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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Paternity test? | f-this-im-out | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/24 01:55 AM | |
| 3 | Finding a divorce attorney? | f-this-im-out | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/23 02:21 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 33 | She Plotted“Men will sacrifice their feelings for their family, women will sacrifice their family for their feelings” For a long time I thought “that quote is not about my wife”. Then it happened to me. Then I paid more attention to other divorces, and other relationships. Now I believe that quote is as close to universal as you can get. Once I realized that’s just how women operate and stopped trying to understand what/where I went wrong, things got a lot easier. Peace came much more easily. You have a lo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/25 01:22 PM |
| 6 | Is it worth getting married?There is no reason to invite the government into your personal relationship. There is zero upside for the high earner. I used to belive that getting married was the right thing to do if you want to start a family, now I’ve come to realize you can have a family with out marriage and very little actually changes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/24 10:14 PM |
| 13 | Getting out there…Separated for 1 year. Near zero interest in women. There are days I think I’d like to go find some action, but it’s super easy to talk myself out of that and just stick to my peaceful existence. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 12:13 AM |
| 17 | What did you learn the hard way from your marriage and divorce experience?Don’t stick your dick in crazy, and if you do, don’t marry it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/24 01:30 AM |
| 1 | What songs helped you ?Where it ends. Not the best song but the lyrics said what I needed to hear. https://youtu.be/WVh073Yujmo | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/24 03:18 AM |
| 14 | When to go full burn the world down…When I was considering going scorched earth my lawyer asked me this question and it gave me some perspective. “Do you hate her more than you love your kids?” Do the best you can for your kids, even if it means she “wins” on some of the things that you feel are a loss. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/24 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Buying Second house prior to filingRead up on "free trader agreement". That's the way to protect your interest in a new property while still married. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/24 02:46 PM |
| 3 | Not having second thoughtsWhy are divorces so expensive? Because they are worth it. That expense is more than money. There's emotional expense, there's guilt expense, there's the expense of wading into the unknown, etc, etc. I waited too long and "pussed out" so many times. I'm two months into living in my own place now. I'm not going to tell you it was easy getting here, but I will certainly tell you that it was worth every bit of hardship, pain, and expense to get here. Like you I was with someone with clear personalit… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/24 11:18 AM |
| 2 | Survival ModeHobbies were one of the many casualties of the failing marriage, I gave up on the things I liked such jeeping/offroading, camping, shooting. I tried to focus on the family and the wife, and set aside the things that made only me happy. (Huge mistake in hindsight). Now I work, do my best with the kids, and work out/hike local trails. Really gun shy about spending money right now to pick those things back up, hoping to start small and ease back in. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/11/23 07:27 PM |
| 5 | Survival ModeAny tips on how to “build the tribe”? (45 years old) I lost a lot of “friends” through my own withdrawal while the marriage was bad, and even more after everyone chose sides during separation and divorce. Really struggling to build back a social circle now. I have tons of excuses as to why I’m struggling, but I honestly am just not sure how to start. I don’t drink so bars and the usual public social gathering places are kinda out. The places I go on the regular aren’t really conducive to casual … | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/11/23 07:05 PM |
| 6 | Requesting early payment.When I hear about stuff like this, I can’t help but think “you wanted to be divorced, that means you handle your shit yourself now”. I know this doesn’t apply to everyone’s situation, but damn. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/07/23 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Finding a divorce attorney?What’s the alternative? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/23 03:45 AM |
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