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f3yleaf/r/MensRights12/07/14 10:12 PM
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All the incels ive known started out as hopeless romantics, one guy I know later became very shallow and superficial tho. I never met an incel irl who started out being superficial and just wanting sex, but they all develop an unhealthy fixation on physical intimacy at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 05:13 PM
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If I ever became single again I would only date girls who were atleast bi-curious ;) But I worked hard to put myself in a position where I have options, alot of blood, sweat and tears. Pretty and sexy kinda related but not the same thing, my ex is more pretty than my gf, but definately not as sexy, unless you are a total trainwreck you can get pretty far in the relationship department by being awesome, and even then you could get lucky and meet the right guy at the right time in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 09:40 PM
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Be: fun/sweet/charming/sexy/healthy/intelligent/positive/bisexual. Looks are important but TRP does exaggerate it a bit imho, guys generally do care about other things besides looks, not career and social status but other things, maybe not as much for a ONS but definately for FWB or LTR. Fun hb4 > Boring hb6 Or you could be a cliché and get pregnant with a guy who will happily fuck you but would not be caught dead walking down the street in his home town holding hands with you, and then get some…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 09:22 PM
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Make the best of what they got, take it to the fucking limit. Alot of less physically attractive people SHOULD reproduce, but as it stands with human nature and society, super intelligent nerds are more likely to pass on their genes by hitting the gym than by reading another book, sad but true, nature does not give a fuck about modern high-tech society or space travel. I sometimes feel like we are living in the movie 'Idiocracy'.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 09:06 PM
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Because gay men generally do not feel they are competing against women sexually(women have a greater sexual fluidity) And men lack the in-group preference that women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 03:17 PM
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Cant really compare it tho, political lesbianism goes way beyond not wanting to marry or co-habitate with men, we are talking SCUM manifesto type shit from what ive seen, being MGTOW is more a practical choice, its a different personal strategy in dealing with the same red pill essentially, its about opting out, any societal change it may at some point promote is secondary, its largely apolitical. Rejecting marriage is simply common sense for most men in the west tho? And from what ive seen many…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 03:01 PM
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Because she is a sexist bigot and probably a crazy person? Asking someone like Bindel about gender equality would be like asking Joseph Goebbels about racial equality.. literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 01:39 PM
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A feminist calling me ignorant is kinda like a creationist calling me irrational, not being educated on(or disagreeing with) a particular belief system does not make me ignorant about anything aside from maybe that particular subjective belief system. I dont really care what people who's world view I dont share think I sound like, never have, never will :) That does not mean I have to disagree with such people on everything tho, for example I largely disagree with communists but I am in favor of…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 01:06 PM
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Most average guys have the potential to be hot imo, most below average guys have the potential to be above average atleast. But its hard to tell with obese people, who knows whats hiding under all that blubber, probably plenty of unattractive fat guys who have the potential to be 9/10, the only thing people really cant change is height and face structure(without surgery).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 12:20 PM
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Some of the points there are literally blackmail/threats tho, or someone abusing the fact that their partner is "damaged goods" or brainwashed by culture/religion, which is obviously horrible. I never claimed it was a black/white issue, obviously truly abusive relationships exist, but most are mutually abusive unhealthy relationships. Threatening to leave a relationship is NOT enherently abusive, I stayed in a bad relationship way too long once because my self-esteem was low and she was very dep…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 11:32 AM
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If its done as a kind of twisted mind-game then its abuse, if its an actual ultimatum its not, no one is entitled to be in a relationship with someone else. As for the guilt-tripping ive only ever seen girls do this, but im sure some guys do it too, if a guy called nagging and pouting violent emotional abuse he would(and should) be laughed out of the room, but im sure women could find a sympathetic ear if her man does not let her manipulate him or if he acted cold/negative in any way towards her…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 05:53 PM
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I seriously doubt that, im pretty smart ;) Going by that chart most women are violently abusive without knowing it(mindgames, guilt, responsibility shifting, controlling what he/she does etc.) Judging by the syntax errors(lack of spacing) the author was either not very smart or didnt care enough to proof-read. edit: But I dont call things like that violent abuse, I call them shit-tests or in some cases just normal female behavior, which I guess is me being violently dismissive lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 04:07 PM
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Also the nature vs nurture thing, saying its 50/50 is pretty generous towards the nurture side imo. But alot of post-modernist hacks go as far as denying nature all together, which is ideologically motivated crazyness that is just as bad as religious fundies denying evolution. Again motivated by an ideology more concerned with how things "should" be than how things are, and more concerned about what is "correct" than about what is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 03:31 PM
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And some bp guys are probably being convinced they are abusive when they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 03:09 PM
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According to that most women are "abusive" to a degree in long term relationships, unless the man prevents it... by being "abusive" lol. Threatening to leave the relationship or making her(not him/her in this case.. wonder why?) feel guilty = violence lmao, its an insult to people who have experienced actual violence. Ive only been involved with one woman who did not play "abusive" mindgames to some degree, OMG epidemic of female on male sexual violence lol. edit: also "male priviledge" lol edit…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 03:04 PM
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Ive always thought about bp as more about looking at the world and acting according to how things "should" be, or blindly accepting the mainstream narrative about romance and gender. Where rp is more like critically examining reality, possibly with a little pessimism, and finding "should" irelevant. "Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." (Albert Einstein)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 01:49 PM
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Yeah its totally counter productive, fucking me is the only way she can keep me from being with other girls. Good sex will make me lose interest in other girls, my currect girlfriend won me over by making other girls seem annoying and boring in comparison, she did this by being positive and fun, not nagging/shit-testing and initiating sex alot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 01:22 PM
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"Really getting to know a woman is a long process, but it always starts with sex."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 01:00 PM
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Get your mind out of the gutter dude lol wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 03:01 PM
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Nope, not at all. I dont mix sexual strategy with politics or vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 01:47 PM
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Blackpillers make me sad, that guy could go pretty far by shaving his head, hitting the gym, dropping the self-pity and getting basic game.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 01:37 PM
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TRP is for adults, Basic redpill knowledge (especially in regards to girls) is something any teenage guy can benefit from, never too early to break free from post-modernist bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 01:29 PM
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You choose associate with those who do. Fuck guilt by association. stop trying to avoid accountability for saying shitty things. Fuck "accountability" for speech/thoughts, dont like then dont listen, maybe rebut if you want. I do agree that there is too much angry/bitter/useless stuff on TRP, but some of it makes me smile/laugh or pisses off the right people so its all good, alot of TRP'ers should re-read Meditations/Aurelius, they are hurting their own progress with pointless negativity, yes mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 12:15 PM
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"For women, 'romance' means steamy sex."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 05:08 PM
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Yeah, below average guys are screwed, some may be able to find a girlfriend at some point, but none of them will be having any casual sex. Simply because female landwhales will much rather share a stud with a chubby fetish with 5 other girls than bang any guy close to their own league, alot of guys(if not most) will unapologetically have no-strings-attached sex with girls they would not be caught dead walking down the street holding hands with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 04:07 PM
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I "cured" two friends who were incel's, its a very real thing, and its usually pretty intelligent guys who are stuck in a "should" mentality, as in girls should like me for who I am, girls should be attracted to intelligence, sophistication and things that are good for society, I should never ever make girls feel uncomfortable etc. Most are just misled by mainstream "romance" bullshit and are too nice for their own good I think. The cure in the two cases I have experience with was hitting the gy…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 03:40 PM
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Its a alot easier for me to get with mid 20s girls now than it was when I was in my mid 20s myself. Im a shitload more confident, ive become wealthy, I learned a 4th language and a ton of other things, I have time to work out, and im no longer a total fuckup but still a bit of a douchebag. Also having very young girls becoming totally infatuated with me in a hobby social-circle, that shit did not happind when I was younger, the only real issue is venue restriction, having to be in groups with a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 12:35 PM
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Roosh is a joke. Males are not sluts, it really is a gendered word(can a man not be a "Dog"?), but I could find plenty of perjoratives to describe Roosh that are worse than slut :) I did not say anything general about men who has to resort to pro's or just do it for fun sometimes because they can afford it, I have no issue with pro's or their customers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 04:19 PM
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Kinda, but in reality the male social equivalent of slut is more like "creep who cant get laid". Its ying/yang. edit:I guess you could call a whoremonger going to thailand a male slut maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 02:04 PM
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Yep im very liberal, but collectivism and subjective morality has no place is sexual strategy. Like many liberals I despise post-modernist progressive bullshit, im definately left-wing on economics and a big believer in equality of oppotunity tho. These days more liberal often equals less progressive, being an empiricist and free-speech absolutist for example makes me a liberal but not a progressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 12:48 PM
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If a woman is with a guy who is significantly higher smv than her she will just as horny as the horniest of guys. Its not really about sex drive as much as its about partner selection, women biologically have had to be more picky, since pregnancy was risky and they had to make sure they had the right sperm getting them pregnant because of both risk and time/energy investment, men are biologically less picky because they can impregnate multible women without that risk/investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 12:38 PM
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Nope, totally serious. There is no gender symmetry there, only harsh bio-truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 12:24 PM
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"Being a slut is easy, Being a stud is hard"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 12:16 PM
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There is no problem, there is adaptation and self-interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 12:01 PM
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Hypocrisy is irellevant to TRP, its purely selfish and machiavellian, Its not about making society better, fuck society. Its about individual men getting what they want, "should" is irellevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 12:00 PM
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Nah, the male equivalent of slut is "creep who cant get laid"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 11:57 AM
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So we agree then. edit: also Ron Jeremy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 03:51 PM
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I agree 100% with what you say, except that there ARE actually outliers, but they are obviously very rare and can in practice be ignored in regards to smp strategy. Im long past listening to what women say they want lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 02:58 PM
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For sjw's its not about what is true, its about what is "correct".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 01:17 PM
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The pimp is a relative recent phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 01:11 PM
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"Should" is irellevant, its up to the individual guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 01:10 PM
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Europe is different, especially southern Europe, An assertive masculine left-winger would be destroyed on a Canadian campus I think, especially if he slept with some girl a disabled POC lesbian had a crush on lol(obviously kinda joking, but he would not last long, progressive stack and all). He is one instance of making sexual advances towards(or not wanting commitment with) the wrong girl away from becoming a social outcast and a "toxic masculinist".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 01:02 PM
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Plenty of left-wing guys think feminism is retarded. You dont have to be a marxist to be left wing, In fact if you are a democratic-socialist or liberal you should despise communism just as much as you despise fascism. Equality of oppotunity and equality under the law is great, the notion of equality of outcome is fucking cancer tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 12:51 PM
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Ive seen the opposite in action, with above average guys settling for low SMV girls because they have really bad game and spent too much time putting themselves down instead of taking chances with girls. Ive also seen plenty of low SMV couples seeming really happy and who are having great relationships and probably having alot of good sex. Average guys often approach below average girls in my experience, its one of the problems below average guys have, this is especially evident on sex-dating si…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 11:55 AM
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Outliers are real, but I dont think there are any female outliers that are attracted to self-pity lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 11:47 AM
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Sometimes prostitutes really like their job, sometimes not so much. If you think the average pro doesnt care about what client she is meeting as long as she gets paid you are mistaken. I dont know about MrsPound, but I know former pro who really enjoyed sex with some of her clients and disliked servicing others, If you are an slightly attractive and charming guy you WILL get better service from the average pro than if you are a slob.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 11:39 AM
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His mentality is a sign of his genetic inferiority, alot more than his looks, height or whatever. I feel less sorry for him than I do for misguided "nice guys". Also that guy should really concider TRT.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 11:28 AM
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I agree, any nerdy teenage guy should read "Book of Pook". But should stay far away from most commercial pickup, I dont think Seddit is very good, there is alot of dumb shit and misinformation that inexperienced guys cant filter out, Reading thru the SoSuave forums is a better idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 01:08 AM
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Positive for men, negative for most women and marriage. Somewhat a positive for self-sufficient and self-aware women who like really masculine men. But its not that simple, PUA can be great fun for girls who meet cool players to party with, it increases the amount of interesting guys, less fun for girls who get tricked by really sleazy ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 11:47 PM
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She must be annoying as fuck, and some beta's are not that clueless, they can get laid if girls hope for a relationship, maybe she is really bad in bed, she is probably overestimating her smv aswell :) Also many asian cultures have a VERY different attitude in regards to prostitution, making many asian men significantly less "hungry", there is a reason feminists are so desperate to ban it, oppinions of the actual sex-workers be damned.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 11:30 PM
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Ive seen some pretty boys be very alpha, but the physical strength thing is so primal, no way around it, that guy is too skinny to have that raw fuck-ape sexual appeal she craves when ovulating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 11:11 PM
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Nah ive just been around alot of guys who did competitive martial arts and and strength training, that guy is more pretty than sexy, like a runway model lol. I bet my physically imposing scumbag acne scarred sexy-ugly friend could do better with most girls in a party setting, would probably amog the fuck out of that guy lol (probably putting put his lizard brain in fight or flight mode with loud but innocuous banter) he could totally turn that guy into a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 10:51 PM
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Personal taste will always be a thing, but physical strength IS universally attractive, in this case AWALT, obviously unnaturally big bodybuilders is not, but what most guys can get by hitting the gym 3 times a week for 45min(or just doing 5x5 at home) is. Even for that nerdy charming or suave hipster guy who is already attractive because of his personalty/game, doing 5x5 for 6 months make him significant more attractive to 90+% of girls. Its the biggest thing almost all guys can do in regards t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 10:38 PM
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That guy is not really that hot, he could be if he hit the gym tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 10:23 PM
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I went thru a short anger phase two decades ago(about 1½ year), I think I was even becoming a bit misogynistic back then, it ended a month after a male rolemodel kinda "red pilled" me on sexual attraction, getting laid alot over a summer made all that anger disappear. If I bought totally into the delusion(like many guys do) and unplugged in my late 20s I would be really angry too, and I would need a place to vent, TRP is dual purpose and I dont think many of its inhabitants give a fuck what outs…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 10:03 PM
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True, but it wont really make much difference for the average guy, not in how he looks at her, if he sees her as gf material he still will after sleeping with her on the first date, if he does not than he wont after after sleeping with her on the 4th date either. And in case of online dating a hot guy with options is likely dating multible people, even if he is looking for "the one", good sex reduces his need for this, obviously with low value betas she can usually take her time, but its a risk …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 09:53 PM
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Honestly most guys with options(attractive) wont stick around to get to know her without physical intimacy. And the slightly rp ones realize that making you wait for sex rarely means she always made all guys wait for sex, it does not mean she did not have a ONS last weekend, its more likely she is just making YOU wait for sex because BB + "The rules". I have not went beyond a 2nd date without physical intimacy(for the last half decade), unless she actively persued me for a 3rd date, and she woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 08:42 PM
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That would be as silly as a man displaying girly, giggly and slightly submissive behavior to try to seduce a woman. There is no real gender symmetry in attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 08:03 PM
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I would lmao hahaha, that would be hilarious. But seriously thats not going to happind. Im usually pretty nice to girls I find unattractive flirting with me tho, and will even flirt back usually, atleast if she is sweet/pleasant/funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 07:47 PM
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Obviously, but for most sane people being able to hold a conversation equals being able to concent. The notion of infantilizing any woman who is too drunk to drive is just silly and also pretty sexist imo. By that standard I "raped" my girlfriend 3 times last weekend lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 10:37 AM
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Yeah I totally meant literal testicles. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 02:29 AM
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I have not seen anything that would convince me he had the balls to rape someone, even if he wanted to and thought it was acceptable, or any evidence that he actually has. He is a troll and attention whore and has said some rapey shit(which is pathetic but no excuse to physically assault him).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 12:16 AM
