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| 2 | What do you guys talk about with women?Sounds pretentious and exhausting | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 08:46 PM |
| 1 | [need advice] girl probably lying to me about illness to get money from meThis post must be ragebait. | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 11:08 AM |
| 46 | Is dating sustainable for below average men?considering yourself ugly is the wrong mindset. Start with changing that. | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Should I ask for her number before or after my 3 week trip?This and only this | /r/seduction | 08/03/26 12:03 PM |
| 4 | Meeting a girl this weekendFocus on getting to know her. Treat her as a human being you just met and want to get acquainted with. Find out what things you have in common (hobbies, taste in music, vacations, movies.. whatever) and expand on that. Ultimately if there‘s chemistry, all that should be easy. There‘s no trick. And most importantly: don’t expect any particular outcome and don’t be disappointed if it doesn’t lead to anything or if you get ghosted. Good luck and have fun. | /r/seduction | 03/01/26 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Girl I’m talking to completely changed her mindLet it go, mate, too much drama already at the beginning and the age difference will likely become a problem | /r/seduction | 04/12/25 07:37 AM |
| 1 | 35M virgin, quit my job to focus on game. Where do I start?40M here. You can of course always make changes when you are unhappy with things but it gets harder the older you get and I‘m not sure whether it makes you necessarily more attractive. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 09:29 AM |
| 19 | 35M virgin, quit my job to focus on game. Where do I start?…that’s all true if you are younger. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 09:11 AM |
| 1 | 35M virgin, quit my job to focus on game. Where do I start?In my opinion „game“ and all that PU stuff is not for you if you have these issues you mentioned and tried for 5 (!) years already. I would take the softer route through group of friends or sports / book clubs, volunteering work etc. This way you can immediately connect with likeminded people rather than some randos. Otherwise this will all get very frustrating very fast and you will end up in a worse situation. Good look! Edit: And as some here have already mentioned, having no job is not a goo… | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 08:59 AM |
| 2 | I got approached by a girl just 20 minutes agoNo need to vent about your failed interaction here for affirmation, get off the internet, touch some grass, relax | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 09:13 AM |
| 3 | What are low-pressure openers I can actually use in class, gym, coffee shops without looking like a tryhard?This is for once really sound advice and shows that you do not need all that PUA crap. | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 06:12 PM |
| 6 | Women are not capable of geniune loveThe correct answer would have been: „I‘m not your bro, dude!“ | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 02:19 PM |
| 32 | Women are not capable of geniune loveMajor incel vibes, bro | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 01:48 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about using the plaud note or voice memo app to capture date conversations to remember details and improve memory?Sounds creepy and exhausting | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Need help with a GirlSocial media is no substitute for real-life interaction | /r/seduction | 17/09/25 11:40 AM |
| 0 | Nightclub. Girl flips the bird for absolutely no reason.Total creep | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 05:38 AM |
| 5 | Broke & angry, struggling, 26Therapy! | /r/seduction | 03/08/25 07:06 AM |
| 5 | Comfort with beautiful womenThis is the Zodiac killer speaking | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 10:47 AM |
| 4 | She’s been dressing masculine when she’s out with me..is this a power move or something thats supposed to feminize me?Too much of that playbooks and alpha bs Edit: huge beta move to come here whining 😂 | /r/seduction | 15/07/25 08:12 PM |
| 6 | How to handle clubbing solo when a girl friends group starts dancing next to you?So you want to overthink the overthinking? That’s next level of overthinking. | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 07:11 AM |
| 0 | Beginner (35M, no sexual experience). I don't want to be a pickup artist. I need something basic to get me off the groundFrankly, if the issue is rooted that deeply, therapy is the only way to go. I'm not sure if this is about "learning" anything if you have this problem at 35. There must be something going on with OP that he can't control or isn't aware of that drives the other person away. I'd say it's statistically unlikely that that you go on dates and connect with 10 women and not one of them wants to sleep with you at some point... | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Beginner (35M, no sexual experience). I don't want to be a pickup artist. I need something basic to get me off the groundTreat them like human beings and try to connect over stuff you both like. If there's any romantic connection or spark, the rest usually comes automatically. Stop following guides or reading books. Don't treat it like a science and have fun. Edit: Yes, social activities like dancing, sports, chess etc. are great start pointing. The first (and hardest) step is to get out of your comfort zone and meet new people. | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with my PTSD and Anxiety when it comes to womenIf this pattern repeats too often, seek therapy to find out what’s happening. Ppl usually do not ghost unless they have a reason. Not saying that it‘s always on you but if it happens to you a lot, statistically there‘s a good chance that there may be stuff about you that comes across as off-putting (too needy, too emotionally invested, etc). Cheers and good luck! | /r/seduction | 14/06/25 10:07 AM |
