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And it was caught in like 4 different angles. That also will impact how much visibility it gets.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/26 07:59 AM
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Agreed. I’m not saying it’s right, but this was a victim that a lot of people could relate to. She wasn’t at a protest, arguing with a cop etc she was just caught up in traffic in the wrong place at the wrong time. Most of the time people don’t care if it doesn’t happen to you personally or seemed like it could. She was a white middle class American mom. So now white middle class American moms are feeling on edge. It’s not shocking really.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/26 07:52 AM
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I hadn’t heard the math was off. This is interesting. Ugh, that study had my anxiety through the roof during a medical scare.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/10/25 06:03 PM
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Because they don’t have models of healthy masculinity? Men without healthy role models of masculinity may be prone to the same tendencies…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/23 07:38 PM
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I’m in sales for tech consulting and work with software developers regularly. My husband and I don’t always balance things the RP way but we find what works for us according to our strengths. We also out source a lot. We both are fortunate to have higher incomes and so we throw money at some problems. A housekeeper 2x a month + meal kit delivery + using services like wash dry fold laundry when needed where we just drop off our laundry and pick it up later. I don’t think you necessarily have to d…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/23 04:11 PM
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This is what we do. We pool our money together and budget from that. It’s our money not his/mine.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/22 03:30 PM
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The archer is just…everything as far as I’m concerned.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/22 06:00 AM
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We should have paid parental leave. All parents should get access to parental leave. This would solve your thought exercise on hiring only men and would benefit the child too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:35 AM
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My mom had a hard youth and teenage years. She has to fight against her instincts sometimes but we have a great relationship. She read a lot, learned a lot and looked to other mothers in her life. She isn’t afraid to apologize or communicate.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 04:28 AM
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Thanks for the suggestion.. My MIL has hosted dinner parties for the last 30 years. My FIL swears it helped him build his local business. More personal than a restaurant out but much less expensive to host!
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 04:20 AM
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Met at 28 he was 32. Married 3.5 years later.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/20 10:27 PM
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I would suggest abstaining from masturbation awhile and concentrating on what you like about your partner. Like a top comment said mediate on him. I find that sometimes when I masturbate I’m more likely to turn down my fiancé, so now I abstain.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/19 03:47 AM
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I also do my eggs medium boiled or so. Much tastier and if you decide to Heat them up in the microwave for 30 seconds or so, the middle is still a bit gooey and not wallpaper paste.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/19 07:23 PM
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I'm not sure what redpill would do, but this would be very difficult for me as well. My fiancee and i both have to actively manage our mental health. Sometimes things get to him a bit and i have to suggest he make a check in appt with his therapist, but he takes me seriously. It has never gotten so bad that his professional career was put in jeopardy. I find it telling he was specifically instructed to make an appt, that is more than a "work on your approach with others". he was literally told t…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/19 10:24 PM
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I have a moissanite emerald cut solitaire. I love it. We choose moissanite for the longevity of the stone over CZ. It’s also sparkly in a way CZ isn’t and even diamond. All in it cost around 2k from What I understand but my fiancé did a full carat. Smaller would have been much less expensive. We’re saving for a honeymoon and a bathroom remodel on his house!