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Yeah, and ive also seen some field reports of the RSD forums that were rapey as fuck. Some PUA's are horrible people(tho most are not), most succesful players dont call themselves PUA's anymore. Roosh is a bit of a whiney loser tho, he is not really very succesful, the average muscular redpill guy can do better with basic caveman game.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 12:06 AM
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I treat her like a queen, the queen is a very important person to the king, probably the most important person after himself and his children, but she will always be the kings bitch. But seriously, I love being making her laugh and feel safe, Im not much for confiding and verbal expression but im certainly nurturing and supportive, and someone who will always be on her side if outsiders are involved, even if I feel she is in the wrong, we can talk about that later in private. Sex is super import…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 11:43 PM
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For most guys its not tho, and unless you are Mick Jagger(or a high smv rich white dude in thailand) it will never be as easy for ANY guy as it is for the average woman. It was pretty easy for me after I got the ball rolling, but I was somewhat lucky on genetics, liked working out and had a great male rolemodel as a teen. If I had listened to my feminist aunt and mainstream "romance" bullshit instead it would have been very different(this is where many of the anger phase guys in TRP come from).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 11:21 PM
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Whatever dude :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 11:17 PM
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Sure he does, if it was as low-effort for him as it is for landwhales on AdultFriendFinder definately. But thats not the world most guys live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 11:13 PM
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"Being a slut is easy, Being a stud is hard" There is no hypocrisy, just harsh bio-truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 11:06 PM
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You kinda do to consistantly get casual sex, or you have to be charming as fuck and extremely confident and even that wont help you if you as a guy is a part of the body-acceptance crowd, its just not going to happind. Getting a 50+ N count as a guy is takes hard work and dedication, for a woman it takes spreading her legs, and this goes for overweight girls aswell, they can easily get guys way out of their league to fuck them on a sex dating site, I used to be one of those guys, below average g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 10:55 PM
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This is also my impression as a European, and thats fine, having money is in no way an indicator of good genes, especially not if its inherited. Its still an advantage tho, but it also attracts the wrong kinds of women, which im guessing is the case anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 09:34 PM
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Yeah, when people talk about crazy sjw's in academia its these kinds of people they are referring to, and its even worse in gender studies im told. From what ive seen they pretty much run the show in Sweden, UK and most of Canada and USA. People are scared shitless of them and most dont dare critizise them for fear of being called misogynists or racist or other "shunning words" by twitter mobs and progressive media, it can easily be both social and professional suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 12:20 AM
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People who have not watched this really should. Here is a youtube link to the first part. The Gender Equality Paradox <-- Norwegian documentary, subtitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 07:36 PM
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I dont, unless im really in the mood to argue I just change the subject(yeah sure I guess im a feminist then lol, now how about the weather....).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 07:26 PM
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There may be some conflict for guys who care about society and want it to change to what they think is better, but not for those simply want to have fun, be badass and have an effective sexual/life strategy, I see no conflict. I realize there are alot of traditionalists on TRP who are really angry about not having virgins to fuck or some shit, its like they want a world where it would be almost impossible to spin plates lol, and where they would have a much smaller advantage compared to other me…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 07:11 PM
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Its a cost/benefit analysis on behalf of the selfish individual. Plenty of people waste their lives trying to change society, most achieve very little. Why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 05:53 PM
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"Book of Pook" is in the sidebar. I only do cold approach in a party setting, or if I run into a girl who is exceptionally interesting to me, its generally a waste of time except as a desensitizing exercise, but works fine in a crowded club/bar if you pick your targets and dont just approach random hb5+'s. Women not being a goal is a mindset, ive heard plenty of MGTOW guys being suprised that girls were suddenly more interested in them after they stopped chasing/trying. It essentially works a bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 02:47 PM
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Yeah online dating is great for guys with above average smv and a chubby/older-milf thing. You still have to be above average because there are plenty of above average guys bagging strings of fatties, especially on sex-dating sites.(I used to be one of them lol), A horny bull with alot of free time can easily satisfy the needs of 5-10 cows.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 02:42 PM
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Im not suprised that new laws have been introduced to somewhat mimic the old "marriage by habit and repute" laws that were abolished. Obviously guys need to be mindful of these things, not being able to kick out a long term co-habitating partner from one day to another kinda makes sense imo, its still a long way from deviding all assets and paying lifelong alimony. Generally tho Europe has nothing that comes close to the old common-law marriages and neither does most of USA. 3 = Its a trap!! edi…
/r/MensRights26/08/15 02:31 PM
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Made me lmao, ty u/CisWhiteMaelstrom I needed that.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 06:22 PM
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Fuck yeah, that1 is better :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 03:58 PM
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Under my thumb <-most rp song ever. also F***in Em All 99 Problems
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 03:34 PM
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You are free to guess all you want, feminists do that alot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 03:16 PM
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Obviously not, that would be silly, I find people like Germaine Greer or Catherine MacKinnon to be extremely sexist. Patriarchy theory and rape culture is tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 03:09 PM
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SJW's seem to be under the delusion that certain issues do not exist outside a feminist framework, their entire world view is twisted. I dont even need to understand someone to support their right to live however they want, free for persecution.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 02:50 PM
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Nah I know more ex-feminists than current feminists at this point, everyone is laughing at SJWs, but most do it in private because its not worth the hassle. I dont see how marriage equality or even acceptance of gender fluidity is relevant, more than half of Americans are in favor of marriage equality, less than 20% are feminists(and most are the "yeah sure I guess im a feminist then" kind) You dont have to disagree with all feminists on everything always to think that the current incarnation fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 02:26 PM
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You dont need to take a kid in for testing, you can mail in two oral swabs, pay like 300$, get your answer via email, easy peasy and no one has to know, any guy should do this just in case.
/r/MensRights25/08/15 10:20 AM
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Not in Europe tho, and only in 9 states in USA(mostly southern states), and in large parts of Canada and in Australia. There is no "common law" any place in Europe, Sweden has a law where sharing bills and debt repayment can lead to shared ownership of a house but thats it. Its old "marriage by habit and repute" laws that have been abolished most places but was recently reintroduced in Australia by some iffy law.
/r/MensRights25/08/15 10:04 AM
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Its not something I think about every day, but I may aswell not be an asshole. The "cool" factor was pretty big on the Tesla tho, you pretty much have to pay 5x as much to get a sportscar with faster acceleration, its ultra-rare that I need more range and there are free charging stations all over Europe, the gps will tell me if I should go spend 15-20min at one, it made no sense to buy a new expensive car based on obsolete technology.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 08:41 PM
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Im the captain, my girlfriend is my 1st mate/partner in crime. Its about synergy, we are equal in theory but equality in practice is impossible and striving for it does NOT lead to happiness. But no I do not want THAT kind of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 08:18 PM
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Fuck feminist bullshit, they are far more clueless about men than the average man is about women(and thats saying something).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 08:09 PM
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Probably one of the biggest ones for sure, I bought a Tesla S to do my part :) Elon Musk is pretty alpha. Also that acceleration! Left a Porche in the dust last week, and I "only" have the 470hp version.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 08:01 PM
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It does not get more alpha than doing mma imho.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 07:46 PM
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Kim Jong Un is a total bitch, he would not last a day outside his dictatorship, and is probably beholden to NK military generals to stay in power. He is more like a spoiled brat. But you were obviously being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 07:41 PM
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Stalin was too fucked up in his head to be an alpha, he was insecure and paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 07:39 PM
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BJ Penn. Renzo Grazie. Lawrence Krauss. George Cloney. My dad. Hard question, there are alot of very alpha guys around, some famous other not so much, its pretty situational, Arnold and Nicholson are up there but Pitt, Bieber, Obama wtf seriously? :) Edit: Christopher Hitchens was imo one of the most alpha guys of our time in regards to mindset. R.I.P
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 07:20 PM
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No, shit testing is mostly(like 99.9%) a subconcious thing. The thing is women will try to tool their SO in a relationship, and be miserable in the relationship if they succeed. They WANT the guy to pass the shittest. When they shit test a guy they are attracted to, they WANT him to succeed so they can stay attracted and get to sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/15 08:10 PM
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Nah its harmless, if anything it will keep her with me, I have zero jealosy and think its hot, we even have a shared fwb. She is not going anywhere, im AB ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 08:05 PM
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Yeah definately. But the man has do be the one setting down the ground rules, I think you have to be a VERY special guy to make a fully open relationship work tho, since it will generally take alot more effort and time for a guy to bed different girls, time and effort that will detract from the relationship, my girlfriend can mess around with as many girls as she wants tho, I have zero problems with that. Ive done partner swap and ffm with my girlfriend, I would not ltr a girl who did not have b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 01:47 PM
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And that average guy is better off spending less time learning game and more time at the gym, its a simply a better investment of his time when the goal is pussy. Most average guys can become "hot" by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 01:38 AM
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Nah he would not get away with what he is doing if he was not physically imposing. Looks+Confidence > Everything. Hitting the gym+basic game > Any level of game mastery.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 12:43 AM
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I disagree, I know an ugly guy with a face full of acne scars who is a total player, SexyUgly is real and pretty is overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 12:14 AM
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Told my ex that if she had a problem with the terms of the relationship she was welcome to gtfo, but thats hardly being an asshole, Im willing to do that with any girl im involved with. Ive sometimes used girls for sex who obviously wanted a real relationship at some point, even if I knew it was never going to happind, was always honest if asked but somehow they often did not believe me and thought they could win me over, never felt I owed them pre-emptive honesty tho, lead to a bit of drama som…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 11:56 PM
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Sexual strategy, but self-development is a HUGE part of sexual strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 06:40 PM
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Culture is obviously not irellevant, but as a flock animal we have tendencies to NOT kill our own, people with instinct to kill(within the group) were unlikely to themselves live long enough to procreate and pass on those tendencies, same with rape after the emergence of language, the golden rule is to a large degree engrained in our biology (especially in terms of in-group). Culture more harness and sometimes amplify or restrict existing biological tendencies. Im totally in favor of women havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 05:56 PM
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Nah in some places most guys dont know(or they kinda know but have not internalized it), Not fully realizing the first point is literally why "nice guys" exist. "Girls like nice guys", "just be yourself", the WaW effect and dumb shit like that IS the dominant cultural narrative, even if guys like us find it laughable. Especially smart, sophisticated and sweet guys eat that shit up and end up confused and unhappy. And dont even get me started on the "toxic masculinity" bullshit stopping guys from…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 04:06 PM
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Being red pill and being TRP is different things. Being red pill is simply realizing how reality works and not buying into post-modernist or mainstream romance bullshit and the WaW effect. TRP is a sub about one possible strategy to deal with reality, MGTOW is another, and alot of guys deal with it in less radical ways that has no acronym.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 02:31 PM
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You forgot "The Prince/Niccolo Machiavelli"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 02:28 PM
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The core rp truth about girls can be summed up with: Being liked and being attractive is two totally different and largely unrelated things. And Male and female psychology are significantly different, this is mostly nature and not just cultural. And Nice guys finish last.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 02:21 PM
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Buy a book called "Minimal Game" by Aaron Sleezy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 02:19 PM
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Total bullshit you pulled out of some tumblr sjw's ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 02:15 PM
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Im guessing most people here would concider me very liberal. I would argue that you cant be a 3w feminist and a liberal, those are mutually exclusive, to be a liberal you pretty much have to be a free speech absolutist and value equality of oppotunity but NOT be concerned with equality of outcome. People can call themselves whatever they want, but at this point more liberal = less progressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 02:08 PM
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I was under the impression that this was redpill 101 and everyone here knew that, its the single most important realization any guy can have in regards to girls.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 01:58 PM
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Sure, a girl may even choose not to sleep with a guy she dislikes but is attracted too, or especially if she distrusts him. But she is infinately more likely to sleep with a guy she dislikes but is attracted to than a guy she likes more than any other person in the whole world but is NOT attracted too, its just not going to happind.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 01:54 PM
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This is core rp stuff, this is the basic stuff that all guys should know. The belief that being liked and being attractive is the same thing(or even directly related) is the biggest problem guys have with girls, its why "nice guys" exist. I am so happy someone gave me the basic "nice guys finish last" talk in my late teens.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 01:49 PM
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Not getting laid causes misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 10:00 PM
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Who is mad? :) I guess im lucky I got red pilled two decades ago by a male role model of mine (basic "nice guys finish last" stuff). Alot of guys grew up believing alot of bunk, like believing that making a girl like you and making her attracted to you is the same thing, if I had spent my 20s believing that I guess I would be mad too. Also I think people who are actually mad are the ones posting most in trp, makes sense if you think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 09:10 PM
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You are indeed right. Im somewhat wealthy(not rich, but enough that I never have to be a wage slave and can do whatever I want) but have been both fat and hot, and the difference is mindblowing. Sure I could get ltr's(with women my own age) from wealth and status, but it does not mean shit for getting ons or flings, or for retaining a fwb, attitude and bodylanguage matters tho, it can make women percieve you as more attractive than you look in a picture, the attitude is more important than the R…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 04:03 PM
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"Should" is irellevant to trp, its useless because no amount of thinking or shouting about how things should be will change how things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 03:05 PM
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No idea, but too much assertiveness is always unatractive in women(And it was 10k years ago aswell), I have literally no idea why silly white girls would copy it, certainly not to be more attractive to males, it just makes it laughable AND unattractive, I cant see how white girls imitating it makes any difference, why anyone would assume so distinct mannerisms of others and try to be some stereotype is a mystery to me. Mainstream media is carefully crafted at this point, its not really organical…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 02:45 PM
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It comes down to personal taste in the end, a hb8 for my buddy can easily be a hb6 for me, some guys really like asian girls but im not one of them. Its a subjective thing, Grier is definately mixed but Rutina is very dark. Ive seen plenty of hot black girls and plenty of very unattractive white girls, there is alot of variance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 02:09 PM
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Rutina Wesley was by far the sexiest woman in True Blood imho, OP should ignore such bullshit. This particular viking had a huge crush on Pam Grier as a kid and Ayaan Hirsi Ali is one of my personal heroes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 05:07 AM
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Black women are not unattractive, african-american women have a tendency to be very dominant and masculine im told, which is unattractive, its a cultural thing not a genetic one. Its not like the average caucasian-american woman is particularly sexy, talented or interesting, the fact that you are posting here means you are probably alot more interesting as a person than the average American woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 05:00 AM
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Hell Yes! But im not one of those guys who care about society. Going back to a traditionalist society would suck, and its not going to happind, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:46 PM
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Sober enough to hold a conversation = sober enough to concent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:30 PM
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There are diminishing returns, at some size you will stop getting much additional benefit, it may even hurt your chances with some girls if you get too big. Also if people talk about you probably juicing behind your back that can hurt your popularity and negate some of the advantage, popularity is alot more important in hs than it will be later in life. Im guessing you need some more contrast to your meathead status or something, when I was bigger I toned down the macho and added a little more s…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 12:22 AM
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Female friends can be an awesome asset for a rp guy, anyone who does not realize this is dumb.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 03:40 PM
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There are diminishing returns for lifting, bigger is not always better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 02:49 PM
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Yeah that only applies to flirting, not regular behavior, and certainly not within a social-circle. Being initially cocky works well in a bar setting tho, cockiness also works great on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 02:19 PM
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Now try being muscular aswell and your mind will be blown at how easy getting sex with strangers can be ;) Think of it as product vs salesmanship, you want to have both.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 01:04 PM
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Paying for a child is kinda different tho, you will be doing that anyway if you choose to have one, again I realize America is really fucked up but child support here is a capped amount and you cant go to jail for not paying, in my case they will just take ot out of my tax deduction or similar if I refused to pay, so I would not have a choice. Its a big decision for sure and not one to be taken lightly, unwanted children is a nightmare, but im pretty sure I want atleast 2 kids, and im actively p…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 01:46 PM
