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I know this is Seddit and I'm going to get downvoted, but... Someone who is genuinely busy will likely mention specific plans or reasons why they are busy (project a work, friend's birthday, etc.). I'm often "busy" and I like my time alone, but I will make time for someone I'm interested in. Rather than asking "are you cancelling because you're not interested?" I might say, "Since you're so busy, if you'd still like to do _____, why don't you pick the day/time?" When I'm on what I know is a good…
/r/seduction18/05/12 04:04 PM
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Make friends with people who attended school in/near the city you live in, since they know more people in the area and are more likely to have continued some of their college-partying ways. In DC, kickball is a great way to make friends with people who like to party.
/r/seduction18/05/12 03:56 PM
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TL;DR "Be Yourself" means "Put Your(best)self Out There."
/r/seduction16/05/12 10:19 PM
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I think she's implying that she'd like to go on an actual date, and wants you to suggest a plan.
/r/seduction03/05/12 03:32 PM
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I hope you have a related goal of having the girl still be really excited after the date is over.
/r/seduction02/05/12 06:48 PM
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Head on shoulder is only not an IOI if you're really good friends or the girl is generally a very affectionate person. If neither of those is true, it's an IOI.
/r/seduction02/05/12 04:49 PM
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But it does mean you might be in the other FZ, the fuck zone.
/r/seduction02/05/12 04:43 PM
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I don't think the statement about girls universally using emotions to make decisions is true. I know plenty of men who I would argue do the same; it really depends on personality. However, to the extent women are more in touch with their emotions because of how they're socialized, they may have learned that their feelings often have rational bases. Yes, women like it when guys they're in relationships with do nice things for them... but I don't understand how that means that women "think emotion…
/r/seduction01/05/12 06:52 PM
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Try asking r/dating_advice or r/OKCupid. Part of the problem is that a first date from online is your first in-person meeting; when you get a date meeting someone in-person, the girl already knows how attracted she is to you . Online dating is a bit of a mirage... maybe you both like Star Trek and Indie Rock, but you can't tell whether you can carry a conversation with them easily or if there's any attraction/chemistry until the first in-person meeting. Keep your first dates from online extremel…
/r/seduction01/05/12 03:08 PM
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This is true... to some extent. Women may put up some barriers if they're not certain and they think you're moving too fast, are way too eager, or think you only want them for a hookup. But most women figure out quickly that playing "hard to get" doesn't actually work that well.
/r/seduction30/04/12 08:08 PM
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One way to get around this problem is to ask her what her favorite bar / coffee shop is, and then say, let's do [insert a place she likes here].
/r/seduction30/04/12 04:27 PM
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Be confident; don't apologize, but poking fun at yourself (note the comments about being a Dungeon Master) doesn't hurt. Presumably, you'd be interested in a girl who was into your nerdiness... so don't hide it. Take pride in it.
/r/seduction30/04/12 04:22 PM
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I think what she said requires a translation: Treat her like a normal person - Attractive women are people too. Rather than trying to impress them or woo them, realize that they have stress, insecurities, sexual desires, etc. too. Hence, try to relate to them and treat them as other human beings rather than putting them on pedestals or acting like they're prizes to be won. If she's not interested in you, that's that - Don't waste your time chasing after women who aren't interested in you. A woma…
/r/seduction30/04/12 04:14 PM
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I have no ideas for you. I actually think PolishedIvory's advice is the most on the money. I've just gotten really sick of telling people what I do (because law firms are killjoys) and I usually make up something ridiculous.
/r/seduction13/04/12 02:41 PM
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You need to try meeting nerd girls. They exist. I swear, they do.
/r/seduction12/04/12 09:04 PM
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If she's talking to you, trust me, she's in your league.
/r/seduction12/04/12 07:31 PM
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It's funny, but I think the ensuing awkward silence is a good reason not to make that joke.
/r/seduction12/04/12 06:45 PM
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I think you're actually pretty cute, so if you want to go to the gym, etc. that's fine, but it shouldn't be your biggest priority. Work on your wardrobe, keep making friends (having female friends especially will give you confidence with approaching women) and working on your social skills. If women are giving you their numbers, it means that they're interested in getting to know you better, but in a college setting dating isn't really how you get to know people; if you're interested in someone,…
/r/seduction12/04/12 03:51 PM
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A lot of women will only begin to reciprocate either (a) in private; (b) once you've had sex; (c) once they've let their guard down, possibly because they've come to the conclusion that you don't just want them for sex. Lots of physical contact from a woman on a first date means either that's she's a master seductress, wants to sleep with you, or has low self-esteem.
/r/seduction12/04/12 03:41 PM
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"I entertain nerds for a living." "I'm a stand-up comedian, which is how I cover up my con artistry."
/r/seduction12/04/12 03:36 PM
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"I'm a reverse stripper ... people pay me to take off their clothes." "I'm like Dr. House... in the sense that I'm actually a cripple. ... No? You can't tell?"
/r/seduction12/04/12 03:32 PM
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...You can't decode this girl, you can either keep fruitlessly pursuing her or just ignore her further advances.
/r/seduction12/04/12 03:26 PM
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I think you could spin it in a humorous way. "I help billionaires cheat on their taxes for a living." "I break hearts and sell souls. I'm an accountant." "...I'm actually a stripper... put a $100 bill in my bra sometime and we'll see what it gets you."
/r/seduction12/04/12 03:23 PM
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