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It's OK to feel angry especially when you want justice. The fact that abortion is such a casual subject in the UK to the point where your own family would recommend one to a married woman is an injustice.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/21 05:55 PM
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'Celestial love' doesn't exist. Love is about responsibility and shared goals. Perhaps your family think you are niave for saying things like that and that's why they worry for you? However I don't think that mentioning abortion is excusable. Then again people are often abortion crazy. They see it like a trip to the dentist and they allow it past the middle of pregnancy. I feel bad that you live in the UK as a conservative leaning woman. Everyone there is crazy and rabidly left wing and pro gove…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/21 05:50 PM
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Being a doormat and letting family tell you to get an abortion isn't 'feminine'. This is real life, not finishing school. I visit this sub because it's housewife friendly and more woman centered than a lot of other subs. I struggle with this concept that we should all be inauthentic to who we really are and maximize our performative femininity. Women are women without having to try.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/21 05:40 PM
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I would be very angry if someone suggested an abortion to me, especially someone who is supposed to love me. That's pretty sick.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/21 05:37 PM
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Men who are familiar with the red pill often have their own problems. Sometimes they are just a little awkward and autistic but other times they can be holding more sinister personality disorders. This thread is a bit concerning to me.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/21 05:33 PM
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I have never actually known men to pay so much attention to detail. It seems as if they find a woman attractive enough they don't focus on the different parts of the woman. I think women are more likely to do this to their own bodies. I'm not saying there aren't men who think this way, it's just that I have never met one. I do think you could be right about female sexuality in some cases. They have a laundry list in their head of what they want in a man and they either try and modify said man or…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:53 AM
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I don't want to look at naked women. I think women should go back to wearing more modest clothing. I think it's extremely distasteful what a lot of women dress like today. I don't understand this idea that women should sexualize themselves in every aspect of their lives. It's dehumanizing and reduces women to sexual commodities. Women don't need to be sexualized by anyone but their husband when they are in private. I think because of sex positive feminism society views women even less as human b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:46 AM
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Most people settle in some shape or form. The perfect partner doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:42 AM
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I don't understand what 'great in bed' is even supposed to mean. Sexual intimacy is something that just happens between two people who are drawn to one another romantically. There is no 'technique' to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:40 AM
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You said when people have children their lives are over. It's this mentality you have, as if it's universally bad for women to have children. It's as if you are indoctrinating other women into believing that the path to happiness is only through themselves. This isn't true for men, either. Not wanting children isn't normal. It's your life, do what you want, but having children is very important for society and if everyone thought like you there would be no one left.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:33 AM
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Asking someone not to talk about something and then refusing to have that conversation isn't fighting. Fighting denotes aggressive behavior. There is nothing aggressive about refusing to have a conversation and asserting a boundary. You don't have to react with aggression when you refuse to have a conversation. You can go silent and change the subject, you can quietly walk out of the room. Sure we all have feelings but sometimes showing feelings in certain situations isn't appropriate. Sometimes…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/21 12:30 AM
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What is life? Because to me it's not about endless, superficial gratification. My children bring me great joy. They bring me much more joy than designer handbags, expensive manicures and a flat, smooth stomach ever could. The problem today is that young people are vain, narcissistic and superficial. They are always chasing some kind of shallow high. I hope someday you come to realize that you aren't special and that your existence isn't just about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:15 AM
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You are correct that this is a problem. Especially with the standards that most people have for living. People have never been so obsessed with material possessions. We live in very narcissistic times. Having the latest iphone and air Jordans and having manicured nails and bleached hair every month is more important to a lot of today's women than having a child. Men are just as bad, they want to spend a lot of their money on useless junk as well. Everyone is vaping, going to bars and buying cann…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:10 AM
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Delaying children isn't as much of a problem as the number of children couples are actually choosing to have. The vast majority of women could start at 30 and have at least 3 children by the time the woman's eggs have degraded to the point of infertility. Female fertility most often comes to a natural end somewhere in a woman's early to mid 40s. Even in medieval Britain peasant women regularly began having children in their late 20s. Peasants made up a good fraction of the population, the popula…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:02 AM