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Yeah but thats not really something that will force you into an extended alimony situation or applies to non-shared assets. At worst(In Sweden) you risk shared ownership of the house if you have been sharing bills and debt repayment for an extended period. Australia has some iffy legislation that guys there should be mindful of and 9 American states and some parts of Canada still have old school common law marriage on the books.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 08:52 AM
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Does not exist in Europe anymore tho, only in USA/Canada and some former British colonies. And as I said it does not apply where I live in Europe (or anywhere else in Europe.) "common-law marriages are still recognized in Alabama, Colorado, Iowa, Kansas, Montana, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Texas, Utah and the District of Columbia, and in several Canadian provinces." Its old laws that have been abolished most places.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 08:25 AM
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Does not apply where I live. "All countries in Europe have now abolished "marriage by habit and repute", with Scotland being the last to do so in 2006." It does not exist it Europe.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 08:03 AM
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Dont have that bullshit here, you are either married or not.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 07:57 AM
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Dread game works. Source: Me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 07:14 AM
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VERY few guys has 30+ partners, and the guys who have had to work really hard for it, with the few exceptions being guys with "lucky" genetics combined with horniness. Any girl can get a 30+ partner count if she wants, even fat, dumb, lazy, slob DNB's. Again people need to stop pretending there is some sort of gender-symmetry where there is not. Obviously if a girl does not want a guy with a high partner count thats fine, but its likely the guy with a high partner count wont commit to her anyway…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 05:29 AM
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Politics is bullshit, but he also votes for the mag limits on guns but is otherwise pro gun, and he is a (ex-?)hunter himself. In any case any conservative and especially libertarian should find him "less-bad" than that proto-typical corporatist/cultural-marxist cunt named Hillary, and objectively libertatians need to weigh this towards voting for a neo-con starting new wars. But American tends to always be 0 or 1, black or white, which makes people to easy to control :( In regards to guns(I cur…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 04:57 AM
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TRP is about personal sexual strategy, nothing else, its NOT about changing the world, its about swallowing the red pill and realizing what reality is like and then adapting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 04:46 AM
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The thing is that the male equivalent of slut is "creep who cant get laid" If a woman is awesome in bed and has an awesome, cute, fun personality, backs up her man, and has a good education she will be able to lock down a man, and even if he fucks another girl it will have a minimal impact on the relationship since he wont get pregnant and usually wont fall in love with a new girl if he is experienced. The exception is if he has to pay child support for a pregnancy out of the relationship which …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 04:24 AM
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Im limited to a touchscreen atm, so I cant be bothered to write a long reply, but seriously, Sanders is quite impressive to me, I get economic right-wingers not wanting to vote for him(and I respect that) but he is not an authoritarian, and while he may pander to progressive votes he is NOT a marxist and closer to democratic socialists like Christopher Hitchens and Orwell than to anti-democratic socialists, even if he identifies as a democratic socialist(Free speech absolutism is a core value fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 04:00 AM
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Can we please stop taking feminists seriously? They are like conspiracy theorists or creationists. Yes yes I know some Americans and Canadians dont have the luxury of just laughing at them, but I do lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 03:05 AM
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He wrote a very rp piece for a local newpaper, basically pointing out what 50 shades made mainstream, and he is a free speech absolutist. http://www.slate.com/blogs/the_slatest/2015/05/28/bernie_sanders_sex_article_rape_fantasy_involved_in_1972_piece.html obviously he had to disown it for practical reasons, he needs progressive votes to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 02:50 AM
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Dont have too, I live here, but if you think The Economist is more unbiased than MSNBC you are delusional. But dont worry about Europe, aside from Sweden europe knows whats up, we mostly have functional national democracies still. Sweden may become a muslim nation in 50yrs, the rest of scandinavia will not. Equating nationalism with conservatism is silly tho. Liberal is concidered a centrist position everywhere outside USA, conservatism = old money, European politics is alot more complicated tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 02:43 AM
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Danish nationalists are left-wing and Swedish and UK conservatives are multiculturalists(to push down wages for their paymasters and insure the dominance of "old money" thru EU) White christian conservatives standing in the way of stem-cell research are alot more likely to turn USA into a 3rd world country than industrious hispanic immigrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 02:31 AM
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Have a plate who is late 40s, so much fun, so little bullshit, she is better on top than any girl ive ever been with lol, if she had been the same but 20yrs younger I would have made her my gf. Hungry/Lazy guys should not disregard older women who take care of themselves. Best thing is she does not make my current girlfriend jealous and I can fuck her regularly without getting shit for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 02:07 AM
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Seriously, learn to eat pussy and have eye contact when you cum deep inside her, being good in bed is how you make a girl bond with you. If you are the best sex she has ever had it does not matter if she had mediocre sex with 20 guys before you, your biggest problem will be getting rid of her. Take zink supplements, stay in shape, and make her go on the pill so you dont have to use condoms(if you really want to pair bond and not pump/dump), Your sperm is a potent chemical cocktail, if she used c…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 01:52 AM
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...... Im not American/Canadian..... And we dont cohabitate full time atm, tho we will when she gets pregnant and finish her education, she is studying 200 miles away and paying for herself, if she gets pregnant I will probably rent/buy an appartment where she is studying tho. We dont have the "common law marriage" bullshit that America/Canada does, and child support is a fixed sum not dependant on wealth, which in my case would make it a relatively minor expense.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 01:27 AM
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Almost 40 here, mid 20s girlfriend for a year, planning children. If I die my bro and parents will take care of shit, marriage is useless bullshit, my kid will be fine and so will my gf because she is awesome(And is getting a good education) and my bro/parents love her.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 01:11 AM
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....... dont get married..... the end. Seriously, have ltr's, fall in love, have children, DONT GET MARRIED.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 01:08 AM
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Serious is ALWAYS bad game. Keep it emotional and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 12:49 AM
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It needs to be "tongue in cheek" and in a flirty context obviously. Being seriously negative and judgemental will always be bad game.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 12:47 AM
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Ive been both fat and hot, there is no doubt that creepy/charming is mostly dependent on my looks. The shit I can get away with when im muscular and well dressed is hilarious, even with girls who reject me they tend to be nice if im "hot".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 12:44 AM
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Treating a girl like a child is great when flirting, treating a girl like a bratty little sister really works, just never be "against her" in regards to outsiders.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 12:42 AM
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Alot of PUA shit works, some of it is counterproductive to attractive(or even regular) guys and some guys self-sabotage by being "gamey" instead of making a girl feel a connection, but it still works and is usually better for socially inept guys than being themselves. That being said a rp guy with a positive attitude and a masculine mindset will be more effective than a guy doing "outer game", girls are not really that complicated and flirting is fun. Im referring to a party setting obviously, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 12:29 AM
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Strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 12:15 AM
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Dont really know, ive pretty much been red pill for two decades but only started using reddit a bit more than a year ago, its becoming worse for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 02:59 PM
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We have a shared fwb and another couple we mess around with atm. Yeah to each their own, its all good <3
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 02:26 PM
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There are too many silly traditionalists in TRP now. Guys who "care about the degeneracy of society" and shit, its laughable. I dont do fully open relationships tho(my house, my rules).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 02:02 PM
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Had sex with too many drunk girls who had boyfriends or were married to want to commit myself, Also once a guy has slept with enough women a girl really has to have some real value aside from a vagina, like a good personality and stuff. Many inexperienced guys are ready to commit to any girl who gives him sex. edit: but there is no real gender symmetry here, a guy with options and experience is usually more attractive, thats why dread game works, and a guy who has slept with alot of girls is les…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 01:40 PM
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It will end up on the internet then, and everyone will know that you are an asshole but not a rapist. Pretty sure the threat of this can make most girls withdraw a false accusation.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 01:18 PM
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It can be used in many ways and even if shit hits the fan its better to have illegally recorded than spending your life on a sex-offender registry.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 01:11 PM
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Make sure you make her cum, become really good at eating pussy.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 01:10 PM
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This so much, even if its true its still a useless post.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 12:48 PM
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I dont see the relevance to TRP.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 12:44 PM
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Seriously tho, just get that nosejob and shave your head.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 06:47 PM
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Nah im not a PUA, that mystery stuff is 99% bullshit, RSD 90% bullshit, all routine/pattern based stuff is bullshit, anyone saying you can talk your way into a womans pants(if she is not at all attracted to you) are full of shit, obviously women judge you by your looks. Shave your head, hit the gym, get a nosejob, stand up straight, take up space, cultivate a strong sense of entitlement, and stop whining and pretending its black/white. SexyUgly is real and a negative attitude is the epitomy of b…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 01:38 PM
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"PUA bullshit" is bullshit. Game is very real, the largest part of it is attitude and body language, what comes out of a guys mouth is largely irellevant ;) With so many wrong things some guys do Book of Pook can be lifechanging, unlearning bad game is a must. Online dating is a different animal tho, but for bar/club/parties having good game is a must. edit: In case you are confused: Attitude and bodylanguage conveys status, acting like high status person will help get you laid, whether you actu…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 12:53 PM
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Alpha = do whatever the fuck YOU truly want. I see no issue with being sexually submissive aside from the part of the dynamic that spills outside of the bedroom. From what ive heard many people who are sexually submissive are NOT submissive outside of the bedroom, often the opposite.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 12:19 AM
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Mad hamstering/femsplaining invasion in the Askmen version of the thread lol. But most of the regulars and guys know how reality works atleast.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 05:40 PM
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r/mgtow is -------> that way
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 12:12 AM
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For a guy who is still plugged in he handled it okay imo, guys have been fed this "Friends" bullshit forever, some women may whine about dishonest nice guys, but if that gravy train stopped there would be a cascade of tears, and a windfall for moving companies, tech support, therapists and emotional support groups lol. Fact is most guys dont know any better, they think the matrix is real, lets not buy into the feminist shaming narrative, these guys are just doing what those same feminists taught…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 11:58 PM
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Obviously if its a very homely girl with no attractive guy friends who never goes partying thats a different issue, but those ARE kinda rare, especially with girls who are pretty and in their teens or 20s.(Atleast where I live)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 05:41 PM
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Maybe im a bit coloured by 4-5 years of being a muscular dbag sex-dating, partying and doing pickup. Even "stealing" drunk girls from their boyfriends at clubs/bars for sport at one point. I agree serial monogamy is very common, im just pointing out that her making you wait does not mean she did not have a ONS last weekend when she was out partying with her girlfriends, those two things are mostly unrelated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 05:25 PM
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I like to refer to myself as an Alpha-Liberal sometimes, that leads to some fun conversations. I also recently learned that r/socialism is not very friendly to core democratic-socialist values like free speech absolutism. The boxes keep getting smaller and smaller, luckily most people irl are pretty sane and pragmatic, no matter where on the LR political spectrum they identify. Political tribalism is cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 03:37 PM
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You might find a rare girl who is low libido, a virgin, or very conservative and have lived somewhat isolated, or girls who are mostly serial monogamists(except for that one magic night) Even most conservative girls will sleep with the right guy, in the right circumstance, if she knew there was no risk to her reputation, she may feel really bad about it afterwards too but she also thinks about it when masturbating. having a reputation as a guy who never kisses and tells is more important than an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 02:58 PM
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Im a guy who has been both fat and hot and in between, Its totally obvious to me that the difference between creepy and charming is mostly my looks. One of the core things in trp is: dont listen to what women say, watch what they do, women are really bad at giving men dating advice, what women say they want can usually be disregarded. Even nice intelligent girls are more into me if I act like an amused dbag than if I try to be "romantic" and nice, I conciously experimented with this when I was y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 02:24 PM
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nah there is not an equal distribution, there are significantly more 5s than 7.5s and its also localized, you just have to be top 20% in your enviroment for relatively easy access to sex, its alot easier in some small hick town than in hollywood. The 20% thing mostly referred to stuff like tinder and its not a hard rule, its pointing out an obvious trend that is supported by dating site statistics. Average guy hitting the gym and flirting for fun is easily in the 20% in most small towns. edit:so…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 12:42 PM
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My gf and I fucked like 5 hours after meeting, she has a significantly lower partner count than me. A girl will make you wait because you are more boyfriend material than tingly, even if she had a ONS last weekend, dont be that guy, if a girl has never done anything slutty she has just never been in the right situation with the right guy, or she is asexual, AWALT. You want a girl you give the tingles, not someone who is contemplating whether you fit into her future plans
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 12:15 PM
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It really depends on the girl tho, and the guy. There are some rp's who are angry and bitter and wont make a good partner for anyone, there are some who think they have to be all alpha all the time(just thinking about it makes my head tired, must be hard work). Some women are very dominant and bossy and would not synergize well with even a very laid back and positive rp guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 12:04 PM
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All that negativity is bad game, thats my biggest problem with trp, seems like too many are embracing their anger phase, when they should just accept it and move past it asap. Hating nature is a road to nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 11:50 AM
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There are some things people cant change, but the average guy can become "hot" by choice. Game/flirting is 100% learnable skill and confidence can be aquired thru concious attitude change and positive reinforcement. I hate when guys say they must discover themselves, thats mostly bullshit, we create ourselves either conciously or subconciously, chosing to not kiss girls asses is like dropping any other bad habit, same with adopting a cocky positive attitude to life, stuff gets internalized prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 11:43 AM
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Good good, I was bordering on developing a married chick fetish awhile back, and fetishes are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:37 PM
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Nope not really, thats not how it works, especially not in a party setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:26 PM
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Please dont tell them, I enjoy my "dynamic" sex life :) A traditionalist society would be soooo boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:11 PM
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A womans intelligence is not really a factor in my experience, especially not in a party setting. Some girls are attracted to me, others are not, such is life. Sexual attraction is not really a concious choice, its a primate thing, it either tingles or it doesnt, if she is sexually attracted she will forgive alot of things, if she is not it does not really matter how smart, sophisticated or nice I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 09:52 PM
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Because humans are Primates and are sexually attracted to the same things they were 100k years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 06:51 PM
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Thats why guys should have relationship potential but NOT be immediate relationship material, unless they like waiting for sex ;) Better to be a bit of a dbag, dont be too nice until you have fucked her, even if you want a relationship. edit: I used to really want to be nice and sweet, even after I realized this, I had to purposefully be less nice even when I felt like being nice, basically acted dumber and more douchey than I was on purpose for awhile, with mindblowing results lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 06:19 PM
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Does not matter tho, few guys will see sex early as a negative. If a girl made me wait for sex I just assumed there was no chemistry to build on, guys should stop being "commitment sluts" lol, no intimacy = no emotional validation, favors, flowers or commitment. But players already know this, you can totally buy a girl drinks, be nice, pamper her, buy her flowers, its all good.. AFTER you have slept with her, before its just counterproductive supplication, it will make her feel good about hersel…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 06:09 PM
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Protip: Become somewhat physically imposing/attractive and be a bit of a dbag, you can still choose to commit if you like a girl. Im so glad this was explained to me two decades ago, a year of going to clubs as a nice guy with no luck. First evening not giving a fuck, had a drink thrown in my face, almost got into a fight, got fucked by a moderately attractive milf including still drunk morning sex before she left. I was somewhat fit because I was into martial arts but also a bit overweight. Be …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 05:39 PM
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Alot more sweetness and cuddling, getting small presents, zero nagging or negativity, her initiating sex alot more. Its kinda like in the beginning of a good ltr but with the added bonus of more me-time. I think what he means is: why move past the "honeymoon phase" or the her trying to win you over phase, when you can enjoy it and then gtfo and have a new adventure, committed relationships often become too co-dependent and boring and many guys only stay because they lack options. A girl knowing …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 04:30 PM
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Im guessing about 3/4 of girls I have had as fwb were hoping for a real relationship at some point, no matter how honest I was about not being that kind of guy. One of them ended up "catching" me in the end tho, good for her :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 02:32 PM
13

