| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | [FR] first time out doing cold approaches. | eyeseeyoo | /r/seduction | 13/05/11 08:28 AM | |
| 6 | General question on long distance. I think I already know the answer. | eyeseeyoo | /r/seduction | 22/01/14 08:21 PM | |
| 1 | this is a really dumb hangup but... | eyeseeyoo | /r/seduction | 16/10/10 05:01 AM | |
| 1 | How to be more expressive? | eyeseeyoo | /r/seduction | 24/10/10 08:08 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Rejection - The Best Thing That Ever Happened To Mepretty sure he was referencing a reddit meme lol | /r/seduction | 31/05/18 05:33 PM |
| 2 | If you’re inexperienced, read this! Something I failed to realize early on that would’ve saved lots of headaches.you've gotta just be uncomfortable think you meant to say the opposite.. | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 09:25 PM |
| 1 | SHIFT These 5 Things to Make a Girl Fall In Love With You (+Actual Examples)I like the actionable tips here. What's a good way to switch topics + how do you come up with topics to switch to? I feel like my mind goes blank a lot. | /r/seduction | 03/05/18 12:58 AM |
| 2 | how do you make tinder/bumble work for you as a virgin?What’s the best way of showing intent? | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 03:30 AM |
| 8 | Two things that helped me be attractive to women. Examples included.college football player. yeah this explains it haha | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 06:28 PM |
| 1 | How To Develop The Mindset That Will Magnetically Attract WomenAlso, the title is inconsistent. It should either be Secrets to Modern Women's hearts or Secrets to a Modern Woman's Heart. this. not sure i can trust a writer who has such a glaring grammatical error in their title | /r/seduction | 07/07/17 07:57 PM |
| 3 | FIX. YOUR. MINDSET.A growth mindset is the most important one you can have for game, and arguably, for life. | /r/seduction | 28/06/17 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Someone who I was talking to told me to head over here since I need advice. I feel like I'm a lost cause. So I'm here...Check out local spas/beauty salons. One of the ones in my city offers a acne clear facial treatment series and that worked out really well for me. | /r/seduction | 23/06/17 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Is cold approach useless for finding a person?http://www.girlschase.com/content/why-cold-approach-works-better-anything-else great post. | /r/seduction | 09/06/17 09:38 PM |
| 2 | First attempt (swing and a miss) where do I go from here?Thanks for sharing the personal example - and congrats on the new gig! Re: rejection - yeah I see what you mean from "troubleshooting". I guess the biggest obstacle to looking at it this way is the initial pain from rejection and being able to bounce back quickly from it. | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 05:57 PM |
| 2 | First attempt (swing and a miss) where do I go from here?It's closely related to the victim mindset. What started my shift in mindsets is when I decided I'd be a victim to nothing, or nobody. I'd shun the label systematically. And instead of blaming, I'd see how I could turn those shortcomings into potential actions that I could benefit from. Then shortcomings become opportunities. Then the mindset turns around. Really like this thought - can you elaborate a bit more? What's an example of a shortcoming that you turned into a potential action/opportuni… | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Rate my opener? Also share some of your openers!Really good stuff in here. Thanks so much! | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Rate my opener? Also share some of your openers!Canned openers are unnecessary and crippling to "game" over time. I don't use them. I use situational openers based on observation skills. I feel like I can never come up with observations on the spot. Can you share some examples of ones you have used? Maybe I'm being too picky about what's appropriate. | /r/seduction | 07/06/17 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Which approach for introvert & good active listenerhttp://www.introvertedbadass.com/ | /r/seduction | 07/06/17 11:10 PM |
| 25 | How to Talk to Girls and Get Them Attracted: The Definitive GuideLast paragraph is pure gold. Exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 01/06/17 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Creating the appearance of height- using body language to emphasize authority.Do you have a specific clip you can link to show this? Thanks! | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 11:01 PM |
| 8 | Good bio for Tinder?it's not but on dating apps you gotta admit its a disadvantage. | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 07:18 PM |
| 3 | A repost from r/GetMotivated. I believe this text suits this subreddit even more.That may be true but I appreciate this graphic a lot. It's almost too real for in some respect. | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 07:16 PM |
| 2 | The girl is not the goal. The goal is to become a happy, driven, successful, self-assured man.hahaha this is great. | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 06:47 AM |
| 1 | The girl is not the goal. The goal is to become a happy, driven, successful, self-assured man.I'm sure you have heard of the female hamster. Never heard of this.. what is it referring to? | /r/seduction | 24/05/17 07:40 PM |
| 3 | What were your funniest and most cringeworthy social blunders you made when you first started talking to women?"you look like one" HAHAHAHAHA omg I'm dying. This is amazing. Thanks for the share. | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Just reached the 100 club, just want to thank this sub!don't worry I'm not selling anything This line is actually really great. As someone living in a major metropolitan area with a lot of panhandlers and people handing out fliers or trying to sell stuff, everyone has their guard up. | /r/seduction | 02/11/16 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Going to an event where you don't know anyone [FR]thank you, i appreciate your help. | /r/seduction | 07/10/16 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Going to an event where you don't know anyone [FR]What's the best way to work on this efficiently (and hopefully not go through as much trial and error)? | /r/seduction | 06/10/16 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Going to an event where you don't know anyone [FR]this is fucking awesome. great writeup. how did you get to this point? I learned to just be present and comfortable. Particularly this. I get anxious and in my head and figuring out what to say next. How did you learn to be present/comfortable? | /r/seduction | 06/10/16 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Anyone here sober?This is awesome. Love your suggestions. | /r/seduction | 03/01/16 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here sober?Thanks, this is helpful. I guess I'm just tired of having to defend myself all the time. | /r/seduction | 02/01/16 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Anyone here sober?Serious question- how do you justify to people why you don't have a drink? I'm allergic to alcohol so I don't drink at all but when I'd go out to bars I'd always get shit from people for not drinking or not having a drink in hand. As a result, I've avoided bars completely. | /r/seduction | 02/01/16 06:40 PM |
