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If the subscriptions are tied to her email, you don’t truly control anything, you’re just funding it. I would cancel the payment method, let the services lapse, and recreate the accounts under your email with your recovery info. It’s the cleanest way to reset ownership without drama. You’ll spend 10 minutes rebuilding things, but you’ll own everything going forward.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/25 11:48 AM
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Unfortunately I don't think there's a way besides starting over clean with her own accounts.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/25 12:37 AM
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No worries, by "accounts" do you mean the Kindle or are you talking beyond, including other Amazon linked devices? With the Kindle specifically I don't know of a way to break off the family link and retain your own specific library. She'll have to start over from scratch.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 07:50 PM
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You can’t technically “split” Kindle libraries... purchases stay tied to the account that bought them. The cleanest move is to each create your own Amazon account, then use "Amazon Family" to share Kindle content short-term while you sort things out. You can download anything important to your device before removing access... once the link’s broken, so is the library. Hope that helps!
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 03:09 PM
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Those are great points, there are multiple layers to address (financial, digital, and physical). Just make sure any steps you take, like freezing accounts or changing access, won’t raise legal flags later. Treat it like a risk-management plan, protect yourself without triggering unnecessary fallout.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 11:47 AM
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I don’t have a specific brand to recommend, however, I use Google products. Smart-home devices can record or stay connected after a breakup. There’ve been cases where exes still controlled thermostats or cameras remotely. You should factory reset and re-link devices when living situations change. For location sharing, you should review who has access and set apps to “only while using.” That limits how often your location is visible.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 02:02 AM
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/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 01:38 AM
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You can use a tool like Optery (what I use) or DeleteMe, etc. Or you can manually go through the brokers and request removal yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 01:28 AM
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There's multiple things here so I broke them out: 1️⃣ If she still has that Apple ID, she’s got a spare key, she can potentially use "Find My", see backups, or restore your data. Even without the password, an old device can potentially stay signed in and sync data or get 2FA codes. 2️⃣ If your son’s still on her shared AppleID or Family plan, she ultimately controls service permissions, app access, and settings. You could give him his own Roblox account and his own AppleID. 3️⃣ Back up what you …
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 01:15 AM
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Mods have already approved the AMA, so all good. I’m here answering questions, I'm not selling anything.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/25 11:20 PM
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That's a way to preserve a peace of mind!
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/25 11:18 PM
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Man, sorry to hear that. Sounds like you're bouncing back strong! As for the tech/cyber world, doing Network+ first is a GREAT foundation, that's essentially where I started 15 years ago. I had gotten my A+ a couple months prior but same difference, it was a game changer to understand how everything connects/works. Security+ is a solid next step, after that you can explore the domain that speaks to you and/or go after CISSP, if you've been doing security in your roles, you may meet the yrs exper…
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/25 11:02 PM
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Makes sense, a lot of people miss how much those devices can expose once things go sideways. That’s usually where the biggest risks hide.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/25 03:37 AM
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That’s exactly the kind of situation I help people prevent. Smart-home devices like Alexa, cameras, or shared Wi-Fi can keep old access active after separation. Part of what I do is guide people through locking that down the right way so there aren’t any leftover access points.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/25 03:17 AM
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Damn, that’s wild!! perfect example of why digital boundaries matter during a split.
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/25 11:01 PM
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Yeah, exactly this. I see it all the time, people don’t realize how much access an ex still has through everyday stuff like email, Amazon, iCloud, Alexa, even utilities or insurance accounts. That’s why I made the one-page tip sheet that’s attached here. Most of the mess happens after separation just because old access never gets fully shut down!
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/25 02:46 PM
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