This is my experience aswell in retrospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 01:40 PM
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Its because I love sex and its relatively easy when you reach a certain looks/confidence level, does not take that much effort, it used to be self validation to a degree. I dont care what other people prefer, a big part of why I love my girlfriend is because she is bi and lets me fuck other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 01:35 PM
0

Words have no meaning anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:24 AM
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Nothing un-american about being pro-choice(first trimester anyway, late term abortions are a different issue but more a human issue than an American one), gay marriage should be up to the minister, banning someone from performing a gay marriage is just as un-american as forcing someone to perform one, but fuck the assholes trying to punish people for politely refusing to make a gay wedding cake, that is un-american as fuck, its their choice how they want to run their business.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:12 AM
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3w feminists are not liberals tho, You cant be a liberal and a marxist, they are mutually exclusive. They are about as liberal as Dick Cheney is libertarian. Confused Americentric tribalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 06:33 PM
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Yeah me too, I think most guys who frequent trp would. But I stopped looking for logical consistancy from left-radicals a decade ago, its just not there, its all based on feelz and proletariat vs borgoisie refurbished marxist bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 06:29 PM
1

My gf was my fwb for 2yrs before becoming my gf. I was not looking for commitment with ANYONE but she kinda won me over, lucky her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 02:30 PM
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Ive been quite happy being the side guy, I would never expect a girl to drop her bf or husband just because im better in bed, some fwb's have cut contact because they thought they were in love and then initiated contact with me again when it didnt work out, I never expected any kind of one way exclusivity or thought I was the only guy she was fucking, tho it was sometimes the case. Dont pretend there is gender symmetry in these things, there is not, its ying/yang, the male equivalent of a girl b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 02:23 PM
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Yeah I found that1 amusing, Thats some mighty fine theorycrafting :D
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 12:33 AM
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I think you overestimate the value of opening up for guys, controlled emotional honesty is more useful. A guy "opening up" in a way a woman thinks he should is not that useful to most guys, male emotional honesty is great tho. Men and women have very different emotional needs and women often project their needs on to men, thinking men are deficient women, when they are simply different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 01:09 PM
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Sjw's are generally very illiberal, its a term used mostly to describe loud far left radicals, not lefty liberals. But im sure you knew that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 12:28 PM
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Yes, its a mass shittest, and should be treated as such by rp guys. Never be afraid to say "yeah sure I guess im a feminist then" and change the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 10:25 PM
2

To be fair TRP vs MGTOW is more like different reactions to swallowing the same pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 02:18 PM
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My only problems with trp is the negativity, anger and absolutism, nothing wrong with women being women, as long as guys know the truth and are not being brainwashed by dreamy nonsense, or forced into a selfless catering to female nature. Im quite happy about reality, girls dont owe me sex and I dont owe them commitment or pre-emptive honesty, I would not have near as much fun in a traditionalist society. Sure being succesful in having alot of sex with different women is hard work, but its nobod…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 02:14 PM
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I can only speak for myself, but im pretty damn happy, and I have been rejecting subjective morality and laughing at political correctness for two decades. Conformity is cowardice and cowardice is unattractive. edit: being called a dbag by a girl who is enthusiastically fucking me is better than to be called a nice guy by a girl who is not when I wish she were, talk is cheap and "should" is irellevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 10:58 AM
1

Definately, the average guy can become hot by choice.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 07:20 PM
2

A physically confident red pill guy with a positive attitude and decent genetics will probably get more lays than a guy like mystery if he spent the same amount of time doing game, and will have more fun doing so.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 04:46 PM
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I agree, but PUA stuff is 90% shit and 10% gold, ive seen so much self sabotage where buddies have messed up a lay they actually could have gotten by being themselves, because the girls were already attracted and they scared her off by not having a real connection, Its great for inspiration and backup if you go blank, but the whole indiscriminate cold approach thing is misguided imo, it often gets guys more negative than positive reinforcement and dont even get me started on useless #closing.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 04:41 PM
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Exotic is sexy, probably something that has evolved because it was benificial in avoiding inbreeding or something, and its not exclusive to whitey. From what ive heard black women in USA tend to be very dominant, im pretty sure warm, cute, and feminine black women do fine with other races, but thats just guessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 04:03 AM
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It is literally genital mutilation tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 05:23 PM
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Not, extremely happy, could not imagine sex being near as pleasurable without foreskin, its by far the most sensitive part of my dick. I think its a core human rights violation, and its objectively just as bad as the "nicer" forms of fgm, any doctor performing it without a good medical reason should be in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 05:14 PM
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They sure can be, I only know one gay guy, he is alpha as fuck and I know him thru martial arts, most gay guys dont actually act feminine im told, thats just another dumb stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 04:15 PM
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TIL Most MRA's are feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 04:46 PM
2

Whatever you say dude :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 04:35 PM
1

Thanks <3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 04:02 PM
3

Mad mental gymnastics there... Well technically Oscar Schindler was a nazi...... lol. edit: how about I just listen to Pizzey?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 04:01 PM
1

Not totally denying it, could I trouble you for a link to one such study?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 03:50 PM
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Someone like Erin Pizzey has been getting death threats from feminists since the 70s. There have been systematic sabotage of mens rights gatherings, in one case the fire alarm at a university was pulled to disrupt it, there are tons of vids of feminists behaving like entitled children on yt, luckily everyone has cameras now. Dont tell me that you are honestly ignorant about that kind of shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 03:46 PM
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Then they should get out of the MRM's way, feminism is useless as a framework to deal with mens issues. They are not wanted or needed and should stick to womens issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 03:35 PM
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You really should achive that stuff to avoid giving them clicks? Remember add block guys.
/r/MensRights04/08/15 02:16 PM
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Feminists started that fight tho, MRM a few years ago was not really focused on feminism, but they did fall into the trap and once again feminism succeded in making everything about itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 02:01 PM
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If you count the "yeah sure, I guess im a feminist" crowd. But Ive sometimes said that just to avoid a discussion that would have been unhelpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 01:50 PM
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I joined GreenPeace and a local radfem/anarchist protest group to get laid when I was younger(mad parties, lots of drugs and alcohol), very little competition for girls because I was a muscular martial arts nut and most the other guys were total manginas aside from a few musician types, some Alphas can use such inviroments to their advantage, but if you become dependent on it for your entire social life then you are screwed, you need to be able to walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 01:37 PM
3

I used to feel sorry for guys like that, still do a little sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 12:19 PM
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I find that sub amusing, at this point I just view feminism as a mass shit-test. edit: check it out, its basically an SRS outreach project lol, its just another 3w feminist sub trying(incompetently) to disguise itself as something else. edit: HeForShe lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 11:38 AM
1

OP does not understand the red pill metaphor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 11:55 PM
1

Because he feels like it? Maybe he wants children? Maybe he wants alot of sexual experience in a short time? Maybe she is awesome? low value post, silly anger phase newbie rant.(or troll)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 10:38 PM
1

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 10:30 PM
3

Rejecting marriage is not really contingent on the level of "love", its rejecting a legal construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 10:13 PM
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Screw marriage tho, seriously, screw traditionalism aswell :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 10:09 PM
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How would a 180cm muscular Viking with a pretty face do in Columbia?(lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 06:32 PM
2

Yeah but thats a question of practical concerns and retarded laws pushed by political lesbians. The standard in most of the civilized world is pretty much what I said, obviously an American campus sjw hellhole is different and guys should be mindful of this. I was speaking from a common sense perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 05:47 PM
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Sober enough to hold a conversation = able to concent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 05:06 PM
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I agree completely then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 05:03 PM
2

But thats more a disagreement with a part of the PUA community, I disagree with many rp'ers dismissal of game essentials like a positive attitude, also I dont think you understand negging, it has to tongue in cheek always, its for flirting not plain conversation, trp as a whole seems to anthesisis to "fake it till you make it" imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 04:47 PM
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But thats a moral objection, trp is amoral and about personal life strategy not about society. Its not really a disagreement on anything substantial to trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 04:41 PM
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Mostly just the pessimism and absolutism, but overall I think its mostly on point, in regards to the sidebar anyway, there are some silly posts there sometimes tho. Edit:also disagree on the unable to pair bond if promiscuous past, does not apply if she has not had sex in awhile or if you give her the best orgasms she has ever has, most guys suck in bed im told, have had total party girls become addicted and bond very strongly with me so I almost could not get rid of them, so im not buying that1…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 04:39 PM
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Its lame because its so subjective, a girl thats a hb6 for me could be a hb9 for my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 12:56 AM
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HB0 used to mean plain but fuckable, everything below was UG.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 12:54 AM
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Dont sweat it, girls are easy to please if they are attracted to you, learn to love eating pussy. edit: Sex god method.
/r/seduction02/08/15 12:23 AM
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We do? I dont care what gender people are. I dont care about a dudes irrational feelings either, especially not when they are presented as arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 12:08 AM
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8 on a perfect day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 08:43 PM
1

Yeah genetics matter, but most average looking guys can become somewhat hot.
/r/seduction01/08/15 08:00 PM
1

Hit the gym bro, Sexyugly is a thing. Yes it will help lol, its a gamechanger! There is no fucking excuse for ANY guy to not hit the gym, not doing so is self-sabotage, its probably just as important for a guy like you as all game you could learn. With your insecurity about it and likely low T, you are probably operating at 10% atm, dedicate 6 months to putting on some muscles, it will change your life.
/r/seduction01/08/15 07:41 PM
1

People misunderstand dread game, its usually just staying in shape, meeting other women and being charming to other women, its simply the woman knowing that the guy has options and that she cant take him for granted. And not being afraid to dial back the attention and call her out instead of trying to change bitchy behavior by being more nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 01:28 PM
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Had a good mentor/rolemodel, and a somewhat redpill dad. Was a pretty smooth transition. Did seduction game for a few years later in my life, and slept with some girls who were married or had bf's, changed my view on women a bit. I was an angry teen but never really had a rp anger phase, getting laid by just being a bit douchy instead of too nice made me a better and less angry person, so glad I was made aware of that early.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 08:30 PM
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I think she is super hot, but thats a matter of taste, I always liked sporty girls.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 05:50 PM
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Most of it already is, people are just in selective denial because of political correctness, a book like "The selfish gene" is pretty mainstream, people just dont bother arguing with feminists anymore, its never worth it. But I dont really want the trp sub and the lingo to go mainstream, that would not help us.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 11:02 AM
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L. Ron Hubbard was also succesful, so are plenty of creationists with bullshit degrees from fundie schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 10:45 AM
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Right, in any case I remember finding it amusing and refreshingly short. Comparing such a degree to a stem degree is like comparing miniature golf to real golf.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 10:35 AM
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People should read Anita Sarkesians masters thesis aswell, for lulz. Especially people with stem degrees, its short bus/kiddy train level stuff, I was gonna make some special olympics analogy but seriously. edit:yea i know its communications and not gender studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 10:16 AM
2

Rousey is awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 03:24 AM
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Never liked Elam, it has nothing to do with TRP tho, I dont even think the overlap between trp and MRM is very large. Im definately sympathetic to the greater MRM, especially the intactivists are doing amazing work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 03:11 AM
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Feminism is not about women, its about feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 02:54 AM
4

Women are more likely to initiate domestic violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 02:51 AM
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We are often dealing with people who deny sexual dimorphism in humans, I dont think we would get far by partly accepting their feels/anecdote based world view, even if they are not always totally wrong its not worth the effort. PPD is more useful for people who have a fact based world view but think TRP is too pessimistic and/or drawing the wrong conclusions. Pew did a comprehensive study on online harassment, but it seems many feminists think the facts were incorrect(males get more death threat…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 02:15 AM
6

If you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 01:38 AM
7

I really doubt trp gives a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 01:38 AM
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But its not really blue pill like most unaware people, its a parody sub. They are more like the Cypher fanclub or something :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 12:01 AM
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probably to shield snowflakes from seeing uncomfortable oppinions that could make them feel unsafe, or even worse making them question what they know to be "correct".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 11:54 PM
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Nah, there are more rp'ers than people who are all the way crazy postmodernist "gender is a social construct" blue. But the majority of people are certainly not people who use the trp sub alot. Most people irl are pretty purple after a few beers in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 11:49 PM
1

