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extrasoiboi/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 10:34 AM
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Then you have lots of room for improvement in those areas. Man up! Run the treadmill little rat! Run the race and your prize is an aging party thot who's had more Chads run her through than she's lived years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 07:18 AM
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I didn't go looking for her specifically, especially not to harass her. I just reply to things that seem interesting. Tinder is a cesspool because its main purpose is, and always has been, to order sex to your door, Of course women life attractive men, but there aren't enough to go around, so those women who want a relationship will either have to continue getting pumped & dumped, make do with the men who are around or just go lesbian. Honestly this reminds me of that 40 yo chick on **This morni…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 12:35 PM
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Maybe she's reeling in duds cause it's all she's worth. Don't forget most women consider most men to be duds.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 10:11 AM
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She already said that she's not meeting guys she's interested in. So guys are approaching her, but not the kind of guy she feels instant chemistry with. And the guys she does feel chemistry with don't feel any for her. This leads me to believe she's going for the badboy/fuckboy stereotype as a lot of women are known to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 09:56 AM
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Don’t listen to anyone here telling you to lower your standards Keep going for that Zac Efron clone, you go girl! Bruh... seriously. It's about having realistic expectations. 99% of the time a guy who's hot and has options is not going to want ANYTHING but sex from a girl like OP. But yeah, let OP become an obsessed damaged feminist because the guys she fancies don't really fancy her back for anything more than a one night ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 09:47 AM
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And here we have a white knight specimen strutting his unfruitful mating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 09:40 AM
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Ah, Tinder. So she expects 10/10 muscle Chad. The irony is beautiful as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 09:39 AM
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What I don't get is the left's insistence that cute, attractive girls cover up, while obese women are encouraged to expose themselves more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 01:10 PM
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https://youtu.be/6VgUePdooGo?t=156 Where she begins. She actually name drops WoW.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 02:45 PM
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It was on a British TV show a few months back. Some chick in her 40s was complaining the only free men she met were either cads or MMO playing nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:55 AM
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"the only men who ask me out are nerds who play WoW Classic"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:37 AM
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Pretty sure knowing you are gay also makes a huge difference. Being straight and not interacting with them sexually or romantically is still often awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:35 AM
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Women get to fuck a male triathlete, something that wasn't available to most women 60 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 09:09 AM
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gorgeous male triathlete Why would he need to know more?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 08:26 AM
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200 bucks is still expensive AF to treat someone you barely got to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 02:56 PM
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Women love having sex when they are attracted to their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 02:54 PM
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That's what confidence is mostly about. If I'm confident I can play the piano but I'm not confident I can protect myself against a mugger how am I confident? Especially in a way that's attractive to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 05:11 PM
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If someone comes by your house and beats you up everyday and you can't drive them back, what will happen to your confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 05:02 PM
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Yeah but imagine it this way. We have more single moms, their kids will not have a support network at home. If they are lucky, maybe they have male friends who stick up for them, but that is not a given and many don't. In the wolf pack one of the parents will intervene if things go too far. In humans nobody will intervene. The kid might end up with a broken rib or worse. You could look at Bill Gates and conclude that since he is so rich, therefor logically he must be the happiest man on the plan…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 04:54 PM
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It's less about "others approval" and more about "not having the living shit kicked out of you daily"...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 04:41 PM
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If you get picked on constantly all your childhood and all your HS years, how do you develop confidence? Maybe if you're the good kind of sociopath it might work to be the weird looking kid who gets bullied and "rises above". But the average Incel didn't start having bad thoughts about the QB Chad out of nowhere. It's not all rooted in envy and *"what does she see in him that I don't have?"*. One thing you have to understand is Chads often HATE it if a *"lesser"* guy gets one up them, even incid…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 04:04 PM
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Well the average 30 yo guy gets maybe 150 hours total of experience having sex, assuming he loses it at 19 and has sex about once a week (maybe twice a week sometimes).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 03:51 PM
