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18	My Wife Is In A Coma Stay strong and feel the way you want to. None of us are in your shoes. As a decent human being - irrespective of intent of divorce / separation - you spent a good number of years together. Even if things weren’t amicable - it’s ok to still feel emotions. Be kind to yourself and whatever you need to do for her - then do that. Some will say - wow that’s great you don’t have to do the divorce if she passes away… that’s just being crass and inhumane. Stay strong and do what you think is right for y…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/10/24 01:35 PM
3	Unmarried Young man Needing advice Read no further - this is the best and only best answer there is.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/09/24 03:19 PM
1	Unmarried Young man Needing advice Look into establishing irrevocable trusts for each kid and shovel a ton of cash away for them too. Make it that they can’t touch it except for certain milestones EG: college tuition, life altering illness/disease, whatever. Make the trustee someone that you have 99.5% faith in that administers the trust prior to each child reaching the stipulated age. You can also make the ages higher than 18 and add triggers for milestones or events. There’s lots of legal creativity a good family, estate, asset…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/09/24 03:18 PM
3	Did you see red flags in your inlaws, specifically your ex-MIL? So my own parents - well it took me 47 years to realize they left good and bad impressions. I have to own that part. MIL - total witch. Spent every dime my FIL earned. Had to have the latest x. Starbucks 2 to 3 times a day. Didn’t accept the wife as her own. (Wife was step daughter). FIL didn’t stand up to MIL or defend the wife. FIL was divorced from wife’s biological mother. Bio mother was a nut job herself. FIL was still making house calls and hotel calls with bio mother. BIL was an addict th…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/24 07:24 PM
2	My ex-wife is demanding half the proceeds from the sale of our house, even though she made no financial contributions to the purchase or maintenance of the property. Our marriage was nullified after less than three years. Do I have to give her half? To cut to the chase - get a lawyer consult asap. Every state is different. Every situation is different in some way. Protect yourself now and get this ironed out. Weirdly enough, if you delay things, if in fact you’d owe her from the house, the cost will most likely continue to add up on your end due to the broken and tilted racket of it all.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/09/23 12:09 PM
0	It finally clicked Just a different thought - all good advice above indeed - but essentially thru this you’ve confirmed to yourself you are a good person, you have emotions, and nonetheless - you still extended an olive branch when someone else needed it. Would you have done the same thing for another friend male or female facing a “struggle”? The ultimate victory is showing the other person you didn’t change for the worse and you remained true to yourself. Being kind in the face of your “enemy” says more about yo…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/02/23 11:44 AM

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