Because depressed guys always are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 11:40 PM
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Im dealing with it, Have not been on meds for two decades, Have bi gf a decade younger than me and a shared fwb <3 dont need anyones compassion but thanks anyway ;) I fucking love my life now, but my teens were rough. edit:I think you may be underestimating yourself, and you said "perma-virge" so I thought you were in a different place lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 11:03 PM
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nah just rejecting marriage and cohabitation, ive heard some mgtow who were suprised that they suddenly got more female attention after they stopped chasing, but that should suprise no one here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 10:45 PM
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Lifting heavy makes a difference for me and martial arts probably saved my life, from what ive read guys need to lift heavy to get the maximum chemical benefit, thats my personal impression aswell. Sleep and daily rhytm is super important for alot of things including how your brain works, but you prob know all that aswell as that nutrients is also important, just not being deficient in anything, and getting sunlight. You are still able to find some pretty nice girls with their own issues, awalt …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 10:39 PM
1

No need to put yourself in a box, especially since you are just starting to work out, you dont really know where you stand, its a very effective depression treatment for many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 07:56 PM
3

Yep, hating the wind for blowing is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 06:47 PM
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Women tend to give rp guys more chances tho, should is irellevant, we dont live in should-world, we live in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 04:59 PM
3

Worst case of mission-creep ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 11:53 PM
12

That1 clearly went over your head :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 11:37 PM
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Critical thinking is an oppressive tool of the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 11:30 PM
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Or they could listen to a lunatic like Greer talk about how feminism is not about personal choice and how having an oppinion on genital mutilation in other cultures is arrogant. The lunatics are running the asylum, not the nurses sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 11:04 PM
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Hillary is the worst of both worlds, rightwing on multinational capitalism, left-authoritarian on social policy. Everone should hate her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 10:51 PM
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I am pretty damn left wing by American standards, I dont see any conflict, equality of oppotunity all the way. Its the illiberal social-marxist bullshit I have a problem with, not left leaning economic policy. People who are not in favor of healthy competition and free speech should stop calling themselves liberals.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 10:45 PM
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I was actually pretty honest, some of those girls are still my friends and one of them is my girlfriend. In the end they also wanted good sex, even if some of them probably wanted more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 06:51 PM
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I think most RP guys laugh at orbiters more than they fear becoming one, once a guy takes the red pill and become aware of the dynamic its just not going to happind. I was never some moral paragon, just a horny dude with good genetics who liked to work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 05:58 PM
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Because I liked fucking them and sex is no big deal, Its partly hindsight tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 05:03 PM
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My experience is that 80-90% if girls ive fucked probably were hoping for an exclusive relationship, even tho they they accepted fwb type relationship and said they were fine with it, sometimes for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 02:58 PM
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I know a few divorce's who are alot happier single than they were married, but I also knew one who drank himself to death, I guess he was just bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 02:51 PM
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Nah attraction is pretty much universal, its not a small subset of women. Congrats on having social proof, I use my female friends as social-proof too ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 12:57 PM
2

Getting liked and getting laid is two very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 12:44 PM
1

Becoming above average physically attractive is easy, it should be the first goal of a red pill newbie.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 12:28 PM
1

Im always friendly and positive, negativity is bad game.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 12:14 PM
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Any online gamer here who has never been called slurs or threatened? I doubt it. edit: anonymity makes alot of people assholes, this is just as visible on twitter as in online gaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 06:38 PM
2

The male equivalent of a slut is "creep who cant get laid" or Incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 03:19 PM
1

Obviously lizardmen from outer space control everything, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/15 09:45 PM
2

I agree but good game goes a long way combined with trp fundamentals, getting good game is achievable. Makes me feel sad when I see guys who make fools out of themselves after reading a misguided book tho, While the rest of us #close after sex and fly under the radar, instead of alienating the entire bar(or campus) with mindless cold approach (when they could use that time improving themselves instead) For many young guys the wrong kind of intro to game can lead to disaster.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 04:22 PM
2

I make a distinction between good game and "pua bullshit". Commercial pickup became a shitshow after a certain book and a tv show. Im glad people like Gunwitch, SwingCat, Zan and juggler were around when I needed them, and the forums were a goldmine in the mid 2k's and earlier, But a newbie googling how to pick up girls today will mostly get overinflated garbage, alot of which can lead to self sabotage, there is a reason a guy like juggler refused to call himself a pua. Yes game is important and…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 03:46 PM
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I would even go so far is supporting equality of oppotunity, equality of outcome(substantive equality in feminist lingo) is a delusion tho. But yes obviously equal rights for all human individuals is a must in modern society, and individuals should even be hindered as little as possible by poor parents, but we wont ever be totally equal, and I dont think we really should be. edit: changed substantial to substantive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 08:53 PM
1

Made me think, thanks. Rational alpha vs natural alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 06:26 PM
3

Askmen is refreshingly purple sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 06:13 PM
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I would say the single biggest factor is self-confidence. But thats a pretty big question. I only have a touchscreen right now but I bet someone will come along with a proper keyboard and a good explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 05:59 PM
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Since humans lived in small groups its likely that such behavior would lead to being killed, once people became able to communicate feelings and conspire. In any case thats not what an alpha is today, aggression is quite different from violence, and violent competition between peer's is different from violence against weaker members of ones own group. edit: Masculinity is not Machismo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 05:44 PM
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An alpha can also be comforting and protective, arguable a woman is alot better off with an alpha if she is in physical danger(probably one of the main reasons alpha are attractive), being protective of those close to you is alpha behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 05:38 PM
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The original physically violent human alpha male probably did not survive the the emergence of language atleast 100k years ago. Violence is not really alpha behavior, especially not violent behavior against the weak. edit: Then again we could look at the prison population.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 05:28 PM
1

I have a love/hate relationship with TYT :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 03:38 PM
2

I think people should be whoever they want to be, Ive slept with two girls who claimed to be lesbian, I think alot of them are actually bi. One of my best buddies is gay and he is awesome. I dont understand trans people, but thats irellevant, people should do/be what makes them happy. GF is bi and im very happy about that, dont have an oppinion on genderfluid since I dont really know what it means, world would be more fun if everyone was bi probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 12:29 AM
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ty you for making me lmao, so true, we choose how to act, its not fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 12:11 AM
1