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Confidence is gained through experience. Attractive people experience openness and agreeableness from others while unattractive people experience repression and dismissal. Which means that attractive people can mostly just "be themselves" while unattractive people have to learn how to be open and agreeable themselves or risk social exclusion. Skydiving or snorkeling with sharks won't make you look hotter to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 03:43 PM
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The issue for your average man isn’t that he’s too boring and predictable, it's that he's not hot. He's learned to be boring and predictable because men who aren't hot and stand out, arouse suspicion. I could act spontaneously and risk getting a boot to the face or I could act boring and predictable and NOT get a boot to the face. Which will I choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 03:38 PM
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Guys who are hot are sexy. The difference between excited and threatened is literally how hot the guy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 03:32 PM
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The reason guys get performance anxiety related ED is because this comfort level isn’t adequately reached. That and they don't have a lot of experience with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 03:31 PM
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On average men work more demanding jobs than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 04:44 AM
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I think modernmedusaa was taking a jab at me. Frankly, dating a 5/10 who's not obese and not a harpy would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 06:30 PM
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maybe not in love but love like a friend Still pining for Chad I see. Don't worry. As long as you try out enough Chads one of them will surely commit! Haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 04:02 PM
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50% of marriages go tits up. Doesn't seem like there's this large majority of people being happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 01:00 PM
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he idea that women are just en masse marrying men to whom they were never ever attracted is silly. No, but women ARE en masse marrying women they feel they have settled for. Most women feel their marriage is a compromise. Sure, they are not outright disgusted by their husband. But ask and they will tell you something along the lines of "When we met he wasn't exactly my type, but he was insistent and sort of cute so I gave it a shot and here we are".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 12:03 PM
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Being a desk jockey all day is still mentally tiring. Pouring over plans and doing math all day long isn't something that pushes you to go to the gym after work. You want to get home and REST. All the actors with rock hard abs, they prepare for those photoshoots, and they are paid to do literally nothing other than diet, work out and learn their roles. Women see Chris Hemsworth and they assume the guy looks the way he does by working out after his 9-5 day job is over. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 11:57 AM
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The beard is not a problem, you seem like the kind of guy who's way too nice and vanilla and possibly mildly aspie. And most women absolutely despise these kinds of guys. Maybe pick up a guitar in a pawn shop, pick up some lessons and go audition for a local band or something. I mean, if you still have the free time at 37. Or go for some improv lessons, anything really.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 11:39 AM
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It's very simple, you need to be wild in order to get tamed. You're not wild. It's very counterintuitive but if you want to find a woman you have to uncivilize yourself first. Assuming you don't also have other problems. If you're fat and/or ugly, take care of those first: put down the food and get in shape first.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:37 AM
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a few specific motions in the short term "Zoo keeper found dead in Chimp cage with penis ripped out of his body."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 10:10 PM
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Chimps are a lot smaller than us and have thinner arms but they are quite a bit stronger than we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 09:54 PM
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Dating puts the genders in a somewhat adversarial position. And that's somewhat of an understatement... and sometimes we resent what we want from one another. Why bother dating that person then? Women expect a free lunch because they have a pussy and many men drool over them. But how many of those drooling men would actually commit to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 06:50 PM
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Except when they're not. They may be the minority but Alpha MGTOWs who got divorce raped exist. They're generally decent dudes who continue to have a good relationship with the kids too. And they also pay all their child support and alimony too. The wife generally gets bored as these guys often have demanding careers, so she leaves to go back on the CC and the state awards her the kids. As I said before, a woman expects a man to be Superman, and after they begin a relationship he has to stop bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 06:47 PM
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No good-looking person that is attractive to women will have these kind of experiences. Ha ha ha. There was a Chad who killed himself a couple of months ago by driving his porsche into an oncoming truck because his girl cheated on him with an ex-convict. I've also seen a guy who looked like fucking superman (square jaw, over 6'2, the whole thing) get dumped after being temporarily paralyzed following a work accident. Women expect you to be superman all day, every day 24/7, but only for her. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 06:43 PM
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All these jobs are mostly staffed by men and generally avoided by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 12:16 PM
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Who exactly is forcing most of these women to sell their bodies? US-produced LA-style porn is mostly ex-strippers, ex-nude models and other thots who come to Hollywood to fuck hard-bodied, big-dicked guys, go to pool side parties with celebs and get paid for it. They get paid MORE if they do a scene with a fat fuck with a big dick. Sure you'll tell me economics is forcing some women into sex work, but for every chick who sells her body there's 10 others working their asses off in jobs that are n…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 10:49 AM
