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extr3mest/r/seduction15/03/12 06:20 PM
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Another tip is if everyones just sitting there being quiet, be the one to start the social interactions (include everyone around you). This will naturally make everyone look to you as the social leader in the class, which will obviously make you more attractive.
/r/seduction15/01/13 02:56 AM
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The opener doesn't matter nearly as much as how you open if that makes sense. I vary mine a lot in the minor details, but essentially they're all just different versions of "hey your cute, whats your name?" Good luck! I think you'll find approaching for the purpose of pickup is a lot harder then in a non pickup style, but hopefully it won't hamper you too much!
/r/seduction20/11/12 08:32 AM
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umm currently I need to approach more to figure out where exactly I'm failing most at, I'm having a problem with flaking so I'm messing up something but will need to try more to pinpoint it down. A past sticking point I got over is what I call the intermediate curse though. Sticking point: Realizing your okay at game, and letting it get to your ego. (This happens a lot to people at the intermediate level, especially if they are the best in their peer group) Overcame it by: Taking my ego out of t…
/r/seduction20/11/12 08:28 AM
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I'm pretty sure I've heard some professional pua talk about something similar to this isn't this called "pre-opening" or something?
/r/seduction20/11/12 08:13 AM
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if you want it bad enough, just go out by yourself
/r/seduction18/11/12 09:33 AM
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depends heavily on the kind of school you go to, generally at smaller to medium sized schools the fraternity life is very different then big schools. Also depends on frat to frat obviously.
/r/seduction05/10/12 05:34 AM
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This was naturally my strongest point coming into learning seduction so it actually makes it my weakest teaching point, but I will try to give a few keys I realize I do. 1) Speak with confidence and ENTHUSIASM! I cannot emphasize how important being enthusiastic in your telling is, if you aren't excited and into telling your story why would anyone listening care? 2) Talk about the details and how you felt! Often times in guy to guy interactions we just give each other the tl;dr version of the st…
/r/seduction27/09/12 04:42 AM
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In a way my original post I was just trying to emphasize that yes looks will give you a baseline success, but the point of the post was to say that it is also possible to overcome your lack of looks. So yes and no?
/r/seduction27/09/12 02:44 AM
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I was referring to my group of male friends, but I've had 4 or 5 female friends confirm my idea. The female friends said they are willing to put up with more if the guy is attractive.
/r/seduction27/09/12 02:18 AM
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This is good stuff will keep in mind thanks!
/r/seduction26/09/12 08:56 AM
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This was a very good explanation thank you very much!
/r/seduction26/09/12 08:54 AM
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A generally held consensus I've seen from my group of friends is looks will give you a certain baseline that will make it hard for you to drop below no matter how socially incompetent you are. That does not mean you cannot overcome your lack of looks though (to a certain extent).
/r/seduction26/09/12 08:12 AM
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This makes a lot of sense. So just use any sort of compliment, and match it with some sort of iod? Literally I've only ever heard it mentioned as i love you, i hate you which is a bit on the extreme side.
/r/seduction26/09/12 08:08 AM
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Ya and really looking at it I should be outcome independent anyway. I don't know it just feels weird to me still I guess I should just do it until it doesn't? Kinda like approaching just do it til it feels normal?
/r/seduction26/09/12 07:12 AM
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In my opinion these are the kinda things that can make an immense difference once you bridge a certain gap. These won't make up for a lack of fundamentals, but can help you significantly once you are there. Also if your enjoying them then why does it matter?
/r/seduction26/09/12 03:47 AM
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Love the blatant honesty, and as always the go out and approach advice makes a world of difference. I know personally a lot of the content confused me until I started going out.
/r/seduction26/09/12 03:30 AM
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RSD fanboi here downvote me all you want, but rsd+seddit helped me a tonnnnn. RSD in paticular helped me a lot, but maybe its because I align with their viewpoints on a lot of things, and personally enjoy the self help aspects much more so then the outergame aspects. In my opinion if you have strong enough innergame then your outergame is just the cherry on top anyway since you should already be successful. In all honesty though its just different styles for different people. I will continue to …
/r/seduction26/09/12 03:18 AM
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ya cause we can prove every pic amirite? Why does it matter if someone else claims an hb9? if this bothers you, you have some problems my friend.
/r/seduction25/09/12 06:19 AM
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I'm going through a dry spell myself, my advice is keep plowing through and work on building up some more positives in your daily life. Its hard though without all that momentum its really messed with my psyche feeling like I've regressed.
/r/seduction21/09/12 06:16 AM
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Awesome thanks!
/r/seduction19/09/12 04:16 AM
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What is the single most important thing you ever learned? What is the worst advice you ever received?
/r/seduction19/09/12 03:08 AM
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will keep it in mind, thanks!
/r/seduction29/08/12 02:24 AM
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I'd also love this
/r/seduction28/08/12 05:08 AM
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that last quote hot damn, wish i had more upvotes
/r/seduction04/06/12 08:46 AM
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You should definantly go out and try, my confidence lvls have soared since that and I am wayyy less nervous now. Its mainly the first one, just getting that first one out of the way helps sooo much.
/r/seduction18/03/12 06:41 AM
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I don't know if it was exactly 30 mins but it was close, and thats ok, generally I just leave when I run out of things to say. If we have good chemistry and kick things off though it could go much longer (the 2nd girl I had to leave for class we coulda easily talked for an hour or longer).
/r/seduction18/03/12 06:38 AM
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thanks dude!
/r/seduction18/03/12 06:38 AM
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thanks! Also thanks to everyone posting advice on pretty much everything! I've been addicted to this subreddit and various things (like rsd videos on youtube) because there is just soooo much to learn!
/r/seduction16/03/12 02:09 PM
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touche! (also true)
/r/seduction16/03/12 07:29 AM
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Thanks! I'll definantly keep it in mind I just wanna get a few more goes first til I'm comfortable doing it then I'm gonna take the "saftey wheels" off.
/r/seduction16/03/12 04:34 AM
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I had read it but didn't even think about it til you said it, wow you could quite possibly be right. I'm just so used to being the nice guy and stuff it didn't even cross my mind <_<
/r/seduction16/03/12 01:55 AM
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do it! Trust me I was literally about to shit my pants after the first girl, I literally just walked away after she called me sweet and stuff hahaha, but I came back and really enjoyed talking to her. Its really really scary but just try and find someone whos not in a big group or around lots of people (this made me feel less intimidated) and go for it! Remember if she says no your just another normal guy.
/r/seduction15/03/12 08:22 PM
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true true ill keep that in mind next time. Why should I really be scared of being denied a date?
/r/seduction15/03/12 08:12 PM
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that is the one thing I don't like about the opener I used cause it makes it seem like I'm not interested in anything, but at the same time it makes it pretty easy to walk up to her. I guess its a good crutch but I should stop using it once I get a few more goes.
/r/seduction15/03/12 07:14 PM
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I thought about it I was going to try the text/phone game like in the sidebar but the "ya next time I see you" threw me off and I just decided not to push it. Whats some other good ways for when the phone game won't work like in my situation? edit: a "well maybe we should meet up sometime then" or something might have worked wonders :/, oh well next time!
/r/seduction15/03/12 06:34 PM
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