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Being assertive about personal boundaries and commanding respect is most definitely not masculine. It's just basic healthy psychology that has nothing to do with a person's sex. I have never heard of such nonsense. Are you trying to imply that you believe that women are supposed to be doormats? If they are in panic mode over a situation that their daughter seems to be handling then it's not her struggle to deal with. They need to learn to keep that struggle contained within themselves and not in…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 11:46 PM
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You have baby brain. You will be obsessed with the baby for a while yet. For the next year or so you will be thinking about the baby all the time and you most likely won't want to be away from the baby for any length of time. Right now your common goal is raising children together. Your husband should be focused on being a father. I'm not saying you shouldn't spend any time to bond with one another, but he needs to understand that the dynamic of your relationship will have changed. You are not n…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 11:36 PM
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Could he pay for some home help perhaps? What about relatives? Do you have a retired mother, granny or MIL who can come over everyday to help with chores and the baby? You had a baby 6 weeks ago. He needs to cut you some slack. One generational households are a modern, western phenomenon and this is why so many women become overwhelmed and depressed. As for sex if you had a vaginal birth you are probably still hurting and have some discharge. Having sex at 6 weeks post partum would have been too…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 11:11 PM
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Anxiety is the most common problem for women. Women worry like there is no tomorrow. The best thing you can do is find things you enjoy so you can make yourself happy.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 09:49 PM
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You really have to stand your ground. It's not about kicking them out. You don't have to go that far. You just have to end the conversation. Tell them you won't talk about it. Walk into another room. Don't argue with them and don't try to convince them. Let them know you won't engage and they are talking to a brick wall. End a phone call and talk to them when they call you back. End the phone call again if they talk about it again. Eventually they will get it and when the baby comes they will pr…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 09:45 PM
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I understand. I'm certainly not saying to cut them off, just to assert that boundary. You will of course keep speaking to them and seeing them but when they start saying hurtful and uncomfortable things you abruptly assert yourself and end the interaction. Eventually they will stop bringing it up. It will also probably be different when they meet the baby, but when you are pregnant you only need positive energy. I think they are overreacting. It's not like your boyfriend is an old man, he's olde…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 07:01 PM
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I have mild autism and no one was happy when I was pregnant either despite me being older than you. I no longer talk to any of my family and I no longer live in my home country. We moved to a country where I feel like my condition wouldn't be recognized and where it would be expected that my husband be the head of our household. I cut my mother off when she suggested I used contraception. Our relationship has never been good. I think she used my medical condition to receive validation. She took …
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 01:49 PM
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I have pimples too. Have you tried cleansing your face multiple times a day? I cleanse my face up to 5 times a day depending on how sweaty I get. I also use anti acne moisturizer with SPF and I avoid anti aging creams as they usually cause me to develop acne. I try and wear as little makeup as possible.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/21 08:27 PM
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I say this kindly, please don't feed stray cats. They are a nuisance to the environment and the people that have to live around them. If you want to care for animals work in an animal shelter or do some conservation work. I think you need to focus on bettering your situation as opposed to adopting a persona. If you are in a bad family environment your focus should be on staying mentally well and improving your situation.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/21 08:06 PM
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Naturally curly hair is beautiful.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/21 08:00 PM
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I dislike bleached blonde hair. I am brunette with medium to dark brown hair and I bleached my hair once and I hated it. I just didn't feel like me. None of the colors I love wearing like magentas, oxbloods, purples, deep greens and bieges looked as good on me, even my glasses didn't match my new hair. I grew it out into an ombre and then dyed it close enough to my natural color. This was a few years ago. I think bleach blonde hair looks cheap. Some women say it gives them more attention, but wh…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/21 07:58 PM
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Hate Bottom bearing shorts Tiny crop tops Anything backless Spaghetti straps Those all in one body suit/romper type things that look like a baby vest, they are difficult to pee in and make me feel like infant that should be wearing a diaper Low necklines Low rise jeans Bleach blonde hair Heavy drag style makeup Tattoos Facial piercings Lip injections Unnatural colored hair Any pair of high heeled shoes Milkmaid dresses Off the shoulder dresses Anything where I can't wear supportive underwear Tho…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/21 07:43 PM
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She's in the UK. British women are heavily indoctrinated. Many of them have generous jobs with the government. Britain is essentially a feminist dystopia.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/21 07:29 PM
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If you are in the UK that explains it. The UK is extremely feminist, far left and pro government, even more so than the USA. Only 1 in 11 women in the UK are SAHMs and being a housewife is heavily stigmatized. In many areas women even out earn men as a whole because of the government sector. Some of these ladies might be social workers or they might be connected to the local health visitors and GP surgery or the school itself. I wouldn't bring attention to myself or do anything to piss them off.…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/21 07:19 PM