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If it takes you 90 direct hours of investment to get laid I'd say it's because you don't know who you are as a person or who in the world wants to fuck the kinda person you are. Yeah at least in my case both of those things are true. I went through a lot of shit and never got to know myself as a person. But it's also a useless endeavor, I need to make good money for bad days. And if I have any free time left, I'm also working on (finally) getting my college degree. I've actually been employed fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 10:00 PM
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nerds hook up with fellow nerds all the time so being a nerd is not an excuse for being incel. True, though being a 20lbs overweight ugly and boring soyboy is however.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 09:56 AM
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Better make sure you also pull your husband's pork too XD
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 09:41 AM
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Also men almost twice as likely as women to be homosexual. Da fuq? XD You really think the majority of dudes skipped over by chicks are secretly gay? Sure some of them might be bi and it would be "best" for both sexes if those guys went 100% gay but naw... this shit is just too hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 08:39 AM
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bland and lifeless can be good. Way too many times having fun put me in the ER room or got me on pain meds. Not all people are built for hard drugs and all nighter raves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 08:34 AM
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Yeah we get fewer babies, more of them autistic as well as a risk of inbreeding. All these women, if they decide to have a kid, will do it in their late 30s - early 40s and will either choose the same top % men for unprotected sex or they will go for the same small top % of men in the IVF clinic catalog.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 08:15 AM
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They become addicted to getting dicked down on the regular by different Chads though. So not really an argument for marriage at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 08:07 AM
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I don’t have trouble getting high value men Why are you still single then? You don't have any trouble getting high value men for flings and sex. But the wall cometh and father time has no mercy on women who slut it up for the bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 08:06 AM
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Ask for better genetics instead, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 08:04 AM
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Many of them don't go to camp (single mom = less income) and those who do aren't good looking enough to "date someone from a totally different city for fun for a couple of weeks knowing you'll never see each other again". So no, for most boys who go to summer camp, it's mostly about playing pranks on their friends and do dumb shit unsupervised by parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 07:56 AM
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OP is looking at just one aspect of things. Different women have different views on prostitution. Older women will generally view it as immoral and/or disgusting, given most of them grew up in at least mildly conservative homes. They will probably also think of pimps and trafficking too. Younger women? Depends. Some may view it as competition, some may view it as disgusting, some may view it as immoral. Some may fear it will bring more criminality (drugs, extortion, gambling) with it. A lot of y…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 07:43 AM
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Some liberal men are masculine, just like some conservative men are weak. But most masculine men lean closer to conservative and most weak men lean closer to liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 02:23 AM
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Maybe if you stopped putting soy in everything men would become masculine once more?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 01:52 AM
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Don't act as if you don't know next time maybe? Would you like it if your Chad date turned out to be a fat wrinkly 60 yo incel mid-sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 01:47 AM
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Well most men in TRP are mad and rightly so. Men found out in the interim that their kids might not really be theirs and that "The Casanova" was actually getting 10 the pussy they though he was getting. Just like every other social animal, men don't want to be treated unfairly. Like the Capuchin monkey experiment, when you make two men perform similar tasks and one is rewarded with pussy while the other is rewarded with jack shit, of course he's going to revolt. And the blue pill made it even wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 01:44 AM
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Seeing a real vagina, even with imperfections is very different to seeing a moving image of a real vagina with imperfections. Sex is also about at least the physical connection (if not also the emotional one) that's missing from porn. With porn, at best you have a fleshlight on your dick and at worst your hand. No living heterosexual man with a functioning sex drive would ever trade real sex for porn. But as you said, real sex, especially one with intimacy and connection, is very hard to get for…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 01:34 AM
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It's not just that. Here's one from Norway: https://sciencenorway.no/childlessness-fathers-forskningno/a-quarter-of-norwegian-men-never-father-children/1401047 When women do give birth to children, it turns out that it can often be with men who have kids from previous relationships. Women are consistently choosing the same top % of men to have kids with and remain single mothers. In fact, they even coined a term: "Recycled men" What actually happens often is that men who are already fathers get …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 01:28 AM
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Nah the worst case scenario is the stepdad loses his house to the single mom he married in addition to everything else I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 10:26 PM
