f69ckleberry Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Just cold approached the same girl again 😂 ...and stay a virgin for life lol	/r/seduction	16/07/23 07:01 PM
–	Just cold approached the same girl again 😂 sometimes women laugh and chat with men, even when they know it isn't going anywhere	/r/seduction	16/07/23 05:43 AM
2	Approaching is normal and so many men are doing it you've got to be kidding. gay guys can go out to a gay bar any given night, and get laid	/r/seduction	31/05/23 09:00 PM
26	Approaching is normal and so many men are doing it what you read on some subreddit does not reflect an entire generation... it's just some random douchebag whining and encouraging others to chime in	/r/seduction	31/05/23 08:59 PM
6	how long did it take you to find out that talking to women is the easiest thing ever? The first tip is you have to override the natural block we all have, where we tell ourselves "if I try to initiate and fail, that will be the end of the world." You have to say "fuck that, if I fail, so what... I'll just move on and try again later." Because if you can get past that fear of failure, and keep making attempts, you will succeed here and there... you will find women who want to talk to you, regardless of whatever it was you said to start things. Certainly you will fail too... but th…	/r/seduction	25/04/23 05:08 AM
35	how long did it take you to find out that talking to women is the easiest thing ever? dude should not have included that in his comment, which was otherwise great. The whole point here is first you have to learn how to have conversations that you are not trying to steer to sex.. conversations where your only goal is to connect in the moment, not move on to a bedroom. Because ironically enough, these are the conversations that you can steer to sex once you get good at them. But you have to learn the connection part first. It's like a Buddhist koan or something, where the way to ge…	/r/seduction	25/04/23 04:54 AM
2	Most of the female attention you get happens when you are talking to people. mimetic desire is some interesting shit	/r/seduction	03/04/23 02:52 AM
6	Question about a date I just had today This idea that sex was in the cards if only you didn't blow it... try not to buy into that... sure some women in her scenario are looking for one-night stands, but most aren't, and the ones that are usually make it pretty clear whereas this chick was not giving you any of those signs. She was likely thinking "platonic hang out" from the start, But this is not a failure on your part... the good news is she was willing to hang out at all, which speaks well of how you're presenting yourself and eng…	/r/seduction	20/10/22 03:50 AM
19	Keep it simple. Being attractive boils down to having solid general people skills, maintaining your appearance, and having your shit together. The rest is fine-tuning. When it comes to seduction, the origin of a victim mentality is not important... what matters is finding a better mentality... letting go of the past, embracing the present, being excited about the future	/r/seduction	26/09/22 07:15 PM
127	Keep it simple. Being attractive boils down to having solid general people skills, maintaining your appearance, and having your shit together. The rest is fine-tuning. The idea of being charismatic with everyone, not just with women you are attracted to, is so key... it works on so many levels: you get way more opportunities to sharpen your social skills - to learn what works and what doesn't it's easier to sharpen those skills when you don't have any agenda complicating things the lack of agenda helps you see what you're doing wrong when you do have an agenda better skills with everyone increases your social value and your confidence, two huge components of a…	/r/seduction	26/09/22 04:32 PM
3	Is intelligent conversation generally a turnoff? Dude this is important insight right here. People who cringe when astrology comes up in conversation (or any psychic stuff, or religion) miss the point that it doesn't have to be valid to be valuable. I don't believe in any of that stuff, but still I recognize that it's valuable because it opens the doors to those deep topics you mention, which are conversational gold.	/r/seduction	19/09/22 03:31 PM