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/19 02:10 PM
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I have been improving in some RPW practices with my fiancée and failing at some. Improvement: not turning down sexual advances unless I legitimately feel ill rather than just don’t “feel it” in that moment. We’re now having sex about 5 days a week and he seems thrilled! Not going as well needs improvement: Shut Up is not going well. I am working on biting my tongue when it just isn’t necessary, or for me not continuing to “pick” at something. I have a tendency to state my case, he acknowledges a…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/19 06:48 PM
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My fiancée is taking the lead with our (mine first) older dog while I have been out of town wedding dress shopping and on a business trip. 9 days back to back. He’s been a CHAMP, stepping up on his usual routine with her (lots of love but less work if you will) and I am so thankful. It’s so wonderful to be able to lean on him in this time, and I love knowing I can trust him with her. Makes me feel even more confident that we can manage babies together. He’s the best.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/19 02:10 AM
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I prefer happy spouse happy house ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/19 02:31 PM
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Recently my fiancée did not receive a promotion he was hoping for. He took it in stride and I was very proud of him for handling rejection well. That is always painful. On Friday I was awarded the promotion for my position I have been trying for. My fiancée has been so supportive, bragging to his friends and family and just all around wonderful. I will out earn him by a 15-20% margin now. I’ve always known he was proud of me, but it takes a real man to not let something like this make him feel s…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/19 04:56 PM
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I think no matter how you bring it up it will be awkward. I would just own it and bring it up. “Btw, I really like you, but I’m sexually abstinent and wanted to make you aware.” Then I would pause wait for any questions or reaction. If there are things you are sexually comfortable with (kissing, over the clothes touch, above the waist etc) I would go in to a smidge of detail later about that. He may reject you he may not. But you won’t know until you tell him. Telling him via phone or text almos…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/19 04:36 PM
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Have you tried a shepherds pie with the ground venison? tastes more indulgent than it is when you cook it all from scratch.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/19 02:28 AM
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I make about 2x my fiancée. We work the same hours or I a little less. We do outsource major cleaning to a cleaning lady. So she deep cleans 2X a month then we maintain in between but it keeps fights about who cleans the toilet to a min. I do 90% of the cooking. He does 90% of the dishes. He likes dishes okay, I hate them. This works for us. He takes more of a lead in outdoor chores and I definitely see dust and dirt underneath bookshelves more so I take care of those things. We each do our own …
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 02:45 PM
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I met my fiancée on tinder. It’s a platform to meet people same as others. I got just as many dick pics on tinder as eharmony. Set your expectations in your profile (like I’m not looking to rush down the aisle immediately, but I am looking for a relationship not casual sex) and screen accordingly. You will figure it out really quick on a coffee date. I met a few dudes trying to just get sex, I met one really socially awkward dude, and about half a dozen perfectly nice guys I just didn’t click wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 05:00 PM
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I’ve heard this before, where men wouldn’t mind dating a girl who didn’t make much money, wasn’t all that smart or worked at a gas station for example where they as the man had a solid job. The thing is, that girl in the gas station is almost definitely not a 37 year old single mom with a heart of gold and a snaggle tooth. She’s younger, attractive and brings other things to the table the man values that aren’t financial and emotional stability. Like maybe 20 year old pussy. And that’s fine, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 02:39 PM
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It’s not weird to want the best partner available to you. Men also do this too. We’re all hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 01:41 PM
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Exactly. I would also fall into this group. So add me to the list as another anecdote. Fiancé and I are signing pre-NUP for this reason. I come to the table with an 40% better income, he has property and some other assets of value.We leave with what we bring if shit goes sideways.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 12:54 AM
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You made viable points in your opinion. What I saw was a lot of whining about how no one is sucking your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 03:31 PM
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How long have you been dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 12:31 AM
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I like the phrase happy spouse, happy house better. 😊
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/18 03:59 PM
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Most women I know are...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 02:05 PM
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I hope you have a third husband, what a dick
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 02:03 PM
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18-21 is a big age gap now. That age gap ain’t shit when you get older. But the 30-45 age gap OP mentions is a whole other game.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 01:40 PM
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Ima subscriber to this sub...I’m a woman in a relationship. I just find it interesting. Wonder how many people like me are in the 80k?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 01:36 PM
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Boobs sag eventually unless you go the fake route
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 01:34 PM
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Why? What did my eyeliner ever do to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 01:25 PM
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Exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 01:08 PM
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Men and women share the burden when a child is born. If a man is paying child support he is certainly shouldering a burden but not the entire burden assuming he does nothing else for the child. Diapers feeding caring for a sick kid etc etc is all a burden. Beyond that I’ve never met a single woman who gets child support where that child support pays for all the child’s needs. I’m sure that exists out there, but All the women I know still have to foot other bills for their child’s basic and emoti…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 06:07 PM
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same for the pill and other things too though. If you don't take the pill every day at the same time the 99.9% goes down. Even approved use says within a 3 hour window, but my pharmacist said even that reduces effectiveness. ​ so basically we should all double up. dudes wear condoms chicks do pill, patch IUD whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 06:04 PM