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It's not just sexual arousal. It's putting up with her history and personality for pussy. Women are more sexually desirable to men than men are to women but that doesn't make them better LTR prospects or better people. And once a guy's sex drive starts revving down in his 50s, he can see past the need to nut when looking at most women around his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 08:58 PM
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Dem's cheating words.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 05:54 PM
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It's called post nut clarity. Once you bust a nut 50% of the women you meet are no longer worthwhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 05:51 PM
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Not much. I can slap the bass without porn. Jacking off once in a while is needed if you don't want your trunk full of spunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 05:47 PM
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Negative but realistic. My buddies are mostly in different countries by now so we no longer talk as often. But that's normal with age. Single dads remarry because they are still men, who want a woman to love. And for the average man marriage is the only surefire way to get access to some level of intimacy. Single moms don't need it as much because, as women, they can get sex and intimacy any time they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 05:17 PM
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Basically you're just a wallet. What single moms need the most are extra money and hands in the house. She's a woman and if she ever wanted sex or intimacy, that's easy to get. It's commitment and resources that are hard to get. She already had a serious love life built outside of you (even if she hates her ex). You're just picking up the pieces. Her kid is a lot more important than her relationship with you. Your relationship with the kid is at best a strange friendship - at worst tenuous. Fina…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 04:23 PM
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Just looked it up, LOL, it took 10 years to end. Fuckin' hell!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 02:50 PM
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I grew up in the butthole of a neighborhood in Eastern Europe, but not the worst shithole in the city. We only had 2 murders in 20 years. No issues with hard drugs, lots of old people throwing bottles at kids who climbed the trees in their yards. But I know a few guys who married single moms because that was basically their only option. But look on PoF and you'll see plenty of women who act like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 02:49 PM
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I mean was the manga ever even finished. Haven't read that thing in over a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 02:17 PM
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TBF the way Brexit was handled was really, really dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 02:10 PM
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I went with my girlfriend. The subtext being "unlike you girlfriend-less losers who are single and don't have a girlfriend". We are super creative and original so guess what we went as? Bet you can't guess. Bonnie and Clyde? Banjo and Kazooie? Ratchet and Clank? XD Incels in particular need to go the fuck outside. Went outside, caught a very nasty cold. Still, 10/10 would do it again... as soon as I get well again. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 02:05 PM
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The point isn't that Chad never pays. It's that Chad doesn't have to splash tons of cash unless he wants to. Most women would date him even if all he offered on the first date was Ruby Tuesday and going on the lake in a swan paddle boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 12:09 PM
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Yeah I was making a pass at her age and expectations (not a very good one apparently). She KNOWS she's a practice GF and it pisses her off.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/19 10:10 AM
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Doesn't "tia" mean "auntie"? Talking with 50 aunties at the same time. Mad lads.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/19 09:57 AM
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Ideally an 80 yo couple have already had their share of sex and live together based on other commonalities and interests. The problem here is women want to put the genie back in the bottle. Have wild sex with Chad in their 20 (and even 30s). Maybe even have her kids with Chad. And if she can't get Chad to commit, have a "real man" step up to "fix a heart he didn't break and raise a child he didn't make". Obviously there will be no (or minimal) intimacy involved since she's looking for a real man…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 09:45 AM
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working towards getting laid That's not the same as actually getting laid though. Which is probably a better point. The math is heavily flawed and it would depend on culture and location as well as the individual guy. But the point is that an average guy who claims to sleep around a lot is either lying or has made seduction his full time job. He could also be extremely lucky in a niche but that's like finding a diamond up your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 09:04 AM
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He's made some errors and the article is a bit too nerdy. But let's not kid ourselves, being a "stud" is a full-time job if you're not born extremely handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 09:01 AM
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Yeah but those are the exceptions everyone wants to be. Truth is most people can't keep up with the lifestyle where both parties of a couple act wholly independent. Worse yet, they force themselves to do it, to keep up with the ~Joneses~ Kardashians and they end up further straining the relationship. If you and your partner work best as geared-up, globe-trotting free spirits who need only meet up to reconnect, great. But it should be no shame if you and your partner need more closeness, together…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 01:20 PM