SexyUgly is a thing, An ugly friend of mine became quite popular with the ladies after he became he put on alot of muscle, became physically imposing and stopped giving a fuck, Dont bother with PUA bullshit at this point, but be mindful about how people work. Cool and funny is always a plus and you may be cooler then you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 12:09 AM
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Reality is reality, morality is something else. Evo-psych is imperfect because so many things are currently untestable but its based on tons of observation and the method is solid and honest. No one should be ashamed of being pragmatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 11:17 PM
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nah sorry, I liked Cosby but he is a fucking creepy rapist, he is on record admitting to atleast one instance, its not hearsay or a witchhunt. The guy is a piece of shit who got away with it because of wealth and fame.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 01:07 PM
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Dickish post imo, not everything is about your dick, low effort+low value. There are no upside in regards to your purpose at all, only downsides, you would have to really believe in the dogma to join up, since you will be taking on a bunch of perma shit-tests, and any sexual advances you make will be russian roulette.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 03:48 AM
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Gitlab, Bitbucket and others.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 01:51 AM
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Glad to hear it, I have tried been stuck like that too, with a job I hated and unfulfilling duty sex that made me feel like shit even tho she rarely rejected me. Think ahead, join a club, try a new hobby, make a few new friends, have a fling, do some subtle dread game, start by freeing your mind.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 02:09 PM
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Im ancient lol(late 30s), have experience with literal prison and have also experienced a girl threatening suicide if I left her, in the end I called her bluff tho. Ive made some awesome friends, have hobbies I love and enough wealth to break free from the grind, and yes I have even met a few awesome and self-aware females, they are rare but they exist, never having to deal with a shitty 9-17 job again certainly makes me happier then most things and I realize I may be biased by this, but still. …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 01:40 PM
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This post made me depressed, so whiny!
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 12:48 PM
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This is gonna be hilarious and will end up leaving github as a substandard place for incompetent people, pretenders and sjw's. While people who care about code will move elsewhere and the few sjw minded people with actual talent and passion for code will be forced to stfu and follow. There are already good alternatives to GitHub.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 12:01 PM
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I could imagine, but we dont have as bad an obesity epidemic here, but being into martial arts certainly saved my young nerdy bp ass from alot of frustration, it seems to be a chick magnet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/15 09:11 AM
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Just had a conversation with my dad about how easy it was to get laid once you realize how women work and get a bit of mucles on your shoulders, over dinner with my mom agreeing lol. No havent experienced it much, I feel no need to talk about such things irl, trp is more helpful if kept personal, in fact I will cheerfully agree with feminist talking points until I can change the subject if trying to seduce a girl and serious conversation is not helpful. When saving male friends from themselves i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 06:26 PM
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Being passionate and playing on a high level is significantly less unatrractive then playing WoW, may even be turned into a minor advantage in some cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 01:17 PM
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For practical purposes for an individual guy its an improvement in many cases. Equal but different imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 12:58 PM
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Stupid is as stupid does -Forrest Gump's mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 12:53 PM
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Nah, you cant be a democratic socialist and a marxist (academic) feminist, they are mutually exclusive. I guess you can be a liberal or dem-soc and a feminist but only if you identify as a choice-feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 12:49 PM
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People rarely change after a certain age, they need to really want to change for themselves or it will just be pretending and adapting behavior to suit possibly temporary cicumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 12:19 PM
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You can get away with being average, you cant get away with being skinnyfat no matter how good your game is. Ive gone from chubby to fit and back a few times, and it changes everything imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 09:09 PM
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Working out is always worth it but there are diminishing returns at a point, not working out is madness for anyone who wants to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 09:04 PM
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I disagree, ive seen some amazing transformations irl. But yes it takes hard work that most guys are not willing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 08:40 PM
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where people start out is not really an indicator of their max, aside from hight. A tall lanky 3 nerd could literally have potential to be a male model and a fat slob who was always fat could turn out to be way more hot than the average jock of the same height. Positive reinforcement can quickly change the mindset and attitude organically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 08:28 PM
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Not working out is shooting oneself in the foot tho, its just as important, most aggressive game simply wont work without maximizing physical attractiveness and being a bit physically imposing, But this is also pretty easily attainable for most guys and should be first priority, guys should not even bother if they are skinnyfat imo, its a waste of time that could be spent in the gym or just socializing and having fun and leads to harsh rejections. I do think people need to be mindful of the diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 07:41 PM
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I was thinking mid sized town not Hollywood. And I may be biased from somewhat good genetics(not that tall tho) and existing hobbies like kickboxing and jujitsu. But the only thing you cant really change is stuff like height, face symmetry and race, the rest is a choice, having good game is a huge, bigger then many in trp realizes, I have the impression money is a bigger advantage in USA then here tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 02:48 PM
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A shit test does not even have to be verbal, but language has been around for a very long time, stoneage women shittested men im sure, Viking women shittested the fuck out of men from what ive read. But who knows, its a reality guys have to deal with today, do you think its purely cultural?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 01:35 PM
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Its not a concious thing, when a guy is failing a girls shit tests it will make her sad aswell, she wants to be attracted to him, its just nature being cruel, its an evolved natural selection mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 01:07 PM
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"Chad" never had to work hard for it, he was naturally athletic and tall, his dad is a hedge fund manager and frat connected, "Chad" always had a huge sense of entitlement. "Chad" is half rolemodel/half joke to rp'ers, my impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 12:48 PM
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Father is rp is fuck, I went bluepill for awhile as part of a teenage rebellion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 11:43 AM
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Yep, pretty sure its true, never met a girl who did not like being physically dominated after there was a bit of trust, and was told alot of times that it was so great that i wasnt wimpy like all the other guys. Im not talking full Christian Grey or being degraded or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 03:49 AM
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Bah accidentally deleted post, touchscreen gah. Talking while cooking is a great way to get to know each other, Girls were usually comfortable enough after first date to come hang out, but I get the first date on neutral ground thing, I just refuse to do a string of dates, seems like a wierd traditionalist thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 03:19 AM
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But seriously, placing oneself effectively in the top 10% of guys on the club/bar scene can be done in 6 months to a year with a bit of dedication. Obviously ltr is a little different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 02:32 AM
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Not all, just most, atleast sometimes. And there is a serious shortage of guys who will be unapologetically dominant in bed these days, especially if you combine it with the expectation of a guy being physically fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 02:19 AM
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There are also plenty of red pill men who have never heard of trp or the term red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 02:04 AM
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Im a bit split on FRs, I used to basically act like a caveman to get laid for awhile and I was honestly suprised that it worked, and I have done some pretty dick'ish things and got away with it because girls were attracted to me, including turning a sex-less relationship into the opposite with dread game(before i knew the term) and realizing she could not be faking her increased libido conciously like that, it was not her giving me more duty sex to keep me around. Its rare I read something that …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 10:51 PM
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Did not take long, but it was before reddit and had a good rl mentor, basically red pilled me in a more spiritual way and got me to embrace nature. I had a few angry years before swallowing the pill tho. Hating nature is futile, dont hate the wind for blowing, dont hate women for being women, accept anger, dont embrace it, it needs to play itself out but its a road to nowhere. A guy named Zan P from the seduction community also changed me some years later, I can recommend his book "The Alabaster…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 10:16 PM
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Rape culture is basically conspiracy theory(and was invented by a lunatic called Andrea Dworkin)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 01:19 PM
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So basically you swallowed half a red pill but are a nice person, I think trp sub does not concern itself at all with right or wrong but only what is more likely to work from a self-interest perspective. It does not really matter if nawalt when doing sexual strategy, most people know awalt is more of a strategic mindset that is more likely to be right then not as opposed to 100% fact, its cold pragmatism. I personally find the trp sub a bit too negative sometimes, but it sure beats being a naive…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 12:10 PM
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Nah left leaning economic policies play a large part in that happiness, I think you can argue that in the case of Sweden it is despite of feminism tho. But feminism and left leaning economic policies are two different things, there is less political tribalism in northern Europe then USA and a very different political systems with alot of different parties and where smaller parties can have real influence on issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 10:56 AM
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Yes to a degree, but its secondary to self-interest. Feminsim does not have as much political power in Norway and Finland as it does in USA/Canada, and Denmark does not give a fuck about political correctness, non-choice feminists are laughed at and marginalized, Sweden is a very special case and not comparable to the rest of scandinavia. You cant be a democratic socialist(or a liberal obviously) and a marxist feminist, they are mutually exclusive. Its left leaning economic policies and (practic…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 10:48 AM
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Good obviously, but it does result in some "growing pains".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 10:31 AM
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I have helped out a handful of friends thru the years, some who were simply beta clueless and some who got themselves lost in Mystery Method or other such bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 10:28 AM
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If a guy is low smv a year after swallowing the pill then he is doing it wrong. It takes about 6 months to become very physically attractive unless you have some genetic disadvantage. My guess is that most regulars and veterans have smv far above average and most newbies are below. Getting good game is suprisingly easy when you look "hot" and suddenly have healthy testosterone levels, with a little guidance to avoid bad behaviors obviously, in many cases book of pook will do the trick, guys will…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 10:08 AM
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nah, become better, read sidebar, especially no more mr nice guy and book of pook, and hit the gym and do martial arts. also read meditations/marcus aurelius and the prince/niccolo machiavelli. having game is great, just know the difference between good game and "pua bullshit".
/r/askTRP19/07/15 12:29 AM
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Having female friends you dont want to fuck is great, treat her like a male friend. Hypergamy does not apply to friendships lol, awalt does tho.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 10:01 PM
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I see no problem, have fun, dont be an asshole, win/win.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 09:50 PM
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I think its pointless, being judgemental of others is one of the most unattractive character traits there is, I dont see any difference between girls doing cc or guys spending a month in thailand, its actually a funny comparison :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 09:19 PM
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always was? its a sjw trp parody sub, it really has nothing to do with "being blue pill". Its more like a brown pill :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 09:04 PM
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Yeah definately, it may help stop him if he has previous victims or rapes someone else in the future, and he may crack under interrogation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 07:37 PM
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In my country that kind of behavior would get a guy assaulted pretty fast, but im not American either. I guess a woman grabbing my crotch at a bar or hugging me without permission and rubbing her vulva against my leg counts as assault in USA, I just have a hard time with the word, its obviously NOT acceptable behavior in any case. edit: im not dismissing your claim or anything, im sure some places have alot less respect for women then in most of the west, and there is obviously a huge difference…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 06:32 PM
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There is a huge difference from getting ones ass slapped and rape tho, I have also experienced getting groped, while it was certainly crossed a line I would not use a word like assault to describe it, when having been actually assaulted and spending a few days in a hospital i feel it cheapens the word, by those standards I was sexually assaulted twice in one evening once.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 06:05 PM
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There sadly are no credible research on the subject, half the stats spouted by feminists says USA is literally worse then Rwanda during the genocide, which is obviously nuts. I remember the RAINN study and only a 3rd of the people supposedly raped felt that they had been raped and participant selection had a huge selection bias, it was in no way representative. Basically if feminists are involved its probably not credible research, its like getting the Koch's to research global warming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 05:46 PM
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I think its prob 50/50 here but super anecdotal obviously, but they do some cc'ing in between relationships, thats my impression from female friends anyway, once they get out of a relationship they often sleep with a few random guys before getting into a new one, atleast in their early 20s. But I also know couples who have been together since their late teens. I just think the cc thing is a bit less universal then some ppl in the manosphere thinks. edit: being a bit ab at this point may colour m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 05:22 PM
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Just as many are serial-monogamists as are riding the cc, I think the cc thing is partly paranoia, tho im pretty sure the hypergamy is very real. Some girls are hardcore cc riders until approaching the wall, its not uncommon, but I honestly think serial monogamy is more common in most places.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 04:45 PM
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Plenty of reasons, having female friends is great, if for nothing else then for social proof as a huge game booster, Its alot easier to get laid with friends of female friends then with strangers, having girls who really like you in a party setting is a game changer aswell, you are concidered pre-approved and certified non-psycho. Also some girls are pretty awesome and self-aware and can make valuable and fun friends, and experience with talking to girls and being comfortable around them is also…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 04:13 PM
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Most women with a bit of self-awareness can appreciate book of pook I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 03:56 PM
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nah, serves no pupose, but I dont usually hide my oppinions either on things either, I dont think ive ever used the term red pill or any of the terminology offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 03:47 PM
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Sex is a mutual, its not something a guy does to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 02:23 PM
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It has realy nothing to do with feminism(or trp) and everything to do with evolution. Its no more a double standard then claiming men can generally lift heavier things, I guess denying sexual dimorphism is a core bluepill and feminist thing, but thats just as dumb as denying global climate change. Red pill = Equal but different. edit: Something that takes alot of hard work and dedication(being a slut for most men) vs Something that takes very little effort(being a slut for most women), Its not "…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 01:07 PM
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I guess im a purple'ish shade of red myself, good points. But being red pill does not mean excepting every theory on trp as fact, it means looking at what people do instead of listening to what they say, rejecting mainstream "romance" bullshit and adapting to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 12:52 PM
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"being a slut is easy, being a stud is hard" makes no sense to pretend there is a direct comparison or gender parity there when there really is not, its a biological thing. That being said hating nature is futile and being judgemental is unattractive in all people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 12:47 PM
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Very good point, I agree, cant really blame a guy from being born in the matrix and still being plugged in, in most cases the girl has plausible deniability at best, she knows exactly whats up. It just makes me sad how clueless otherwise very intelligent guys can be, and its so obvious to the rest of us just how unattractive their behavior is on a primal level, growing up on sitcom "romance" bullshit and mainstream anti-masculinity will mess guys up big time, its like a society wide mass shittes…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 12:14 PM
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I think its mostly useless, sub should be purple even if many users are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 10:54 AM
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You dont need to be full rp, but atleast swallow half a red pill and be a good guy instead of a nice guy, the problem is that nice guys are dishonest and brainwashed by society to think being liked will get them laid, when being liked and being attractive is two totally different things. Another problem is that alot of girls will happily use a nice guy for anything except sex even if she knows what he is and is aware she can manipulate him because he has a crush on her, this is somehow not looke…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 10:34 AM
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I sensed the pain too, we may just be projecting tho? :) Sounded like massive rationalization to himself to deal with pain and insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 09:36 PM
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Yeah it would take him a significant amount of time and effort(time that would detract from the relationship) to use his "Carte blanche" as much as he wanted, thats basic bio-truth, im pretty sure he would be put in his place if that happined, but who knows, he may have a low libido lol. I almost feel sad for the guy, she would almost definately leave him if he wanted to go back to monogamy or wanted any kind of rules she disagreed with and he knows it. Me and gf have a somewhat open relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 09:19 PM
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If a woman weighed more then me then she better be alot taller then me aswell, or a prof bodybuilder, with my muscle mass and bone structure most women my height would be very unhealthy if they weighed the same as me lol. But I have no problem with chubby girls as long as they are not couch potatoes, preferable to too skinny imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 08:19 PM
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Having female friends is great!
/r/askTRP17/07/15 08:03 PM
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Too many Americans and other people from places where feminism has alot political power. I dont mind, I kinda get it, the misuse of the word liberal gets annoying tho. Marxist Feminism and liberalism are mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 05:58 PM
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Game is different from TRP, a redpiller will happily claim to be a feminist just for lulz, strategy is not worth much if you share it with the opposition, thats just dumb. Almost all women are attracted masculine men, it does not matter what "type" she is, and not having a positive attitude is just bad game, rp guys vent in trp not in a rl social setting(unless they are idiots who misunderstand both game and trp), a nerdy programmer is alot more attractive when he drops WoW and starts lifting an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 05:18 PM
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not quite, countries like Holland and Denmark are free speech absolutists, even more then USA.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 04:58 PM
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We need to make a clear distinction between good game and "pua bullshit" at this point, Commercial pickup has turned into a shitshow thats best avoided and alot of the material sold is misleading and counterproductive for most guys. I knew guys reading tons of books on pickup, going out every weekend and getting nowhere. While some of us read a 2004 forum post by gunwitch, Hit the gym and were actually getting laid. Yes having good game IS fucking important if you want a dynamic sex life.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 02:55 PM
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Its like core inner game? internalize that shit, the mindset is more useful then the ferrari. just make sure you internalize it asap and spend as little time as possible faking it.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 12:02 PM
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I look at poly as useless bloat, I want sex with multible people I dont need additional emotional relationship drama or more people for emotional support. looks like a more female-centric version of plate spinning, I guess some alpha guys could make it work but it just seems uninteresting to me, why would I want extra complications? Its not like I dont have an emotional connection with a fwb but why would I want all kinds of structural bullshit and obligations, from what ive read most poly relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 07:20 PM
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nah its a wasteland for below average guys, unless they want to pay. the option to easily sex below average girls dont really exist for below average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 11:44 AM
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men who get desperate enough for intimacy dont, guys with alot of experience or options have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 11:38 AM
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Contrast is also great, a nerdy who gets into martial arts and puts on some muscle has a huge edge on the typical "jock". I initially discounted Manson's sophistication tips because I had been doing caveman game and essentially acting dumber then I was(with alot of success), but there is some truth to it.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 08:05 PM
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If a girl is really attracted she will find anything interesting, on the flip side if she is not nothing you say or do will be interesting to her. Women will also forgive you all kinds of things if she is attracted and dump on you for the smallest thing if she is not.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 07:46 PM
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Suppressing anger is very bad, but anger also becomes self-destructive at a point, hating women for being women is basically like hating the wind for blowing, at some point guys have to let go and just accept that nature is nature and focus on things they can actually change instead of being angry at a world they cant change. I reserve my anger for individuals who deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 05:12 PM
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Former BP and feminist, but snapped out of it long before reddit and TRP, Basically I had been trying be someone I was not and it was killing my soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 04:59 PM
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I think guys not wanting ltr with girls who are "sluts" is fine, I get it, people usually dont change unless they really want too, I just think slut shaming is dumb because being judgemental is unattractive and bad game, and anger is self-harm. I dont always agree with everyone on TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 12:33 AM
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Indirectly yes, but I doubt he did as a kid, who knows.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 09:06 PM
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Slut shaming and judgemental behavior is the epitomy of bad game and thats why I dont do it personally. In my experience slut shaming irl IS mostly something other girls do, I cant remember the last time I heard a guy slut shame a girl. I think guys who slut shame are resentful that: "being a slut is easy, being a stud is hard" which is just reality. Its almost always linked to personal experiences like being cheated on or having crappy sex lives pre-RP, having lived in their blue pill delusion …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/15 08:59 PM
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But nothing beats a positive fun loving alpha with nothing to prove, alot of guy in TRP are going thru an anger phase and thats really not attractive to most girls. I think you are an outlier or you are lying to yourself, beta behavior like supplication and apologizing for yourself is universally unattractive and being alpha does not mean being cold and indifferent, it means be confident and not letting people take you for granted. edit: cocky is overrated imo, which may be what you are referrin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/15 07:13 PM
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You can be very compassionate as long as its conditional, the problem is when you let people abuse your kindness and still try to be kind. For ltr's you have to show vulnerability and its fine in many cases, as long as people know its conditional and you are ready to be emotionally honest about your anger aswell. I always aim to be pleasant to be around and add value to those around me(both men and women), I have nothing to prove, I know who I am. I feel bad for people who think they have to act…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 06:28 PM
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He is like the most happy and optimistic of TRP'ers, on this sub there are alot of people who are (understandably) bitter because they bought into the mainstream bullshit for too long, alot of people struggling thru their anger phase. Rogan is definately inspirational, RP as fuck and a great rolemodel.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 06:08 PM
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He started doing Teakwondo because he was being bullied, he has talked about that, But he did become an alpha relatively early.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 05:55 PM
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Rogan is a pretty inspirational dude imo.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 05:50 PM
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wont work in a free secular society, only if you have strong societal control and people who believe mortal life is only an unimporant stepping stone to eternity, or if you need suicide bombers and can offer them 72 virgins in the afterlife. The imbalance would cause too many problems with young males who could not find a mate, it would lead to revolt.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 04:36 PM
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nope its a CORE human rights issue, its insane that its legal to mutilate infant genitals in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/15 12:46 PM
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Im not against the MRM, they do important work, I dislike that a part of it has fallen into americentric right vs left bullshit, and that a significant part waste their time fighting feminists(once again feminism succeded in making everything about itself lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/15 12:45 PM
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Gay marriage is hardly a cultural shift, it has zero impact on anything unless you are a fundie or a gay who wants to marry.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 09:34 PM
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nope, gay marriage has zero impact on society, polygamy could destroy society, two very different things with nothing in common. Polygamy is never going to be legal in western society for obvious reasons, but who cares, marriage is a shit idea anyway, a smart RP guy can have a virtual harem + a submissive main, why the fuck would he want polygamy. Gay marriage is literally only an issue for gay people and "last days" christians, totally irellevant for everyone else and has no effect the structur…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 09:31 PM
1

I have literally never been accused of being sexist irl aside from once when I was arguing with a feminist for fun, overt sexism is dumb and pointless. I dont think im sexist, what other people think constitutes sexism is not my concern tho, especially if its coming from silly gender ideologues. Men and women are obviously different, but I know some awesome self-aware women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/15 11:54 AM
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Modern feminism came out of marxist activism in UK in the 70s. Whatever issues the suffragettes may have had they are not the same group or ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/15 04:50 PM
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Aversion to anal lol really? I dont think TRP has an oppinion on anal sex. Anal is over rated imo, porn is great but can decensitize you if you watch it too much, which is bad, Anal in porn does nothing for me personally, some rare exceptions. The average mass produced porn is just not that intersting generally, I like amateur porn better, its only fun to watch if the people on screen are having fun doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/15 04:35 PM
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Yeah she is your daughters mother, make your daughter your top priority, its best for her if her mom and dad dont hate each other too much. Be practical and do what you got to do.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 03:16 AM
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That sucks bro :'( Im speechless.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 03:11 AM
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TRP is very sex focused, but its still the same pill being swallowed, its just a different way to handle being exposed to reality, I rarely go to /r/MGTOW myself so I will just take your word for it(I believe you and can see why) I respect MGTOW for their personal choice and watch Spatnaz and Barbarossa's vids on youtube, tho many YT MGTOW's are a little too angry and bitter for my taste, but Spatsnaz is amazing and deep way beyond just being MGTOW, im sure he helps alot of guys understand thems…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/15 02:44 AM
3

