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| 2 | How to rid yourself of pettiness, jealousy, and insecurity?I don't remember which book I read, but it states that every single person wants to build health, wealth and relationship. Maybe not everyone believe this, but I do. That's my core value and pursuits. Then I set up challenging goals that's going to help me build these. After that, I go through a bunch of research and practice to take on the challenge. For example, let's say I'm terribly shy, nervous and have huge anxiety when I talk to women. I would do research to try to understand why I have t… | /r/seduction | 17/12/12 04:50 PM |
| 1 | How do i even start to be charming?I didn't say anything about hurting his feeling. Charismatic people never use their strength to attack. In order to not give a fuck, you need to be stronger internally. Develop this inner strength, and try to empower those around you, not attacking them. Don't use this strength for offense, ever. Here's a technique I use. When someone messes with me, I just laugh it off. And after I just stare into their eyes, with a burning intensity for as long as I can, and a slight devious smile. I don't hav… | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 09:50 PM |
| 2 | How to rid yourself of pettiness, jealousy, and insecurity?From my experience, the most insecure times are when I don't have a sense of purpose. You just graduated from college and landed a great job. And that was the end of your academic career. You reached a goal but lost your purpose. It's normal because the goals are predefined when you're in school (get good grades, make friends, have fun, get a job, etc). But not a single school ever teach you what's worth pursuing. You need to have a greater pursuit. Something grander than just your job, somethin… | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 05:42 PM |
| 1 | How do i even start to be charming?Here's a small shift in mindset that I used when dealing with people like this. Burn this into your mind: every person has insecurities. Every single one of them. Even the most charismatic billionaire playboy entrepreneurs. People mess with you when they see you as a threat, or a weaker target. Your goal, is to find what they are insecure about. This will help you to develop a stronger ego. It's not something you can accomplish in a day or two. But I hope this helps. | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 04:36 PM |
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