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If I go to a concert I have to sit in the back because loud music makes my stomach vibrate and act up. I can't drink too much because it makes me physically ill, so people thought I was stuck up. There's also another health condition I have, making it risky to even smoke weed. And that was an issue in my 20s. As a bonus, I have a "resting bitch" face and a "judgemental" look. So people started avoiding me, and I didn't really push back too much when that happened. I called/messaged them maybe on…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 11:33 AM
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I'm not into console RPG video games Ah yes, games, the crux of the problem. The stereotype of the nerdy guy who sits indoors all day long and plays video games. I'd rather stare at nature in a park and look at the plants and animals with someone than do any of that. I'd also rather go around town on my bike but the effort makes me puke my guts out after biking 10km. So I just have to settle for what my body allows me to do even if I'd like to go to the top of K12.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 10:53 AM
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Brevity is the soul of wit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 10:30 AM
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By introvert I don't mean never do anything fun. Who ever means that? But fun is relative. A night of board games might be fun for someone and extremely boring for another person. A night of partying might be fun for one person but might leave another person in the ER with tachycardia and an IV drip. Somehow when it's an introverted man talking everyone assumes he just sits in his house all day staring at walls.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 10:28 AM
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A couple can "perceive" by communicating their experience to one another. We're not amoebas but mammals with the ability to articulate words. You cannot take a shit in place of your friend. You cannot take the cancer from your friend and place it inside yourself. This is both true and incredibly immature at the same time. Saying that a couple can't try to function as a unit because one member can't shit for the other is beyond dumb. As it is to say that a husband or wife doesn't feel suffering i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 09:08 AM
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I'd reverse status and money nowadays, given women are starting to out-earn men in a lot of fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 08:48 AM
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I mean if she stays indoors all the time, guys still aren't probably going to knock her door down to meet her. But yeah, if OP is a woman then it should be a lot easier for her to date LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 08:34 AM
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What do you think of women not dating conservative, right-leaning, republican, and Trump-supporting men? I think those men don't realize they are ugly. All the guys I know who are right-leaning and Trump supporting AND LOOK GOOD have no trouble dating or getting pussy. Most of them are now in a LTR (since they are conservative) but when they were younger they absolutely slayed pussy compared to the left-leaning GOOD LOOKING guys I know. Looks matter a lot more than political leanings, trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 08:09 AM
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I'm not really all that introverted but the cost of extroversion is too high on my body because of shitty genetics. So it was more comfortable to get used to introversion. Really when the choice is between constant pain/discomfort and being alone, you end up choosing loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 08:05 AM
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Well it's not like in ancient times they "became one" anymore than they did today. They are seen as one legal person in some state matters and the idea is they are supposed to function as a whole unit. A car engine is not a single solid block of metal but you still regard it as a whole unit, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 08:00 AM
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But when’s the last time you took a vicarious shit for them? That's a great idea for a horror movie. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 07:58 AM
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If you don’t want a relationship, no one will force one upon you. Given OP is an introvert he'll probably stay single for life unless he fixes that or he's ridiculously good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 07:58 AM
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If you're unwilling to help your spouse or [...] your girlfriend then there's no point to being in a relationship. And her mom, and her sisters and brothers and her dad and her dog and her... I'm pretty sure Mr. Alpha Sixpack got her best years and her most enthusiastic consent without having to shill out a single dollar for her family. Hell, most of the time he didn't even meet her family unless they were together for over 2-3 years. But you, Mr Beta Buck have to buckle up and pay, pay, pay. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 07:57 AM
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Pick one. Not paying my wife's CC debts from her 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 05:25 PM
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Not supporting her entire family financially Not paying her entire college/masters/doctorate debt These are really the 2 most important things when marrying a modern woman. Many women today expect that, because she stepped on her heart and settled for a betabux, he should clear ALL her debt, fix her mom's house, pay her brother's college, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 05:22 PM
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Incels are emotional and neurotic because they are weak. Few things can make up for shitty genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 02:18 PM
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I don't but most women do. Their enjoyment literally depends on how sexy a guy's face and body are. Average guy could eat amazing pussy and it wouldn't compare to a top 5% male just putting his dick in. Still a 320 lbs sea lion of a woman is not going to be very attractive in bed no matter how you spin it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 02:14 PM
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a guy with a 10/10 body who spends a huge chunk of his free time working out and preparing meals and barely ever cheats on his diet will be very sexy but terribly impractical. You can't have much fun with him, he spends his free time on fitness, barely ever has tasty food and in some cases can't even drink (alcohol and calories) nor spend the night out because he needs to maintain his sleeping cycles. There was a YT documentary on the #1 male pornstar in japan. His life is exactly this. Sure dud…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 02:00 PM