| 35 | I'm a piece of shit, just turned 26 and still a virgin. I need some fucking help.Third, every time you leave the gym "anchor" that feeling of confidence. For instance, every time I have a good workout or do anything really good I touch a specific part of my forearm (you can do this anywhere). I've done this so many times that if I touch that part of my forearm, I'm immediately put into super state. Best piece of advice here. I need to start doing this. | /r/seduction | 16/12/15 09:43 PM |
| 2 | I need a world of help (26/M)Spend every there focusing on bettering your voice and speaking style. Not OP, but I'd be interested in some resources for working on my voice. Can you share some resources? | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Be real to Overcome Approach AnxietyI think many people in this sub understands the basic theory. It's the action part that's difficult. Like for myself, I want to be "real", but the reality is that in social situations, I freeze up often and can't think of anything to say. "They say whatever is in their mind" - my mind is literally frozen. I know I need to relax, and I'm working on it. But just saying, I don't know if many people here have as much of an issue understanding the concepts as it is actually implementing real change. | /r/seduction | 19/11/15 11:13 PM |
| 2 | What to do everyday to increase your self-confidenceI won't go as far as that other guy that said fuck your blog but I will say that this post seemed a bit fluffy. Summary: Every day, write down: * 5 things that make you awesome * 5 things you're grateful for * at the end of the day write down what you did today | /r/seduction | 14/11/15 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Wow. That's practically cartoon-like in its' effectiveness.cool, thanks! and congrats :) | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Wow. That's practically cartoon-like in its' effectiveness.can you elaborate a little more on what exactly you tweaked? was it everything or was it something in particular? | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 07:03 AM |
| 1 | I've been with over 80 women and I'm offering adviceGreat movie. | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 06:11 PM |
| 1 | 610 cold approaches. Personal PostI haven't done street approaches but I want to start based on your inspiring post. Thanks for all the tips man! | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 04:41 AM |
| 1 | 610 cold approaches. Personal PostIn the morning they are late to work, around lunch they are busy eating their lunch or they are with their coworkers and not want to be seen as sluts giving out their phone numbers, in the evening they are doing errands etc... those were my excuses when I first started. Damn. Well when you put it like that... yeah I guess then my question would just be how do you tell if someone is approachable or do you just not care and approach everyone regardless? So going home from metro + grocery shopping … | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 12:26 AM |
| 1 | 610 cold approaches. Personal Postthe best opportunities are right after work. Question on this part - I find that after work people are tired, doing errands, wanting to go home, etc. Where do you find the most receptivity after work? | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 09:48 PM |
| 4 | A Guide From Just a Random Guy on the Internetthank you for this. | /r/seduction | 24/06/15 12:46 AM |
| 1 | General question on long distance. I think I already know the answer.yeah you guys are right. i just need to get over it :) | /r/seduction | 22/01/14 10:38 PM |
| 1 | General question on long distance. I think I already know the answer.thanks, i appreciate the feedback/confirmation. | /r/seduction | 22/01/14 08:53 PM |
| 1 | [FR] first time out doing cold approaches.you're totally right. im still in my head way too much -- im happy that i am able to actually take the first step and approach but the AA def. isn't gone, just delayed so it's like "shit i've opened her. what do i do now?" | /r/seduction | 13/05/11 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Body language - a rather long guide.clarification: by belt loops do you mean behind the belt itself, or do you mean the loop on the jeans so your fingers would be in the loop between jeans and belt? | /r/seduction | 10/05/11 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Body language - a rather long guide.front pockets yes; you're closed off and protective. back pockets expand your chest. | /r/seduction | 10/05/11 04:00 AM |
| 1 | [FR] – HB 8.5+ opens Kumar to use to make ex boyfriend jealous. Kumar hooks HB 8.5 - Make out + # closegreat FR. kumar, you are the man. i've been meaning to join you guys sometime since i'm in the area (SJ represent!) but i'm a long ways away from you skill/experience-wise. | /r/seduction | 30/04/11 12:24 AM |
| 1 | How does a single, socially inexperienced male in his early twenties, with no dating experience, meet women?meetup.com is a great way to find people with common interests. | /r/seduction | 21/11/10 07:42 PM |
| 2 | inner game advice neededi think you forgot to mention reading the sidebar | /r/seduction | 21/11/10 07:39 PM |
| 4 | this is a really dumb hangup but...thanks, this is reassuring. | /r/seduction | 16/10/10 05:06 AM |
| 6 | Develop Your Personality Through Datingthis needs to be a sticky. | /r/seduction | 16/10/10 03:20 AM |
| 0 | Develop Your Personality Through Datingwhat the hell does this have to do with online dating | /r/seduction | 16/10/10 03:20 AM |
| 7 | Posture and presentation: Alexander Techniquecan someone upload the torrent onto a file hosting site for those of us that can't torrent? thanks. | /r/seduction | 17/09/10 03:39 AM |
| 18 | Big changes after AMOGing. I'm really amazed.What were the simple changes you made? And what are some of the ones that you still fuck up on? Tips on how to get started with the changes? | /r/seduction | 14/09/10 01:34 AM |
| 5 | Sedditor Locatorthis needs to be upvoted more. | /r/seduction | 16/08/10 01:50 PM |
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