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I find this difficult to believe. 20% of women in the USA are housewives, you can't be the only one at your son's school. What do you mean 'dressing like a housewife'? What does a housewife wear exactly? It sounds like they are just being cliquey and bitchy and are looking for an excuse. People like that are not worth being friends with.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/21 07:15 PM
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I would take the photos down without my boyfriend in if it was me.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/21 12:50 PM
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I don't dress like a Muslim woman. I don't cover my hair. I just hide cleavage and don't wear short skirts or crop tops anymore. I have a flat, shapeless butt so I don't need to worry about close fitting pants. I'm happy to show my ankles and calves. I try and avoid anything that emphasizes my big bust. I find that trashy men leave me alone when I dress modestly or at least are more likely to. Of course modest women still get sexually assaulted by bad men, but some outfits just make it more like…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/21 12:49 PM
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That's not a nice thing to say. She's here asking for help.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/21 12:43 PM
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No because men pair bond. Most men are not just these psychopaths that get rid of women on a whim. Men have emotions just like women do. Why do you think there are so many couples that are together until death? Real life isn't how you think it is. If you look at the actual statistics on age gap relationships most men are with women around their own age. Like I said the red pill is full of sad and angry men. They feel that way because they want a woman to love and accept them and they are deliber…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 11:27 PM
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You don't need a trophy. Life isn't about impressing everyone around you. You need to do what makes you feel happy from inside. To me it's being with my husband and children every day. My husband does things I don't agree with but I don't make those things apart of my life or our marriage. There is also nothing wrong with being a 'baby maker'. The world is always going to need more people and babies are wonderful.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 11:19 PM
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I wouldn't have pictures on social media that bring me that sort of attention. The only time you should be putting attractive pictures up of yourself is when you are looking for a husband. If you are in a long term relationship I would definitely take them down out of respect for your partner. You need to have a think about why you post the content you do on social media. Most women don't understand how our current society encourages women to indiscriminately sexualize themselves publicly. They …
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 11:13 PM
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Focus on what makes you happy. Don't see it as a competition. Comparison is the thief of joy. You are comparing yourself to men. It's the societal hatred of women's natural femininity (unless it's highly sexualized femininity) that has probably made you feel this internalized misogyny. You need to ask yourself what you really want after taking men and how you compare yourself to them out of the equation. You can include marriage and family in the equation but you make it about yourself and your …
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 11:07 PM
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I don't think most normal men are paying sex workers. Usually it's men with fetishes or men who are addicted to pornography.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 10:51 PM
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Men will look at you and think about sex. Men who you definitely don't want looking at you and thinking about sex and it will cause them to behave in ways that the vast majority of women won't like. They are not thinking about whether or not your outfit is 'tasteful' if you are giving them an eyeful of cleavage or showing your midriff. I made the decision to quit wearing those sorts of clothes because of the attention I was getting. Lots of women complain about getting unwanted attention from me…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 10:48 PM
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How old is old? She might be going senile. Unless she is a genuine threat and is causing real harm I would just ignore her. She obviously has some serious problems. If she is causing real harm like contacting the authorities to get you into trouble or physically hurting people I would get a court order to stop her from bothering you.
/r/RedPillWives28/05/21 03:10 PM
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I gave up sweet foods that are full of sugar and simple, fried refined carbs like french fries and chips. The weight is flying off. These foods might be tasty but they are genuine a menace to society and will probably be the cause of your death if you continue to eat them. You also don't need to go on a ridiculous diet of 1200 calories to lose weight. When I wasn't breastfeeding I lost weight at a steady pace consuming 1800 a day. Breastfeeding I am losing weight at 2,000-2,500 a day. I am or wa…
/r/RedPillWives28/05/21 03:04 PM
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Not only that but they are far more comfortable than those low rise pants.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 03:00 PM
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I don't think there is anything necessarily wrong with trousers/pants/jeans. Women have been wearing them for many years. I think if you want to look modest there are plenty of ways to wear trousers. I don't see how wearing trousers will make you unattractive to men.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 02:59 PM
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Some of those looks are a little immodest. Some women might not like that. I mean how can we go against promiscuity and encourage women to wear clothes that heavily sexualize their bodies that way like tops that publicly show cleavage and stomach?