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Because Cat Ladies are so obsessed with cats. Honestly it's just a sick form of curiosity. Like looking at a train-wreck, it's somehow both funny and sad at the same time to see a woman get that derailed in life. And if the woman is somewhat good looking, doubly so since you know for sure that she rejected a ton of guys who were willing to wife her up. Another thing is that I actually had cats at home (and dogs, and fish, and rabbits). They shed all over the place, they smell and they make godaw…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 12:05 PM
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It's called not being Chad. If you're Chad you can take her out for a coffee and a walk in the park and she'll be extatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 09:55 AM
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No I'm from Eastern Europe. Knew Disneyland is big in the US, but never thought 18+ yo who don't have kids themselves love it that much. Yeah, Japan is a whole different thing, they have the whole "cute" culture there. A woman executive flew in from japan once and she had keychain accessories you'd expect a middle school girl to have, pink cats and all that. There's good stuff on the switch (like Octopath Traveller, TMS #FE, and soon Persona 5) but it's mostly ports and not stuff people will sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 08:23 AM
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TBH women only find sex with top 5% Chad to be as hot as men find sex with a top 50% woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 02:42 AM
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IDK what to say to that. Played a good part of both of them when they came out. They have a nice art style, but the first one has a dumb hook. And the second one is just "Oh look we remembered we're Japan and we produce zany, crazy plots, pls buy our game". The first ~4 hours are funny at least. They are decent. But not really coming close to being memorable. Again, going back to the Agni's Philosophy trailers. Those WERE memorable, they had hard hitting, heck, even relevant plot threads. Most m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 02:40 AM
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Then you must live a pretty sheltered life if your high inhib nice girl acquaintances go to Disney World at 21. Nice one with the JRPGs tho, unfortunately Japan has continuously shit the bed more often than not on that front since ~2010. Vesperia and Resonance of Fate were pretty much the last memorable big console JRPGs to come out. At least until Bravely Default. But that was on handheld. Zero Zanki was decent too, but that's not exactly a classic JRPG, nor a big console one. FF XIII trilogy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 02:20 AM
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I can't say that all bitchy women are necessarily hoes. At least I know a couple of guys who married their girls with low N counts but they turned out to be huge bitches. They control all the money in and out of the house too. One of the guys is in his 50s and his wife even controls the money for his heart meds LOL. But I agree some men marry batshit crazy (not necessarily slutty) women thinking they will put out more often. And black dudes are really red pilled compared to us white dudes. Plus …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 01:56 AM
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You must be 12 bro. At your age, you're right. Go back to CoD: MW and FIFA 20, see you back in about 6 years or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 01:50 AM
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IDK what you mean about Riley Reid. I mean I know she's a pornstar (who still looks pretty good for her age). Go to a festival with some girls you know have a reputation for being frigid "nice girls" and see how fast they warm and open up to Chad and Tyrone. I'm not saying they fuck like in porn, LOL. The guys in porn are pros who have done that shit for over 10 years at this point. But you will see porta-potty blowjobs and other assorted nastyness. If you still want to put your dick in that tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 01:47 AM
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Nope, /u/ TheAbominableShowman watched too many reruns of Amélie and Scott Pilgrim vs. the World.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 01:24 AM
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The more you tell a woman a dude is shitty, the more she wants to sleep with him. Most women think their pussy is gold and if you warn them about a dude IT MUST BE cause you're jealous and YOU ACTUALLY want to sleep with her... SMH. If you want to tip off a woman to a dude being shitty as a friend, do it subtly, drop a hint on social media. This is how women act with eachother. If she STILL wants to sleep with him after that, at least you can look forward to seeing her featured on "Cat Ladies" w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 01:20 AM
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Yeah nice girls are often high inhib Not for Chad tho LOL, just go to Spring Break and see how low inhib Nice Girls become around Chad and Tyrone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 01:17 AM
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Not really. I just want to know for sure there's enough material for another 10 seasons of "Cat Ladies". I used to actually feel sad for these women's circumstances, but most of them just do it to themselves. How would people look at me if I capped myself in the knee and then started crying about how people are evil for capping me in the knee?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 01:15 AM
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Most men don't go after shitty women, men want to fuck sluts. Those who do, are called "Captain Save a Ho'". It's women who mostly try to make a fuckboy into husband material. And on the rare cases when they succeed they leave the guy after telling him "you're no longer the man I fell in love with". Men don't expect sluts to be good wives and mothers. Women expect fuckboys to be good husbands and fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 01:12 AM
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Maybe the woman found it beneath her station to date him until she learned he was also rich. There are a few women who are so posh that they have very high standards where a man must be both handsome and wealthy for her to even consider dating him. If we're talking about noble, upper class people here, there's still some level of tradition that has disappeared (or never existed) among the middle class. I can't find the article though, there's only one about Anna Nicole Smith and her almost mummi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 01:09 AM