"Being a slut is easy, being a stud is hard" There is no gender symmetry there, only harsh bio-truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/15 02:16 AM
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Not for me, I like sex with multible people, not relationship drama with multible people, partner swaps, 3somes and a shared fwb works just fine, having a bi girlfriend is awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/15 01:35 AM
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There is some overlap between TRP and MGTOW and alot of TRP'ers reject marriage aswell, There are quite a few very RP MGTOW guys, TRP rejects the herbivore/ghosting crowd tho, but im not judging, I personally think its sad but thats just me, celibacy is not something to be glorified. Its fair to say many MGTOW have swallowed the red pill but dealt with the reality they faced differently from the TRP'ers, But MGTOW is pretty diverse and alot of them are definately not celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/15 01:02 AM
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You only have to fake it for awhile, then it becomes a part of you and its not faking anything anymore, lifting like many RP'ers do also increases testosterone which changes behavior and attitude, also not faking. Its not like women are always super honest and direct about their thoughts and feelings either, its alot easier to get a straight answer from a guy if you ask him what the problem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/15 12:54 AM
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Blue Pill: Mainstream sitcom "romance" bullshit, women are wonderful/special, men are simple, love is magic etc. Red Pill: Reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/15 12:50 AM
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If a guy took the red pill a year ago and he is not significantly above average attrativeness then he is doing it wrong, is extremely busy with work or has a genetic handicap. If a guy lets himself totally go and becomes a slob the girl might leave him, just like if the roles were reversed. edit: It takes about 6 months for an average guy to basically get to look like an hot jock, and the increased testosterone will effect behavior quite a bit aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 11:42 PM
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Yes behavior is a choice, its it gets internalized faster then most people think. It takes about 6 weeks to develop a new habit or lose a bad one. We create ourselves more then we discover ourselves really.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 11:13 PM
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We dont all agree on everything, but I dont think people have a problem dating promiscuous women, not for fun/sex anyway. I think people should be matched a bit in number of partners if they plan on going full monogamy for life, having sex with 50+ different people is very easy for a girl, but very hard for most guys. I think its mostly a feeling, guys are entitled to their feelings aswell, and its not exclusive to TRP or anything new. Also most people dont really change much. edit: Another thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 10:56 PM
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Because people are complicated and want different things. Doing what others think you should do and apologizing for yourself is beta, doing what you want and not apologizing for who you are is alpha. TRP is probably not a place for the small minority of guys who are not naturally masculine tho, but many have just been suppressing their masculinity to their own detriment. Im pretty caring if people deserve it, I become cold pretty fast if people abuse it tho.(actually I become sad, but will act c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 10:44 PM
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Will getting rid of sexist views help him get laid? In my experience no, it wont make a girl he likes fall in love with him either, there is really no upside aside from maybe a pat on the the head, not saying guys should become more sexist or be overtly sexist(thats just dumb), but they should worry alot less about being percieved as sexist and just be their own masculine selves. Women tend to like masculine men, and if a women is sexually attracted she will forgive alot of things, it simply won…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 09:20 PM
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Nah you wont :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 08:45 PM
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You cant tell the difference between Chad and me, he may be a few cm's taller then me but thats it :) Unless someone is screwed by genetics its easy to look like a Chad, it takes about 6 months and maintenance after that. Also I really love women, they are funny, cute and soft, awalt and all that but I dont hate the wind for blowing either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 08:38 PM
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So basically you filter out exceptionally dumb, mildly autistic redpillers or those going thru an anger phase :) I would act interested but clueless if I was really interested in you, but feminist is a bit of a red flag to me, unless you specifically called yourself a choice-feminist, then you may be worth my time. The drink thing does not work either, if we had been talking for awhile (and I liked you) and you asked me to bring you back something from the bar I might just do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 08:33 PM
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Nah almost no one is born alpha, most alphas are made, some learn it from their dad, some learn it by taking a stand against a bully, some learn it from reading a book and working with themselves and getting positive reinforcement over time. The end result is the same. Genetics can give you an advantage/handicap tho, but it basically boils down to height, face symmetry and not having a mental handicap.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 08:11 PM
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Nah he cant, only the Mystery Method/RSD guys and other dancing monkeys chasing phone numbers instead of pussy. With more experienced guys not doing silly tricks and routines its no different from watching any other confident masculine guy, the only difference being he wont waste his time unless the girl is invested in the interaction aswell and there is mutual attraction(plenty of fish and all that).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 07:51 PM
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Too friendly is not useful, unless you are there to make friends. You are there to get laid, not to get liked, too much wide eyed smiley shit can kill sexual attraction, cool is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 07:50 PM
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=46286 Original Gunwitch Method from old forum. Its perfect for hot red pill guys in party settings.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 07:39 PM
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Mark Manson is not horrible, some really useful stuff in Models. Swingcat and Gunwitch were the guys who helped me most. Models is an exception imo its one of the few commercial books about seduction that is not shit.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 07:26 PM
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There is no difference really, very few people were always alpha, A guy like Joe Rogan became alpha because he was bullied and started doing martial arts. Some just become alpha's later then others and most never do.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 07:18 PM
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Agree, once you are somewhat alpha all the routines and shit are more likely to hurt then help you, its useful as a backup only. Thats not saying you should not have game and be somewhat concious about what you are doing.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 07:14 PM
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Gunwitch Method was basically hardcore alpha game back in 2004 but alot of the PUA stuff today with complicated systems and routines is bullshit and screw guys up, girls are genetically gifted at spotting fakes, alot of inexperienced guys are misled and end up alienating people around them. The commercial side of PUA starting with Mystery is 90% counterproductive garbage, some even argue that you should not work out because it takes time away from working on your game (lol ikr), Its all about gu…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 07:03 PM
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Orwell and Hitchens, two of my favorite democratic-socialists of all time. Because they were fucking liberal, democratic, and free speech absolutists, something that is becoming rare on the left these days, especially in the Americentric bubble.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 04:58 PM
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Was with a girl once who admitted to starting fights with me because me being angry and assertive turned her on, She was not a bad person and her "knowing her place" and making it up to me was the role where she was most comfortable with her sexuality, she was not a bad person just AWALT. It was my fault for buying into all the "romance" and nice guy bullshit and forcing her to push me from one extreme to another to feel attracted to me. After a big fight she was super sweet for a week and wante…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 02:16 PM
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Im sure you will get a pretty fucking positive response, you will get shit tested tho, lean back, take up space, have fun, enjoy. Dont think too much about it, be a positive alpha with a mentality of abundance and enjoy the reunion.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 11:42 PM
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Some men care less then others, some have more resources, some buy less into moralistic bullshit(Most who have an issue with prostitution are women, and the reasons are obvious). I think its a VERY important thing in society, Its a profession I very much respect. I think its dependent on societal brainwashing and circumstance, but it is distinctly different from actually seducing a girl and fucking her because you both just want to fuck each other, material supplication is something else, whethe…
/r/askTRP30/06/15 07:21 PM
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"No more Mr. Nice guy" can be life changing.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 03:33 PM
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Bad advice, but probably marginally better then what he is currently doing.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 03:27 PM
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Dont act like a player, that fucking stupid, especially if you are incongruent(which you obviously are), BE alpha, dont ACT alpha. Its far better to risk showing a little vulnerability then being viewed as a fake. Be yourself+improve yourself, DONT put up an act, chosing to be a cocky/funny and flirtatious is fine, but thats a game and everyone knows its a game, there HAS to be a genuine person underneath, You cant really fool girls like that, Sounds to me like you are self-sabotaging, you DONT …
/r/askTRP30/06/15 03:02 PM
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Fuck yes, no problem. I banged a 17yo for a summer when I was in my early 30s. Depending on how you look you can be a bit venue restricted for pickup tho, Im in ltr with a former plate thats more then a decade younger then me. Dont worry about becoming 30, dont even worry about nearing your 40s imo, no prob if you are fit, got your shit together and have a youthful mindset, women my age are way too old for me generally lol, I click much better with younger girls.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 10:14 AM
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I disagree with nothing you said, its perfectly possible to fuck up a ltr by acting alpha when its not appropriate, I would not be with my girlfriend if I could not be 100% myself with her.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 03:46 PM
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OP is viewing the world thru a mainstream/feminist lens. OP should stop doing this. If a woman feels im being emotionally abusive(and I disagree) she is free to leave, the end. Its not often I recommend people think LESS, but in this case I will. edit: dont be a shit, dont tolerate shit, be emotionally honest, simple.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 01:59 PM
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Prostitution is legal in most of the west.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 04:13 AM
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A friend of mine has alot of acne scars and is pretty ugly, It did not matter after he became very muscular, if anything he became better at getting ONS then me, before he started working out it mattered alot more. SexyUgly is a real thing and is usually better then pretty.
/r/seduction16/06/15 12:06 PM
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Most commercial PUA shit is over-inflated garbage, im so glad I stumpled on gunwitch and swingcat on the forums 7-8yrs ago and already liked working out. Dont know about Tyler but I have this creeping suspicion that alot of "pua gurus" are alot better at "seducing" desperate guys then seducing women.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 09:57 AM
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Yep in dating some people have a race handicap, depending on where they live, shown clearly from dating site statistics, its not fair but it is reality, google if you care.
/r/seduction09/06/15 02:57 PM
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You can still fuck cute UG's who are shorter then you, but drop the pua thing, plenty of less socially adept "pua" guys scare away girls who would otherwise fuck them(if they were just normal, masculine and willing to escalate). Also if have not already then for gods sake put on some muscle, its a total game changer, and will make you able to fuck HB's no matter how ugly your face is, SexyUgly is win. Get 'Minimal Game' by Aaron Sleezy and drop the routines except as backup. But yes, stop caring…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 12:53 AM
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So basically a band of political-lesbian warpigs on a crusade to avoid girls getting soiled by the penis, and to stop anyone from having fun? Trying to use shaming tactics to socially-engineer. Great, what else is new?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 07:18 AM
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Girls can get a bit salty if they want you to make a move and you dont, girls signals can be very subtle, but If a girl is touching you while you are touching her during flirting then she is pretty much DTF lol. edit:Also stop reading seddit as much lol, learn to play the guitar instead lol, maybe read a book or work out.
/r/seduction07/06/15 06:55 AM
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Irellevant, its a numbers game, the goal is alot of fun sex with different women, appealing to a small subset of women exclusively is dumb, and even if she happinds to be one incongruence will screw it up for 99% of guys.
/r/seduction07/06/15 06:40 AM
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Its not something that is going to work for the majority of guys here(or in the Roosh'spere honestly). Some of us probably could get away with it, but realize it is better just to walk up and say 'hi' in a confident way and see if there is a connection. Guys who are actually nervous are a shitload better off saying "im a bit nervous and I dont usually do this, but I felt I had to come talk to you" then some incongruent shit like that. I agree its better to say "give me your number so we can hang…
/r/seduction07/06/15 05:45 AM
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Yep, I would totally do something like this for fun sometimes, but its really not going to help anyone get into a girls pants, its alot more likely to get a guy rejected by a girl who would fuck him anyway if he didnt screw up too badly and had the balls to make moves on her.
/r/seduction07/06/15 05:37 AM
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You have a way too big concious sense of entitlement, and a way too small subconcious sense of entitlement. Single best way to boost your confidence before going out is working out(remember to eat something good after you are done, hold back on the carbs).
/r/seduction07/06/15 05:26 AM
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Bullshit imo.
/r/seduction07/06/15 05:11 AM
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This is good advice.
/r/seduction07/06/15 04:59 AM
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You are pretty good looking actually, if you put on 5-10kg of muscle you could be quite hot, it would also negate most of your race handicap, only problem I see is your head being too big for your body, easily fixable. What activities can I do to attract women and score dates ? Martial arts, always martial arts, for some reason you liking to get your ass kicked by other dudes(and being able to protect her) make girls wet like nothing else, its pushing all her "badboy" buttons or some shit. Stran…
/r/seduction07/06/15 04:52 AM
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As an assistant it may be okay(?), but its not a good idea, dont run game at work unless you are calibrated as fuck bordering on being a mindreader(and even then), especially if you live in some "feminist hellhole", I would say just dont, obviously being super charming is great, most girls would be aware that they have to make a move if they are very attrated to you.
/r/seduction07/06/15 04:32 AM
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'Minimal Game' by Aaron Sleezy. Drop the NLP, Cold Reading is a cool thing to know but has very limited usefulness in actually getting pussy. Also: Book of Pook
/r/seduction07/06/15 04:24 AM
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Nah, looks matter ALOT, but its not about being "pretty", putting on 5-10kg of muscle will change your game totally. But your problem is mostly confidence and you forgetting to have fun I think.
/r/seduction07/06/15 04:15 AM
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The overtly sexual thing I do is mostly for screening(and fun obviously). Its not needed, its just as a fast way find out if girls are physically attracted to me, if they are not then im wasting my time. This is more club/party game, you have to be more careful in niche and social circle game, or you risk putting in a cockblock for yourself thats hard to get rid off(being "that guy"). You MUST have a sexual/horny mindset, but STOP verbalizing it, girls like that need plausible deniability when y…
/r/seduction07/06/15 03:48 AM
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Also this, but be congruent, its still better to be viewed as not having much confidence then to be seen as a fake. Most girls will not react that badly to a guy lacking confidence, she may even think its cute(and still sleep with you if she is physically attracted and you dont fuck up), but if she feels you are fake then its over. Work on your mindset, dont try to fake behavior.
/r/seduction05/06/15 07:28 PM
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You cant really fool girls, plenty of guys sabotage themselves by being too "gamey" instead of getting an emotional connection, and end up actually turning off a girl they could have fucked if they were just a normal guy with confidence who was having fun with her.
/r/seduction05/06/15 07:09 PM
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You gotta connect with the girl emotionally, and you must have fun, the actual words coming out of your mouth are less important. You must make her feel that you are a real person she has a connection with, and when you touch her its because you really like touching her, people who are not psychopaths cant really fake that, it has to be genuine.
/r/seduction05/06/15 07:02 PM
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Dont ask girls on dates, ask them come hang out with you instead(wanna hang out and watch a movie). As soon as you say date it fits into a societal framework that includes alot of rules and potential shame, too serious, serious is not sexy. She obviously wants you, hang out with her and see what happinds, and remember: Never kiss and tell.
/r/seduction05/06/15 05:44 PM
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First of all you have become way too focused on the pussy, this is bad. You need to change that mindset and learn to think less, for now put all the outer game shit on a shelf, its likely to hurt you more then help you until you learn to relax just talking to women you want to fuck. I recommend trying to talk to women just like you would talk to off-limit girls, and get into a really horny mindset while doing it, imagine you undressing and fucking her while having a normal conversation, try it i…
/r/seduction05/06/15 04:49 PM
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Same for me, the difference between creepy and interesting is basically 3+days/week at the gym. You can get away with so much crazy/fun shit if you are physically attractive/imposing, especially in club game. Face does not even matter much, an ugly friend of mine has the SexyUgly thing working like a charm, best caveman game ive ever seen.
/r/seduction05/06/15 12:17 PM
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It will also make her not take you for granted, A guy having options makes him alot more desireable, basically no one is getting out of the friendzone if they are not fucking other girls, I guess her being aware other girls want you and other girls saying you are hot could work too. edit: Physical attraction is huge, it should be the first step after dialing the friendship back a notch, im constantly chocked at how many guys are doing game but not working out, its just stupid.
/r/seduction05/06/15 11:31 AM
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And most importantly: Fuck other girls.
/r/seduction05/06/15 11:20 AM
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Yeah, what I did was: working out hard and making myself more physically attractive, sleeping with other girls (this is the big one), treating her with mild/friendly indifference(no more 'I have a crush on you priviledges') When she suddenly was interested in me I was not that interested in her anymore, I was definately over wanting her as a girlfriend, because I was aware how she had tried to get free rides because of my feelings for her(getting me to do things for her, driving her places, list…
/r/seduction05/06/15 11:04 AM
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Dont be so literal, its just saying emotional pain will make you stronger if you face it in the right way.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 07:04 AM
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"Pain is the feeling of weakness leaving your body"
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 03:50 PM
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Its kind of a waste of time, and its much easier to have fun interacting with a girl you find interesting(And you MUST have fun). You must also be able to get into that horny mindset where she feels your intent even tho its not verbalized, else you are not really practicing your game imo. A high number of approaches has no value in itself, most guys will gain more confidence from good fun interactions with women they find interesting instead.
/r/seduction04/06/15 11:38 AM
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Yoga is great, but with martial arts you wanna go for contact sports like kickboxing or jujitsu, not style/form focused stuff.
/r/seduction04/06/15 09:21 AM
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Pulling girls off other guys is fun, but get over your oneitis. Her boyfriend should not be your concern unless you know/like him, or if the girl is truly something special and you want her for yourself.
/r/seduction04/06/15 09:01 AM
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Yes, but dont underestimate the value of testosterone and feeling strong. Also it makes a pretty big difference in how girls reacts to you, which boosts your confidence.
/r/seduction04/06/15 08:40 AM
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Use eye-contact, once you get a smile from the girl then smile+approach. only approach girl you actually find interesting. The value of random cold-approach is vastly over-rated(unless you are trying to desensitize/challenge yourself). Nothing wrong with easing into it gradually and building confidence that way. edit: imo the only time cold approach is really good is when you have confidence enough to go "horny caveman" at clubs and screen out girls who are not interested fast by being very phys…
/r/seduction04/06/15 08:20 AM
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Its the truth, nothing anyone can learn will give you as big an advantage as this, especially if you are currently skinny/fat, it changes everything. Hot guy with a little style, basic social skills and alpha attitude will beat any skinny/fat "master PUA" any day of the week when it comes to fucking alot of different girls, and if people think they have an ugly face then they should ask the most sexually experienced girl they know what "SexyUgly" means. Nerds should stop selling themselves short…
/r/seduction04/06/15 07:58 AM
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I have tons more luck actually getting laid by going horny caveman, more rejections, no #'s until after sex, but alot more pussy. Im told im pretty naturally funny tho. edit:talking club/bar game obviously.
/r/seduction04/06/15 07:24 AM
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First step: stop trying to be an entertainer, do fun stuff with them instead and connect with them as people.
/r/seduction04/06/15 07:08 AM
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Always be physical early(hand of her waist, hold her hand etc) If she does not mind you touching her and playes along then its pretty much on, you just gotta make it happind and not it fuck up. If she consistantly shy's away from physicality then its not going to happind, she might be unavailable or just not physically attracted to you, and you are wasting your time. You think too much, stop trying to be smooth. disclaimer: Im talking club game obviously, but physicality is everything if you wan…
/r/seduction04/06/15 07:00 AM
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If you have a particular interest in that stuff fine, but it wont get you laid.
/r/seduction04/06/15 06:15 AM
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If you like fucking girls you should work out 6 days/week anyway, else you are shooting yourself in the foot. Concider getting into martial arts if dont just want to just lift, it also makes you push her subconcious badboy buttons. edit: why the downvotes? :) Its a significantly bigger advantage for getting ONS then being rich is, why deny oneself a big advantage that is relatively easy to obtain? Goal is getting laid?
/r/seduction04/06/15 06:02 AM
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Pro girls can be great fun, not judging. You dont have to act "alpha" all the time, thats a misunderstanding, must be really stressfull for people who think that lol.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 11:02 PM
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Brilliant! Its gonna really suck for beta's if being poly goes mainstream tho :D
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 02:55 AM
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I only date girls with bi tendencies if I can get away with it, Bi girlfriends are awesome, you just didnt have enough value to her.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 02:37 AM
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So was Christopher Hitchens.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 12:41 AM
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Sanders is pretty cool, also a hunter.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 12:32 AM
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Sure he is, he is just not red pill.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 09:37 PM
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Be you, be happy, be uninterested in her, dont care enough to be an asshole.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 11:36 PM
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Its just normal young girls mostly, but I have no ego in it, only desire, I dont care if other people think a girl is hot if she turns me on and I want to fuck her. I think you underestimate the Adventurousness and hornyness of the average girl, you are putting women on a pedestal in your mind, they are not pure innocent angels, they are primates(all of them).
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 11:22 PM
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Height is massively over-rated.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 10:58 PM
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Fun story, brought back some memories for me.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 07:35 PM
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I disagree on your view on working girls, my experience is that most have nymphomaniac tendencies but are quite sane, alot of them even do it as a hobby while living totally normal lives. Ive had some crazy awesome experiences with pro's. When they get a guy who turns them on and is not a creep they can be very grateful, I guess it might be different if you live somewhere prostitution is illegal and not a legitimate profession.(It most likely is, different kind of person doing the job, more drug…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 05:48 PM
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The foreskin is extremely sensitive, circumcision was initially popularized (mostly in USA) as a cure for masturbation and to lessen sexual appetite to reduce promiscuous behavior. Obviously it does not really work like that, but cut guys are alot more likely to need viagra when they get older because of decresed sensation from the lack of foreskin and the exposed glans constantly being in contact with clothing over a lifetime. https://youtu.be/gCSWbTv3hng <- Fun college-humour vid that explains…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 05:36 PM
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Im extremely impressed by GG. I think their strength is not giving a fuck about media narrative, They already won the ethics fight but embrace the culture war, a fight that sjw's picked with them to defend some of their own in the media, its rather brilliant. I have no problem with MRA's, but I think they go caught up focusing on fighting feminists(on feminists terms) and feminists once again succeded in making everything about them. The MRM used to be alot more about issues, now it looks to mos…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 04:15 PM
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Dont care anymore, just wanna fuck, do jujitsu and play putergames, more beta's = less competition, raw dogging some beta hipsters GF/wife is a huge turn-on to me, its almost turning into a fetish. This particular liberal does not give a fuck, freedom of oppotunity is great, beta's wasting their oppotunities is not my concern.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 03:29 AM
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Sounds like my sister, she is awesome.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 03:04 AM
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There are also no popular "right-wingers" in msm who dare say the earth might be older then 6k yrs (or that evolution might be happening), that does not make me think all individuals who subscribe to a right-wing fiscal ideology are insane(tho I think people like Moleneux is). The most popular liberals on youtube (like thunderf00t or Total Bisquit) are very much (and unapologetically) against sjw bullshit, same goes for most private individuals. If the MRM wants to get pidgeonholed as a right-wi…
/r/MensRights09/10/14 01:50 PM
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I dont care who a person is, as long as they are sane, honestly well-meaning and want to make the world a better place (or try to prevent it from becoming a worse one)
/r/MensRights08/10/14 07:53 PM
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lmao
/r/MensRights08/10/14 07:47 PM
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It was a former student, the age of concent is 16 in UK? The Administrative action was appropriate, a teacher has special responsibilities and she should know better. All in all pretty harmless tho, 5yrs prohibition may even be a bit much imho. Same standard should be applied if the genders were reversed, which it obviously would not be.
/r/MensRights08/10/14 07:28 PM
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I agree with this guy, AVFM has gone to shit. Having someone like Moleneux as a speaker is nuts. The last thing MRM needs is to be pidgeonholed as a fringe right-wing movement, Maybe Ann Coulter and Alex Jones were unavailable? Not only is it stupid strategically, its intellectually dishonest. Being co-opted by fiscal rightwing-extremists is going to be the death of the MRM.
/r/MensRights08/10/14 06:37 PM
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Sweden has some issues, Norway is not bad and Danes tend to not give a fuck.
/r/MensRights08/10/14 06:00 PM
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Only people I can think of would be religious fundies who think a woman should serve/obey the husband/father and is essentially property, actually alot of those kinds of people around still, have not met anyone in the MRM tho
/r/MensRights28/09/14 03:16 AM
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No trigger-warning wtf!?
/r/MensRights20/09/14 01:56 AM
0