| 22 | I am 16 and have begun cold approaching girls/women I find attractive at the gymHow to become an annoying prick 101 | /r/seduction | 12/06/25 05:06 PM |
| 5 | Eye contact with a girl at high schoolLol. Just say „hi” and start talking to her about something innocuous. Social Media interactions do not substitute real life communication. Anything you do on Social Media will just perpetuate the current situation of you being unable to talk to her. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 03:30 PM |
| 1 | How to get women to open up to you emotionally?If there‘s chemistry, it can be quick. If there‘s none, it may never happen. But there‘s no specific buttons to push because everyone’s different. | /r/seduction | 27/04/25 07:03 PM |
| 23 | How to get women to open up to you emotionally?Basic human interaction and building a relationship on a personal level? Sorry, but this question sounds like women are beings from outer space. | /r/seduction | 27/04/25 06:34 PM |
| 34 | How to get out of the friendzone?Just move on, man. Don’t act so desperate, have some self respect… | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 09:38 PM |
| 13 | A girl that I'm interested in sees me as just a friend.Two words: Move. On. | /r/seduction | 04/12/24 07:16 AM |
| 3 | Can you come back from this ?She's moving on and so should you. She was open with you from the beginning and now it's up to you to understand the signs she's giving you. If you caught feelings, try talking to her to see where she stands. If she doesn't want to or tells you it's over, MOVE ON! Cheers! | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 01:41 PM |
| 1 | With rising anti-men sentiment, how can we game in a way that does not add to the negative stereotypes?This post oozes serious nice guy energies | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 07:18 AM |
| 4 | How do you make a female give you a kiss me signalStart by stop using the term „female“ | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 08:30 AM |
| 2 | I met her in the gym, to ended up being blocked. Your thoughts on why?Absolutely agreed. OP dodged a bullet and she actually did him a favor by going no contact. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 06:17 AM |
| 2 | Advice please! I’m so confused!Delusional | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 06:02 PM |
| 17 | A girl I couldn't have a fling with for medical reasons had a fling with someone else in a liberal European country where we both were there and let me know of it, now I want to have a fling with the same value redhead girlOP’s a serial killer or an edgy 12-year old | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 08:29 AM |
| 3 | Girl Changed Her Mind About Relationship OvernightMore likely than not she got second thoughts about her break up or is still grieving her 8 years relationship. Totally normal and not much else OP could do. And, yeah, don’t ask her best friend for advice, just talk to her and if she still rejects you, MOVE ON! | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Anytime I try to “be myself” around girls and let my mind and words flow I get told that I’m being “weird” and “scaring the hoes but then when I try to act normal and “non weird” I get told I’m boring. I feel like I can never win. I’m thinking it’s a looks issue.Incel | /r/seduction | 28/06/24 09:30 PM |
| 5 | Do women do soft launches on social media to maintain exit optionality?Creepy post being creepy | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 06:45 AM |
| 3 | How can I effortlessly reschedule this cancelled date?Texting only for 2 months - living 5 mins apart. Wow. | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 01:37 PM |
| 4 | Another successful night in Japan“successful night” | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Signs when a special women is not interestedIf she repeatedly uses the words „not interested“ | /r/seduction | 21/04/24 08:22 AM |
| 3 | Nice Guy texting mistakes to avoidGetting worked up over rejection and lashing out at that person is just cringe. | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 07:27 AM |
| 4 | Nice Guy texting mistakes to avoidIt should come up naturally in a conversation. For example, when you’re telling her that you‘re gonna go to the gym on the weekend, you can then ask her if she likes to be active too. If she tells you she’s working a lot, ask her in a playful manner if there’s anything she does for fun when she’s not working, etc. In general, these questions usually come up far more into the conversation. Start with something light, a comment about a photo or a recent or upcoming event in your city that may like… | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 07:25 AM |
| 11 | Nice Guy texting mistakes to avoidHigh quality post and a great list of no-gos in texting (not necessarily limited to a romantic context). | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to let the girl choose the date?This bro made an account just to spread bs. Wow. | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 07:24 PM |
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