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The worrying part is that communication is becoming some sort of pandora's box. Communication is what keeps individual's perception of the world synchronized, but in the age of the liberal sexual market people seem to be more worried about losing value.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:46 PM
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Haven't heard that perspective before, but everyone wholeheartedly agreeing with you means I'm probably confused. I've seen the term used in DIY/craft communities when women present work they did for their boyfriend. As I understood it, it is seen as genuine appreciation that they'd create something amazing for their SO. That's something different than the red pill context I reckon?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:48 PM
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You think only women trade up? No, I don't. I like the term "trading up", and if that's your term for what others call "monkey branching" we are in agreement. The disagreement is that I find "trading up" evil (in either gender) where you don't seem to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:41 AM
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She is not leaving because she is happy but she will a tad more happy with a new guy. She is leaving because the incumbent is no longer meeting her needs. How is this different to a guy finding out he can land a younger/more beautiful woman and then dumping his previous partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:18 AM
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It works for both genders. A friend monkey branched away from a bad woman because he didn't have the guts to end it when it was too much for him. And even though the woman was terrible, she is right to blame him for the unnecessary hurt of being instantly replaced. Pretending to still be in a relationship when you're clocked out is shit behavior. And I personally don't think shit behavior is justified by shittier behavior of other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:12 AM
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no one had a problem with young women adopting " Bad bitch" mentality it's just their version of the same machismo you had in male hip hop before. IMO neither are good role models.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:42 AM
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It seems contradicting to seek exclusivity from someone who enjoys casual sex a lot. That rule seems like a gotcha you can hit her with when she becomes unhappy and/or unfaithful. An open relationship or going for someone who wants exclusivity seems like the more stable option. But drawing an analogy to the "plate, fwb, exclusivity" progression, there is a pretty masculine thing you can do for the last step of the "flirt, date, relationship" progression. If you know she is ready but doesn't brin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:04 PM
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Children are much, much cheaper than retirees, who also consume resources without contributing to the economy. Children can easily roommate with their parents and need less individual space. The cost of medication and doctors of a retired person is a lot more than any material needs of a kid. Lower birthrate leads to scenarios where a few decades later, a larger fraction of the population is retired. This is a big problem in countries like Japan and Germany. You can play around here: https://ser…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:22 PM
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https://xkcd.com/632/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:27 PM
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I can totally see how even a moderately rich guy can only choose between a desperate woman and a whore if he has a really terrible attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:44 PM
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If person A has that mentality, you won't convince them. You have to convince the person they love, B, that it's fine to require exclusivity in a relationship. If B doesn't want A to sleep around, they should end the relationship, plain and simple. A can also decide whether conforming to B's need for exclusivity out of love for them is more important than their freedom to have sex with other people. Poly people and some bi couples (and even straight couples) allow that, not everyone requires exc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:01 PM
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who the hell cries on a first date? I once had the glorious idea that french onion soup would be a great thing to cook together on a first date. It is not. It turns out, you need to cut a lot of onions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:59 AM
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Meet different women, and if possible do it irl. Many more signals to confirm how close you are and their current mood. And don't overshare. If you want reassurance from a woman, talk to 60+ yo ladies. Most 20-25 yo women have too much going on in their mind to be "welcoming" to some random dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:55 AM
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What baffles me is that a shit load of the guies will actually go for it if they didn't get anything "better" at the end of the night. That's how sexually starved some single men are. Many men don't need an emotional connection to fuck, and some even pay prostitutes for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:25 AM
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It's strange, your explanation should have the opposite effect for the criterion "had at least one child", compared to the "ideal" assumption of having only one partner for the entire life. One opportunity for a woman to be a mother, but two for men to be a father. That said, the numbers 70/40 seem a bit off, until age 49 its more like 55/45 (Table 1): https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr179.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:07 AM
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The EU puts so much money into connecting their youngsters, doing an exchange is mostly a bureaucracy challenge rather than a gamble. Yes you have dedicated language exchanges from which more women profit because they tend to be the majority in language courses, but it makes sense since beside the common benefits of exchanges there is also an intrinsic benefit (practicing the language in a natural environment) compared to doing a semester of math in a different country. That said, things do seem…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:28 AM
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Okay, some suggestions that may help you in your confusion: when cold approaching, always have a graceful exit prepared and be ready to take it at any time things go south. women come in different flavors and even if they are individually consistent with their advice, asking different women will yield contradictions. So keep your approach open and find out which flavor you are dealing with before jumping to conclusions. cold approach is hard to learn. If reading strangers isn't really a thing yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:06 PM