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Most of these women are labeled as gold diggers for dating wealthy and conventionally unattractive young men. Gold digging is not just a 70 yo banker marrying a 35 yo woman. And the first kind of gold digging hurts the man a lot more. The 75 yo banker is aware the woman is only after his money and maybe status, the 25 yo techie wunderkind with a million $ startup actually thinks his wife likes his nerdy ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 12:54 AM
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Most porn is made up of trafficked women In the US!? You cray-cray. If it is, it's illegal and the guy responsible is going to get a lot of private time with Tyrone. The FBI is on that stuff like shit on flies. Most US porn is done by young thotties who like the LA party life with drugs, guys with big muscles and bigger dicks and movie stars who pay them princely sums for lapdances and BJs. Some of those thots end up homeless after their careers are over, but that's not because they were traffic…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 12:47 AM
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Lots of women on reddit have admitted they actually do like getting slapped and choked during sex so... Obviously prolapse isn't a fun thing for anyone. But in the US porn industry there is a lot of regulation. Really, as far as the big studios go 99.99% of the girls came their of their own volition (or greed). As for smaller US studios, one very effective lie is the crew tells the girl that the shoot is "private, for a Russian millionaire". So basically, she's a gold digger. Now Eastern Europea…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 12:31 AM
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IDK mate, I'm a soyboy. I even hold the door open for men. As for oral sex, most girls who I've talked about only dislike it if the guy tries to force his dick down her throat. Most of my old mates' GFs actually loved giving them oral - if it was on her terms. You're about right on anal though, most girls don't really enjoy it. And if most guys went for a rectal exam once in their lives they also wouldn't enjoy it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 12:27 AM
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Is it really low self esteem though? Seen plenty of girls cry over a hot guy missing his promised call by 10 minutes, fearing he was cheating on her. I feel like "low self esteem" and "insecure" are used as catch-all terms for a variety of complex feelings. Are you insecure if you get anxious over the delivery guy calling you 15 minutes late for a $25.000 package? The guy is simply high value enough for her that she's willing to try new things she's uncertain of to please him. IF she tries it, d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 12:22 AM
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And if she has a touch issue or is asexual and the guy is sexual, is it healthy for him to go serious after 3 dates hoping her touch aversion fades out over time? I mean I know a couple who decided to move in after 6 dates and they've been married for 14 years. But that's as rare as finding diamonds in your ass after eating pencil cores. Unlike most of the guys here I agree that some men will have to "pay more" / "get less" because they're just not all that hot. It's normal. But what's not norma…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 10:52 PM
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She didn't do it out of low self esteem. 9 times out of 10 she did it cause the guy was hot and she was DTF. It's not rocket science. And it's true that a homely man shouldn't expect to get the same treatment Chad gets. But that doesn't make it alright for a woman to lead on or even cuck a more homely dude either. If you're interested in his money/stability you gotta also slob on his knob at some point (especially if you want him to feast on your taco). If not, go back to Chad and stop complaini…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 10:37 PM
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Bro, I somewhat agree. Yo go to a date, you're not Chad. You can't expect to get your dick sucked. But you try to brush her hair or hold her hand on the 3rd date and she fucking recoils? Bro, fucking bounce cause she is SETTLING HARD. And you won't just get used AND not get sex, you'll ALSO get cheated on if you allow that to become a "relationship".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 10:30 PM
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While I'm all for boundaries and things move at different speeds for different peeps if a woman rejects ALL your physical advances (holding hands, physical closeness) by the 3rd date and she's not a virgin or has a really low N count, it's time to bounce. Women today, for the right guy, they get on their knees on the first date. You might not be the right guy, she might be settling for you, but if she's settling THAT HARD, BOUNCE.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 10:26 PM
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why are they only putting out once a blue moon? Because they are not all that attracted to their BFs. And later on (after college) because they are tired from work AND not all that attracted to their BFs. Maybe its because most men are pornsick and selfish...don't know how to please women TBH porn enters men's lives earlier and more often than women do. What do you think a 16 yo boy would rather do? Make out with his GF or whack out to porn? Well if he gets his first GF at 19, that's 3 extra yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 10:00 PM
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Yeah that can happen too, but it doesn't normally end in sex unless she's desperate for dick. Women who treat their male dates like shit just dine and dash usually. I thought you were talking about women who date an asshole and still go home with him at the end of the night because "she already took the time to shave and bathe".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 08:52 PM
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wow you don't sound misogynist and bitter....boys like you are the ones us women are trying to avoid and is why WE are choosing not to waste our lives being tied down to you. Can't blame women really Not misogynistic and bitter, just realistic. And yeah I'm a grown-up soyboy, it's even in my name. What of it? Most women are not thots who think they are smarter because when it comes to being college educated women are rapidly outrunning men. Study fields and degrees please. A woman with a Masters…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 08:51 PM
