Plus women can try to trap a man with a kid. This creates resentment in the relationship when you find out this happens. Heck after one of my ex's broke up with me I found out through a mutual friend she has stopped taking her birth control the last few months of the relationship to force the issue of marriage. She only broke up with me instead because a co-worker talked her out of it.
the weird thing for me during my tinder days is there was plenty of women would have had sex with me, but they would have never been my first choice to have sex with. I don't doubt women have become more selective but I'm also wondering of some guys did too.
I hear you on this. I was amazed how many girls back in the AIM days were willing to have sex really quickly. Looking back now I can't believe how fearless they were. No one seemed to be scared to bill murdered like you see now. It was much easier to hide it then it is now as well. Smartphones and social media changed that big time.
this reminds me of an article on bad advice cosmopolitan gives women. It stated that according to cosmo anytime your man tries to better himself (eating better, working out, dressing better, ect) it's sign he's cheating on you. So Cosmo was selling dread game for us.