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You are talking about communication. I am capable of that, and specifically asked about addressing the need for venting to regain inner calmness. Sometimes when I am alone and happy, I smile or hum a tune. Or when I am alone and sad, I cry. I don't do that because I want to communicate my feelings to someone or improve the situation with a problem-solving mindset, I do it to release them. And I am looking for healthy ways to do that with anger that does not involve making other people feel like …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:13 PM
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Because I would posit that if you're expressing anger in a way that scares people, you probably AREN'T doing it "right". There is two needs that are met in expressing emotions, one is communicating the emotion to other people and another is to release inner stress. Do you have some recommendations that take the edge off, i.e. the venting part of expression? Giving the big metal bin at work a kick and yell works great, but that's only an option for after office hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:29 PM
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I mean, my five year old phone has a skin youngification filter that was on by default, in the default camera app. Never noticed it until a friend with bad skin pointed it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:21 PM
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Why should someone be stuck in a mediocre marriage with you? I mean, a mediocre marriage could still be an okay deal for a woman who really wants kids but can't find a good father for them, no? Sure, not for every women out there and if the freedom of being single is more desirable to you, you should stick to that. Noone should marry someone without being convinced it's a good decision for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:44 AM
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Reminds me of good, married men who really can't be bothered to prioritize their kids or learn housekeeping basics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:27 PM
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Tragedy of the commons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:46 PM
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Lots of work to answer your question[1], so I only throw in that there is a correlation between body height and earnings: The researchers found that on an average an increase in height by one inch at age 16 increased male adult wages by 2.6 percent. This is equal to an increase of approximately $850 in 1996 annual earnings (or $1,590 today). https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Height_discrimination#Employment_wage_and_social_experience_discrimination [1]: Research team of 50+ people and 5 years at lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:33 PM
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Ah, the good ol' "X is bad, but if other people do it and profit from it, it's okay to do it as well".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:12 PM
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It is a big deal, but it's a distraction. Life's other bounties are ready to be plucked, there is plenty of value in community and creation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:46 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chronophilia Here is some data which suggests that the median preferred age is in the mid-late 20s. There is clearly an interest in mid- and post-pubescent girls, but not by "most" men. Also note that p*dophilia is is the technical term for sexual attraction/fixation towards pre-pubescent children, up to age 13.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:08 PM
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If being single is not "a life worth living", you should work on that. A relationship is not the solution. You are just handing away control over your situation to a different person who has their own motivations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:08 AM
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The sane ones typically dislike dealing with inexperience in their relationship and having to "teach" a lot. They make great friends though and will give you good insight, honest opinions and the odd girl secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:29 PM
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You CAN'T. It doesn't matter anyways! If he was lying, getting rid of them is the adult thing to do as opposed to wasting your energy in immature shithead contest revenge bullshit. If he was just insecure, good fucking job you just double-crossed a honest soul. Prime wife material. Just.. end it if you feel anxious about it. And accept the consequences like an adult who is ready for marriage would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:23 AM
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Then decide if that works for you and be true to that. When you are "finding your husband", you made the decision but are not true to that, because you want your cake and eat it too. Exactly what OP is criticizing in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:35 PM
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But this is the same attitude you are criticizing! If marrying is really important to you and your boyfriend doesn't want to, you should break up with them! Don't seek for an opportunity behind their back. Or tell him you can continue dating but you'll be looking for someone to marry. Or do you think "don't let your girlfriend stop you from finding your wife" would be a good advice for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:14 PM
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As for monkey branching, men are usually the ones to leave female partners for younger/prettier women, or that has been what I've observed This is exciting, we have completely different experiences! In my social circles, which is educated people in their 20s and 30s, it's more often women leaving men, and coincidentally it is always during a time where she reaches a milestone in her career that puts her on the same step or too much ahead of their boyfriend/husband. I do have more guy friends, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:06 PM
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Would she place you as high as you place her. Many men put women way too high on their priority list early on. Some may let them fall the longer the relationship goes. For women it's common to do it the other way around. Kids kick the man down a lot though because they take a lot of energy and women are biologically programmed to highly prioritize theirs. Also, you will feel all sacrifices you make to prioritize someone else, but are probably unaware of all sacrifices others make for you. And yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:54 AM
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Kids, fewer options, loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 02:27 PM
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Minor nitpick: Engineering IS figuring out actionable tasks and strategies to solve a towering problem. Civil engineer gets the task "build a bridge", and he will figure out actionable tasks for the construction crew and use strategies that worked in the past or adjust strategies if they don't work in the situation. Software engineer will get the task "make software that does X" and he writes actionable tasks for the code monkeys. That said, I agree with your sentiment that many men work best wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:47 PM