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shouldn't men be held to the same expectation?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 05:50 PM
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nah bro- you can wear condoms too if you need to guarantee no baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 05:43 PM
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A swift kick to the knee would be the better option I think. One good stomp on the knee would take them down, so I can run I tbink.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 06:32 AM
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I’ve been on BC since 15. 2 years before I was sexually active. It’s helpful for period regulation; symptoms and some other stuff. Besides for hormonal Bc you don’t want to start and stop, that will mess your shit up. My tits were too sore to touch for 2 or 3 weeks last time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 06:29 AM
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There are 200k subscribers to the sub Men’s rights. Are you telling me they don’t exist? There may not be the local chapters everywhere you would wish, but let’s not just blatantly lie to fit our own narrative alright? I’m sorry you think being a dude means society doesn’t give a shit about you. Here’s a tip though; half of society is a dude also. You’re not alone here. So open up a local chapter of MRA if you want and grassroots this thing. Otherwise what you’re telling me is sad internet woe i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 02:44 PM
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Honey stop. That is you’re perspective. MRA as an org clearly exists although it may not be wide spread. In my office place for example men get 3 days MAX of paternity leave for example where women get 8 weeks. No one thinks that shit is okay-yet the company hasn’t changed it. There are no protests in the streets over it but no one I have met is super okay with that being the rule. I have met toxic assholes who were feminist and were MRA. I’ve also met awesome people who were feminist and MRA. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 02:14 PM
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To you it may be. For me it is not, as well as for many others. It’s about equality for us all. But to you it’s about superiority. Just like maybe to some women or this specific woman in the OP, MRA is toxic, or abusive or what have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 02:07 PM
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I’ve heard the same be said about feminists. I think it’s less about rights and more about what those terms mean to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 01:56 PM
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La croix helped me quit soda!
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/18 01:57 PM
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This is my experience as well. Not the extract phrase but a lot of tip toe around saying the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 01:47 PM
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Kids do fine in daycare or with other family. If having a parent stay home with the children is so important why does it have to be the woman? Seems like the husband can do that if he’s so adamant about it, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 06:11 AM
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Sounds pretty good to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 05:23 AM
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Go back under your bridge troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 05:31 PM
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Makes more sense. I was going off the descriptors of “hot” “sexy” etc that we’re used in the comment I responded to. Sounds like I didn’t grasp your whole point. I can see why only being described as “nice” and “stable” would be upsetting. If that’s all the woman you describe thinks about her partner then it sound like she is settling. I would say than when your 20 what seems sexy and hot isn’t the same as when you’re a little older. Additionally at 20 all I would have wanted was someone who was…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 10:20 PM
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We don’t talk about fight club either. I get it. Happy hunting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 09:50 PM
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What does settled mean here? My partner is not the hottest guy I’ve hooked up with. At the same time the hottest guy I hooked up with made a terrible partner...am I settling? I am attracted to my partner. We are thriving, happy, and have frequent good quality sex. But it sounds like you are saying that because I have had sex before, and I am able to acknowledge that although my current partner is attractive maybe he’s not THE most physically attractive I’ve experienced I’ve settled?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 09:49 PM
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Man going his own way indeed. I’m sure they line up around the block with that attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 09:40 PM
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Dead on for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 09:17 PM
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I just want to say my BF was an early 30’s virgin due to some serious social awkwardness and self esteem issues. I met him after he had worked on himself a little in hobbies and dripping toxic friends. Hopefully we’ll be engaged in the next year. Most consistent orgasms I’ve ever had from a partner too, in case you’re wondering, since some do. I say this to say, I think some guys get down that they will never find their person or romantic success in general. I found the best man that could have …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 07:34 AM
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👏🏻😂⚡️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 07:12 AM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 06:50 AM
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For me? No. For that friend yes it seems. I’ve never seen her date a guy over 5’9 or so. She consistently is attracted to short Latin men. My point was there are outliers everywhere and not everyone is completely predictable in their preferences. Edit I also realize now my OP had “friends” when in reality that is a specific friend with a specific preference. Apologies for confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 01:47 PM
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And I have friends who like short latin men. I like Bald men and native Americans (although not simultaneously?) There are outliers wherever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 11:02 PM
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We clearly have different definitions of clean. The shower usually takes longer than 15 min and should definitely be done more than every few weeks. If you cook, countertops and dishes should be done every day. But ya maybe that is the difference. No I way I could only have my bathroom lightly cleaned every few weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 11:57 PM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 11:21 PM
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Right? It’s not my fucking problem that I make great money and have my shit together. I’ll Be damned if I’m supposed to give that up to make men feel more secure in themselves or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 01:52 AM
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