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Why would a woman have sex with a guy who treated her like shit on a date - unless he was hot enough to compensate? And if he was hot enough, she clearly got her value out of the date. Don't women here keep saying how they don't like feeling used for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 02:24 PM
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Cool, but your advice fails to do even that. Most women only really want to settle down with one of the guys she's already fucked. And most of those guys have loads options and don't need your advice on getting intimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 02:21 PM
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why do so many men act like they're the prize then Because they are. Getting the body needed to be seen as attractive today is a huge effort for a man. why do so many men chance it risking an attractive smart woman just for an ego boost off other other women? They don't, most women they meet are just thots who think they're smarter because they are better tolerated by society. That's the real tea, women are sick of pouring their all in only to be humiliated. Then women should start dating men in…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 02:14 PM
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I understand the woman's POV, really: being an overweight single mom doesn't mean a woman is no longer attracted to tall, handsome, well-off guys. The primary "problem" here being she doesn't understand those guys don't want her around them. And the secondary problem being people listen to her complaints. Magazines will publish articles about them. Desperate low value men will try to ingratiate themselves with them. And red pill men will make fun of these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 01:33 PM
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Cool story. Most women intrude on the guy, ask him to let her choose, then complain that it was hard work. As I said before, women expect a guy to be interesting in the courtship phase and to stop being interesting once that is over. Women shop for their man because they want him to look unnatractive to other women. Whether it's subconscious or on purpose depends on the woman. Most nurses choose their profession and washing other's people filth may be disgusting, but so is putting your hands in …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 05:39 PM
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You'd all behave like fuckboys if you got the chance. That's what you all are. The power fantasy of men is to have a lot of sex and the power fantasy of women is to get away with shit a lot of time. But most men don't act that way. And most men would want to have consensual sex with a lot of women, not manipulate them into dropping their panties. No. I'm talking there's just too few men who aren't garbage human beings. Whoo boy, it's getting hot in here. I'm calling them degenerate because they …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 05:05 PM
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A guy is still the one who will probably open your pickle jar on Fiverr. And you don't need to pay your husband a fiver to open the pickle jar. Plus you usually get to spend most of his money. And it's not even "in exchange" for sex. That's supposed to be an expression of love in the couple. But I suppose good old John can never really compete with six-pack tatted out Jake and his 8 inch donger from 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 04:54 PM
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All men think they are good men. And nearly all men are lying. Not really. You can tell a fuckboy a mile a way. You just don't want to. Cause he's spontaneous and fun and he makes your heart jump with glee as he doesn't call you for 2 weeks. Him being hot doesn't hurt either. The option of "find a good man" is purely on the basics of the mathematics involved, available to almost no women. You talk "mathematics", so basically money and education? Given women are pursuing more education, of course…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 04:42 PM
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You look at a woman's life without a man and her life with one, then unless he's making a heck of an effort she's likely to be worse off with him than without him. Only because the state has replaced the role the husband used to have. Most women don't really have to fend for their own, not like a man does, even if it looks like they're on their own to them. Women have more options for shelters, more funds allocated for research, they get more sympathy, empathy AND actual help from family members…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 02:34 PM
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If you're just enjoying sex with him and nothing else Seen this a couple of times. But it was some chick who was fucking a tatted up ex-convict (or some other almost-homeless kind of badboy). And the guy basically wanted more because he saw the chick as a lifeline. Maybe chicks shouldn't get involved with loser badboys. Or they should let loser badboys become winners again (power of their fists - the one thing they are good at) by legalizing anarchy. ​ Dick is cheap and plentiful. Dick is everyw…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 02:23 PM
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Girls seem to keep going out of optimism. Keep kissing toads Only if the toads look like this though. Toads like him get no love or kisses. If you're going to stick round then of course he needs to give more, a whole lot more. Not if it's an equal, feminist partnership. Now if a woman expects a traditional relationship where the guy gives her a whole lot, she should also be willing to give him a whole lot. Not just wet queefs and a woman shaped impression in his mattress.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 02:13 PM
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Men are gawdawful high-maintenance clingy irresponsible boundary-pushing pains in the butt and really only worth it if they've got enough invested in you that you can moderate their behavior somewhat and get a bit back out of the whole deal. How are most guys high-maintenance? Boundary-pushing is par for the course since women expect the man to do the courting, initiate, escalate, etc. What "bit" are you hoping to "get back out of the whole deal" anyway? What exactly did you put in that you expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 02:00 PM
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