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https://www.datingadvice.com/online-dating/dating-sites-with-the-most-users eHarmony seems to be a big one based on personality test with 37m users compared to tinder's 530m. I think 37m people is still a number one can work with :) So it's basicly the first date you figure it out. Yeah, that's true for all OLD though. "personality test compatibility" is just an alternative to "you both like each other's pictures and witty line" or "you selected this and are that, they selected that and are this…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:29 PM
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What about OLD that isn't Tinder and the like? Like, pay to access and long questionnaires so an algorithm can generate matches on compatibility. That's way too much effort for people who are looking for casual sex. Not sure if they are still popular. https://www.wired.com/2014/01/how-to-hack-okcupid/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 10:44 AM
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Yeah, I don't think a few generations are enough to completely eradicate a custom that has been there for thousands of years. I read the matchmaking section of a 1930s newspaper, it was basically all about rich women looking for an educated/learned man to make something out of her money (or continue her father's business) and broke learned men looking for women with money they could start a business with. However, I think men are also hypergamous - just in a different way. Yes. There are article…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 10:31 AM
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Keep in mind that in linguistics, there are often no clear definitions, and they may change over time. If your dictionary has a very narrow definition, here are some dictionaries where "dominate" is defined with several nuanced meanings, and each of them contains one that applies to interpersonal relationships and does not require an action: https://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/english/dominate https://www.wordnik.com/words/dominate https://www.britannica.com/dictionary/dominate "havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:46 PM
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"Attract", "charm", "intimidate", "disgust" are verbs that don't require an action by the subject. They all have an adjective with roles of object and subject reversed. Elsa disgusts John, John is disgusted by Elsa.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:34 PM
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If it's a starter relationship, don't go for "living together". Especially if you have attachment issues. I mean, what's gonna happen when you have some bad days, you kick your partner out because you need your home for yourself? Start slow and keep your separate lives, and focus on how you can arrange yourself with having someone important in your life, how to deal with their schedule, and their and your moods.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:41 AM
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The issue is trust. And I don't think controlling other people is a good solution. I don't want access to my partner's phone, I want to feel like I don't need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:06 AM
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Yes, the sharp decline puts men and women back to the same level, until old age takes away men first, leaving a lot of single ladies. Some notes about the three reasons: Young people don't date early in life: I'd say there is definitely a difference between male and female here, otherwise it you wouldn't use it as an explanation for the disparency :) Older men approach younger women, inviting them earlier to the dating scene and giving them a headstart. This is a problem because the dating pool …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:08 PM
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Here's a study with that number for that age group. I'd like to point out that there are many men who are only in single male circles and also many men who don't even have any circles at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:46 AM
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Would you say this applies the same for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:57 AM
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The biggest issue are "men who cannot control their temper". These guys usually don't care about a random guy, even when they are drunk and even if you are drunk. You got a woman like that at your side though, possibly one who flirted with the aggressive man before? Oooh no, gotta go full ape mode to show your potential mate you are the biggest and baddest gorilla in the jungle and to make the rival seek other hunting grounds. So, what can a man do to avoid that bullshit? They can't control how …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:26 PM
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Some secure several options, while each guy thinks they will score. Doesn't have to be you who can't handle the disappointment, jealousy or alcohol to get caught in a fight. Even worse when they have a boyfriend who thinks it's your fault for making out with a solo flirty girl who never even mentioned being there with her boyfriend. Probably some sort of foreplay for angry sex they both enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:48 PM
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Ah, you were referring to men who struggle to get convos in online dating. I don't think good looking high status men really have this problem. Online Dating has overtaken every other ways of meeting a partner. True. However, I do not think it's necessarily the better dating experience or the quality of resulting partnerships that made online dating successful. Rather, it's more comfortable to use than conventional dating, has a low barrier of entry and promises access to many more potential par…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:25 PM
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Making people who are indifferent about interacting with you interact with you is a social skill you can learn as well. You can tell a random person at the grocery store you want to try something new, which soda/beer/.. do they recommend. Complimenting a nice jacket/pair of shoes and asking where they got it is also a great interaction starter. Practice that a bit, get comfortable talking to strangers, and if you have good vibes with someone maybe even ask them about their interests etc. Sooner …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:45 PM
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Offline dating will always remain as an option and is not devalued by the existence of online dating. Women that are online dating will not categorically reject offline approaches, and you also get women who would love to get asked out but don't use online dating for various reasons. Considering how miserable online dating is for women aswell, I'd argue a good cold approach generates even more interest nowadays. When she's using online dating, from her point of view she is picking you; if you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:42 PM
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That was definitely a big issue when I got interested in women. I befriended an experienced man and he happily questioned my prejudices and sharpened my senses to positive signals. This changed my point of view completely and I found myself surrounded with opportunities in my daily life. I moved my goal from "getting into a relationship" to "learning how to approach women", as a puzzle to figure out. I played out scenarios in my head and how to defuse any unpleasant situation. Putting the theory…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:01 PM
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