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 02:57 PM
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Yes because I don't like being put on a pedestal. When someone has you on a pedestal it's not that hard to fall off. There is a thin line between idealization and devaluation.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 02:55 PM
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I think the left wing are leaning closer to these sorts of behaviors these days than the right wing if you ask me. Have you seen how they supply babies for adoption in Norway and the UK? Look at some of the things that Bill Gates and the UN are doing. It's exactly like the handmaid's tale.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 02:54 PM
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I think you should enjoy the here and now and look to your future goals and plans together. Get to know your boyfriend and have him get to know you. This might be an unpopular opinion but I think spouses can keep information from one another and that's OK as long as it's not relevant to the present and/or things would be fine if they never knew. I don't think you need to know about his past and I don't think he needs to know about yours. I don't want to know every single thought in my husband's …
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 02:50 PM
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The whole idea is to find a husband, not to impress men in general. I don't care about impressing men in general. Every man in the world could care less about me apart from my husband and I wouldn't mind one bit. It's true that when you are dating it's better to put your best foot forward. Sexual promiscuity is mainstream nowadays. Most men actually find it odd when a woman won't have sex with them very soon into the relationship. You will unfortunately lose relationships that way. I think socie…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 02:47 PM
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All you need is one man you are in love with to fall in love with you and create a family with you. You don't need the attention of every man in the world and you need to ask yourself why you would want it. I think it would be a good idea for you to try online dating. I met my husband online. I think the problems comes from you not having a relationship and I think you genuinely fail to put yourself out there.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 02:29 PM
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I don't agree with sex work, probably would rather not hear this and I don't think it empowers women in any possible way but we will agree to disagree. It's your life and up to you how you want to live it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 02:13 PM
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Many of these older 'red pilled' men in my experience have Aspergers syndrome. As someone with Aspergers whose husband is also Aspergers I have drifted towards a lot of them and met them in our circle of friends. As someone with Aspergers I see this actually as a plus when it comes to living in a developing country and dating people from developing countries. Back home in the UK people always noticed my quirks and became more controlling of me or they distanced themselves. When I moved to a deve…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:32 PM
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Western people are very neurotic nowadays when it comes to the subject of children. Everything in life has to be perfect in their minds. I have known plenty of women who know they want children from a young age and pace around for years and years looking for the perfect man. They realize said perfect man doesn't exist at 35 and have 1 or 2 children in their late 30s or early 40s at the last opportunity with an imperfect man after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:05 PM
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As an adult I have always been at least somewhat overweight. It hasn't stopped me from finding men who are quality people or that I find attractive personally. Some men might worry what others think. I have a serious preference for Asian men and married a Chinese man and their culture can be quite weight focused. But generally I don't think men judge a woman's weight as harshly as people say. More men are open to sex with a fat woman than people would realize, but plenty are still embarrassed to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:58 PM
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I'm in my 30s. My sex drive is definitely lower than it was in my teens and 20s. I found it dropped slightly around my mid 20s but was still present. Now as I am looking after children it's the very last thing on my mind and really isn't there at all spare a few parts of my cycle and even then it's not incredibly fierce. It's mostly a pair bonding exercise between myself and my husband nowadays. I rarely if at all think about men in general in a sexual context apart from him. I might glance but …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:44 PM
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There is no evolutionary reason for men to be aroused by menstrual fluid. Women are generally infertile on their menstrual period and having sex with them is of no reproductive benefit. I know humans will and do have sex for pair bonding purposes as well but men have a majority of a woman's cycle to do that. The average woman menstruates every 23-35 days for 2-7 days (cycles can be even longer for young teens with a very high egg supply or for women in peri menopause). Women in times past were o…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/21 02:35 PM
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There is a lot to unpack here. My answer is going to be very contraversial for reddit. I personally wouldn't be comfortable with this and I definitely have some personal concerns. You don't sound like you are comfortable with it either. I don't think it's typical, it's definitely some kind of sexual fetish/paraphelia to be turned on by a woman's menstrual fluid. It's not typical for men to be aroused by menstrual fluid. Some men are neutral about it, some men are repulsed by the idea of having s…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/21 02:21 PM
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Idk maybe this is a term of endearment. If he's calling her a 'cute hippo'.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/21 01:50 PM
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If you feel it would really increase your confidence don't feel bad about saving up for cosmetic surgery. Just make sure that the issue doesn't come from within and is not a "I'll never be satisfied so I'll keep having more surgeries scenario" where you are deliberately looking for things that are wrong with your body that you need to fix. You are only 20. You have plenty of time to get your insecurities fixed this way. I would also reconsider your relationship with your family. Is having them i…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/21 01:48 PM
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