The underlying cause is biological psychology (Birth control is a very recent thing). And the slut vs stud mentality in society that is hurting both men and women, except in this particular little micro-issue. We must stop putting female sexuality up on a pedestal, women are just as pervy and horny as men.
/r/MensRights29/08/14 05:55 PM
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Agree, both want to control personal behavior and thought, unlike socially liberal people.
/r/MensRights29/08/14 05:30 PM
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Nothing to see here, was fun to know, but it has nothing to do with mens rights.
/r/MensRights29/08/14 04:08 AM
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Archery in backyard and watching documentaries, a good movie, series or mma tournament, When im tired in the head nothing beats just chilling with girlfriend and watching a few episodes of some well made tv series.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 12:59 AM
2

There are some interesting things I learned from PUA's about body language and not being afraid to "take up space". Made a huge difference to me.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 12:45 AM
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And American conservatives have capitulated to people who think the earth is 6k years old and want to bring back sodomy laws. Two party system sucks, we get it.
/r/MensRights28/08/14 01:43 AM
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If the same people have shares in most media, ratings agencies and non-neutral isp's, when all there is left is monopolies and cartels who basically "own" the world and rent it out to the rest of us. That would kill free enterprise, and I really like free enterprise, but it must be competition, not king-maker.
/r/MensRights28/08/14 01:40 AM
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I personally believe libertarian policies would lead to something akin to fascism for most people, consolidated business + inherited wealth would effectively become goverment and free enterprise as we know it would be dead, But no obviously libertarians are not fascists, they are just confused or very sure they will be a part of that economic royalty. But one of my best buddies is a libertarian and we share alot of passions and views, more then I do with many people I agree with on economics.
/r/MensRights28/08/14 01:28 AM
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The KKK members, the Stormfront crowd, people who think the earth is 6k yrs old(and want to enforce sodomy laws and start war with Iran to make jesus come back etc.) ALL vote republican, whats your point?
/r/MensRights28/08/14 01:11 AM
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I appreciated the graphic :) Some people also think that conservatism and racism/fundamentalism/fascism is the same thing. They are equally wrong.
/r/MensRights28/08/14 01:02 AM
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Feminism is the west is a lost cause imho, has been for a long time, It seriously needs to be pulled down from its pedestal, immunity to criticism is very unhealthy. As a very liberal minded social-democrat im really tired of these whiny, humorless emo-fascists, with their pseudo-science and mostly made-up micro-issues and bullshit. For exactly the same reasons as a socially-liberal conservative, libertarian or communist is. Obviously being polarized against feminism is unavoidable, just like I …
/r/MensRights28/08/14 12:36 AM
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This is not my experience.
/r/MensRights27/08/14 06:06 PM
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Dont buy into polarizing bullshit, nuff said.
/r/MensRights27/08/14 06:04 PM
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I suspect you dont know many young liberals irl.
/r/MensRights27/08/14 06:03 PM
2

It would make more sense to denouce the right-wing fringes that alot of places has become synonymous with MRM, Having a nutcase like Molyneux speaking at a conferance does ALOT more damage, and makes it easy to pidgeonhole MRM as some right-wing fringe movement (tho in my experience most MRA's are pretty fucking liberal).
/r/MensRights27/08/14 02:16 PM
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Some guys ive met could really benefit from swallowing maybe a quarter of a red pill. Tho some posters in TRP should stick with what their psychiatrist prescribes.
/r/MensRights27/08/14 02:10 PM
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NEVER apologize to a SJW EVER! Nothing good comes from it, they will just twist it around and use it against you.
/r/MensRights27/08/14 02:08 PM
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I got one of my bullies alone and beat the shit out of him, got a week suspension and was never never bullied again at that school(because they knew what could happind), But I was only 10yo so thats obviously different. later I just "accidentally" spilled a soda (some hot coffee once) on wannabe bullies and dared them to throw the first punch (was training jujitsu at that point but was still small), No one ever threw that first punch, bullies are cowards.
/r/MensRights02/08/14 10:04 PM
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Nothing justifies physical violence, except physical violence. I slapped a drunk girl girl once (so hard she sat her ass on the ground looking very confused), after she punched me in the nose, my girlfriend could maybe get away with sucker punching me in anger, some random person can not. Sadly she forced my to kick her white knight boyfriends ass because of her actions.
/r/MensRights02/08/14 03:58 PM
1

Horrible story if true, horrible source tho.
/r/MensRights15/07/14 06:01 AM
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A significant part of MRAs are leftists, the last thing in the world the MRM needs is to be pidgeonholed as a far-right organization. Its a silly strawman from people who care more about their political ideology then mens right, I was horrified that Molyneux was a speaker at a MR conference, thats almost like being associated with Alex Jones or some shit, not helpful. (but awesome for opponents of mens rights)
/r/MensRights13/07/14 02:00 PM
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You would still get forced to go to therapy, having a curfew, and probably be removed from your parents if they are obvious fuckups who could not control their kid, also parents would be liable for the damage you cause. Repeat offenders may have to go to a nice place with alot of well-meaning people trying to help you (but locks on the doors) Atleast that how it works here.
/r/MensRights13/07/14 01:36 AM
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Only makes sense if you also have to be 18 to be criminally liable, those two things should always be the same.
/r/MensRights13/07/14 01:20 AM
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Age of concent is not about morality, its very much about practicality. Unless stupid people want to punish kids for having sex with other kids which is just a horrible idea.
/r/MensRights13/07/14 01:18 AM
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Same in Denmark, having age of concent higher then criminal liability is just nuts, it should obviously be the same, whatever it happind to be. I think 15 makes sense.
/r/MensRights13/07/14 01:16 AM
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I think only America really has a strong religious right, aside from muslim countries?, I voted for a centrist nationalist for EU parliament. I thought he was more useful for my country in trying to stop that accident. But I usually vote centre-left(far left after the bank bailouts), our feminists are somewhat sane usually, and busy trying to outlaw niqab's. ty for participating. edit:grammar
/r/MensRights13/07/14 01:05 AM
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"Alimony" is not gender-neutral in USA? :o
/r/MensRights13/07/14 12:27 AM
2

15yrs ago I was pretty much a libertarian ;) Thanks for input.
/r/MensRights12/07/14 11:31 PM
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There are too many useful idiots on the left these days, it does not really change my views on public education, healthcare and social safety nets tho, I probably lean right on small business and startups tho (less regulation for small business but less compromizing with big business) And party loyalty is for suckers. ty for your input.
/r/MensRights12/07/14 11:13 PM
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Nah that was a good answer ty :) Im not much of a tribalist myself.
/r/MensRights12/07/14 10:39 PM
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Thanks, im new'ish to reddit.
/r/MensRights12/07/14 10:19 PM
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I think that globally feminism is very relevant, there are some horrible places some women are unlucky enough to be born, where they would lack the power to take part in any discussion about equality. whiny western internet feminists are horrible tho and should be ignored if possible. Also American conservatism has become a radical non-secular joke.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 12:07 AM
2

Submissive women are sexy, insecure women not so much.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 11:54 PM
1

I personally have zero problems with a girl fucking alot of different guys because she feels like it, unless she is dumb enough not to use condoms. But being a "slut" is easy, doing the same as a guy is hard.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 01:50 AM
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DNA test should be mandatory to get a birth certificate imho.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 01:22 AM
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