's much you can do to get him fired short of exposing some severe academic misdemeanors (falsifying data, plagiarism). Retracting the letter isn't going to do anything due to his connections. You're gonna have to improve the quality of …
/r/askTRP22/04/20 06:20 AM
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As an Asian myself, you're racist towards Caucasians. Improve yourself and focus on your purpose. See others as individuals, not their race. Snap out of it.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 03:27 AM
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You display just one thing in doing this - poor social skills. I work in bleeding edge neuro R&D and I don't run around rubbing it in people's faces or picking arguments. Think about someone else who does that in a group and tell me what you think of it. It's obnoxious.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 01:51 AM
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Police
/r/askTRP22/04/20 01:48 AM
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Good way to get jumped during or after sex. And the blackmail that others have mentioned. Nah
/r/askTRP21/04/20 09:11 AM
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Just don't make eye contact? Simple yes?
/r/askTRP18/04/20 01:52 PM
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Not that tall, but drink your calories and spread out meals. Need an excess of calories above maintenance to gain
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:43 AM
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Paying her to leave is a great way to see it, I see the cohabiting issues better now. Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:38 PM
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Thanks, this makes sense. I updated the post, this is Rollo's rule #4. What is the better choice vs marriage then, if say there is a unicorn that I like to spend time with and want to keep around? If cohabiting is off the table, what is the limit on spending my time and attention then?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 12:12 PM
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There's a lot to unpack here, but thanks for going off on a tangent
/r/askTRP17/04/20 11:30 AM
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Yep 100%. Dread decreased over time, fatal error in hindsight.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:00 AM
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Frankly there were few tests throughout the rs, mostly at the beginning (which I shut down quickly). It went downhill in Jan, when death of a family member and 2 weeks apart from me made her realize she was losing herself (she supplicates to me), and that we have different future goals (I want to go abroad while she wants to stay comfortable in home country). But I do think the main issue is losing tingles and spending too much unexciting time tgt.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:54 AM
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Great to know, so plates forever in Japan? LTR because she had the makings of a unicorn. Guess not. I'm 26, grad school is part of career progression in academia.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:35 AM
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Right, it doesn't. What's the reasoning behind this 6mo cohabiting rule then?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:02 AM
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Any examples on turning it sexual?
/r/askTRP16/04/20 08:09 AM
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Keep your hands clean.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 02:58 PM
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Is there any way to reignite tingles besides improving oneself (lift, hobbies) etc?
/r/askTRP13/04/20 10:52 AM
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